If the man isn’t willing to wait and move at your pace, he definitely isn’t someone who will give your body the respect it deserves. If unsure, I just make it known and then wait to see what his response will be. Several have run for the hills. I dodged many bullets by not rushing.

@jayc5756

10 ай бұрын

Very True

@zero1188

10 ай бұрын

What if her pace is first date

@faitha1075

10 ай бұрын

Some men will wait and be having sex with someone else

This is so true. And if we didn't have sex, it really doesn't hurt that much when he ghosts you...

OMG, the exact answer I wanted from u. It doesn't hurt if he never had sex with you. It hurts when he did and disappear

@jayc5756

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, that's why it's important to vet them good. Stop believing them telling you exactly what yall wanna hear. Look mainly at his actions...making sure it matches up to his words...and he's consistent. Simple!

@kisembojanet65

10 ай бұрын

@@jayc5756 thenk u 😊😊

@vaishnavityagi4680

Ай бұрын

I feel guilty😫

The worst feeling to have is a man disrespecting a woman's body... I love this.p

Sometimes having sex with someone for the first time isn't good but gets better as both find out what their partner likes and doesn't like.

This is good. This is true. Intentions eventually show so take your time. The signs are there if he’s rushing just to get in your pants. Two, if you choose to go all the way, make sure it’s because of what you want. Those thoughts do come for sure if you were just thinking you were going to have him sprung off one night or a series of nights. Do it for you if you do it and keep your eyes open for signs always.

Thank you for this...i once met this guy and he wanted to have sex with me and I told him no i can not have sex with him up until we get married,then he ditched me...i was no hurt ,i didn't beg him to stay or whatsoever,if a man comes into my life and is not willing to be patient about this whole sex thing ,he better leaves...

Excellent video!!!! YOU ARE THE BEST. THANKS

Facts and Respect

One man told me he needs to have sex to know if he likes a woman? I’m like is that not how situations happen

Yeah that’s true i was not able to evaluate him so that’s what happened he ignored and still manipulate me well learned from my mistakes

Wonderful topic Stephan i like how you go deep and helping us understand how men think. ❤🙏❤

@dogloverboxer1426

10 ай бұрын

Excellent video. Thank you so much! You are THE BEST

Amen!!!

Thanks very much for your advice!

@stephanspeaks You always saying "maybe it wasn't good" what constitutes good?

The number one sign that it was too fast was if he had not married you get. That's all.

I concure

Nope

I love your videos, I love your charisma and energy, but something with the mic and the sound is too much. You may change something with the settings there.

Agreed 💯

He wishes

I’m trying so hard to recover from sleeping with this fool so soon. I was abstinent for over two years and idk why I let this man take advantage of me. I guess I still have some insecurities and wounds but I keep crying and feeling ashamed of myself

@vaishnavityagi4680

Ай бұрын

Same😢😢

@tawiwicury

6 күн бұрын

Don't torture yourself, it's OK, just forgive yourself, God loves you ❤️

It’s not all about us women feels. So bad ,listen if you do sex with him do not expect to much think what you did is your decision also what ever the outcome be ready for it ! We don’t know what we didn’t experience

🛞🪭💯

Stephan theese men dissappears to because He was embarrassed Good for nothing Really could not deliver, has anyone ever thought of that

Whatcha think folk? 208 is my area code... 208 likes 👍 👌 ♥️. I'm taken this as a huge sign, yall listing, so don't do it 😑 😅. No, boom-boom.. we're gold, k 24 k. We're worthy, stay healthy ❤️

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