Xeno? Groomer? Bullshit, he doesn't even have any hair.

@Ykesha

5 ай бұрын

Holy shit lol

@Tyrbris

5 ай бұрын

GOTTEM

@AoABlodhgarm

5 ай бұрын

Best comment!

@FatalFatalisFtFts

5 ай бұрын

xffing

@Rello84

5 ай бұрын

that was quite bald of you

I’ll never believe in the ‘ffxiv content drought’ when theres new drama dropping every few weeks 😮‍💨

@thelucariamonarchs4889

5 ай бұрын

Facts

@jedahaw

5 ай бұрын

This isn't even FFXIV drama, just regular drama.

@pastaboy1338

5 ай бұрын

@rmbfralno wonder i kept churning out thousands of Tsai tou nouvou everyweek and they still sold like hot cakes

@Tailionis

5 ай бұрын

Limsa was fricon packed this week. Moogle brought people back.

@occiderisaethiopissa3702

5 ай бұрын

This has nothing to do with Ff14.

Man so lost in BDO he thought he could PVP in twitter

BLESS 🙏 Thanks for this Xenos. They went after my sponsors and mentioned my mom and brother who passed away. They can ROT.

@BlazingMarauderDCUO

5 ай бұрын

Jeez...

@FingerPuppetSarcasm

5 ай бұрын

I love your content. Sorry this happened to you.

@strawberrysundaes

5 ай бұрын

@@SleepyRaijin Shut yo ass up and sit down.

@YunalesckaGames

5 ай бұрын

@@SleepyRaijin go ask your friends that who harassed me on twitter. Ask the ones who recorded my streams. Disgusting. It’s literally all over the internet and screenshotted. You saying that’s a lie? Gtfo and don’t EVER speak to me again.

@frostmourne1986

5 ай бұрын

This thread is going into the history books eh?

I'll never understand this guys mindset. Minding my own business and posting photos of an event then he commented that? I know Sleepy for saying wild stuff under other FFXIV post but if I was annoying, block? Also why would you want to comment and try to get attention from your "harasser"? Weird ass.

"Leaving" is the easy part. Staying away from a stalking, abusive person is the hard part.

@deathsythe238

5 ай бұрын

@@csrjjsmp so you are saying that staying away from a stalker/abuser is easy? and that physically leaving is harder.

@moogleboy

5 ай бұрын

@@csrjjsmp You are always in control of your own actions. You have drastically less control over other peoples actions. Between the two, you leaving is much easier than being able to stay away from a psycho ex. So, you're 100% wrong.

@AlvinY4kitori

5 ай бұрын

Hard and harder, bud

@azayzelhoarde8913

5 ай бұрын

as soon as i see my partners stalker/jealous possessive lying side is when i mind fuck them into depression where they belong and let them know i wouldnt look twice if they self deleted themselves and theyre too much of a coward to do it but love to try come back and say sorry thats when you look at them in disgust and walk away i havent seen her since her 500 spam texts 3 months ago

@azayzelhoarde8913

5 ай бұрын

dont show those pricks your weak theyre pathetic projectors that would easily throw you under the bus for themselves

watched this live, the other parts cant come any sooner for the youtube frogs, this guy is seriously insane. Some that stood out is him making multiple accounts following midna with names making fun of her mom's breast cancer, years of harassment and revenge porn. jesus man

@Lion-tq7ob

5 ай бұрын

Dude f-d around and found out, now he's crying he's going to delete his RL account because of this. Just another cry for attention. He's going to run through the entire victim playbook in the span of a week. He's getting what he deserves.

@Sugar-bz5np

5 ай бұрын

sad thing is some ppl will simp his side because he used the abuse victim card.@@Lion-tq7ob

"why do you care about who broke up with who" i can answer that from personal experience: if the abused person is the one who breaks up with the abuser, it is a sign of taking back control of your life and finally saying "no". The though for standing up for yourself is very important in this instance. (not defending the dude, just answering the question in general)

Ah so thats the culprit behind those weird spammy comments on Xeems video with something about being groomer stuff....

take this with a grain of salt because I don't know the guy... but this is very reminiscent of my own behavior before I was treated for BPD. Never-ending victim complex, jumping to extreme conclusions, the inability to hold a cohesive emotion ("feeling" like you forgive someone only to regress and feel even angrier than before), shifting ideals, a hyperfixation on the past being unable to move on, etc. He needs mental help and to remove himself from any community. One of the first steps I had to take towards healing was to completely detach myself from the notion of having any parasocial community online. It's on him to mitigate his own access to create harm.

Damn, lots of drama in February. Falling down so many rabbit holes.

I am going into my 50s and I feel like I am too old for these kind of drama. I have been playing MMORPG since 1998 and I've heard it all. Matter of fact, something similar like had happened many times over in FF11 online twenty years ago. If these kinds of drama has taught me anything, I very seldom mix pleasure (mmo) with romantic relationship.

I still remember all the outlandish demands for Spud's age. They call you creepy, but then demand private information about a friend. Absolute psychopath mentality.

@acidxcross

5 ай бұрын

I don't think demand age information is a bad thing. Millions of people are born on the same day, its impossible to find relevant information by age alone. Asking for real name or adress is one thing, but age is completely harmless. If you are in the right, why hide it then?

@whodoktor930

5 ай бұрын

​@acidxcross it is not that u hide something, it is about the fact that u don't just give privat information to stranger online. Bc it is true, with just age u can't find that much. But it is still a private information that u or anyone else online (talking about strangers online) has no right to know anything about someone and I will not give u privat information about them.

@RiskOfBaer

5 ай бұрын

@@acidxcross Demanding any personal information for people who are essentially strangers to you is ridiculous. They don't owe you anything and you should stop being a creep, not you specifically but people who do it. It's none of your fucking business.

@bubblegumkitty9331

5 ай бұрын

@@acidxcross no one needs to know someone's age on the internet. It's the right of the individual to disclose it. Breaking that right is a violation of one's privacy and safety.

If he will just keep bringing the "I'm a child since I'm 22" remark, then he should just turn on KZread and everything into Kids mode and only play PG13 stuff. Relationship? Too young for it, he should be banned from social media for being a 'child', like he claims to be. Easy fix. This dude... I'd seriously ask: You want to do adult things and have adult priviledges? Accept the adult responsabilities too, dude. This means as well to not behave like a child caught lying 24/7. He just seems to flip the script every time he's caught with something, wtf. And he's @'ing the sponsors? This goes beyond "I'm just a child" and straight into malicious behaviour.

9:53 Couldn't agree more. If THIS is evidence of assault, then he needs a reality check, because all he's doing is trying to manipulate people into being sympathetic. And it has nothing to do with him being a man. If a woman was complaining about a boyfriend hitting her like this in a video while she's playing a game, it wouldn't be assault there either.

@OldManInternet

5 ай бұрын

@@Chaoskoch I'm not. I'm saying if that video of him complaining about her hitting him was his example of physical abuse, he's an idiot. That's all. I also think the allegations he made against Xeems seem weak, as well as how he was trying to act like he was a child when he started dating her despite him being 22 at the time. I have no idea who Midna is, or her side of the story. I wasn't weighing in on any other aspect of the story, because I'm not invested enough to get into this particular drama beyond what Xeems makes videos on. The Raijin guy just strikes me as someone with some mental health issues, and should probably work on that.

@OldManInternet

5 ай бұрын

@@Chaoskoch I meant beyond what was covered in this video. I haven't tried to verify it or anything like that. Usually when there's something like this, there are multiple sides, and more to it. My point was I didn't look into it any further, because it wasn't necessary.

@frosty6845

5 ай бұрын

@@Chaoskochshut up incel

Someone wake me up for part 2 pls!!!!

As a man who's been physically assaulted by my partner before, you're spot on. Now, women's assault doesn't automatically hurt if there's a large physical difference, but it fucks with your head. Theres also the escalation, if she was trying to physically hurt him, she would likely go and grab a weapon to do so with. I had things thrown at me that WOULD hurt me, and was woken up while I was asleep with a slap to the face because that was a way she could get me actually hurt (it worked, I had a black eye for a few days) That slap was mean, but he didn't take it seriously. He only cared about his game. The only reason he cares now is because he can milk it for pity, but at the time he didn't care. If my girlfriend laid hands on me while I was trying to game, that would have been end of game, end of stream, end of whatever I was doing. I'm leaving whatever location we're in, because it fucks with your head. Also, how does this justify anything he did after the relationship? I didn't try to ruin my abusers life, I just left. It took a little bit to get out of there of course but I didn't start calling her family or doxxing her. I cared about MY safety, not ruining her safety.

Take it from someone who has been through it. Leaving is the easy part but complete freedom from them? Now that’s the hard part. Because sometimes you are never free of them. Sadly.

@momos5803

5 ай бұрын

@@csrjjsmp I won’t argue and say it’s not difficult for some. I know it is for sure.

More parts to come. Waiting

Projection: The Man

Damn I thought this was gonna be the desolance video

i always wonder how everyone would react if it was a guy hitting a girl would xeno makes the same excuses if a guy hit a girl, saying "this is why i dont want you going out, this is why i want to come with you to keep an eye on you" and about how he cant trust her because its a guy he doesnt like, he sweeps it under the rug and downplays it no one would say "shes laughing while being hit, so its not serious", people would instantly say thats her way of coping with the situation the guy might be insane in other ways, but lets not act like you would have seen it differently if you got sent a random clip of a guy hitting a girl in the same situation

I like u adding (HUGE DRAMA), pls keep categorizing the magnitude of drama leo.

To be fair… it really doesn’t matter.. if you put your hands on someone else it’s assault by definition.

I despise this twitter nonsense. As someone who has actually been SA'd police should be involved if any of these claims made by either party is true. This should all be offline and handled properly and with actual consequences. Both parties, I don't' talk to or care about either. Both of them should be going to the police, both of them look worse for this and this should never have been brought online. This is to be handled by professionals not online I myself am not old but even I know you go straight to the police with this not on twitter and twitlongers... police can actually stop it, police can actually result down the line in financial penalties and asset removal... this twitter stuff is asinine.

While I do agree with most of the points made here, the uncomfortably laughing to cope is actually a real thing. Remember, not everyone deals with abuse, no matter how small or big it may be, in the same way. So trying to apply the situation of x person to y person is a bad comparison. People don't work that way cause every individual has different behavioral patterns for different situations. It's why some people get stuck in toxic relationships forever, cause they don't have the mindset or the mental strength to just leave like most people would.

I also laugh when I'm uncomfortable or things get tense because I try to find humor in everything. This dude didn't even stop playing

looks like the dude deleted his whole twitter lmao

@extinctbaryonyx

5 ай бұрын

yep, in hiding mode now

Nah the whole "don't assault me i'm playing the game" isn't something to hold against Raijin. At some point you start rationalizing or learn to handle attacks like those in a way that's similar to bargaining or trying to reason with the assaillant. You see that a LOT with male kids who have women hit them, especially mothers. If you mock the attempt (if the person isn't persistent or strong enough to be a danger to your life) or if you try to appear on their side (if they're going at it seriously and you can't respond), you can bury the fucked up situation at hand in your head while continuing what you're doing, to pretend "everything is normal", laughing about it is something men do a lot too. A common example is a child getting up to escape a parent's fucked up accusations/hits and continuing to play their games/read their books/whatever. I'm not saying he didn't do anything to make anyone mad, but I'm saying that just this isn't a fucking problem. I saw it happen to too many people.

man we're rolling on 2/3 parters as of late hahaha

Where’s part 2?

As someone who used to be in an abusive relationship for 14 years, it is very hard to leave. I have a long way of healing, but I'm glad I was rescued and out of there. Hope that this streamer can get the peace and love she deserves. Hope she gets the help she needs. From a domestic violence survivor to another, you are not alone. Abusers always act like the victim. Midna I don't know you personally but I'm with you 💯

TBH i would watch this, but man... this past month tired the shit out of me with the Palworld drama, i will add to my playlist for when i'm able to witshtand more drama, and if twitter will dissapear nothing of value would be lost, artist would go to artstation or pixiv, so...

From Genshin to FFXIV drama. Spicy lol

@ARandomUser5

5 ай бұрын

Right? Was my first thought too

@Tailionis

5 ай бұрын

What's a genshin?

@Tailionis

5 ай бұрын

@catlover-qh8pq people support that? Pathetic

Reading through midnas document and 100% believe that this guy is absolutely fucking insane

This isn't the drama video that Xeno is working on, right?

@Tyrbris

5 ай бұрын

No, there's apparently something else.

@TNTspaz

5 ай бұрын

I'm honestly really curious what it is at this point. Cause this is the only person that I know that hates Xeno this much and has regularly called Xeno a groomer and demands personal info from Spuds constantly.@@Tyrbris

2 years ago i had an ex like him. he constantly abused me emotionally and psychologically for months. made me cry on a daily basis and allways went behind my back to others to talk sht on me. after i finally cut the noose, he could not let go of me, despite enjoying daily "im done with you" sessions. this guy is just as bad. and honestly. good riddence

More stuff might still happen in the video, but about the part on 11:00 and around that. Victims of abuse sometimes look for escape and reasons for abusers to stop. No matter how stupid it might seem to the outside people, playing a game and using it as a shield could be a way to reduce the ammount of abuse they get. Also, when you tell abuser "stop hurting me" they often enjoy themselves more. There are reasons why people recommend ignoring bullies, but it still rarely works. At least it often reduces the escalation of the problem. It might work as a temporary fix, but it cannot solve the problem. Sadly, an abused person rarely is capable of fully understanding the situation and making reasonable choices as they are already in a spiral that is hard to understand to them and more often than not they just try to survive, rather than fix the problem. I do speak from experience of my school life, it was years ago and I would never let anything like that happen again, but back then I survived around 5 years without trying to fix anything. It was tough and unreasonable, but I knew no better and it might be the case for others too

I just want you to stop wearing basketball shorts and slip-on shoes to conventions

@XenosysVex

5 ай бұрын

WTF THEY ARE NOT SLIPPERS 😤

@kahome

5 ай бұрын

Lol let the man wear whatever he wants 😂 or buy him the apparels.

@RaineAshe

5 ай бұрын

Next con, he should show up in short shorts and old people slippers just lean into the joke more, lmao

tentacle stuff? are you secretly ultros

I used to be in his discord which was a chaotic mess about a year and a half ago and an echo chamber he created for himself. I made the mistake of revealing some intimate details about myself and he outed my private information on a stream he did after he got angry at me for poking fun at him in a joking manner because in our discord we liked to go back and forth. Guess he didn't like it when I did it on stream. He singled me out and humiliated me in front of all his friends and viewers. I instantly left his discord after that and never looked back. I used to think he was cool, but the dude is foul. He's messed up and he needs to spend less time guzzling white claws and more time at a therapy office.

@Sugar-bz5np

5 ай бұрын

the fact you again mention his personals only makes you look reallly bad dude@@vayporie

It always annoys me when liars puppet the points real people, or victims in some cases, made. Cause I'll agree sometimes when a first relationship end poorly you can left reeling or just don't look forward the same way again.

Haha was funny listening to this nonsense till I heard she actually hit him. Cause they weren’t play fighting, she sounded actually upset. There’s never a good reason to put hands on anyone. Had he done that to her, even in the same manner where she wouldn’t be actually hurt by it, it wouldn’t end the same way with people laughing about it on the internet. That’s about the only thing I can side with him on. Not being physically hurt or dramatically traumatized does not make it right.

Not gonna lie, I misread Sleepy Raijin as Sleepy Biden. But yeah, this kind of stuff is shitty to deal with.

@bc9554

5 ай бұрын

Wake up. Joe Raijin.

A small woman punching a larger man is still assault, even if the man does not fear for his life. It has a big mental impact regardless, bad take there. That's the exact same reasoning that leads to society believing men can't be domestically abused. Having said that, this guy is definitely a weirdo.

@Fuyuqi

5 ай бұрын

Yeah that's the part that gets me annoyed. If you've seen the guy before his twitter was deleted, obviously she wasn't winning any fights against him but she evidently felt comfortable walking up to him knowing he was streaming and still felt comfortable slapping him loud enough for the mic to pick up.

First I'll say the guy seems nuts, as well as immature. Latter is slightly understandable, given his age, but yikes. But laughing while getting hit is something I did as a child. Step-dad was a terrible person who liked to beat me up from ages 7-11. I would laugh because as I would find out much later, I'm autistic, and it was something I reactively did, which would cause him to hit me harder and more for thinking that "it's a joke". I think it's obviously unsettling how quickly she swung her hands in that clip, like, it was so abrupt and implies a pattern of doing so. But him focusing on the game definitely implies he isn't all that unsettled by it in this specific case of it. It was also technically assault, but if this single instance was the most traumatic thing he's experienced; then it's definitely overblown.

The guy just needs therapy and to get offline. sheesh.

People that cant settle things like adults. lifes too short for all this nonsense man.

i had history with Raijin on Exodus. I Beefed with him for a long time b/c he made slanderous clickbait videos talking about my friends in Limsa he actually knew nothing about. BLocked him evntually. Also , he's a shit DRG in pvp.

1 clip vs a 30 pages long doc 😂

I just want to point out that Sleepy Raijin just pulled a "Darvo". Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Ofender

omg, is this why some were spamming some copy pasta bout groomerstuff and xeno in the last 14 livestream chat D: I kept wondering where that came from

Xenos takes are normally beyond reasoned and well mannered but it strike me as a yikes moment when he asserts that "ohh she's not beating you to death, you're worried about her hitting you because you'll die in a game! this isn't abuse!" Physical assault of any pedigree that isn't, like, consensually sexual I guess, is inexcusable. I don't care if she's beating his teeth out of his skull or slapping him across the cheek. Putting your hands on someone else in an act of violence is not moral behavior and often blankets underlaying temperamental issues. At the same time chat is laughing at the dude saying he's laughing while getting hit, therefore, it's a jolly good time! When earlier in the same stream he stated that he's prone to nervous fits of laughter, which is something I am also likely to do myself. Dissapointing.

@natebroadus8474

5 ай бұрын

The problem is, it all hinges on Raijin's preface about why he's laughing. You have to believe him, because if you hear that video devoid of context, it sounds very far from some traumatic abusive event as he claimed it to be. Compare that with the Depp/Heard stuff. Anyone with ears could tell how abusive she was, and they needed no context to hear it. Add to that, his actions aren't those of an abused victim, but someone whose first serious relationship ended and he didn't know how to deal with it. He's backpedaled so hard he needs a bike.

@drinks1550

5 ай бұрын

thank you for proposing an analytical perspective on the drama, however, I don't think it is our position as outside observers of this internet personage's drama to determine how appropriate someone's response to drama should be. Everyone copes with trauma in their own ways. As for myself, small non-problematic situations became very manipulative and traumatic ultimatums and attacks when i retrospectively realized my 2 year relationship was an abusive one. It wasn't until my current fiancé of 6 years that someone told me I had a subconscious flinch when someone rose their hands at me too quickly. (I'm good now btw, broke that habit!) I bring this up as an example, not that I expect you to care or to garner pity or anything. Hope you understand my intent.@@natebroadus8474

@natebroadus8474

5 ай бұрын

Honestly, I'd be more willing to stay objective if it weren't for his other actions (stalking Midna using various accounts, taking aim at people just for having been seen with her, releasing revenge porn, Etc.). He's damaged his own credibility with the actions he took after the fact. It makes it nigh impossible to believe his version of the story, because, again, you have to believe him for it to hold water. His "evidence" is flimsy, at best.@@drinks1550

@aphilli97

4 ай бұрын

It’s not a yikes moment your just not paying attention or your over sensitive. He was laughing clearly in the video. He wasn’t getting abused

@drinks1550

4 ай бұрын

i greatly value your opinion thank you for sharing@@aphilli97

the tea is hoooooot

Answering to the kind of question at 12:59 : bdo community is exactly the same as wow community, i.e. toxic, thinking of 14 as "weeby shit" and "furry shit", sometimes even going as far as calling it a game for queer and rainbow people. EU servers chat is full of messages like those every time someone mentions 14. He simply is example of what's going on in there And for what is worth, even bdo streamers think this guy is a clown.

@katolight8006

5 ай бұрын

I've played BDO for around 9 years, and on the server i play I've never hear people talk that way. its surely more toxic than FFXIV, but BDO is also a PVP game which brings those kinds of people. FFXIV has its toxic side too with gatekeeping EX/Ulti/Sav community. Don't say its not, i've also played FFXIV since ARR release pretty much.

@tearsinpain

5 ай бұрын

BDO community is what the internet was 10 years ago full of turbo nerds , gay jokes and you are a pedo if you play Shai.

I know this is a serious issue BUT that picture 😅🙈🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I'm no law expert but sounds like defamation in the work.

I can't say much besides that I also laugh when I'm uncomfortable or someone is angry at me. It must be a coping mechanism. So if nothing else, I do believe the laughing isn't "laughing" in the traditional sense.

@Sugar-bz5np

5 ай бұрын

i guarentee you dont laugh when somebody is violently beating ur ass

He pulls in other ff streamers out of frustration with the space. Honestly, his case sounds believable but probably drummed up some because of him simply lashing out. Some of the shit he's saying is irrational, which only makes it more believable. That doesn't mean he's the good guy in this situation, no, it sounded like they both treated each other like shit but she's trying to act as if she was a perfect angel. He sounds creepy, kinda screwy, maybe obsessive and possessive, and she sounds like she's the type to get fed up with it and would find escape by cheating on him. If it really did end in a mess, it would be because neither individual behaved like an adult about the situation. All of it being petty and childish. Which.. would fit with it being his first relationship. Guys are often always weird about their first too, particularly in the possessive department like i mentioned earlier. Since we're probably never going to know the actual truth, he started with shit, she made it worse, they both hate each other, she hates that his streaming is picking up and is now trying to ruin him years later.

14 Drama.. the real Patch 6.55 content.

His Twitter is gone 💀

That guy is trash and crazy, I even knew about him before this with how he behaved in game to people I knew from my FC but calling stuff like this drama seems kinda undermining to the whole thing she is going through and farming for content in a gross way, not gonna lie.

Getting really tired of people putting their life online...if you have a problem with someone else block them or go see a lawyer. A twit longer will accomplish nothing.

HONESTLY xeno looks better w/o hairs we may meme as much as we want but he has a nice head shape (tit), maybe is just that older photos reflect a darker timeline for our liege but i say he had a glow up ( mostly because less hair means more reflectivity )

... I'm always back to this youtube channel for more. I can't keep myself out of it. Give me more DRAMA!!! HAHHAHAHAHAHA!

@MaDJaMXIII

5 ай бұрын

I watch the 3 first parts of the sequel... This is not laughable drama.

If you are a gamer that game a lot, be Arthars about it and get a waifu who is a gamer as well. Yeah, gamers wowan might be hard to find. Don't be a lazy fuck, work to get her. be ULTI"MATE"!

I actually saw someone on the jp fanfest chat on youtube spamming about you gromming spudsy, was probably him

Bro literally is laughing like its one thing to uncomfortably laugh if an creepy person hits on you but hes literally saying to stop hitting him while hes in a game?

Dudes a content creator and he has less twitter followers than my abandoned account that's been sitting idle for 2 years 💀

Babe wake up new ffxiv drama dropped

Ffxiv drama ? Say no more!

In regards to him just "laughing it off" and "not even interrupting his game", to be fair the Rich drama girl apparently was tweeting about clothes and shopping. That's not definitive. People deal with things in different ways is a phrase I saw a lot on the Rich stream. This guy seems like a terminally online creep, but it's not totally outside the realm of possibility.

@Fuyuqi

5 ай бұрын

Yeah also he was streaming at the time, could definitely have influenced how he reacted. Plus, says something that she was willing to slap him knowing he was streaming. There coulda been worse abuse when she knew people weren't watching, who knows

Next it will be "Xeno the SKYFALLEN" in the headlines.

Just saying, as an abuse victim, we often try to downplay what's happening to us. So, him laughing and saying she's going to make him die in the game could be his mind trying to just laugh it off. The fact of the matter is you can hear her hitting him, and nobody ever should hit anyone. I don't know any of these people nor do I care, but the evidence does show she's hitting him, and it would be dumb to imagine she isn't doing this more if she does it while being recorded.

@Sugar-bz5np

5 ай бұрын

ive been abused in my own home, and we dont laugh it off. we put our arms over our heads and we panic in fear and freeze up, we dont laugh it off, the fear completly paralyzes us. im so sick of this shitty take honestly. i was absused as a kid from 8-15 and i KNOW what its like. i was absused by my ex at 21 when he threatened to strangle me. i was so scared i ran out the house at 1am with no shoes on and didnt come home that entire night. i waited at a bussstop till 6am in the freezing cold to go back to my mums. raijin is the abuser here, not yula. she was playfully hitting him, or at the very least wasnt actually hurting him, and he recorded it and put it online basically framing her for assualt. hes stalked her, harassed her and honestly. i hope she goes to the cops about him

@retrocny5625

5 ай бұрын

@@Sugar-bz5np Not everyone reacts to it the way you do. I've been in abusive relationships. A lot of times, I often tried to downplay it, I was the person trying to walk on egg shells, I was trying to defend the other person's actions, really it was due to me having a very anti-confrontational personality. I don't really know how to describe it as it's not exactly easy to talk about... but I reacted in ways similar to what this guy is doing in the video. Just sort of internalizing it and rationalizing it, hoping it would make the other person happy or make me feel like I was agreeing with them in an effort to make the argument or abuse stop. I'm not saying the guy here didn't do shitty things, I don't know him and I don't know her. But based on what I heard from the clip, my gut feeling is that this was a mutually abusive relationship and no one's hands are clean. As is usually the case more times than we'd like to admit. Rarely is it so clean cut, black and white, one victim, one perpetrator. I don't think it's fair to just explain away the fact she's hitting him in the clip, or attempt to rationalize it. That's how people avoid accountability. If he did stupid shit, he should be held accountability for it and the same goes for both parties.

@TankyCrobat

5 ай бұрын

@@Sugar-bz5np Who's to say they're both not the abusive ones? And I hate to tell you, "I'm sick of people saying we don't laugh it off" because everyone is different, and yes, there are some of us who do. I may not have laughed it off when I was a child and my drunken military father beat me, but when I was an adult with my ex for six years, I sure as hell would laugh it off because not only was I clearly raised to be a man and just "Deal" with those types of problems in an abusive household, but because I love and cared for my ex and wanted things to work with him. But we all deal with shit differently now, don't we? So saying "We don't do this" is just as wrong as "We Do this," but that doesn't mean there aren't people who do, or don't. And with the Therapy group I was with, coping via humor was just as common as it was to not cope with humor.

@Sugar-bz5np

5 ай бұрын

but NONE of this is what he has done lol. he literally antagonised her then stalked her socials as soon as she left.@@TankyCrobat

@extinctbaryonyx

5 ай бұрын

its an evident for sure, but i dont think its a strong one. Unless he got a video recording of some kind. People could rebuke that as him being overly dramatic about some 'friendly slap'. In asian culture, light slap/tap as a sign of disapproval is quite common. Also Im not trying to downplay, but im just expressing my sceptical opinion on the recording.

This SleepyRaijin guy is an awful human. Tags the sponsers on someone on a Twitter spat? They look to destroy others for 'revenge' because they want to feel like the winner for being a loser.

I haven't played 14 in a while... it's gotten weird. People assaulting each other...

@kahome

5 ай бұрын

It doesn't even relate the game bro. Just because he plays ffxiv doesnt mean its all about ffxiv drama >.>

@COREcasual

5 ай бұрын

@@kahome lol

JOEL

Male Viera moment

@Mochachocakon

5 ай бұрын

every one of them is either severally mentally ill (in a dangerous way) or a total wet towel anytime anyone is having fun

@ManeEdge

5 ай бұрын

This is kinda funny because I was harassed by a male viera as well lmao

@extinctbaryonyx

5 ай бұрын

i will not stand for this male viera slander

@lonethehunter7535

5 ай бұрын

​@@extinctbaryonyxThen sit down

Man this guy reminds me of a german streamer girl that is shitposting and accusing other people for horrible stuff with 0 evidence and whenever she runs out of arguments she calls them sexist or Nazi's lmao maybe a potential girlfriend for this Rajin dude x) Feel so sorry for Midna tho, she deserves better.

@extinctbaryonyx

5 ай бұрын

okay raijin XD@@Chaoskoch

Ah, the most sane DO player.

His other YT account is unhinged. Holy.

@MFxKuro

5 ай бұрын

which one??

@extinctbaryonyx

5 ай бұрын

his whole tweeter timeline is even more unhinged

The revenge p0rn bit is already a one-and-done

@moogleboy

5 ай бұрын

@@Chaoskoch Source: Trust me, bro.

WHERE IS OUR KISSIES

i would say that Xeno is honestly wrong about one thing and in no way i am defending sleepyidiot here assault doesn't have to be someone stomping on your head a slap in the face is assault a spit in the face is assault he might've laughed it off because it wasn't seriously damaging or anything, sure, but legally, it was STILL assault

@Lion-tq7ob

5 ай бұрын

No, it wasn't. It was a clip taken out of context and edited down to make it look like something it wasn't. It wasn't assault 5 years ago when it happened. It isn't assault now that Little Raijin is trying to play the victim. It never has been and never will be assault.

11:00 is a ridiculous comment. While I agree he's probably lying some people cope with abuse by immersing themselves into video games to escape. I doubt the girl he's dating is super abusive and he probably just doesn't care about her but to say he's laughing so he can't be getting hit hard is cope. I think anyone with abusive parents who hit them while they played video games can relate to this. I've actually had girls hit me harder because I'm big and they said they figured they had to hit me more to get me to actually hurt (obviously broke up with them.)

@Jondo-ik7nv

5 ай бұрын

also "no true scotsman" is a logical fallacy for a reason. I think this is more of a situation where shittyness doesn't excuse shittyness.

@mosh.4245

5 ай бұрын

It was one love tap because she caught him with drugs and he is still more concerned with BDO. Yeah I don't think it was hard.

@Jondo-ik7nv

5 ай бұрын

@@mosh.4245 I'm not arguing that he was or wasn't lying. It's the thought process behind the belief as to he was lying. A lot of people genuinely cope like that.

@Fuyuqi

5 ай бұрын

​@@mosh.4245I mean she was also comfortable walking up to him and slapping him knowing he was streaming. Coulda been worse when she knew people weren't aware

Lmao what a clown. He probably doesnt get enough attention 😂

Another 1 of those ppl equivalent to sssniperwolf in terms of spite and aggressiveness. These ppl need to be banned from the internet period.

He will always see himself as the victim, so he can justify doing exactly what he claims others are doing: fishing for dirt. He needs help.

@MFxKuro

5 ай бұрын

no he doesn't, lilbro is narcissist creep

The sound you use to edit curses hurts my ears. I can't watch this.

bro asult reactions are alll differant for people, she may have been hitting him, and being hit in gernal by law is asult, just because it doesn't hurt him ATM doesn't mean its OK for her to whap at him, and he cant even defend himself because yall would scream HE HIT HER, disregarding HER HITING,Bite, and being an asshole to him

Buhhh

@75skyloftmexican

5 ай бұрын

buhhh

@volts6042

5 ай бұрын

buhhh

Sociopaths are more common than people think.

Draaamaaaa

Bro if being barely tapped on the arm or back or chest by some chick is the most traumatic experience in your life. You’ve lived a very cush life. There are people out here who live in constant fear from a past assailant, bro’s got it made compared to them.

@Wastingsometimehere

5 ай бұрын

Total gaslight anyway. She's mad. He's mocking her for being mad. Saying the game is more important. if she hit him it was out of frustration than the power to actually hurt him.

@Wastingsometimehere

5 ай бұрын

@@Chaoskoch Yeah he sounded so worried. "If the sexes were reversed". If the man is a 5 foot twink and the woman is a 6 foot muscles girl laughing I would. Sit down.

he or she, should take thia to court instead of farming drama clicks. This turned out to be a victim competition and one of them is lying. Amazing people using the internet...

@ColeEvyx

5 ай бұрын

Exactly, if any of these claims are true they should be immediately taken to the police to be filed at the very least. That doesn't mean you need to charge but there should be a record.

@mrgr3y134

5 ай бұрын

was filed and taken to court in 2019 by her@@ColeEvyx

@NoxSodoma

5 ай бұрын

​@@vayporie now, that's sad... pathetic even. The guy is an asshole and she's a liar, that might have been a cringeworthy court case lol

@extinctbaryonyx

5 ай бұрын

Its hard to do that since apparently this guy (raijin) has been doing some shady, cringe inc3l stuff on twitter harrassing midna. And the last straw was him leaving some weird comment on tiffanylockhart's post (who has nothing to do with him to begin with, and doesnt even know him). Just because Tif posted her photo with Midna on Squareenix event.

I mean, if she is hitting him then yes: She is assaulting him by most definitions of the law. Like, he's technically correct that she's assaulting him.

OK go to the cops or get the fuck over it. It was 5+ years ago.

dont know the guy but seems terminally online and bitter af.

fppong drama

GCBTW ☕