Unlocking Your 20's and 30s: 3 Questions to Create the Life You Want | Stephanie Wilson | TEDxUSD

That decade between a woman's 25th and 35th birthday is where she makes most of her life defining decisions-- I call this The Everything Era. The Everything Era represents a woman's most foundational life years... It's the time for us to set the tone for our identities, our careers, our homes, and our families. And yet, we are currently separated by only ONE generation of women who still had to have a man's permission in the U.S. to have a bank account! While these outdated ways have thankfully expired, we are now coming up against a lot of pressure to make ALL of our decisions within a 10 year window! Before we can decide what we want our lives to look like, we need to question our thoughts and beliefs - and WHO they came from. Are these people who we want deciding the direction of our lives? I believe there are three questions every woman can ask herself to get more connected to the life she actually wants: (1) WHAT do I think I'm "supposed to do" (2) WHO told me it has to be this way? (3) Are they right? The more I looked around at the actual women in my life that I admired- and saw how they were putting their lives together in many different ways that were beautiful and specifically suited to them, the more I was able to see that there was room for me to do the same in my own Everything Era. This is what I want for everyone. "I'm Stephanie May Wilson and through my books, courses, and podcast, I help women take off the pressure of what they think their lives are supposed to look like by now - and then intentionally, confidently, and authentically build the life they actually want to live. My biggest passion is helping women navigate some of the major life transitions so many of us experience in our 20s and 30s...
Being single and getting into a relationship, getting engaged and then married, changing jobs, moving to a new city, and (this is the HUGE transition I've been going through lately!)... becoming a mom.
I’m here to be a mentor, a friend, a guide, and a cheerleader. I'm here to tell you that you're not alone in what you're going through, and that you WILL make it through.
I’m also here to equip you with as many resources as possible to help you not only survive these gigantic transitions, but truly thrive. (My favorite is the Girls Night Podcast!)" This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @leahcameron9153
    @leahcameron915321 күн бұрын

    So much truth for those of us living this out! Great job Steph! Proud of you!

  • @elizabethritter5501
    @elizabethritter550114 күн бұрын

    Amazing, Steph! So proud of the work you’ve done and so grateful I’ve gotten to hear all your sage advice over the years and now in your book!!! ♥️

  • @sabrinalangner8657
    @sabrinalangner865721 күн бұрын

    I love this Stephanie! Thank you for being real, compassionate and so articulate about this topic. My life is beautiful based on the decisions I ultimately make, with the input of people who I care about, love and trust. So well done.

  • @krystad9790
    @krystad979021 күн бұрын

    Stephanie, you did a beautiful job, and your inspired words are such a blessing! Thank you for the hope, love, and light you bring to the world!

  • @charlottefout
    @charlottefout21 күн бұрын

    Thank you, Stephanie! This is so helpful and encouraging as I am in the thick of The Everything Era.

  • @leahjonescrank
    @leahjonescrank21 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing Stephanie! So excited to read your new book.

  • @jessicaswanda4358
    @jessicaswanda435821 күн бұрын

    So enjoyed watching this and appreciated those three questions. Cheering you on!

  • @marccenter4012
    @marccenter401221 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much. Buen Camino!

  • @lauroncreasey6754
    @lauroncreasey675421 күн бұрын

    Incredible as always, Stephanie! It's the big sister advice all girls desperately need. Thank you for always encouraging us!

  • @carolinamarrelli
    @carolinamarrelli21 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your insights with us! Job well done!

  • @BeBlessedEncouraged
    @BeBlessedEncouraged21 күн бұрын

    Love this. Thank you, Stephanie, for being so real and loving in sharing your story and encouragement to women.

  • @kayleewestra7699
    @kayleewestra769921 күн бұрын

    Loved hearing this and your perspective on the questions we are ALL having!! Thank you for this insight!

  • @clairejorgensen-phillips4287
    @clairejorgensen-phillips428721 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much, Stephanie! Loved every moment of this! You're so real, raw, and refreshing for us all!

  • @sarahjansen4746
    @sarahjansen474621 күн бұрын

    Wow this was incredible Stephanie! Thanks for sharing!!

  • @lisamparry3293
    @lisamparry329321 күн бұрын

    Great job, Stephanie! This is incredible!

  • @glorianaberry3623
    @glorianaberry362321 күн бұрын

    This is such a wonderful and timely topic! It's so important to pay attention to where the standards we set for ourselves are coming from and to make sure we are listening to what God says instead!

  • @ShannonDenien
    @ShannonDenien21 күн бұрын

    Amazing talk! Great job

  • @jannyloaf77
    @jannyloaf7721 күн бұрын

    So good glad I listened in ❤

  • @HannahWright
    @HannahWright21 күн бұрын

    Enjoyed listening!!

  • @AshleyStahlCareers
    @AshleyStahlCareers21 күн бұрын

    What a beautiful talk!!!!

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