5 Things Your EX Thinks During NO CONTACT!

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5 Things Your EX Thinks During NO CONTACT!
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  • @MommieLoves4
    @MommieLoves45 ай бұрын

    Their not worried about us, they just go with the next weak one who doesn't see the bullshit at first.

  • @karynmartin2141
    @karynmartin21415 ай бұрын

    That's not for all men. They just move on to the next toxic, unemotional relationship.

  • @ka8155

    @ka8155

    5 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @denisegassama6016

    @denisegassama6016

    5 ай бұрын

    Let Them Go 🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @LishB1000

    @LishB1000

    5 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @1111spiritualone

    @1111spiritualone

    5 ай бұрын

    leave them in the wind then. they will get they karma

  • @whiteliner2253

    @whiteliner2253

    5 ай бұрын

    Good…

  • @cookiesmom584
    @cookiesmom5845 ай бұрын

    You empower me to continue NO contact, love myself by giving him the gift of my absence!

  • @donnamaniscalco
    @donnamaniscalco5 ай бұрын

    I just started no contact. I feel a wave of relief at not having to listen to the misery, be put down and blamed for everything. After 3 years, I am done. Taking care of myself now!

  • @iammarycarter

    @iammarycarter

    4 ай бұрын

    I love this for you

  • @JadaGates

    @JadaGates

    4 ай бұрын

    Same!!!!! I feel so good today! Still hurting but getting back to me…

  • @donnamaniscalco

    @donnamaniscalco

    3 ай бұрын

    @@JadaGates ❤️♥️

  • @JadaGates

    @JadaGates

    3 ай бұрын

    @@donnamaniscalco we got this!! We deserve so much better

  • @RoseTheQween

    @RoseTheQween

    3 ай бұрын

    Congratulations ❤

  • @deborahleetalo6708
    @deborahleetalo67084 ай бұрын

    I doubt he'll ever contact me. He probably moved on. Im fixing up the broken pieces he left behind and im staying strong. I pray for better days to come🙏🏻💯.

  • @cindysantos9300
    @cindysantos93005 ай бұрын

    He disrespects my standards after i told him to dont do it again. And now i am out.

  • @melissachristian2739
    @melissachristian27395 ай бұрын

    This is a men loving world these guys are confused,, they don't know if they want a men or women,real talk 💯

  • @Dreacali26
    @Dreacali265 ай бұрын

    I wanted peace so I changed my number!!!!❤

  • @mandisanqini3132
    @mandisanqini31325 ай бұрын

    You're absolutely right, its me vs me now. No more.

  • @GG-cl9ww
    @GG-cl9ww2 ай бұрын

    Consider lesson and learn. Just move on. Life is too short to wait for somebody to act right. And never ever accept a disrespect because you love someone. Give it to god. Move on is not worth it.

  • @Janis-ge5ni
    @Janis-ge5ni4 ай бұрын

    Sometimes you have to adjust to their absence rather than adjust to their disrespect!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️you are amazing Big Bro 💋 Thank you

  • @griselda425
    @griselda4255 ай бұрын

    You’re so right. This pain was starting to break me but he’s not worth it… thank you!!

  • @beverleyboateng566
    @beverleyboateng5665 ай бұрын

    I’m absolutely shocked that I’ve invited him to come to church, he chose to try to manipulate me otherwise; I’ll remain no contact, you are sooo right!!! He never knew me , he thought he did ! Thanks keep up the great work.

  • @ivetteortiz5543
    @ivetteortiz55434 ай бұрын

    I need him to go through this. He hurt me to much.

  • @JaxnVideos

    @JaxnVideos

    4 ай бұрын

    Hi Ivette, I want to acknowledge the strength and courage it takes to share your story. It's important to remember that healing is a journey, and it's okay to have setbacks along the way. Remember to be kind to yourself and know that you are not alone in this. If you're looking for additional support and guidance, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. It's filled with helpful tips and tools to help you navigate through this difficult time. You can find the link in the video description. Sending you love and support on your journey towards healing. Take care. ✨

  • @AnastaciaRose-di9nl
    @AnastaciaRose-di9nl5 ай бұрын

    ❤ It's time to get back to me😊

  • @anitawilson8634
    @anitawilson86342 ай бұрын

    Going through this situation now!! Glad I heard this video today, and hopefully I can move on from this situation with prayers and the Lord 1st in my life!! Thank you

  • @monicalacy6622
    @monicalacy66223 ай бұрын

    Anger and blame is ridiculous when he was the problem. That just keeps you gone, ghosted, poof. Figure it out.

  • @deloresstigger3605
    @deloresstigger36055 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much and I hope your sisters that hear this take it to sincere deep heart because you are definitely telling them Right. First of all the woman needs to know to love God, then she needs to know her woman's Worth. And love her self.

  • @thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154

    @thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154

    5 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙌

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey7695 ай бұрын

    U can't carry a relationship by urself i been talking to my friend girl about what she going through

  • @thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154

    @thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes yes!! amen 🙌

  • @rachelhopson2342
    @rachelhopson23425 ай бұрын

    Yes ....😢 no contact for ever

  • @claracruz9066
    @claracruz90665 ай бұрын

    I told him twice to stay away...He was in denial that I cut all access to me.

  • @alogan9502
    @alogan95024 ай бұрын

    I don't know, I doubt he's going through any of this.... he's probably soooo proud of himself, talking ish to other females (yes plural-more than 1 female).... anyways none of my business. I blocked "it" - no access is self care too.

  • @Mrsmismikimimi
    @Mrsmismikimimi5 ай бұрын

    Been through the last disrespect and left.... He wanted to show up at my job with a puppy. "Wooow, good luck" was all I said and carried on with my work task. "See that I'm just done, sir."

  • @user-bg7ij4uy1z
    @user-bg7ij4uy1z5 ай бұрын

    I'm going through this now, and I agree with everything you say. You are absolutely right. All four!

  • @summmer77
    @summmer775 ай бұрын

    Thank you Universe for this ego death that is coming for him. Amazing divine timing❤

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e5 ай бұрын

    IAM Better Alone and Happy

  • @sharondafields3518
    @sharondafields35184 ай бұрын

    I had to choose me after 4.5 years. No contact for me was blocking him on everything. I can only imagine the rage that lurks within. Complete lack of access to his supply? Oh, well. We reap what we sow.

  • @patsyhampton3698
    @patsyhampton36984 ай бұрын

    I love that-selfish season! ♥️

  • @ejiroukpeibo
    @ejiroukpeibo3 ай бұрын

    Mine reached out after 4days after breaking up with me, with excuses of checking up on me if I am ok and well…… No contact all the way 💪🏻💪🏻

  • @ranawinfield5110
    @ranawinfield51104 ай бұрын

    All true I thought he was crying on the phone I said I gotta GO 🤷

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude36402 ай бұрын

    Damn I'm so glad I never contacted him I'm glad you said that GOOD for me!

  • @user-px9tl9cj6f
    @user-px9tl9cj6fАй бұрын

    I’m crying listening to this. I know this to be true. I’m in the selffish season challenge

  • @antoinettebulatao2299
    @antoinettebulatao22995 ай бұрын

    This is a great video. Makes so much sense

  • @michellesweazy4493
    @michellesweazy449311 күн бұрын

    You're so powerful and motivating to me, I listen to your videos a lot when I'm going through it. Thank you!

  • @prettyblack7697
    @prettyblack76975 ай бұрын

    This one was a great one ‼️‼️‼️

  • @dianafisher-greene7360
    @dianafisher-greene73605 ай бұрын

    I really needed to hear this today thank you so much ☺️ ❤

  • @Niadrawalker
    @Niadrawalker3 ай бұрын

    Thank you Derrick my Big Brother this message was very help and very well needed to hear.

  • @suzettewalsh2854
    @suzettewalsh28543 ай бұрын

    Yesssss desperation! Spot on with all the stages!

  • @Salexander50
    @Salexander505 ай бұрын

    My current situationship

  • @adriennelarkin8188
    @adriennelarkin81884 ай бұрын

    Hello Derrickyou always on Point, Telling it Like Truth Be told, Yes Backbuner part!

  • @JaxnVideos

    @JaxnVideos

    4 ай бұрын

    Hey Adrienne, I really appreciate you sharing your struggles with us. It takes a lot of courage to open up about personal challenges. Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times but it's important to also take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being. You're not alone in this journey and there are people who are here to support you. If you're looking to delve deeper into managing relationships and personal growth, I invite you to check out my new masterclass. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies that can help you navigate through difficult situations. Just click on the link in the video description to access it. Keep pushing forward and never hesitate to reach out for help. You've got this!

  • @tracywright1640
    @tracywright16405 ай бұрын

    You are so on point!!! ❤

  • @jenm8550
    @jenm85505 ай бұрын

    Yes, I'm going through this right now and no contact is hard for me. He was all I have, and it's hard to let go of the only person I talk to.

  • @maryjuana9231

    @maryjuana9231

    4 ай бұрын

    It's a mistake to make one person your everything for obvious reasons

  • @tracytonncupp548

    @tracytonncupp548

    3 ай бұрын

    pretty sure she knows that!!

  • @kurtrinamckinnon4214
    @kurtrinamckinnon42145 ай бұрын

    Yep!! Everything you saying true I broke up with him first of year he was very angry when I did glad it was via telephone

  • @farahbashir7526
    @farahbashir75262 ай бұрын

    No contact is the best I have ever done for myself. You are so right about everything. I was alone but never felt lonely. But in all the years with him I neverr felt so lonely in my whole life.

  • @NNV337
    @NNV3374 ай бұрын

    Empowering video 💯✌

  • @teresastocker9938
    @teresastocker99384 ай бұрын

    I was very lonely he was still with his Baby Mother he lied he use me disrespect me I bought value to his life Now I now very depressed lonely I need get out have fun

  • @Emily-ed6ed
    @Emily-ed6ed5 ай бұрын

    Great message❤

  • @HealinghandsMinistry7
    @HealinghandsMinistry75 ай бұрын

    Thank you!! Definitely going to check that group out

  • @cynthfusion5681
    @cynthfusion56815 ай бұрын

    Thank you….I needed this!!!

  • @debraharris6350
    @debraharris6350Ай бұрын

    Yes, "I'm NO CONTACT, BLOCKED, SILENTS" in this situation n Father God Devine Timing n Jesus Christ Mighty name Amen 😇😅😇🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌💯💯💯👏👏👏💞💞💞

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford86583 ай бұрын

    I felt lonely I'm wonderful and happy !

  • @teresastocker9938
    @teresastocker99384 ай бұрын

    That how did meI thought I was being there I was just a place holder for her 😢

  • @deborahleetalo6708

    @deborahleetalo6708

    4 ай бұрын

    😢. It's ok. You are the most valuable 🙏🏻

  • @ayotfreda5536
    @ayotfreda55365 ай бұрын

    6:44 yes the first time I went quiet he could send brief texts. Now I am going no contact again. And it's for good.

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford86583 ай бұрын

    You're right about that no more disrespect ok !!!

  • @marthadzimega1957
    @marthadzimega19573 ай бұрын

    Very insightful

  • @amyrowe8014
    @amyrowe80142 ай бұрын

    Silence Speaks VOLUMES JUS KNO THAT

  • @MsknowledgeseekerNecole
    @MsknowledgeseekerNecole5 ай бұрын

    This was deep❤️

  • @preetsrivastava7970
    @preetsrivastava7970Ай бұрын

    Derrick, respect. I'd love to hear what your thoughts are on dating w an age difference.

  • @ameliareaves2381
    @ameliareaves23815 ай бұрын

    Oh, what you said...yes...yes.

  • @user-qn6tr8pk9e
    @user-qn6tr8pk9e3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much I needed this today

  • @sarahharrison5157
    @sarahharrison51575 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this one... ❤

  • @cathywilliams662
    @cathywilliams6625 ай бұрын

    On Point👏👏👏

  • @firebird3639
    @firebird36392 ай бұрын

    You just answered my question thank you.

  • @TnL-nt2kd
    @TnL-nt2kd3 ай бұрын

    Absolutely can by with " I'll do ANYTHING" to come back. Straight up narcissistic!

  • @trinajettelson7569
    @trinajettelson75692 ай бұрын

    Thank you You have helped me heal 😊

  • @Pharmacycenter
    @Pharmacycenter5 ай бұрын

    Wisdom. God bless you

  • @browneyes9507

    @browneyes9507

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes he is

  • @thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154

    @thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154

    5 ай бұрын

    Amen!! word of wisdom

  • @ranawinfield5110
    @ranawinfield51103 ай бұрын

    They were Doormats for those bums prriod

  • @jazzy8978
    @jazzy89783 ай бұрын

    Needed to hear this. 🙏

  • @stephaniebenoit788
    @stephaniebenoit7885 ай бұрын

    I needed this!!!!

  • @alicemahomes6976
    @alicemahomes69763 ай бұрын

    I blocked him

  • @DM-dl6lv
    @DM-dl6lv2 ай бұрын

    You are spot on!

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes95075 ай бұрын

    Damn Big Bro - Definitely my experience.. They definitely go through this phase .. 👁!!!!!

  • @centrerandom5640
    @centrerandom56405 ай бұрын

    Women do this to, i tried to talk to someone i hadnt spoken to in 6 years. I never forgot about him but life got in the way. He was rude and basically ignored me and then i saw he was married. We were never together but we could of been if i didn't take him for granted. I made the biggest mistake of my life not choosing him but there's nothing i can do about it now. Let me tell you it hurts like hell 😢

  • @DubaiiMakavelii

    @DubaiiMakavelii

    5 ай бұрын

    Don’t regret nothing he wasn’t for you

  • @susanhampton9671

    @susanhampton9671

    5 ай бұрын

    Take the positive. There is someone who is better for you. Please stop beatting yourself up.

  • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164

    @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164

    5 ай бұрын

    Forgive yourself and move on. It wasn't meant to be

  • @michellesweazy4493
    @michellesweazy449311 күн бұрын

    Ive been physically and mentally abused by men since i was 16, my first destroyed a healthy women i could have been. I settle for less, im and empath and have alot of compassion for people that treat me pooryy, i always see the good in people. Im 42 and realize im better alone. Even if im the reason i attract these men, i can take that. But im done with manipulation.

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford86583 ай бұрын

    I'm happy now !!!

  • @kathynohl6213
    @kathynohl62133 ай бұрын

    So so true I just let my person go. He ran 3 times. No no more!!!!

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude36402 ай бұрын

    I'm so proud of myself he never got him to reduce me I never fn let him He even said "what are you going to do without me? I answered I supported you for 2 years I can manage without you since you are here and refuse to pay for anything even though you have a job.

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude36402 ай бұрын

    yes you right he tried to get my attention by using the car that I own bought for him to drive as an excuse I told him what was what " take it or leave it" He was furious who cared

  • @mariaamaya4495
    @mariaamaya44953 ай бұрын

    Yup you are right 💯🙃

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi28155 ай бұрын

    Yes yes brother ❤️

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford86583 ай бұрын

    Oh yes he said what do I have to do nothing!

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e5 ай бұрын

    On point 👌👍

  • @romelliapattillo4681
    @romelliapattillo468126 күн бұрын

    He’s been blocked…NO CONTACT!

  • @CarlethaHenderson
    @CarlethaHenderson26 күн бұрын

    I stay my ground.

  • @sherrysimpher502
    @sherrysimpher5025 ай бұрын

    I'm in a relationship but I feel single😊

  • @simpleliving4205
    @simpleliving42052 ай бұрын

    Thank you❤

  • @transformationsbeautylounge
    @transformationsbeautylounge5 ай бұрын

    Yep this happens ALLLLL the time 😅😅😅😅😊😊😊

  • @mcm6563
    @mcm65634 ай бұрын

    True❤ tkank you 💯

  • @deniseroper3047
    @deniseroper30473 ай бұрын

    I. My ex husband doesn't call me. So I don't call him!!

  • @iishabell1985
    @iishabell19854 ай бұрын

    When I go no contact do I need to say I’m going no contact or can I just do it? What if hound children are involved how do I move in that situation?

  • @tiffany_adventures_2659
    @tiffany_adventures_26594 ай бұрын

    He threatened to take me to court to get an engagement ring back. But my wedding gown cost more than the ring and stuck with it. He has not given me anything but that ring. Which he changed the engagement ring and said his family does not support us to marry and I have to prove myself. Is he really going to take me to court for a ring he gave me on Christmas day as a gift in a parking lot.

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude36402 ай бұрын

    OMG he did try to use all kinds of excuses to talk to me and I told "you're on your own now I won't help you translade for you, handle USA all by yourself with your influenced friends"

  • @carolyncanady8268
    @carolyncanady82685 ай бұрын

    I he still was doing the same thing

  • @jensanders8990
    @jensanders899027 күн бұрын

    Yep ,all valid

  • @cardelmcneil2137
    @cardelmcneil21375 ай бұрын

    True words

  • @carolyncanady8268
    @carolyncanady82685 ай бұрын

    Total truth

  • @brendaadkins7082
    @brendaadkins70823 ай бұрын

    Everything you're saying is TRUE! I've experienced all of what you're saying with my Ex.

  • @NA-xi5hj
    @NA-xi5hj5 ай бұрын

    Ive recieved it all, yea

  • @RoseTheQween
    @RoseTheQween3 ай бұрын

    What would anyone of you do if you attempted to have a discussion about something that was bothering you & the individual says “ I don’t want to talk about it”?…..

  • @jodie853
    @jodie8535 ай бұрын

    🎯 💯