Father of a 1 yr old and a 2 week old. Husband to a woman that i don’t deserve, yet God blessed me with. I’ve only been walking with the Lord since 2019. The enemy hates it. Pray the Lord makes me a servant leader for my household. In Jesus name

@5points7019

2 жыл бұрын

Keep listening to voddie's preaching. R.C. Sproul is another one. He is considered the teacher of preachers. Ligonier Ministries has wonderful resources to bring you to deeper waters. The enemy isn't going to idly stand by either. Get ready, as you grow in faith he will try to cause trouble.. and if he can't get to you directly, he will go after you indirectly, using people close to you. Peace and blessings upon your household.

@ChadShotgunApe

2 жыл бұрын

Read your bible daily to renew youe mind. The enemy will attack your mind to make your home chaotic. Stay close to the lord and make him first in all things you do as a family and you will prosper.

@elan311X

2 жыл бұрын

Amen and for me too.

@chrisby777

Жыл бұрын

May I leave you with a tip. My wife and I celebrate our 50th anniversary this coming November. Read the bible together ( it doesn’t have to be long chapters) pray together daily with your wife! Even if you haven’t had a good day together, by praying together issues resolve themselves. And finally,please don’t worry about the small stuff, the next day it sometimes doesn’t matter anymore. May God bless you and your marriage and positions in the family. You are equal with your wife but with different roles. God bless. Chris, Perth, Australia.

@michaelstrohmaier402

Жыл бұрын

a man should never believe that he "doesn't deserve" his woman! i mean, men need to build value, women simply need to find a good man before they loose the value they are born with, youth and fertility!

24 year old soon to be father!!! Pray for me brothers and sister pray for everything to go well!

@trngdwnthedvlskngdm1

3 жыл бұрын

Let the LORD be your guide, you will NEVER go wrong.

@punkrockscreamsheet

3 жыл бұрын

It will be a beautiful chapter in your life brother, you got this❤🙌✝️

@nert7951

3 жыл бұрын

Became a father two years ago, 22 back then, good luck brother!!!! It’s totally worth it.

@soonenteradi5784

3 жыл бұрын

Submit to the Lord Jesus Christ, and follow his principles for a successful marriage and you will do just fine, it's not going to be easy, but you have no other choice than to do it God's way if you want success in marriage.

@Joe-es8gx

2 жыл бұрын

May God give you sound knowledge, Wisdom and patience to grow together with your family as a father in the power of the name of Jesus, amen.

I wish I would have heard sermons like this when I was a kid

@endtimesarehere1322

3 ай бұрын

I wish everyone had heard preaching like this growing up

‘A man’s failure to lead is him actually leading in failure. This is not optional’ Christ, forgive me for my past weakness in my home and help me to lead my family effectively. Convict my spirit to love my wife and lead this family towards You unashamedly.

@thenarrowlife2018

2 жыл бұрын

Yes Lord please have mercy upon me, to lead my home well lord. In Jesus Name Amen.

@davied.w4780

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@agent_k9508

Жыл бұрын

God bless you and raise you up to His standard of leadership - God bless you with your needs, my brother.

@agent_k9508

Жыл бұрын

@@thenarrowlife2018 God bless you and raise you up, brother. Hallelujah, God is moving!!! Bless His name! God bless you, sir.

@MrDouglas0307

Жыл бұрын

Amen brothers! God forgive me for my weakness and timidness for not leading my beautiful and amazing family that you have blessed me with. Bring me to repentance and enable me to lead and go to war for my family.

Lord I lift up my husband to you in all things concerning his role as my husband in our home and myself as a submissive wife, let us both come together in harmony for your glory 💕

@lidiavaldivia1368

Жыл бұрын

AMEN 🙏

@k-hambie256

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

@5va

9 ай бұрын

Amen

@christopherstudley9374

6 ай бұрын

May The Lord bless you both RICHLY ! *NO matter how many years later you're reading this :)

@nette2144

3 ай бұрын

Amen!

I’ve spent my entire life in the church and never learned or heard biblical male headship in the home taught. I desire to serve the Lord in this manner and model this within my home with my husband and children. Thank you for this truly excellent teaching. Hallelujah #FULLsurrender 🙌🏾

@DeeLew714

3 жыл бұрын

Amen Tami! I endorse your sentiments. God bless you on the way ahead.

@KeepHealingSis

3 жыл бұрын

@@DeeLew714 thank you. God’s continuous blessings to you. 🙏🏾

@anaheim1183

3 жыл бұрын

Wow your are an amazing wife

@Dhwbwsoe

2 жыл бұрын

Thank God for Voodie

@KeepHealingSis

2 жыл бұрын

@Wendy Range to each his own. Everyone is entitled to their beliefs. If that’s your, respect … God bless 🙏🏾

As a husband coming from a worldly background trying to walk more with Christ I realize how lost I am and how much of a poor job I have been doing with out him

Pray for me and my wife ! That GOD do his will and restore my marriage, my wife has a lot of hurt and anger with me for my previous life style and the hurt I cause in her . I have asked for forgiveness to GOD and to Her . And the enemy is using her hurt and anger that’s he has in he favor . I Pray in the name of Jesus that he Free her from the devils lies and chains that he has on her ! Amen .

@Sharon777jr

Жыл бұрын

When your character change... Her heart will also!!! Keeping God first in everything 🙏🏾.

@chukaokoye4009

Жыл бұрын

I hope things must have been better now. However, resolving to change your from your past life is a good step forward. Then, ask Holy Spirit to rule over your affairs. Once changes are spotted, nothing will stop your wife from not loving you back. Also, communicate your weaknesses to her and let her be your accountability partner.

@MrDouglas0307

Жыл бұрын

Hey bro Lopez, I know I’m seeing this a year later but I pray that God will fight for your marriage, and that He will encourage and strengthen you brother. Be at peace in Christ.

@n9wff

10 ай бұрын

Basically in the same position. Wife keeps using what I did in the past years ago against me. She says I control her and she reacts against my desire to lead. My hands are tied. Only fasting and prayer are my only options now.

@justWIN96

9 ай бұрын

Amen

As a wife married for 17yrs, I had to realize this and understand Gods plan and purpose for marriage. My parents have been married 43 yrs, and I never seen submission or my father sitting in his seat as head of the home. My mom made decisions and made changes within the home and my father submitted to her. It was something questionable but I was a child, but I also got saved at 13, so God had already given me the Holy spiritual guidance then. Now within my own marriage I am learning to be more submissive. It’s not as hard as it was in the first 5 yrs of our marriage. And I have to help my husband heal from the lacks way back then. Pray for us please! While I’m learning this, I feel that I need him more than ever to understand the woman here today is fully submitted, but needs love and empathy in return. 😢

The clarity in this sermon makes me realize how watered down the church has made of what being godly man is meant to be

Who is here in 2021! Such great prophetic clarity! Thanks Pastor!

@elfranko97

2 жыл бұрын

@Wendy Range gtfoh femi nazi

@joehouston2833

2 жыл бұрын

Be ye fruitful and multiply

@thyder3553

Ай бұрын

Here in 2024

You can't force a wife to submit, cos submission is not by force it has to be done willingly. When a wife LOVE the Lord God with all her beings she will willingly submit to Him and to her husband as unto the Lord. Our submissions to our own husbands is come by our LOVE for God the Father and our Lord Jesus Christ. 😊 To LOVE the LIVING God is to OBEY His word, "wives submit to your own husband as unto the Lord" is what the word of the Living God have command. 😊

@geraldthethird8082

Жыл бұрын

If we love the lord and put Him first the commandment God gives the Husband and wife will fallow . A server of love ❤️

@A.J.ChambersCompany

Жыл бұрын

That you can't force a wife to submit bullcrap is just an obvious ur not good enough to be considered when lookin for a wife. If ur not feminine and submissive..I wldnt want u to begin with...bc..WHY

@A.J.ChambersCompany

Жыл бұрын

I know this is hard to get...but if ur not w a man's program ur useless to him period..it's not a democracy..its a marriage..if u don't respect him enough to submit...HES NOT FOR U

@mamas6425

Жыл бұрын

@@A.J.ChambersCompany you thinking that you can force anything is a clear sign of being an abuser.....that is not the way of a real man. You can't force anything, it is a choice everyone has to obey the Lord. And if you think it's okay to be harmful to a woman to get your way, then you are wrong and in sin for being abusive. If a woman isn't wanting to be the way she is called by the Lord to be, then she is not right to be anyone's wife. But that is not for any man to force upon her either. If you want to even be worthy of a righteous woman, then you must first be a righteous man that leads with LOVE. Or you will reap what you sow, and no woman will ever respect you because of your narcissistic abuse. Does that make sense?..

@A.J.ChambersCompany

Жыл бұрын

@@mamas6425 u didn’t understand my comment ,

32 years old. I have a 15 year old step daughter. 4 year old son. My wife and I have been together since 2016. We've have a rocky start filled with strife and yet passionate love. We only started thriving when we got married and became closer to God. It was like blessings were unlocked and an all knowing God could tell if my heart was truly in it or not.

“If ya can’t say amen, you oughta say ouch.” -Dr. Voddie

@Idkjustyet

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

I wasn't raised in a church so this was never in my household my mother raised me with help from my dad here and there. To now be a Christian man I know that I fall short on many things and this is one of them. I need to learn how to lead my family I need to learn how to love my wife and I need to have empathy towards my wife who is my best friend. The fact that a lot of us have not been taught this at all so trying to grasp it at a later age Is difficult but also attainable.

@blessingecoma9233

5 ай бұрын

Welldone, your bravery and honesty is commendable. God bless you.

Finally, my brethren, be strong in the lord and in the power of His might.

Referring to the wife "She's not just mine, she's me". Men in the home "When a man fail to lead, he leads in failure". These are excellent truths that will stay with me. With all the lawless filth in our culture today thank you for putting some good in the minds of men.

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4 жыл бұрын

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Wow this was 10 years ago and it’s so relevant today

Wonderful teaching on this neglected subject. The problem with us men is that we have been programmed by society as family economic providers. Consequently, we have neglected our role as family spiritual leaders, but are quick and willing to minister to the outside world while our own families are starving for the Word. Why is that? Are we being enticed by celebrity status bestowed by society? Charity begins at home. A man of God's leadership skills are honed at a family level.

@marcusburnettsr8911

2 ай бұрын

Think about our education: indoctrination into a secular worldview, less pursuit of a biblical worldview, thus we always lean to the secular. How many of us read thru the Bible? Better yet how many of us read thru the Bible with our families. How many have weekly family devotions? I believe if we did we would get exactly what he’s saying. I like you wish someone had urge me to do this!

I'm so grateful for this godly man.

I Thank God for the clear teaching on this topic. I pray for the grace to study it for myself, and, model it in my home.

@rommeltaylor8707

9 жыл бұрын

This broth is solid thanks for the share.The first sermon I heard of his was at a Ligonier conference(online) the title was Rescuer. He does an excellent job at laying out from scripture our need for rescue and Christ as our great rescuer.

@GeeAgee

9 жыл бұрын

Aman

@stephengoff2189

3 жыл бұрын

Amen I pray the same!!

@MrFredjsnj

3 жыл бұрын

Amen brother

This is so good. I’m trying to step more into my role as the head of the household right now - a role I should have stepped into from the beginning - and this gives me a great perspective on what the true driving force behind it is. It’s not about being domineering - it’s about leading spouses and children to Christ in every circumstance.

I wish I had listened and understood this talk before I got married. The problem is that I probably would not have listened at the time. I had to make a mess of my own marriage through my own foolishness to understand the wisdom of God through the words of Voddie Baucham.

@pinkzebra74

2 жыл бұрын

May God bless you. Many men including my husband will not admit to their own mistakes in their marriage. I'm far from perfect and I've made mistakes too but I know where I went wrong and I admit it. My husband just makes up things about me to put all the blame on me because he wants to start over. He wants a different life than the one we planned. I hope things worked out for you.

@asherken1120

2 жыл бұрын

Never too late my brother🙏🏾

I just cant get enough of his teaching and preaching. I have been listening to his sermons since 2010

Wow! Nailed it! The 3 commands to the 3rd contrast (living the Spirit filled life vs. drunk with wine) and on the 3rd command you get (3 contexts) of submitting yourselves one to another. I mean just nailed it beautifully!

This teaching was so well taught with simplicity. This is food for your spirit......

Contrary to the woke ideology, to _submit_ is not to humiliate and render oneself a slave, but to respect, trust and cooperate. When we visit the doctor, we submit to their training and expertise.

Wow, this was excellent. Definitely a reminder for me to TRULY be the head of my home, love my wife as Christ loves the church, and raise my children to love and fear God.

All honour to God and to our Lord Jesus Christ for His Word faithfully preached.

When I met my husband it forced me to learn how to submit (it was easy but it wasn't). I grew up without a father (he's stuck in his addiction, has been since before I was born.) My mother was extremely overbearing and domineering. I thought the idea of submitting to ANY man was beyond degrading. Then I met my husband and for some reason submission felt natural. It felt like a natural role I had to take on and I was HAPPY to because he did the same. He took on his role as the Head of our household and he takes it very seriously. He strives everyday to grow in his relationship with the Lord so that he may become a better servant and a better leader to me and our future children. I thank God for bringing him into my life everyday. Not just because I love him to death but because he helps me grow everyday to be a better servant to the Lord and woman of God.

Wow.... Thank you brother, that sermon both cut and confirmed my responsibility with clarity. There were times throughout the sermon where my chest was puffed out in pride and other times where I wept in my own ignorance and shortcomings. You and Paul Washer are my favorite preachers... Both sound in your doctorine!

I have to say this sermon was amazing!!!!! The messaging behind this was definitely a God sent. The words behind this really show men how to be men of God and speak heavy on the responsibilities that we have been given to Stewart over! 💯

Those tears streaming from Voddie touched my soul

Amen!!! "My desire for my children is they would walk with God. That they would know Christ!" This should be every christians greatest desire for their children!

I wish I saw this years ago!! I’m here just praying, just waiting for her. My lady if you’re reading this, I need you & I love you so much 05-18-19

AMEN on the evangelist and ministers. I am a PK who had an absentee father. Wasn’t until he was in his 70’s that he realized that he should have been home more.

I am so blessed to have a wife that submits however what a responsibility that God has given to men.

The Lord spoke! AMEN!

Some people only know how to lead with an iron fist. They dont understand how to be a leader that serves

So many preachers are afraid to preach this. They are afraid of womans response.

@rcg_-bob4030

2 жыл бұрын

Truth cuts deep don’t it Wendy.

@rcg_-bob4030

2 жыл бұрын

Biblical truth either offends or convicts people.

@5points7019

2 жыл бұрын

@Wendy Range ever consider dropping the "n" in your last name? it would be fitting to your attitide.

@marlyb176

2 жыл бұрын

In my opinion, I don’t believe that is the case.When you look at most marriage teachings particularly those directed towards women there is a lot of emphasis on being submissive. However, a lot of preachers like to leave out the responsibility of the husband to love his wife as Christ love the church.

A man of God

This was probably one of the best teachings I've heard on this subject. God bless you, Dr. Baucham!

My house is a seminary for my family, and I am to lead in the education of Jesus Christ in it.

Man of God,with fresh bread from heaven🙏🙏🙏

This pastor is a blessing 🙌

"She's not just mine... she's me." Amen.... This is an awesome word.

What an amazing sermon! God definitely spoke to me as the Head of My Household! May God continue to bless you my brother!

The man is the leader as long as he is godly if he's a fool a women won't follow

@kingdomassettv

Жыл бұрын

No woman should marry a fool

May the Face of God shine upon you.

Thanks for that...truly powerful couldn’t stop watching till the end

Soaking up this teaching in 2021!!! This is NOT taught in the church... Can we LEARN the Bible & get out of our feelings!!! Help us Holy Spirit!! 🤎🤎🤎

Where is the church on this teachings? We have generations of people illiterate in the bible and we are wondering aimlessly when it comes to relationships.

@AyoBaby

6 жыл бұрын

Jillian Shene So true. Fluff messages have invaded the church. People just want to hear how God is going to pour "blessings" on them, and the preachers oblige. No one wants substance anymore. This was definitely a great Word.

@nickcatron821

3 жыл бұрын

4 years later and this is still relevant if not more so now in 2021. The church is still absent on this teaching absent on suffering as a Christian, persecution because you believe and a list so long I don't think we could list it all. Men have either given away their place or lost their place in the home and in society and so feminized they don't know how to stand in the gap or lead the family. Biblical teaching in the US has long been absent so we could have the best numbers on a board in the front of the church on a quarterly or annual report. We have allowed our teachings to be compromised for the sake of not offending anyone or "stepping on anyones toes" Godly Fear has been replaced by God's love and that's the only attribute we know. Sorry to rant on but we need more Preachers and Men of God like this who will take a stand and lead their families, in their church, and in their government. If we are absent the world will establish their rule over God's in a heart beat.

@115dancingqueen

2 жыл бұрын

They're only concerned with feel good preaching (a la Osteen and T D Jakes), and ripping off the dumb congregation contributing to their obscene wealth!!!

Incredible.when you break it down like that.

Thank you for lifting my spirit today ❤ I really needed to hear this ❤

Thank you!!!! I needed to hear this today.

God Bless those that pray together and not Prey together..the ones that stay on fire for God so that the flames won't go out in their relationship God Bless them Lord remind them why they did it❤

Thank you Voddie. 🙏🏾

Thank you so much for this meaty word. Not just a word from himself, but this is a true teaching! Thank you!

I just finished watching this video and am blown away. Blessed beyond measure. Dr. Baucham, thank you so much!!!

I cant stop listening to this,for sure we need such a challenging sermon to awaken us to lead our families

Beautifully said 👏🙏

Brother Voddie, God bless you.

Just Wow!!!!! Thank you

Dear man of the Holy true God, I thank you for the love that you preach

wonderful message

POWERFUL !!!!

This is good. I've told/taught men that they are to be "shepherds" for their families.

This blessed me, I needed this

Amazing...

The best sermon on the man and his responsibilities ive ever heard.

Amen.

Another Awesome Message from the man of God

Thank for blessed massage.

Excellence! Thank you.

Good for me to listen to this sermon over and over thank you!

The conviction in this is what I need. My first ministry is my family.

Thanks for speaking this.

So good.

Praise God for Voddie Baucham and his sound and effective teaching of God’s word!

So needed this

I wish I would of heard this message when it first came out. But I got a lot out of it thank you. Glory Be To God .

I thank God for the gospel

Wow! Halleluyah, there IS still sound teaching on this subject. Great job brother and thank you!!

Holy God bless this pastor for the message ive been given today, God bless you

Thank you...so much .. spiritual wisdom that I will fulfill as a father and husband. God Bless you 🙌🙏

Amen hallelujah Needed this for what’s ahead

Great sermon.

Kimberly, Well spoken.

God bless you

Great sermon

Powerful word.

Thanks Voddie

Thanks Pastor, this is a well needed sermon. May GOD bless You 🍃❤🍃

Great!

Wow this is good!!!!!!!!!! Praise Jesus at every opportunity!

Wonderful teaching 🙏 thank you pastor Voddie 😇❤

Excellent sermon! Love it. Great Job

Love this

Very well spoken!

Awesome