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@JaxnVideos

2 ай бұрын

@JaxnVideos Hey, here's the link for free enrollment into my Self-Crowned Inner Circle: derrickjaxn.rurl.me/freeenrollmentvip1

@GreeneChakra

Ай бұрын

Keep Going Jaxn, if God gave you the Spiritual Awakening to give to the World, just keep it up, we need it! Love you! ❤ We need the details you provide, because its rare that we even get the “Details” of what the Storyline is really looking like.

@SherriMusick

Ай бұрын

I need to do this TONIGHT! I’m done

@user-mq6zn9pc8o

Ай бұрын

Two wrong never make a right just saying

@user-mq6zn9pc8o

Ай бұрын

Sound Touching 🙏

A woman is done way before she ever leaves.

@sandrab1189

Ай бұрын

Truth

@tiffany4951

Ай бұрын

So true...Im in this situation right now

@latyneyez1

Ай бұрын

😚

@glee8133

Ай бұрын

Exactly.

@angelacarraway1811

Ай бұрын

So true i was that woman and never looked back since the best decision I ever made I give the most high God thanks for that...

He's not thinking anything, he really didn't like me anyway since he pulled away so easily.

@susanhampton9671

2 ай бұрын

HIs actions show everything. I told him I don't do casual relationships. I told him to move on. He said he needed to move on. We will see if he will contact me again...I doubt it.

@ceecee811

2 ай бұрын

DERRICK THIS IS TRUE, BUT DON'T CARE WHAT HE'D THINK. I JUST KEEP IT MOVING ESPECIALLY WHEN I'VE GIVEN YOU A CHANCE & YOU BLOW IT. I'M JUST NOT FOR DRAMA & DON'T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED! "BY FELECIA".

@prettypearls26

2 ай бұрын

⁠@@susanhampton9671….it’s not something your health will want to wait to see. If that’s guys response. Even if y’all get back it’s Gina be dead. The feeling you have right now won’t completely go away.

@dmysterious61

2 ай бұрын

EXACTLY!!!...It's really that simple

@Marian_Perry

Ай бұрын

@@ceecee811”DON’T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED!” 👈🏽 That part!!! I hear that!!! 💯👏🏽

My husband went cold on me bc he was messing with a jezebel from his pass, now that I have filed for divorce he doesn't want it but I'm done with his mind games and manipulation. I went to court today to get my default signature judge rewarded it

@riasb

2 ай бұрын

Ou sis, God is about to bless you. Be ready 🌹

@haitiqueen0119

2 ай бұрын

Cheers to you Carla, now shift your focus more on yourself. Implement self care as much possible. These people out here will never learn; sometimes the grass is only greener bc its fertilized with bullcrap! Totally his loss Carla✅

@musicjunkieaddict6600

2 ай бұрын

Good for you. His loss. When you truely love someone you don’t risk loosing them. Best of luck!!!

@sharonhorton31

2 ай бұрын

Yesss sister, stand your ground.

@user-wu7oj2oj4b

2 ай бұрын

It’s always a blame game Take accountability in your part too

If they don't really care about you, its nothing to them if you've walked away

@girlinthesouth850

22 күн бұрын

Yep! If he wanted to, he would!

@janetroth782

2 күн бұрын

Very true then you didn't mean a lot for them and they didn't invest much emotions on you.

He always said i deserve better. Come to find out I DO

@macm2373

2 ай бұрын

🙌

@sandrakasina4203

2 ай бұрын

Most insecure men say that....gal u deserve better

@unrawcutunityincommunity

2 ай бұрын

Same here which I been knew it already..

@allhailthequeen906

2 ай бұрын

Just PERIODT ‼️

@MamaSherbear69

2 ай бұрын

Same! I told him you're right, I do!

Some men won’t respect any woman and it doesn’t matter what you do! He doesn’t define your worth because if you know you are a good woman then it’s his loss. Period

@shaylanewlife

Ай бұрын

EXACTLY 💯

@elizabethsanchez145

Ай бұрын

I kicked my ex to curb as soon as he started showing red flags. I only give 3 strikes and then ur out.

@shannonsnowwhite2301

7 күн бұрын

Really well said here. Thank you.

@Kaylab5371

5 күн бұрын

Speak on that truth thanks it was my life

It actually hurts like hell but you always see the true colors of someone sooner or later. 🙏🏼💛 you just have to pray 🤲 for them and always give it to the lord. I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️ about other woman but I’m tired of being treated like I’m nothing when I know what I’m really worth. ❤️💛✨✨🤲🙏🏼

@BrendaBaBoom

2 ай бұрын

Right, you are worth it! That’s why using Emotional Intelligence (E.I.) is important in “seeing” the true colors of an individual before you invest in any relationship. Like another commenter stated on this thread “DON’T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED” …. avoid that possibility. 🙏🏽

@user-dk1im2le9p

2 ай бұрын

Unfortunately most of us don't know our worth

@user-dk1im2le9p

2 ай бұрын

@@BrendaBaBoom l love the fact you just mentioned E.I it's only something l have recently looked at and def gonna work on for the future!

@Ame-vo4pc

2 ай бұрын

👍🙏✝️

@marcelinaun3304

2 ай бұрын

You are complete in him

Games equal “goodbye”

@Blancamdiaz-rx4ei

2 ай бұрын

U KNO‼️💯❤️‍🔥⚖️

@ladyk7317

2 ай бұрын

Exactly 💪🏾💋

I'm not gonna invest my emotions into someone that's not emotionally available

@lorenasilva5961

11 күн бұрын

I

A strong woman will understand how to create strong boundaries

If hes interest is low, or non-existant, he will stop communication. Better that way so hes not wasting your time!

I mentally detached because my feelings are being ignored. When i bring up something that is bothering me in the relationship, they make it about them in some way.😢 If nothing changes, I'm planning my exit.

@lorettaknox154

Ай бұрын

EXIT !!!

@user-wl2so8wf5e

Ай бұрын

That's emotional blackmail don't allow him to make you doubt your sanity

@positivevibe7684

Ай бұрын

@user-wl2so8wf5e Thank you...I won't. Not to make no excuses for him. However, in working on my inner self, I understand he is emotionally hurt by childhood and adult baggage. He's not emotionally available to help heal my hurt. Which some of it, he caused. Therefore, I'm choosing to heal myself through different channels. Counseling is one of them. I'm sure he may have hurt that I caused. How can I help heal the unknown. ❤️❤️

@christine1962ful

17 күн бұрын

​@@positivevibe7684sounds like you are making excuses for him. You already answered your own query. You just need to take the steps in putting yourself 1st ! If you are in counselling, you should be on your own for a while and focus on yourself and get into a position that you are ready to take on a relationship.

Ain't no fun when the Rabbit has the gun!

@RoseBlack-eg4dv

2 ай бұрын

Cute

@user-iu6bv8vu8o

26 күн бұрын

Yes!!!! Yes!!! Yes!!! 🙌

A woman gets tired of not being chased

@annetterobinson6439

21 күн бұрын

ABSOLUTELY TRUE. YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR NOT INTERESTED...

@suem7500

18 күн бұрын

Not chased... Pursued.

He always detach and becomes cold and indifferent when he has a woman he’s distracted by. Then he comes back realizing what he’s leaving behind.

@hopewilliams7081

23 күн бұрын

Don't be his safety net. Eventually, he'll find the one he wants, and you will be history and left broken. Don't take him back, let go, heal, and grow.

@missy4915

22 күн бұрын

He comes back because he knows that even though he may cheat/entertain another woman you are not going anywhere. How many women does he have to be 'distracted' by before he realizes 'what he's leaving behind?' He sounds like a master manipulator...

@Sandra.B

21 күн бұрын

He comes back because he hasnt been able to replace you yet...

@cumanobles4166

16 күн бұрын

Yes too little too late

I did gift my husband with my absence. I divorced him.

@shannonsnowwhite2301

10 күн бұрын

I did the same too! 🎉

Love yourself enough to be able to walk away, and walk away.

I’m doing that now. I’m the one falling back.

He warned that he wouldnt be in it as much, so I went cold on him.

Low self-worth people attracts other low self-worth people.

Tricks are for kids... time will show and prove! 😊

@elaineturner2007

Ай бұрын

Silly rabbit

He has to be Consistent in all areas in my presence. If he's not responsible for his actions. Let him out free yourself, sisters.

@JaxnVideos

2 ай бұрын

@sharonhorton31 Hey, here's the link for free enrollment into my Self-Crowned Inner Circle: derrickjaxn.rurl.me/freeenrollmentvip1

@nicolemartin-pz1wl

22 күн бұрын

Amen Sharon 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯❤️

Unconditional love doesn't exist, men evolve throughout conditions👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

NEVER GOING BACK!!!!!!!! TRUSTING IN GOD IAM WORKING ON SELF CARE AND PEACE 💗💗💗💗💗

I already KNOW love is for other people but not for me...I DO love hard, but haven't been able to find anyone who loves me back the same. Thought I had finally found that at 51, but taking a closer look only reveals to me that he still has feelings for someone else, and even though he cares about me as a person, I'm not all that special to him....😢

Yes , real love is unconditional but relationships aren’t unconditional they are all about reciprocity! You can love someone and not be in a relationship with them. Love and relationship are two separate entities!!!

Facts!!! Thanks for being so real and raw.... You helping both sides. I have boundaries, I'm trusting GOD and not falling for the same old BS!!!!! I don't have time to throw away.

@denisegassama6016

2 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

@user-ji1cs5ee8e

2 ай бұрын

AMEN

@user-ji1cs5ee8e

2 ай бұрын

Waiting on the Lord Jesus Christ not wasting my time no more

Some people are so broken, hurt & traumatized. Of past, or present brokenness Soul Ties Tumble weed spirits, strong holds. That have left them So gaurded stand offish. Yet wants the freedom to come in & out at his leasure. Kenship to a Narsasitic mindset. Only to pick you up When he / she Chooses. Very condiscending Manipulation... Only to pick you up at a later convenience. But this seamingly Narsasitic person... Needs to be in Control. Only because somewhere in his life He's become detatched, broken Insecure, underneath his drama that he presents a facad to you.

@JaxnVideos

2 ай бұрын

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@DM-sv2ei

22 күн бұрын

Narcissistic mindset. Yes!

Why so many damn rules? It makes you not want to date/marry. The dating pool is full of games and manipulation.

Manipulation is really ugly

It’s important to know when it’s done.

As an empath, my love doesn't hold anyone hostage to the expectation of love returned. I give love freely. My Creator fills my love tank. The only One who can dictate my value, which I find in my Creator. When you love someone so deeply, so truly, it is not that they have loved you back, it is that they have learned to love themselves more. Expectations and assumptions do not serve anyone. When you feel opposed, and you react in the negative in return, it merely speaks to where you are in your relationship with the I Am. So align yourself, remember who you are, where you came from and where you are going and that we do not get what we want, rather what we are. If we want love, we must become it. It is so lovely to hear another speak such words of wisdom. I am thankful this came into my algorithm. Appreciate your wisdom and time brother and may you be blessed overwhelmingly, abundant in all things, Amen 🙏 Ephesians 3:20-21, 2 Corinthians 9:8

@JaxnVideos

2 ай бұрын

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@marcelinaun3304

2 ай бұрын

Ty❤

@live.life.secure.coaching

2 ай бұрын

Incredible response ❤❤❤

@danastewart3494

2 ай бұрын

Yes - Amen .. totally resonate with what you’re saying .. very ‘Course in Miracles’ … 🙏🏾🙏🏾💗💗

@angelicalee6

23 күн бұрын

❤

HELL YEAH, IF YOU TRY TO PUSH A GOOD WOMAN AWAY I PROMISE YOU IT WILL WORK! AND DON'T EVER TRY TO PLAY GAMES WITH A GOOD WOMAN...SHE AIN'T GONNA PUT UP WITH IT. HIGH VALUE WOMEN AINT GONNA STICK AROUND FOR THAT.

I checked out. Anything blocking me mentally. Is a No Go. At some point ain't No more buttons left to push or conversion. Great messages

The door was closed, because he wasn't invested in me.

Yup!!! Been there two many times brother! I was a "placeholder " until he thought he could do so much better!

I just let him leave. I stand my ground.

I'm an Old G, and everything he said is absolutely 💯 straight-up fa fa facts. It makes sense to me. Again, thank you, Internet Brother.

Most men don’t understand that when a woman is emotionally invested, She doesn’t see you any lesser than you were when you did have the cash flow… if he remains ambitious

THAT HAPPENED TO ME IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP. I NEVER ASKED HIM FOR ANYTHING OR TRIED TO USE HIM....I ALWAYS TOLD HIM TO BE HONEST WITH ME AND BE HIMSELF. I NEVER JUDGED HIM WHEN HE CHANGED AND COULDN'T KEEP UP THINGS HE DID IN THE RELATIONSHIP. I'M NOT TRIPPING!

FACTS FACTS!!!!! Imma fall back I know my value

@dr.hannah1155

Ай бұрын

... falling back now! Actually I'm running 🏃🏽‍♀️! I found the exit portal!

Why do some people think that you've pulled back because someone else is getting what they ain't getting, when in actuality they could be tired of the BS....

I just ended things with someone I really love because I wasn't his priority and blocked him. I did a lot for him and went above and beyond and I am sure he didn't see it coming but I am done.

@_Diaryofwealth

3 күн бұрын

Well done

I got tired of the Disrespect

At first they said all gone with your life and then called two days later and said oh yeah, you answered so you care, so I guess they was testing the water stand

I’m just done with all the nonsensical games…PERIOD!!!💯💯💯

Yes, you are correct. Especially a woman who knows her worth and who she is, she won't waste time.❤

I’m 62 years young and can relate entirely to this segment. It amazes me how age might or might not make a difference when it comes to dating and new relationships. Thanks for clearing things up . I really appreciate you Big Brother !

I really needed to hear this. I feel like I found the one, but I don't feel like I am a priority.😢

@ceecee8924

2 ай бұрын

Yea you need to leave. Id rather be alone than feel like I'm not priority

It’s called an emotional discard but not physically

Interest Holds Interest!!!!!

He out here saving lives and teaching the masses! My God! Thank you for the free knowledge

@JaxnVideos

2 ай бұрын

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36 minutes of straight facts 🔥🙌

I withdrew because cyclically stonewalled me, especially if I in any way was showing feelings outside of his control.

I'm so glad Derrick is BACK BACK on here like this 🙌🏾 pull ah him on him 😂 I will

When I left him I told him in no uncertain terms that I was NEVER EVER going back . He knew I meant it and has never tried to reconcile . . . I get messages from strange numbers which I block immediately. . . He knows. I am totally done . Totally !!

My friend and I kissed and then he called me and said I forced him and stopped speaking to me. He just wants to be a servant of the Lord, but we both kissed each other. When I think about it I just laugh.

@trudy-annsmall9600

2 ай бұрын

He sounds like a christian player.....those are danger to a good woman heart

@ariraquel4567

2 ай бұрын

😅 narcissistic smh

@chanteynk7324

2 ай бұрын

If he can't take accountability now that you are not married, he will later blame you for marrying him, raping him to get pregnant and trap him with children. He will never take accountability until he repents of his sins.

@rosemariecampbell7205

2 ай бұрын

Like Adam blamed mama Eve😢

@dr.hannah1155

Ай бұрын

He's afraid of what he felt from that kiss! Scared he's gonna lose his religion & backslide! 😅

I'm done with relationships..after this 💯

I withdrew because he kept hurting my feelings

Healing is not a bad thing instead of bringing down the good people left in this world. # yes loss of safety.👍🏾

I am a woman and I’m asking you to please make more content like this!

10:35 pm. My ex husband actually became indignant, when he understood that I was dating again.

I Been through so much !!!! I closed my Emotions off and ghosted the ex and narcissistic mother !!!! Aways remember silent treatment!!!!!

I am going through this now. Have already done the cute off. Haven’t heard a peep.

He went cold on me after I talked about to him about his lack of communication and so I did the same thing I stopped communicating

@ceecee8924

2 ай бұрын

Ooop that's on him. There's no excuse to not communicate. My ex worked 10 hr shifts at Amazon and still texted me through the day

Players, Narcs, Hustlers, Gigalos, Grifters, etc...the men just go mean with you, to spend time with his other supplies, trying to use you for supporting the other women he prefers. SICK 🤢.

I found all of this out on my own through the experience and yes I am an empath. I am so happy to hear and see that there is a growing awareness of this dynamic.

Just happened to me recently. Bet it won’t happen again.

If he went cold out the blue- he went back to his ex or got with the next- either way let the trash take itself out… 🗑️

This is really good. Straight FACTS 💯 Thankyou BIG BROTHER for always looking out for us.

I wish I can say something but I can't but I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart God bless you I just wanted to say this person confusing me I just pray God to give me the discernment to do right decision, thank you so much.

It was made clear he has a lot going on and I am not a priority ... I respectful turn toward my other responsibilities and I no longer feel safe emotionally and neither does he. I understand it and I am ok. I am no longer interested in being on the roller coaster.... I have to much to get done..

This is literally what happened in my last connection. His closed off energy made me feel like I should be guarded and closed off.

I actually did & they always come back running..😎 The only thing that varies is how fast they do.

Allegedly, Virgo men do this naturally to everyone because it's how their personality is.

Yeah Narcs don’t discard. They Hoover! Fudge that!

Both long long term relationships were very good until each partner turned 42 then they felt like they needed to see if they still had it with others.... Both at 42....men's midlife crisis??

@user-yt8zl9lv9e

2 ай бұрын

Tracks are seriously for kids...come on let's grow up y'all.

You were 1000 percent correct on this!! Thanks for sharing!❤

I had it happened to me and it was my husband

My brother… You are definitely spot on with this topic! Dealt with this, but the tables turned on him!!! Karma is dangerous!❤

Brother Derek I went through a lot with my kids father I went through so much that I love him and I was broken but I had to be strong for my children and I had got myself some help to make it through

This is Gospel.....Thank you for reminding me that we should recognize the 'behavior' ~ more than the words.

His loss heavily

It feels absolutely horrible. Hurts😊

You snapped with this message!!!

Amen! Amen! Amen! Come straight or keep walkin’ This can go for friendships too! No one has time for little reindeer games! Haha, I was just thinking the same thing about what Elmer Fudd goes through his mind when the rabbit gets the preverbal gun!! God will always love His real ones!!🙏❤️🕊🌟🎶🌹

I'll just break up with him

I lost my safety so l left 😪

@Lavenderspice942

2 ай бұрын

Yep me too been there

Brother Derrick, I have seen one of your pieces of work previously and this one was just as good. I see that you consistently bring excellence to the stage. Keep up the good work!!!

Absolutely 💯 truth! Thank you big brother!

SHe realize she knows her worth

It is so good to hear you! It feels to me like you're my big brother, energetically reminding me of what I deserve. Thanks for that ❤ Best regards from Brazil 🇧🇷

I have....as soon as they withdraw, i withdraw too. I usually wonder why. So let me draw my stool

I had to pat myself on the back yesterday 👏🏾put my actin skills to test he thought he was looking in the mirror 😆

@arnelevans4803

Ай бұрын

How, teach me

Thank you so much for this seriously. I am so proud to say I am a healed woman. And I’ve never been in a relationship or had intercourse. These poor men are so hurt out here not willing to loose power and end up loosing great women like myself. I am ready to love but haven’t found any healed men yet.

You nailed it. Thanks for revealing the nuances that many omit 🙏

Κάηκε ο εγκέφαλος μου ! Ειμαι τοσο καλά και χαρουμενη που δεν το θυσιαζω για κανέναν άντρα ! Δόξα τω θεώ 🙏❤️💪😁

You are so on point with everything that you are saying here!

This is so 🔥. Truth is just that. It's a vibe. These video's have been so real. God bless this channel.