Discipline is the highest form of self love..woow I love this

I like how Benjamin put facts straight forward and truthfully.no sugar coating.very inspiring.Thank you.you are an eye opener.

Watching from the UK, love this 😂

I'm learning a lot from Ben Zulu🔥🔥..... Young ladies.....listeeeeeeen. Greetings from Ghana🇬🇭

Mr Benjamin, you always make me laugh. Your teaching are exciting to watch.🙏🏼🤣

Benjamin Zulu, You are truly a King. Continue to inspire, educate, provoke, activate and love us the way a true King and Ambassador to The King of Kings should do. EXCELLENT Job.

Thank you Benjamin. Always on point. God bless you.

Finance before romance..you nailed it Coach

I like the manner Benjamin begins the conversation."Hey,...and he continues the conversation ...😂😊😊😊

A bitter pill to swallow. Indeed an eye opener.

@marykiio304

2 жыл бұрын

Same here 😊

"Love has its own cost" this has influenced my life decisions big time

This guy is real....Thank you for speaking the truth. RESPECT!

Don't judge me is what people use to not being held accountable for their actions.

I love this advice....thank you so much

Life requires ability to adjust.. Thank u for this show.

Wisdom Personified.Thank you Sir

You are so right. I wish we can listen

That's the reason I love listening to him

The second wives funds themselves 🤣🤣🤣🤣crazy

Money is more loyal than people 😂😂😂🙌🙌🙌

@marykiio304

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂🙌

Money is more loyal than people😔this is so deep

Hi Benjamin, thanks for the great advice, watching from Uganda

Fornication is forbidden in all religion

Ayi 👏👏👏👏👏👏I thank you so much. No 1 Wisdom

🙏🙏🙏I love your teachings.

The Bible is our manual. Waaa thanks gusys

I love this 😇👌you are the best,,you always tell the naked truth

LOVED IT, PURE WISDOM.

@benardettemuthama6046

3 жыл бұрын

The young generation....wisdom is here,get it,or leave it....Benjamin Zulu..thankyou.

Soo many lossess irredimable where you find the kihindi one...ooh God of heaven have mercy

I am happy so many women are learning these lessons. They are true. I am looking forward to a talk to those men who leaves their family to start another. We need to teach both for a balanced society. My own family was polygamous. At some point, I saw how my dad would miss food because my mothers were expecting him to eat from the other home... Men need to learn as well.

@rosendungu8051

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@nelaswanjiru1209

2 жыл бұрын

@ Elizabeh Ngumbi.You have said it as it is.

@winnieachieng4256

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

Thank you so much uncle zee

Good teaching bro

Love is expensive,being the other women is valueless its very true. being ur own boss or having your own money is the best feeling.

@lisakinuthia9859

3 жыл бұрын

well said

@marykiio304

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true 👍👍

What a wake up call 🔥🔥🔥

There is nothing casual about sex 🙌🏾

Thank you so much

Wow life requires ability to live....got that right 👍👍 thanks.... Amen 🙏🙏

That laugh🤣🤣🤣

Being a side chick or a second wife its shameful it's no joke,thou the society shud stop being too judgemental about it, some find themselves in either one them not by their own wish;being single it's no joke where you have to relate with all this category of married en not married men their are genius men who are smart en will try to manipulate you in every way en if you are not strong enough you will find your self being trapped ;Their is a man who will request to merge in a certain business only to realize he was trying to win you .......

@funkejames7482

3 жыл бұрын

What if first wife cheated in marriage they partways but the guy want to marry again....is it shameful to

@wangui9908

3 жыл бұрын

@@funkejames7482 unless you hear the two sides of the story,,,, you cannever be sure the man was the victim... Also, he should have devorced already before thinking of going back to the dating life... He needs to have healed emotionally too.

@funkejames7482

3 жыл бұрын

@@wangui9908 wow wise words thank you dear

@bambibambi1982

Жыл бұрын

I am married to a divorced man...5yrs now and he is the best. Glad he is not a deadbeat Daddy despite being divorced the mother, he takes care of her kids. My daughter is lucky to have him as her Daddy ❤.

kweli kabisa Zulu.

Well said,

Wisdom right there

As a man I agree only to the point of being honest with your woman from the get go and tell her that you are polygamous and she can take it or leave it. The problem is the lack of honesty.

@marykiio304

2 жыл бұрын

True

Live a life you can afford, and nobody will ever seduce you away from your truth and your destiny.

@bravacess4995

3 жыл бұрын

Tina this is powerful

@edithmalel6807

2 жыл бұрын

true

@marykiio304

2 жыл бұрын

Sure 👌💯

@janewafula2312

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent.

@joymutheu7737

Жыл бұрын

❣️yessss

these men 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣i just like your openness n calling a fork a fork

This is so True

Humbled

The price of being the other woman is to be hidden like cocaine 🤣what a mess.

@marykiio304

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣😂

@kekesepheka4877

Жыл бұрын

And soon the addiction escalates and you can no longer hid it🤔

Sorry I reached my house late I have missed

It is not a about love,it's about acquisition of material wealth and finances.

@beautymellz5600

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with this comment

@sly2549

2 жыл бұрын

Very true

@marykiio304

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed 💯

Amen

You can say that again and louder. That's the gospel I will preach to my fellow ladies who choose to devalue themselves to be the other woman. The bible calls them concubines and were not supposed to inherit the man.

Who keeps on shouting in the background at 18:04?🤦‍♀️

Benjamin this happed to me after 20 years married. My husband got a woman pregnant behind my back i ask him for dirvoce and dinied me thank to tell the truth.

🤔thankyou zulu🤗

Wow what a topic and this is a fashion in Zulu men in these days. A man will take a woman because you did not bear children which is a painful situation a man will be very rude to you, call you with many names, wow God bless you my brother

Money is loyal than people

A word is enough for the wise

I like your teaching but what Idont understand why God allowed Jacob to have 2wives and Solomon more wives God was he not watching

@beatricemisita6329

2 жыл бұрын

Have you read about the consequences they faced for that?

@annettemunyiotieno6672

2 жыл бұрын

@@beatricemisita6329 And the scheming, plotting and underground machinations that went on? Competitions even between sisters Leah & Rachel? It was torture.

@nelaswanjiru1209

2 жыл бұрын

N they dare start you tube channels.May Jehova have mercy.😢😢😢

@carolmakena3929

Жыл бұрын

@@annettemunyiotieno6672 .True. Sad to see that people only read surface level and not farther hence quick to judge due to ignorance.

@janemakori1570

Жыл бұрын

😊​@@beatricemisita6329😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

God is never with the second wife. Zulu always on.point. Tell them!!

@everlynewere7154

3 жыл бұрын

Thank's slot the point mistaken be blessed .

@rosendungu8051

2 жыл бұрын

This is not true. Vashti and Queen Esther.

@Vv-fl2rm

2 жыл бұрын

They way you all twist God to ease your own bitterness 😂🤣😂 did God tell you that himself? Or he appointed you his deputy to tell the world who he is with and who he has abandoned 😂😂

@wamuthamaki5432

2 жыл бұрын

@@Vv-fl2rm you sound like the other woman learn and unlearn until you become the best version of yourself if only you knew what the future holds for you

@wamuthamaki5432

2 жыл бұрын

They will fight you till morning

If women normalized being independent and valued themselves, we will not be having "the other women and the society is judgemental" issues

Money is more royal than people

👁👂👍

Money first

@lindseyedwards8297

2 жыл бұрын

The Lord God allowed certain things before the the Grace of Christ, yet all of those of the old testament with wives paid penalties. If you study deeper you'll see.. I am black and I know that most black Men and Women lust and are trapped in Fornication and Adultery.

They are called nyumba ndogo that is what am going through l curse her everyday shetani in my bedroom python. JESUS NAME.

@tinachristine4573

3 жыл бұрын

Stop dealing with them and free yourself from the mess. It's painful but some situations need an exit door so that you can find your own peace.

@cikuciku2355

3 жыл бұрын

No need of cursing her while you remain stagnant there....Just move on with your life.....

@kaylynnjoki9376

3 жыл бұрын

God is got you and not against you. Your end shall be beautiful

@cikuciku2355

3 жыл бұрын

The secret of such men who have "nyumba ndogo" like for your case you busy cursing the other woman while your man is busy with the other woman at the same time he knows you can't go anywhere as in you can't do without him so he will continue sticking with her but the moment you will decide to move out and move forward and disconnect yourself from him,,he will be shocked for a moment cause you will no longer be dependent on him... Anyway don't just seat there while dropping curse words to the other woman move on and GOD will see you through

@tabithakahoi8880

3 жыл бұрын

Just ask God for a way to move on.But be strong beautiful things are coming.

So its low self esteem

Samidoh

Hahaaaaa looking like a crisis. I have seen them . Let them bare the shit

You are not a goat😂😂

one day i will slap a married man!!!!😭😭😭😭😭

Benjamin, let's get God out of this. He allowed Queen Esther to come second to Queen Vashti.

@ritagicheru5186

2 жыл бұрын

After Queen Vashti was divorced

@ellenthwala6972

2 жыл бұрын

Queen Vashti and Esther is the story for another day , u've got it all wrong .

@bellaolum9768

2 жыл бұрын

The king divorced Queen Vashti before marrying Esther

@marywaruguru9093

2 жыл бұрын

How I wish I met you at 18......

@beautymellz5600

2 жыл бұрын

Rose is a low value kinda woman. You seem to be someone who settles for anything