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Support Court- Child support and a deceased parent
Maternal grandmother wants custody of her granddaughter after her daughter passes away. The child lives with dad, has been living with dad for the past year, but grandmother wants child and for dad to pay her child support. How do you think the Court is going to rule?
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To all who do not know she has now become an actual judge. Although these are all reenactments for our educational purposes. She is an official judge as of the end of 2022
@billyduffany3387
5 ай бұрын
I am sure she will be a great judge
@pamelasmith514
4 ай бұрын
I did not know they were reenactments. An eye-opener.
@erik1836
3 ай бұрын
@@pamelasmith514 BUT, very well acted re-enactments - I too didn't realize until I knew! LOL
@nikkibaker7885
2 ай бұрын
She deserves it she is an excellent judge and very very fair without taking sides she listens to both sides and makes her decisions on facts rather than the angry entitled mums ....don't see many entitled dads on here
@naomiemoore5725
Ай бұрын
Thank you, yes this is correct. She is wonderful. We need more like her.
At the risk of sounding racist I'm going to say it, I've seen a lot of black female judges and every single one has been the absolute best. I hope this trend inspires a generation. We could use more fair judges.
@idkpeerpressure2854
3 жыл бұрын
Edit: If you don't believe what I'm about to say, please pause at 8 minutes 14 seconds in this video. 8:14 . Original post: She's not an actual judge though... she's an attourney. These "cases," though realistic are not real according to the disclaimer at the end.
@contractkilla11
3 жыл бұрын
Not racist at all
@bigbardvods
3 жыл бұрын
You had me in the first half ngl
@busymom8007
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@mistydenslow846
3 жыл бұрын
@@idkpeerpressure2854 in order to be a judge you need to be an attorney and You need to pass a certain BAR exam to become a judge. So yes she is a judge.
That woman is pure evil! Trying to make sure the child has no parents in her life, sad she is willing to jeopardize her grandchild for selfish reasons
@jarrodpurvis2611
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, if the daughter was a fit parent, then custody almost always goes to the mother. It has little to do with the abilities of the father.
@InternalxHD
2 жыл бұрын
@Helen Saghy women always by default get custody.. duh.. when my parents broke up I wanted to stay and lived with my dad cuz I hated my mom that cheated on my dad and other stuff but ofc court still gave custody to me to my mom even tho I wanted to be with my dad
@Chavezmelonie04
2 жыл бұрын
Her face after hearing that she wasn’t getting child support was a Karen face
@dcg590
2 жыл бұрын
Yes she’s awful
@sherrinsmitty759
2 жыл бұрын
if you have never lost someone you love , she not evil just very sad and hurt
The grandmother tried to fabricate an unfit parent case against the father, but she didn't have any proof or evidence to substantiate her case.
@Hellwendogggy11
3 жыл бұрын
She brought it too the wrong court.
@I__Love_Lamp
3 жыл бұрын
@@Hellwendogggy11 , short of calling child services on him all she had was accusations of him going out alot! I would have then informed grandma if one more call is made to CPS then consider ramifications of never seeing her grandchildren again when he leaves the state! Bet grandma would buckle her depends a little tighter and avoid that!
@Hellwendogggy11
3 жыл бұрын
@@I__Love_Lamp yeap. My son's grandmother on his dad's side tried playing these games.
@user-wq7hw2ow9l
3 жыл бұрын
Grandma probably knows the truth - Dad is an alcoholic. A six year old knows who is a babysitter and who is a girlfriend, and whether or not Dad is home. Grandma should hire a detective, I feel sorry for the little girl.
@TheSobieskiukas
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-wq7hw2ow9l or the grandma is delusional never liked him anyway , tried to fabricate he left her when she got sick , what's a babysitter what's a girlfriend , don't u think that the father says it's a babysitter because he knows she is still grieving the death of her mother?
Grandma wants the money, not the child. VERY smart Judge. Still, I sense this case is far from over. Grandma has blood in her eyes.
@patriciahernadez1717
Жыл бұрын
Exactly because of grand daughter is with dad why does he needs to pay retroactive child support Is he as a bad parent and she got custody from that day on he should pay but not for the yr before kid was taken
@brendamarrerobrugueras2080
11 ай бұрын
If your sick child was abandoned by her husband, would that make you happy? Put yourselves in the other person’s shoes before judging. She has no right to the money, all right but she has all the right to be upset with him and his abilities to run after the first trouble arises.
@nanrobbins2916
8 ай бұрын
They were separated before she got sick and he supported her until the end. He then took custody of the girl. Grandma is grieving and looking for someone to blame.@@brendamarrerobrugueras2080
@jillrhodry1139
6 ай бұрын
I completely disagree. The Grandmother was raising her grandchild while caring for her dying daughter - her daughter died and she lost her grandchild at the same time, she's grieving, you can't blame her for wanting to with her daughter's daughter.
@brucewelty7684
6 ай бұрын
She will have someone file an anonymous report that he is viewing porn and the kid will be kidnapped by the State and dumped with Granny.
Stop questioning the child about what her dad is doing, grandma.
@sg7392
9 ай бұрын
She trying to get ammo against him from the kid.
@erik1836
3 ай бұрын
@@sg7392 Which, by doing so, she only drove home to the judge how conniving and desperate she is to get her selfish way.
@pennyford1358
3 ай бұрын
The grand daughter will tell whatever just to please her, and unfortunately, that's the problem
That might be his girlfriend not a babysitter. Which maybe the real reason she wants the child.
@james64468
3 жыл бұрын
Or the grandma is idiot. It could be either way.
@arachnid638
3 жыл бұрын
or dad might work and needs a babysitter everyday. i dont have kids but i work 9 hours a day 6 days a week and that is my scheduled time not the extra hours i put in throughout the week. (im one of the chefs in a resturant)
@nashia23
2 жыл бұрын
Great point.
@darlenekay8712
Жыл бұрын
There's plenty of couples, single people that have sitters more than 8-10 hours a day, some gasp! even have live in Sitters, get free room and board and some cash for being a sitter, cooking, cleaning. it literally goes on ALL the time. They also split up BEFORE she got sick. He isn't allowed to move on?
@paiget6200
3 ай бұрын
I thought the same
Keep that child away from that woman, you can see in her eyes, she’ll do or say anything to “un-father” him. Trying to take a child away from her only living parent…sick.
What's worse than a nosey mother-in-law An ex nosey mother-in-law
@superdave8248
3 жыл бұрын
Something that I didn't quite get. She says he is her soon to be ex son-in-law 0:40 yet the daughter has passed away ... Any lawyer would have told her to file an anonymous complaint with child services in order to have a chance with getting custody of the child. Of course that same lawyer would have probably also told the woman that once child services starts an investigation and rules against him, it might generate other legal problems for him which will possibly impact his job and impact his child support payment. Whenever I see this series on youtube I can't help but think it is all staged. It is an attempt to educate people on Texas civil law in order to prevent civil cases that would be considered a waste of court time.
@hridayevyas8906
3 жыл бұрын
@@superdave8248 yeah and if it is actually the motivation behind this show I kinda like how efficient it is especially the effort they are putting into it
@shaydavis4099
2 жыл бұрын
I know right my soon to be ex- mother -n-law is completely nosey and she always teach her son to lie to cover up his dirt
@Tony29103
2 жыл бұрын
@@superdave8248 It is staged. You legit can see the actors sitting behind the judge.
@khankrum1
2 жыл бұрын
A loving Grandmother perhaps?
“Hurt people hurt people.” No truer statement. Grandma is grieving and hurting another person. What she doesn’t realize is taking a child away from the dad doesn’t just hurt him. She’s wounding her own grandchild causing that child a lifetime of pain. All because she is hurt and has became bitter. Sad, because she’ll probably lie and accuse him something bad and find a person to lie as a witness. She’ll find a way to destroy this man!
@lance9249
Жыл бұрын
He needs to completely cut her out at this point he should supervise the nightly calls if he allows that to continue.
@daisyy99
Жыл бұрын
Grandma is probably indulgent to the child. Of course children respond to that. Yes, I agree she will destroy the dad if she can. PS It's probably not a babysitter but a girlfriend, or possibly a roommate.
@linley-jane7878
Жыл бұрын
What's to say that the "babysitter" is actually the new girlfriend that the father is trying to keep hidden from the grandmother? 🤷♀
@tetrac71
Жыл бұрын
At that point he probably can't trust the grandmother cause she may do anything to take the child away from him. And thats evil
@Pippiko
Жыл бұрын
Pretty sure a dead parent and then the other spending the majority of time at the bar and not raising them is also hurtful to the child better to be in a stable good home with no “parents” then with an alcoholic father
This man better watch his back, this women is coming for him.
Judge Vonda B has me dying. She has style and grace mixed with a little hood.. Hair and jewelry always on point. Facial expressions, priceless..
@kristybennett8804
2 жыл бұрын
@@Jedin8_1966 OOPS. My bad..😀
@caseykosek2673
2 жыл бұрын
Being "hood" = not professional
@kristybennett8804
2 жыл бұрын
@@caseykosek2673 your opinion. I just mean that she's hard. You don't have to like my opinion but there it is...
@superstarcat7654
3 ай бұрын
I love the judge's tea time.
I love how she gives the summary of the case infront the grandmother 🤣🤣🤣
@edgeofbigiggy1311
3 жыл бұрын
There’re actors she’s not a real judge for education purposes
@garyvee265
2 жыл бұрын
@@edgeofbigiggy1311 y’all be drinking piss. She is a real judge 🤦🏾♂️
@MrNickallday
2 жыл бұрын
@@edgeofbigiggy1311 nah I don’t believe that
@belmariemonserate4490
2 жыл бұрын
@@MrNickallday if you read at the end it tells you she's not a real judge and they're just actors playing different scenarios
@ok_so_what8114
2 жыл бұрын
@@belmariemonserate4490 dam that is true, i just read it. i think im going to stop watching this now.
YOUR DAUGHTER IS GONE...GOD BLESS HER SOUL...BUT YOU CAN'T REPLACE YOUR DAUGHTER WITH HIS CHILD...BE A GRANDMA AND MOVE ON
@matthewhummel1572
3 жыл бұрын
This woman is going to end up being cut out of her granddaughters life. She needs to get grief counseling and find a way to move on.
@desigarland8201
2 жыл бұрын
@@matthewhummel1572 I doubt it bc this is fake and scripted
@matthewhummel1572
2 жыл бұрын
@@desigarland8201 I was under the impression that these were re-enactments.
@desigarland8201
2 жыл бұрын
nope they are just scripts to show different scenarios... they said u can turn in your story and they will reenact it but no its all fake
@matthewhummel1572
2 жыл бұрын
@@desigarland8201 well, good to know.
I'm completely on the father's side👍
Hands down the best online judge! She doesn't over dramatise for views. Keep doing what you do!
She doesn’t know why there’s a babysitter for all we know he’s working at night or dating and it’s none of the grandmas business now she could have asked him if she could be the babysitter but that’s not going happen after she takes him here
@princesslulu5795
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you may have a babysitter even when you are home because you are working from home or you need extra help. The child could have special needs, medical issues, or maybe the parent is just overwhelmed on particular days. Unless we see evidence otherwise, nothing shows that the babysitter is unfit or mistreating the child at all
@yourdadsotherfamily3530
2 жыл бұрын
@@princesslulu5795 yeah for real as a single father without my girlfriend helping me out by also being my childrens babysitter I’d never be able to make my child support payments or support myself when working two jobs full time. It’s fucked in this world when THAT would be held against me if I ended up in court for whatever reason. It’s sad that dads like us get the complete RAW-end of the deal.. If I wanted to payyyyyy a babysitting service BY A STRANGER it’d cost me 2/3rd’s of my entire months income from one of my two jobs and that’s not feasible for just living off rice and beans with no governmental assistance either cause apparently single fathers like me don’t qualify for food supplements or financial aid like ever. It’s almost enough to radicalize an individual..
@annmargaretalalak3452
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry I disagree with you, the child is her grandchild. Part of this problem will be grief, and anger towards her former son in law for as she see's it leaving when her daughter needed him most. Breakups are rarely clean and simple especially when there is children add in bereavement of a parent at such an early age. This woman is grieving and scared of losing her grandaughter as well as the thought of seeing her neglected.
@darlenekay8712
Жыл бұрын
I'm willing to bet my home Grandma was the reason for their split up, They also split up BEFORE her diagnosis and death. The child went to the sole surviving parent being Dad. Grandma needs serious grief counseling since she literally just blew up ANY positive relationship between Dad and HIS daughter. @@annmargaretalalak3452
She is just a busy body and a countrol freak. She was able to manipulate the daughter and most likely a big reason the marrage failed. he needa a stay away order and keep that child away from her
Who will never see her granddaughter again? I think we all know the answer.
@cleodello
5 ай бұрын
She can actually get visitation rights.
Grandma tripping! She wants apart of her daughter , learn how to love from a distance.
In your face Granny. Shame on you. Leave that Papa and baby girl alone and be glad that your daughter left you such a precious gem
@Anonymous_Me591
3 жыл бұрын
Can I just say, the judge has beautiful hair! She's super intelligent and clearly knows the law. She's awesome
That grandma is going to cause a world of trouble for that man. He’s going to need some sort of restraining order. She strikes me as the type that isn’t going to be dissuaded by the ruling of a judge.
@rapunzelz5520
Жыл бұрын
Grandma better have a change of attitude if she wants to see her g daughter.
@sg7392
9 ай бұрын
She is going to be a thorn in his side until the day she dies and beyond.
All this grandma did was make sure he keeps that child away from her. I know I don’t want my son around any crazy family members 🤷🏻♀️
There is no such thing as grandparent's rights that trumps over the father when he is taking care of the children's needs. My ex wife's mother tried to deny me visitation when my ex was living with her. The judge told her that grandparents don't get to dictate the life of their grandchildren unless me or my ex was being neglectful or harming the children. There is no such thing as grandparent's rights.
What a way to honor the memory of a deceased loved one. Good going mom 🤦♂️👍🙄
@deloisphillips831
5 ай бұрын
Sad
I JUST LOVE THE WAY YOU TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS.....ELABORATING ON THE LAW AND WHAT THE LAW WILL ALLOW IN TERMS THAT ARE UNDERSTANDABLE....THANK YOU SO MUCH JUDGE VONDA B.
@JudgeVondaB
5 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome!
If the grandmother wanted child support, she must request child custody and visitation. It had not been established that she is even seeing the granddaughter. She wants the money and is not spending it for the granddaughter"s benefit. Really nervy of her.
Grand mother is lonely. Sorry but you can't make up a loss daughter with your granddaughter.
@adamhero459
4 жыл бұрын
Yup, “ms” was a dead giveaway for that. On the plus side, the guy has a reason, and hopefully does, keep the kids out of the toxic grandmothers life.
@colleenthecatlady2344
4 жыл бұрын
Grumpy Granny!!!
@cameroncarter1696
3 жыл бұрын
Not true the grandparent has birth rights to there grandchildren
@smpolit
3 жыл бұрын
@@cameroncarter1696 That's not always the case. There usually has to be a number of factors, one of which is it's in the best interest of the child, for a grandparent to win legal grandparent's rights. Then there's cases like this one where the grandparent tries to use it as a control tactic and actually have no legal rights to their grandchildren.
@countycalling
3 жыл бұрын
@@cameroncarter1696 not if it jeopardize the child.
Commendations to the judge. I can only imagine how this grandmother must grill that child when she sees her. Imagine the stories that grandma fabricates about the dad as well🤨
Judge you be on top of these ppl! The right way on the law side! Other words fair!
Hi from England, I just love this judge, she is caring, fair understanding she see right through people and knows if they are pulling the wool over her eyes,
100% Correct On Everything.. I Bet That Grandmother Was All Up In Her Daughters Marriage Business.. She Just Seems Like The Type.. She's Probably The Underlining Cause Of The Kid's Parents Divorce..
@JudgeVondaB
5 жыл бұрын
I agree. This happens so often too.
@dcg590
2 жыл бұрын
Ohhh you’re probably right.
@darlenekay8712
Жыл бұрын
I agree. They split up BEFORE her diagnosis and death. Vonda really nailed Grandma good.
Grandparents don't have rights to their grandchildren. Unless the parents are deemed unfit but would still need a court to grant them Guardianship or custody. My dad tired to claim this crap with me. It didn't end well, he went from having access to my kids to completely cut off.
@amacauley8000
Жыл бұрын
My mom would always threaten me to get control of my daughter when she was an infant. Instead of teaching me how to do things to care for my child, she would threaten to take her away. 😮😢
You can smell the rage in "grandma" that she won't get custody of someone else's child to poison against him and collect free money. Bet you she was instrumental in the breakup of her daughter's marriage.
Granny only cares about the money, selfish wow the kid doesn't even live with her
his child not yours
I'm sorry grandma that you lost your daughter but you can't replace her with a baby that you won't be able to keep up with as the child grows. At least he stepped up when the child needed him to. Most dad's wouldn't even want their own child around
@mlm1916
3 жыл бұрын
Most dads wouldn't like hearing you say that !
@heatherslaughter4724
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm not sure about the dads not wanting to be around their own kids. My dad was always present in my life and so were most of my friends father's. I'm sorry if that's not the case for you, I really am! But that's a pretty big generalization
@countycalling
3 жыл бұрын
You must make poor choices in men, all the men I know want their children,
Grandmother needs to have several seats! No maybe a 🏟 stadium
@JudgeVondaB
5 жыл бұрын
Stadium!😂😂😂
@Homynum
5 жыл бұрын
CC WW Riiiiiiggghhhttt. Hahahaaaaa
@element-ki3gz
5 жыл бұрын
she wants money for herself had a lifestyle now its over ,
@I__Love_Lamp
3 жыл бұрын
@@JudgeVondaB ,I have a question ma'am! What happens when support finally stops and you have a credit of over 5000.00! How do you get that money owed? I have a support order out of Florida where they garnish my wages from DFAS, I'm retired military and reside in Texas! Will a check be sent to me afterwards or will I have to sue the Florida Child Support Division or sue my ex?
@thadude949
3 жыл бұрын
@@I__Love_Lamp I recommend you take this to Reddit lol you won't find a solid answer here my dude but I can almost guarantee you there's people on Reddit that be knowing
He's totally right on this situation he's her father and she's underage at 6 years old... I have a four year old little girl that's with me 50/50 which isn't fair I was fighting for full custody.. I proved to the court about my daughter's mother how bad of a drug addict and alcoholic she is with seven DUIs the courts still was unfair I might be half.. the court systems are unfair in the state of Wisconsin they go for the women no matter what no matter how bad she is and how much you proved that she's unfit to take care of any child.. my daughter is so happy with me and she is my world even her teacher has said you are a great father and a great provider for your daughter it shows in school you're all she talks about and how much she loves you she's a very smart little girl because of you this is what her teacher said she says I know the core systems are unfair it's a good single fathers like you.. I know there's a lot of good Fathers out there that are going through the same thing I am I know it's unfair we need more better judges in Wisconsin and everywhere else around the world there are a lot of great fathers out there to all your good Fathers keep your head up stay solid and keep praying and believing God knows you are doing a great job take care and God bless
You handled this case so Beautifully
This magistrate is right up there with Judge Caprio from “caught in providence”. She’s is fair and consistent. There’s “Letter of the Law” and then there’s “Spirit of the Law”. The law allows the judges to use her discretion “Spirit of the Law” and Judge B uses it appropriately. You’re making the founding fathers of this country proud of you!!
You do your job right on every case. You are the best.
@JudgeVondaB
5 жыл бұрын
Thank for very much!🤗
@charlesharper2669
5 жыл бұрын
Your more than welcome
I love watching your show to see the father's being treated fairly a lot of mothers tried to hurt the father sometimes that can be discouraged them from doing their part but I love you help a lot of these parents with the support that they should have been got for these children keep up the good work
I know a man who lost his wife and he was left with 2 little girls. He had a babysitter 3 evenings a week. 2 of those evenings he spent doing household stuff like grocery shopping, laundry and he said he was glad the girls had female company even though their mum wasn't around. The third evening he played chess with his father. As far as I remember that went on until the youngest was about 15. So grandma should not assume any neglect just because a babysitter answers the phone
Grandma will be calling CPS as quick as she can
Under Texas statutes, grandparents have a right to sue for managing conservatorship in a two situations. The first situation is when there is proof that the child's present circumstances with his or her parents would significantly impair his or her emotional or physical health (e.g. abuse, neglect or other harm). Since she is CLAIMING the word of a 6yr old she dies not have a flying chance in hell to get custody. She can get a PI, but the cost would be so exorbitantly high she'd be broke.
@beckyl9454
2 жыл бұрын
She might have had a case if she stuck with the fact the child lived with her for the past 2 years mom was going through cancer treatment and it would be in the best interest of the child to have some type of contact with her still; however, primary custody is NOT the way to go. Just because he "abandoned" her daughter doesn't mean he did so to his daughter.
@darlenekay8712
Жыл бұрын
THEY were split up BEFORE her diagnosis. HE PAID child support until SHE DIED. HE being the sole surviving parent got full custody of HIS child. I'd be getting a R O against grandma and moving FAR AWAY
When she said he spends a lot of time in bars i was half expecting for him to say he's a bartender
Grandparents falsly think they’re entitled to rights of visitation. This is not the case.
@jaimeduncan6167
3 жыл бұрын
They don't have the legal right unless a judge order it, but they have a moral right and the children should have the presumptive right to see them. I don't understand how it this related to the video.
@victorias5272
2 жыл бұрын
It depends on the state. Some states have grandparents laws where the grandparents DO have rights to see their grandkids in cases like this (a relationship between the child and grandparent is already established and the parent has passed away). However, visitation, custody, and child support are three different things.
@beckyl9454
2 жыл бұрын
@@jaimeduncan6167 Texas, where this case is, has grandparent rights. However, it's very difficult to get even visitation. This grandmother went about it the wrong way. Instead of demanding primary custody and child support, she could have asked for visitation because it would be in the child's best interest seeing as she lived with her grandmother for the 2 years mom was dealing with cancer treatments. All grandma kept saying was dad abandoned mom not that he abandoned the child.
@darlenekay8712
Жыл бұрын
All 50 states have Grandparents' rights. Each state has their own statute.
@sg7392
9 ай бұрын
Entitled being the operative word.
Would be interesting to see a video covering interstate cases.
I was in a somewhat similar situation. My parents were going to get divorced and my mother was going to release all parental rights to me. She never wanted me in the first place. However, my father was killed by a drunk driver before the divorce was final, so by state law at the time I was ordered to be returned to my mother. I was almost four at the time so my memories were developing. I went through two years of hell with her, physical and mental abuse trying to turn me into what she really wanted, a girl (I'm male). After two years, she finally decided I wasn't worth the effort and shipped me to her parents. They called my father's mother and said "either you take IT (yes, they said IT), or IT is going to foster care." My father's mother (my Grandma ❤❤❤❤❤) got me that day and she raised me from age six to adulthood.
@annabellelee4535
8 ай бұрын
How is that similar to this though? The father wants his child. The grandmother is being vindictive. I'm glad you found a loving parent. Some people just shouldn't be parents.
Very bitter Granny!!! Thinks she can just waltz right in!!!
Let me start by saying I watch quite a few of your videos and find you to be a very level-headed judge and it's nice to see a judge that looks out for all parties and not just one side thank you it means a lot to guys like me they've gotten the short end of the stick just because we're mail
@380crazymonkey
Жыл бұрын
Being a male is already hard but imagine being a mail phew I couldn't imagine
Y’all too good at acting ❤️❤️ am now an addict and sometimes I forget that this isn’t real 🤣🤣
@Darklion2077
4 жыл бұрын
Wait... This is not real?
@Christellasuggs
4 жыл бұрын
AD EN no it’s not .
@kdfischer5910
4 жыл бұрын
I looked her up.. real judge
@vanessatheurbantarotgoddes2192
3 жыл бұрын
Oh u right it isn't real...shes an attorney not a judge in real life..its pretty much an educational show to teach u about how cs court works
@geraldsuarez1050
3 жыл бұрын
Why did I see this man now it’s not good anymore
She probably treated him terrible while they were married. She acts like she is better than anyone.
Probably assumes he can’t raise the child because he’s a man. Completely wrong-sincerely a young woman raised by a single dad who has her life together and got out of an abusive mom situation and is somehow STILL well-adjusted.
I am living through this nightmare right now, my ex passed away 3 years ago and my youngest is 21 now. Yet they are still hounding me for support. They keep saying its a mistake but every month I get another letter/bill demanding payment and the arrearage keeps adding up.
@Aenarion28
3 жыл бұрын
Simple. Those family court crooks want their cut of the child support money. Tell them to f off. Your ex melted like all witches so no one else to pay money to.
@miekaash6831
2 жыл бұрын
@@Aenarion28 that’s uncalled for.
@Aenarion28
2 жыл бұрын
@@miekaash6831 how so? Face facts, women need men. If feminists were serious about not needing a man, there would be no child support. But there is, and the way it is calculated is retarded and people wonder why women are being killed by exes...
@sloklubolisen2577
2 жыл бұрын
@@Aenarion28 You’re insane dude, you call all women witches and then justify men murdering there exes over child support? I’m no femenist but you’re crazy.
@Aenarion28
2 жыл бұрын
@@sloklubolisen2577 crazy world we live in now. But it is true. When women pull their gold digger and bitter ex shit and are beaten and killed, if not saying I condone it but I can understand why it happened to them
This one is absolutely hilarious to me! I was a responsible person at 23 that knocked up a junkie that did everything she could to try and keep me from getting custody of our newborn child. I hired a lawyer and jumped thru every damn hoop required of me to get custody and I did! Her non existent father and step mother tried their damndest to keep custody from being given to me and it backfired on them every single time! The one single greatest time was when I had my own grandmother with me to pick up my son and they tried to make a scene about it not realizing that my grandmother was sitting in the car watching everything. There’s no better feeling than knowing you are in the right and other people see it while the trixters get caught up in their own lies!
I need a her for my case I love how she actually wants to hear the back stories. Past two judges I saw only looked at numbers and that was it.
@amandamccarthy480
2 жыл бұрын
This isn’t real.
@princesssmileyface91
2 жыл бұрын
It’s a smart move to get back stories, I think it helps out a lot to get a picture of what’s going on. I feel you see the bigger the picture.
I remember a similar case with a friends relative. The Irish judge to get the grandparents to drop the case; made the mother continue to pay child support, but to herself...
Correct me if I'm wrong, but as long as the child is 1. Clothed 2. Fed 3. Performing up to average standards in school 4. Not in danger, the father is not in the wrong? Let's say Grandma is right, the children are safe with a babysitter while the father chooses to go out. How does the Grandma not know the father doesn't spend 5-8:45pm exclusively on his children leaving to go out at 12pm while leaving his children to be watched by a responsible adult? Having a babysitter is not illegal lol.
I love that judge. Mwah ily so much. Great judge. Alot of people are so selfish
@JudgeVondaB
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@dukedaman5671
5 жыл бұрын
@@JudgeVondaB I just subscribed. Bless you
@JudgeVondaB
5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you!
With all due respect, a grandparent has no authority over a legal biological parent. Many state laws even allow a biological mother whose a drug addict, to keep her child even if the father is more of a fit. The system is backwards. -- All I see is a grieving Mother who needs counseling for her unfortunate loss. Lymphoma is one of the most recoverable and treatable cancers to get so to lose a child from that, very sad.
She is a judge of the Texas 255th district court. She was appointed on January 1st,2023.
The daughter passed away so the father should automatically get his daughter. Parent's rights trumps grandparents. It's sad she lost her daughter but she needs her daddy.
Grandma not happy - she don't like him probably never did - wasn't her choice for her daughter - now she wants payback - hope the daughter never sees this because it will open a huge can of worms.
lol imagine he's the bartender
It seemed like grandma is using the grand daughter to replace her daughter. Unfortunately thats not how it works. Very unfortunate situation.
She's trying to take control of whats left of her daughter, instead of just staying in her grandchild's life...
You did well in your judgement! Child is only young and has a parent. Family Law...ugh.. Stay healthy and stay safe. Australia...
@JudgeVondaB
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You stay safe and healthy as well!
I would've asked for a restraining order against the ex-MIL. If she's trying something legally, she might try something illegally as well. With a restraining order it won't be his word agasint her (odds to her favor), but the opposite.
How do you need child support if the child doesn’t live with you.
She's very fair no matter what color comes in her courtroom whether it's a man or a woman asking for a support keep up the good work Ms vonda B
She WILL put a neglect charge/accusation on that man to try to take the child. And she said what she just said with a straight face.
She is not a real judge.... she is a licensed attorney that's what I read
Grandma heart is in the right place
This Judge is so wise, this Grandmother wanting money for a child that doesn't even live with her is absurd. She needs to be careful or crazy gran will end up losing her granddaughter and actually you can tell by her attitude that parental alienation is already taking place and this father should perhaps re-evaluate what access this woman gets to his daughter.
What a sad case. The grandmother just wants to make sure that her granddaughter is properly taken care of. But, I agree with Judge Yalonda.
@lovelyone0509
5 жыл бұрын
Tawanna Austin.... yeah I agree.
@trekgirl65
5 жыл бұрын
But who is judge Yolanda, @Tawanna Austin. Not in this show.
@tawannaaustin9489
5 жыл бұрын
@@trekgirl65 My bad, judge Vonda.
@geminieric1662
5 жыл бұрын
Just because a FEMALE asserts something doesn't automatically make it TRUE... The grandmother 'just wants....to make SURE' .... HOLD UP ✋ slow your roll...THAT isn't her PLACE! Aka LaVar Ball she's gotta stay un her LANE.... She didn't have any babies by this man, SHE wasn't married to him nor partnered with HER to parent ANY child. Dude and 'his' wife rolled a particular way, that didn't involve HER Momma...he didn't sleep with his child's grandma, he impregnated his child's mother, period. Just because the old lady is female doesn't mean that SHE gets to decide EVERY morsel of her daughter's child's life just because she has a vagina.... I know this 'confuses' a lot of females that feel the world should evolve around whatever ANY woman says So she 'says' he is out too much, no proof just HER saying so She wants him to LOSE custody of HIS child, where has the child been for the past YEAR = with her FATHER If it were so dire, so bad...why hasn't she petitioned for custody If he was so dis-interested in being a parent he could have LEFT the child with her or HIS MOM once the wife died...BUT he didn't do that, that should make it CLEAR to anybody w/o their head up their butts of man-hate that maybe just maybe he is being a PARENT to HIS child.... Perhaps, his MIL never liked him, doesn't like, sees things 'different' from an older generation vs newer generation POV...it happens all the time, ppl 👀 and feel things differently if it's 'their' child vs whomever their child is married to, ppl have to realize that when evaluating what one person is saying about another....but the bottomline is HE and ONLY he is a PARENT, her daughter died ( no offense but it's true the kid she brought into the world is dead and her whims of how high & when to jump are NOT commands he needs to follow) How, women think they OWN the children they had with a man AND the children their daughter had with her man is mind boggling PLUS she wabts him to do what many women only want from a man, which is 💰 money 🏧 Note: She is in 🏧 court NOT family court for custody NO she's in 💰 court for money! Grandparents need to be careful because from a legal POV they have ZERO standing....morally & socially, Yes but legally = Nothing
@sg7392
9 ай бұрын
Grandmother wants a replacement daughter
Lady you at the wrong court . If you worry about the child. Call CPS
@gaylenewood7707
5 жыл бұрын
No cps.will be a bad idea cps.wont give the child to anyone except to someone who ain't family..
How did this case even get a hearing if she wasn't the parent? She had no case and I wouldn't have shown up! If grandma isn't careful he could just move out of state and tell her to kick rocks!
@JudgeVondaB
3 жыл бұрын
Great question. Many people file cases and lack standing, i.e. they don’t have legal grounds to seek relief from court. In some cases, however, non-parents have standing.
You can hear the pain in his voice and see it in his face.
It’s amazing how good the actors are on this channel. So realistic. 🙌🏻
If he isn't abusing his child, he has full legal rights. Grandma has no legal ground. I believe grandma want that income to continue her lifestyle.
The dad didn't deny the claim of him going to the bar either 🤣
Judge didn’t want to say he could possible be sleeping with the babysitter😂 I am dead
Grand parents have no rights. The biological father has all the rights.
Can you imagine having to deal with in laws like this?
@abetterlifestyle_24
2 жыл бұрын
Nope. Dealing with in-laws in general is super annoying. My advice is to go for the orphans. Lol just kidding. People should be with whoever they want.
@sg7392
9 ай бұрын
They don't call them monsters in law for nothing.
At least the dad has stepped up for his child. Sounds like he needs to move another state away from this woman
@yourdadsotherfamily3530
2 жыл бұрын
Nah she’d use her retirement to make court cases in her state and force his appearance or legal attorneys appearance to HUGELY inconvenience the Dad.
Granny just heartbroken sad smh
Sounds like she wants the payments for herself. I came across a woman who only cares about pocket, and not me. And I think she wants someone to take care of her financially.
She was asking for child support before even fighting for custody 😂 she wants the money not the child
I was fully expecting the grandmother would win everything. Amazing that she didn't, truly.
I fully expect to see this lady and the dad on Dr. Phil. She will make up stories and being pursuing "grandparents rights"
Dad watch out for grandma because she'll probably try to falsify incriminating evidence that you're an unfit parent.
Dad's Rock. 💯
Why would she think that she's entitled to child support? She's the grandmother, her daughter's dead and the father has custody of his daughter. I can see grandma trying to take the child by going to court trying to claim that the father's unfit. Meanwhile, the father can deny her access to the child. And grandparent's rights are a myth, depending what state you live in. Some states have liberal rights for grandparents, while in some states they're nonexistent.
"He's spending all night at bars while a nanny is at home" Shit, Give me that deal when I was younger, I was a latch key kid and got a pizza ordered every night. At don't get me started on yay, pizza. Having it every night then leftovers for every meal made me sick of pizza years afterwards. 6 years is obviously younger, but if we gonna say that is child abuse then what?
Wow, most grandmothers complain that dad isn't in the life of the child, this woman is complaining that he is.......and she doesn't like it. Judge Vonda, I would have asked her to prove the many times she calls there. And "soon to be ex-son-in-law"? What the heck does that even mean when the wife is dead???? Does she even think about his feelings that the mother of his child is gone and the little girl will never get her mother back? That woman is cruel.
@JudgeVondaB
4 жыл бұрын
No need. It was obvious she was not being truthful and harassing him.
Crazy old lady!
Gonna give the grandmother a grief pass since she lost her daughter recently.
@Mr_Demeanor
3 жыл бұрын
Her daughter passed a year ago, which means she filled for court in the middle of her "grief". She's just being insane and controlling 🤷🏾♂️
@thadude949
3 жыл бұрын
Nope. No excuse for being a shit person. We all face trials and tribulations in life, grief included.
Kind of sad but Mom’s wayyyyy off if there been no report of neglecting that child then she has no case, am thinking family court would tell her the same thing. It’s sad but grandparents don’t really have as many rights, as they think they do.