I went to school with her and her “best friend” no longer wants anything to do with her. She treated them horribly and yelled and called them names while they took care of her son. Her “best friend” actually raised her son and she’s actually a really good friend of mine and she told me what Haley did(not getting into details). Haley now lives in another state and doesn’t visit her son while chris(the father) has their son and takes care of him. The little one is now five years old and he is absolutely adorable and happy as can be❤️

@ILAKHALIDENM

2 жыл бұрын

Omg I’m so happy for the child. Honestly this girl is so horrible inside, she doesn’t deserve the kid

@janewoods6937

2 жыл бұрын

How can the kid be five if this was filmed less then a year ago? Was she 13 when she had this baby? Do some basic math before you BS people on KZread

@melodyrose2269

2 жыл бұрын

@@janewoods6937 okay how about you realize that she had her baby in high school and I graduated four years ago. She had him in my junior year. This may have been posted a year ago but that court hearing was years ago girl😂😂 do your research about it if you don’t believe me.

@jonpendragon2066

2 жыл бұрын

Bull crap none of that is true melody is just upset haley wouldnt date her

@melodyrose2269

2 жыл бұрын

@@jonpendragon2066 believe what you want🤷‍♀️ I’m telling the truth and no, I wouldn’t date her. I’m happily married to my husband and have an eight week old daughter. Y’all think I’m lying when I’m not😂😂 look up when this court case happened and then the math will add up lol Oliver is five years old now. By the way haley is 22 years old now. Do y’all really go off when something is posted on KZread? Jesus y’all need to think before you type🤣🤣

I like how confidently she said that she has "sole custody" like she knows what she is talking about.

@marissathomas9327

Жыл бұрын

Right 😂 she sounds ridiculous like the child she is 😂

@debongarrigues9177

Жыл бұрын

the deep-sigh she makes when JJ starts getting to the bottom of her lie. Priceless

@loveofmangos001

10 ай бұрын

I consider it a bad thing when a place like Burger King doesn't want her

As soon as I heard her say she decides when he sees their baby I knew JJ was about to eat her up. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@jenniferbangerter5128

2 жыл бұрын

For breakfast is a Mom who decides when the father should see his child

@TommieGun71

2 жыл бұрын

@@jenniferbangerter5128 ...WTF?

@Kokoism

2 жыл бұрын

@@jenniferbangerter5128 weirdo

@marilynwillett804

2 жыл бұрын

THE GIRL IS BEAUTIFUL, I hope she knows it.

@marilynwillett804

2 жыл бұрын

Every time JJ has a beautiful young blonde she acts extra mean. I guess J.J.'s husband must glance twice at young blondes or redheads.

She claims that he's controlling, but she won't let him see his own kid.

@gRinchY-op5vr

11 күн бұрын

Also notice she brings up scenarios to prove he's either controlling or has anger issues when JJ brings up exceptions to fathers having limited access to their kids, like she makes them up on the spot so she'll change her tune and agree with her. None of the stories she tells changes that they don't have an official custody order so she can't dictate whether or not he sees their son

telling your girlfriend that it is not ok to be a drunk and sleep with other guys is NOT "being controlling"!!!!

@samg873

2 жыл бұрын

Right?

@robertschaaf7192

2 жыл бұрын

of course it is. if you can't deal with a drunken promiscuous partner just move on.

@robertschaaf7192

2 жыл бұрын

@Crazy Cat Lady you're right on so many levels but speaking as a statistic my experience leads me to believe two incompatible people should move on and let the child grow up with mother or father and a step parent in a nurturing home environment.

@robertschaaf7192

2 жыл бұрын

@Shelly Sayers it's easy for me to tell others how they should be doing things lol

@Oncearanger88

2 жыл бұрын

@@robertschaaf7192 I neither one of them have a stable environment. She never works and he works at a minimum wage job and doesn’t really do his research on being a father

Judge Judy used to preside over family court cases - no surprise she'll tell it like it is.

@anacletwilliams8315

2 жыл бұрын

No surprise at all, Yago. JJ knows her business.

@mattstorey7256

Жыл бұрын

Interesting you mention that. Have you ever seen the Larry King interview of her? Great watch. See talks about her days on family court and says that she found it very frustrating and why she takes the time to educate litigants in her show in these types of cases. She says that at least 3/4 of the family court judges, lawyers and counselors are woefully ignorant or willfully biased when it comes to parental custody cases. That it irritated her when they started with the premise that mom is superior parent and dad is some type of flawed being. That in a society that claims equal rights and protections for all, a court system would actively seek to upend that premise and treat one parent at a disadvantage.

Kids having kids. Never a good idea

@carey8498

2 жыл бұрын

At least, they chose LIFE as opposed to abortion/murder

@frodo322

2 жыл бұрын

@@carey8498 oh no 🤦‍♂️

@de4700

2 жыл бұрын

@@carey8498 yes they choose poverty, ignorance, and suffering. Life is more than just drawing a breath.

@carey8498

2 жыл бұрын

@@de4700 If they are incapable of caring for the child, adoption is then the best option - surrender the child to a better home.

@DD-d6d3

2 жыл бұрын

@@carey8498 abortion is health care.

I appreciate the young man dressing appropriately for court.

@Lisa-jp4uj

Жыл бұрын

SMH oh please let's give him accalaids for putting in a suit.

@shroudsshadow9998

Жыл бұрын

The dressing appropriate for court is a waste of fucking time like people like me who work outside and get dirty and only have dirty work clothes. We don’t have nice things to wear to court just to show up for one fucking day to show our clean clothes for no reason the whole clothing thing about court is absolutely fucking benign to me

@AllHaiLKINGTIsHeRe3

Жыл бұрын

lol it's obviously the first suit he's ever tried to wear in his life. Also, combing your hair goes a long way guys, just saying.

@ToeKnife166

11 ай бұрын

Really you can’t afford one suit or a dress

@slavbrav69

11 ай бұрын

​@@shroudsshadow9998 raging over clothes in court , your a 🤡

I wish more dads would fight for their rights

@FJ-rh6io

2 жыл бұрын

I wish they didn't have to fight so hard.

@igotjokesss205

2 жыл бұрын

@@FJ-rh6io They don’t, courts usually favor the father.

@FJ-rh6io

2 жыл бұрын

@@igotjokesss205 literally the opposite is the case but ok

@igotjokesss205

2 жыл бұрын

@@FJ-rh6io but in over 90% of custody cases the only reason women get sole custody is because both parents agreed on it without a family court intervention. So the claim that men need to fight so hard is invalid.

@FJ-rh6io

2 жыл бұрын

@@igotjokesss205 uh.. Source?

Having only watched this first one, I can't believe how many guys don't understand that without an order you've got just as much a right to the children as the mother. I put my foot down day one and said nope not on weekends, not at your discretion, 50-50 until we have a hearing. I'm now the primary custodial parent. Fathers have equal rights. They're often just too dumb to know what that means.

@zariaeda007

2 жыл бұрын

That's only if you were married. If not the father doesn't have rights until paternity is established. The law does not assume you are the father if you were not married.

@chriscode6431

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Men need to know their rights.

@tellyboo2455

2 жыл бұрын

I’m a female & yes omg !! 🤞🏽🤞🏽

@groowanderer

2 жыл бұрын

@@zariaeda007 that's not at all the case in my experience. Could be different state to state perhaps. I was given the paperwork designating that I'm the father right there at the hospital on the day that my kids were born. At that point you can deny parental rights temporarily until a paternity test is done. But if you know it's your kid then you sign. Done deal for the rest of their lives. We were not married.

@orelas167

2 жыл бұрын

@@zariaeda007 Well stated, but paternity be established... at the initial hearing.

"who gave you sole custody of the child" ....."the town clerk" LOL

@purselmer5931

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that's one very powerful town clerk. LOL

@deadspacegrave2219

Жыл бұрын

I know right ? She’s in contempt of a custody order

@psoteriou3884

24 күн бұрын

May as well have been the guy working at the gas station 😅

@gRinchY-op5vr

11 күн бұрын

​@deadspacegrave2219 there is no custody order, which is JJ's point. No order means neither of them can dictate anything about who does what with the child and when, she just thinks because she's the mother she gets to decide everything which is BS

"There was nothing so you have nothing" 💀🤣🤣🤣 Judge Judy is hilarious!

"I have sole custody so I can decide wether or not he can see the baby". "Because I say so, there hasn't been a court order or anything", she forgot to add. How I hate this kind of people who consider themselves so entitled to do whatever they want and decide over other people following their own whims.

@deena7933

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯 and they are only hurting the CHILD

@fruitloopdigus1843

2 жыл бұрын

If you go check out judge Judy's titok there a lot of people who didn't understand the whole case and it was only a 15 sec clip. Please check it out bc oof there is a lot of them in those comments

@marilynwillett804

2 жыл бұрын

@@deena7933 its an infant, it doesn't know a thing.

@biff5856

2 жыл бұрын

Two irresponsible sponges.

@larasworld1111

2 жыл бұрын

Why have kids at such young age and waste life away after that. Circle of life keeps repeating.

“I have sole custody.” Yeah, because you took the baby with you! That’s not a custody order.

I love when JJ gets family court cases. She’s done it for so long that she is fair, honest and tells it as it is.

I can't stand it when women think that they automatically have "sole legal custody" of a child. No, you don't!! I'm glad when Judge Judy mops the floor with these vile women.

@R.M.3.14

2 жыл бұрын

Um, they do if they’re ‘unwed’. Legal rights of a second party have to be established through courts and a dna test.

@theloquaciouslady

Жыл бұрын

@@R.M.3.14 Not if the man signs the birth certificate.

@theloquaciouslady

Жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-xp9gr Wrong. If he signs the birth certificate, paternity is established.End of story.

@jdspreest

Жыл бұрын

@@R.M.3.14 who gave you this advice? Your church?

@jdspreest

Жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-xp9gr who gave you this advice? Your church as well? As the other below stated, if his name is on the birth certificate as the father, you don't need to be wed. Marriage doesn't mean anything in these cases. Marriage is just a legal status, or actually, more on the religious (irrational) side of things.

"He decided to be controlling" in other words, he put up boundaries and she didn't like that. Them we find out that she thinks that just because she's the mother, she can determine when the father sees their child. Why am I not surprised?

@gRinchY-op5vr

11 күн бұрын

I have no doubt whatsoever she wanted to still live like a teenager while he went to work to provide and would be annoyed when he came home to find she had just been out with friends and the baby all day getting nothing done and then wanted to go out in the evening when he was home to have their son, thats most likely what she means by 'controlling' - asking her to grow tf up.

@PrayingPanda

11 күн бұрын

@@gRinchY-op5vr sounds about right.

All children need a father.

When someone says I have no documents, pictures or paperwork you know its gonna get good.

I hope this fella gets to see his baby. Kids need their dads... My husband and daughter have such a wonderful bond...❤️

@tylersalter9133

Жыл бұрын

You have no idea how much it means to men to hear a woman say that.

@Kaboomboo

Жыл бұрын

He has sole custody now and has since remarried (or is at least with someone else) with a child of her own. They have a happy, blended family.

I had sole custody too, but there was still a visitation order. You cannot withhold visitation because he hasn't paid support or because you feel like it.

Perspective from someone who was in this situation: I had a neglectful and emotionally abusive mother, and was only able to get out due to my father being smart and collecting enough evidence to get custody. For some reason, the legal system is very biased toward moms, and she got visitation even after having it proven she left bruises on my older sister’s face. Right by the nose, and on a girl with a heart condition where stress alone could have been potentially fatal. There are a lot of wonderful, loving mothers in the world (I hope I myself am currently one). But there are also those who treat their child like their property and would alienate their children from a good father for the dumbest of reasons. Just as all mothers have the right to be assumed competent parents until proven otherwise, so do fathers. And I say this having carried a child myself. It’s not about who gave birth, it’s about what is best for the child.

@queenbee3647

2 жыл бұрын

Kids need a dad and hopefully theirs is a good one. My husband and I divorced and he went from being a so-so dad to completely not interested. I raised her and loved her. She is hurt from his neglect. I curse him silently every day.

@SparDanger

Жыл бұрын

As a single mom who loves her son, women like this "mother" truly baffle me!

@Roy-ji7bg

Жыл бұрын

You made one of the greatest comments towards the end I've heard my mother say it as she abused me and my brothers I heard my sister say it as she destroyed her second son I watch my niece say it and she was screwing her kids up they're my kids I can do whatever I want in essence my property

Judge Judy just nails them right when wanted. Awesome Judge.

I’ll never understand why ppl go on JJ knowing they haven’t held a job. It makes it hard to sympathize with them in her eyes. And u know she’s going in if she hears someone doesn’t work 💀💀😂😂

@purselmer5931

2 жыл бұрын

@@snowwhite7704 I think they got a free trip to LA. The show is filmed on the west coast.

@purselmer5931

2 жыл бұрын

"It makes it hard to sympathize with them" in my eyes too.

@Ilikefrogs..

Жыл бұрын

And who is going to be watching her baby while she's at work? It's not like America has subsidised daycare like every other country. She also doesn't have any family from the sound of things.

@purselmer5931

Жыл бұрын

@@Ilikefrogs.. Of course there's subsidized daycare in America. They're vouchers you receive if you qualify with your income. It's been around for literally decades. And available and used absolutely everywhere.

As usual straight to the point and wiped the floor with people. Love you JJ.

@SG-em9ht

Жыл бұрын

Smmfh very well said so True.😂

I have full custody so I can decide when he can see his child. No ma'am that's not quite how that works. smh

We need to stop normalizing having babies at such a young age it’s not even about the parents wanting to have them it’s about the kid nobody thinks about the kid. The kid always ends up neglected because they want to live their youth

Judge Judy gives a compliment😊

The number of cases of this would probably be halved if people stopped having kids before making it out of their formative years

@camiba6773

2 жыл бұрын

100 💯 no job. place to stay that is stable and still want to party. young people I know it may sound cool but children are a large responsibility. they need stability and love unconditionally. they need you. if you can't give that to them take steps to ensure you don't have them

@ShanaLawson

2 жыл бұрын

And the overturning of roe vs wade is going to make all of this worse.

@MASTER.SON.

2 жыл бұрын

@@ShanaLawson oh maybe try being responsible with your sexuality and have safe sex? You know the sexual repression of the Victorian era was mostly about the epidemic spread of syphilis? Sex is great but too important and have great consequences to use it so casually like this generation

@ShanaLawson

2 жыл бұрын

@@MASTER.SON. I’m not speaking of myself, I have two kids and my tubes tied. I am speaking of others. The sexual education in America is beyond ridiculous and people are raped too frequently. There are many reasons people get pregnant, not just from irresponsibility.

@purselmer5931

2 жыл бұрын

@@MASTER.SON. How about anyone be responsible and not HAVE sex until they're married??? God forbid.

That poor child.... Hopefully the baby grows up in a stable environment...

@slavbrav69

11 ай бұрын

Only if the mother stays away , vile creature

Never get tired of this. I must've watched this case, all four parts, like 10 times.

"Do you have a document showing that visitation is at your discretion? -No. So you have nothing? -No" Okey so she just does whatever she wants with their child and tells him that legally he can't do anything... What a mess.

She loves playing the victim to get her way. “He was controlling”. I like when Judge Mathis puts pressure on them to be specific because most of the time it’s lies

@isaacortiz4617

5 ай бұрын

Well she is a victim.

As someone who got pregnant and married at 18 I really was to young. I used to think I was old enough and I’m so glad I got my life together but I pray my children don’t follow in my footsteps. So blessed to have my babies though. Wouldn’t change it for anything. I hope they can work out their differences and remember it’s not about them anymore it’s about their child

@DD-d6d3

2 жыл бұрын

I had an abortion at 18 and it was the happiest day of my life.

@marilynwillett804

2 жыл бұрын

@@DD-d6d3 God said '' I knew you before you were knit together in your mothers womb.'' You have a child but he is in heaven.

@sanne27

2 жыл бұрын

@@marilynwillett804 Nobody cares, Marilyn. Let people have abortions and not become parents when they know they can't be parents. And stop forcing your religion on others.

@Lenasevilla-yb4ei

2 жыл бұрын

@@marilynwillett804 you sound overweight are you?

@carey8498

2 жыл бұрын

God Bless you and your family

Sis, because you have full custody or you thought you did, you cannot hold that innocent baby away from their daddy!! Then that child may grow up and become a repeat teen parent. Both parents are important until one is abusive or an addict of sorts

I can't imagine kicking your kids out, especially if a daughter is pregnant. I would never have done that to my daughters. My husband and I lost a 3-year-old son, and wish with all our hearts we still had him - children are not "throwaways."

@yui7364

Жыл бұрын

My two parents are kicking me out for not abandoning my 3yo dog ... I'm 20 still didn't graduate had to drop off college.. get paid 257$ a month and they do not care ..... Happy somebody disagrees with parents like this

@Ilovedogs327

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! My husband and I have two little girls and we often discuss how we wouldn’t want our girls to get pregnant young, however if it happens, we won’t ever kick them out. We are their parents and will always have a home for them

I had such an an order, it read " reasonable access for reasonable periods of time with reasonable notice." But such an agreement only works when the custodial parent is a reasonable mature adult. It saddens me to see people ignore how they hurt their children in their pursuit to hurt their ex.

People having children when they shouldn’t is a huge problem in this country. These young people have no idea of what responsibilities they should have as young adults and frankly they just don’t care in many instances

@Cjjjj902

2 ай бұрын

Blame religion. Many of these faiths encourage kids straight out of high school to get married and start breeding like rabbits. It's a mess.

That’s the oldest looking 18 year old I think I’ve ever seen , She looks about 30 😂😂

@LiLo-ob3iu

2 жыл бұрын

Right she looks as old as her mother

@marilynwillett804

2 жыл бұрын

As usual on youtube the beautiful caucasian girl get insults, if she was black there would be compliments.

@minkyfran8307

2 жыл бұрын

@@marilynwillett804 Oh please ! I can assure you , if she was black I’d say exactly the same , She looks years older than 18 , probably from having a child too young , I didn’t say she was ugly , I said she looked older than she is , which she does ,Get over your racist self and lose the fake victim mentality , you sound ridiculous

@LiLo-ob3iu

2 жыл бұрын

@@marilynwillett804 oh so you’re a racist too. Can’t say I’m surprised.

@Ana-xp8vh

2 жыл бұрын

@@marilynwillett804 not you making it about race🤣🤣

" I'm the mother so I have full custody." Sounds about right. Typical mindset.

Having sole custody does NOT mean the other parent has no visitation rights. And you don't even have sole custody. That is a legal designation. Unless a judge says you have sole custody, you don't have sole custody. But again, even if you did, the dad still has visitation RIGHTS.

As a former foster kid, i can tell what type of foster "parent" she is. Fostercare is a financial opportunity for her and nothing more. It really disgusts me but i survived it and thrive quite well today!

Why would you not give baby items back that is for your child?? Both are using the child to be petty at each other. This is why you leave the baby making to the adults.

@Kaboomboo

2 жыл бұрын

Hear hear.

@tiffanyching197

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes even adults are petty though

@Matthew-bu7fg

2 жыл бұрын

Given that he worked and she didn't, I'm going to take a wild guess that maybe he paid for the items? And maybe he harbours an ambition that he may be allowed joint custody of HIS child in which those items may come in handy? Just a thought.

@jaynehogue2459

2 жыл бұрын

you're kidding me right????? you don't think he has the right to the baby items that he spent money on for his own child. if he gains custody of the child or when the child comes visit he's going to need those things. she's just being a narcissistic B and the child will suffer because of it

@This_handle_is_tak3n

2 жыл бұрын

@@Matthew-bu7fg bingo!

I don't like the fact that this lady who is bored and divorce, is conspiring to take his child instead of spending time and making sure her OWN daughter doesn't make her a Grandma.

Lol she was laughing like she thought JJ was going to be her friend then she realizes JJ isn't sympathetic and her demeanor instantly changes. Also that young man is sooo young he doesn't even fill out his suit.

The entitlement of these witches who keep the father away from their own kids is demonic.

I love when Judge Judy gives teenagers especially those who make are parents

@marilynwillett804

2 жыл бұрын

what exactly are you attempting to say? or is this a guessing game.

@lolilikefrogs8509

2 жыл бұрын

Your comment gave me an Aneurysm 💀

@Lenasevilla-yb4ei

2 жыл бұрын

@@marilynwillett804 yeah you’re overweight and bitter

@isaact.5136

Ай бұрын

This hurt to read

JJ caught that lie quick!

I'd be calling CPS on this young girl for her own wellbeings as much as the infants. Seems to be/ have been incredibly prone to poor choice after poor choice. Hope she had an epiphany at some point.

"I have full custody so I can decide he doesn't get to see his child." "Was this a court order?" "No, but the baby was in my custody when he asked to see him and I don't want to share."

Little miss wants to play grownup but doesn't work so she can't pay a security deposit, can't pay rent or pay for utilities, purchase diapers, cloths for the baby or food for herself or the baby amiright? The father is the one working while the mother does...what? I'd love to know what happened between the girl and her father. Her friend's mother needs to get little missy up and out on that thingy commonly referred as call a gd job. How many WORKING single mother's are in the US?

@genxx2724

2 жыл бұрын

Patching things up with the baby’s father might start to look mighty good at that point.

She has a very hard life ahead of her 😥

I’m glad Oliver is with his Dad. I’m shocked though that Hayley doesn’t see him.

@annamarielewis7078

6 ай бұрын

Why? She never cared.

The father is the better parent clearly

If you can't take care of a baby, don't have one! A child is not a pet.

Thanks for posting! I’ve watched them all! Waiting for more.!

Judge Judy fails to mention that up until the last few decades, men and women were having children at young ages...that is the conservative position on child bearing. Let's stop pretending this is the new generations fault.

@thesecondderivative8967

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think it's appropriate in any generation to be honest. Most times, it doesn't work out. I don't think that's what you're saying but that's just my take on it.

@paullambert8701

2 жыл бұрын

Young is fine, but until the last few decades those young people were married and there was at least one steady source of income in the home. It is a package deal.

@alwayswantingtochange

2 жыл бұрын

@@paullambert8701 one income doesn't work anymore in our society. That's why women feel resentful because they have to go work outside, come back home to the second shift and then suffer raising the child and balancing everything whilst some men are still stuck on the former way of life and think that just working away from home is enough for them.

@peacheskong2245

2 жыл бұрын

Life isn't the same. Young girls were being hometrained to become wives and mothers. They were used to working hard both boys and girls then get married. I think in that setting marrying young wasn't much of an issue as it is today.

@genxx2724

2 жыл бұрын

@@peacheskong2245 Boys were taught to be men and handle household and car repairs. Now everyone is supposedly “equal.” Equally incapable of performing any useful, necessary task.

These people must not know JJ started in the child services. Once she said she chooses when he sees the baby JJ was ready

It's messed up because this Old lady is bored and in the middle of a divorce so she wants to play Grandma with a "non family members" but doesn't realize what she is doing.

That mother really WAS young looking enough to have been mistaken for a teenager! Friend's mother: "No, I'm the mother." Judge Judy: "... that would be a compliment" Me: "No, JJ. That is proof that babies having babies is a GENERATIONAL PROBLEM! Like generational poverty, and generational disrespect for education, that is generational stuck-in-my-teen-years-because-I-spawned-too-young." Yes, I realize that the 17 year old isn't the mother in court, but the mother in court lives with her, her mother had her very young, and I somehow doubt that this is being held up as an example of what NOT to do with her life. So in my mind, this counts.

@dcg590

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking. She prob had a kid at 17 too. Horrible

This has 4 parts you know it's going to be a shitshow

Kids having kids scare me, I have no idea how they cope ..

I met my wife at Burger King parking lot…she worked drive through. Been married for 16 years…she got a job right after high school…picked a good woman! I was put here to share my life with her!

No court order wow.. just to keep him from his child .

DAYUMMMM she just straight up LIEDDD in court at the end! And I would have taken her word for it. 🤦‍♀️ Holy shit.

She gaslit him into thinking he couldn't see his child....wow

@broeheemed32

Жыл бұрын

She didn't 'gaslit" anything. You don't even know what the word means. Try getting a elementary education instead of living your life on the Internet and social media.

@L3onking

Жыл бұрын

@@broeheemed32 whoa projecting much. I'm not going to argue with you since you obviously know better than me about everything m'lord

Omg I thought the plaintiff was going to say her child was 5 YEARS lol

Define controlling. Obviously since she isn't working, it's HIS money paying for everything.

The friend should have never got involved with this situation.

Dads need to fight for the rights more so little girls like her (and grown ass women) can understand that men are parents too.

Tragic. Put the child first. Don’t act out your petty bullshit squabbles ladies by using a child as a pawn. Grow up. Give up the baby to an intact family who will do the right thing, IF you cannot be mature enough to do the right thing yourself.

I notice an ongoing theme with female teenagers. For some reason, they think getting pregnant by some guy means that the guy really loves them. There’s no way anybody can possibly know how deep the love is at 17. It’s almost like they want to get pregnant on purpose. Every guy I’ve ever talked to that got a girl pregnant in their teens, they’ve all told me in honesty they cared very little about the girl they got pregnant. They usually say that they didn’t know any better. Maybe if girls knew that they would stop getting pregnant in their teens.

@kelsey9605

2 жыл бұрын

The teen mom shows backfired. Not everyone gets a mansion and a nice car. Here is the result..

@sanne27

2 жыл бұрын

Have you ever been a teenage girl? I'm just going to assume that statistically, based on your name and profile picture, you're a cis dude. The more likely scenario is that society lies about what love is, then also bars kids from sexual education, unhindered access to birth control and abortions, and then people are surprised when teenagers get pregnant and have babies. Teenage girls don't go around thinking that getting knocked up means their partner loves them. They're thinking their lives are now ruined because nobody taught them how to have safe sex, and now they can't get the abortion they need (or their parents force them to keep the baby, which is so much worse). Then they can't get themselves to put the baby into foster care when it's a broken system, where children are routinely abused, molested and neglected because fostering kids is a profitable business if you don't care about the children. The mother's prospects for an education? Severely diminished, especially if grandparents aren't able to provide childcare. Prospects of making an actual career versus working random jobs? Severely diminished. The other parent is extremely likely to go on and have a full education and make a career because they get to opt out of being a parent beyond a monetary contribution if they so choose. Teenage girls don't get pregnant on purpose unless they have been influenced by toxic people in their lives. The average teenager truly isn't looking forward to being pregnant and having a child for the rest of their lives before they're an adult themselves.

@el5001

2 жыл бұрын

Actually it's most likely the lack of sex Ed. Even if they did have sex Ed, in the US its literally the minium. And honestly, I can understand that as a teen you think you're deeply in love. Oh, and if takes two to get knocked up

@JSmedic1

2 жыл бұрын

@NadrianATRS These girls have no good father example, many times. It's hard to not believe that that's all you are good for, when your own father makes no effort a Daddy.

@myralyra5978

2 жыл бұрын

Takes two to tango my guy

When the daughter looks older than the mother

@myralyra5978

2 жыл бұрын

Having a baby ages you

Judge Judy was stretching a lot when she said the mother looks 17

Idk how you can throw out a 7 month pregnant mother much less your own daughter.

@xtheeliminator7942

2 жыл бұрын

On Christmas

@JetstreamTheSexSam

7 ай бұрын

Why should I take responsibility for their fuck up?

I don't know WHY they try Judy in these Custody cases. She's been a FAMILY COURT JUDGE FOR DECADES!

1:01 Burger King? This girl has a real future with that kind of drive and ambition.

Wow besides being a judge she gives lessons?

What is controlling mean? Is controlling mean cooking, cleaning, working , taking care of your baby. No hanging out with your friends and coming & going as you please…. Having a baby is adulting …

Shameful teen parents

miss bassett-hound. LOL

The sole custody comment almost took me out....the girl does not have even a partial order

When the mothers starts out taking slick jabs at the fathers….MOM IS GOING TO LOSE

Children should not have children.

@KaneshaDi

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

lol .... literally the story with my ex and I . My ex tried to use my mental health against me and said I needed to be supervised and couldn't have alone time with our son without a court order . Lol same scenario exactly my ex lawyer said that he has full custody when In fact didn't and there was no court order So now ... he got told by the judge and we have 50/50 Lol I love when people try to live above the law

It’s sad how many people skim off their grandparents.

cung nhau dao quanh mot vai video judy de biet kenh dao nay the nao, thi truong dao nay ra sao, sao con phai suy nghi ve em

Lying of the bat with "sole custody" statements.

0:13 a rare moment when JJ lets her guard down and you see her nice side come out. Especially when she smiles at the plaintiff’s witness after complimenting her.

Love begins at 'Burger King'.

Sadly, she does have full custody of the baby. It’s automatically given to the mother at birth if the parents aren’t married. Fathers need to establish parentage, then get court orders for custody and visitation.

“Ok so Christmas time your father said ‘OUT’” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Hey everyone stay blessed 🙌 😇

Kids shouldn't be having kids. If there's no court order saying she has full custody, she doesn't have full custody.

Got that child moving around with this reckless woman from place to place every month

3:45 - that's her and her mother talking. "I have sole custody" because she decided she did. No court, no judgement, no hearing - SHE just decided it. It's bewildering how often women abuse this and men think 'that's just the way it is.'. It's garbage behavior and people need to fight it. Fathers have just as many rights, but typically have to fight a little harder to exercise them. For this girl, worse, she's already on record as being a liar.

Kids playing grown up, not very good at all. Holding a child from a parent, in this case, is just to "get back" at them. Sad. Grow up!

All the lights are on but nobody's home on this woman she sounds crazy

I dont think any of them knows what they're doing. They need good guidance.

All these people having kids and not working and living off everyone else. This is society today.