The Other Side of Ego | Jonathan Gravenor | TEDxOcala
As he stared at the end of his life when diagnosed with cancer, Jonathan was hit with the fact he was not the man he thought he was - He had become the kind of man he would not want to be near. Two remarkable people appeared and taught him life's greatest lessons, and in that started him on the road to redemption that saved his soul and saved and his life. that started him on the road to redemption that saved his soul and saved and his life.
This television journalist seemed to have everything, until that everything included cancer. Jonathan writes about his intimate journey with a deadly disease. And he also tells a bigger story about how the disease launched him on a pilgrimage to become a better man. He uses his gifts, as a raconteur to show how some of the answers about how to survive his cancer were revealed in his quest for redemption.
He published his first book in 2017 - The Other Side of Ego. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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For those who have suffered cancer, how did it change you?
@NoeMoore
15 сағат бұрын
I know some people get a renewed vigor and appreciation for life after they come out the other side but I think it did the opposite for me. It made me a bit reckless and care less.
@RodneyWalker-zw6zk
15 сағат бұрын
I feel like a worse version of who I was before. I've become more withdrawn, more depressed and even more insecure about my looks. I'm lazier too because I'm so tired all the time.
@AndreaPeck-el5ds
15 сағат бұрын
It caused me to be selfish with my time. I don’t spend any time around negative people.
@LyndaeTaylor
15 сағат бұрын
I appreciate everyday I wake up and can put my feet on the floor without help.
@StevenTope
15 сағат бұрын
I don’t do anything I don’t want to.
Your true self is the observer, observing your thought processes, words, and actions. That’s not your ego/personality. It’s healthy to separate your true observing self from your personality because once you start believing you ARE your personality, it’s kind of an unhealthy attachment? it’s healthy to remember you’re just observing how your mind intakes the things you experience in life. Helps you take life less seriously and become less stressed the more you remind yourself you are simply observing life unfolding. You are the universe experiencing itself basically. Every living thing has its own perception and personality (ego), but at the same time every living thing at the core is JUST the observer.
@MarinaCarita
2 ай бұрын
Simply a great message to hear today, thanks for sharing it.
@IreenaGlover
2 ай бұрын
You know I heard about this talk last year on a Jay Shetty podcast!
@CynthisDorsey
2 ай бұрын
Perfect Ophilia, just perfect lovely share.
@JeimyPatrick
2 ай бұрын
Not sure I agree, I believe we must be able to see ourselves and not just observe ourselves.
@JoynishaMoore
2 ай бұрын
I love everything he said, and what you added.
I heard this somewhere recently- “ When you treat yourself like a king, that is self-respect. When you want everyone around to treat you like a king, that’s ego.” It doesn’t get better than this.
@BarbaraPerry-mu1qm
Ай бұрын
So much truth to this!!!
@MichellerBezanson
Ай бұрын
We are nothing and yet we are everything when we let go of all of it
@DeborahBravo-eu5uf
Ай бұрын
It doesnt get better than this for sure.
@GloriaCollado-iy7fj
Ай бұрын
This is amazing thank you for your insight.
@BetsyYoung-oi9vs
Ай бұрын
This is a treasure and the speaker is amazing.
Being humble is the realization that you aren’t more significant or better than others. It’s the awareness that you are equally important to everyone else. It means you have personal boundaries in place, so no one takes advantage of you, but you acknowledge the differences that make each person authentic. And it’s the knowledge that every person is equally valuable and that your value is neither greater nor lesser than anyone else's.
@VirginiaSheperd
22 күн бұрын
Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less: C.S. Lewis
@MaryMurphyinp9oh
22 күн бұрын
'Tis a gift to be simple, tis a gift to be free...The Shakers knew. I agree completely.
@JohnnieMiceli
22 күн бұрын
I've been studying the Bhagavad Gita and the message is the same - joy comes from selfless service to others and action with no expectation of reward. The ego is nowhere to be seen - but humility is.
@ShantaySmart-jw4im
22 күн бұрын
Buddhism, especially the Mahayana, teaches the same. It is through compassion for others and ourselves that we find true happiness and fulfillment in this life.
@KathyShortt
22 күн бұрын
It's a good reminder, especially in the midst of all the posts asking about how to stop comparing oneself with others!
I want to thank everyone who took the time to watch this talk and comment. I have never found Doug. I have been told that often, people who are deemed to live on the edge of society move back home if they can connect with family again. I hope and wish for that to be true. I hope, if nothing else, my talk has moved you to connect with ALL people more. I know that in my life, I have tried to connect with people who I thought would give me something because they had so much. Most times, I was disappointed. Yet, the times I connected with those who had less, they seemed willing to give everything.
@JasonMiller-on6iv
2 ай бұрын
Thank you, amazing talk.
@LyndaeTaylor
2 ай бұрын
I hope you are right about the man, I hope he is with people who love him...
@KathyeChan105
2 ай бұрын
I googled you, and found your book, I have bought it.
@6215..
2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@alanpotsypotts
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for telling us about Doug, I hope he is okay too.
This talk reminds me of some study I did. Performing acts of kindness and helping other people can be good for people’s health and well-being, according to research. But not all good-hearted behavior is equally beneficial to the giver. The strength depends on many factors.
@AndreaPeck-el5ds
Ай бұрын
I totally get this.
@ClaudeBeachum
Ай бұрын
It can become ego-centered, like wealthy bragging their "charity and volunteering."
@CraigChambliss
Ай бұрын
not gonna complain about what form of giving back people are doing
@DominicMontes-em5dy
Ай бұрын
I don't know if you can really force yourself show some kind oflove like this...
@JamesMonroe-tr9zs
Ай бұрын
so the idea is to try work towards showing genuine love towards others.
I have just understood what is consciousness - THIS!
@DellaGarcia-mx8gl
Ай бұрын
Not a bad concept. I like it.
@JosephMateo-sr6lv
Ай бұрын
I’d like to think of it as the warmth coming from transforming information; the ‘pull’ of its patterning, almost like a gravity.
@MaryBrown-tn4to
Ай бұрын
The Vedantha philosophy has considered mind as the subtle form of matter where in the body and its components are considered the grossest forms.
@StevenSeldon-hf6gu
Ай бұрын
So, it's sort of like, reality is information. Consciousness is the processing of that information, or "attention is all you need."
@RodneyMarquez246
Ай бұрын
I agree that symbolic thinking is probably very important
I love his talk - BUT! How can we all actually help the homeless?
@LyndauOtero
10 күн бұрын
I've been in this situation (homeless). You can only help the ones that want help and believe me there are a lot that don't.
@CraigChambliss
10 күн бұрын
Always vote for a more compassionate government that has policies that actually adress wealth inequality & the associated crisises (housing, welfare etc...)
@JamesGeiger-jo8cw
10 күн бұрын
Sleeping on the street should be illegal if you have been offered suitable accommodation.
@JamesMonroe-tr9zs
10 күн бұрын
This is my understanding from some small amount of work with people in these communities. Homelessness and risk of homelessness is a spectrum. You've got everything from long term involuntary homelessness, typically young men who can't get social housing and won't meet the rules of shelters (drugs, crime etc), to a certain population who choose to live outside the system, I.e they don't apply for or receive centrelink, refuse public housing and so on, these are usually older men. In the middle are family's who justly get priority for social housing, and younger singles who are disenfranchised, who may go between the street and social housing, shelters, or refuges.
@KathyeChan105
10 күн бұрын
Welfare thats liveable and a sufficient supply of public housing would go a long way to reduce numbers.
"I started to realize that I wasn't so scared of dying I had just been scared my whole life of living" that hit hard man
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Colin, much appreciated that you felt it too.
@mervobak
4 жыл бұрын
got me too...
@fenglov9111
4 жыл бұрын
wow yes
@eliseseveniegn
4 жыл бұрын
That part hit me so deep, I realized what I had been missing.
@JD-fx1np
4 жыл бұрын
Yes. I teared up
I found out that the solution to the ego isn't trying to get in our heads and fix the problem. When you tell people "Be more confident!" "Fix your ego problems!" they continue going inside their head. The solution is just being active, vulnerable and being very honest with yourself. I had a very difficult childhood. I was bullied, emotionally abused by my brother, neglected by my parents and effects of these continued to create more destruction in my social life. My high school social life was terrible because I was the quite kid with issues. I couldn't connect with other kids, I even could have a girlfriend but I didn't go for it because I hated myself.
@MelahHolland
2 ай бұрын
Perfect thing to share, loved it
@SteevieMatthews
2 ай бұрын
Basi - chill man, its not that deep
@ZarinaGonzalez-mp1rh
2 ай бұрын
amazing BB thanks for the share
@JushawnHarper
2 ай бұрын
As soon as I look how end ego I am recognizing how important it is
@IreenaGlover
2 ай бұрын
Ben kind of agree but I think you overthink this ego thing
Oh wow I teared up so many times and laughed so hard at moments, I am filled with so many things right now. This is not the ted talk I expected, but it is the ted talk I needed right now in my life.
@rakeshrai723
Жыл бұрын
i really got to get it dude thanks
@mariaantoniamagallanesmend9447
Жыл бұрын
It was a talk that left me many teachings, the ego is like a psychic structure, the result of our experiences and experiences from the earliest childhood, which progressively shape our idea of the self, the image we have of ourselves, many would appreciate seeing it too, I recommend it
@sayantanisaha7698
Жыл бұрын
Really, I heard his talk. I can understand perfectly your emotions. He is really a witty man with some serious sense of humour, but with his laugh his tears became more and more visible. His voice was literally shaking at times. But also it brought a shred of smile at moments. It is really a very heart touching pep talk.
@chandraroy2844
Жыл бұрын
OMG, this made me cry so many times. I have to know did he find the man and his dog, and OMG that poor little girl. This will stay with me a long time.
@richardjames8808
Жыл бұрын
Excellent Words Continue this way, My friend, more than these useful videos
So I stumbled over the word "ego" a lot in the form of "let go of your ego", "healthy vs unhealthy ego", "the ego is important to function as an individual", etc. A lot of people here seem to get that there is an ego and that it can be unhelpful and give us unsatisfying emotions, thoughts or drag us in our growth. It seems all agreed that it is good to overcome your ego (temporarily) if it is not helpful in the moment.
@JeimyPatrick
2 ай бұрын
Stumble over ego? Is it a physical thing?
@MarinaCarita
2 ай бұрын
Amazing JB, love that you found this.........
@TerriBrown-ty8hw
2 ай бұрын
This guys talk is really good though.
@CynthisDorsey
2 ай бұрын
Great work Jordan thanks for posting this.
@SoletteHarper
2 ай бұрын
Keep finding these gems, I really like them
What a beautiful wonderful talk, if only all men could open up like this and see the folly of their ways of thinking they have to be tough all the time. I see why this talk has been seen so many times, it is moving.
@AmberleGlenn
8 ай бұрын
What an extraordinary human
@OsheenaKnox
8 ай бұрын
I loved this, I loved them.. What a brilliant teaching.
@KennishaManning
8 ай бұрын
Thanks for emailing me this, wow wow wow
@AfraBenson
8 ай бұрын
This talk brought me tears.
@LorraineNeal-cg7gy
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this amazing presentation, real eye opener
My significant other has trouble understanding the virtue of humility. I showed them this talk, and they think it has nothing to do with humility. No matter what argument I come up with, they still see it as a sign of vulnerability and incompetence. Do you have any insights to help me?
@BernardPlaza-vi3me
19 күн бұрын
By staying humble, you are receptive to opportunities to improve.
@LyndaeTaylor
19 күн бұрын
Humility is the ability to be skeptical of yourself. If you cannot maintain a certain amount of enlightened skepticism of your own personal motivations, you will constantly lie to yourself and others. Arrogance is the trait of being unable to question your own motivations.
@KathyeChan105
19 күн бұрын
Humility is more USEFUL than arrogance. Just like skepticism is more useful than blind faith. It allows you make calculated and accurate decisions with the amount of information you have. And it keeps you from ignoring important variables, because you accept the fact that you might be wrong, you are able to make decisions with an eye to angles you might not have seen if you were being closed minded.
@DonnaeCook
19 күн бұрын
Humility is a function of reason. Without it, you are handicapping your ability to stay reasonable.
@SharonMontanez
19 күн бұрын
I find my humility reinforces my confidence overall, because I'm not constantly setting myself up for a fall.
I am crying so much, wondering about the man and his dog, and sad for the baby girl, omg this is powerful...
@darrellrussell7259
Жыл бұрын
very emotional to say the least
@kenoxfps8598
Жыл бұрын
same here buddy, very emotional
@kenanxo7384
Жыл бұрын
it truly is powerful
@diywithderby6069
Жыл бұрын
Fear of dying or losing someone you love. Facing the idea of dying can be difficult. Feeling fear is natural when you think about dying or losing someone you love. It’s normal to struggle with a fear of death. Yet, if these feelings become stronger, talk with your health care team about resources to help you cope.
@juliosester281
Жыл бұрын
Recognize that there are situations you can control and those you cannot. As hard as it sounds, many people find it helpful to let go of those things that they cannot change and focus on their reaction to events.
What a beautiful man, he is so genuine and authentic. I feel his pain and his discoveries of what's true for all of us. Just to simply be and love. Thank you for this.
@miawilliamson1082
7 ай бұрын
Just one of the best, what a find thanks for sending.
@gilbertlancaster4793
7 ай бұрын
I wonder what became of the man and his dog...
@judygeorge5739
7 ай бұрын
The little girl bit really made me cry a lot
@peterashton391
7 ай бұрын
I would love to learn where he is now?
@cameronwoodward2026
7 ай бұрын
Great man and a great talk.
"... we can all die in just one minute, but we can all live a million amazing moments" Beautiful
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
I have it written atop my notebook and each new one I get - so that I see, or at least open my eyes to try and glimpse the "Amazing".
@queunlimited4779
4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@F11994
4 жыл бұрын
@@theothersideofego amazing talk thank you!
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
@@F11994 thank uou
@suebakernottly
4 жыл бұрын
that was so important to me also
"And suddenly I realized the cancer was a lot deeper than my throat" wow. That is so powerful, it made me tear up. Thank you for your words
@shayneb226
Жыл бұрын
The lessons he learned during his road to redemption are a valuable lesson for us all.
@DrishtiRaval17
Жыл бұрын
The transformation he underwent is a testament to the power of the human spirit.
@yaboimike940
Жыл бұрын
Jonathan's story serves as a reminder to never give up hope.
@nestermaratos1070
Жыл бұрын
This statement holds so much truth and vulnerability. Your words have touched my heart. 😄
@Benjamin-yh9mr
Жыл бұрын
The metaphor of the cancer being deeper than just the throat is so poignant, it left me in awe.
Is the reaching of enlightenment not itself bound by the laws of karma? Who decides who reaches enlightenment? Who DESERVES to reach enlightenment?
@DominicMontes-em5dy
Ай бұрын
It’s common sense. Good often begets good. Bad begets bad.
@AndreaPeck-el5ds
Ай бұрын
It's Hindu mysticism, and I don't believe in it.
@JamesMonroe-tr9zs
Ай бұрын
i don’t believe in karma, and the system concept never actually worked for me. its sounds nice though, like the universal checks and balances system.
@DorothyeBerry
Ай бұрын
The story of Jimmy Savile alone is incontrovertible proof against the existence of karma.
@ClaudeBeachum
Ай бұрын
Karma is not a cosmic force, more of a probability. If you are often nice to people, its likely they will return the favor, thats how societies function. If you are awful to be around, you will have less friends, thats Karma. Be nice to people and in most, not all, cases they will be nice to you
Takes a real man to drop his ego and still hold his head
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
I am not sure I can ever drop it - it is a practice to remain aware of its appetite and to work to not let it get the best of me. Thank you
@shitlista4283
4 жыл бұрын
@@theothersideofego How is your father doing?
@LoseControlForDeath
4 жыл бұрын
@@theothersideofego no matter the age we can always change into a better person, and you proved it
@iamaspacefreak
4 жыл бұрын
this guy is amazing.
@dugansteward5127
4 жыл бұрын
This guy is what men should be, open raw and vulnerable
"The best things are said when we don't exchange words, we just exchange space".... Thank u sir for ur wonderful words
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching ...
@tarasuppleton
4 жыл бұрын
that is so true, loved this
@Micscience
4 жыл бұрын
That was an awesome comment.
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
@@Micscience thanks
@craigsamson3354
4 жыл бұрын
@@theothersideofego "only one Life that soon is past only what is done with love will last"
“You’re not what you have and you’re not what you do.” Just a reminder for everyone out here still watching this video.
@keefeaydlett8127
10 ай бұрын
Your comment beautifully captures the heart of the video's message.
@germainehaldane4917
10 ай бұрын
This quote encourages us to nurture our internal richness.
@fortunaterbush8607
10 ай бұрын
Your comment echoes the wisdom shared in the video about the true nature of identity.!👍
@yaboimike940
10 ай бұрын
True words, our identity isn't defined by possessions or actions.
@Benjamin-yh9mr
10 ай бұрын
A much-needed perspective shift in today's materialistic culture.
OMG, this made me cry so many times. I have to know did he find the man and his dog, and OMG that poor little girl. This will stay with me a long time.
@marlonpruna304
2 жыл бұрын
Very good comment my friend, amazing!!
@bryanahaya3628
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you this video also made me emotional
@Adrian_Ciupe
2 жыл бұрын
Same here. This is amazing, indeed.
@bettytaylor945
2 жыл бұрын
Me too, OMG I can't stop thinking about that poor little girl.
@fabridelvalle8996
2 жыл бұрын
These words really touched my soul, the wisdom that this man has is very great.
I have seen this talk several times, I still cry each time and still get something new each time. If you want to feel your heart, watch this...
@theothersideofego
3 жыл бұрын
You are very kind
@janetsplace1953
3 жыл бұрын
@@theothersideofego so are you
@sophiapatterson4156
2 жыл бұрын
awesome
@sophiapatterson4156
2 жыл бұрын
awesome
@sophiapatterson4156
2 жыл бұрын
awesome
This could be the most heartbreaking and most inspirational TED talk ever, personally.
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such kind words
@phillipnorris3rd
4 жыл бұрын
got me deep too
@suebakernottly
3 жыл бұрын
and me too
@yogidevish
3 жыл бұрын
i cried and I dont do that ... ever
@stephaniedilsterp533
3 жыл бұрын
yes, it really is powerful
those words were really deep. especially the one where he told about his relationship with his daughter, that is so raw and honest. just wow
@destinyscroggs9291
8 ай бұрын
Wishing you all the inspiration and growth from this talk
@joelschofield7357
8 ай бұрын
May this journey to redemption bring us all closer to our best selves.
@KishanaFreeman
8 ай бұрын
A real gem of a talk. Grateful you sent it.
@williamgardiner5469
8 ай бұрын
This journey reminds us it's never too late to evolve and grow.
@jaborahwade2498
8 ай бұрын
I hope it's brought positive change into your life as well.
Here's an empowering belief. A person's belief and a person's nature go hand in hand as do a person's nature and will, but most importantly the beliefs, nature and will of the collective generate the very reality in which we live. Only correct beliefs can set us free.
@theothersideofego
11 ай бұрын
thank you for your kind words
@jefbertoncini5220
10 ай бұрын
Collective beliefs steer the world we share.
@ginni.dorer.2024
10 ай бұрын
TEDxOcala's insights struck a deep chord.
This is not like Ted talks I have seen before, this one really made me feel.
@pointa2b388
4 жыл бұрын
I shed a tear
@thomas-meyer
3 жыл бұрын
this is so amazing!
“For love to flourish, the light of your presence needs to be strong enough so that you no longer get taken over by the thinker or the pain-body and mistake them for who you are. To know yourself as the Being underneath the thinker, the stillness underneath the mental noise, the love and joy underneath the pain, is freedom, salvation, enlightenment.” ― Eckhart Tolle
@tarasuppleton
3 жыл бұрын
love eckhart!
@buddabuxby
3 жыл бұрын
@@tarasuppleton he is great, yes.
@raphkisento
3 жыл бұрын
amazing quote man!
@eleanorrigbywhatdoesitmean
3 жыл бұрын
The perfect words...
@tarasuppleton
3 жыл бұрын
@@eleanorrigbywhatdoesitmean it is!
It's obvious this man is awake - BUT - How do we know that we are spiritually awakening ourselves, what are the signs?
@SharonMontanez
Ай бұрын
When your unconscious programming dissolves and you see yourself as consciousness itself.
@DonnaeCook
Ай бұрын
Changes in cognition; not knowing what you are or who you are.....
@JasonMiller-on6iv
Ай бұрын
loosing all attachment to prior beliefs, desires, fantasies..........
@KathyeChan105
Ай бұрын
Thinking in ways you've never done before.
@CatherinerDoe
Ай бұрын
Seeing the characters in your movie in an entirely different shade of lighting.
I saw this in 2020, and then heard it on a Jat Shetty podcast, and it reminded me how it made me feel so deeply, so here I am again today listening and crying.
@NerriahRose
6 ай бұрын
TEDx talks can serve as beacons of hope, reminding us that resilience and hope can prevail even in the most challenging circumstances.
@DeriviaGraham
6 ай бұрын
Indeed, the power of words should never be underestimated. A well-delivered TEDx talk has the potential to ignite inspiration and drive change.
@OsheenaKnox
6 ай бұрын
The talk left me feeling inspired and motivated. It's amazing how a single speech can have such a profound impact.
@JushawnHarper
6 ай бұрын
Calls to action in TEDx talks can be incredibly empowering. They inspire us to channel our emotions into tangible steps towards making a difference.
@AfraBenson
6 ай бұрын
I was moved by the speaker's call to action. It made me realize that I have the power to create positive change in my own life and the world.
I thought I was gonna hear about a cool dmt trip but now I’m crying
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks and I understand this after meeting mother several times
@samanthakatzalay
4 жыл бұрын
me too lol
@imasarevans725
4 жыл бұрын
Me too ❤
@tinycockcroft
4 жыл бұрын
haha yeah
@moureinn
4 жыл бұрын
cadance cunningham LMAOOOOOOO
This definitely is one of the greatest stories/speeches I have ever heard, I was holding my tears the whole time 😢
@danielaspassova781
5 жыл бұрын
Why were you holding them?
@StillnessManifesto
5 жыл бұрын
@@danielaspassova781 That's how social conditioning works. There's a whole crowd telling men "to be men", not showing their "weak" side (i.e. emotions) and to toughen up if there's something going not so great in their life. But I guess you already knew the answer 🙂
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
@@StillnessManifesto I think maybe we need to contemplate that vulnerability is a strength and not a weakness ...
@StillnessManifesto
5 жыл бұрын
And by the way, funny enough... most of my Instagram followers are women, but KZread Analytics shows 86% of my listeners are men 🙂 so yeah... About time to let down the fake fronts we put on ourselves every day and start looking deeper into our souls.
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
@@StillnessManifesto Just a stab - but maybe the shaming and negative opinions is caused by their fear and not malice. And it's way more humbling for me that people share to me and can feel what I felt when I went through my struggle. Makes me realize I am never alone.
"humility is not thinking less about your self, it's thinking about yourself less“ 🔄🔄🔄
@CaydenTaylor-nv3he
6 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree more! Humility is about recognizing that we are all interconnected and that our actions and words have an impact on others.
@NerriahRose
6 ай бұрын
Well said! Humility is not about thinking less of ourselves but about thinking of ourselves in a broader context. It's about embracing a mindset that values the well-being and happiness of others.
@TembiClark
6 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Humility is about recognizing our own worth and capabilities while also acknowledging the worth and capabilities of others. It's about fostering an environment of mutual respect and understanding.
@JeimyPatrick
6 ай бұрын
I love this perspective! Humility is about having a balanced view of ourselves and recognizing that our worth is not solely defined by our own accomplishments. It's about valuing others as well.
@CallenPitts
6 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Humility is not about diminishing our self-worth but about recognizing that we are part of a larger tapestry. It's about embracing our own strengths while valuing the strengths of others.
This human being!!!!!!! I loved everything about what he had to say and how he delivered it, incredible
@williamgardiner5469
8 ай бұрын
The way in which someone delivers their message can make it more engaging, memorable, and impactful.
@cameronwoodward2026
8 ай бұрын
It's incredible how the delivery of a message can make it more relatable and meaningful, leaving a lasting impression on the listener.
@miawilliamson1082
8 ай бұрын
The impact of effective communication can be seen in how it influences our thoughts, perspectives, and actions.
@louishiggins5817
8 ай бұрын
The impact of effective communication can be seen in how it influences our thoughts, perspectives, and actions.
@peterashton391
8 ай бұрын
The ability to communicate effectively is a valuable skill that can inspire and empower others.
I have personally known Jonathan for many years as he was a member of my local golf club in Sydney, but never really knew the full extent of his cancer. Having my mother going through cancer right now I have so much respect and admiration for him. Jono if you reading this everyone at Warringah Is so proud of how far you have come.
@theothersideofego
6 жыл бұрын
Sam thanks for the kind words - and connect with me on facebook
@joec1212
5 жыл бұрын
@@theothersideofego so you said praying to a God you didnt believe in...do you now?
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
@@joec1212 I have a spiritual belief - but I am not religious
@janicef6988
5 жыл бұрын
I wish it would be known out in the public that panacur c cures cancer it has done so for over 30 years but no one wants to say that please research it because all these people that are dying and can be saved with such a small amount have money and no side effects it's just amazing because they can't make money on it they won't tell us
@gastonmera7332
5 жыл бұрын
@@theothersideofego thanks for sharing Jonathan, it was a nice story to connect with.
I did not expect a talk on Ego on TED to be so emotional and real. This is just so beautiful, a must watch!
@scottvboland
2 жыл бұрын
I didnt either
@phillipnorris3rd
2 жыл бұрын
i know.
@shaellywork
2 жыл бұрын
Incredible information thanks to this video now I know more about the subject, without a doubt very important, thanks I will share it with all my friends
@gsusmakama
2 жыл бұрын
good comment, i agree
@alain451
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with it!
My greatest fear is being misunderstood. And yet, I've never been good at being my vulnerable self. I don't want my life to be a message that is not mine.
@miawilliamson1082
8 ай бұрын
The vulnerability that arises from discovering one's true purpose is a reminder of the importance of being open to self-discovery and embracing our passions, even if it means exposing our innermost selves.
@cameronwoodward2026
8 ай бұрын
I agree wholeheartedly. The emotional depth that accompanies the discovery of one's true purpose is a reflection of the profound impact it can have on our lives and well-being.
@judygeorge5739
8 ай бұрын
The emotional impact of discovering one's purpose is a testament to the transformative power of self-exploration and the pursuit of personal fulfillment.
@clevelandraney1551
8 ай бұрын
The vulnerability that arises from discovering one's true purpose can be seen as a strength, as it signifies our willingness to embrace our passions and live authentically.
@johnmatthews8639
8 ай бұрын
I'm glad you feel the emotional weight of discovering one's purpose. It's a reminder of the richness and depth that can be found when we align our lives with our true calling.
What an extraordinary man, with an extraordinary message. Thank you for your brilliance and your wisdom and reminding me of mine. xxx
@AlyssaBrown-dj6zz
6 ай бұрын
"He reminds us of the power of love and its ability to transform individuals and societies."
@AshleyBianco-mp2dt
6 ай бұрын
"He reminds us that true happiness comes from within and is not dependent on external circumstances."
@SandraWaller-rc9gc
6 ай бұрын
"His words have the power to shift our perspective and inspire positive change."
@NovannaTyler
6 ай бұрын
"He reminds us that true happiness lies in embracing the present moment with gratitude."
@DandriaPerkins
6 ай бұрын
"His message resonates with our deepest desires for a more compassionate and harmonious world."
This was by far the BEST Ted Talk I have ever watched. I've gained far more than I would've imagined from a video I was hesitant to watch. I'm so glad I did!
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ashley - you are very kind
@PoojaDevika11searchwithin
4 жыл бұрын
Ashley Faria that’s what I wrote when I shared it on FB!
@tarasuppleton
4 жыл бұрын
I agree 1000%
@kmbranca
4 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree with you more!
@andididntknow
3 жыл бұрын
agree 100000%
“We can die in just one minute. But we can live a million amazing moments. “ Thanks, man. You are a hero
@marishka5737
2 жыл бұрын
What a statement. So true
@osciltemusoni4928
2 жыл бұрын
What he said is the truth, I admire him.
My heart is aching after watching this, so much truth and raw honesty. Bless you Jonathan!
@NerriahRose
6 ай бұрын
I'm grateful for Jonathan's willingness to be vulnerable and share his truth. His talk was a reminder that our stories matter and can make a difference.
@DeriviaGraham
6 ай бұрын
Sending love and support to Jonathan. His talk was a reminder that sharing our stories can bring healing and connection to others.
@JushawnHarper
6 ай бұрын
Jonathan's talk was a testament to the power of authenticity and speaking from the heart. It left me feeling both moved and inspired.
@AfraBenson
6 ай бұрын
Blessings to Jonathan for his courage in sharing his truth. His talk touched my heart and reminded me of the power of vulnerability.
@CheakinaCopeland
6 ай бұрын
Jonathan's words had a profound impact on me. His talk was a catalyst for self-reflection and a deeper understanding of my own emotions.
This could be one of the most honest talks I have seen, he stripped himself down and showed his warts and scars and all. he didn't seek redemption, he just looked for truth and meaning. This talk will help change people. But I need to know - where are Doug and his dog and what is Jonathan Gravenor doing now?
@kawtarrifi7851
2 жыл бұрын
Yes it is great ! I like it too
@Adrian_Ciupe
2 жыл бұрын
Great talk, indeed.
@taritiso390
2 жыл бұрын
Me too bro I need to know what is Jonathan Gravenor doing now?😁
@bryanahaya3628
2 жыл бұрын
Very much agree with you this is definitely a great talk
@glennajones9365
2 жыл бұрын
Nice video. I love it. Thanks for uploaded this inspirational TED talk This video is very important for me.
I cried man, I can really feel his words by the way he speaks. 😭 Im glad ive learned so much from this man
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kevin...
The most insightful talk I've heard! To be shown that the smallest gesture to another person can mean so much. We all can make our lives better by making someone else's day better! What a lesson for life!!!!
@vickycristena
2 жыл бұрын
True!
@andrehuestan
2 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree too.
@theothersideofego
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Larry you are very kind, bless you!
@amayaroonie2166
2 жыл бұрын
yes I agree Larry
@stanforeman3951
2 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree
Deeply moving truths and raw emotions, this is without a doubt one of the best Teds I have ever witnessed. I am left with questions, but also answers, and maybe that is life, we keep asking questions, and when we ask the right ones, the answers appear. Bravo Mr Gravenor
@CelesteGayoso-qr2qg
6 ай бұрын
"Thank you for sharing this talk! It's a great reminder that ego isn't always a negative thing."
@CatarinaLain
6 ай бұрын
"I appreciate how the speaker emphasized the importance of balancing ego with humility. It's a delicate dance."
@ImeldaPiana
6 ай бұрын
"This talk made me reflect on my own ego and how it impacts my relationships. Very thought-provoking."
@AnteaTamburino
6 ай бұрын
"I found the speaker's personal anecdotes to be incredibly relatable. It's comforting to know I'm not alone in my ego struggles."
@MafaldaStella
6 ай бұрын
"Ego can be such a destructive force, but this talk shows that it can also be a catalyst for personal growth."
Wow, this is so emotional; the discovery of one's true purpose can provide a sense of purpose and meaning in even the most difficult of circumstances. And also leaves you in such a vulnerable state.
@TRIGO_ALLINE
Жыл бұрын
This man is a legend. 5 years ago published this talk, and still everything applies as we're speaking about it today. Great job! This will live forever. True legend!
@juliosester281
Жыл бұрын
So true! It's a beautiful journey of self-discovery. 🌺
@Benjamin-yh9mr
Жыл бұрын
It's true that discovering your purpose can leave you in a vulnerable state. When you are exploring your deepest desires and passions, it can feel like you are exposing a part of yourself that you've kept hidden for a long time. But vulnerability can also be a source of strength and resilience. When you are willing to be vulnerable, you open yourself up to new possibilities and opportunities that you may have never considered before. And ultimately, this vulnerability can lead you to discover your true purpose and live a more fulfilling life.
@shayneb226
Жыл бұрын
Finding your purpose can be a source of strength and resilience in times of adversity.
@riciphariss107
Жыл бұрын
he journey of discovering your purpose can be full of surprises and unexpected twists. 🤩
I cried while listening to this talk.. what a story.. thank you!
@theradicalaxe553
4 жыл бұрын
S G Same here
Walked out one morning in search of valour I saw a moviestar humbing around blatantly in a starshaped manner, occupied by his own steps. I quickly turned and found a soldier blinded by a just cause grown sour. I frowned and saw an athlete curled up and tense to achieve the love of his long lost father. I walked on and met a business man smiling without joy and speaking without heart. Almost giving up I sat down now seeing a man with scars and a face that defied the firm despair of time. I was reached by a smile and offered my hand, cause in my search of valour I found the homeless man.
@nancyduncan2948
5 жыл бұрын
So great!
@silascochran9705
5 жыл бұрын
I am a soldier a sailor a father and a homeless man
@gregthompson1743
5 жыл бұрын
@@silascochran9705 Thank you for your service sir. I will keep you in prayer.
@silascochran9705
5 жыл бұрын
Wow beautiful we can use all the help we can get a smile is good enough sometimes
@silascochran9705
5 жыл бұрын
@@gregthompson1743 thank you for being out there and your concern I'm doing well
This video might have just changed my life. Wow.
@AlyssaBrown-dj6zz
6 ай бұрын
"That's wonderful news! TED talks are designed to provoke thought and inspire action. What were the key ideas or insights from this talk that had such a transformative impact on you?"
@AshleyBianco-mp2dt
6 ай бұрын
"That's wonderful to hear! TED talks have the ability to inspire and empower us to make positive changes. Can you tell me more about how this talk influenced your life?"
@SandraWaller-rc9gc
6 ай бұрын
"That's incredible! TED talks have the ability to shift our perspectives and inspire positive change. Can you tell me more about the specific ways this talk may have influenced your life?"
This talk has grabbed me hard, I need to know what happened to the man and his dog, and Jonathan were is he now.
@AshleyBianco-mp2dt
6 ай бұрын
Emotionally charged talks have the power to inspire, challenge, and transform us in profound ways.
@astridableman
6 ай бұрын
thanks for sending me this
I cme here for learning and din't expect I'm gonna cry. But I guess it's the best way to learn. Amazing talk.
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
thank you for your kind words - I learned through Doug and Molly and the little girl and I cried - I discovered that I don't want to follow the man who teaches me with books, and lectures - I want to learn from the men (or woman) that teaches me by living the life I want to live...
Kindness matters. Love for others matters. The truth matters.
@19Marc79
5 жыл бұрын
Yes. I wish it wasn´t so difficult to live that in one´s life...
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
@@19Marc79 it isnt
Jonathan's message and delivery was absolutely beautiful. It was a pleasure to hear what he had to say and I think more so it was important to hear. What a fantastic motivational speaker. What a fantastic and kind man.
@JoynishaMoore
6 ай бұрын
This talk resonated with me on a profound level. It's a reminder that our struggles can shape us and lead us to meaningful growth. Thank you for sharing your emotional and inspiring story.
@NerriahRose
6 ай бұрын
what a powerful reminder of the resilience and strength of the human spirit. It's amazing how someone's personal story can have such a universal impact. Thank you for sharing your journey.
@CaydenTaylor-nv3he
6 ай бұрын
I was deeply touched by this talk. It's a reminder that our emotions connect us as humans and that we can find strength in vulnerability. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring us all.
@TembiClark
6 ай бұрын
This talk reminded me of the power of storytelling. It's through sharing our experiences that we can inspire others and create positive change. Thank you for sharing your emotional journey.
@JeimyPatrick
6 ай бұрын
I couldn't help but be moved by this talk. It's incredible how a speaker's vulnerability can create such a deep impact on the audience. Thank you for sharing your story and touching our hearts.
Someone sent me this, and I had watched it over year ago, and it was just as good today.
@SandraWaller-rc9gc
6 ай бұрын
"I had a similar experience when I rediscovered that TED Talk. It's like finding a piece of yourself that resonates with its message."
@AshleyBianco-mp2dt
6 ай бұрын
"That TED Talk is a masterpiece that captures the essence of the human spirit. I'm glad you rediscovered its brilliance."
@AlyssaBrown-dj6zz
6 ай бұрын
"I had a similar experience when I rediscovered that TED Talk. It's like finding a guiding light in times of darkness."
@MelahHolland
6 ай бұрын
"I had a similar experience when I rediscovered that TED Talk. It's like finding a guiding light in times of darkness."
@JazzraDixon
6 ай бұрын
"That TED Talk is a beacon of hope and inspiration. It reminds us that positive change is possible."
I cried a lot because I realized so much of what you said is exactly what I needed to hear.
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
I have thought - since I was ill and finally reached out for help - that none of us are alone - there is always many people out there who understand exactly what we are going through
Dude this is the deepest Ted talk ever I've got so mutch more work to do in my life and none of it is earning money
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
thank you, and thank you for doing good work
@iloverussia111
3 жыл бұрын
@@theothersideofego is this really you? Because if it is I just want to tell you that I had a pretty bad day today, started distancing from the people that are the ones that love me, but this speech gave me another perspective to life I was forgetting and lacking. Thank you sir, this was beautiful. May God bless you.
@theothersideofego
3 жыл бұрын
@@iloverussia111 hi you are kind, sorry I dont monitor my account that much, yes learning that the best love is what we give and not what we get helped me a lot.
I have watched this so many times, I come to it on days when everything seems bad, and I find hope. Thank you!
@dylantaylor6200
2 жыл бұрын
me too
@rebeccacarlisle2665
2 жыл бұрын
Keep sending us these links Sue!
@katiedodd2548
2 жыл бұрын
Keep sending us these links Sue!
@quillenmojica8279
2 жыл бұрын
I want to know where that man and his dog are now?
@suebakernottly
Жыл бұрын
@@katiedodd2548 I will
Saw this again, more powerful this time than the 1st, and it was powerful the 1st time.
@JoynishaMoore
6 ай бұрын
I often find that re-watching TED Talks helps me appreciate the speaker's storytelling skills even more. It's a chance to analyze their delivery, body language, and use of visuals. Each viewing unveils new layers of communication excellence.
@NerriahRose
6 ай бұрын
Some TED Talks are so impactful that they become a source of inspiration and motivation. Re-watching these talks helps me stay connected to that initial spark and reinforces my commitment to personal and professional growth.
@TembiClark
6 ай бұрын
Re-watching TED Talks gives me a sense of continuity. It's a reminder that personal growth is not a one-time event but an ongoing journey. Each time I watch, I build upon my previous knowledge and continue to expand my understanding.
@JeimyPatrick
6 ай бұрын
I often find that re-watching TED Talks helps me apply the ideas to different areas of my life. The first time I watch, I may focus on one aspect, but subsequent viewings allow me to see how the concepts can be relevant in various contexts.
@CallenPitts
6 ай бұрын
Revisiting TED Talks is an excellent way to combat information overload. Sometimes, the first viewing may be overwhelming, but watching it again allows us to digest the content at our own pace and gain a deeper understanding.
When I saw EGO as the talk I did not expect this, this is much more than I thought I would get. I am still crying.
@maryumafzal7353
2 жыл бұрын
Same here! Unable to control my tears. I was trying to know about Ego from various sources and undoubtedly, this is a wonderful source.
This was so hard to listen too, but also impossible to turn off. The best talk I have ever heard and it will stay with me a long time. Bless you Jonathan.
@gracefairbank
2 жыл бұрын
Oh I agree Sheryl so much!
@sherrieglewis
2 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@laurenstynes
2 жыл бұрын
yes it was, but worth every second.
@marishka5737
2 жыл бұрын
Great description, and a reality we all must face one day
@caroldendy851
Жыл бұрын
exactly!
This TED talk could not have come to me at a better time
@janehessel4047
8 ай бұрын
Damn fine talk!
@jerryhernandez4479
8 ай бұрын
This is the best TED talk that I have ever come across!
@miawilliamson1082
8 ай бұрын
amazing clarity and empathy, blessings to all
@cameronwoodward2026
8 ай бұрын
I stumbled across this but it’s changed my thinking for the better.
@joelschofield7357
8 ай бұрын
Someone's love made me reconnect to that inner voice...
Made me cry! Just the message I needed and something I am now going to happily pass onto my daughter and son. It's just anxiety over nothing, that takes up so much time in our precious days, wasting what we could be achieving in our own lives and missing out on our own happiness, before we all return to soil to feed the planet. Thank you for this, taking this in my heart and on my journey to university and beyond!
I remember when you read the news in Eastern Canada, you were a handsome confident man back then. But now you are a beautiful soulful man, so authentic. This is my favorite talk ever, thank you.
@theothersideofego
3 жыл бұрын
It is still my 2nd home, I may have been raised out west, but a big part of my heart is in the east.
So many moments just in one talk, best TEDx ever!
What I take away from this is you have to be true to yourself. The one relationship that you must maintain at an equilibrium is yourself. Discovering the likes and dislikes within you is important to your growth as a human.
@evefrancis848
8 ай бұрын
So powerful on so many levels, thank you for the share
@janehessel4047
8 ай бұрын
Love this talk, love this man, love that you sent it to me.
@peterashton391
8 ай бұрын
Could be the great videoi you have ever shared with me Happy!
@johnmatthews8639
8 ай бұрын
I wonder what happened to that and his dog?
@gilbertlancaster4793
8 ай бұрын
Be true to yourself, that is a rule we all need to follow
This reminds me of a quote I love "It's not your life expectancy it's what you expect of life.." he is such an elegant man, so full of real emotion and care. Bless him and his journey
@theothersideofego
8 ай бұрын
love that quote
A very good man, telling us something very important. May he live much longer so he can keep telling us what we need to remember, our love and humanity should always be first.
"The best things are said when we don't exchange words, we just exchange space" That hit me hard.
@refresh6742
Жыл бұрын
I like it
@zelmacastricone1228
Жыл бұрын
I've had such bad anxiety for the last 5 years and these talks have helped so much. yours resonated with me because of recent events in my life
@DrishtiRaval17
Жыл бұрын
Just as you need to take care of your body after treatment, you need to take care of your emotions
@fortunaterbush8607
Жыл бұрын
Being open and dealing with your emotions help you feel less worried.
@Benjamin-yh9mr
Жыл бұрын
on’t make light of, judge, or try to change the way the person feels or acts. Let them know that you’re open to talking whenever they feel like it.
This is one of those videos, that no matter how many times you have seen it you get something new out of it. Love care and compassion are the answer for everything.
@theothersideofego
8 ай бұрын
you are so kind, thank you
This has me crying at my desk! I’m grateful for this talk!
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
I have cried many times since then - 7 years ago now - but more joy and softness in the tears these days
My favorite quotes, "The best things are said when we don't exchange words, we just exchange space." and "The judgement I had of him blinded me to his intent."
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Marcia
this man is so eloquent in communicating her message. he has influenced me deeply. i recognize important truths within his teachings that continuously reveal themselves to me in all different facets of life. this is the beauty of living in truth and love. thank you Jonathan.
I have never cried watching a talk before, but right now I can't stop. This is so tragic yet so beautiful at the same time. If you have any empathy in this world then this talk is for you. I am sharing - LOTS!
The first 3 minutes I judged, the next four I had realized once again how wrong I truly realized I am, thank you for the gift of realization and acknowledgement
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
I think awareness is the first step - thank you for your kind words
I felt his words in my heart.
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
You are too kind - thank you for this
I taught myself early in my teen years that my life was solely dependent on how I wanted it to be. Didn't really care much what people thought of me, as long as I knew I wasn't hurting anyone and I respected people.
an absolute blessing and an honor to listen to you Mr Gravenor. what a brilliant talk. thanks so much
@dare2dreamwithme
10 ай бұрын
you beat me to this, you see the best content first always
Someone sent this to me again, and I watched it again, and again I cried for so long. My heart broke and became even bigger at the same time. So beautiful.
I have never cried like this watch a ted talk before...
@theothersideofego
3 жыл бұрын
thank you
@davidangus6502
3 жыл бұрын
that makes 2 of us bro
This was one of the best speeches, with a great balance of wisdom, poetic expression and humor, I have ever listened to.
Be still my heart, what a beautiful man, so open and honest. I love this talk..
Like he said, I wasn't scared of dying, I was sacred of living, that is so true for me too.
@theothersideofego
3 жыл бұрын
Blair very kind of you, thanks!
@19Marc79
3 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@danabailey3887
3 жыл бұрын
True for a lot of us i think
Thank you for sharing this powerful message with us. This message is exactly what the moment called for.... Thank you again.
@CaydenTaylor-nv3he
6 ай бұрын
"I just finished watching this TEDx talk, and I'm blown away by the speaker's passion and dedication to . Their message resonates deeply and serves as a powerful catalyst for positive change."
@NerriahRose
6 ай бұрын
"This TEDx talk is a true masterpiece! The speaker's ability to blend personal stories with profound insights on is both captivating and enlightening. It's a talk that lingers in your mind long after it's over."
@TembiClark
6 ай бұрын
"Thank you for sharing this TEDx talk! The speaker's authenticity and vulnerability while discussing create a deep emotional connection with the audience. It's a talk that leaves you feeling inspired and moved."
@JeimyPatrick
6 ай бұрын
"Wow, this TEDx talk is a game-changer! The speaker's bold ideas and vision for challenge the way we think and inspire us to strive for a better future. Truly eye-opening!"
@CallenPitts
6 ай бұрын
"I'm grateful for the opportunity to watch this TEDx talk. The speaker's passion and knowledge on are evident, and their ability to inspire and educate is truly remarkable."
I've just literally listened to your speech three times non-stop. I LOVE your language, your tone, your modulation, your topic, your insights, your delivery and your use of vocabulary. I hope to experience you at a speech personally some day! Thank you for this wonderful presentation.
@sibleysuet8016
11 ай бұрын
Hope to see him live!
@TRIGO_ALLINE
11 ай бұрын
He is the best, no doubt!
@zelmacastricone1228
11 ай бұрын
I'm blown away by your speech. Your passion and expertise shine through every word.
@yaboimike940
11 ай бұрын
Your speech should be a must-watch for everyone. Such valuable insights deserve to be shared widely.
I feel humbled beyond words yet want to comment; over and over, my heart keeps saying thank you. The most moving and life-useful TED talk I've seen, compellingly told. I am grateful for your experience and your gifting us by sharing it. I'm also so happy for you and your daughter about you reconnecting.
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Anna, you are very kind. A few months ago I moved across the country so we are in the same city now. It is so cool. Your words are really appreciated.
When you talked about losing the little girl, I lost it, I had to stop the video because I was crying
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
I still find it hard - so hard - as it seems so unfair that the most pure and perfect are taken
My sister lost her 5 year old. Listening to this I could see my little niece as being that young girl he met. She was so wise for her age, so giving. This has made me cry so much, tears I don't want to end. Bless you sir bless you for bringing this to the world.
@theothersideofego
Жыл бұрын
wow, thats just awful, how is she dealing with it now
@dylantaylor6200
Жыл бұрын
OMG, i am so sorry for you and your family
@movemetoexcel
Жыл бұрын
thats tragic.
@caroldendy851
Жыл бұрын
wow, this is so sad, I am so sorry for you and your family
I have never been more moved than I was watching this talk; this is a must-share.
This brings back my c, prostate at 29, full removal. Thought my life was over, but slowly the fear of what I was losing got replaced about what I was saving. Many you are good, I get this, important talk brother, keep speaking, the world needs you.
This is best Talk I ever saw..!! It's a story which shows how human beings are and how they are suppose to be. Brother, you are already doing a lot.. ! Thank you...!!
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, so much
A friend sent me this. I'm so glad we have people like this, not ashamed to be open and honest.
This is worth everybody’s time and energy. So valuable!!! Spiritual banquet.
This is the probably the first time I have ever cried listening to a TED talk. I started working in the hospital this year, and to protect myself from all the suffering of my patients I had become emotionally numb. You helped me realise why I had chosen medicine in the first place. Jonathon - I truly hope you are well. Bless you for opening the eyes of many.
@theothersideofego
2 жыл бұрын
thanks, you are very kind
@misss.7863
Жыл бұрын
@@theothersideofego Thank you for accepting the invite to talk, Jonathan. Yours is such a blessing and the most inspiring TED Talk I've watched and listened to so far. I also hope that you and your family are well, the same goes for Doug and Molly. "God took the wrong one that day." - This made me recall the many times I told God that He (or She) made a mistake in giving me life, knowing how I'd disappointed my parents and other people many times. It's such a struggle to live, love, and forgive oneself.
Why am I tearing up 😟 I feel sad and happy that I am living at the same time. Thank you Jonathan for sharing your story!
He's shown that with determination and a positive outlook, anything is possible.
This is the first ted talk that made me cry like a baby. Thank you for your beautiful story.
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
Jamille you are very kind thank you
I learned many years ago that God can speak through literally ANYONE & He does!! Calls us to look at the message, not the man.. over & over again
@theothersideofego
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words
@ddo9712
4 жыл бұрын
I learned many years ago that there are incredible people amongst us still and regardless of the tribulations that God rains down upon us, we as people are capable of picking each other up and we ought to try everyday. There are good people and we should try every day to be one of them. Don't wait for God to tell you to do amazing things. It's in you. Just do it.
@theothersideofego
4 жыл бұрын
@@ddo9712 very true very cool
This reminds of what I learned in my sociology class, the self concept. We learn about ourselves by what we think how others might see us. Then we apply those thoughts to ourselves even though they might not be true. We create a self image and that drives ego.
I’ve seen a lot of TEDx talks, but this one... it's just on another level. The raw honesty and vulnerability of Jonathan’s story is something else.