"Once you leave the woman of your youth, you have left your God, you have left your path" Benjamin, can't agree more.

@user-ot5zz2qb7t

11 күн бұрын

How now. I was glad to see him GONE!! I have been so successful and happy. Marriage is not an accomplishment.

As a child of the second wife, I LOVE MY MOTHER. but I also must say that this is all true. I have seen the unnecessary suffering on all parties involved. I don't regret being born. I'm glad I'm here and will make the most of it. Proud of my parents, but I empathize with the first wife and what she had to go through.

@christineyeshu4927

2 жыл бұрын

everything is wrong even though am a victim of so called marriage and in dilema as we talk

@z.a.1237

Жыл бұрын

Even the second wife might suffer. Many men Marry a second when things dont work with the First ,so they demand from the second wife to solve all the issues he has eutb the First and give him all that he miss and listen to him when he has discussions wuth the First...etc .

@mii_lessons7962

11 ай бұрын

@@z.a.1237STORY

I have been educated.I could have fallen into a trap of being married off as a third wife.Ngai!Be blessed Benjamin

I needed this I have deleted someone's number right now am never the same again😂😂😂😂😂🙆

Marriage is a choice and it’s for two. When a third party comes in, it’s time to make another choice. I agree!

Any woman who comes in another's territories has no virtues.....so accurate

My dear you have helped me am quitting this marriage of 18 years this man will never change

@susanjosiah1001

3 жыл бұрын

Join the club!!!

@bellaolum9768

2 жыл бұрын

Hugs dear

😂 he started sleeping around, ignoring me and denying the cheating, I walked out magestically 6 months down the line & I don't regret

@missiel1144

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I have your strength

@naomifavor2887

2 жыл бұрын

@@missiel1144 sis it reaches a point you have to choose yourself over someone . it's not easy but it's possible all one need is information to come to senses .if re/ship is one way someone wrongs u repeatedly similar mistake over and over with no remorse that's emotional abuse choose to remain silent and die slowly or walk away for your dear life toxicity is not your destiny

Wow what a show...the fact that I watched the whole show...rewinding some parts like a movie just shows volume of how everything Zulu talks is sense. I wish our generation can discover this man of God...we wouldn't have to lower our standards staying in the wrong relationships or taking part in breaking people's relationships. We would respect boundaries and commitment 👏

I miss this laughter between Brawel and Zulu is so therapeutic. I love Lily too but I miss Brawel on your shows

Some messages are divine, truly so .... to listen to thrice over ... this is one of them .... generational wisdom .... priceless ... timeless....

Since l start following ur counselling and sessions have never been the same again l come across to when l was so confused and heartbroken with the situation especially living a toxic marriage for 18years and am healing everyday God bless you brother Zulu. Turned in awalys 🇶🇦🇶🇦🇰🇪

@justinamusyoka4986

3 жыл бұрын

Good to hear you are healing.

@christineyeshu4927

2 жыл бұрын

i dated a man for about 6 months and i was only 22 years and when asked whether he is married he answered he didnt have even a girl friend so i accepted we marry then a year later i was informed he is married till now i am very confused and in dilema please i would wish to hear your take or advise on that.

@monicamwaush5119

Жыл бұрын

@@christineyeshu4927 I am in that situation.right now I don't know where to start

The story of the guy who said he has no hands, he has given them to Christ. Word of the day.

Wow, Benjamin I love your ministry. The youth who will fail after listening to you. Hawawezi saidika.

@annwaithera1395

3 жыл бұрын

Kabisa

@preciousmaleka8230

3 жыл бұрын

True. I can not fail after listening to him

@ashawango7881

3 жыл бұрын

V true l wish l could listen to him in my youth

Any woman who agrees to come into the territory of another, has no virtue! 🎤

@linnag3117

Жыл бұрын

True but the men brainwashed the women to accept it by using the Old Testament

Have watch the all show and have concluded that zulu is an angel sent by God to save people perishing unknowingly,hii si kawaida

Mr chancellor,you are blessed. May God keep you and bless you forevermore,in Jesus name.

I have been married for 28years plus now Two years ago he got married to another woman on his visit to Africa Nigeria 🇳🇬 I later find out. And since then things fall Apart 😌. I told him that I will never divorce him... He wants me to meet the lady in question. But I told him that I am not interested . We have children including twins .and we are grandparents too. I am happy seeing this interview today It's really helpful. May God continue to bless you 🙏❤

@eileenwatt8283

2 жыл бұрын

Why are you torturing yourself and allow this man to control you while he's happily moved on you are stuck in hoping. You may not divorced him but he has divorced you..wake up! Lady you are blocking your blessings of a good man that deserves you. It's not the amount of years one is married but the quality of those years. I know people stay married for 50 years and live in the same house in separate wings. Come on lady, free yourself from that man. He's no longer yours. What do you hope to gain by so unkind to yourself. Put yourself first

@faithwachu8300

2 жыл бұрын

What value would meeting her add to your life he is the one benefiting from her and after all she is not your relative. Let him not disrespect you more by asking you yo meet her

Show us those photos😂 😂 Ur so full of wisdom. The Lord bless you and keep you

Wow....if marriage is not working...its not worth it. Alot of wisdom in your talk...God bless you

What Zulu says is very true. I have seen this in action. Women heal and move on but for men, time does tell and they never ever leave a legacy.

Im speechless the man of God stay blessed and keep on adding value to our lives by not compromising the true

More grace, Mr. Benjamin. I like the way you explained the constituency theory. You are the real deal on this show. Keep moving

Am soo happy to hear from you. I have been staying with my boyfriend for 5yrs not blessed with kids yet but he got another girl pregnant now they are having two babies.am yet to leave him thank you.i can not settle for less

Mr. Zulu you are God sent, Your show has changed my life

I love that 🥰 " God created Adam and Eve" not Adam, Eve and Monica 😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣 ... Michael,what are you doing with my daughter?

KZread recommended you on the Oh Men show I had to go livestream You’re an inspiration

Thanks BZ I made decision of moving out of toxic relationship just because of your advice.God bless you.

God bless you Benjamin. You are speaking the whole truth, I understand what you are saying.

Very true I support you 💯 Zulu full of wisdom Gd bless you

Perfect topic...Always making sense....

Hi Benjamin yani your shows have changed my life 360 degrees... Kindly speak about friends code. 1.e...if a girl is allowed to date or marry her best friends exe boyfriend.....or if a man is allowed to date or marry his best friends exe girl friend

Marriage is only worth it when it's working.

@makaveli5254

3 жыл бұрын

I like your name

@rosewaithaka3428

2 жыл бұрын

I am helped

Mr. Honourable men! I request God to permit my words to have life in you! May you prosper beyond all men in the world! To your fifth generation sir!

Good show. Am glad you have your own show congratulations. The topic is awesome and full of wisdom

Mr. Benjamin makes me laugh while learning

Zulu always on point, 👌👌👌

Thank you Mr. Benjamin. I really enjoyed your show.

Worth sharing to reach many and transform many lives

I wish i got chance to hear this before. Zulu u are appreciated

Wow!!! I totally relate and tap into your wisdom.

Watching from zambia

Benjamin..you are just a blessing to humanity..may God richly bless your heart desires...Am empowered by your teaching.

Love is possessive, exclusive and jealous 😅 we learn everyday 😅

Zulu full of wisdom # always on point

"Are u on aphrodisiacs?" 😂😂😂

So educative I can't be jeopardized for eternity.Some guys r high flying career wise but socially disconnected am relating to this talk

I am laughing so had here. Your show is very educative ad touching. You are right Mr. Benjamin. Women should have self confidence and depend on a side man .

wow...nyc one @Zulu ....ur doing a great job

This thing happened to me, am there physical, but emotional am not, then he used to ask me, mbona hunipendi😔😔i told him, after cheating on me thrice 😰i forgave you, but you dont see, i had to leave, no any importance of staying with the person, once you see him the heart yells💔💔😭

@willhector9478

3 жыл бұрын

🤔🤣🤣🤣 the heart yells

@anaksa4412

3 жыл бұрын

@@willhector9478 Yeah 😔😔😔depression is real

@joanmiksabel3598

3 жыл бұрын

Thrice? You are an angel.

@anaksa4412

3 жыл бұрын

@@joanmiksabel3598 imgn 😔but he used to see me lyk a pit trash😰

@naomifavor2887

3 жыл бұрын

Me too ran away

Perfectly on point

Nothing but the truth. Thank you Benjamin. This is so educative

I really love your shows.............. You're full of wisdom,and wise keep it up Benjamin

Benjamin. You always speak wisdom😎

Gosh I love Mr Zulu

Thank you for the advice 👌

This is a deep conversation and so important!

Tuned from Mombasa

Mr. Zulu be blessed. Lesson learned

Profoundly insightful

May God bless you and increase your wisdom.

Jamal roho safi apitie hapa tafadhali

Wow Zulu...you've proved me right. It happened to me after 24yrs of marriage he decided to bring in a young girl with a child into our marital hse. I just opted out and am quite happy now

@carolinegakii3496

3 жыл бұрын

Damn, it is well many hugs💖

@janemburu6929

3 жыл бұрын

@@carolinegakii3496 🙏

Thank you for advice Benjamin Zulu.

Love is possessive, exclusive and jealous. My take home.

Dad left my mother, and us 3 children..with all the money and wealth..we are now grown and thriving...i feel sad and sorry for him

@mercynjeri4603

9 ай бұрын

Where did he go please

Wow pure truth

I would like to also see men comment. Men and women let's try to avoid emotional abuse. You may or not marry a second wife but remember that there is 'you' in relationships/marriages

This lesson is powerful

Good piece

Mr. Benjamin is the truth! 💯

This must be aired in tuko talks

Great lessons

I RESPECT men who Value their wives & wear their rings… I wish more Kenyan men starting with Politicians & Pastors would keep their rings ON… It is a point of Communication to the public at large & Commitment to One’s Relationship & Vows to their partner/spouse!! Thank you Benjamin for being an Example 👍🏽👍🏽

@claudianoria3676

2 жыл бұрын

They cheat with ring on their finger,the heart,love is a thing of heart u can't fake it

Benjamin is so wise. Indeed God is a just judge.

Wow.. I wish I could meet you Benjamin..

Thank you

great zulu tell them.

Well said.

When you win the vote, you develop the constituency

Like your show. Where is your office, i want to go see you? I think what i want to ask was not covered here.

When the small head on any man's sexual organ, takes over the thinking and reasoning function from the main head above the neck, rational decision making evaporates.

@dorineodhiambo9040

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

Legalising his lack of self control when you allow him to marry the mistress. Word

Am glad 😊that today I got answers to some of the questions which have been giving me headache.

@gloriatoo22

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@elizabethkhisa2503

2 жыл бұрын

Me to

@elizabethkhisa2503

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@Hermoneytactics2023

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@esthermbugua7231

Жыл бұрын

Same here

I love this man

so powerful, you have a responsiblility to society , to the world, we have lost presidents. I could listen to him all day in between the giggling !

Absolutely 👌

The bible itself is very clear and acts as a guidance..... Israel and palestians ( Sarah Isaac mother and the maid Ishmael mother) peace kaput.....

@linnag3117

Жыл бұрын

True it’s funny how they twisted it and miss the point especially here in America

Jamal kuja upate usaidizi hapa, pieces of advice

Wacha wewe..God would have removed 2 ribs 😂😂😂😂

Hallo to u guys,,am listening now

Poligamy is hectic, I have never seen anything good come out of it. It has ruined my family and only children suffer especially when you are from the first family 😢 I would write a book 📖

Looking for shortcut 🤣

i love you BZ

Point noted [red pepper] are very dangerous

Jamal and Amber wako wapi waskize hii

What of men who have baby mama when he pursues you are you like second we don't want to be naive to be the second wife?

Truth

I'm truly inspired sir

I have two bt they were all good @Zulu

@jedytashaNewbeginnings

2 жыл бұрын

How did you manage with the two

@mercyawuorswetah9316

4 ай бұрын

Just a matter of time.