The Real Reason We're All So Busy (and What to Do About It) | Dorie Clark | TEDxBoston

These days, everyone feels pressed for time. Duke University professor Dorie Clark reveals the hidden reasons behind why we're all so busy, and why we struggle break out of the cycle of overwhelm. This talk presents a new way to look at the choices we make, and how to create more space in our lives to think.
Dorie Clark is the Wall Street Journal bestselling author of The Long Game, Entrepreneurial You, Reinventing You and Stand Out, which was named the #1 Leadership Book of the year by Inc. magazine. The New York Times describes her as an “expert at self-reinvention and helping others make changes in their lives.” A frequent contributor to the Harvard Business Review, she consults and speaks for clients including Google, Microsoft, and the World Bank.
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Dorie Clark has been named one of the Top 50 business thinkers in the world by Thinkers50, and was recognized as the #1 Communication Coach in the world by the Marshall Goldsmith Leading Global Coaches Awards. Clark, a consultant and keynote speaker, teaches executive education at Duke University’s Fuqua School of Business and Columbia Business School, and she is the author of The Long Game, Entrepreneurial You, Reinventing You and Stand Out, which was named the #1 Leadership Book of the Year by Inc. magazine. A former presidential campaign spokeswoman, Clark has been described by the New York Times as an “expert at self-reinvention and helping others make changes in their lives.” A frequent contributor to the Harvard Business Review, she consults and speaks for clients including Google, Microsoft, and the World Bank. You can download her free Long Game strategic thinking self-assessment at dorieclark.com/thelonggame. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @jessopedia-J
    @jessopedia-J2 жыл бұрын

    Real freedom is about choosing how and with whom we want to spend time with ❤❤

  • @iJuanGutierrez

    @iJuanGutierrez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes !

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @darcyeikenberg
    @darcyeikenberg2 жыл бұрын

    The more peace I find in myself, the less I feel compelled to be "busy" all the time. There's definitely a connection. Thanks for the great talk!

  • @MariaPalia
    @MariaPalia2 жыл бұрын

    This days is all about pursue a carrier and make a lot of money. We put the rest of our lifes in hold like family, friends and hobbies . Even our feelings stay in hold. I believe this is one of the reasons why Depression is rising.

  • @JoaoVictor-dw2ci

    @JoaoVictor-dw2ci

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly this

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @zvon7089

    @zvon7089

    2 жыл бұрын

    That and we're too connected with social media, believing the illusion that we have many friends who we interact with which is only really on occassional and brief instances. E.g. liking someone's picture or simply leaving a comment... no further engagement or meaningful interaction/conversation.

  • @drvren030

    @drvren030

    Жыл бұрын

    and with Artificial intelligence on the rise, i can only imagine what direction the internet will go in. now you won't make real friends when you got robot friends online and around you lol

  • @dianawudavid
    @dianawudavid2 жыл бұрын

    Let's get serious about "beating back busyiness" - alliterative awesomeness and very timely message, Dorie!

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @SayStats
    @SayStats2 жыл бұрын

    “Job can become a pain reliever.” That’s so true! Once you are fully focused into your job, you don’t have time to feel emotions like sadness and loneliness. It’s like job is the only thing that matters in that moment.

  • @parv13

    @parv13

    2 жыл бұрын

    This could become a problem in the long run, causing issues in personal life.

  • @SayStats

    @SayStats

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@parv13 Very true!

  • @Chris-tg3qy

    @Chris-tg3qy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes, and it can become the thing people do in place of handling life’s responsibilities or connecting with people. That becomes a real problem for people who are down sized out of a job or have a manager that is suddenly unsatisfied with their work in favor of a young new employee. Those people find out they spent their time devoted to something that didn’t care about them at all.

  • @mdshajalal2099

    @mdshajalal2099

    2 жыл бұрын

    If it prevents you from sadness, won't it prevent from happyness?

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @antoinebeyney8416
    @antoinebeyney84162 жыл бұрын

    There's a 4th reason : the most precious value any boss or organisation will pay for (and as cheap as possible, because this is all about that) is time, because it's the most important thing you can extract from a life form, even if this time is not occupied by what you like to do neither surrounded by people you like.

  • @iJuanGutierrez

    @iJuanGutierrez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @Chris-tg3qy

    @Chris-tg3qy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yep. Every service we had 30 years ago has turned into something we are expected to do for ourselves. We are expected to bag our own groceries, we are expected to order medications on line, and if you get an appliance delivered, in many cases, they won’t hook it up. What this means is all of the money corporations save in services has passed down to you and me. If there is a problem with anything we are also expected to resolve it even if they made the mistake. They are saving time and money at the expense of everyone.

  • @SevenHunnid

    @SevenHunnid

    2 жыл бұрын

    I had to quit my job because i started beefing it with 50 year old mfs.. and It got toxic to be there, now i spend most of my time smoking weed on my KZread channel now, meanwhile i get back to the hustle 🤦‍♂️ of course i had bread aside 🥖

  • @sucessology7570

    @sucessology7570

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's a fact buddy, but you don't need to be paid by anyone. This may sound cliche but the fact is that if you're only looking for places to work, you’ll never get the time you need. Nobody is too busy, we just have different priorities

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @rochellemyles3045
    @rochellemyles30452 жыл бұрын

    Great talk, Dorie! Several of your points resonate strongly with me personally. At the same time, I think the reasons are true for a certain social class. For many people, there is a key other reason. With so many employers cutting their labour expenses to the bone and expecting free additional hours from their employees, people are busy due to under resourcing at work. That is not in their control yet affects every aspect of their daily lives.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @DianeDiResta
    @DianeDiResta2 жыл бұрын

    Excellent presentation, Dorie. You hit on 3 real reasons why we're so busy as opposed to the excuses of why we're busy. I especially relate to the 3rd reason-numbing. When my mother died years ago, I didn't have the energy to keep up my usual pace. During that down time as I was grieving I felt the loneliness that I had masked by filling my time with work and social activities. You always provide food for thought.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @bggeorgieva
    @bggeorgieva2 жыл бұрын

    ‘Busy is a status’ - thats the best ever explanation what we turned our life into and how we mask what we do, trying to sound important

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @2369drew
    @2369drew Жыл бұрын

    What a powerful message. I will try to earnestly put it to use. It's a modern day crises. Somehow someway humans have invented this idea we have to be busy in the sake of being busy but are we truly making the most of our limited time on earth?

  • @gushernandez25
    @gushernandez252 жыл бұрын

    This is a great topic and it raises very fundamental questions including why is being too busy a bad thing? Why do family oriented cultures devote so much time wasting each others time? Why does the US promotes consumerism as a way of life, when do we get to enjoy life at home here in the US? I shouldn't have sneak in family time betwewn job shifts all year long, thats not normal. It's not adulting, we as humans should also be able to work on our homes, being there for loved ones and work on our mental and physical selves.

  • @iJuanGutierrez

    @iJuanGutierrez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts man. It’s like we waste our youth working and getting money and then we get older and get sick and have to use that money for health. It’s honestly sad that’s why we just do something we love and take care of our bodies. We don’t have to fall to society’s norm we must live a life we truly cherish. Balance is everything.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @thembelihlemasina3018
    @thembelihlemasina30182 жыл бұрын

    great speech in preparation for the year ahead. thank you.

  • @tilobatxonraximova2836
    @tilobatxonraximova28362 жыл бұрын

    thanks For this video professor Dorie Clark you are the best I believe that one day I will probably share my experieces to achive success in TEDx Talks

  • @marissafayer9726
    @marissafayer97262 жыл бұрын

    Always brilliant Dorie!!!

  • @connorbetancourt5605
    @connorbetancourt56052 жыл бұрын

    We put so much time into the little details and those little details that you want to be perfect makes It so hard take so much mental capacity. We think everything needs to be this detailed but you'll never look back in ten years and feel good about that little thing you did. We need to be busy, but we need to be busy in a way that actually benefits us.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @brunosauter
    @brunosauter Жыл бұрын

    Good talk, thanks for sharing!

  • @benabdelouhebreda1102
    @benabdelouhebreda11022 жыл бұрын

    Thank you , merry Christmas Also happy new year .

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA
    @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this space for time

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @atticusmcfly
    @atticusmcfly2 жыл бұрын

    Don't go to the bar, eliminate unnecesary friends, deprioritize watching television, sell your video games, delete your social media, have one less kid that you envisioned, live beneath your means. There now you have all the time you need.

  • @n2killu

    @n2killu

    2 жыл бұрын

    We see ur a person of culture Edit: It‘s sarcasm

  • @atticusmcfly

    @atticusmcfly

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@n2killu 🥰 Edit: I know. Lol.

  • @sentryslayer16

    @sentryslayer16

    2 жыл бұрын

    Deconstructing your life like this won’t do a damn thing to help you if you don’t have an aim in the first place. One might say that that goes without saying, but often times we forget what is important or how to figure that out at all.

  • @TheMikiomi

    @TheMikiomi

    2 жыл бұрын

    So have long term strategic thinking, basically :p

  • @benjaminhenderson7059

    @benjaminhenderson7059

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thats what we want to have time for. Those are upper class luxuries the poor have already suffered without.

  • @jacquelinecrafford7274
    @jacquelinecrafford7274 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing thank you

  • @djw8888
    @djw88882 жыл бұрын

    So sorry to read about your cat. He looks like a Turkish Angora. I lost my TA (mixed breed) last year. I think there's something special about the bond they can form with a human.

  • @DorieClark

    @DorieClark

    2 жыл бұрын

    I got him from a shelter but yes, I think it's likely he was a Turkish Angora!

  • @DorieClark

    @DorieClark

    2 жыл бұрын

    Such beautiful and special creatures and I'm so sorry about your loss, as well.

  • @XxWahuxD
    @XxWahuxD2 жыл бұрын

    well... what's the point he is making? Accepting uncertainty? Thinking long-term? Working with people we like in nice environments? After the alright build up the "what to do about it" part was a bit underwhelming for me.

  • @KevlarKoat

    @KevlarKoat

    2 жыл бұрын

    He's saying reprioritize your life goals around what truly makes you happy, and be honest, which is way harder than it seems seeing as how the ego will sacrifice happiness for many things like valor, greed, and status). It's denial territory for most so he's trying to drop useful information gently to sway the humble and to not get the typical egocentric "I'm not in denial, how dare he" response.

  • @TheMikiomi

    @TheMikiomi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I find talks tackling the big life questions like this usually have answers that feel underwhelming, but that's usually because the answers I get aren't as easy as I'd hoped. I click videos like this looking to have some epiphany, and the answers they tend to give me are "practice some self-aware thinking, get realistic, reprioritize and sacrifice some comfy but overall less important activities" ...so it's easy to feel underwhelmed but unfortunately there usually aren't magical cures to things like "feeling too busy" or "being unhappy".

  • @TPPidgeon

    @TPPidgeon

    2 жыл бұрын

    The last sentence was the point. If you're not busy, you wouldn't understand.

  • @figward
    @figward2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing and adding value to my day.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @nathanielanderson4898
    @nathanielanderson48982 жыл бұрын

    We are all so busy, because if our time is not spoken for, we will be required to spend it otherwise.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @sashakkkkk
    @sashakkkkk10 ай бұрын

    Great video😊

  • @MdWahidurRahmanOvi
    @MdWahidurRahmanOvi2 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful ted talk. Happy new year. Thank you, professor Dorie Clark.

  • @pennyweller8169
    @pennyweller81692 жыл бұрын

    Profound!

  • @Angela-je8rs
    @Angela-je8rs2 жыл бұрын

    Great!

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @drvren030
    @drvren030 Жыл бұрын

    i feel like the whole individualistic, tech-driven system we've built recently has also turned out to be a big mistake. because 1) humans are social people, we're not meant to be isolated. the only reason we can live isolated nowadays and not get bored is because of the internet available on our devices 24/7. this applies to both men and women. and this will only get worse with artificial intelligence. 2) the internet and technology has completely destroyed the social environment. we cannot just live in the present and make memories that help us develop long, sustainable emotional relationships with people. there's so much time taken in taking videos, photos, then editing and filtering them to make them look good, rather than enjoy what exactly it is you're taking a photo or video of. if you're really enjoying the present and are fully invested in the present, you actually would not be thinking of pulling out your phone to take a photo/video. the only activities for which people want to lose themselves and fully invest themselves in nowadays are drugs and s*x. 3) because of this individualistic approach, we cannot develop long, sustaining relationships with anyone. developing relationships, not connections for work, is a beautiful emotionally investing process that takes time and effort to make it work. everyone is replaceable now. like in point 2, we can't just enjoy the present anymore. we approach each social interaction only thinking about ourselves, and walk around looking tensed up, constipated, and/or opportunistic and only listen when it can help us financially or economically.

  • @geebashiri3315
    @geebashiri33152 жыл бұрын

    Can’t understand these people with money and all these problems smh. I work hard for every dollar and it’s still not enough. Can’t imagine having all these easy to fix problems and needing help. God bless you all that do

  • @n2killu

    @n2killu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well, zuckerberg dont care

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    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @EckiSchmecki
    @EckiSchmecki2 жыл бұрын

    "And as I like to say: Work is better than crack!" - Karl Marx (5:57)

  • @crackener
    @crackener2 жыл бұрын

    I’m pretty busy to watch this whole. 😔

  • @carolyntyler6585
    @carolyntyler65852 жыл бұрын

    *Mondern man is not the man who goes off to discover himself, his secrets, and his hidden truth; he is a man who tries to invest himself in something beneficial for the future.*

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    @maxgoodchild6111

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @alessiamorgan1651

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @alessiamorgan1651

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @alessiamorgan1651

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @paulwalter9516

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @saleonquiney8239
    @saleonquiney8239Ай бұрын

    Yes yes yes.💜

  • @aarxnw
    @aarxnw2 жыл бұрын

    He looks so tired, yet so charismatic, not to be rude.. captivating voice :) nice speech.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @joeaustin2919
    @joeaustin29199 ай бұрын

    When you look at human history for thousands of years compare to now, we used to have very simple life’s even though it was hard we didn’t used to commute so much all the time, we take too much for granted and not enough in return.

  • @TheModestMama
    @TheModestMama2 жыл бұрын

    Loved her talk here, would totally listen to more from her!

  • @Doctor-Juraeva

    @Doctor-Juraeva

    2 жыл бұрын

    Excuse me, Speaker is Woman?)

  • @AmanahFruitsShopOfficial

    @AmanahFruitsShopOfficial

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Doctor-Juraeva Also to my wonder, YES!

  • @richardmcallen2641

    @richardmcallen2641

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello

  • @JayKuzemba

    @JayKuzemba

    2 жыл бұрын

    Whatttttt?

  • @Doctor-Juraeva

    @Doctor-Juraeva

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dimitris_Half Whaaaat )

  • @shalinigupta8082
    @shalinigupta80822 жыл бұрын

    Definitely

  • @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA
    @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA2 жыл бұрын

    Iam so crazy busy this feeling for the human mind to deal with certainty yes exactly the importance of being keep it to that extent thank you

  • @IrishMexican
    @IrishMexican2 жыл бұрын

    1:49 I attended 62 meetings last week

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @mvexler
    @mvexler2 жыл бұрын

    Very good analysis... Maybe we can add a statistic on the percentage of procrastinators in the pool of people interviewed for the studies.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @matthewbrown6163
    @matthewbrown61632 жыл бұрын

    Interesting insight, Professor. I really enjoyed your fresh approach to personal sustainability. As a Key Note Speaker too, the biggest issue to change is to open up the minds of your attendees & divert them from their paradigms. We need to make Quality over Quantity a priority. I once worked alongside a now retired US Navy Admiral. Myself as a former Army Reserves Officer, marvelled at his ability to think clearly with multiple tasks at hand. He told me as a captain of a battleship under attack you don't have time to think - you react. who was able to multi-task & maintain full command / control. As he stated when you are being attacked by other ships & planes - you don't have time to think - you react.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @zakikhan814
    @zakikhan814 Жыл бұрын

    I've chased success and my career for years to realize I'm replaceable more so in industry than family. Money isn't worth it if you dont have time to enjoy it or spend it on those you love.

  • @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA
    @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA2 жыл бұрын

    Manifestations Yes

  • @ritataylor4646
    @ritataylor46462 жыл бұрын

    The Peter Principle: people rise to their level of incompetence.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @dm20422
    @dm204222 жыл бұрын

    ☀️

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @jasonuren3479
    @jasonuren34792 жыл бұрын

    1) status 2) uncertainty 3) numbing What is motivating you?

  • @EckiSchmecki

    @EckiSchmecki

    2 жыл бұрын

    4) weed

  • @patti8935

    @patti8935

    2 жыл бұрын

    Money, we need to earn a decent amount to survive and thrive.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @khuntaro831
    @khuntaro8312 жыл бұрын

    I respectfully disagree: Freedom is precisely the state of not having to choose

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @aarxnw
    @aarxnw2 жыл бұрын

    You’re right, where is that life long partner that pays for everything and allows me to live in the now and just live comfortably in the now, why do I need to be a robotic machine that works all the time, I deserve a different lifestyle to the one i’m living in, on auto-pilot all the time, where do I sign up for that?

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @triumph9371
    @triumph93712 жыл бұрын

    She is so cool. 😀

  • @triumph9371

    @triumph9371

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aaronrosenberg6633 I'm so Sorry. I not saw this video . I commented on this on my friend's wish. 😓😓(Hope you forgive me)

  • @aaronrosenberg6633

    @aaronrosenberg6633

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@triumph9371 No problem - I deleted my comment. I just see too many people intentionally doing this. Of course I forgive you.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @10k-Noodles
    @10k-Noodles2 жыл бұрын

    I just searched for whatever I could. I have my own problems. But the big concern is my mom. She'll be 67 in a few weeks. She's losing her vision. She was never patient with people touching her things to begin with and my brother and his kids moved in and do not respect or even acknowledge her boundaries and she's going insane. Half ot it is her being weird. The other half is them not even caring how she feels. She's getting sick from the stress. She'll beg them to shut up and let her sleep at like 3 AM and they get backup from my brother, claiming it's normal for kids to be this way art 3 AM when they don't have school the next day. Mostly, I'd like you to beat the shi out of my brother. But also, how can I help mom?

  • @10k-Noodles

    @10k-Noodles

    2 жыл бұрын

    His kids don't even listen to me. Free reign. He never had this or that and she was a terrible mother so it's okay for his kids to drive her insane. I was her kid, too, and I'm here worrying about her. But he will whne about how awful his life was in front of me.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @extremotionaltrouffas
    @extremotionaltrouffas2 жыл бұрын

    Not what one might describe as motivational, but still, some useful reminders here.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman2 жыл бұрын

    Dorie is IKEMEN, and his talk is so smooth.

  • @SensitiveSage

    @SensitiveSage

    2 жыл бұрын

    Her*

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @chamboyette853
    @chamboyette8532 жыл бұрын

    Why does no-one here think that social media could be a large part of this?

  • @daisyhinojosa23
    @daisyhinojosa232 жыл бұрын

    My main takeaway was “Work is better than crack” 😂😂😂

  • @aaronrosenberg6633

    @aaronrosenberg6633

    2 жыл бұрын

    Maybe that's what you needed to hear? It's a start.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @buffsamson
    @buffsamson2 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like Gary V

  • @biba11186

    @biba11186

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is true

  • @danielestiferson2345
    @danielestiferson2345 Жыл бұрын

    "They want to take your peace by making you so busy"- unknown

  • @jefflovenc
    @jefflovenc10 ай бұрын

    weekend gatherings......... without gatherings are endangering family relations

  • @GaasubaMeskhenet
    @GaasubaMeskhenet2 жыл бұрын

    We need to rest

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @MammaApa
    @MammaApa2 жыл бұрын

    I've read Momo. I know what's going on. It's the Men in Grey...

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @alan4sure
    @alan4sure2 жыл бұрын

    "We" are not all so busy. I have excess time. Retirement😁👍

  • @gushernandez25

    @gushernandez25

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are not the demographic of this topic but I wish you a blessful retirement.

  • @alan4sure

    @alan4sure

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dimitris_Half you'll be waiting a long time yet I suspect...Lol

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @nicolasmeon6740
    @nicolasmeon67402 жыл бұрын

    I thought Ajani was the white cat, not Gideon. I guess he was not around in 1996

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @rockbay79
    @rockbay792 жыл бұрын

    I could not determine if this was a man or a woman. I went back and read the description posted under the video, but they never made any reference such as "she presents this data" or "he claims". Was this all on purpose?

  • @goldfishcrayon

    @goldfishcrayon

    2 жыл бұрын

    What does their gender have to do with the presentation? Edit: the description does identify she/her btw.

  • @rockbay79

    @rockbay79

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@goldfishcrayon Well, for me, I never could focus on the presentation because I was confused. Is this a man or a woman?

  • @MrChampionchimp

    @MrChampionchimp

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rockbay79 why though?

  • @olympicging1155

    @olympicging1155

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rockbay79 The descriptionsays "She". Now you can focus on the presentation with no distractions haha.

  • @rockbay79

    @rockbay79

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@olympicging1155 No need, I'm retired. Ha Ha.

  • @AritheCreator_
    @AritheCreator_2 жыл бұрын

    If you’re reading this, whether or not you realize it you are a CREATOR. We are all the creators of our life experience, and by expanding our consciousness and enhancing our spiritual well-being, together we can CREATE a better world 🌎 Much love from Ari the Creator 💙

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @silverlinings3946
    @silverlinings39462 жыл бұрын

    We really don't have to work so much. The only reason we do, is because billionaires exploit the low and medium earners and then don't pay enough taxes on these unfairly gained profits. Let's be real: do we need so much stuff to survive?

  • @MdWahidurRahmanOvi

    @MdWahidurRahmanOvi

    2 жыл бұрын

    very well said.

  • @ZPositive

    @ZPositive

    2 жыл бұрын

    What a lovely steaming pile of virtue signaling platitudes. Nobody's forcing you to work more than you want. Nobody's forcing you to buy stuff you don't need. And the billionaires are the job creators and the tax payers. If you honestly believe they don't pay enough in taxes, you've been brainwashed by the lying media. Class warfare is a Marxist tactic meant to divide us and destroy this system. Stop being jealous of the rich. Their lives aren't better than yours, or mine. The second you stop worrying about it is the same second you stop being a pawn of the Marxists.

  • @richardmcallen2641

    @richardmcallen2641

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello Monika, How are you doing?

  • @ZPositive

    @ZPositive

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dimitris_Half LOL irony overload. Are you upset that someone doesn't want you to be jealous of the rich? Are you upset that someone doesn't want you to be a pawn of the left? I want everyone to be free of the left's manipulations. Are you so happy with your chains that you don't want someone advocating for you? And yes, I'm being productive here _and_ IRL. I'm taking the time to explain things to folks who very likely have been so sequestered in the lying media's bubble that they only fear and hate my opinions, rather than giving them a chance. And IRL I own a small company that employs a few good people. I'm no rich guy but my hard work has paid off in increased free time for me to comment here. 🙂

  • @ZPositive

    @ZPositive

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dimitris_Half of course you are serious. And that's exactly why I see irony. Instead of an actual rebuttal to anything I've said, you just want me to shut up and/or leave your space of jealousy and hatred. It's sad that I'm telling you that you're under control of the left, and you just want to stop hearing it. I do hope you had a very merry Christmas, and I wish you the best 2022.

  • @francoisjoinneau
    @francoisjoinneau2 жыл бұрын

    What about job sharing ? Double the teams, hire twice more people than you need, and so everyone will become a part time worker. A part time worker is healthier, smarter and more productive. A part time worker has time to train self and to train others. A part time worker can have family time, waste recycling and sorting time, citizenship time...

  • @selmakaradas3667
    @selmakaradas36672 жыл бұрын

    Türkçe alt yazılı olsaydı daha iyi olurdu.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @ThirstysURL
    @ThirstysURL2 жыл бұрын

    I think you're all busy so you don't stare at elites and think too much

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @l.r5770
    @l.r57702 жыл бұрын

    I feel like the busyness also has to do with capitalism. Social acceptance of working long long hours with 4 vacation days a year. When you do that you have little time for yourself, especially if you have kids.

  • @masontheodore4122

    @masontheodore4122

    2 жыл бұрын

    Welcome to Dr Oseghale spell home forever grateful thanks for being my Ex back to me

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @user-zv5de2mn4h
    @user-zv5de2mn4h2 жыл бұрын

    Переводить на русский

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA
    @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA2 жыл бұрын

    Work is better than crack IT IS ALL ABOUT UNCERTAINTY

  • @beamworthy4134
    @beamworthy41342 жыл бұрын

    Read books, or don't want to read a book. There are audiobooks. Instanta eous culture, just calm down

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @janklaas6885
    @janklaas68852 жыл бұрын

    🇺🇳5:24

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @janklaas6885

    @janklaas6885

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@user-qz6gc1xm9n 😂 no thanks man, glad to be of "any" help. But seriously, im very BUSY, so understand that my reaction is still very worthy, just because of the FACT, it is there.

  • @benjaminhenderson7059
    @benjaminhenderson70592 жыл бұрын

    This is only relevent to the proffesional upper middle class. For the poor, this has never been a choice.

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @anhphamngoc7709
    @anhphamngoc77092 жыл бұрын

    work is better than crack ....hmmm

  • @asafarifare9520
    @asafarifare95202 жыл бұрын

    Hahahahah

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @Mike2004Fede
    @Mike2004Fede2 жыл бұрын

    She's trying to get the rest of us to slack so he can get ahead. Stay woke

  • @extremotionaltrouffas

    @extremotionaltrouffas

    2 жыл бұрын

    lol, you're right.

  • @trinisun

    @trinisun

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ZPositive

    @ZPositive

    2 жыл бұрын

    Does someone else making money somehow take money out of your pocket?

  • @anggaapriliansyah7143

    @anggaapriliansyah7143

    2 жыл бұрын

    He just tired with this life..

  • @laraoliveira455
    @laraoliveira4552 жыл бұрын

    xD

  • @johnjames732
    @johnjames7322 жыл бұрын

    the irony is the speaker hasnt lived enough real life to even speak on the topic about not having enough time. remember only the rich virtual signal that there " busy" not middle america

  • @MrChampionchimp

    @MrChampionchimp

    2 жыл бұрын

    Define real life?

  • @johnjames732

    @johnjames732

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MrChampionchimp life can be defined by any means according to the one living it, but this presenter is not speaking from the wisdom gained from the up's and downs but from a perspective lived by privelage and statistics

  • @johnjames732

    @johnjames732

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dimitris_Half says the lonely cat lover

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @QuethLevi
    @QuethLevi2 жыл бұрын

    didnt add much knowledge or insight into anything

  • @aaronrosenberg6633

    @aaronrosenberg6633

    2 жыл бұрын

    Did you listen through to the end?

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @keegn
    @keegn2 жыл бұрын

    first xD

  • @ims-053-aman2
    @ims-053-aman22 жыл бұрын

    Second xD

  • @chisupportbaothythuychihoa4509
    @chisupportbaothythuychihoa45092 жыл бұрын

    Is the man girl or boy?

  • @Mr.Chris.P.Bacon1
    @Mr.Chris.P.Bacon12 жыл бұрын

    He LITERALLY looks like Ellen Degeneress long lost feminine EMO sister.

  • @MrChampionchimp

    @MrChampionchimp

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's not what "literally" means

  • @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    @user-qz6gc1xm9n

    2 жыл бұрын

    *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

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