WHEN HE LOSES CONTROL OF YOU, HE WILL DO THIS!

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  • @JaxnVideos
    @JaxnVideos3 ай бұрын

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  • @JaxnVideos

    @JaxnVideos

    3 ай бұрын

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  • @terilyntucker4361

    @terilyntucker4361

    3 ай бұрын

    Sir! Thank you for putting out this content. Good women need protection. You are truly helping. God sees you. God bless you.

  • @kweenuzuri9018

    @kweenuzuri9018

    3 ай бұрын

    Factz 💯 😊💗

  • @judyschwenz6436

    @judyschwenz6436

    3 ай бұрын

    It's 10000% true I'm barely hanging on 😢😢😢

  • @ShirleyWillis-os2bc

    @ShirleyWillis-os2bc

    Ай бұрын

    Me

  • @lisahurst1940
    @lisahurst19403 ай бұрын

    Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!

  • @MissOddyO

    @MissOddyO

    3 ай бұрын

    This is my current situation... I'm hoping i continue to choose me!

  • @cynicalafflictional1725

    @cynicalafflictional1725

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes!

  • @kimbrown5407

    @kimbrown5407

    3 ай бұрын

    Amen! Best decision ever! Get yr peace & power back for good!👊🙌

  • @trinjuwan4422

    @trinjuwan4422

    3 ай бұрын

    Silence & total disconnection are the MOST POWERFUL ACTIONS any of us can take with a toxic manipulator. PERIOD🚫

  • @elmagarza478
    @elmagarza4783 ай бұрын

    IGNORE THEM AS THOUGH THEY NEVER EXISTED!

  • @abigailgoodwin4759

    @abigailgoodwin4759

    2 ай бұрын

    💯👌🏿

  • @oliviabarr2986
    @oliviabarr29863 ай бұрын

    Treat him like a stranger ❤

  • @abigailgoodwin4759

    @abigailgoodwin4759

    2 ай бұрын

    👌🏿💪🏾

  • @user-cy9in5ry9c
    @user-cy9in5ry9c3 ай бұрын

    I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.

  • @kukuakukua

    @kukuakukua

    3 ай бұрын

    This is it😅him getting zero reaction from me did not only confused him but it stabbed him in his heart and that was my healing

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey7693 ай бұрын

    The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait

  • @aamne2012
    @aamne20123 ай бұрын

    Going through it at the moment,,he was as cold as ice now ,, switch up and I became a ski resort

  • @bioncadixon1989

    @bioncadixon1989

    3 ай бұрын

    Barz

  • @riasb

    @riasb

    3 ай бұрын

    🔥

  • @sherriflemming3218

    @sherriflemming3218

    3 ай бұрын

    Love it! Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft

  • @BBFLYRISEN

    @BBFLYRISEN

    2 ай бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🖤

  • @Webble_webble
    @Webble_webble3 ай бұрын

    "Good women don't have to get revenge!!!!" Put it on a shirt because that's facts 100. I let God move and stay out of the way❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes95073 ай бұрын

    Been ABSENT & SILENT for 5 yrs. Completely done.

  • @sherriflemming3218

    @sherriflemming3218

    3 ай бұрын

    Bravo! 👍

  • @GIGI-lv1qt

    @GIGI-lv1qt

    3 ай бұрын

    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sherriflemming3218

    @sherriflemming3218

    3 ай бұрын

    Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate. I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast Accurate study.

  • @sherriflemming3218

    @sherriflemming3218

    3 ай бұрын

    Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer

  • @Auntie_Sam1968

    @Auntie_Sam1968

    3 ай бұрын

    Me too 👍

  • @alogan9502
    @alogan95023 ай бұрын

    Him not wanting to co parent makes it easier to walk away for good 🙌

  • @westcoastbred7745

    @westcoastbred7745

    3 ай бұрын

    Omg facts...I am going through this currently. He stopped communicating about the kids

  • @brendamartin763

    @brendamartin763

    13 күн бұрын

    Yeah, that's tough for me bc it's not in my nature to be cold & unkind to anyone. Some confuse the empath for a doormat. That's not the case.

  • @glendasullivan7633
    @glendasullivan76333 ай бұрын

    Yes, and they say they come back seven times more demons

  • @CherylBrown-ko5fl

    @CherylBrown-ko5fl

    3 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @viviancheek8044

    @viviancheek8044

    Ай бұрын

    7×700 more

  • @angelamartinsanders8209
    @angelamartinsanders82093 ай бұрын

    I'm getting smeared right now and I just say God knows and people that know me knows.... Trying to tear my character down.

  • @rooffoop5358

    @rooffoop5358

    3 ай бұрын

    Keep your head up and keep your crown straight!🙏

  • @elizabethbuchanan1931
    @elizabethbuchanan19313 ай бұрын

    Im the Karma when I left...... he felt it . :)

  • @browneyes9507

    @browneyes9507

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .

  • @aprildouglass4265

    @aprildouglass4265

    3 ай бұрын

    💯💯🎯

  • @michellerogers5582
    @michellerogers55823 ай бұрын

    He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!

  • @lilamckay5982
    @lilamckay59823 ай бұрын

    Manipulation and control are always part of a quad. Intimidation and domination are the other half of the quad.

  • @shelleyjeanne257
    @shelleyjeanne2573 ай бұрын

    Huge empath here… wish I had heard this years ago

  • @genXer2024
    @genXer20243 ай бұрын

    I don't want to hurt him. I just want my sanity and for him to leave me alone

  • @valeriebyrd70
    @valeriebyrd703 ай бұрын

    I’m now excited about taking that control he once had away from him.

  • @DarleneD-dt5qy
    @DarleneD-dt5qy3 ай бұрын

    Anything to hurt your character to try to get reaction from u Vindictive that u left him🦋

  • @sherriflemming3218

    @sherriflemming3218

    3 ай бұрын

    Standards boundaries a bs detector and a backbone 💪 Character is actions. Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker

  • @Stella-kx3lt
    @Stella-kx3lt3 ай бұрын

    That’s exactly right!!! Listen to what he’s saying!!!!!

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey7693 ай бұрын

    I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey7693 ай бұрын

    Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.

  • @vanessasmith4960

    @vanessasmith4960

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes Lord. Amen

  • @latashahumphrey769

    @latashahumphrey769

    3 ай бұрын

    @@vanessasmith4960 on top of it just got off got go get something to cook 😄

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e3 ай бұрын

    Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌ To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞

  • @TNT31414
    @TNT31414Ай бұрын

    That detach from urself is real…Stay strong queens ❤ a spiritual journey is needed ❤ get back to urself!

  • @BBFLYRISEN
    @BBFLYRISEN2 ай бұрын

    My pledge: 🙋🏿‍♀️ “I am no longer an empath. I have learned to let people down and leave them broken when I find them broken.”

  • @lindagoldsmith5899
    @lindagoldsmith58993 ай бұрын

    You are so right, yes I am a Empath, trying to please everyone, no more it’s about me now

  • @margueritedrya9807
    @margueritedrya98073 ай бұрын

    Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!

  • @tobilawal2142

    @tobilawal2142

    3 ай бұрын

    You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊

  • @Angie-kn8nd
    @Angie-kn8nd3 ай бұрын

    You are on fire with these short videos !!

  • @LoveEndures7
    @LoveEndures73 ай бұрын

    He's posting so many sappy breakup songs on his KZread 😵‍💫 here's two that stood out: "Try Losing One" - Tyler Braden "What Could've Been" - Gone West

  • @magdalenachojnowska3621
    @magdalenachojnowska36213 ай бұрын

    That's exactly what happened to me. He antagonized, but I was mentally prepared and remained stoic. I heard I disrespected him by doing this 😉

  • @elizabethwerter7171
    @elizabethwerter71713 ай бұрын

    You always make sense Derrick. This video isn’t my experience but it’s “good to know”. Thank you ❤

  • @DarleneD-dt5qy
    @DarleneD-dt5qy3 ай бұрын

    Smear champagne half truth they play victim 💯

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey7693 ай бұрын

    Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.

  • @patricebeene646
    @patricebeene6463 ай бұрын

    Yes I relate. Exactly CUT him off 3 years ago. Yes he tried to come back. Blocked him on all ... phone social media

  • @debraharris6350
    @debraharris63502 ай бұрын

    Yes, ME DERRICK THANK YOU JESUS AMEN HALLELUJAH 😇🥰🙏🙌❤️💯💯💯💞💞💞

  • @tsioncox3712
    @tsioncox37123 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Big Brotha. May God bless you and reward your work and efforts to be truthful

  • @sarahharrison5157
    @sarahharrison51573 ай бұрын

    Take back control and give it to yourself ! I love that ❤ Thank you 😊

  • @glendasullivan7633
    @glendasullivan76333 ай бұрын

    Yes Derrick boundaries are so so so important. It’s one thing to have them but it’s another thing to protect them. I mean diligently protect your boundaries.

  • @harriettestjohn1699
    @harriettestjohn16993 ай бұрын

    Tell them Zaddy

  • @valeriebyrd70
    @valeriebyrd703 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Derrick for everything !!! I appreciate you !!! ❤

  • @tobh007
    @tobh0073 ай бұрын

    You're SSSOOOOO right. There's a great controversy that is between Good and Evil... we are not each others enemy and marriage is STILL sacred!

  • @cherylanderson8369
    @cherylanderson83693 ай бұрын

    You’re definitely HELPING me

  • @user-ef5jr6re6v
    @user-ef5jr6re6v18 күн бұрын

    He tried to change me completely. Knew i drove truck for a living and he thought I was the most amazing woman or so he said. Omg you have gone thru all his phases! Wish I would have seen this before I got involved with him! All I had to do was say goodbye and he panicked! Nothing ever changed! When he thinks he got me everything goes back to what it was....... NO MORE! Never realized I was like an empath! Thank you for your time!

  • @marthaavbioroko8249
    @marthaavbioroko82493 ай бұрын

    Yes, it is very helpful. Thank you so much, King 👑❤💯👊

  • @Jenishabadoo
    @Jenishabadoo3 ай бұрын

    This was my aha moment. Thank you Derrick.

  • @sandratalbert4253
    @sandratalbert42533 ай бұрын

    Im so glad your doing this.

  • @shantalchotoki4998
    @shantalchotoki49983 ай бұрын

    So damn true!! Been thru it all! 🥹

  • @jamilakhatun3592
    @jamilakhatun35923 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this, so helpful brother, stay well.

  • @Katarina503
    @Katarina5033 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear all of this. So true, thank you 🙏

  • @derailingtraumabonds5181
    @derailingtraumabonds51813 ай бұрын

    This does it for me, exactly to the tea I needed this I’m so empathic, thank you for going there in this video ❤

  • @donna6783
    @donna67833 ай бұрын

    Me! and this is a really helpful video. Thank you!

  • @annetteloliver78
    @annetteloliver782 ай бұрын

    Bless you for your help!!! I am SO GREATFUL I found it! Wish I had this help YEARS AGO!

  • @jjcarr6606
    @jjcarr66063 ай бұрын

    I have been there. You are speaking directly to me

  • @user-fn1kx8ow5q
    @user-fn1kx8ow5q3 ай бұрын

    AMEN❤ THE best revenge is SUCCESS!!!

  • @milomaddyhennessy2643
    @milomaddyhennessy26433 ай бұрын

    I am working and learning , so much from you. Sincerely I appreciate your wisdom

  • @keiannasoares7696
    @keiannasoares76963 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much because this describes my sons father perfectly

  • @no.commonsense
    @no.commonsense3 ай бұрын

    This is so helpful an encouraging it motivates and teaches me

  • @valeriebyrd70
    @valeriebyrd703 ай бұрын

    Me !!! You are definitely helping me !!!

  • @annamillan2903
    @annamillan29033 ай бұрын

    Listening to you has been very enlightening.

  • @user-mb1sy9uz6z
    @user-mb1sy9uz6z3 ай бұрын

    Empaths have the biggest hearts!! Look out for the 7 traps of Empaths!! Thank you for the information, Derrick!! Appreciate you!!

  • @LMC3860
    @LMC38603 ай бұрын

    It's definitely helping me rn 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @SophiaParker-mc3kg
    @SophiaParker-mc3kg3 ай бұрын

    🙏 thank you so much! For this knowledge for us empaths

  • @simonethompson8946
    @simonethompson8946Ай бұрын

    Speaking the truth... God Bless 🕊 🙌🏽

  • @user-qt1cy4hl9q
    @user-qt1cy4hl9q3 ай бұрын

    You helping me thank you so much grateful for your channel

  • @neliakh9118
    @neliakh911821 күн бұрын

    So true! 💯💯💯 Thank you for acknowledging to see our worth 🙏❤️

  • @user-cj1wk4jz3x
    @user-cj1wk4jz3x3 ай бұрын

    Wow i can relate. my baby daddy was like that. In 1 year i will be completely free from him and his antics.

  • @JaxnVideos

    @JaxnVideos

    3 ай бұрын

    @user-cj1wk4jz3x Hey, here's the link for free enrollment into my Self-Crowned Inner Circle: derrickjaxn.rurl.me/freeenrollmentvip1

  • @7ChakrasTarot
    @7ChakrasTarot2 ай бұрын

    Yeah that's true a lot of people try to take my sunshine for themselves. You think you can make someone happy but you only end up unhappy.

  • @SophiaParker-mc3kg
    @SophiaParker-mc3kg3 ай бұрын

    You are def helping me

  • @Ev_89
    @Ev_893 ай бұрын

    Thank you for understanding

  • @Angel-lm6cj
    @Angel-lm6cj3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for giving us women all this information

  • @cassandramorehouse8650
    @cassandramorehouse86502 ай бұрын

    Me you are so on point I'm an empath I'm still healing

  • @BBsweetiepie
    @BBsweetiepie3 ай бұрын

    Truths being spoken!

  • @maeevans1059
    @maeevans10593 ай бұрын

    So true sadly...but liberating. Thank you sir

  • @ILOVEGOD806
    @ILOVEGOD8063 ай бұрын

    Hello from israel dear Derrick! That is a great video!!! Thank u it helped me alot❤

  • @emilysandstrom2476
    @emilysandstrom24763 ай бұрын

    I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.

  • @diboleloanniekamota6585
    @diboleloanniekamota65853 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this

  • @gloriacastro3939
    @gloriacastro39393 ай бұрын

    We love you mr really wise gentlemen God bless thank you so much.

  • @jejohn665
    @jejohn6653 ай бұрын

    Excellent, thank You👍

  • @dinajones6571
    @dinajones65713 ай бұрын

    Thank you for telling the truth❤

  • @ADE528
    @ADE5283 ай бұрын

    Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.

  • @Ahay143
    @Ahay1432 ай бұрын

    This is helpful. Thank you.

  • @JanetTuttle-cb3xx
    @JanetTuttle-cb3xxАй бұрын

    I have experenced this, Thank you.❤❤❤❤

  • @theresawilliams3633
    @theresawilliams36333 ай бұрын

    Appreciate you much love 👍♥️

  • @autrymartin9361
    @autrymartin93613 ай бұрын

    Going thru it now plus co parenting!

  • @stay-positive6296
    @stay-positive62963 ай бұрын

    You are talking to me Mr. Jackson I am going through this right now

  • @glendasullivan7633
    @glendasullivan76333 ай бұрын

    God spoke to me, Derrick and I also appreciate your videos

  • @April-dt8pp
    @April-dt8pp3 ай бұрын

    Speaking directly to us empaths our here for sure....

  • @moniquehoward4544
    @moniquehoward45443 ай бұрын

    Very helpful message ❤

  • @lindaclark3993
    @lindaclark39932 ай бұрын

    You definitely help You always do x

  • @carobrown9498
    @carobrown94982 ай бұрын

    THANK YOU!

  • @jenenrich-wills2164
    @jenenrich-wills21643 ай бұрын

    Fabulous video..!

  • @sheliasmith2884
    @sheliasmith28843 ай бұрын

    BRILLIANT

  • @DeniseLiotti-qz1ug
    @DeniseLiotti-qz1ugАй бұрын

    Yes .I've had more than one marked demons sadly all the same actions you are Soo right on

  • @jenavenecoolwell9978
    @jenavenecoolwell99783 ай бұрын

    Very helpful information 💯

  • @trinajettelson7569
    @trinajettelson75693 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @carlottajames3869
    @carlottajames38692 ай бұрын

    Thank you, sooo much. Married 27 years and I am dealing with all this. R igh now

  • @Denise-bj1sq
    @Denise-bj1sq3 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @belinda8610
    @belinda86103 ай бұрын

    Bingo Derrick 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @sadiehiester2301
    @sadiehiester23013 ай бұрын

    Soo relatable geez.

  • @heidire
    @heidire3 ай бұрын

    Derrick, you are so 🔥

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