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A man who has serious interest in a woman will pursue her continuously to the point that he will leave no doubt in her mind that he wants her..if she has to ask him, herself, or others if he seriously has interest in her...HE DOESN'T!! Men go after what they want hard!! If you have a man who has a problem with calling/texting or isn't pursuing you with consistency...DROP HIM IMMEDIATELY!

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, he will...but not necessarily chasing though. If you show no or zero interest, he will eventually give up pursuit and move on...no matter how much he really was into her in the beginning.

@twins213rb

2 жыл бұрын

Sure that might be true to you, but when a woman feeds her other options and the man is still trying to pursue her it gets tiring. Feels like she is making you loose yourself just to get attention from her. Like playing cat and mouse, to much games to chase women now

@taneska1

2 жыл бұрын

@@jayc5756 A chase is a pursuit of someone who is running away from you...When you Pursue with consistency & with a genuine purpose a woman of maturity will receive & reciprocate your actions with great delight💯

@taneska1

2 жыл бұрын

@@twins213rb Make sure you pursue the right kind of woman...A woman of maturity and good moral character will receive serious genuine advances with great delight & reciprocate it back to you so much more💯

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

@@taneska1 I know whats the difference ma. I was just saying that real men don't like or want to chase their lady. Players that get a lot of women and easily...they may though. It is what it is

This is why standards are so important. Standards are there to protect you so no matter or what he’s intentions are, you disallow him to dictate whether he gets to use you ❤️

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@Beautyfaithfinance

2 жыл бұрын

The complete truth, I've learned 🙌🏾

@RuthLovesJesus

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@alexia8977

2 жыл бұрын

So we’ll said . the self control and standards are so VITAL so so vital.

@judyperri9496

2 жыл бұрын

@@jayc5756 No thanks

Hence why sex is not on the table until each person communicates their needs. Till then conversations and hanging out is all I would offer. My body is not available to an entire community 😕

@ifinditinteresting.8709

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@devfern2270

2 жыл бұрын

Push up the standard even more. Till marriage. Not even if one thinks / feels they are tbe one or even if engaged!!. Attaching a link by Michael Todd on "why sex before marriage ..." Every woman should hear this.

@BrooklynBaby100

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t even entertain or give your energy to those that aren’t serious about you. It’s too much of a hassle save it for the man who loves and wants to commit to you. ❤

@nessparadis6948

3 ай бұрын

@@devfern2270, agreed

@godsmercy760

2 сағат бұрын

This is my option

This is the very reason why way back in the day the girls father would ask the young man "what are your intentions with my daughter?"

@goaldigger1535

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! And why it should still apply TODAY more than ever.

@goddesst5405

2 жыл бұрын

@@goaldigger1535 Yes!

@ussaher67

4 ай бұрын

Thats exactly what we muslims do….. no sex without first being commited to each other

@dianaverano7878

3 ай бұрын

You ask the guy by 2nd or 3rd month when getting to know him If he cant say he wants to have a boyfriend title, put him in the friendzone

@Ultralined

Ай бұрын

And they still found a way to break our grandmother's hearts😂

Let's be realistic I teach my daughters this no matter WHO the man is what culture he grew up in or where he's from he's only attracted to you because he wants access to your body initially and if he says other wise he's lying, that being said a woman has to show a man she's more than just her SEX. Which is why I tell them to take sex off the table and if the man is really interested in who you are as a person he'll spend the time getting to know you other wise keep it movin because women pay a higher price for sex then men and women have a small window of time to find the right man to build a legacy with so don't let these lil boys pretending to be men waste your time.

@chitchatwithbritbrat8412

2 жыл бұрын

Good job King! My dad said the sameeee thing !! I used to act like I wasn’t listening because it was the awkward talk. But I heard everything!! It has helped me along the way!! I am beyond grateful for the talk. My dad did not sugar coat ANYTHING! Your comment made me smile !! ❤️✊🏾❤️

@darnellhines2299

2 жыл бұрын

@@chitchatwithbritbrat8412 I know what you mean I've always tried to stay focused on the people my children are becoming instead of people who they are because my grandfather sat me down when I was 19 at the end of my freshman year in college and told me that one day I'd have children and grandchildren of my own and to remember this one important thing you're not raising children you're raising MEN and WOMEN so don't raise them to be people you don't like, because if I did I'd failed as a father.

@chitchatwithbritbrat8412

2 жыл бұрын

@@darnellhines2299 that is POWERFUL ADVICE ❤️❤️✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

@SoulBeauty1111

2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!!! No matter how bullheaded these teens are, we have to continue pushing this messaging so we can get back to strong family units. Who we attach ourselves to makes a world of difference in our lives!

@tabathadavis2917

Жыл бұрын

Well said!

Standards and boundaries are so important!! Ladies don't give up so much so quick make him earn you

There's a guy I swore was a good guy, and he asked me to have a casual relationship with him, I told him I don't do casual relationships, so he was turned down. I could have sworn he wanted a relationship but oh well. At least he was honest and didn't waste my time.

@Rashaadthegr8

2 жыл бұрын

What is a good guy?

@guitarsinger1231

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes the “good guys” can be just as worst is what I’ve noticed

@Rashaadthegr8

2 жыл бұрын

@@guitarsinger1231 that makes no sense.

@singuensful

2 жыл бұрын

Some can aggressively pursue you just for sex. No man is « good » they all have their bad side.

@liahlove8297

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rashaadthegr8 that's a good question, not sure if you are being sarcastic or not but I've tried looking for one, and honestly, I'm tired. Because I meet men who all sometimes just act the same and this isn't a type thing, its literally just meeting different men with different personalities and well, same results. So I really don't know. Lol

Standards are important! When a Man is interested he will pursue you! Men are designed by God to hunt! If he is not pursuing you that is your answer! Period and the point blank!

😀😂🤣why would he speak the truth when he only wants sex? That's one of the reasons why people should go to God first before making any decisions 💯❤️.

That’s why just wait until marriage - you dont have to be religious to have a standard. Why would we give our body to someone who isn’t going to love us through and through.

@FreeSpirit47

2 жыл бұрын

My grandfather told me many times, "Never give husband privilege to someone who is not your husband."

@judyperri9496

2 жыл бұрын

@@FreeSpirit47 Your grandfather sounds like another old man just trying to control a woman

@sharonprice05

2 жыл бұрын

That's is not how the world works these days be realistic if he/she is not wanting to automatically date and That's a process what makes you think he going to marry automatically all of these things takes time .....and time will teach what his true intentions are it's people out there that get married and they get it annulled so what happened here you will never 💯 % of who a person is .......married doesn't automatically determine it to be a successful relationship......you'll be hurt then you put so much effort into and it still didn't work....there aren't any pinpoint key to determine success except consistent positive behaviors .....

@FreeSpirit47

2 жыл бұрын

@@sharonprice05 It's unclear as to what you're trying to say in your comment. My grandfather was a very wise man, he was ahead of his time in many matters. Casual sex or unmarried sex often has devastating consequences on people's lives. Most often, it's the woman & the child that it affects the most. DNA analysis that is so popular, shows this as it's been happening for centuries. The power of procreation can bring so much joy, it can also bring a lot of misery & financial difficulties.

@sharonprice05

2 жыл бұрын

If it don't apply to you then disregard its very clear what I was saying and your grandfather no longer lives in this decade so that not a factor in every other circumstance. And if you're married what can change about your daughter or niece cousin people have to handle their situation the way they feel that's good for them ....oh I'm most definitely sure your are a virtuous woman who has never had sex out of wedlock....yeah right .....even then I'm pretty sure your grandfather probably have had some outside cookie from another woman outside his marriage....the repect has to go both ways Ina relationship....we all know relationships outside without a commitment can be hurtful and same goes for marriage......marriage does not change a man's mindset......or pathology......and marriage doesn't mean that their isn't going to be heart ache outside babies etc ......

Exceptions to the rule...the men who will say anything to make you BELIEVE they want a relationship just to sleep with you. However, you can always cut out the savages and the exceptions through boundaries and standards. It's actually quite empowering and somewhat entertaining when you see them kill themselves off like dead flies once it comes their time to meet/respect those boundaries and standards. PS: Texlationships are manipulationships, akin to situationships of which ALL are sexually led/motivated. The basis of a relationship is to relate. You cannot relate to what you don't delve (using all senses) into--it will remain an unknown.

@nessparadis6948

3 ай бұрын

What are “texlationships?”

Ladies: his desire for only you will NOT be permanent!

Yes those excuses remind me of guys who never wanted a serious relationship with me. 😒 They told me the exact same things.

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

Usually they tell women Exactly what they want to hear. Actions NEVER Match...but women Continuously fall for it Over & Over Again. SMH!

What this tells me is that there's no way of knowing if a man really truly likes you and wants to be with you because he isn't going to be honest from the start. The signs are good to know when it comes to 9nly wanting sex but the fact that he is already starting off by misleading her is the problem.

I am ADHD and ASD so cannot think so flexibly, in the end, my mind goes to " I'm scared of men."

Cause they know that ALL You Gotta Do is tell Women EXACTLY What they wanna hear to get them...and they Fall For It Every Single Time. SMH! 🤦‍♂️

@taneska1

2 жыл бұрын

This is why most men choose to go after women to whom lack maturity, self assurance, & self love...a woman with the above attributes knows that actions must match words...A man must show consistent actions over a period of time b4 a woman of maturity would even begin to believe that he is seriously interested 💯😃 Remember ladies check into his background & past actions from the beginning...The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior...Ppl will most often do what they've always done💯

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

@@taneska1 EXACTLY!!! Everything you said here.

@chrishaunafarquharson5293

3 ай бұрын

​@@taneska1that's not always the case since a man will pretend that he wants a relationship for as long as you want him to wait and as soon as he gets sex he leaves. Some men even shows their true colors after marriage..

@taneska1

3 ай бұрын

@@chrishaunafarquharson5293 For the most part if he does that, he demonstrated such actions from the very start...We tend to dismiss those red flags & make excuses for them...As I look back on all my exes...they indeed showed me exactly who they ended up being from day 1💯

Without becoming overwhelmed about everything lol, I find it easier to understand who I am, what it is that I desire in a true and God-driven relationship, and being honest with myself and those I meet. That way I can keep my mind, body and spirit at peace while eliminating the riff raff 🙌🙌🙌

@janiceparkerson4727

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯👍❤️.

@ThanksThanks-cm4ce

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!! Truly said

I’m convinced that not one single Person knows wtf they are talking about at this point.

@salutemimi81

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed but curiosity makes us watch 😂

@kristenivory628

2 жыл бұрын

Agree it’s the fact that relationships are really hard today, too much media in your face, nobody can concentrate❤️

@cottoncandygrapes_

2 ай бұрын

@@kristenivory628wrong relationships aren’t hard . Ppl are

2:37 Why even try if I say I want a relationship but you just want sex. There is nothing wrong with me NOT wanting to share time with someone that just wants to run through me without any accountability. I need him to be honest with himself and choose the partner wisely. Only deal with women who just want sex.

I agree. Hold on to your standards at all cost. He can get it freely so he won't pretend for too long.

My boyfriend of 3 years just left me 🥺...after I told him I wanted to keep God happy by not committing adultery no more so we can b more connected when we take our relationship to next level......I was shocked...I'm Soo hurt.....I wasn't expecting this..😢 thank u for this vudeo

@chrishaunafarquharson5293

3 ай бұрын

You will get a better man one day ❤

Are we supposed to assume what #1 was? 😂

@JoyOgah

3 ай бұрын

I was wondering too 🤣🤣

@naomibamberg6419

2 ай бұрын

That video did cut in late…. Hey Stefan what was the first point???

Not every man will understand that they shouldn't sleep with every woman who they encounter. There's a hidden danger of the unfulfilled, gorgeous woman. Every woman cannot be entertained. You should carefully choose who to be intimate with, men. Take heed! 😞😞🧐

To me it’s very disturbing that they can’t be honest. There’s plenty of low vibrational beings who’d be down for what they’re down for. But, no they usually go for the average woman who’s most likely not looking for a lustful connection. 😐

Thank you, Stephan!🌟 I wish I knew this when I was a teenager!🤦🏽‍♀️

@rednia1

2 жыл бұрын

Me too my life would have been way better

@stephanielondonio5446

Жыл бұрын

Wow .. Fantastic idea 🎉 You made such a valid statement … we need Stephan to get to our young girls .. They need to start hearing this … wouldn’t it be great if ‘we’ could help them have greater, healthier relationships. I will absolutely send my daughter and her friends his link. Thanks for the idea. 😊

Another thing they don't like the pay for play women, so they target good women and act like want a relationship cause they don't want to pay

Men are full of shit. But i cant blame, women give it up to easily and love hard at an idea before even realizing if he wants a rship or not. These days am no longer eager. Ladies if he’s into u, let his actions speak. If not? find someone else simple.

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

Thots usually give it up easy...not necessarily most women. But yeah, guys know that ALL You Gotta do is tell them EXACTLY what they wanna hear...and they are All In...instead of feeling the guy out...looking at his actions...making sure it matches up with his words. It should be very simple...but Idk. I don't get why they keep falling for the Same Trick All The Time Over & Over Again.

@rahmasamir909

8 ай бұрын

You are right I knew someone online who was trying to have sexual talks I cut him and Say bye he strat to respect my boundries and he promise he will bé Always serious with me i will give him a chance without trusting him open eyes and ears to know him better

@Daisydrool

6 ай бұрын

I had a close friend and he was a good person but one day out of the blue he wanted to have a sexual conversation and I'm a person who didn't like it before marriage I denied it, he parted ways

@Daisydrool

6 ай бұрын

​@@rahmasamir909I had same experience

It's not what they say. It's what they do. If they only want sex, you can definitely tell.

I had a guy wanting me to come over his place expecting sex (even though he said he wasn’t) I told him I decided not to come over and he got upset.

There is nothing wrong with sex, it’s not evil, it’s fun, but it will not make a man or woman love you, that’s the confusion. Don’t try and trap with sex or even trapping a man with pregnancy it doesn’t work. Love takes connection compatibility and a million other things, women just need to be aware that sex giving it or not giving it isn’t the problem.

@rebeccanicholson8328

Жыл бұрын

It’s becomes a problem when a man lies and manipulates a woman into bed which is what Stephan is talking about in this video and informing women. Men are totally out of order when they know the woman wants a relationship

@kristenivory628

Жыл бұрын

@@rebeccanicholson8328 nobody ever manipulated me

@Daisydrool

6 ай бұрын

I had a close friend and he was a good person out of the blue he started a conversation about sexual things and I the person who didn't like such things before marriage denied it and he said lets part ways

When i say let's just go with the flow what i mean is. Let's not rush things and take it step by step. But i am working towards having a relationship and just wanna take it slow to enjoy each other! ( I wouldn't be with no one if i wasn't working twords something)

When we’re on a dating app, I just straight up ask. I’m not about wasting time. You kind of get a sense based upon how much effort he puts into his profile. The only downside when you find a man who is seeking a ltr, is that some will treat you like you’re in interview rounds. Dating should be enjoyable not an interview, I should know I’m a recruiter.

Makes absolutely sense putting myself in the shoes...

I like these shorter videos.

Thank you @stephanspeaks for telling and sharing the truth!!! You have saved a lot of woman out there who are about to become just another piece of meat to a guy!!!!!!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

Idk if it will help much. I hope so. Cause most women keep falling for the same ol game Over & Over Again tbh. SMH! But we can Only Hope.

I wish I knew this before, so I had the chance to protect myself from him back then. 😞

@JenSmyre

8 ай бұрын

AMEN AMEN SISTER 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

What was the first one?

@user-fh6hv4eb56

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@anitracannon7528

2 жыл бұрын

I know right

@tiannad1378

2 жыл бұрын

here's the full video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qoml0NObYdO6d6g.html

To flow means very different for a man than for a woman... For men it seems like nothing serious... For women means the organic evolution of a relationship, not forcing but never ever means " let's have sex gladly and without responsability" ... The problem is we tend to interpret that it means the same for them tha for us....

their actions speak louder than words.

Sex can change for a man or a woman.Have love.Be kind to yourself and others Thanks much love 💘.I heard you well be coming to N C.

Lesson learned

@Laura-ic7ps

Ай бұрын

Same :(

If he doesn’t flat out say anything about sex it’s easy to see the signs therefore it’s still a no deal lol so no need for him to be worried because he will lose anyway🤷🏽‍♀️

😳 But….. I’m going to have to agree.

This behavior sounds like a grown boy.

0:34 He's really hitting on a central problem here. Continue listening closely to the following 3 minutes.

I met this guy and I really liked him, however we slept together on the 2nd and 3rd date. I feel so stupid for sleeping with him so fast. Now he's disappeared. Is there anyway to come back from this? or even just any tips to not feel like such an easy dumb ass :(

@vaishnavityagi4680

9 күн бұрын

I did the same. Guilty

Just say you want friendship,and dont lead the person on in the beginning.

As HARD as this is to admit at my age...but I have been just having sex with someone for almost 2 years that has more than once told me that he didn't want a relationship but cared about me and loved me but wanted nothing more. I was so stupid to believe that sex would change his heart...I doesn't. 2 years now and I am ( until my recent mind change) still f!*&ing and feeding him. He will now go into the " friend zone that he desires to be in. The thing is....I DON'T do male "friends" (some) Men befriend women in my opinion to blur lines and stay vague and create soul ties through casual "friendly" sexual encounters. I broke that rule that kept my heart safe for years for him. Still living, still learning I guess. Thank you Stephen. It's videos like these that expose the toxic masculinity that men have been hiding from women since the beginning of time. We must stop falling for the lies, and start learning how to pour into OURSELVES or these clowns in crowns will continue to drain us of our essence❤️‍🔥💝❤️‍🩹

Thank you for sharing !! 😊👣🙏

Good to know. Thank you

Yes you really speaks👏thank you

if sex gatepass for marriage i could have been married now,men are users

And going to the beach holding hands and go to the movies and go to the romantic restaurant and what kind of music that we listen to and talk about what kind house that we are live in and the power bill and water bill and a taco bill and gas station for a car and going to a store for food and talk about what decoration for a wedding and what kind of cake and other thing that you .

Do u ask what his intentions are etc

What was number 1?

Thnx Stephan

What if a guy is honest with you and you still don't heed that warning does that mean I deserve that

@kimberlyturner820

5 ай бұрын

Yes because he told you upfront.

@richerDiLefto

2 ай бұрын

You don’t deserve ill treatment, but what did you expect?

Men shy away and are not really honest about much of anything. Sorry, that's what I've experiencing in my life. And that includes my parents that were together for 50 years. And every man I've ever known hasn't some way trying to take control or domination over me. You all really need to work on yourselves like seriously before the war is end up on this planet destroying everybody.

You are so right 😂

Hi Stephan your right about that

What if you ask him what his intentions are and he says it's just sex and you understand that. But then he starts acting weird and more romantic and definitely acting like it's not just sex? What do you do then?

@richerDiLefto

2 ай бұрын

It’s still just sex.

He made it pretty obvious and even made his friends touch me when I said no

@sitcoms101

Ай бұрын

What? 🙄 made his friends touch you??

This ain’t toys r us lol

Yup.

Why’d you start with number 2?

My ex was nothing but a dog Sex or lust was his only intention..so glad it is over with him

all im gone say is that you hurt yourself by not being honest because are you plotting to force me because the answer is NO

Sports? Shirt? The events encompassing the past 5 yrs?

How can I stop him?

or we just chilling

I got to carry away about are relationship and about sex when my boyfriend have a talk to me but some time I don't understand very well so my boyfriend explain it to me you now and relationship mean talk about he or she are self and talk about are family .

To those of us who practice celebicacy before marriage will never fall for this. But knowing his intentions is important.

Need and talk about having a child.

Happen to me

Tried to watch. Mic is literal trashcan, hope its better by now

First!

What was number one

You gotta be Method Man to walk up and say that to a woman.

PSA🗣️

Can u please do a video on relationship and family mem who hate u....

@christinatultul9257

2 жыл бұрын

@yarima linda thank u I'm glad he helped u

💯

Turns out he was a 2 pump chump 😂😂

Omgod mansplain I didn't get that atall

❤

🙏🏾🙌🏽❤

Nice thumnnail that had nothing to do with the video.