The real reason why we are tired and what to do about it | Saundra Dalton-Smith | TEDxAtlanta

Board-certified internal medicine physician Saundra Dalton-Smith reveals the real reason why we are chronically tired despite getting the requisite amount of sleep and the 6 other types of rest available to us in this fast-paced and informative talk.
Physician and award-winning author Saundra Dalton-Smith is passionate about helping others live their best life, especially the stressed-out and burned-out. She has been featured in numerous media outlets including Women’s Day, Redbook, First For Women, MSNBC, CBS, and Prevention. Her newest release, ”Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity,” offers groundbreaking insight on the seven types of rest.
Saundra received her Bachelor of Science in biochemistry at the University of Georgia and graduated with honors from Meharry Medical College in Nashville. Saundra Dalton-Smith is passionate about helping others live their best life, especially the stressed-out and burned-out.
She is both a board-certified internal medicine physician practicing in Alabama and an award-winning author. Saundra has been featured in outlets including Women’s Day, Redbook, First For Women, MSNBC, CBS, and Prevention. Her newest release,” Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity” offers groundbreaking insight on the seven types of rest.
Saundra received her Bachelor of Science in biochemistry at the University of Georgia and graduated with honors from Meharry Medical College in Nashville. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @sonthibutsalee
    @sonthibutsalee2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with everything she's saying but I also think there are parts of our society that have been specifically designed to prevent us from resting in the way she's talking about. Tired people are compliant people.

  • @mindymac_does_stuff

    @mindymac_does_stuff

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think you're truly spot on with this, when you're exhausted all the time the apathy creeps in, how do you fight for any kind of change when getting groceries feels like an impossible chore?

  • @beitrissavinsky

    @beitrissavinsky

    2 жыл бұрын

    me too!

  • @m.a.2404

    @m.a.2404

    Жыл бұрын

    I disagree that tired people are compliant people… I’m physically and emotionally tired all the time, for various reasons … but I assure you … I am an extremely strong person in my opinions and expression and even though I am overwhelmed by other’s expectations in me.. I always find the strength to rise above any comments… and face problems rather than submitting to them… it’s easy to generalise … we are all so very individual as humans ..

  • @Lulu-99
    @Lulu-992 жыл бұрын

    I have noticed this conversation becoming more prominent these days. We are finally realizing this mad cycle of living to work, with no real time for actual rest and small moments of joy is leading to such wide spread suffering.

  • @dustyevans2130
    @dustyevans21302 жыл бұрын

    I watched this a month or so ago and have been making a point of ‘resting’ more during my day. It has really made a difference and given me permission to meet my body’s needs throughout the day. Came back to try and get my head around all the different kinds of rest

  • @christophermills1733

    @christophermills1733

    Жыл бұрын

    “Permission”, such a perfect word to use in this context.

  • @juliajbanks8056

    @juliajbanks8056

    Жыл бұрын

    I just watched this last week and I’m already doing things differently

  • @aleksandral9657

    @aleksandral9657

    10 ай бұрын

    What kinds of rest did you practise? Did you schedule them or just switched to them when you felt like you need a rest?

  • @craigjohns7665
    @craigjohns76654 жыл бұрын

    LOL everybody here because you are tired?

  • @ufc556

    @ufc556

    9 ай бұрын

    yes 😢

  • @Itfeelsmoist

    @Itfeelsmoist

    8 ай бұрын

    No

  • @gyaos6951

    @gyaos6951

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes

  • @holasoyjose9683

    @holasoyjose9683

    3 ай бұрын

    Noooo dude....It is because all of US feel the same tireness

  • @annecooper1138

    @annecooper1138

    2 ай бұрын

    How do you rest during the day when you have to work? Employers are extending working hours to 14hrs in some places. Dr's are expected to be working 24hr shifts..

  • @sandypogson
    @sandypogson4 жыл бұрын

    This is why I like Ted talks, they bring people with something real and important to say.

  • @rosemerle540

    @rosemerle540

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree 100000%

  • @suebakernottly

    @suebakernottly

    4 жыл бұрын

    yes me too.

  • @tonirduran

    @tonirduran

    4 жыл бұрын

    How true and this is the perfect example.

  • @kristianzlee

    @kristianzlee

    4 жыл бұрын

    and this is a perfect example.

  • @hasnain-jeelani

    @hasnain-jeelani

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love seeing this right now, with all this virus stuff I just can't sleep these days.

  • @sandracrump
    @sandracrump Жыл бұрын

    She’s right!! I distance from negative family and people who are not positive

  • @festivusfred
    @festivusfred2 жыл бұрын

    This message is becoming more and more vital as we start to question what it means to have a quality of life. I feel like the pandemic has put this into the spotlight.

  • @irawhitlock1084
    @irawhitlock1084 Жыл бұрын

    Yes! Just before watching this I was telling my wife that I think society has confused rest and sleep and that I think there are probably different types of rest for different stressors. Then I came across this video just a few minutes later. Thank you!

  • @jessiesangster
    @jessiesangster2 жыл бұрын

    I'm here for this. For too long we have been living in a culture that encourages burn out. If we don't take the time to set boundaries and rest, we will continue this awful cycle.

  • @moanaoloha
    @moanaoloha2 жыл бұрын

    I find it really interesting that most peoples ideas of unwinding include things that just make them more exhausted.

  • @maevequinn

    @maevequinn

    2 жыл бұрын

    haha true.

  • @Vika_Martynova
    @Vika_Martynova3 ай бұрын

    Дуже цінна інформація в потрібний час - дякую! ❤

  • @lisawanderess
    @lisawanderess Жыл бұрын

    I need all these types of rest all the time! I lost everything to burnout several years ago and it's changed my life completely. I'm now so super wary of pushing myself and being around people is exhausting! But I still struggle to be OK with just "being" and not "producing". The societal messaging is very persistent!

  • @user-ob3hb3ow2i
    @user-ob3hb3ow2i7 ай бұрын

    Just taping into this from a bible study I was doing about entering into His rest. This is so interesting and as a Health & Wellness Coach I believe this is something amazing I can share with my clients. Thank you for this eye-opening conversation on the 7 Types of Rest.

  • @shrimpdance4761

    @shrimpdance4761

    6 ай бұрын

    Matthew 11:28-30 reminded me to watch this again

  • @knockitdownagain
    @knockitdownagain Жыл бұрын

    This is such a good argument for why self-care is so important.

  • @espiritodeaventura
    @espiritodeaventura Жыл бұрын

    A good tip is also to understand our circadian rhythm. Simply turning off the lights is also very good for our sleep.

  • @jessiedallen
    @jessiedallen2 жыл бұрын

    YES! We need to share this more and more, in a world where we are told that we will fail unless we strive, we need to be told that we are human and have human needs in order to achieve. If we do not rest, we aren’t living.

  • @movemetoexcel

    @movemetoexcel

    2 жыл бұрын

    yes we do

  • @sandracrump

    @sandracrump

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly!! We need to de program and re program

  • @taliksharot
    @taliksharot Жыл бұрын

    Amazing that it's taking such an upheaval for us to understand and appreciate the need for actual rest and reflection - not continuously beating ourselves up because we aren't reaching so unattainable target.

  • @jacquelinebrumbaugh
    @jacquelinebrumbaugh4 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful talk, I needed this.

  • @bupechikumbi3082
    @bupechikumbi30822 жыл бұрын

    Genius Education Zambia team building activity brought me here!

  • @hubert-olszewski
    @hubert-olszewski4 жыл бұрын

    Some Ted's have gotten all airy fairy, this is solid.

  • @stefblessedinchrist7392
    @stefblessedinchrist73924 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic talk and solutions!!

  • @valeriegervais
    @valeriegervais4 жыл бұрын

    Now this is a subject worth hearing about, great talk.

  • @juanwafford

    @juanwafford

    4 жыл бұрын

    It is, and now I can sleep well.

  • @denisgongolev

    @denisgongolev

    4 жыл бұрын

    agreed, maybe tonight I can rest

  • @juanwafford

    @juanwafford

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@denisgongolev haha tell me if it works man

  • @maryyouson4404

    @maryyouson4404

    4 жыл бұрын

    back again watching Val, still can't sleep with all this stress.

  • @fredbrodersen2734

    @fredbrodersen2734

    4 жыл бұрын

    I wonder if she knew what was coming, sleep and rest are so hard now.

  • @liza-zotova
    @liza-zotova4 жыл бұрын

    Oh this is good, this answers a lot of questions.

  • @brynleytalbot778
    @brynleytalbot7785 жыл бұрын

    As an empath with its associated issues of exhaustion this talk casts light on sleep deprivation. A notepad really works on nights my mind won't turn off. A mental antidote to your mind tossing and turning.

  • @SaundraDaltonSmith

    @SaundraDaltonSmith

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's a simple solution but very effective. Thanks for your input Brynley.

  • @jeace99
    @jeace99 Жыл бұрын

    I'm surprised that she didn't mention physical activities. It can help a lot to activate our body to relax our minds

  • @geraldemery1417
    @geraldemery1417 Жыл бұрын

    Saundra, this is so incredibly on point. I am sharing this as my circle is one prone to burnt out and this is EXACTLY why.

  • @beitrissavinsky
    @beitrissavinsky2 жыл бұрын

    Amazing talk, definitely something more people need to be aware of.

  • @babssinnerd
    @babssinnerd2 жыл бұрын

    What an important message this is. Especially at a time when we are redefining what is important in one's life.

  • @maevequinn
    @maevequinn2 жыл бұрын

    Love this, great talk!

  • @kirby_colon
    @kirby_colon4 жыл бұрын

    Really good info here, really helps.

  • @kendrasroom
    @kendrasroom Жыл бұрын

    Great talk Saundra, it's definitely time we start re-thinking what relaxation looks like.👍

  • @robertjnoble
    @robertjnoble2 жыл бұрын

    This was actually such an informative and useful talk! I can't wait to start identifying where I used up the most energy in my day.

  • @sherryyuanhunter4056
    @sherryyuanhunter40563 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant! It's time for a rest revolution!

  • @Jewels1573
    @Jewels15734 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Kubman12345
    @Kubman12345 Жыл бұрын

    That's the talk to which I come back from time to time to remind myself of the right approach to rest and multiplicity of it. I think everyone should do it. Thank you for sharing this knowledge with us!

  • @nadiaferchichi
    @nadiaferchichi4 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant talk!

  • @eliasbeik7852
    @eliasbeik7852 Жыл бұрын

    100% true. We can’t solve the chronic fatigue by just sleeping. The emotion can’t sleep , it requires some deep correction

  • @timmymckinley
    @timmymckinley4 жыл бұрын

    This is a very smart TED, if you are tired watch this!!!

  • @Unknown-ki8yk
    @Unknown-ki8yk Жыл бұрын

    A great TEDx talk. Thank you very much.

  • @hayleychristine19
    @hayleychristine193 жыл бұрын

    She's a wonderful speaker. This is so good.

  • @amritagill1680
    @amritagill1680 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent summary of different kinds of rest. So important to make time for this.

  • @yannicarliso
    @yannicarliso2 жыл бұрын

    Very thought provoking.

  • @khaylamay
    @khaylamay10 ай бұрын

    thank you so much for this.

  • @junipruit
    @junipruit2 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant Saundra! I have been trying to unlearn such myths for a while now and it is really difficult to remind myself rest if productive.

  • @bethanybutzerthesurfer
    @bethanybutzerthesurfer Жыл бұрын

    I had never thought about it like this and it is so true!!!

  • @abundance512
    @abundance5122 жыл бұрын

    This is the most inspirational and reality testing talk I have heard in a long time. I will be referring to Dr. Dalton-Smith in my sessions. Thank you Dr. Dalton-Smith!

  • @EnglishLearnersHere
    @EnglishLearnersHere Жыл бұрын

    I so agree with you! Thanks for sharing this very useful and informative presentation!

  • @kurstank1953
    @kurstank1953 Жыл бұрын

    I saw this talk a few months back and it really changed the way I think about 'rest' - have come back to find the link as I was talking about it with some co-workers who were very intrigued. It's surprising how much we don't know about this stuff!

  • @michealdrozd
    @michealdrozd2 жыл бұрын

    Bookmarking. I need this reminder often

  • @aprendefutbol244
    @aprendefutbol2442 жыл бұрын

    Thank you doctor, God bless you, I found the true cause of my exhaustion

  • @dipanjansaha8399
    @dipanjansaha83992 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much , Mam !!

  • @moyaresgard
    @moyaresgard4 жыл бұрын

    I know this exhausted feeling too well, what a good talk.

  • @sandypogson

    @sandypogson

    4 жыл бұрын

    me too

  • @pamcampbell3920

    @pamcampbell3920

    4 жыл бұрын

    oh yes I know that feeling

  • @lisa-lio

    @lisa-lio

    4 жыл бұрын

    I need to wake up from waking up, I am always tired.

  • @pamcampbell3920

    @pamcampbell3920

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@lisa-lio me too

  • @johnpederson3085

    @johnpederson3085

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was tired watching this talk haha

  • @dhdmjs2155
    @dhdmjs2155 Жыл бұрын

    This is a very important talk. Thank you!

  • @smoothsyrups
    @smoothsyrups2 жыл бұрын

    This talk def opened up my eyes to why I wake up sometimes feeling exhausted after sleeping a full night. Especially if I have weird bizarre dreams, which I usually do. Technology and always having our phone at our disposal for usage, has its pros and cons but my opinion is there are more cons…one of main reasons I unplugged from the major social media platforms. Just couldn’t do it!

  • @izakjakub
    @izakjakub Жыл бұрын

    I am refreshed by the notion we are heading towards - that replenishing our mind, body and spirit is just as important as being productive.

  • @nonduality7
    @nonduality72 жыл бұрын

    lovely, sleep is so important.

  • @andreshedberg
    @andreshedberg2 жыл бұрын

    Rest provides time for reflection and recouping. I am so glad that we are finally starting to see the importance of taking time out for ourselves. It's the only hope of us processing.

  • @blueangel7998
    @blueangel79982 жыл бұрын

    Mmmmmm so interesting!! I'd genuinely never thought about or heard anything like this before!

  • @11ThaoNguyen11
    @11ThaoNguyen112 жыл бұрын

    I really needed to hear this right now, there has been TOO MUCH going on.

  • @GoogleUser-wz1il
    @GoogleUser-wz1il2 жыл бұрын

    I feel so seen in so many aspects. Amazing, concise speaker. I feel like I'm speaking to the madame president!

  • @hollieb3584
    @hollieb35844 жыл бұрын

    What a lovely speaker. This is so informative and interesting.

  • @kimpno134
    @kimpno1343 жыл бұрын

    Wow this is very informative

  • @revsshine
    @revsshine Жыл бұрын

    Excellent presentation!

  • @harshmore6664
    @harshmore66643 жыл бұрын

    Amazing !!!

  • @LifestylebyJulia
    @LifestylebyJulia2 ай бұрын

    This is so interesting. I am glad I am learning about this topic.

  • @simonoshlor
    @simonoshlor2 жыл бұрын

    I'm watching this on the way to my job in a place that is literally designed for sensory overload. Will definitely be taking the time to close my eyes for a few minutes throughout the day, fingers crossed it works!

  • @justsayin2441
    @justsayin24414 жыл бұрын

    Outstanding talk, and all points, very effective for those suffering from "Fatigue."

  • @hkinley55
    @hkinley55 Жыл бұрын

    Yes. This makes sense.

  • @mike-good-ames
    @mike-good-ames Жыл бұрын

    "High achieving, high producing chronically tired burnt out individuals." Well thank you for this horribly accurate description of everyone I know.

  • @lizsitaraman-foreignerinin7543

    @lizsitaraman-foreignerinin7543

    Жыл бұрын

    "How to Survive Late Stage Capitalism"

  • @silveriagarza7919
    @silveriagarza79192 жыл бұрын

    Good to know what you need to change to get more rest.

  • @flodavis
    @flodavis4 жыл бұрын

    I love the idea of Sacred Rest, what a perfect talk.

  • @jacquelinebrumbaugh

    @jacquelinebrumbaugh

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes so do i, I wake up so often worried about everything.

  • @SaundraDaltonSmith

    @SaundraDaltonSmith

    4 жыл бұрын

    Glad you found the talk helpful Flo. Thank you.

  • @robertlcbranson6834

    @robertlcbranson6834

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree Flo, and I am impressed the Doctor replied, most think they are too big to do that.

  • @sammyllee

    @sammyllee

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes I do too.

  • @billconconi

    @billconconi

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh I agree I need that

  • @mariosebok
    @mariosebok3 жыл бұрын

    Physical, Emotional, Creative, Social, Mental, Spiritual & Sensory Restoration = Rest

  • @virgilstox2677
    @virgilstox26772 жыл бұрын

    Nice and empowering

  • @ecetetik3088
    @ecetetik30883 жыл бұрын

    Excellent talk -thank you!

  • @ulisseditaque
    @ulisseditaque4 жыл бұрын

    Good talk, got good information from it, now to sleep on it.

  • @lookingupwithwonder
    @lookingupwithwonder6 ай бұрын

    Stumbled across this concept yesterday. My angels must be looking after me. I am currently in some kind of in burnout from full time work in health and single parenting.

  • @baileyteranirt9528
    @baileyteranirt95282 жыл бұрын

    I really love her tips for creative rest, can't wait to get some cool inspirational images up in my workspace.

  • @lynnes1864

    @lynnes1864

    Жыл бұрын

    I like MC Escher. Most of his stuff is optical illusions so it really draws you in.

  • @tinycockcroft
    @tinycockcroft4 жыл бұрын

    This is me every day tired. Love this talk.

  • @edgartestrada
    @edgartestrada Жыл бұрын

    I'll be sharing this in hopes those who still judge me for not taking part in this hyper-critical and detrimental conditioning.

  • @my-own-boss
    @my-own-boss2 жыл бұрын

    I always thought my sleep never felt restful because of circadian rhythm was off but this makes a lot of sense.

  • @nathanclendle
    @nathanclendle2 жыл бұрын

    'sleep and rest are not the same thing' - this is such an obvious statement but I've actually never considered this

  • @msamymorin
    @msamymorin2 жыл бұрын

    Yup, exhausting relationships are what knock me out... but I see without the proper time to rest and reflect instead of just avoiding and keeping on that I play a big role in my burn out.

  • @judeblyth3606
    @judeblyth36064 жыл бұрын

    Oh I am watching this tonight again before bed.

  • @jeanetteward
    @jeanetteward4 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful and smart talk.

  • @SaundraDaltonSmith

    @SaundraDaltonSmith

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the kind words, Jeanette.

  • @charlie-s-anger
    @charlie-s-anger2 жыл бұрын

    This was so needed to see today!

  • @suebakernottly

    @suebakernottly

    2 жыл бұрын

    me too!

  • @vindemour
    @vindemour4 жыл бұрын

    Really good and important talk, can't think how many times I woke up just exhausted.

  • @susanpqpowell

    @susanpqpowell

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too Vin

  • @vindemour

    @vindemour

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@susanpqpowell Thanks Sue

  • @andrea-harrison
    @andrea-harrison2 жыл бұрын

    I get this, I do this and yes I am tired so much!

  • @splaws-fk8sw
    @splaws-fk8sw Жыл бұрын

    As a COIVD frontline worker--learning about the different types of rest is revolutionary. I will work on implementing these practices into my day to day. Thank you Saundra

  • @nothx3299
    @nothx3299 Жыл бұрын

    I remember growing up people used to say "I need a little r&r" rest and reflection/relaxation - I want to pin point exactly when we stopped putting emphasis on these things!

  • @davidhanson8232
    @davidhanson82324 жыл бұрын

    Good to teach kids too.

  • @abhipatil4844
    @abhipatil48442 жыл бұрын

    Good one

  • @bettygould3679
    @bettygould36794 жыл бұрын

    I needed this. Im going through such a tough time right now, Im so exhausted every day.

  • @levisenns
    @levisenns2 жыл бұрын

    The answer!

  • @n8sterling727
    @n8sterling7278 ай бұрын

    Here because of TBI, never felt fatigue like in my life. Nuero fatigue ao its a little different, but I still use the same ways to cope daily

  • @briannavantifcampen
    @briannavantifcampen4 жыл бұрын

    She described me or how I am exactly in the first 10 seconds.

  • @and18ku
    @and18ku2 жыл бұрын

    Sleep isnt one only Power of rest, thankyou.

  • @piperhansard5263
    @piperhansard5263 Жыл бұрын

    “Fatigue is here, in my body, in my legs and eyes. That is what gets you in the end. Faith is only a word, embroidered.” ― Margaret Atwood

  • @merlemackenzie
    @merlemackenzie4 жыл бұрын

    All of a sudden I am sleepy, I need rest, lol. Serious though this is a great talk.

  • @elaineward1925

    @elaineward1925

    4 жыл бұрын

    me too lol

  • @SaundraDaltonSmith

    @SaundraDaltonSmith

    2 жыл бұрын

    Rest well, Merle! Thanks

  • @graysonmyles
    @graysonmyles2 жыл бұрын

    Why are we never taught about this kind of stuff?? Like how useful would it have been to know the proper methods of resting before you hit your 30's and were just chronically tired all the time!

  • @IslamMuhammad
    @IslamMuhammad3 жыл бұрын

    To the point.

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