Decent men should give all drama queens their distance They are like a tsunami which only causes distruction Be aware stay clear
@teddywhite3461Сағат бұрын
Most Black men in America don't make the kind of money he's talking about. But I do agree it doesn't matter how hard a man has it ,if he really truly loves you ladies, he is not gonna stand by and watch you struggle. He will find a way to help you.
@angeldonnelly4433Сағат бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@thehitmaster102Сағат бұрын
And a lot of people living together and splitting the bills when you are not married waste of time I'm telling ya how this is not good idea it's just not a good idea.
@ReneePaull-gw3hy2 сағат бұрын
Now i understand why he doesnt care his mama doesnt like me- i know what he went thru with her😏
@moniqueb39173 сағат бұрын
Something to think about.
@georgettethomas25404 сағат бұрын
Facts
@angeldonnelly44334 сағат бұрын
I love the perspective you brought to us here. I never really thought about it that way. Personally, as a woman, allowing a man to help financially is difficult because it puts you in a vulnerable situation. From my experience, men will count anything and everything they do as worthy of payback, making the woman feel indebted to them. In this way, he feels entitled to receive what he wants, when he wants it from the woman.🤔😊💖💞
@PatienceNyataKocker4 сағат бұрын
🙏
@ntombitobela4 сағат бұрын
No, men shouldn't take things this way simply because those passing guys that we can get quick attention from give us the worst treatment. They don't make us happy!!!!!!!!!!! THEY DON'T! They are not worth worrying about but ofcourse you've got to be sure that your girl has a good character because, if she doesn't, she'll rather hurt herself with the quick-fix guys than commit to you and ofcourse that'll hurt you too. At this point, she needs help herself because she doesn't know what's best for her, YOU.
@TanikaNakeyaLewis5 сағат бұрын
So, I'll Skip to Marital Couples, Post Un-Employment, Residing Out-Doors, and "Menstrual/Period Poverty": Provision Is Necessary of Much More than Whatever any "Man-Hood" Believes He Can Think to Do, As "Provider", Because, It's Equal, At that Point, too: [Due Diligence] "Conduct, Demonstrative of Mental Competence, By/As Verity". 😶. Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127
@user-en1zc5vd6y5 сағат бұрын
Love is not fair in that way. When you love someone you don’t even have the mental space to keep the score. Like I did this, they should also do this. You feel good just doing for them. Even in a mere friendship, you can’t watch your friend struggle when you are able to help. This guy didn’t even love her like a friend. It’s so bad
@KING-Kubaba_3696 сағат бұрын
😂😂😂. I'm 'Fatfit', & I Still Love You. Thank You. Vegetarianism Bring My Weight To Normal BMI, But I Also Lose Muscle Mass, Which Makes It Unsustainable. Any Advice On Vegetarian Protein Source Besides Legumes?
@sharmekamassie92756 сағат бұрын
This was really a good discussion. I was once with a man who wanted 50-50 and he got left.
@user-fh1tr9zp3l6 сағат бұрын
If any woman continues to entertain A Fully capable man and he refuses To take care of her then who,s to blame ? In my opinion this woman is solely responsible For this low key treatments Period !
@HalfSweetness7 сағат бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 All of that. 💯🤍
@amyitis7 сағат бұрын
Leaving someone feels guilty, but when you know you've done all that you could to fix it and nothing happened, the guilt turns into freedom
@Petra.808 сағат бұрын
When you know your value and what you bring to the table, moreover I don't need anything but God, you will surely be fine. I love me so much ❤
@Golf2foto8 сағат бұрын
This is so on point. During a period when I strayed from God (the reason was that I was still single and had become bitter/lost trust in God), I decided to get together with a man where there was attraction, great and easy communication but a blatant discrepancy in values. However, I was intent on making it work and walked into my own (almost) destruction. Eventually I became pregnant and he showed his true colors, threatening my and my child`s life if I didnt`t abort. I literally had to flee from him and build a new life in a different country with my daughter who is my biggest blessing. I completely surrendered to God and fast forward three years later was happy and content focusing on God, my daughter and building my business. I feel how fulfilled and grateful I was while I`m typing this. This was the point that God considered to be the right time for Him to send me my mate in the form of someone from church brought by someone else to my house for bible studies (God literally lead him to my door!!). However, since I wasnt`t looking (on the contrary I was intent on staying single since I was raising a young child), I wasn`t phased by his looks etc, and got to make the beautiful experience of connecting with a man on a spiritual level, talking about God, praying for and with each other, encouraging each other. I got to know him as a friend and brother in Christ who was easy to talk with. It took me a while to make sense of the feelings that I had for him. I can attest to the truth of God giving you unmeasurably more than you can hope for or even imagine. This is the man that I had been dreaming of ever since I was a young teenager whom I only believed existed in my dreams/subconsciousness, meanwhile it was the Holy Spirit promising him to me and telling me not to settle.
@lashondalambrecht45668 сағат бұрын
Facts 🎉
@maesams62128 сағат бұрын
Im going to share this with all men i know!
@maesams62128 сағат бұрын
I salute you brother!!!! My mom and dad raised me to NOT be a fan of 50/50 either! ❤❤❤❤🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@user-qz5xy9pw6v8 сағат бұрын
❤
@shirleycisneros68138 сағат бұрын
💯 being firm and upfront in your values and beliefs for the life you want is crucial. If you give them a pass with words, they will try to take it to the next level in actions.
@5106makjzzz9 сағат бұрын
been different after all does break ups …
@pryscyllahorn7210 сағат бұрын
I believe that in a relationship where both parties want to serve each other the conversation around what each other likes in a bedroom should be on regular basis as the way it started shouldn’t be the “norm”, there is so much to learn and grow in this area, so much to discover about your partner!
@laviniagoddard675813 сағат бұрын
"Is he just not perfect or is he not worth it?" 💥
@irispolk675514 сағат бұрын
Thanks
@sharonrearden905817 сағат бұрын
Right! How long does it take? Well I’m not waiting he already know but he’s too scared to move forward I’m out!
@shoonya070717 сағат бұрын
Wtf man! Investing your energy, time, emotions, supporting him isn't enough??? Like literally is sex the last thing left on planet now🙄 This isn't a prostitute relationship where you invest your money and I invest my body. BS
@AminaSolomon17 сағат бұрын
IF THERE ISN'T TRUST AND RESPECT THERE IS NOTHING
@imamotherfuckingstarboy749717 сағат бұрын
Right person wrong time got it lol, I’ve never had a man love me correctly not even my dad.. the second he came in my life it was a natural connection we already knew we were eachothers best friend… he made me aware of my nature and value as a woman, accepted me, connected me with the most high again and recently he made me realize I’m overdue to heal lol years of ignoring my healing finally caught up to me smh and he doesn’t trust me anymore I’m just so disappointed with myself that blocked my blessing smh. We are still friends and talk everyday but it’s just not the same. I truly do think he was sent to me by God for me to wake up forreal this time but I definitely need to work on myself but I don’t even know if he’ll ever give me another chance smh when we made so many plans, we’re just so natural with each other when i don’t even fully love myself yet, I can and always felt how amazing we would be smh Any advice?
@imamotherfuckingstarboy749717 сағат бұрын
I just pray for whatever the most high wants at this point but I know in my heart we didn’t cross paths for no reason smh, we gave each other such peace just being in each others presence
@shannahb477718 сағат бұрын
How can I do this? My boyfriend is doing a two month long internship in a different state, but we said we would put effort into our relationship to keep it growing, and all he is doing is text. I need him to step up his game to not lose me.
@mizzycutenezz21 сағат бұрын
Wow, so powerful! I've been praying for years and i thought God finally gave me my person, only to find he has so much brokeness he needs to work through. I thought it was mine to possess now, but i was totally thrown for a loop when i realized he's in no place for a relationship. You hit it on the nail, i need to stop focusing on possessing the blessing. It should be enough to know it exists, i need to focus on the work God has been calling me to do and trust He's gonna get my blessing ready in the meantime.
@shantipremananda22 сағат бұрын
The same way if a man doesn't own being a "leader" we shouldn't be letting them that power. Every gift comes with responsibilities
@thecure398222 сағат бұрын
Does anyone have the link to the full clip? I wish there were links so we can see what else he is trying to tell us
@keishrs822 сағат бұрын
Does he keep looking at your instagram stories in this case? Please answer me!
@The_M3lody23 сағат бұрын
Receiving my blessing
@pameladaffon52523 сағат бұрын
😢
@user-fh1tr9zp3lКүн бұрын
I do think to be in a successfull and loving relationship We all need to embrace a healthy weight And constructive criticism is key, At times its not what we say but how its been said Hey Steph you are so factual when you speak
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I just love a peaceful man.
Decent men should give all drama queens their distance They are like a tsunami which only causes distruction Be aware stay clear
Most Black men in America don't make the kind of money he's talking about. But I do agree it doesn't matter how hard a man has it ,if he really truly loves you ladies, he is not gonna stand by and watch you struggle. He will find a way to help you.
💯💯💯💯💯❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
And a lot of people living together and splitting the bills when you are not married waste of time I'm telling ya how this is not good idea it's just not a good idea.
Now i understand why he doesnt care his mama doesnt like me- i know what he went thru with her😏
Something to think about.
Facts
I love the perspective you brought to us here. I never really thought about it that way. Personally, as a woman, allowing a man to help financially is difficult because it puts you in a vulnerable situation. From my experience, men will count anything and everything they do as worthy of payback, making the woman feel indebted to them. In this way, he feels entitled to receive what he wants, when he wants it from the woman.🤔😊💖💞
🙏
No, men shouldn't take things this way simply because those passing guys that we can get quick attention from give us the worst treatment. They don't make us happy!!!!!!!!!!! THEY DON'T! They are not worth worrying about but ofcourse you've got to be sure that your girl has a good character because, if she doesn't, she'll rather hurt herself with the quick-fix guys than commit to you and ofcourse that'll hurt you too. At this point, she needs help herself because she doesn't know what's best for her, YOU.
So, I'll Skip to Marital Couples, Post Un-Employment, Residing Out-Doors, and "Menstrual/Period Poverty": Provision Is Necessary of Much More than Whatever any "Man-Hood" Believes He Can Think to Do, As "Provider", Because, It's Equal, At that Point, too: [Due Diligence] "Conduct, Demonstrative of Mental Competence, By/As Verity". 😶. Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127
Love is not fair in that way. When you love someone you don’t even have the mental space to keep the score. Like I did this, they should also do this. You feel good just doing for them. Even in a mere friendship, you can’t watch your friend struggle when you are able to help. This guy didn’t even love her like a friend. It’s so bad
😂😂😂. I'm 'Fatfit', & I Still Love You. Thank You. Vegetarianism Bring My Weight To Normal BMI, But I Also Lose Muscle Mass, Which Makes It Unsustainable. Any Advice On Vegetarian Protein Source Besides Legumes?
This was really a good discussion. I was once with a man who wanted 50-50 and he got left.
If any woman continues to entertain A Fully capable man and he refuses To take care of her then who,s to blame ? In my opinion this woman is solely responsible For this low key treatments Period !
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 All of that. 💯🤍
Leaving someone feels guilty, but when you know you've done all that you could to fix it and nothing happened, the guilt turns into freedom
When you know your value and what you bring to the table, moreover I don't need anything but God, you will surely be fine. I love me so much ❤
This is so on point. During a period when I strayed from God (the reason was that I was still single and had become bitter/lost trust in God), I decided to get together with a man where there was attraction, great and easy communication but a blatant discrepancy in values. However, I was intent on making it work and walked into my own (almost) destruction. Eventually I became pregnant and he showed his true colors, threatening my and my child`s life if I didnt`t abort. I literally had to flee from him and build a new life in a different country with my daughter who is my biggest blessing. I completely surrendered to God and fast forward three years later was happy and content focusing on God, my daughter and building my business. I feel how fulfilled and grateful I was while I`m typing this. This was the point that God considered to be the right time for Him to send me my mate in the form of someone from church brought by someone else to my house for bible studies (God literally lead him to my door!!). However, since I wasnt`t looking (on the contrary I was intent on staying single since I was raising a young child), I wasn`t phased by his looks etc, and got to make the beautiful experience of connecting with a man on a spiritual level, talking about God, praying for and with each other, encouraging each other. I got to know him as a friend and brother in Christ who was easy to talk with. It took me a while to make sense of the feelings that I had for him. I can attest to the truth of God giving you unmeasurably more than you can hope for or even imagine. This is the man that I had been dreaming of ever since I was a young teenager whom I only believed existed in my dreams/subconsciousness, meanwhile it was the Holy Spirit promising him to me and telling me not to settle.
Facts 🎉
Im going to share this with all men i know!
I salute you brother!!!! My mom and dad raised me to NOT be a fan of 50/50 either! ❤❤❤❤🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
❤
💯 being firm and upfront in your values and beliefs for the life you want is crucial. If you give them a pass with words, they will try to take it to the next level in actions.
been different after all does break ups …
I believe that in a relationship where both parties want to serve each other the conversation around what each other likes in a bedroom should be on regular basis as the way it started shouldn’t be the “norm”, there is so much to learn and grow in this area, so much to discover about your partner!
"Is he just not perfect or is he not worth it?" 💥
Thanks
Right! How long does it take? Well I’m not waiting he already know but he’s too scared to move forward I’m out!
Wtf man! Investing your energy, time, emotions, supporting him isn't enough??? Like literally is sex the last thing left on planet now🙄 This isn't a prostitute relationship where you invest your money and I invest my body. BS
IF THERE ISN'T TRUST AND RESPECT THERE IS NOTHING
Right person wrong time got it lol, I’ve never had a man love me correctly not even my dad.. the second he came in my life it was a natural connection we already knew we were eachothers best friend… he made me aware of my nature and value as a woman, accepted me, connected me with the most high again and recently he made me realize I’m overdue to heal lol years of ignoring my healing finally caught up to me smh and he doesn’t trust me anymore I’m just so disappointed with myself that blocked my blessing smh. We are still friends and talk everyday but it’s just not the same. I truly do think he was sent to me by God for me to wake up forreal this time but I definitely need to work on myself but I don’t even know if he’ll ever give me another chance smh when we made so many plans, we’re just so natural with each other when i don’t even fully love myself yet, I can and always felt how amazing we would be smh Any advice?
I just pray for whatever the most high wants at this point but I know in my heart we didn’t cross paths for no reason smh, we gave each other such peace just being in each others presence
How can I do this? My boyfriend is doing a two month long internship in a different state, but we said we would put effort into our relationship to keep it growing, and all he is doing is text. I need him to step up his game to not lose me.
Wow, so powerful! I've been praying for years and i thought God finally gave me my person, only to find he has so much brokeness he needs to work through. I thought it was mine to possess now, but i was totally thrown for a loop when i realized he's in no place for a relationship. You hit it on the nail, i need to stop focusing on possessing the blessing. It should be enough to know it exists, i need to focus on the work God has been calling me to do and trust He's gonna get my blessing ready in the meantime.
The same way if a man doesn't own being a "leader" we shouldn't be letting them that power. Every gift comes with responsibilities
Does anyone have the link to the full clip? I wish there were links so we can see what else he is trying to tell us
Does he keep looking at your instagram stories in this case? Please answer me!
Receiving my blessing
😢
I do think to be in a successfull and loving relationship We all need to embrace a healthy weight And constructive criticism is key, At times its not what we say but how its been said Hey Steph you are so factual when you speak