This is why you give money orders or checks eveytime the child needs something so that it can be tracked.

@OJ-615

2 жыл бұрын

You’re right. But its sad how some people have to live like that. Having to have proof just “ incase “ something like this happens. I guess its true when they say, always prepare for the worst. God bless

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

All he did was bring money orders of how he was under paying. Of course he thought it was sufficient. Typical man that wants to live better than his children.

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

@@OJ-615 Not impressed with this man bc he brought proof of what he was under paying. Of course he thought it was sufficient. The judge gave him credit for what he paid and gave him the balance he owed. The child should live as comfortable as the parent that makes more money. This man seems to be ok with his child having less. If this kid is spending his time with friends or girlfriends, that means it’s not time spent with him so at least there’s money so he can afford a more comfortable life.

@Shenduanr

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly that happened to my father with his first 2 kid's he gave money to the kid's every week and when the kids turned 17 their mother said he never paid anything and he owed back pay even though he gave money to the kid's every week.

@jaylakieth8734

2 жыл бұрын

Or keep and save all your receipts through your bank card/debit.

My ex wife n i divorced we used our joint bank account for me to pay/deposit my weekly child support payments. We did not have the amount given to us from the courts but an agreed upon amount. 5 years later, never once missing a weekly deposit, I'm summoned to court where my ex claims I've never once paid a penny towards child support. The chaos that ensued was enormous. I labeled our account " child support only" I had to prove with bank statements for 5 years that I never withdrew money & only deposited money. When the judge asked what were all the weekly deposits for my ex answered, " I thought he was giving me money to not complain" I got lucky the judge seen right through the B.S. or I would have paid 5 years of back pay. I got lucky I got the judge on the right day. There's too many loop holes in the system

@briannatodd8823

2 ай бұрын

Good judge and smart move.

@daltongarrett7117

27 күн бұрын

You didn't get the judge on the right day, you made the right move in making sure you were doing the payment in a way it could be tracked. Judge just wasn't a dunce.

I found this on Tik-Tok and I have been binge-watching this judge I absolutely love her

@lisachilelli3318

Жыл бұрын

Same! Popped up on FB and now I’m down a rabbit hole and enjoying every moment of it

@carrieanthony5883

Жыл бұрын

@@lisachilelli3318 me to🤣

@naomiemoore5725

5 ай бұрын

Me four! Love her. Wish she was on TV but this is better for now since I can watch when I can. I do not have any electronics to record. I have a "dumb" Home. 😂

@_Rayfieldsdaughter

3 ай бұрын

Yees, 😅

The respondent was very efficient when it came to supplying his financial documents. The plaintiff looks like she is all the way bitter and thought that backpay was going to destroy him.

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

He’s organized but penny pinching on his son. He was efficient to himself, not his son. The children are supposed to live as comfortable as the parent that makes the most money. This clown thought 600 was “sufficient”? That’s why there’s s set formula, bc “efficient” men like this put themselves first. Pitiful!

@Megitsune69

Жыл бұрын

At least he was giving her money.

@MzJoA

6 ай бұрын

She thought she was gonna get way more but he was giving her money and tbat counts

i think the parents receiving child support should every month give a proof of how they use the child support cause so many of them abuse of the system to get money

@wesdavis309

Жыл бұрын

And that will never because modern women are never held accountable for ANYTHING.

@thatonegirljenny9939

Жыл бұрын

This!! my baby daddy’s mother received child support until he turned 18 and she would use it for drugs. to buy methamphetamine!! and his shoes were messed up and needed clothes badly as well as needed new shoes but she never got them for him.

@deeannadorough7378

8 ай бұрын

I’ve always thought that

@randi_godspeed2063

6 ай бұрын

Are you insane? You are talking about multiple millions of people. They can’t hire folks for CPS, where is the $ going to come from for this useless exercise?

@susanrodriquez1024

5 ай бұрын

No way, child support, does that in your mind include utility receipts, rental receipts, grocery receipts, gas receipts for transporting the children or mileage on the car. Ridiculous!

The woman is 100% doing this out of spite.

@Hehekiki307

Жыл бұрын

Nope hhe is. He is a bum for shorting her makimg all that money

@harrisongord2228

Жыл бұрын

@@Hehekiki307 hahahaha ok

@rachaelsmith2249

11 ай бұрын

Nah, he’s a cheapskate. $600 is next to nothing when supporting a child

@albertaowusu3536

5 ай бұрын

She probably thought they will get back together until he started going with her student. She just want want she is due.

I worked for child support . And it's crazy to me how child support can be implemented when one of the parties involved is mad at the other. Because it really has nothing to do with the child or children. That needs to change. I've seen a girl put her child father on child support because he wouldn't but her concert tickets. And the father was taking care of his child, he just wasn't with her anymore. Blew my mind. She ended up mad because child support was less money than he was already giving her every month. Doesn't pay to be greedy.

@shinckson-gibson3793

2 жыл бұрын

So what about the fathers that are lent paying anything. Mines is a few hundred short of 10K and thinks working under the books for the rest of his life won’t catch up to him.

@bigboytoy29

2 жыл бұрын

@@shinckson-gibson3793 the debit doesn't go anywhere until its paid. Even after death child support will try and find property and anything else they can find under his name , to sell to pay that child support. But as long as he working under the table leagally they cant demand something that not in the system.

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

I know parents use the cs as a weapon but it still needs to happen despite the reason behind it bc the child's life regardless will be more comfortable. It's bad enough he/she has to live without both parents together. At least the financial aspect is one less thing to deal with.

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

@@shinckson-gibson3793 These types of men use the law to their advantage. Yes bogbputpu29. Ya didn't mention these men.

@bigboytoy29

2 жыл бұрын

@@irmaadams7780 I answered a question. But to be honest child support is not needed . You dont really want the authorities to be in your business. Because when you do you loose control and the state tells you what you can do with YOUR child. What really needed is the two adults the made the decision to sleep together and have a baby. Grow up and learn how to communicate and co-parent. If that's hard then both of the parents should have been think about whi this person is I'm sleeping with. Mist people on child support knew who the person they were sleeping with were before they did it. I tell people to go in your bathroom or any room where you have a mirror. Look in and fuss and cuss that person that's looking back at you. Because that's who you mad at

I admire this Judge she ain't about "beating around the bush!" Very upfront and calls people out on their BS especially when they go to court just to waste her time!!!!

@Facetimer864

2 жыл бұрын

*beating around the bush

Shes 100% salty Using kids as leverage is wrong on so many levels

@carlosclay5617

4 ай бұрын

This is what women do

@sagbrady8414

4 ай бұрын

​@carlosclay5617 not all women... my ex paid & I was happy with...never thought of taking him to court

@carlosclay5617

4 ай бұрын

@@sagbrady8414 you are right not all women, I’m not talking about those women. These women you don’t need a judge to tell the parents what to do. These Parents keep the court out of their business, these Parents know what their responsibilities are. But those other women, they use the child for a PAY DAY, and use the court to help them….these are the women I’m talking about.

@sagbrady8414

4 ай бұрын

@@carlosclay5617 ok...I agree...some women are just looking for the money..

This was a great video! No barking and arguing just numbers and learning opportunities. this is what I like

He shouldn’t have had a certain amount that he had to pay until they went to court. Therefor no backpay should be rewarded

If this show ain’t already on Hulu, it needs to be

Clearly this woman is bitter but he was giving her less than he should have. And once the math was explained to him saying he believes the 600 was sufficient is shameless. Neither his nor her emotions count. There's a set formula exactly bc of this.

@deajae3030

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I agree. Didn’t like that she won when the only reason she went to court was for revenge. But he should still have been paying her more than $600

@MikeS-7

3 жыл бұрын

The table is nothing more than a wealth transfer and have nothing to do with the child. The table needs to be abolished.

@randomfemaleopinion3167

3 жыл бұрын

How is it fair 🤔 They don't go by the child's average expenses (which would make sense and he pays healthcare) it only goes by the yearly income of the non custodial parent. A millionaire and a minimum wage worker would have 2 VERY different child support amounts. AND it technically should be his share and HER share of paying for the child. Not just his responsibility. You are ridiculous.

@joshynoshy

3 жыл бұрын

@@randomfemaleopinion3167 There is a cap on the amount of child support. Millionaires wouldn’t pay 9% of their income.

@brytonmacpherson2050

3 жыл бұрын

So she’s does not have her own place. Does not have a job. He pays for insurance, has his own place, makes good enough money to pay over a grand a month in child support, why doesn’t he have custody? Why should his child support go up instead of placing the child with the parent that can provide? It should not have went up at all.

This case was very professional and in order compared to the other cases

I wish I had you as a judge in the state of Georgia! My ex doubles my income and only makes 2 payments per year to me just enough to avoid getting his license suspended. It sucks to sacrifice everything to to take care of child while the other parent is going on vacations, buying a new house and Harley Davidson but will not make monthly payments to support his child!! Exactly why we need to be selective about whom we reproduce with.

@t193u

5 жыл бұрын

In other words, if he can do better for the child than you can, if he’s willing, give him the child. You want what’s best right?

@artriaorr2874

5 жыл бұрын

Aswin Prakash he still wants a relationship with me and therefore if I’m not willing to be submissive to his request even though he has a wife and he made it up in his mind that he will not provide for her unless I deal with him. Eventually he’ll get what’s coming to him. I’ll continue to provide for her by any means.

@artriaorr2874

5 жыл бұрын

t193u what mother gives her child away just because the other parent makes more money? That doesn’t make sense! I was just stating that it’s his responsibility to help provide for his child. Although he makes more money than me he chooses to support his needs and wants over his child! That’s a selfish individual whom doesn’t want the responsibility of being a parent

@Talk2Me7

5 жыл бұрын

LoveA Starr don’t worry about it yes I know it’s hard but his raggedy behind will end up with a huge impact payment in the end. My grown children father still owe and pay 600 a month until 60K is paid

@renskedj

4 жыл бұрын

He shouldnt pay a cent if he can't have his kid half the time. I gave my ex no cent til he gave the kids back half the time. I bought stuff for my new boyfriend when he legally stole my kids.

Very composed, professional, presentable, handsome man who seems to be concerned about his son's well-being.

Absolutely love this show.

I choose to stay single. I'm happy being alone.

@perjrgensen8280

3 жыл бұрын

Yes .. :) I have been married for 19 years, it was okay .. I am 58 years old and live alone, I do not have any children, but I have my horse. American QuaterHorse, 16 years old, gelding .. He is always happy and we are the world's best friends .. :) I am a happy man .. Greetings from Denmark.

@hallescarter19

3 жыл бұрын

Say it louder for the people in the back hun!

@illuminatiCorgi

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😐👍

@nothumanff5900

3 жыл бұрын

Me too crappie divorce eww

@daveclemens3134

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

People if you find yourself in this situation please make sure when you pay this money to the other parent that you put in the memo that it is for Child Support otherwise the other parent or a judge can consider it a gift!

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

This man keeps good records but isn’t doing the right thing. He was under paying.

I always check the comments after I’ve chosen who I think should win

@petra1470

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

In NY you only get back support to the date that you petitioned the court to get support.

I don't think it's a jealousy thing. I think she's saying that since he's seeing someone else there's no no chance of reconciliation, so the time has come to get things set up.

@Maninawig

Жыл бұрын

Nah, definitely done with vindictiveness. She never even fought reasons why her son needs the money, just that she wants it.

@JoolzThePirate

Жыл бұрын

Your obviously a woman, this woman is being vindictive

@maryjanedavis9033

5 ай бұрын

Even that is ridiculous

Love this judge am addicted 😊

In the state of Texas if you're going through a divorce child support is implemented within the divorce so you shouldn't have to pay child support until after the divorce is over, but if you're separated for the man please pay something so that he could be credited to you when you do go to divorce court and they see that you been paying money orders send it through the mail certified so that she has to sign for it

ALWAYS 👏🏽 BRING 👏🏽 RECEIPTS 👏🏽 TO 👏🏽 COURT 👏🏽

@Maninawig

Жыл бұрын

Bring receipts, a copy of the complaint, a copy of the response, and a notepad and working pen to take notes. If you have one, bring a recorder and ask the judge if you can use that (check local laws, but it's a trick I learned from Attorney Steve Lehto.)

Completely fair and legal financial calculation. Now he can move on in his new life!! Good luck!!

Bitter ex wife!

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

She is bitter, yes, but he is also under paying. There is a formula for a reason. These type of men play dumb that their children should live as comfortable as them. They would be ok with them living the life spending money on either women or other luxuries while their children live on bare minimum. Just bc he brought receipts doesn’t mean he was not below his obligations.

You made a comment briefly that she had accepted the $600 a month as child support. I immediately gravitated to that being like an oral agreement of acceptability. Why would further backpay be required if she had agreed to $600 a month previously? Seems like that should nullify backpay, like going back on a verbal agreement. She's mad now over his new love and isn't agreeable anymore. Seems like revenge money she is seeking.

It's Cheaper to Keep Her🤣🤣🤑🤑🤣🤣 Bitter Becky got him where it hurt most, his wallet👛

@t193u

5 жыл бұрын

Ter Ri -cheaper not to marry or bear children in the first place😁

So she got more money because she was jealous? Not because she needed help? Sheesh I’m staying far away as possible from Texas..

You should do a court case example where the child lives with one parents but not the other, however the parent that the child lives with does not allow the child to stay with the other parent. But the parent that the child stays with requests child support. I hope that makes sense!

@ritadraille5488

Жыл бұрын

She has had cases like that and settle the child support but refer them to custody court

Once again the man gets the screwed

@David-zp4cw

3 жыл бұрын

Not really, the guy was paying way too little in child support for his salary other than that he won since the woman didn’t get much else.

@BrewTownGamer

3 жыл бұрын

@@David-zp4cw your kidding right? How is he winning? He now has to pay more then twice as much as he was before and all because she's a jealous hateful bitch

@sdmcdaniel2255

3 жыл бұрын

@@BrewTownGamer no, he's paying more because, based on his income, he wasn't paying enough. And today? $600 does not do a lot toward raising a child.

@stelladevers5334

3 жыл бұрын

@@BrewTownGamer Because that’s what he owes in accordance with the law doesn’t matter how bitched or pissed she is

@melissavance3200

3 жыл бұрын

Lol he really was not screwed. Men always think they can walk and decide how much money they want to pay. He is just lucky he isnt in NJ. Would have been way worse for him.

I don’t think he should do the back pay, she was okay with the 600 a month until he found a new women. He should just be responsible for the 1,098

Really? This was revenge support, not anything about the child. Along with 50/50 custody in every state, the table the judge refers to (similar in every state) which is base (I'm good with) child support PLUS the sliding scale (wealth transfer) based on income needs to be dealt with in each state's general assembly. The tables are EXTREMELY abusive and should be done away with completely. It should be base child support only and then 50/50 documented expenses after that with an allowance for income disparity.

Had it been me I'd have told the judge I'd pay the back child support amount in full in one payment and kept the lower monthly payment. This what happens in a marriage when women start ignoring their husbands... my ex stop all intimacy in the bedroom after we'd been married for 6 years. I finally said "see ya" and moved out. She filed for divorce. Unfortunately for her, we had a good prenup and she left with half of our joint bank account; nothing more. Btw I'm still married (28 years later) to the women I met after her.

Smh she know she wrong.

My ex had a min wage job when we separated. He was order to pay 100 per month, the lowest possible. He did so ONLY because he was legally obligated to. He WANTED to pay 20 (yes TWENTY) dollars per month.

This guy was smart giving his wife money orders because if he would of given her cash she would of lied about him giving her money for the month. She's mad because he moved on to a younger girl and he's still handsome, welcome to our club.

My husband took me to court to get his support lowered. We we divorced we agreed on $400 a month. He wanted it lowered to $200 each month. The Judge some how found out he was starting a new job soon and wanted it lowered before he started working. His starting pay at his new job was $6.000 a month lol. Well his support got increased to $700 a month. Jokes on him.

The personal relationships of the other person shouldn’t matter one bit and shouldn’t be discussed…. The amount of money you make, the amount of money you’re paying and have paid and the amount of time you’re spending with the child should be the only thing that matters…. All this extra chatter should be stopped because it’s irrelevant to the care and expenses to care for the child.

Question. Say that you was giving her $1,500 bucks a month. Would he have to keep giving her that much? Would he get any of that money back?

@JudgeVondaB

3 жыл бұрын

Great question. He would not have to keep giving the amount and no he would not receive any money back.

@stans4me

3 жыл бұрын

@@JudgeVondaB Would his payments be reduced until the overpayment was corrected?

@xxsniperkittykatxx

3 жыл бұрын

@@stans4me no it's considered a gift because that's his child

First rule for *HUMANITY*- wear a protection and discard by yourself

5:02 Yo, this cat thought she said 9800/month... you could tell in his voice his head was about to literally explode.

My son’s “sperm donor” didn’t have to pay all the back pay because it would’ve been 12 years worth!! They tried going after him when he was about a yr or so old, but because we weren’t married & he had lied to me saying he wasn’t, I was told we had to have a “WITNESS”!! He was a TriMet driver & whenever any of the other drivers would say something, he would always say, you look at her & then look at me, you think I’d touch anything that looked like that???

How come the medical wasn’t credited towards the back pay but was calculated towards the total amount?

greedy wife!!!!!!!

For those not aware when the Non custodial parent doesn’t pay their child support they have a past due balance which has interest so every month that past due balance still exists it keeps going up due to the interest and whenever another payment is missed. So whenever the NP pays the passed due balance known as arrears the money goes to the balance owed first before the interest like with a credit card balance or a car note. If the past due balance is $130 and the interest is $50 and you pay $150 the $130 of the $150 goes to the arrears and then the $20 left over goes to the interest. Also if you are making payments directly to the CP be sure to get a form that you fill out to keep track of all the payments you made that the CP has to sign off on as proof that they received the money. Kinda like a time sheet. But most child support agencies enforce a income with holding order

I like how you talk about their cases basically to their face afterwords.🤣🤣🤣

@desigarland8201

2 жыл бұрын

They are actors and these are scripts she isn't a real judge it tells you that at the end

@YACABE

Жыл бұрын

@@desigarland8201 Are they reenacting real cases?

I didn't hear the credit given for the $109 for the child's health insurance. Did she give it to him?

This guy's personality, voice and the fact that he had notes with him gave me the vibes of character Bill Tench from Mindhunters played by Holt McCallany

Why do they never go over the women's income ...is this all full custody to women

@jamescampbell390

3 жыл бұрын

You gotta watch the show it’s not always the lady who gets cash it’s about 50/50 mom dad who pays there are now episodes of gay couples who are getting child support to she is a very fair judge watch a few more episodes you’ll see

@beckyl9454

3 жыл бұрын

@@jamescampbell390 the point is, custodial parent's income isn't included in the calculation at all.

@aminabakir8205

2 жыл бұрын

Because the mother has custody of the child. It's 50/50 Some dad's have been given child support too

@TheRadiantPeachBudgets

2 жыл бұрын

The courts do take both incomes into consideration 🙄 Do you really think that someone making 30k a year would pay more than someone making 60k?

So I clicked straight away ! Where are you Miss B

I mean its only right if he left and left the child there for her to take care of...if they had a shared custody agreement it would be different

@pumpkineater5118

3 жыл бұрын

How is that fair? Wtf. He’s paying over 1000. That’s already a good amount. How much more do you want. My god. That’s anything but fair

@niktheplanet7662

3 жыл бұрын

@@pumpkineater5118 a lot of y’all are selfish omg. how much should your child get out of your check? that’s just sad

@radiantgoldensun6438

3 жыл бұрын

Why don’t fathers just take custody or do 50/50. Then selfish delusional men would see that children COST

@grimmgtow4744

3 жыл бұрын

@@radiantgoldensun6438 I am fighting to get 50/50 with my ex, and paying through the nose on support bc she refuses to get a job that will earn her what she could be making so that she can continue to screw me on support. And that's why she doesn't want me to get 50%, because then her support check would go down.

@chiefgully9353

3 жыл бұрын

@@radiantgoldensun6438 most times if a custody battle is entered the man has to prove the mother completely un fit, as in a danger to the child. If all things are equal (neither on drugs in a violent life etc. Etc.) The defualt will go to the woman. As custody cases can drag out for a long time and become expensive, with little chance of winning, it is not usually in the interest of the man to fight for full custody. In partial custody, i.e. the 50 50 you spoke of the man also gets hit with childsuport. I'm not so much against the payment. But parental rights in america are far from an unbiased practice. Hope this helps.

Hey but respects for him since he didn’t had to go to court to pay 600 a month when some have to be obligated to pay 400

Better take half Custody to reduce the payment bro. I think it's bull sh#$. How the state of Texas gonna charge 7% for child back support. Hello, they just started this, it's new, least he tried to pay every month till they went to court . He should of not been charged for the 5 months . Should of been AS OF TODAY SIR you will start to pay $1,098 . Yall try to work it out on yalls own, didnt go well, that's why we here today

@JudgeVondaB

5 жыл бұрын

It’s 6% interest. The state of Texas (Attorney General’s Office-Child Support Division) has an interest considering they provide the service. They act as creditors just like any other service provider.

She is going to spend $150 or $200 a month on her child and pocket the rest. Child support is broken. But it don’t matter because it’s profitable for the state

@JudgeVondaB

4 жыл бұрын

Do you believe all women do this?

@bassfamily86

4 жыл бұрын

Support Court with Judge Vonda B. Honestly, I don’t know. But what I do know is, women do that and that goes to show you that child support agencies is not the best interest of the children, because if it was? The child support agencies will monitor how child support money is spent. So a mother can possibly go a full year or even years, spending little to nothing on the child every month and pocket money for herself. And I just feel like the child support services don’t care as long as they’re getting their cut.

@bassfamily86

4 жыл бұрын

Support Court with Judge Vonda B. Then on top of that, you have couples who don’t spend nearly a thousand a month on their child but the child support agency is not forcing them as a couple to spend $1000 a month on child support but yet a single father or non custodial parent is force to do so. Which lead me to believe that child support only is profitable for single mothers and the state.

@bassfamily86

4 жыл бұрын

Private Eyes yeah think about the stimulus that’s going on. A girl told me her baby daddy stimulus got taken and she only was able to get $600 of the father’s stimulus, where the rest of it go? To child support. Now if they doing that to millions of fathers? That’s over half a billion in profit to child support agencies. If child support was for the best interest of the kids? Why they don’t support mothers who have deceased fathers? Because child support can’t make any profit off the non custodial parent.

@bassfamily86

4 жыл бұрын

Private Eyes child support only care about Profit. It was never meant to be fair to the non custodial parent. Because if it was fair? A lot of custodial parents wouldn’t go to child support agencies or mothers wouldn’t have the thought process of threatening child support. baby momma drama would not exist. Or using a child as a pawn or to control the father because of fear of child support. Child support agencies will not make money that way if they decided to be fair. So that’s why child support agencies use these magic numbers of $700, $1500 or maybe $2000 a month in child support to entice these custodial mothers to put fathers on child support. These agencies are using mothers as assets for their financial gain. It only profits the agencies and the mothers. And put a burden on the non custodial parent. If that man put money in that mothers hand and it’s for the child, but she spends it on something that has nothing to do with that child? that’s what makes it become a burden on the father because that child still not getting what they need. And child support agencies don’t care how money is spent as long as they’re getting their cut. But in my opinion. A father can raise his kids with out child support being involve but they will violate our rights and freedom and enforce child support upon us so they can make profit when you don’t even need child support agencies in your business to begin with.

Child support shouldn't be based on income it should be a flat rate based on current economic standards.

@The3dsGeek

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed 100%. I really don't understand these laws where you have to pay the child support based on certain % of your income. It should be the amount for basic daily needs + education.

I wish I could email you judge for questions

The system is so wrong. They agreed on that amount the 600 a month. Didn’t say anything for 5 months and now cause he is seeing someone else she wants more money like come on now. 🤦🏻‍♂️

What a cold and frigid woman. Bitter. Broken.

Let him have the child ... sorted😁

Child support is ridiculously high in that state

This is a good bloody reason as to not have kids, fullstop. everything is fine until you break up then the nightmare begins. As a result and even though I have done nothing wrong. I haven't seen my kids since 5pm January 10th, 1999. I tried many times in the court but nothing ever changed except the fact that you had to pay child support. There has to be a rule of no access no child support. My opinion only.

He is very handsome. She was dumb to ignore him and her son.

@ybhomes6003

3 ай бұрын

Well, there's millions of women in the world, he lacks integrity choosing her friend/student. Looks doesn't excuse that.

@justinajordan7046

Ай бұрын

These are just actors reinacting the story. The real guy may not have been good looking. Still, regardless the real women should never neglect her family especially her child! x

The state gotta get their cut of child support. Sounds about right.

So this guy got screwed paying an agreed amount of $600? Since this would be a modification no back pay should be paid...

@caity9244

2 жыл бұрын

Not really. He looks smart enough to know how it works. The agreed upon amount was during a separation and not calculated properly. That's on both of them. I don't think she should have asked for back-pay, but it is allowed to be requested for people who don't have custody and only pay a certain amount each month. Thankfully it wasn't a longer span of time though and he kept proof.

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

How did he get screwed? He was under paying and it was caught. The amount is based on his income.

I find it interesting that some court shows give people credit for "child support" paid before there's an order, and other's don't. Please explain the discrepancy. The other thing I find interesting is another show, you made a father pay way more than his child support obligation because that was what he thought he should have been paying, and you told this guy he could have paid more and his backpay would have been less. Based on your other ruling, he could have also been stuck with paying more than his legal obligation. How are non-custodial parents supposed to balance the two scenarios? One guy gets stuck with paying way more than he should, and one guy gets stuck with automatic backpay which incurs interest. Both are ridiculous! How can the state even allow interest to be incurred on child support? I'm hoping Texas doesn't have a law like Florida and Michigan where back child support can get your license suspended.

@biancairma2279

2 жыл бұрын

Well she said in one episode that backpay can be ordered only when requested but under some circumstances she can order it if necessary but I always wonder the same thing cause it doesn’t seem to be following precedent

@rebelyell50

2 жыл бұрын

My oldest son father never paid anything I waited five yrs to get him a chance to spend time and split necessities for my child he never did so I went put him on child support and asked for back pay my son is now almost 10 yrs old he left state and I have never received any support and he has never to my knowledge been arrested either 🤷‍♀️ I never understood how some states will give some men yrs in jail over maybe a few months behind on support yet my son father has 10 yrs behind and hasn't given any support nor jail time

@I__Love_Lamp

2 жыл бұрын

Texas does have a law like this and are pretty harsh on people who owe backpay! After a certain amount you could also lose your right to travel by revoking your passport and have you charged once you go 6 months without a payment and or amount reaches $5000.00 a warrant will most likely be served! This is a business that states took on where they make a profit off of collecting backpay for support! According to our constitution non payment of child support is not supposed to be an arrestable offense but instead a Civil Matter! The states made it a jailable offense! Think about that for a minute!

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

@@rebelyell50 You should follow up on that with the right offices. Some men find ways. You should too. This is very unfair to you. These things take time but you should take the time and be patient but not give up!

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

@@I__Love_Lamp Other states should adopt this.

Why would the state get money on back pay? There was never a loan!!!!! Just more reason why Child support is illegal!!!!!

This woman is so bitter and she should be ashamed of herself she's so selfish couldn't realize she put her career over her family and he left and couldn't handle it watch out for these women fellas

I mean if they hate child support so much file for custody and have the other parent pay child support.

Why doesn’t the judge take into consideration the wife’s income?

@animutton

4 ай бұрын

Because child support isn’t means tested. It’s calculated based on what each parents income should be contributing

There has to be a balance for the kids but I must say 109 for insurance is a deal and I was a nurse .. Wow pray for the child adults can move on easier

lol guy definitely upgraded 🤣 😂 😆

Dang they are killing dads

I’m scared to take my son’s father to court because I don’t wanna be bashed or trashed anymore. So I struggle to take care off my son. I love my little man.

@aranukz._.

3 жыл бұрын

Dont be scared, you need support and his father should be taking care of half the responsibility aswell. Do whats in the best interest of your son, if you're struggling, get his father to step up and help you out there is no shame in getting help to raise both your guys child. Itll take a lot of weight off your shoulders aswell. Goodluck mama

@Angel123bb1

3 жыл бұрын

@@aranukz._. I appreciate the positive advice so much

@OsamaBinBombin

2 жыл бұрын

Well it’s whatever is best in the child interests whatever is going on between y’all two don’t matter it’s about the child

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

This means his father is ok not knowing if his son could live a little better. You should pursue this. He’s in the wrong, not you. You’re doing his share.

@jeanniefeaster4325

2 жыл бұрын

Don't be scared. There's only a need to be scared if you've done something wrong such as play the system, aren't sure if you know who the father is, or if you've been a bad parent, but in your case you love your child. Hold your head up high & go file without any fear. Be polite & professional while your in court & you'll see that you've got this.

This why dudes don’t want to marry anymore this guy clearly has been in his kids lives and taking care of them but it will never be more then a woman hurt or feeling. Specially towards another with jealousy 🙅🏾‍♂️

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

Them men shouldn’t use their pee pee without protection.

Anyone else think it's bs that you can pay for your child and the mother is ok with it until you piss her off and she takes you to court and you get slammed for even more money plus back pay just because she's pissy

there is absolutely no reason he should have been put on child support. he clearly has been providing for the child!!! this is everything thats wrong with this system.. only way he should have been put on child support is if he didn't give her anything at all . this is absolutely horrible. this aint have nothing to do with the child. this case should have been thrown out the second you read the money orders , regardless of how much he makes he was giving her money every month and had proof..he did everything right and was till punished just because she was mad

She just mad cause he move on

She just upset that he left and seeing someone else Get on with your life For the gentleman make sure you pay the support with a check or money order No cash

Can't the agreement amount stand and the new calculated child support follow?

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

Why would you push for that? He was under paying. There’s a formula for a reason. The parent that does all the work should be awarded some relief to cover expenses at least. Men act greedy trying to give the bare minimum. The children should live as comfortable as the parent. That’s why that formula is designed.

@cruisinwithcorey

2 жыл бұрын

@@irmaadams7780 Greed exists on both sides, do not solely blame men.. particularly the good fathers who are the ones who get screwed most. If dad has child 40-49% of the time, he is still expected to do the same things as mom and provide a quality lifestyle. But he has only 70% of his income to do so, while mom may only have a 10% bigger burden but gets 100% of her income plus another 30% from dad. How is it fair when dad has half a glass of water and mom has a full one .. of course dad is left thirsty. So the courts tell him to go work more, which cuts into parenting time and hurts his and child’s quality of life Deadbeat/absent parents aside, child support is ridiculous overkill towards the actual cost of raising a kid. I have two kids with my wife and we spend less on them then I pay in CS for one to my ex. It’s just hidden alimony and a way for the state government to get more funding through title IV

Smh these females have to chill with this mess🤔

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

Chill with the mess? She's the one doing the daily taking care of their son, he's giving less than he's supposed to, she noticed he's out there spending it on luxuries/women/anything, she did the right thing to take him to court. Regardless of why she took him to court, he was underpaying. don't act irresponsible!

@SwerveKing7135

2 жыл бұрын

@@irmaadams7780 OBE NOBODY ASKED YOU ANYTHING THATS 🤡 TWO CHILD SUPPORT IS NOT FOR CHILDREN BUT THE CHILDS MOTHER DICKHEAD.

Vonda B., love the show!

@JudgeVondaB

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@Kipkemoi

2 жыл бұрын

@@JudgeVondaB Please do edits for Tiktok.

Here is a little help for people who is paying child support based on Texas laws. Move to a different state and change jurisdiction. Most states allow for travel cost to exercise custody to be deducted from child support payments. If you move far enough away all of the child support will go toward travel cost and she will not get a thing. There are ways to deal with a spiteful exe. Work under the table. Seek custody all the time and keep her in court defending custody. After she get to about 40000 to 100000 in legal fees she will have a more open mind about things. My kid mother went in debt close to 60000 dollars before she gave up. Them attorneys took all her money while I represented myself. Needless to say, I got custody of our daughter and now she has to pay me child support in addition to the debt she racked up to defend custody. Hate bring out the worst in people.

@JudgeVondaB

5 жыл бұрын

Just don’t move to California. Their child support rates are much higher.😩

@gamersedge4867

3 жыл бұрын

You go! That's a huge win!

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

You’re a piece of nothing as a father and a human being. There is a formula based on income for a reason. This tells us your children have a deadbeat father. Are you spending time with your children? The greedy one here seems to be you. You’re the reason man child laws exist in child support.

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

Your little plan didn't show much regard for the child. Your mother must have been lazy that she didn't raise you right. The formula is set for a reason, basically meant for ppl like you.

@wnsjimbo2863

Жыл бұрын

so you are a parasite , cool

Bullshit. Child support is Just out for money . I didn't hear anything about his kids

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4 жыл бұрын

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What a bitter wife

In Texas that $600 would’ve been considered a gift. Meaning he would’ve had to pay that $1098 back pay for that 5 months.

In florida anything that is given without a support order is considered a gift. Whether is a check or money order doesn’t matter.

Pick your female correctly and make sure your prenup is always in order

It is insulting and she has every right to be upset. But…she truly needs to move on and find someone else that appreciates her. For dad to start dating. a very young woman says everything.

Oooo Judge Vonda where were you when my fiance needed help. Lawd he had to pay 10,000 to get a judge for his modification and still had to pay 1000 a month. We in MO. They pitiful. I wish I could Private message you or email you for additional questions and info on how things went down. Love your videos!!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

It’s funny watching the other videos I keep thinking can these people get along. And now they are civil in court I just keep thinking someone throw something, yell, call each other names. Anything! I need drama 🎭

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

Naughty!

Gotta be one of my Fav shows rn

Children are always the chess piece! smh 🤔

He still paying to much wtf

Men always want total focus on them😢

Why didn't the dad get credit for health insurance for the past 5 months?

@irmaadams7780

2 жыл бұрын

Bc the child received the services of the health insurance while he was alive. Duh!

So why didn’t he ask to put her on child support if he has the kids?

in my state theres no credit if you paid for school clothes and are the payer. I couldnt get credit maybe just my case

Cant put a price on happiness tho. He got off easy.