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@josephinebanda7444

2 ай бұрын

Nga uleya

@user-bp6tl4nm9y

11 күн бұрын

Thanks so so much dear I have learnt alot from your channel. God bless you 🙏

My brother told me this. And I take it to heart. "If he's into you he'll make time for you."

@ElizabethOwusu-gm5em

8 ай бұрын

Yh

@JKNat9004

8 ай бұрын

That's a good brother.

@nicoletacherechesu1576

8 ай бұрын

Very very good brother!!!! Congratulations!!!!😊

@eileen9992

4 ай бұрын

Ummm yes and no. The time He gives...is he on his phone the whole time...playing video games and not speaking to you? Time is time but how you spend it is how you tell if he loves you.

@appliedknowledgeispower2024

4 ай бұрын

@@eileen9992the person said the same thing you are saying… making time for the person you care about ….

My beloved late husband and I met after being set up by a friend. He said he took one look at me and before he’d even said hello, told himself silently “I’m going to marry that girl”. On our second date he arrived with 2 dozen red roses. 2 months later we moved in together. It was just like 2 comets streaking across the sky. In addition to being the worlds sweetest, most wonderful man who put me before anything else, it didn’t hurt that he was 6’4” and DDG. But that was beside the point. For 38 years he was the best reason to open my eyes every day. But fast moving Parkinson’s disease took him; I only had him on hospice for 6 days. His last words to me were “Do you have any idea how much I love you?” I doubt there’ll ever be another love in my life but after what I was privileged to have I can’t complain.

@anadiaz6919

7 ай бұрын

sweet jesus, is the most beautiful Heartbreaking Story ... im glad you both had the opportunity to experience this, Blessings like this are so rare...

@graceperez5620

7 ай бұрын

Ok .....that made me cry. You are a lucky woman to have had that man❤

@annp76

6 ай бұрын

You are so lucky....knowing that i will never have something like that on my life is so sad . ..😢😢😢

@Rockgirl-fq1gc

3 ай бұрын

Awwwww

@user-ki4nd2vd5c

11 күн бұрын

This is a common story I hear from people in long, happy marriages: The man knew right away the moment the couple met. I was there the night a friend of mine met her husband. I could tell he was smitten with her right away. He told the buddy he was with that night “I’m going to marry that girl.” They’re still together and that was 20 years ago.

My dad said to me during my teens (1970s) "never chase a man. It's a huge turn off".

@user-bp6tl4nm9y

11 күн бұрын

It's very true thanks Dad for that piece of advise

@user-sx7nq3mf8g

6 күн бұрын

V.True

I just read something that said, "if you get bit by a snake don't chase after it and figure out why. Walk away and get the poison out." Don't waste time on something or someone that isn't worth your time.

I feel it in my bones when a man isn’t that into me. Things just don’t add up: excuses, etc. My mother always told me that a man who is interested in you will climb a mountain to see you. If he isn’t interested, he will avoid that mountain.

@eileen9992

4 ай бұрын

My uncle would walk from one town to the next to see my aunt when they were dating in the 60s. It would take him 3 hours there...to walk...to see her and 3 hours back....they have been married for 50+ years

@ubanigoodness8244

Ай бұрын

Same as me,you have given me courage to stand firm on what I believe

I have always said this about men: Actions speak louder words.

@MichaelBrown-gf4ow

6 ай бұрын

You are right dear❤❤❤❤❤

When you are down and that man refuses to pick you up and he refuses to reach out his hand to give you assistance. That's a red flag

@c.jlightingc.r.e.w5974

25 күн бұрын

My dad told me not to.write boys letters and not to chase boys the new generation of men do not know how.to.get.a.lady they.want.the.lady to.chase them

1. Months go by and nothing changes 2. Each time this person has free time, you are never in their plans/never a priority 3. After every argument this person disappears for unknown amount of time 4. Doesn’t spend money on you/ gift you something 5. Treats you like an option/ being wishy-washy

@SleeplessinOC

5 ай бұрын

You put it so well !!

@simi.special

2 ай бұрын

Great conclusion, thanks! 😊👍🏼 I would like to add: "always finding excuses instead of searching for solutions" and "still focused on his/her ex"

@catherinenzungnjume7822

Ай бұрын

😢😢😢

@brendaleepierson2112

15 күн бұрын

thank yjo

So, after spending years on dating apps, I found men in their 30's just want to have fun, casual because they think that they're young still, and has a lot of time to think about in serious relationship. Now, men in their 40's they're just got out divorced, and they still feels guilty towards their kid(s) so they would prioritize the kid rather pursue a serious relationship. And lastly, men in their 50's, they just got out of decades of relationship, divorced, kids are all grown up, empty nester, and now they're saying it's Me Time, so they would live they're life like they're in their 20's and 30's, casual sex, drinking like in college, staying up all night at the bar, hitting up with women left and right, which they never had the experience because they married early and forced to be serious about life and be a provider. So, it's like looking for a unicorn nowadays. Men would always not serious about women and would always not into them unless they are doing it for their own benefits. And not because of LOVE.

@Yogis406

9 ай бұрын

I agree with what you say, I’m in my mid forties and I have had and am currently having the exact same experience you describe. I’m quite disappointed.

@TerryGuzmanMartinez

9 ай бұрын

😮😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😢😢 I don't want to be too pessimistic, I wonder what men think about women.

@tatouchkas3146

9 ай бұрын

Totally agree, unfortunately

@glindathegoodwitch7514

9 ай бұрын

Wow, it's like it's a losing battle no matter what age you are...😢

@lilg2300

9 ай бұрын

I think men are only serious in the moment they think about creating a family, in this case they commit. Doesn't mean they don't cheat. But they commit to a relationship. Other than that, I think most men prefer to be free as a bird and just enjoy life and sex with many different women. They don't want a commited relationship. I think we have to accept it for what it is.

When someone shows you who they are.....BELIEVE THEM! Getting the lesson.....Thanks Matt!! ❤️❤️

@amyjeanbelk7561

9 ай бұрын

Just watch out for the liars and narcissists😅

@dashiajames1882

8 ай бұрын

Definitely believe them, especially these dayz..!!

@RuffinaSmith

8 ай бұрын

P hi

@watamatafoyu

Ай бұрын

Oddly, many people misphrase this as "whenever somebody tells you who they are, believe them" 😆

1. He is slow to text or call you back. ✔ (wasn't at first, but is now) 2. He is only interested in meeting up if sex is involved. ❌ 3. He doesn't give you prime time in his calendar. ✔ 4. He dangles commitment but never follows through. ❌ 5. He downplays important moments because he's playing Mr. Cool. I'm not Mr Romantic etc. ✔ 6. He's only around when its convenient. ❌ 7. He is extremely uncomfortable when talking about his feelings. ❌ I don't know what to think about my relationship. I'm not happy clearly. He was perfect at start. But its like now that he has me, there's no more effort. I love him but I know from experience sometimes we love and still have to let them go. But at my age it's not easy to find someone. That's the hard part.

@tumuhimbisedianah6511

8 ай бұрын

👍

@zolabison2744

4 ай бұрын

You sound like me. So painful to let go

@rezotydnic

4 ай бұрын

@@zolabison2744 it truly is 😭

@shehnazjabeen6513

2 ай бұрын

I would actually say domt let him go but instead talk to him about this. Tell him how u feel. If he talks to you about feelings then its good u can talk to him how u feel about him not giving u prime time etc

@rezotydnic

2 ай бұрын

@shehnazjabeen6513 since I first commented, we have broken up. I have learned that I was used and he's been talking to women on dating sites the entire time. I did have a talk with him and he said his feelings just faded away. Well duh dumbass. When you don't put an effort in, don't give her any attention or time, what would you expect? Its not always unicorns, and fairy dust and butterflies. 7 yrs and I don't know how much of that time I was played. I do believe he had feelings and good intentions at the start. BUT he stole years from me and that's not right. He's a player. And too old to be playing games. Or just don't get in relationships if you want to play games. Play games. But with the right people.

How could I be freaking blind not to see. He shows not one, not two but a few of this signs. Thank you. I have been rationalizing his actions, giving excuses. I’m done.

When a man wants you to understand him and what he is saying to you. and understand his situation all the time. And he can't do the same for you. That's a red flag

I had him. He is everything described in this video, and I wasted 2 years of my life that I will never get back. But as soon as my eyes opened, I was out, and I ain't looking back.

@harrietthe-spy9240

8 ай бұрын

Happened to me too and countless other ladies. They are manipulators and only feel you just enough to get what THEY want. I'm glad to hear that you got out. You deserve way better.

@MichaelBrown-gf4ow

6 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@zimasambena7204

Ай бұрын

Wasted my whole 4 years😢😅

@brendaleepierson2112

15 күн бұрын

thank you , just6 spent 7 months , I put in 79 percent and he put in a little 21 percent , thank God I left that maid service ,

I would say I found the true meaning of a booty call recently, when a guy I thought was just being careful would message me, tell me he misses me thinking of me, tell me he wants to spend time with me, then go silent for three days, then video call me and ask if I’m up for a visit 😢💔 But now after watching this, I can see I was more invested in him, then he was with me

Been on few relationships before and I always beg for bare minimum. But now, someone came and I'm so happy because he value me. Everything I beg before to guys, he is giving it all even when I'm not saying it. So girls, value your self. Don't be afraid to start again. Who knows that ghosting or breakup really did saved you ❤️

@user-ht2vw8el1f

2 ай бұрын

May God help me with such a person like yours. Blessings

Hands up if you've ever come back to this video just to rewatch that section where Mat imitates guys who claim they're "not good at remembering things like that"... Absolute comedy gold!

I needed this video this week, so thank you! All of your videos are clear and easy to understand. I find in my dating experience that if a man that normally texts back frequently and quickly but starts to take longer and has a change in energy, that may be a tell tale sign (among others) that he's not that interested! Watch his actions and patterns ladies, save yourself the heartbreak!!!

Wow the guy I just stopped seeing in February was giving me all seven signs

@andyawe13

9 ай бұрын

Your intuition knew before you even realized

@harrietthe-spy9240

8 ай бұрын

Same. All 7. 😢

@brendaleepierson2112

15 күн бұрын

hi my name is Brenda too and I dated 7 months and I became his maid , ugggggggggggggggggg I finally saw the flashing blue lights

Indicators are 1) when just doesn't care to get to know much about me 2) He starts acting shady & phony 3) he starts saying certain lines like " I just need some space or can we just be friends. " Things of that nature...!! I really love this video it makes perfect sense..!! I'm single but I could really use this information if I need it. Thanks alot..🙂🙂

Forgetting my birthday is a deal breaker! Anytime I allowed this one get a pass its always led to a disaster and more regrets so now forget my birthday I forget him.

@eileentomchick3721

8 ай бұрын

My boyfriend forgot my birthday twice. He said he put it in his Google calendar but when he got a new phone it didn't transfer over. Then one month later on the same day he said he got his Google reminder. I'm thinking if I was important to him he wouldn't need a Google reminder, he would remember my birthday on his own. What do you think? But I feel childish breaking up with him because he forgot my birthday. I told him birthdays were very important to me. For his 50th birthday, I gave him a special party and we celebrated together. For my 50th, I got nothing. He couldn't even remember my special day. He tried to tell me he never remembers birthdays, not even his own son's. I'm confused because I have feelings for him but I don't want to live the rest of my life with someone who doesn't remember my birthday. What should I do? Or am I being selfish?

@dragonfish888

8 ай бұрын

The guy I was head over heels about forgot my birthday for 4 years straight, AND my birthday is on a holiday! He also only wants to meet up when we are alone. He cancels when we have plans to meet in public. I’m not in his prime time either. Matt is totally correct.

@sen431

8 ай бұрын

​@@dragonfish888dump him now sis. That chance give it to someone who deserves it

@janeydoe1403

2 ай бұрын

Wanting to be remembered and acknowledged by your beloved **on your birthday** is not being selfish. @@eileentomchick3721

@naimam3976

Ай бұрын

​@@eileentomchick3721you are not being selfish,if a man truly loves you and values you he wont forget your birthday. And the fact he got you nothing says it all.

The big one: He doesn’t acknowledge you on social media.. A guy who is really into you will scream from the mountain tops “I’m with HER!” All his friends and family know about you. They might even wish he’d shut up already about you. He makes it clear you’re the woman in his life on social media. If this isn’t happening, you should consider yourself still single.

That story about the Valentine’s Day surprise is so so beautiful and romantic Mat.

100% truth! I believe actions speak volumes in relationships.

@user-mm8ui7br2b

8 ай бұрын

❤

@MichaelBrown-gf4ow

6 ай бұрын

You are right❤❤❤❤❤❤

@Hope4humanity894

2 ай бұрын

Actions speak volumes

Good information to know Matt. Thank you for sharing this information!!

Thank you so much for sharing this video 👍

Tempo and Timing as an indicator. I like it! Silent Movie Test--also amazing!

Thank you Mat ❤this video come up just in right time for me ❤

You're absolutely right and true about this.

Such a great video and so true!!

This is one of the best videos that I have watched as it has made some sense of what went wrong in past relationships

Thank you mat. This really helps

Hi Mat, thank you for sharing, you are the best! 😉

Thank you for these advices and tips Sir 🙂 it helps alot

Thanks Mat, yep they're all true and I've had to learn most of them the hard way. I appreciate you so much, you're awesome and you crack me up lol. Thank you for helping us!

Just in right time when i need to hear this. It helps me move forward easily

Hi Mat. I was dating guy for 17 months. First year I was waiting for him to retire, so we could realy start seeing each other more often, getting to know one another better. Well, he liked to do things together by saying...we can do this....we could go there...., but never did. So I realized, he is not realy serious about what he was saying and we started growing apart. Now I am in a new relationship, which is just oposit. The guy is a man of his word. Everything is going well, and only time will tell. Thank you for your great advises. You are the best😊

I absolutely love how you speak about long distance relationships thank you ❤

Mat, thank you so much for all the content you put out. This video is fantastic, and I am extremely grateful for this specific video. This was timely, and so well put together. I appreciate what you do and am happy to share this with other ladies. ❤

Thank you for this advice ❤ your videos really help me

I like to establish a friendship first and really get to know who he really is. Once we pass that point, however, I won’t settle for half in half out .

Matt as always giving courage and wisdom to do the right and protect us from pain but relieved for the good one. 🙏🏽 🌷 💫 ❤

Just had 18 months of my time wasted. Pretty obvious when they "forget" your birthday and downplay it that they dont really bother with gifts or celebrations. Yup they would for the lady they really want. Always observe their actions and listen to your gut instincts. If it looks like a rat, it is a rat. Im on my own now but its better than being forgotten about and they expect you to be available to only them and fuss over them. Thanks Matt, this was a very helpful video. Love your channel. ❤

Thank you Matt ,because of this video I'm willing to give my heart a chance to love someone who deserves it. I'm meeting him half way .

Woow you are the best Have learnt alot from today's advice Thanks alot

the valentines day story is TOO CUTE OH MY GOSH

Thank you matt for your Amazing advices❤️❤️❤️✨✨

#7 JUST GAVE ME ALL THE CONFIRMATION I NEEDED!!!! #DEAD ON THANK Y🙏🏾U.

Love this! Great advice and spot ON!

Thank you Matt ❤

You're such a great inspiration for me mat Respect ❤❤❤

❤❤your advice is amazing

Great video!! Exactly what I needed. Words are CHEAP!

I love when you mention the slow burn. I prefer that route.

My measure of the intent,is whether he introduces you to family and friends, pays attention to your likes and dislikes,compatible interests.

@kathleenmolo4520

7 ай бұрын

And shows acts of affection.

Thank God I had to listen to this advice.

Excellent advice! Showing to my daughter who just broke up but beinga teen, really didn’t know why she felt rotten with him as it was her first real boyfriend. This will help give her the language and that her instincts were correct. The boy hit 6 off these on your list on high school level not adult dating. Your list applies to all levels. 😂 Thank you!

This was amazing! 💙

My ex of 4 is prime example.. right from the start, he hid me away, never took me out, he never liked talking about feelings, never celebrated small things with me.. just took.. sad to see after 4 years, he was never serious about me 😢

@ksref

7 ай бұрын

Had off /on with same type of guy. Decided life is too short and moved on

@MichaelBrown-gf4ow

6 ай бұрын

I'm really sorry about everything❤❤❤❤

@MichaelBrown-gf4ow

6 ай бұрын

​@@ksrefsorry for everything❤❤

I needed this thank you.

Actions speak for them, no words needed.

Men do ultimately what they WANT to do.

@terri5624

Ай бұрын

100% agree 😊

Thank you for this information that lead us to be hurt in the future, very helpful.

All off these signs are right on thank you so much I will take them to heart and let him go

Awww the story times of him dating his wife are always top tier, i love that for them... and the story was soo cute 🥲😍

I had been on 1 date with a guy and prior to our second date he told me I would get “bonus points” if I don’t overdress him like the first date. He said he felt insecure because I looked better than him… I was taken aback, I definitely don’t want to be dating an insecure guy. I broke it off before the second date 😅 Edit: We met on a dating app and all my pictures are of me looking nicely dressed (he knew what he was signing up for 😂 take me as I am or not at all), I am into vintage and elegant fashion and always want to dress how I want to be addressed. There’s absolutely no shame in that, I am confident so that may have intimidated him but his loss. I know the right man for me will embrace and be happy for my sense of style ❤

Thank u this was very informative

Another BRILLIANT VIDEO Mat!!! Thank you and much love to the whole fam.!

God bless you've really been an eye opener for me since I started listening to you

Thank you for sharing that beautiful heart warming love story!!! 😍😍😍

@MichaelBrown-gf4ow

6 ай бұрын

How are you doing?

You are the best Thank you.

Thank you so much for this video!

1) When you both have time off work and he asks you when you're together the week prior about your schedule but doesn't then call you to plan anything. That's an indicator he wants you to do all the work. 2) When he tells you "I don't think we work together well," then a week later calls you last minute to meet him and his friends somewhere 45 minutes away from your home. 3) When he straight up calls himself a confirmed bachelor who has nothing against marriage but has never thought about it for himself.

@JadedPyrite

2 ай бұрын

The first one. I have been trying to put words to what I was noticing for months, thank you!

So true !

Yup all the signs resonate for me with my situation....

@reverendrobin6731

9 ай бұрын

Ditto- I let him go - he didn’t elevate me. Took days to answer text- actions did not speak louder than words- check please!

Good information

You are the man. You speak the truth so simply when you say men do things that are important to them. Your wife is the luckiest woman in the world.

Thank you so much you are right on everything you Said and it's time for me to let go .I am hurting I waited all that time but it will get better

Thank you Mat Boggs, your video opened my eyes about a relationship I have been in where I thought the guy loved me so dearly but with time I have seen weird questions full of ifs and then ending up at the level of my parents don't approve interracial marriage and I am so sorry for causing you pain. I understand that if he was so serious that he would go out of his way and showcase me to his family to get them convinced with me with the purpose for them to know me and I to know them. Your video opened my eyes to let go of him and not to keep hope that one day he will come back to me and say I still love you, let me introduce you to my parents or my parents approve of you. After watching your video I felt relieved from the heartbreak I was going through and now I can let go of him, making room for the right person in the future.

🎉thank u so much for that advice

I'm from jamaica, and i love your contents.

I wish I know this before now, but it's not yet too late. Really learnt from these

Mat, I just started listening to you “few wks” ago & I have to give it to you, Bro’, you’re EXCELLENT at educating ppl on love relationships as take me for example, I’m turning 59 & have had v few bf’s & feel almost like a “virgin”...Hilarious but true! And listening to you is really getting me “game-face-ready” to get out into the world to meet my Soulmate...I feel as if I’m coming into a personal power that I’ve only for decades envisioned I’d achieve...BTW your stories of you & your beautiful Wife are so truly touching that they actually make me feel that I too am worthy of all that w/my Guy...Wow, if we could just get our “potential prospects” to listen to you too then we’d save a lot of time getting to the finish line👌Everyone needs a Mat in their pocket...& Thanks for the gift 🎁

Well explained and understood…

Spent 2 years with a man who already had a girlfriend at home. He claimed that he was single all the way through. His lies just grew and grew

@MichaelBrown-gf4ow

6 ай бұрын

Sorry for everything❤❤

@MichaelBrown-gf4ow

6 ай бұрын

some times,God allows us to meet some bad people in our life,so that when we find the good once,we will know how to value them ❤❤

@terri5624

Ай бұрын

That's so disappointing isn't it. I was the fill-in while he found who he really wanted. So dangles the carrot, all a crock. It's not a good feeling being played. I asked myself, what was real, what was phoney this whole time? Then that's a waste of time. I need to practice ... Just let them go! Their loss. Not mine. 😊

@terri5624

Ай бұрын

​@@MichaelBrown-gf4owabsolutely!! Always a lesson. People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. God has all this planned out for every single one of us. God bless ❤🙏

Sir you and your wife are very nice people. Stay blessed, healthy and happy together ✨

Guys are such work

Thank you for your advice. I am in a very similar situation, and I need to figure out if he is actually interested in me.

One sign I have noticed is that the men who don't care about me, will drive off before I have even gotten in my car, even at night.

That date night dress up thing was genius haha.

Thank you so much😢

That's a beautiful Valentines day surprise 🙂

I think the biggest red flag in the most recent, I'll call "situationship", instead of relationship, that I have gone through is that I could message until I was blue in the face. But unless I actually Facetimed him, I would probably go weeks not hearing from him. He would most always answer if I did Facetime. But rarely would he be the one to make that first move. As recently as last night he said to me that he does truiy love me. If that is the case then what is the issue? Hmmm....

Matt Wow you are a lot like me! You did a awesome job for initiating that wonderful valentine's date!! Im always the one that thinks this way.

I met this guy and he showing all the sign of a guy who is committed to me and would be the perfect partner yet I just struggle to just go with it 🙈

Thank you

If a man tells you " I am not looking for anything serious : BELIEVE HIM! I am a Black woman out her dating at 57 met a nice White guy , 64. And right from the jump he told me that he was not looking for anything serious. So OK I thought I would "one and done" him for sex (which I did/very disappointed in that too). So immediately told him that I met someone else and I would have to cease all contact with him. He was just using me for companionship and wonderful dates with a fine Black sister. Experience has taught me this folks: NEVER LET A MAN TELL YOU TWICE THAT HE DOES NOT WANT YOU!!!!!!!!!

One of Matt’s best

Thanks Matt you have answered the question that was on my mind I think I'm just going to block them I see I am wasting my time thanks again😊