Used for Her Money

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The plaintiff says she didn’t want to date the defendant at first, but they reconnected later. She claims they broke up after she realized he was using her for money, and she’s suing him for breach of contract. The defendant says the plaintiff is only suing because she still wants him. He’s countersuing for harassment.
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  • @chawklitWarrior
    @chawklitWarrior Жыл бұрын

    He sounds like the type to go to church…to PREY…not PRAY. I guarantee he shows up for the food and free giveaways

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmao facts.

  • @spirituality1126

    @spirituality1126

    Жыл бұрын

    Prey right

  • @1010QUEEN7

    @1010QUEEN7

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @B1FORLIFE

    @B1FORLIFE

    Жыл бұрын

    👏🏿👏🏿

  • @cclem5836

    @cclem5836

    Жыл бұрын

    You said it best! Facts!

  • @ElderSlimm
    @ElderSlimm Жыл бұрын

    The defendant sounds pathetic. Brothers if you borrow money from a woman just pay her back.

  • @jasonmoses7785

    @jasonmoses7785

    Жыл бұрын

    Vice versa. Tired of the double standards

  • @mrglass311

    @mrglass311

    Жыл бұрын

    How about just don't borrow money from a woman.

  • @KaiserShield

    @KaiserShield

    Жыл бұрын

    Just woman?

  • @Proverbspsalms

    @Proverbspsalms

    Жыл бұрын

    No! Women stop giving money to men. Problem solved!

  • @misterbee66

    @misterbee66

    Жыл бұрын

    Seriously.

  • @siehop88
    @siehop88 Жыл бұрын

    Rule #1 - don’t let a man borrow no money period

  • @my.0224

    @my.0224

    Жыл бұрын

    Periodt!!

  • @staceywilliams1863

    @staceywilliams1863

    Жыл бұрын

    Simple!

  • @cc3956

    @cc3956

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely correct, I truly played myself I was dating a Nigerian, he got me good…. I should’ve took him to court, but he will be dealt with by the universe.

  • @palo5959

    @palo5959

    Жыл бұрын

    Don’t mess up the game

  • @tedra6455

    @tedra6455

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. It erks me when a man/male ask a female for money or anything. Get you own. Unless he's your husband.

  • @nerotenore
    @nerotenore Жыл бұрын

    Don't use your mother's death as a pass/excuse to treat people any kind of way once you're done using them up.

  • @blackspider1405

    @blackspider1405

    Жыл бұрын

    for real... he's pathetic

  • @willietimpson6659

    @willietimpson6659

    Жыл бұрын

    This knuckle head makes it hard for good men like me but I still don't understand why beautiful women like her navigate to these deadbeat users and abusers but want even give a good decent man a conversation

  • @tomswill9189

    @tomswill9189

    8 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @BOSSLADY-cu8vs
    @BOSSLADY-cu8vs Жыл бұрын

    He said he was grieving...I guess that $600 PlayStation was supposed to help get him through the mourning process 🤔

  • @Price8903

    @Price8903

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @niatoolit

    @niatoolit

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @alajuwonhiggins8865

    @alajuwonhiggins8865

    Жыл бұрын

    It can. Word up. Playing my ps5 helps me deal with stress.

  • @urss31

    @urss31

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

  • @queencharlibee1991

    @queencharlibee1991

    Жыл бұрын

    Gaming takes you out of reality tbh. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Soo ... Yea, it'll take his mind off it alot.

  • @meeka7067
    @meeka7067 Жыл бұрын

    Forced a relationship 😂 sir come on . He sound ridiculous. You dry begged for money

  • @misterbee66

    @misterbee66

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely.

  • @philophilosopher7149

    @philophilosopher7149

    Жыл бұрын

    Meeka...

  • @tom11zz884

    @tom11zz884

    Жыл бұрын

    She forced him to try to like her

  • @mitulu74

    @mitulu74

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmaoo its dry begging at its finest

  • @ursulaquickfallbaynes2350

    @ursulaquickfallbaynes2350

    Жыл бұрын

    She's too beautiful for him!! Don't know what she saw in him!!!

  • @carlpotter007
    @carlpotter007 Жыл бұрын

    This dude was so trifling that the judge didn’t waste his energy cussing him out. The judge just let him talk himself into the hole and just let the dirt fall on him. It was magical! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @yannapretty121

    @yannapretty121

    Жыл бұрын

    MY BROTHER AND I BUSTED UP A FEW DUDES ABOUT TRYING TO STRONG ARM OUR SISTERS WITH THE WOO WOO GAME!!!! AN ASS KICKING WAS OUR APPROACH TO PAYBACK!!!

  • @janinelew2483

    @janinelew2483

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yannapretty121 I wish I had brothers.

  • @yannapretty121

    @yannapretty121

    Жыл бұрын

    But You Do!!!! They are all around you. ☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️

  • @wileyjohnson5681

    @wileyjohnson5681

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@janinelew2483 Explain?

  • @yannapretty121

    @yannapretty121

    Жыл бұрын

    @@wileyjohnson5681BUT.. BUT. YOU... YOU. DO... DO.

  • @scottrogue946
    @scottrogue946 Жыл бұрын

    This is what happens when you extend grace to people who don’t deserve it. She shouldn’t of reached out at all. None of her concern

  • @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981

    @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981

    Жыл бұрын

    She's saw a good looking dude but still decided to be involved with it after everyone try to warn her.... She let her lust block her logic and reason that's why she got played

  • @Price8903

    @Price8903

    Жыл бұрын

    So true Scott.

  • @drelex9845

    @drelex9845

    Жыл бұрын

    He most definitely used her lol

  • @magicworld3242

    @magicworld3242

    Жыл бұрын

    @Scott Rogue, Stop being ridiculous. You shouldn't extend grace to people, just because you expect something in return. Then you're not really extending anything at all. She's a full grown woman. She's not a victim.

  • @glenncurley680

    @glenncurley680

    Жыл бұрын

    She was lonely, he was grieving. People confuse sex for love.

  • @cecee_x3391
    @cecee_x3391 Жыл бұрын

    He’s so manipulative and pathetic, glad she got her money! Don’t go back sis!

  • @bcjones181131

    @bcjones181131

    Жыл бұрын

    You can tell how they talked after court she still likes him alot. They'll be texting each other in the parking lot 🙄 😆

  • @disneystargirl101
    @disneystargirl101 Жыл бұрын

    A man begging for money is shameless and pathetic. You're working 12 to 16 hour shifts and trying to guilt trip a woman to get you something to eat?

  • @gabrielleelliott500

    @gabrielleelliott500

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah he need to go back to the streets

  • @tedra6455

    @tedra6455

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry! He should of been embarrassed. Asking a women to feed him.

  • @Ange_D
    @Ange_D Жыл бұрын

    See....he figured she was a sucker...cause the first time he would've asked me for 💰, I'm letting him kno I'm broke and matter of fact, I need to borrow sum money, too 😂

  • @claudiah2563

    @claudiah2563

    Жыл бұрын

    I have a friend who is always dry begging. I just pretend I don't hear it and I start complaining how stuff is expensive and I have to be careful about my finances, I can't wait for my next pay cheque, I can't afford to go out, etc. With these people, you have to strike 1st with your own broke ass story.

  • @blackreacher

    @blackreacher

    Жыл бұрын

    I was a guy who lived off women, dated older women and a lot of them pay to play. However, I started life off in on a decent track, got sidetracked into a culture that I had left as a teen/young man, so I had a base to get back to. Point is, I earn over 100k net per year now and most bm can get it together too. I'm able to help a woman, help us to live a comfortable lifestyle and this is a challenge believe me, if you're a bm like me looking for a bw. A lot of y'all are lost in media, worldly imo and we don't connect spiritually.

  • @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    Жыл бұрын

    @@claudiah2563 I had a Cousin like that, we grew up together I just had to cut her completely off...always begging. She's the same person be talking about people are jealous of her and what she has. She was living with a man but you want to come try to borrow money from me.The last straw was when I was in a Rollover Crash I was in ICU for a month and then my grandmother passed away two days after my crash, soon as I got out of The Hospital, guess who start hanging around asking did I have insurance when I had my wreck.. I'm glad her ass is out of my life it's been 7 years of Pure Non Begging Bliss 👏🏾

  • @ericastout4552
    @ericastout4552 Жыл бұрын

    He made a fool of himself

  • @kayshawnsimmons5585

    @kayshawnsimmons5585

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup🤡🤛🏿😹😹😹

  • @blackkingyoung

    @blackkingyoung

    Жыл бұрын

    You a ,lie lol

  • @majik31401

    @majik31401

    Жыл бұрын

    THATS GOOD SHE MADE HIM SIGN PROMISSORY NOTE AND KEPT HIS TEXTS

  • @kayshawnsimmons5585

    @kayshawnsimmons5585

    Жыл бұрын

    @@majik31401 gotta have witnesses or receipts

  • @motherof1294
    @motherof1294 Жыл бұрын

    It dosent pay to be nice to these men even when they don't ask directly they have a sob story for their needs

  • @mrshappilymarried1

    @mrshappilymarried1

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly..use Wisdom and Sound Judgment but I guess a lot of women don't have that...

  • @pattiamoh1136

    @pattiamoh1136

    Жыл бұрын

    I wouldn't give a man nothing ever men can't love it not in them

  • @motherof1294

    @motherof1294

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mrshappilymarried1 I don't think it means a lack of judgement or wisdom

  • @mrshappilymarried1

    @mrshappilymarried1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@motherof1294 it absolutely is a LACK. Definitely not an ABUNDANCE...that's for sure. Giving money repeatedly to a man who doesn't have his own and isn't paying you back is a lack of sound judgment and wisdom but you can sugar coat it if you like🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @montrellross8736

    @montrellross8736

    Жыл бұрын

    I'd bet you think that men should have no problem dating single mothers.

  • @mssharelltiahna1169
    @mssharelltiahna1169 Жыл бұрын

    She seen that he was vulnerable from Grief & tried to play wifey to him to be in a relationship. He seen that she was desperate for a relationship & used her & hid behind “well you say you wanna be there for me in my time of need right?” Pretty much guilt tripping her. They both wrong if you ask me

  • @Corduroy66

    @Corduroy66

    Жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY!🤣

  • @mssharelltiahna1169

    @mssharelltiahna1169

    Жыл бұрын

    @kofi E no that’s called a bum. Especially when you gotta act like it’s a loan, say you’ll give it back & guilt trip the woman (about your deceased mother) to give it to you. Ain’t NOTHING “playa” about that.

  • @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mssharelltiahna1169 Right, that was just talk,he had no intention on paying her back. He figured he'd have her so in love with him she would just forget the loan

  • @author_tiffany_dionne

    @author_tiffany_dionne

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mssharelltiahna1169 Seeing an opportunity to show a man you can be a good woman to him isn’t wrong. She was naïve and lacked wisdom, but not malicious.

  • @Sheherhis

    @Sheherhis

    Жыл бұрын

    Its no law against wanting to be a man's women and wanting to be there for him. That doesn't give him the right to try to milk her because he's grieving or he's a womanizer. Some men are like that they see a women as a ticket to access to money and things.

  • @meekashabazz6135
    @meekashabazz6135 Жыл бұрын

    Ewww I had a man like that. Asked me for $1500 to flip. Said he’d giv me 1500 plus 3,000. I blocked his crazy bum ass too.

  • @leahvance2806

    @leahvance2806

    Жыл бұрын

    Ahaaaaaaaa🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "flip" haha

  • @SamuelsReview
    @SamuelsReview Жыл бұрын

    How many times is he going to repeat himself? 😂 She... She... She had an agenda Yo Honor and I... I ... I was... GREIVING 😏

  • @NyleveRenee

    @NyleveRenee

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly!!!

  • @shelocsher2396

    @shelocsher2396

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @GangstaBoo7

    @GangstaBoo7

    Жыл бұрын

    No seriously, I even yelled WE GET IT 😂😂😂 kept talking in circles

  • @Fannyyyyy_

    @Fannyyyyy_

    Жыл бұрын

    @@GangstaBoo7 you got meee goingggg in circlesssssss lmao 😅🤣😅🤣😂😂😂😂

  • @BelieveInGOD1113

    @BelieveInGOD1113

    Жыл бұрын

    *grieving🙂👍🏽

  • @highlander666
    @highlander666 Жыл бұрын

    It's hard to be sympathetic for her situation, she knew he was trash and proceeded to get involved with him anyway 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris

    @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris

    Жыл бұрын

    You said it for me.

  • @montewilson9567

    @montewilson9567

    Жыл бұрын

    From minus day one 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @adrianprince7266

    @adrianprince7266

    Жыл бұрын

    Funny because when I say it everyone seems to take issue. Nothing but hypocrites...I've been saying it all along

  • @heyrobertcarter1

    @heyrobertcarter1

    Жыл бұрын

    Ouch!!!!

  • @magicworld3242

    @magicworld3242

    Жыл бұрын

    You attract who you are. So, if he's trash. So is she 🤷

  • @MrsRens-LionessofJudah
    @MrsRens-LionessofJudah Жыл бұрын

    He is one of those men who in their 50's, 60's wanting to settle down but looking for a woman to take care of them after they have all these multiple health issues, broke and alone. They die alone because of how they use, mistreat people in their prime years.

  • @higher_pwr8178

    @higher_pwr8178

    Жыл бұрын

    As the saying goes, an old fool was once a young fool.

  • @chick-fil-agal2264

    @chick-fil-agal2264

    Жыл бұрын

    Right on, got 2 files across the street from me, n a friend's ex in the making

  • @higher_pwr8178

    @higher_pwr8178

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chick-fil-agal2264 Be helpful, but be smart. I say this because you can't tell a fool a damn thing because they know everything.

  • @monicabrock7121

    @monicabrock7121

    Жыл бұрын

    Girl!!!! Who else sees this??? Bums

  • @FaithandNova

    @FaithandNova

    Жыл бұрын

    That's the truth and he'll find a desperate woman who will take him in 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @JM_HUh
    @JM_HUh Жыл бұрын

    It’s funny how the men will accept money, a place to stay, cars, & gifts but the woman wanting an actual relationship is where they draw the line 🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @annat9582

    @annat9582

    8 ай бұрын

    Bc that’s what parasites do they suck and drain but never replenish

  • @ryandixon7604

    @ryandixon7604

    6 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 yeah its called being a playa

  • @JM_HUh

    @JM_HUh

    6 ай бұрын

    @@ryandixon7604 a “playa” don’t need a woman to sponsor his life, that’s a BUM 😂

  • @TiffanyNina
    @TiffanyNina Жыл бұрын

    He reminds me of a boy I used to date when I was younger... as soon as they start asking for money run ladies. I know he probably putting it down cause that’s what they do but it’s not worth it 😂😂😂

  • @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981

    @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981

    Жыл бұрын

    She didn't care about the Warner signs because this brother is good looking... She let her sexual lust blind her.... The reason why black women are struggled because they let good looking dudes bamboozled them and when black women feel stupid they want to take me to court to try and sue

  • @TiffanyNina

    @TiffanyNina

    Жыл бұрын

    @@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 he’s not all that lol... I guarantee she came out of pocket because of that D 😂

  • @milanC4659

    @milanC4659

    Жыл бұрын

    LoL 🤣🤣 smh !!!

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    Жыл бұрын

    Not that much putting it down in the world blessings.

  • @josephwilliams2006
    @josephwilliams2006 Жыл бұрын

    Well you shouldn't have eaten the food. 😂😂😂

  • @blessedgal6901
    @blessedgal6901 Жыл бұрын

    The best way to beat a user at their “dry begging” game is the second you start talking to them, state all the bills you have to pay and mention how expensive things are now, then at the end ask them how they are doing. They will be hesitant to ask you for anything.

  • @kikiisnotpressed5830

    @kikiisnotpressed5830

    Жыл бұрын

    Right and if not there's your answer right there. No good.

  • @kikiisnotpressed5830

    @kikiisnotpressed5830

    Жыл бұрын

    Eéchj

  • @NewlifeNewbeginnings2

    @NewlifeNewbeginnings2

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol great advice, thanks!!

  • @msjones3245

    @msjones3245

    Жыл бұрын

    😂 facts

  • @staceywilliams1863

    @staceywilliams1863

    Жыл бұрын

    What you doing all that for?! It’s just NO MFER! I ain’t got shit for ya! Y’all too nice wit the cat n mouse bs! 😅

  • @msholliday3935
    @msholliday3935 Жыл бұрын

    You always gonna be doing too much for someone who don’t want you.

  • @juliajewels4035

    @juliajewels4035

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts....things always have a way or revealing itself, even if we dont acknowledge it.

  • @BigBecky25

    @BigBecky25

    Жыл бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @taquitarattler

    @taquitarattler

    Жыл бұрын

    That part!

  • @tedra6455

    @tedra6455

    Жыл бұрын

    Not really. If you have self esteem you won't.

  • @karendorsey4780
    @karendorsey4780 Жыл бұрын

    He was trifling! She was too nice! He took advantage of her! Said she was asking too much of him! But he took everything she gave him! Just shameful!

  • @carlajones8741
    @carlajones8741 Жыл бұрын

    I'm stingy with my money and don't lend money...

  • @sylviabranch4201

    @sylviabranch4201

    Жыл бұрын

    Me either

  • @kgames1748
    @kgames1748 Жыл бұрын

    "Just can't think until I get that bill paid" 🤣🤣 that's a good one 🤣

  • @kgames1748

    @kgames1748

    11 ай бұрын

    @@MrModusOne 🤣🤣

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 Жыл бұрын

    so his cousin warned you and you still dated him lol !!

  • @velishajohnson9011
    @velishajohnson9011 Жыл бұрын

    Judge is a trip. Got me crying laughing 😂

  • @ShineForlyn777

    @ShineForlyn777

    Жыл бұрын

    😁

  • @kgames1748

    @kgames1748

    Жыл бұрын

    He be on it 🤣💪🏿

  • @marqueldeaneee
    @marqueldeaneee Жыл бұрын

    I understand he lost his mom and was grieving but wasn’t grieving too hard to not ask for money stop asking for money if you are so upset

  • @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    Жыл бұрын

    I hate to say it but I'm just going to keep it 100.. He probably put his Mama through Hell..... I'm sure he hit her up for money all the time too... I doubt he sent her on that Cruise, His Character speaks VOLUMES... I'm sure he's worried his mother some awful, Rest In Peace Moms

  • @PaulineWatts-vf8dx

    @PaulineWatts-vf8dx

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 🎯

  • @lilliewalker3126

    @lilliewalker3126

    Жыл бұрын

    He tried to buy his love but it backfired on her

  • @FaithandNova

    @FaithandNova

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BOSSLADY-cu8vs he probably also lied about paying for his mother trip

  • @sylviabranch4201

    @sylviabranch4201

    Жыл бұрын

    @BOSS LADY yes a momma 's boy

  • @jamingjohnson2275
    @jamingjohnson2275 Жыл бұрын

    He is doing a lot of talking and ain't saying anything. Sad....

  • @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    Жыл бұрын

    Let me tell my story.... Still don't know the story

  • @misterbee66

    @misterbee66

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly.

  • @nawgee
    @nawgee Жыл бұрын

    Bro used his moms passing as his defense to his trifling ways. . .sorry excuse for a man right here

  • @becky9231
    @becky9231 Жыл бұрын

    It's amazing how men / women will accept, food, clothes, money, cars, trips, housing, etc..But when they want to escape the relationship it goes into to the court system..🙄🤔🥺

  • @_MoneyMike_

    @_MoneyMike_

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @yannapretty121

    @yannapretty121

    Жыл бұрын

    AND, WHAT LESSONS, HAVE YOU LEARNED, IN YOUR GREAT EXPERIENCES, OF SUCH ??? I NEED YOUR HELP?!!!!

  • @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
    @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 Жыл бұрын

    He’s RIDICULOUS, but so is she. Because her friends, which is his cousins WARNED her about him. But yet she had to see for herself 😏

  • @prettywingsbus

    @prettywingsbus

    Жыл бұрын

    She said once his cousins told her about him she broke it off. It was years later that his mom passed that she offered her condolences because she empathized with him. He saw it as an opportunity.

  • @clarkwinters8299
    @clarkwinters8299 Жыл бұрын

    I’m glad she got to see him early and able to get away from him before she was to far in it giving him money

  • @_MoneyMike_

    @_MoneyMike_

    Жыл бұрын

    I mean it’s her fault lol

  • @FaithandNova

    @FaithandNova

    Жыл бұрын

    She knew he was a womanizer she put herself in that position to get played

  • @chrisdownes7881
    @chrisdownes7881 Жыл бұрын

    Mr.Emmett:"She was too overwhelming".😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 Judge Mathis:"She was overbearing".😂

  • @aprila6628
    @aprila6628 Жыл бұрын

    If he say ",like I said I was grieving about my momma" 1 MO Dang Time!! 🤦🏽‍♀ smh a damn shame.

  • @michellelogan9177
    @michellelogan9177 Жыл бұрын

    This grown boy was using her like it was his mama. This grown girl knowingly step to the mama position. Ladies never give a bf money 💰 for his bills and livelihood.

  • @sylviabranch4201

    @sylviabranch4201

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @ericakane6388
    @ericakane6388 Жыл бұрын

    I hope she gained some self esteem from This experience, so she won’t settle for another dusty ass ninja again

  • @dollarperlike4087
    @dollarperlike4087 Жыл бұрын

    My Brother…..be a MAN!

  • @blackreacher

    @blackreacher

    Жыл бұрын

    No doubt

  • @memaw3510
    @memaw3510 Жыл бұрын

    I made this mistake before. Cut off a user. That's why I'm single. I hate when people take advantage of your kindness.

  • @ME-vb6pq
    @ME-vb6pq Жыл бұрын

    He sounds like a whole bum talking about she’s harassing him for asking for her money. Wow. I would not be proud of my son acting like that at all. He should change his ways out of respect for his deceased mother and himself. That’s embarrassing and the young lady needs to get herself some esteem. I’ve bn a fool for love too but she couldn’t have even loved him that fast. Sometimes we as women can do a lot just to try to prove to a man that we are the one he should be with, but if we step bk and gather ourselves we realize he may not be the one we should be with in the first place. Take your time ladies and heal whatever causes those feelings of being incomplete. Most times it’s daddy issues. Don’t ever prove yourself to anybody until you’ve first proven yourself to YOU. ❤️🙏🏽 *Somebody done told this joker he’s fine that’s the problem. 😂

  • @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    Жыл бұрын

    Low-key I think that was part of the sympathy game, his mother may have went on a cruise to Jamaica but I doubt he paid for it

  • @ME-vb6pq

    @ME-vb6pq

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BOSSLADY-cu8vsYou make an excellent point! I’m with you on that. He sure doesn’t sound like somebody who woulda paid for a trip to Jamaica or anywhere else! 😂

  • @edwinagray4373

    @edwinagray4373

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh no, they take care of moms. Bet he didn't pay too much to get her back to US.

  • @TeesSmootheSounds
    @TeesSmootheSounds Жыл бұрын

    LESSON 101: NEVER....Lend nor Give 💰to anyone you are NOT #Married to, including Fiancées!💡👀🚫

  • @blackreacher

    @blackreacher

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha yeah right. Most of these women are paying for penis, basically tricks. It's the only way a feminist can get a dude

  • @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    Жыл бұрын

    Or Cook Thanksgiving Dinners 🦃

  • @BVaxter
    @BVaxter Жыл бұрын

    Typical sad part is women will see this and still mess with his sorry behind.

  • @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    @BOSSLADY-cu8vs

    Жыл бұрын

    This Is True🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @misterbee66

    @misterbee66

    Жыл бұрын

    Definitely. Unfortunately.

  • @rosej5029

    @rosej5029

    Жыл бұрын

    At least w/this one he's handsome so I can understand compared 2 the trolls in past episodes.

  • @supremeclientele1356
    @supremeclientele1356 Жыл бұрын

    I promise y’all Uncle JM put me on dry-begging! I can spot it a mile away now…I stop it before it even happens! Thank you Uncle JM! 🙌🏾😘

  • @RealLadi228
    @RealLadi228 Жыл бұрын

    Giving men money shouldn't even feel right its just as bad as a man asking a woman for money!

  • @AceDramaBeats

    @AceDramaBeats

    Жыл бұрын

    I disagree, in a relationship both people look out for each other.

  • @viviandufe2247

    @viviandufe2247

    8 ай бұрын

    no lies told

  • @RealLadi228

    @RealLadi228

    8 ай бұрын

    @@AceDramaBeats Key word "Relationship" "Commitment" These dating streets are communism😭

  • @lornepatterson1393
    @lornepatterson1393 Жыл бұрын

    Just a month ain't together.

  • @ahmaniwesley3316
    @ahmaniwesley3316 Жыл бұрын

    Lmao he’s talking in circles… gave me a headache 😂😂😂

  • @carlwest.9057
    @carlwest.9057 Жыл бұрын

    Even thought she knew he was a womanizer she still tried to be with him, so there shouldn't been any surprises. I'm happy she got some sense, but money will make anyone have sense when they start to go broke when they give too much. "If it don't make money, it don't make sense"

  • @traceyjackson4470

    @traceyjackson4470

    Жыл бұрын

    Well Alrighty Then…PREACH!

  • @SamuelsReview
    @SamuelsReview Жыл бұрын

    JM: Do you have any evidence???? D: 🤔 THE TRUTH! Me: 😂😂😂😂 Where did they get him from?

  • @theriawilliams818
    @theriawilliams818 Жыл бұрын

    Some people never change.When he opened his mouth it all came out..

  • @maesams6212
    @maesams6212 Жыл бұрын

    If a guy asks for $ , even 1 time... be leary! I believe that she was overbearing! But he shouldn't ask for $.

  • @jasonmoses7785

    @jasonmoses7785

    Жыл бұрын

    Everybody need help sometimes. No matter the gender. Get that out your head.

  • @maesams6212

    @maesams6212

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jasonmoses7785 No, get borrowing out of your LAME head! Learn to be a man!

  • @Cherishbarber94

    @Cherishbarber94

    Жыл бұрын

    Right she wasn’t to overbearing to get money from?

  • @jasonmoses7785

    @jasonmoses7785

    Жыл бұрын

    @@maesams6212 well Im sure you either old ASF with a name like Mae and stuck in your ways so I Kno u single and have been since your 20's .. u can keep your change im sure what every man says that comes your way. You are a headache to society and to yourself.

  • @jasonmoses7785

    @jasonmoses7785

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Cherishbarber94 Naw not at all. He should have known what comes with the GIVING if he wasn't tryna pay back. shyt noone wants to just give an not receive anything back of substance whether it's loyalty and being thankful by paying back. So he played himself and so did she by entertaining the thought of buying a grown ass man a game system. Lol

  • @nyjahbrand1466
    @nyjahbrand1466 Жыл бұрын

    Women loose all common sense behind a man. I’m happy I’m in my 20s learning my lessons even if it’s the hard way, I refuse to be in my 30s and 40s having a grown man say I pressured him into a relationship or a having casual sex with a man.

  • @Godsbutterfly4923

    @Godsbutterfly4923

    Жыл бұрын

    That's right! Keep up the good work! -Jesus loves all and wants to save all! Romans 10:9-10✌️

  • @kikiisnotpressed5830

    @kikiisnotpressed5830

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly, you got this sis! To me, it's all a measure of self love which promotes self worth. You always have to remember that you are worth the best you can get out of life. You learned younger than me, for some of us it takes a little more time and mishaps along the way.

  • @staceywilliams1863

    @staceywilliams1863

    Жыл бұрын

    Not all women, baby! I’m cold as ice! 😂

  • @RacieRain

    @RacieRain

    Жыл бұрын

    20-year-olds become old fools. Run in the opposite direction at any sign of foolishness. There are plenty good men out there. Amen

  • @maxxpopp2373

    @maxxpopp2373

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm in my 50's and I've never done any of the things these women do to learn any lessons like this. I was never the gf/bf type of girl in my teens so I wasn't really interested in dating a lot. I'm still not. I had 1 bf. We married when I was 18. He was 23. He died when I was 28. We had been married 10 years. I'm 53 and I've never remarried nor dated anyone else. I don't date by choice and I am a beautiful black woman with a nice figure. That's never been an issue. Just never been interested in it like that. I'm not opposed to it but My life is peaceful without it. I raised my 2 daughters without going out with anyone for 12 years. My husband was an exceptional man and I didn't even realize that he really almost doesn't even exist anymore. 😂😂😂 The way I hear women complaining about whats on the dating scene is horrendous.!! 😅😅 I changed my career to cyber security Management several years ago and focused on that part of my life. I continue to try and demonstrate to my daughters the power of being self sufficient and truly independent. However independence does not mean you don't want relationship but you just learn to weigh out how you want to live.

  • @christelm1695
    @christelm1695 Жыл бұрын

    The plaintiffs face expressions 🤣 and he keeps smiling when she explains that he used her !

  • @wadilotus

    @wadilotus

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope she's looking goofy from shame

  • @bmoney6939

    @bmoney6939

    Жыл бұрын

    N pay them back with extra

  • @RellieMoBB
    @RellieMoBB Жыл бұрын

    His family gave her a fair warning

  • @bakeembakeem
    @bakeembakeem Жыл бұрын

    She knew he was a womanizer, and yet she continually gave to him🤔

  • @allymaree8812
    @allymaree8812 Жыл бұрын

    I wanted to ask who is raising these sorry men..... but had to remember single mothers are! Including myself, & hopefully my young son will turn out upstanding despite the circumstances I brought him into.

  • @cheyb2257

    @cheyb2257

    Жыл бұрын

    The problem is the fathers willingly bring absent in the children’s lives we need to get married first before we have any man’s children

  • @nene7544

    @nene7544

    Жыл бұрын

    he sure can … try and try hard for positive grown men to be in his life… no grown boys

  • @allymaree8812

    @allymaree8812

    Жыл бұрын

    @Ne Ne I'm working hard to keep my kid from being that black male statistic, as I was raised with college-educated parents, still married 40+ years still to this day.

  • @allymaree8812

    @allymaree8812

    Жыл бұрын

    @Chey B I wish I coulda made better decisions 😔 for his sake. I didn't know his dad would be such a coward, but I'm far from that & will make sure my child has access to everything beneficial to his success 🙌🏾 I'm claiming it 😊🤗

  • @Proverbspsalms

    @Proverbspsalms

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cheyb2257 it’s not always the man. Stop

  • @Cyclonefn3
    @Cyclonefn3 Жыл бұрын

    I can’t fathom ever asking a woman for money. That’s Weak Any way You put it.

  • @dameinparker7636
    @dameinparker7636 Жыл бұрын

    He should get into the middle of the street with a sign saying I'm broke

  • @Fannyyyyy_
    @Fannyyyyy_ Жыл бұрын

    Judge Mathis: Do you have evidence sir🙄 Defendant: THE TRUUF I JUST THREW MY PHONE 🤳😂🤣😭

  • @VocallyYours3
    @VocallyYours3 Жыл бұрын

    He played himself.🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @venicesmith4525
    @venicesmith4525 Жыл бұрын

    A real grown dummy, girl bye!! She tried to purchase him

  • @blackreacher

    @blackreacher

    Жыл бұрын

    Truth. You appear to be very attractive to me

  • @scores718
    @scores718 Жыл бұрын

    Cooking for him was lovely gift. That's it. One gesture. She needs women's group support.

  • @SiimplyAngie7088
    @SiimplyAngie7088 Жыл бұрын

    Lady no one can use you if your the one that’s dishing out, you wanted a relationship and he didn’t now your scorned! ❌❌❌❌

  • @gabrielar9611
    @gabrielar9611 Жыл бұрын

    No good deed goes unpunished. He wishes she still hit him up, he look hungry asf

  • @ms.parker7655
    @ms.parker7655 Жыл бұрын

    “No I’m not finished and umm”🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheCinComedy
    @TheCinComedy Жыл бұрын

    anybody that lean over the table like that is guilty

  • @kevindavis2187
    @kevindavis2187 Жыл бұрын

    HE DEFINITELY USED HER, BUT SHE KNEW EXACTLY WHAT TYPE OF GUY HE WAS FROM DAY 1, SO I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR HER .

  • @TheQueenrevolution
    @TheQueenrevolution Жыл бұрын

    I hate to see a sorry azz man. She came with an agenda but he begging the whole time.

  • @Crooklon
    @Crooklon Жыл бұрын

    He is straight doo doo

  • @BestLifeBagLady
    @BestLifeBagLady Жыл бұрын

    She thought she could trauma bond but he was focused on his 1st bond 💔💔💔

  • @blackkingyoung

    @blackkingyoung

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤️ Ilol I see alot of women on theses comments going in on me 😂

  • @jimdpiazza6270
    @jimdpiazza6270 Жыл бұрын

    The guy's a liar and he twists the truth. I feel terrible for her having to meet him. Hopefully she has met an honest guy because that's what she deserves. She appears to be an extremely nice lady honest. He's probably in jail.

  • @jadeacampbell5206
    @jadeacampbell5206 Жыл бұрын

    You didn’t want to cry on her shoulder. You wanted her money

  • @melindawilson4470
    @melindawilson4470 Жыл бұрын

    His family warned you . Please listen they handed you the red flag . Take heed

  • @nikkif9873
    @nikkif9873 Жыл бұрын

    He is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂 what evidence do you have???? THA TRUTH

  • @deeznutz2810
    @deeznutz2810 Жыл бұрын

    Stuttering Steve had me cryin’😭😭😭

  • @Imissyoulou

    @Imissyoulou

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too. He is kinda funny.

  • @misterbee66
    @misterbee66 Жыл бұрын

    He cannot explain himself.

  • @Fairwayqueeno345.
    @Fairwayqueeno345. Жыл бұрын

    Never give a man money, unless he is your husband and you help one another. ( Who paid for his suit and tie).

  • @AceDramaBeats

    @AceDramaBeats

    Жыл бұрын

    Never give a woman money, unless she is your wife and you help one another. That's a great lesson, too many men out here being used for money.

  • @SheilaTrueLove
    @SheilaTrueLove Жыл бұрын

    Any woman who give men money don't deserve to get anything back. Stop being so desperate and thristy and you wouldn't find yourself in these predicaments.

  • @terriwilliams4803
    @terriwilliams4803 Жыл бұрын

    Welp, she was told by HIS own people, what he was, so, its a lesson learned. Its 2022, and any woman still giving men money, she is desperate and just plain stupid.

  • @leyahruizdeloreto6420
    @leyahruizdeloreto6420 Жыл бұрын

    I bet she was a body to lay next to, an ATM , a restaurant that delivers, but relationship!?? People just love to use others up and give nothing in return, but she's a fool! I know she has children to care for, that's their money!

  • @tracypayne8790

    @tracypayne8790

    Жыл бұрын

    YEP .

  • @genocidemoose9293
    @genocidemoose9293 Жыл бұрын

    I’m grieving for his mama too.😭😭😭😭😒

  • @lorenzolyde5746
    @lorenzolyde5746 Жыл бұрын

    She’s suing him for $370? She just want to see this man again.

  • @foreverfavored729

    @foreverfavored729

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂 Exactly

  • @vainbeautyconcepts
    @vainbeautyconcepts Жыл бұрын

    Not she came with a motive😑 Nah he came with a motive🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @cheryljohnson1632
    @cheryljohnson1632 Жыл бұрын

    My mom got me@ 10 yrs old, borrowing dish liquid from ‘good’ neighbors , she went ‘off! Don’t borrow, don’t loan, don’t co-sign, don’t move w nobody, don’t-let my sons move in , God bless the child that’s got his own, thank you

  • @Lynntheintuitive
    @Lynntheintuitive Жыл бұрын

    You can tell with the controlling thing that she is that but he never thought that she would take him to court.

  • @bmoney6939
    @bmoney6939 Жыл бұрын

    They probaly slept together after they left the courtroom

  • @josephBC3652
    @josephBC3652 Жыл бұрын

    Not the Church!!! Damn,

  • @justsobrandi1142
    @justsobrandi1142 Жыл бұрын

    Straight dry begging and giving excuses. So in order for her to help him she had to pay his bills. 😂

  • @areacode228
    @areacode228 Жыл бұрын

    My rule is not to buy me anything for a year aside from dinner and vice versa. I don’t understand this much begging from a man!

  • @poppmaxx2348
    @poppmaxx2348 Жыл бұрын

    He only went to church on Easter and I bet he finds the most Easter eggs in the egg hunt! I know he leaves all those little kids crying and disappointed down a that church😂😂😂

  • @neshamojanay9423

    @neshamojanay9423

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @goodwillloveyou2133
    @goodwillloveyou2133 Жыл бұрын

    You’ve any evidence sir Plaintiff: 🗣 The truth My ass : 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭

  • @andreaidesalvo9738
    @andreaidesalvo9738 Жыл бұрын

    Been there done that as the saying goes! It is a bitter lesson to learn when the time comes that the woman realizes WHAT A FOOL she has been!! Sad all the way around this should just say LATER FOR HIM and move the heck on and never LOOK BACK!!!

  • @betrevryday1
    @betrevryday1 Жыл бұрын

    She got away lucky could’ve been much worse .

  • @dimelaschey3748
    @dimelaschey3748 Жыл бұрын

    He was even draining Judge Mathis 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @akimat418
    @akimat418 Жыл бұрын

    When his family said he was no good, run!! Don’t look back!!

  • @patriciagarvin7564
    @patriciagarvin7564 Жыл бұрын

    I love you judge you're so funny I watch you for a very long time I don't do nothing until you go off then I start my day

  • @wandabellamy6120
    @wandabellamy6120 Жыл бұрын

    My sister when he asked u for that first loan, u should've ran like Hell n the other direction and Judge Mathis is a trip...i like to hear him say dry begging and crackhead.😂😂😂

  • @mrshappilymarried1
    @mrshappilymarried1 Жыл бұрын

    Judge Mathis you know darn well a woman cooking food for a man, especially a whole Thanksgiving dinner..she's trying to get next to him! Knock it off...

  • @Larbear_1887
    @Larbear_1887 Жыл бұрын

    A begging man is such a turn-off. The first time he fixed his lips to ask me can he borrow something would've been his last. He most definitely took advantage of her.

  • @kgames1748
    @kgames1748 Жыл бұрын

    That stupid look on his face when judge Mathis said good then you can pay that money 🤣🤣💪🏿💪🏿

  • @neshamojanay9423

    @neshamojanay9423

    Жыл бұрын

    Ikr 😅😂

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