Sometimes I wish you were born earlier to give us this teachings and words of wisdom when we were younger,but hey I remind myself that my children will never make the mistakes we did by getting the nuggets through you

SA will become a better place through ur teachings. Transformation is taking place

May God give me Grace and courage to walk away from this marriage before he kills me with depression...

@bellaolum9768

2 жыл бұрын

Hugs

@josephineo8546

2 жыл бұрын

Sending you love. Sending you the will, the courage and strength to leave.

Benjamin Zulu is a gem!!! "Chicken only fly when they are going to sleep" 🙌🙌🙌

I thank God I left that silent enemy. Immediately doors started opening, and right now I feel am headed to the right direction

He is like a prophet. He is saying nothing but the truth.🎉

Another golden rule/s!!! This show is very thing. The jokes always get me, the way they so relatable. Love from South Africa

Everyday I hv to learn something new from Benjamin Zulu and Bramwel thank you guys

Marriage is not a must...a bad marriage can make you bitter,fill you with hate,pain,no trust,doubts everywhere,I was once there,thank God I moved,two years now and I am happy and anytime I listen to zulu shows I don't intend to date ..marriage is not a must...

The worst mistake you can make is marrying a person because of pregnancy..this is the point where the rain starts pouring..

@bellaolum9768

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@salmanh9778

2 жыл бұрын

So very true 😢😢🥺

I love your out fits guys you blend very well. Thanks too for your advice

This is a beautiful topic Benjamin & Bramwell 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽You never pick-up who the enemy is, instead you end up pushing the wrong people away from your life like ur family or good friends. Meanwhile the enemy is right next to you…

@leahwaweru7056

2 жыл бұрын

q

Wow. This is powerful and so true too.

this is a very good topic for me I will marry a partner who does not kill my dreams. My parents tried. imagine a life partner

@angecynthia347

Жыл бұрын

My mom is going through all kinds of pain,,for me having woken up with no babies or ties to a narcissist, building my business you can not imagine the pain she is going through...none in my family is talking to me

Very Enlightening thanks

So real, facts! We will never go wrong again.

Wonderful 👍,Noted You have touched my heart.God bless you

Wow...i love everything about your teachings.God bless you guys

Wow very interesting topic, thanks Mr Zulu

This man (Benjamin Nzulu is full of wisdom.....listening to your talks n advices has been a blessing in my life may God bless more n more to continue educating us .....I wd sacrifice my time just to listen to you

@eunicemusyoki3489

2 жыл бұрын

Nzulu?,is he a Kamba?

Wau very powerful, can't wait for my healing after being blind for a very long time

i find that introverts sometimes shy away from over-populating their lives with unnecessary people... living a life of entertaining friends when newly married or even developing a relationship can nip its progress in the bud. Furthermore,not many individuals have the maturity of bng in a marriage and seperating issues&topics to discuss with friends. Even worse when its unmarried friends. The integrity of a marriage can soon be challenged because of such relationships. We must be careful of entering into a new phase of our lives but then still wanting to hold onto our old lives. What others may view as "isolation"-may simply be a time where two people start a journey together&develop into their respective roles without external influences. The right friends will understand this&will gv space without bitterness or the hurling of insults. And the right friends will always be ur friend-even if u talk twice or three times every few mnths. They r happy 4 u,support u evn wen u r apart.

Well said Zulu only if man could understand the fact that women do not want to be loved but to be cared for ie. support during hectic moments when on maternity and naturting kids

Benjamin will scare you straight 😂

This topic is everything 🙌

If I had not lived this I would not have believed that such a spouse exists. Ever !!!! Thank God for you Benjamin

Thanks Benjamin for opening our eyes and enriching our brains i now have a changed view on how i see things thanks Wish u God's blessings.

Powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful powerful forever grateful

Very true Benjamin, your partner can be envious of you

Thank u soo soo much for this wisdom l really appretiate

Am encouraged this is very true 👍✔

Beautiful topic

I have three kids, my ex husband was never there when I needed him,he threatened my life, Zulu you are right,God bless you,

@zainabmwinyi7116

2 жыл бұрын

Not alone dia.....same situation

Benjamin Zulu aki si thanks for these advices

blessings upon you guys. @ Benjamin zulu and team.

Thank you Mr Zulu for letting us know all the signs we are married to a silent enemy 👍. I just wish people who are trapped in prison called marriage could watch this!! And I can bet,some of them saw red flags 🚩🚩 during courtship but thought they would change them after marriage. A lot of women are still in their marriage for wrong reason, which is can't leave because of my kids. Little do they know,they can die of heartattack and their kids will be ophans. Nothing happens in church !!!!!!!

It is easier to leave the marriage than leave the earth

@la_julz

11 ай бұрын

Dying of laughter 😂😂😂

I love you Benjamin you are my life couch and mentor.

You can never shape a human bieng 👆🏼👆🏼

Thank you bro

PROFOUND!

Pay attention to how people sleep when you can't sleep.....

hi watching from manchester🇧🇲🇧🇲🇧🇲🇧🇲

This is best message ever to me

Yes am here

A open enemy you can deal with but a hidden enemy you can't beat them

Greet topic

Sometimes the window is too narrow for consultations! Nice.

Rael chacha .... Benjamin i have stayed in this Narcissists life for 30 now that iam 50 there is nothing i can do about it but it has really tomented our children i dont know how to help them

You people imagine the shock of this life, finding this silent enemy to be your mother? It has been a year of excruciating pain everyday,in the middle of the night..trauma of looking back on the life I lived has been real...

I have a question my guy’s situation is a little different instead he has withdrawn from Everyone more especially his friends and I’m the one encouraging him to have social life but he gets angry more when I do that, he states that he doesn’t need them yet his job need network of people. I’m confused by these could you elaborate please.

Wow 👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌

So true, my own mother is a covert narcissist. Very disagreeable in character, high conflict - she's in church every week.

@angecynthia347

Жыл бұрын

She elienated me from the society..but now the society knows her true colors also😂😂😂

Too dangerous Zulu. This is exactly what happened in my life

This is my situation what is the best advice

My life in one video

True

Point taken

Coz of these shows i stopped blaming my self for some instances.

Need personal advice.any contact please

Very sad. Most domestic murders result from this. You can't change them and you can't move out. Breaking point arrives sooner or later. Thank you for the insight.

Benja u r wise,I have a husband iam more educated than,but he has that silent damage though I have discovered it earlier

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Benjamin what if your husband left you with a kid for woman,only to appear after nine years and very sorry ,is it proper to take him back?

@sarahnjeri105

2 жыл бұрын

Yes take him back . He will make you pregnant again and leave you again . You seem to enjoy dancing with the devil . He is back to ruin your life 👿

@belindaosoro3215

2 жыл бұрын

He's back to find out if you understood the first lesson... What have you been up to while he was away for 9 years. We look at patterns not words. Be warned. Next time you may not be alive to tell any story. People evolve... You should have.

@joynyambs5902

2 жыл бұрын

He is back to check whether you are still a fool

@queenlyne2363

2 жыл бұрын

@@sarahnjeri105 thank you.

@bridgetjones6819

2 жыл бұрын

Over the nine years, what have you being doing with your life? 9 years is a long time. I wouldn’t even bother thinking about what to do.

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Unfortunately I have no outsider that I can blame any of these...my father,and both brothers are men in my life who would sleep peacefully no matter what would be going on to anyone( they could be possessing psychopathy).. My mother has tormented me and tried to steal my life and identity to feel alive or be human...i have to grow up and take responsibilities,, I will not go ahead to choose a man of the same character as my father, then go ahead to cry? Why??? Now I am mature these men have thought me exactly what pedophilia,psychopathy looks like in normal day life...i know to pick the opposite character,, the equation remains that I have to now live my life very deliberate not to pick the Jezebel spirit that is soo deep in my mother( I have her blood, I can easily be her)...my family has thought me a very valuable lesson in this life I am wise at such a young age 25 years old.

Waaah if I follow all this rules a m left single aki the person am dating is a narcissist worst than all what zulu is saying,so sad

@knowledgeonnarcissisim5210

2 жыл бұрын

Better be single

@dorcaswambui9590

2 жыл бұрын

Gladys, please please... Let it die a natural death.... Don't enter into marriage with such. You will leave to regret. Take blind Faith and drop him, slowly or asap. Marry right or don't marry.!!

@gwm4333

Жыл бұрын

Run for your life.

Avoid to marry hope marry the now reality 🙏