I am so challenged by this message. Often I prayed for a godly woman so that we can grow together, point eachother closer to the Lord but now I realise that I am not even qualified to even think about dating and marriage. Gosh I'm so stupid. But I thank the lord because i often pray about unknown sins to be exposed. I am a slothful 25yr old (soon to be 26) boy not worthy to even think about dating. This message is gold because it shows me how unqualified I really am.

@JzusLuvzU

9 ай бұрын

Don’t be discouraged about your present situation, oh if we were to see how much needs to change in us, I believe we would shrivel up and die. But brother take courage of the fact that your eyes are being opened and that one day this truth of being a man shall be true in you. Walk in the Spirit, so you don’t gratify the desires of the flesh 5:16

@slightlyup3485

9 ай бұрын

Young man. Don't be discouraged by the realization of where you actually stand in the sight of God. Many many people never come to this realization. Sing praises to God that you see what's really important now. You are being called by the Lord to serve Him in a mighty way and I know this because truth has been revealed to you by the Spirit of God. Get in the bible.. study God's Word. Cultivate a strong relationship with Jesus and then ask God what He wants you to do with the rest of your life to glorify Him. May God bless you and your family.

@jesusfollower9

9 ай бұрын

Thank you both. I'm so pleased he had revealed this to me. If ita the Lords will for me to be a husband and father one day then great. If not, then it's the Lords will and my will be done but his. Thank you for your words. May God bless your and your families ❤️

@alangwhiteTheBoss

9 ай бұрын

Don’t get married bro. I’m Christian and have friends who are pastors who were much more spiritual than me and got divorced rape. Don’t be a sïmp

@cathyengle6415

9 ай бұрын

Prayers for you. May God bless you.

I married at 21. We went from paying for college, to getting paid to go to college because we were married. Now we are both teachers with schedules and holidays in agreement. We get to spend so much more time together than most people do. Yesterday August 17 was out 21st anniversary. We met in Spanish class when we were high school. I met her when I was 17. We didn't date. We went to church. Her family was almost always around. God blessed me to marry a virgin. He helped me to also protect her virginity until we married. I never realized until now how blessed our beginning was. This message is all truth.

@3arhodes

9 ай бұрын

I wish or can't wait to finally have a Godly husband.

@CD-vb9fi

9 ай бұрын

@@3arhodes To receive... one must work for it. God is big on "reaping what you sow"... if you wish for a Godly husband then you must be Godly wife material. God Bless and best of wishes... it will be very rewarding to achieve it. The children are truly gifts from God... be sure to love them dearly... I assure you... they are watching your every move and so is God.

@bradleywelch9290

9 ай бұрын

This is truly a gem. I'm 24 and saving my virginity until after marriage. I've always hoped and still am hoping and praying to find a woman that shares the same value and restraint as I. I know the chances of finding another virgin in 2023 is low based on how much of a hypersexualized society we live in now, so I'm not going to turn down a Godly woman that isn't one. Never the less, I will still remain hopeful and put my trust on the lord lol.

@YesYourRight

9 ай бұрын

Damn Josh you pimp your wife out to the work force. Way to go pippin

@MN-ub7gl

9 ай бұрын

Proverbs 31….

I am 42, never been married, no children, and i am glad because I've never heard of this kind of beautiful guidance and direction before. It's never too late to walk out the principles of God. God bless you all that this word doesn't fall on death ears.

@Iamfga

3 ай бұрын

Amen brother 🛐❤️‍🔥

Sitting in my living room alone listening to this with tears running down my face. I'm 36 yrs old.

@3arhodes

9 ай бұрын

Yeah me too and we're the same age.

@Beatzotto

9 ай бұрын

God is great and is good. We must give up worldly men who act tough, act wise but are not God fearing. May the Lord Jesus Christ transform your heart. May you delight daily in His almighty graceful merciful presence and be renewed in His love. Open up to the Holy spirit, pray and ask to be reformed, to change, to let go of bad influences, places, people, habits, thoughts, ways. Writing this to myself too, as a man who God is calling not to be removed from the world, but to be protected from evil. Let us know the creator's will, let us meditate, study, contemplate on His word

@Matthew_6.33

8 ай бұрын

Tears of regret and self-pity? Won't change a thing in your life, if you stay like that! "And when he came to himself, he said ...I will arise and go to my father... And he arose, and came to his father." - Luke 15 Let me highly suggest you to delete the electro music you listen to, delete the online games you play, delete the movies you watch. If you don't change your interests radically, your life will keep going down the drain. "And many that believed came, and confessed, and shewed their deeds. Many of them also which used curious arts brought their books together, and burned them before all men: and they counted the price of them, and found it fifty thousand pieces of silver." - Acts 19:18.19 Dedicate your life to Jesus Christ! If you ain't willing to burn and cut your selfish life style, you will keep spinning in circles. Christ is the key. Focus on Him, cause He also provides strengt and joy. He is the key for a dedicated and joyful life. "But what things were gain to me, those I counted loss for Christ. Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ.. " - Philippians 3:7.8

@maurice2014

7 ай бұрын

I’m not crying but I feel this

Just got baptized 4/7/24 at the age of 32. I realized I didn’t stand a chance in this world with the parents I had and their lawlessness. But with God all things are possible. I wish I had a father like this and I do now in God. Knowing the laws are the main ingredients to a good life, let us not pass on it. ❤

@krio1169

Ай бұрын

me too March 30 2024

@joshuacooperseo

Ай бұрын

This is a blessing 💯🤝

@kerrydaley4150

29 күн бұрын

Friend great to hear that you were baptised in water. You now need the Holy Spirit. Pauk asked This question to Johns disciples..." have you received the Holy Ghost since you believed...the gollowing read is your blueprint to follow. Acts 19 vs 1 - 8 Acts 2 vs 1- 4, 33, 37 - 39 Fair well Kerry

@dominiquemci.5499

8 күн бұрын

@@truthseekermd593 The holy spirt is a gift that you get once you choose to walk this path. It’s to help teach and to help you remember. You did the first step, inquiring about it, understanding that it comes with our acceptance; it’s part of our inheritance. Now the fun part open your bible and start reading, pray prior ( be humble, loving, and eager to learn) so that way your intentions are set. Then allow for the words to come to life. Reach back out when you start to have your experiences. 🫶🏾🥰 I’m so excited for you 😇

@krio1169

8 күн бұрын

no lie I feel the same way but don't make that discourage you it's almost like when you first learn how to ride a bike with your parent at first you feel their hands and before you notice it they let go but it doesn't mean that they're not still with you it's your time to just just trust and believe what they showed you should give you some type of stability if that makes sense blessed God be with you

I can truly say, God has blessed my daughter with such a man; has a good job. He loves and serves and worships and is obedient to God. Also loves, respects my daughter. Thank You Jesus

@karenrollins9578

7 ай бұрын

Praise God 😊❤

@benliftin4awhile

Ай бұрын

Still listed the job first 😂😂 we really have been warped by society. I’m very glad for you! God bless!

A real man is one who loves Jesus Christ with all his heart, mind and soul. He will confess this truth to the world and not be ashamed.

@gorthygara8399

9 ай бұрын

Oh, that is what is so important to me a man who follows and obeys Jesus is a man to be honoured. This whole world lacks any truth of who our God Almighty is.

@Greatfalls64

9 ай бұрын

@@gorthygara8399 Jesus Christ is God. If you don't know and believe that then I feel sorry for you. I pray God will bless you and show you the truth.

@AmarjeetSingh-zi4vn

9 ай бұрын

Can you please explain the difference between heart, mind, & soul?

@Greatfalls64

9 ай бұрын

@@AmarjeetSingh-zi4vn No I can't. I understand what God is talking about but I'm not a theologian and can't explain the difference. You need to ask God to give you wisdom, insight, discernment and understanding. The Tongue Is a Fire 3 Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we will incur a [a]stricter judgment. 2 For we all stumble in many ways. If anyone does not stumble in [b]what he says, he is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body as well. 3 Now if we put the bits into the horses’ mouths so that they will obey us, we direct their entire body as well. 4 Look at the ships also, though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, are still directed by a very small rudder wherever the inclination of the pilot desires. 5 So also the tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things. See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire! 6 And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course of our [c]life, and is set on fire by]hell. 7 For every [e]species of beasts and birds, of reptiles and creatures of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by the human [f]race. 8 But no one can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil and full of deadly poison. 9 With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the likeness of God; 10 from the same mouth come both blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be this way. 11 Does a fountain send out from the same opening both [g]fresh and bitter water? 12 Can a fig tree, my brethren, produce olives, or a vine produce figs? Nor can salt water produce fresh. Wisdom from Above 13 Who among you is wise and understanding? Let him show by his good behavior his deeds in the gentleness of wisdom. 14 But if you have bitter jealousy and [i]selfish ambition in your heart, do not be arrogant and so lie against the truth. 15 This wisdom is not that which comes down from above, but is earthly, natural, demonic. 16 For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, [l]there is disorder and every evil thing. 17 But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy. 18 And the seed whose fruit is righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace. James 3

@jeremiasrobinson3478

7 ай бұрын

That is not being a real man, that's a religious man, must religious men are weak men, my friend. Good men must be dangerous.... be dangerous, learn to be a predator. A culture that teaches predation and self defense will must of the time prevail. Never position yourself as the victim.

A biblical man is the one who takes responsibility for his own trangressions not making himself a victim of a supposedly inherited sin nature.

@salexander3801

9 ай бұрын

Theres also iniquity which do imbue us with generational curses and familiar spirits though. This is why every bloodline struggles with some things over others

@VictorFelipe82

9 ай бұрын

@@salexander3801 True.

@tony_lopez

6 ай бұрын

⁠@@salexander3801- As long as you don’t use that to justify sin and continue in it. Jesus sets the captives free. Curses don’t work and have no power over you if you are born again.

@salexander3801

6 ай бұрын

@@tony_lopez it does. Being born again isnt the same thing as delivered. Until we are fully delivered we can continue in iniquity even if born again; hence, being transformed by the renewing of our mind. But everything else you said is facts.

@josephjimorris

3 ай бұрын

“Therefore, just as through one man sin entered into the world, and death through sin, and so death spread to all mankind, because all sinned- for until the Law sin was in the world, but sin is not counted against anyone when there is no law. Nevertheless death reigned from Adam until Moses, even over those who had not sinned in the likeness of the violation committed by Adam, who is a type of Him who was to come. But the gracious gift is not like the offense. For if by the offense of the one the many died, much more did the grace of God and the gift by the grace of the one Man, Jesus Christ, overflow to the many. The gift is not like that which came through the one who sinned; for on the one hand the judgment arose from one offense, resulting in condemnation, but on the other hand the gracious gift arose from many offenses, resulting in justification. For if by the offense of the one, death reigned through the one, much more will those who receive the abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the One, Jesus Christ. So then, as through one offense the result was condemnation to all mankind, so also through one act of righteousness the result was justification of life to all mankind. For as through the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the One the many will be made righteous. The Law came in so that the offense would increase; but where sin increased, grace abounded all the more, so that, as sin reigned in death, so also grace would reign through righteousness to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” ‭‭ - Romans‬ ‭5‬:‭12‬-‭21‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬

WOW!!! POWERFUL!!! This sermon should be seen by EVERY MAN AND WOMAN in the world! Unfortunately, millions of males and females, would walk out after the first few minutes of this convicting truth, because they have been “raised?” to live by self-serving, narcissistic, arrogant, childish, ignorant beliefs, like, “You do you!”, “Don’t let anyone tell you what to do!”, “As long as you get YOURS!” and, “They OWE me!” The culture of today is written about in 2 Timothy 3:1-9 PRIDE!

@MugaluTheCarGuy

8 ай бұрын

Today’s culture is written in the Bible: Here we go; 2 Timothy 3:1-7 This is the true saying: if a man is eager to be a church leader, he desires an excellent work. A church leader must be without fault; he must have only one wife, be sober, self controlled, and orderly; he must welcome strangers in his home; he must be able to teach; he must not be drunkard or a violent man, but gentle and peaceful;he must not love money; he must be able to manage his own family well and make his children obey him with all respect.For if a man does not know how to manage his own family ,how can he take care of the church of God? He must be mature in the faith, so that he will not swell up with pride and be condemned, he as the devil was. He should be a man who is respected by the people outside the church, so that he will not be disgraced and fall into the devils trap.

@BlackKnight-ll8qh

3 ай бұрын

@@MugaluTheCarGuythank you for sharing this, brother. May God always bless you and keep you.

I wish I had had a father like this Pastor and not a drunk that beat my mother and us .. I would have been a different woman and not made so many mistakes in my life the little I learned was from my Christian mother .. now I’m old and I realize how much I need to make things right with God I need him and I’m sorry ✝️🧎‍♀️

@LINOOOOOOO

9 ай бұрын

that’s understandable but i believe everything happens for a reason. i feel like we choose most of the experiences we have before we come here. i’ve seen it in a lot of near death experiences where people went to heaven and found out soooo much. what i just told you are one of them (us choosing experiences) these things build us up and make us who we are but it could either make you or break it’s all about how you get through it in the end.

@ralphkeener795

9 ай бұрын

I carried the pain of my childhood with me for over fifty years. So many years spent trying to alleviate the pain of abandonment, insecurity and low self-esteem through drinking, drugs, relationships and being a workaholic. So much time spent wondering what life would have been like if not for the sinful choices I had made trying to mask the pain. I'm not a victim. I never gave my parents that power. At 53 years old, I was newly adopted. And, my Father loves me so much that He allowed His only Son to die in my place as payment for my sins so that He could have a relationship with me. I still carry the emotional and physical scars as a reminder, but He has taken away the pain, forgiven me, and given me peace, hope, and a reason for that hope. May the peace and hope of God our Father be poured out on you.

@trevorperry8470

9 ай бұрын

Don’t forget your HEAVENLY TRUE FATHER

@trevorperry8470

8 ай бұрын

@@robertstephenson6806 bro what?

@person6768

5 ай бұрын

Your responsible for every decision not your dad. I'm not trying to be cruel, my father was in prison and my mom was on drugs. And I went wild but you don't get to blame your actions on anybody. Some people go out there way to live better then there parents others go wild. We chose the wrong but no matter what you were going to sin. Be greatful God lead you to him and repent. I do actually mean to diminish your past because it's your past and you don't need to let it define you. Let being a Christian define you anything we put our identity in besides him is a trap.

This sermon came at the perfect time for me. I really felt this changed my whole perspective on the type of Man I currently am.

@MugaluTheCarGuy

8 ай бұрын

PROVERBS 3:5

Really wish I could have heard this as a young man. However, I am thankful to hear it now at 53 and married for the last 14 years. It brings me hope that I can takes steps to improve my marriage for my wife and myself.

@MrFmccarty

2 ай бұрын

Notice Isaac was forty when Abraham sent his servant to find Isaac a wife. His servant found Rebecca watering her fathers flock she watered the servants camels 🐪 till they wanted no more! Hope they weren’t two humpers. Solomon’s shulamite wife claimed she was darkened from working in the field. Find a hard worker one that honors her father. I’m pretty neither of these women had painted nails and coiffed hair.

i have always claimed to be a Man but after this i know i've been Childish. Wow this has really changed my life and perspective. we claim Qualities that even we don't have

@leadersofleaders

5 ай бұрын

Amen! May the Lord bless His men with courage and strength!

I got married 20 years ago when I belonged to the world. Now I suffer because the demons that inhabit my husband are irritated by the Spirit of God in me. Nobody told me this will be so, and if they even did I wouldn't believe it because my mother is a godly woman but my father wasn't. You cannot raise your children with an unbeliever. The demons rulling that person won't tolerate it. You will have to struggle greatly like me. I know I can't break out of my marriage because Bible forbids it. You can't be a believer and have a divorce and get remarried. If you had a church marriage before God. So think good before get married and pray, pray, pray for guidance.

@ultradevon04

9 ай бұрын

Plenty of believers have gotten remarried

@pollacontrolla546

9 ай бұрын

Stay strong sister put all your trust in our father pray fast and treat your husband with love maybe one day Christ will perform a miracle in his heart... Pick up your cross and walk sister I pray our heavenly father will strengthen each if your steps in Jesus mighty name AMEN

@Ab-abovetheFirmament

9 ай бұрын

@@ultradevon04 that is unbiblical. Jesus was very clear on that...

@ashleysombe7333

9 ай бұрын

@@Ab-abovetheFirmament Read Matthew 19:9 Jesus says divorce is not permitted EXCEPT in a situation of adultery or unfaithfulness. If one is unfaithful one is allowed to divorce that is the only biblical ground for divorce! Don’t lock yourself in an unfaithful marriage claiming and blaming God for the misery in your marriage and not being able to leave. But if you leave the marriage you are not supposed to get married again. Remarriage is ONLY permitted when one of the spouse dies.

@gorthygara8399

9 ай бұрын

@ultradevon04 Yes, you're right, but that does not make it right. I know so many who live in bondage to this whole world, yet they claim that God loves them as they are while they live with no true intimacy with Jesus.

My husband did not want to marry me. I had gotten pregnant in 2006 and we needed a place to stay... his parents rules were clear, get married first then come move in with them. His hands were forced. Almost 18 years later, I'm paying emotionally and psychologically as we should have never married, but should have never sinned to begin with. My husband is not happy and has always wanted his freedom. He loves his children and we essentially coparent under one roof. Live in Christ's Will. Do what is in the Word and follow Him no matter what. His commands are not set up to make you fail, but for success!

Best sermon I’ve ever heard in support of Biblically correct guidance to a man. Just Wow! I’ve have some new measures to meet now for sure.

@cherylrobinson7876

4 ай бұрын

Agree

As a faithful woman who fears God, married to a man who does not, I needed to hear this. I didn't realize how much our feelings toward God would affect our marriage over time. He has never lived up to being a husband and resents that I am not working, in order to take care of our children.

@orielleonie2615

8 ай бұрын

When you are unequally yoked in a marriage, demons enter. If your husband does not change, you are in a situation of " A house divided cannot stand". There is no union between light and darkness. Unfortunately many women keep thinking the husband will change but in the end you put your relationship with God at risk, as you are at risk of denying or hiding your praise and worship etc as you don't want to rattle the demons/darkness.

@sedrickb25

7 ай бұрын

1 Corinthians 7:12-16

@orielleonie2615

7 ай бұрын

@sedrickb25 that's why he says " to the rest I say this and he makes sure to emphasize " I NOT THE LORD says this. As Paul is aware that each is judged separately

@MyMichellle

7 ай бұрын

Praying for your husband’s heart to be made new in Christ. Watch a Case for Christ for encouragement. Pray and wait. ❤

@person6768

5 ай бұрын

You should listen to more Voddie because it sounds like your hurting over it but you can't leave then you would be an ungodly heathen too. He talks about it and like he says if you can't say amen you ought to say ouch. The book of Timothy or it might be Titus is also really helpful for dealing with this. But you will dishonor God if you divorce.

A masculine man sets his mind to attain the strong qualities of sound character, rock-solid confidence and strength. He is an unselfish, stable, dominant (though not domineering), decisive leader. Yet he is balanced and tempered by the complementary traits of humility, attentiveness, gentleness and refinement. In short, he strives to live as Jesus Christ did. A passage from a book I’m reading

@Blakmagic88

9 ай бұрын

I wish I could find a man like this…😅

@George-ls9ce

7 ай бұрын

What book?

@fernandocantu6966

7 ай бұрын

Biblical Manhood by Joel Hilliker

@CottonCxndy

7 ай бұрын

Sounds like the Top G

@rex2g4

4 ай бұрын

@@Blakmagic88where are you in your life, who do you surround yourself with, what type of places do you hang out?

That actually made me mad, sad and happy... I realize, with this message, the reason why my wife became unhappy since I came into her life. I am a failure because of my ignorance and overall laziness. This message has spoken to me in the way I needed the most. Thank you Lord Jesus for bringing this video up to my ears and heart. I pray that I put my focus on YOU. Searching for the truth ( Your holy word) more and more everyday & also, most importantly, that I shall not part ways away from you anymore. I am tired and I need some rest.

I thought it was the three C's that define guys #1 courage #2 compassion 3 conviction

I'm 44 with a 16 year old daughter and a 15 year old son. And I teach my children this same message, but he has given me more things to talk to them about.

We have an 8 year old son and Voddie. That is my hearts desire that he becomes a warrior for our Almighty God our beloved Jesus Christ ❤️ please pray with us for our son Ben Etter !! 🙏 Pray that our four grandchildren will love and follow Jesus with all their ❤ This is the desires of my heart !! Love your teaching. I could listen to you all day !! God bless you and your family !! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

As a married man, I can say that I have just been challenged to something even greater than what I have ever thought of. Whoa! God help me!! That's a huge responsibility! I know the prize is worth fighting for, but man, that's something way beyond our tiny point of view. Jesus! Marriage is a godly gift!!

@Matheus545

9 ай бұрын

My mistakes led me to the same conclusion. I thank the Lord for giving me another chance.

@jpraise6771

8 ай бұрын

Better men=Better fathers. Better fathers=Better society

@hyperfusiongear9050

8 ай бұрын

Well that means I'm out for good then? Since my father died when I was eight and my mother been worker all her life spending many hours at work no wonder it's hard for her. Now I'm 37 and still single because this world is filled with wickedness so I never bother with having a woman in my life. Or perhaps I just don't belong anywhere in a church or the world I just don't fit anywhere? After seeing this video I don't know if I should laugh or not I'm I unqualified and worthless I don't know should I feel like a broken branch falling down and cast into the fire perhaps?

@jpraise6771

8 ай бұрын

@@hyperfusiongear9050 brother, you are not worthless. You are not useless, and you are not a mistake. Someone probably had to tell you that for a long time. Also, I ask that you have an open mind for what I'm about to tell you, if you REALLY want change, you MUST be humble enough to see things from another viewpoint. Yes, this world is wicked, but it is also good. Think of it like this as we speak there are millions of babies being born, concieved, held and treated with care. Millions more committing random acts of kindness with NO expectation of return. Someone somewhere just got a 100 dollars with no name attached. Someone just let a homeless man sleep in their home to give him a place to stay for the night, and someone is currently playing catch with their son. The harsh truth is, the world is ugly because YOU chose to view it that way. It's not like the negative does not exist, but you can still see the good that can come from even the most evil things. You CAN be a father, but before you go doing that, get some therapy. You have a bunch of deep seated issues and trauma that can only be solved if you take the first step. Finally, if you don't want therapy, I am a firm believer God heals all wounds. No, I don't mean going to church once a week and seriously expecting instant results, I mean a constant companionship with our father in heaven, and your traumas will be healed. Once again, because no one will tell you this probably, you can be a father and you have to believe that you WILL be a father, you just need to step into the role God had prepared for you your whole life. God bless, have a great life🙏

@lifesavapor

6 ай бұрын

⁠​⁠@@hyperfusiongear9050Brother you are loved by God and I love you as well. You have great potential for Gods kingdom you just can’t see it right now. The Lord works miracles on his people, and through his people. Trust in him with all your heart, abide in his love, and your heart will be filled with his same love. You are qualified, you are worthy, you are Gods child, and you belong. Never forget this. Jesus said I am come a light into the world, that whoever believes in me should not abide in darkness. You will have the light of life! I want you to write down positive affirmations of yourself, as many as you can think of. And give thanks for all the things in your life. I love you. God bless you.

Im in my 50s and wish I had heard this when I was younger! It's actually hitting me hard now!

The ball field days fade, sex drive fades and money can disappear in a flash. Looks fade

The best sermon for this topic fo a man or a woman I have ever heard. Praise the LORD

I've been married now almost 3 years, and I was challenged so much by this. Praying that God will change my heart and make me a better husband and father to my wife and daughter.

My father was not present when I grew up. I was raised correctly by my mum, now god is my father, Jesus is my inspiration and influence.

Wow..this is amazing.. at 56 God has shown me much and helped me through even more. In his strength, his time and his way, I have been blessed with many victories and yet here I am sitting out by my bbq having a late dinner in the cool of the evening on January 6 2024..., here in New Zealand hearing a sermon that I could of done with over 30 years ago, and asking only one question.... ? Why is it that the church, even the body of christ, does not teach this.. I am so grateful for those who do know and understand, and have the courage and the love to spread this message and tell us the truth...Thank you.. Thank you for your channel.... Thank you for the message... And most of all, Thank you for not being afraid to stand up and tell us the truth when the whole world is spreading a lie..... So it is a great big GOD BLESS YOU ALL, ... and yes... thank you for not giving up on the truth.

I've never judged a man to be a man by those standards....I had a Dad that worked two jobs...made sure we had the things we needed..devoted one day a week to his children ..if he didn't have money for ice cream or a burger then he avoided going by those places so he didn't have to tell us no. A drive in the country going to a park those were our treats. I judge a man that works hard..loves his children and gives them strong morals and takes care of his family and does good works to others. That is what I judge to be a man.

@BRlGADE_KINGPIN

9 ай бұрын

Yup. It’s disgusting how much men get judged and get called “bums” for making less money. They are the reason society is even functional. Your income is not equivalent to your character.

@jeshurunhazelton7789

8 ай бұрын

​@@BRlGADE_KINGPINI hate it but I also take advantage of it cause if I interact with a girl that judges me for not making enough money it'll be easy to simply weed her n any girl like her out but if a girl I interact with admires my work ethic even if I don't make much ill know she's the one n ill know she's not just tryna get a financial slave for herself n that kinda girl I'll give my all for a feminine non selfish kind empathetic girl that loves me n not conditionally based on wat I do for her if I know she prioritizes my character n nature over my money I'll know she's decent

Thank you for correcting my as a husband and father in this sermon Pastor. What a powerful, real, and wholesome message from our Lord. Truly powerful and eye opening.

So true. After I came to Christ I realized how important a man in Christ is. A spouse who loves and follows Jesus with all their hearts is top priority! Because they are no longer accountable to themselves but to the Lord.

A biblical man presents an example of what Christ is like.

@TAGtalkinaboutGod

Ай бұрын

The Christ Within asks one thing of us: Crucify the Belief in a mortal Me Separate and Apart from the Immortal, Omnipresent Spirit of God, as there is no more Glorious a Demonstration than the Transformation from mortal sense to Spiritual Immortality.... Religious Belief does not teach the message of the Christ. It teaches the Christ Hated Practice of the Nicolaitans!

Listened to this right after listening to the following sermon aimed toward being a godly woman and man what a powerful duo of sermons. These will stick with me for the rest of my life

@sebastianiracheta4174

3 ай бұрын

Can I ask the name of that sermon? I’m eager to learn as much as possible, thank you

@Jacinta129

26 күн бұрын

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Mama and daddy always said to find a man that truly values God.

Voddie Bauchum is a true man of God.

I swear this man was speaking to me here, it feels as if though he is talking to my soul

@tony_lopez

6 ай бұрын

Me too. I only wish I would’ve heard this years ago.

@thabomphaphathi9052

Ай бұрын

It is the Spirit of God that speaks through him, for God knows what is in the hearts of all His creatures, and it is his pleasure to fix and redeem us. Grace and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ, and glory and power to Him forever.

I don’t know if I would have listened but I wish I could have heard this as a teenager.

Sports never ever ever builds good character. It DOES reveal it though.

Amen , if he doesn’t honor his mother and father then he’s not going to honor his marriage. That’s so true ! If people could truly understand how all of God’s commands aren’t designed so he can rule over and control his people, but to protect his children and prevent them from being hurt . What an awesome God we serve.

@user-us7pm1po5z

8 ай бұрын

Let's be honest we absolutely have to respect the parents but sometimes there is more trauma than love and support the forgiveness that can help the children that were given a hard and painful childhood

@jeffi854

8 ай бұрын

@@user-us7pm1po5z Trust me I know all to well. I went through a lot growing up myself, but then God came into my heart , he created in me a new heart and a new mind to please him.

Getting married in the United States is like going skydiving with a 50-60 percent chance your parachute isn’t going to open.

@garljr

9 ай бұрын

Or you can say, its like trying to find a Godly spouse in sodom and Gomorrah.

@rosea2350

9 ай бұрын

There’s nothing wrong with choosing not to get married but you must remain celibate.

@watmedia4521

9 ай бұрын

💯💯

@watmedia4521

9 ай бұрын

💯💯

@MessageFromMarty

9 ай бұрын

Become a Passportbro....plenty of fish ACROSS any ideological woke sea 🌊 😉

Love this guy. Speaks the truth.

Thank you Voddie. I needed to hear this today

I don't write the mail I just deliver it smooth!

AMEN! You say everything I’m thinking and I am a woman’s in full agreement and I honor your truth and dignified words about real manhood. Hallelujah! Word!

@dawnschultz777

9 ай бұрын

*And as a single mom I forwarded this to my daughters, not married, 17 and 28, still looking for their dad and empty satisfaction in relationships . It is so hard- I try and talk to them about the emptiness and soul ties this causes, after making mistakes myself and Jesus taking me on a journey that would change my life and restore me and make me alive in Him. Our biggest problem in this culture and others is absent fathers and the breakdown of the family system. It’s a domino effect and it’s toxicity destroys. And the enemy and his workers are very well aware of this and well versed in how to keep this system broken.

@shaneflournoy-bv4tu

8 ай бұрын

@@dawnschultz777too bad you don’t live in Georgia. We could go to church together!

That was one fo the best sermons I heard in my life thank you

Thank you Voddie and thank God for this!

VODDIE!!, YOU'RE THE MAN. FANTASTIC!!! UPLOAD!

Geez I wasn’t expecting to listen to all of this when i went on youtube but was definitely edifying, need more preachers that can teach like this🙏🏼

This message hit me so hard. I'm trying to raise a Godly man in this culture without the help of a Godly husband and can only pray that the sins of my past do not become generational curses. God help me. 🙏

@voltaicburst4279

9 ай бұрын

Find a man, it sucks not having a dad and feminine influence isn’t enough, he needs a masculine role model. Speaking from experience, mum is great but only half of the full picture.

@kimberlypeterson6936

9 ай бұрын

@@voltaicburst4279 That is much easier said than done. True men, let alone men of God, seem to be few and far between these days. But thanks.

@voltaicburst4279

9 ай бұрын

@@kimberlypeterson6936 Yeah true, good luck to you and your son.

Everyone needs to hear this! So good 💯🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

This is eye opening!! Thank you Brother!!🙏🏽💪🏾❤️

Thank you for putting this online🙏🏽

Thank you for the word🙏🙏 ive learnt a lot from it😊

Amazing! From this I memorized the ten! Thank you

Very thought provoking. Thank you for bringing the word

An amazing reminder for parents of who we are asking our boys to be. We put so much pressure on our sons to be something. And we are terrified that they aren’t good enough. Thank you for this amazing sermon.

Yes he does ! Do not be unequally yoked to an unbeliever ! It’s heartbreaking knowing in today’s church that divorce is just as high as unbelievers , 3 out of 4 marriages ends in divorce. I thank God for the wife’s he’s so richly blessed me with. We’ve been married now going on 34 yrs now and is hands down the absolute best thing God’s ever blessed me with.

Thank you for this teaching, God bless you and your family ❤️

Thank you for the sermon, every important message

Humble to have heard this message❤❤❤😇😇🙌

Your words were inspiring and uplifting, like a rush of fresh air to my spirit. Thank you lord.

This sermon not only just showed me so many shortcomings in myself but also just gave me a solid blueprint for what i should be looking to be and what any man needs to be to want to be apart of my family by marrying my daughter. Glory be to God i found this 🙏🏾

Wow, this is such blessed and priceless teaching. Grateful to God for Voddie and his labour. Very humbling, yet very necessary in this culture.

I was onboard with the message until around 32:00. The world may have their reasons for delaying marriage, but so does the Bible. "Prepare your work without, and make yourself fit for the field; and afterwards build your house." "If any man does not provide for his own, especially for those of his own house, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." The reason a committed Christian would delay marriage would be to ensure they were financially, mentally, and morally prepared to take a wife before even sticking their nose in that direction. Anything less is a sin of irresponsibility. Marriage isn't about us. It's not about quelling passions. Eros doesn't pass the 1st Corinthians 13 test of love. Only agape, philo, and storge do. I'm not trying to be like the heretics that Paul spoke of, who forbid people to marry with no legitimate reason. But if a man recognizes his own failings and how bad of a husband he would be, he has *no* business even thinking about a wife. It's great that Voddie was there when he was 20, but 99% of American men aren't. Marriage is about what you can do for her, not what she can do for you.

@Blakmagic88

9 ай бұрын

Wow, this is deep…I agree!

@Adrenalean767

7 ай бұрын

That verse u quoted is from 1 Timothy 5:8 and u completely took it out of context. That passage is not even dealing with husbands and wives lol.if u read proverbs 31 you'll understand that a woman is actually supposed help her husband provide. Thats why you're called a help mate. Marriage is a 2 way street,not about what the man can do for the woman.

@Adrenalean767

7 ай бұрын

@@robertstephenson6806 majority of women work outside the home.what are u talkin about?

@Adrenalean767

7 ай бұрын

@@robertstephenson6806 do u expect people to ride around on camels and live in tents as well? Way to miss the point.oh btw the words in proverbs 31 came from a woman✌

@Adrenalean767

7 ай бұрын

@@robertstephenson6806 thanks for proving my point

Mind blowinly profound, may God continue to bless you. Thank you for sharing.

This is such a powerful, rare message in our times. Thank you Voddie! 🙏

Thanks for the message so touching. Thanks for the teaching.

@Faberministries

Жыл бұрын

I’m glad you enjoyed Dr. Baucham’s message!

I LOVE this message SO much! I lost my dad at 4 to divorce and 9 to death, I have had only 1 other man who I could say was a strong man in my life, but he wasn't Godly. I have been married and divorced because he abandoned me. I have never found a Godly man who fits any of these qualities. I have most definitely taken much time to get closer to God and to know Him more spiritually. This message just reassured me that I am Worthy of a good Godly man! I know one day God will lead him to me. Thank you Voddie... I always enjoy your messages

@jpraise6771

8 ай бұрын

You will find him. Seek, and it shall be granted unto you. He will not see your children as baggage, but a life that the both of you can build upon.

I am so thankful for this message this morning. I am so discouraged with dating and I see this is why. Thank you for this message.

Amen to this message, The truth hurts but it's the truth and there's no two ways about it. ❤❤❤

I'm grateful for all your support and encouragement. Word of God is full of encouragement, unfortunately I'm so hard on myself that I don't dwell on the little victories in my life but I'm getting there. It was a while since I posted the initial comment but bit by bit I see growth. Praise Jesus for making me and all of you new people by the power of the Holy spirit. ❤

Oh my, you've explained the eating of the forbidden fruit perfectly. I understand. I am 61 and grounded in the Lord. But a great preacher like sheds light. Thank you. I have been listening to you for years and witnessed your growth. Thank you. May the Lord continue to bless your family from generation to generation, may he have strength in his body to spread the word of truth. Amen

Wow! This sermon is timely and what I needed to hear ❤.

Wow, this message is very, but very good, in fact, it’s excellent, rich in so many levels. Praise God, our Daddy Almighty.!!!

Very profound. As a young man myself, makes me think

A must watch for all fathers, men, sons, wives, women, daughters!

Thank you brother, your messages always speak to my heart

What a blessing to his family, and our family the church. Voddie is one of the best to not only speak about, but live the life that God calls men to live. ❤

A hard and stiff rules-based father has gained a bad rap of driving many children into rebellion. This has caused many to fold too far in the polar opposite direction. Thanks for posting this exposition showing a wonderful biblical path of discipleship, continual engagement, closeness, and high-standard parenting.

@username00009

8 ай бұрын

The former model of fatherhood is just as unbiblical as the latter, and yet for many years I had it in my head that the former model WAS biblical. I wonder how many people turned away from Christ and church due to that same belief.

@jeshurunhazelton7789

8 ай бұрын

​@@username00009well I guess it could be both true n not true cause also the seals cake was privileged when it slipped in the pool but the car pushed it in furthermore also n or get pin n burst ants overgrown honey filled abdomen causing chaos n confusion in all its surroundings forcing creature into submission bringing shame to all who get graced by it's presence

Powerful and much needed. Thank you Pastor.

This message has truly blessed me, I am so unworthy as a father, and a husband. Thank you

Yes, this Pastor is very inspiring. I thank God for the wisdom that has been given to him. It is also our responsibility as Christian women, who once lived like lukewarm individuals. Yes, we went to church twice a week, living as sinners. We have much work to do, teaching young girls that their bodies are temples, using the vocabulary of the Bible, letting them know that they are committing fornication, when they have sex. The churches must marry these individuals, not allowing them to bring that behavior in the churches. Yes, and the who want to marry, must let that man know that there will not be any sex before marriage. Yes, read and do the whole book. 💁🏾🇺🇸

@MugaluTheCarGuy

8 ай бұрын

Today’s culture is written in the Bible: Here we go; 2 Timothy 3:1-7 This is the true saying: if a man is eager to be a church leader, he desires an excellent work. A church leader must be without fault; he must have only one wife, be sober, self controlled, and orderly; he must welcome strangers in his home; he must be able to teach; he must not be drunkard or a violent man, but gentle and peaceful;he must not love money; he must be able to manage his own family well and make his children obey him with all respect.For if a man does not know how to manage his own family ,how can he take care of the church of God? He must be mature in the faith, so that he will not swell up with pride and be condemned, he as the devil was. He should be a man who is respected by the people outside the church, so that he will not be disgraced and fall into the devils trap.

@user-lm9ix2gd4w

8 ай бұрын

@@MugaluTheCarGuy Absolutely, they don’t understand what’s happening, even the scientists have no clue. They want to shut us Christian’s up when we tell them what the Biblical forecast is, yes they hate when we speak about the stories of Lot and Noah, telling them about the rainbow. They have no idea that Pride comes before the great fall. They have no idea of the curses that have come to their cities with drug addictions and homelessness, they know not that they are under the curses written in this awesome book. God is not dead. 💁🏾🇺🇸

I love the message, but the background music makes it harder to understand, for me

@Faberministries

Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! I am removing the background music from future videos!

@miguelsolache9954

9 ай бұрын

I disagree I liked the music

@myalaynaangel

9 ай бұрын

Th background music should be added every so often...

@TheDsang

9 ай бұрын

I found it distracting too, at some point it was competing with the teaching. I enjoyed the teaching nonetheless.

@charnevdwaltthelemonlady2965

7 ай бұрын

Some may enjoy it but for us hard of hearing folk, its difficult. It also sweeps up emotions unnecessarily.

I truly appreciate this man of God.

Nice job Voddie. Nothing but respect.

Excellent addendum to the 7 Pillars of Marriage workshop I finished last May. Honor God's definition of Labor, Honor God's Law, Honor God's definition of Family .

Praise God for Pastor Voddie and his messages to build real women and men of God through his sermons. We need to all be molded out for Christ a new creation for him and let go of the world. We shall always be set apart.

Beautifully delivered! I truly wish I had been able to hear, receive, learn this message a child!!

What a powerful message! Having chi you my own, this message comes in handy for the future! Thanks Pastor Voddie!!!

I love this guys and I believe it is amazing the he is teaching his son important basics. God has to be the foundation. But I believe it is extremely important to allow your children to use ALL the gifts and talents God has given and teach them how to have character and integrity in that. Also many women do not measure money and sports as what they need in a husband. When someone truly excels in their gifts most times it shows commitment and discipline. Overall I understand what he is sharing.

Your book Kingdom Shepherd change my outlook on a biblical manhood churches don’t teach like that now a days

This message is so incredible. From start to finish. I literally hung on every word. On the other hand I find it so devastating and heartbreaking because I don't feel there's any hope for me anymore. I gave the first half of my life to a man who said he was Godly but wasn't. We found the Lord at the same time but only one of us grew and walked with the Lord genuinely. Mental health tickets toll and we divorce 31 years later. He is now deceased. Died alone and lonely. Very sad. I am now 61 and feel that looking for a husband now is just about impossible. I just got through 2023 and what I've seen is literally devastating. I have NEVER been one to look at the athletic ability, bedroom performance, or billfold. I've always looked for the character of the man, to be Godly. Desperately Seeking one that was worthy of a child of God, but they were pretenders. I am no longer looking and have resigned myself to the fact that Yeshua is my husband and that's that. Living a life alone and honoring God and bearing the burden of daily life completely physically on my own but definitely held up by Yeshua. I am mourning what could have been. What should have been.

A Better man project with immediate effect.. I needed to hear this. Thank you sir

Beautiful. Looking forward to te next challenge in life. I strive to be the man I need to be in God to provide for a good Godly woman. 2025 I'll be free from the military. Its been a long road. Thank you lord for all the character building opportunities in life. It's time to step it up.

@JoeySanchez5

6 ай бұрын

Amen brother

i do believe`~ your message` being on point! i thank you for that ... Your commitment to The Word of God` God!! So desperately needed today ... everyday! ... Sharing! The Washing of The Word yes ... Respect!

Great sermon on being a Godly man in Christ ❤

Good word of wisdom .. thank you 🙏🏽

Great one.

Wow, what a great message! 😮😊