Hello Sam and greetings from San Diego, CA - +1 subscriber - interesting interview, but spot on. I look forward to more videos on the future!

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Welcome to the channel Ted. You have a great day!

Heard similar advice from several others. Your delivery is calm. Even tone. I was in Dumaguete last month for one day. May look you up when I return.

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

I’m around Geechee…thanks for joining us again.

Hi Sam, good show. You made some great points.

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thank you Darren…you have a great day.

Good video Sam Lamb

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thank you Philippines dream realty. You have a great day…and be safe out there…

all great points, like you said trust for sure is up their. also she has to be frugal, financially savvy, don't want someone to spend money left and right and act like money grows on trees. good stuff. Peace!

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

You are describing RAZEL. Hehe 😉

Sam finding razel I think was a great achievement, she's very beautifull, funny and totally knows what life is about . So happy for you both

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thank you JennyMark …we really appreciate your comments…you have a great day…

You have a good lady with you, great video, thanks

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

We really appreciate your comment Kevin. Thank you for your support.

Happy Thanksgiving Sam & Razel, I hope its yet another one of many to come holiday season for you. YTube didn't ask me to "verify myself" this time, YAY! I just came back from a cruise, and I met a Filipina casino pit boss. I'll keep it short, I was quite attracted to her until she said: "I deserve everything because I endured and overcame everything I didn't deserve." Sounds "American" doesn't it? She's been working on a cruise ship for 10+ years, and I guess she's been "Westernized." What a shame, have to go to the Phil. I guess.

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Yeah, that westernization is poison for a man. Looking for a woman from the 50s and 60s era. I once told a friend how great Filipinas are. So he dated one from his home town and he was so upset with me. He told me his girlfriend whom he broke up with in 3 months was nothing like how I described my Filipina gf. Then I told him my gf was from the province of the Philippines and it’s a big big difference.

Hey Sam, When I come there would you be able to show me around a few places? ANother great video.

@SAMLAMB

7 ай бұрын

Sure, just contact me. I’ll leave my email in the description later.

In all honesty, Sam, we thought your sole criteria for dating all the other Filipinas were that they were female and breathing (until you met Razel, of course). You have matured nicely, my friend! Your six criteria are well-stated. I particularly like #6. I think we get better at following that one with age. When we were young (and stupid), we tended to over think things. Our gut may have told us one thing, but our brain (and other parts of our anatomy) was telling us something else. So, we told our gut to "mind its own business" and proceeded to make a mistake of anywhere from minor to mind-blowing proportions. Now, age and experience tells us that maybe that first impression or that gnawing feeling in our gut is probably the actual answer. So, I agree totally on that one. The other thing I will just add on your "trust" point is that using the "eye test" can help. What does the person (female if us guys, male if it is a women looking for a guy) look like - how do they dress, how do they "carry" themselves, both in public and in private? Are they "cocky (arrogant)", openly flaunt themselves, have eyes that "wander" when you two are supposedly talking, etc.? I tend to stay away from those types, just based on my centuries of life experience. Anyway, that's my two-cents. You both (Sam and Razel) are wise beyond your years!

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for the great comment again William. I’m always learning from your thoughts.you have a great day.

@user-nn4hl9ob7l

8 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB I will be up Sunday morning watching my Vols........get buried!

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

You know me. I’m worried…every time you guys play us. For every team from now on it’s their National championship…Im not so confident to think we are good enough to have a average game and any team in the country plays their best game that we will come out on top. Never know how the ball bounces.

@user-nn4hl9ob7l

8 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Three weeks ago, I would have agreed with you. But Georgia has been firing on all cylinders the last two weeks. Tennessee, on the other hand, got crushed by Mezzo last week. UT has been up and down this year. Up against mediocre teams and down against good teams (Florida, Alabama, Missouri). As long as the Dogs play like the last two weeks, I don't see a problem for them. Tennessee has the athletes to compete with them, but not the "whole package". We'll see. It is going to be an interesting end of the season to see who gets in to the playoff.

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@user-nn4hl9ob7l I agree

This was really good commentary! "If you don't trust her then certainly don't trust her alone" that's so correct and so important!

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thanks Mr Black. Welcome to the channel. Have a great day!

interesting video 👍 only one tech tip: there is some error in your audio setup - video is missing right audio channel

@SAMLAMB

7 ай бұрын

Thank you Dominic. We really appreciate you. We shoot the video on GoPro or iPhone. Not professional and not really sure what to do in that. I’ll ask someone. Once again thank you for joining us. You have a great day!

@zuchnicky

7 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB you are welcome. It is easy to fix. Just copy left audio channel to right channel. You will get mono sound, but from both sides. You can use some video editing software or audio (for ex. GoldWave is free in online version). Hard to say why it happen. Maybe wrong settings or mic jack not completely plugged in.

@SAMLAMB

7 ай бұрын

@@zuchnicky thank you again…can’t promise it will be fixed soon..but we will work on it…

@SAMLAMB

7 ай бұрын

Sorry for the mispell: Dominik

@zuchnicky

7 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB no need for me - in linux it is just matter of a few mouse clicks (PulseEffect tool) so I can fix it for myself. Actually it is uncomfortable in headphones, but normally most people will not notice. And don't worry I found such issue at least twice a week also on another channels ;-) Also don't worry about name spelling - it is only a letter, not me, no big deal 🙃

Lots of good points ,things to think about. Many expat You Tubers there will say the same thing "TAKE YOUR TIME"' but once you get there and you meet sweet pretty Filipina it all goes out the window 😁

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

I agree Tim. That’s where we get ourselves in trouble. I can make my videos with first hand knowledge 🤣

Hello Sam like the T shirt great video keep them coming hope to see you 1 day in the philippines hi razel great content i hope to find some one like yourself when i get to dumaguete god bless the both of you walt chamblee georgia usa😃

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Go Dawgs! Walter, We’ve got a big game coming up. Heck all the games are big now. Took me 40yrs to enjoy the last championship. Now this Run. Not going to miss a single game hehe.

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

By the way I grew up near Atlanta Georgia….always liked the Chamblee area.

Hellow Uncle Sam,i agree to you ,you are really an uncle its shows your are very experienced person

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Hello, Sys. Thank you for the compliment…lots of ups and downs in life. Hope my experience will help others to minimize their stress when coming to the Philippines.

I came across your video and the girl im talking to is in dumaguete.. You got me concerned a litle its only been 3 days but it seems prety consistant so far.. I saw part of her family and even speak with her mom to pursueing dating her and bringing her back with me since its no problem for me to support them fincialy for her if her daughter is happy and im happy...

@claude-patricktv5701

8 ай бұрын

What do you think im new to phillipina dating but i been around a bit?

@claude-patricktv5701

8 ай бұрын

What is it about dumaguete it is a slumy place?

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Claude, thanks for joining the channel. If all the criteria are met I wouldn’t worry about moving forward with this relationship. No relationship is perfect. The key is to minimize the stress. If you can do that you’ll have a happy relationship

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@claude-patricktv5701 No, it’s actually a great place. That’s why lots of expats are here. It’s a great place to have a gf. Most of the girls here are from the provinces. Or girls that expats have met in other areas and brought them here. It’s much quieter than your major cities.

@claude-patricktv5701

8 ай бұрын

Wow thats perfect thk alot for the info that helped@@SAMLAMB

Thanks, my brother. I wish I knew this before. I went online being caught up on a couple situations that went too far. Got me a little trouble. Little too much money spent on talking to these girls stupid me😮

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thanks Tim. For signing in. Hopefully in the future you won’t go through too many more problems. All my videos are about my ups and lots of downs. I make them so you guys don’t have to. Once again. Thanks for joining us.

Your video is spot on, honest, realistic, valid opinion and experience, there is a scammer ever 10 yards in every direction in the Phils, they have nothing better to do.

@SAMLAMB

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for joining us Pal. You have a great day!

Hey, Sam! You make great dating points, as does Razel. The 2 of you are a great match. Personally, i have never tried a dating site, i always preferred my relationships to form organically. I figure if things work out, great, if not, oh well... Be well and have a great Sunday fun day...

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Actually organic is the best place to start Hans. That’s if you’re in the Philippines. But if you are outside of the Philippines it’s a great place to get your feet wet and start talking to Filipinas and understanding the culture.

@hanskarsseboom3265

8 ай бұрын

@SAMLAMB I always try to do things naturally and see how things grow. I am only open to dating Filipinas, American woman just don't do anything for me anymore, especially after daring filipino woman, the differences are so striking! I wish you a beautiful day. Your vlog is awesome!!

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@hanskarsseboom3265 I agree with you, haven’t dated a non Filipina in 15yrs myself.

@hanskarsseboom3265

8 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB You are a wise man, Sam...

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@@hanskarsseboom3265 no so wise. Just sharing all the mistakes I’ve learned over the years. Hopefully others won’t have to go through the same thing.

Feeling comfortable with your Filipina is important. I am 6'4" my Filipina wife is 5'6". I remember going to dinner at a Jolie Bee and my wife's aunt telling us we really look good together. I have had Philippine taxi drivers ask me where did you find your wife she is so tall.

@SAMLAMB

6 ай бұрын

5’6” is taller than normal for a girl. I think that’s the average height for a man in PI. Thank you for joining us

Sorry, haven't listened yet to what you have to say about your sub title "Don't date a Pilipina from Dumaguete". Mr. Sam where are you from (originally), from China, Vietnam, etc. etc. etc.? Still I call Dumaguete my hometown although I've been a California resident for twenty some years now. I love Dumaguete and always love the city of gentle people.

@SAMLAMB

6 ай бұрын

Born in Taiwan, Marijo… we love Dumaguete…been here for almost 6yrs now…thank you for joining us…you have a great day.

I love how her puts as main criteria "age", then tells she's not going to accept an old dude and... finally she says that too old means "65". LOL. After all that talk I had guessed she only dated 35 and below :D

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

You are correct!!!…Until I came along haha…😅😅😅

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for joining us Sahrokh

Nice video

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thank you Frode. It’s always great to hear from you.

I stated this many times, she's way smarter than her age. An old soul comes to mind. Communication would have to be high up there on the list.

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment John. Really appreciate it. You have a great day!

very wise

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thank you Wallace… thanks for joining us.

Sage advice!

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thanks Matt. Thanks for joining us

Nice job my friend

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Thank you Pete. How’s Iloilo

@papabear007

8 ай бұрын

It good we are going to her Provence tomorrow for two nights . There’s a ferry that goes to Dumaggette but it’s still about 4 hr drive once we get there in February to Dumagette

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@@papabear007 I see…hope you’ll make it…

@papabear007

8 ай бұрын

Definitely see you guys in February excited to hang out with you guys and tour us around there she wants to get job in the area when she passes state or country not sure what’s it’s called!when we get closer to February hopefully your place has openings even for a month to explore. Where did you get your rain suit. I find jackets but pants are kind of short too tall lol

@papabear007

8 ай бұрын

Definitely see you guys in February excited to hang out with you guys and tour us around there she wants to get job in the area when she passes state or country not sure what’s it’s called!when we get closer to February hopefully your place has openings even for a month to explore. Where did you get your rain suit. I find jackets but pants are kind of short too tall lol

When a filipina says I'm looking for a guy to be family oriented, it means that she's hoping for the foreigner to take care of her family it's a trap guys run for your life 😅😅😅😅 I just rent everything including the filipina in the Philippines 😅😅😅😅

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Addict…thank you for joining us, have a great day.

@short-shorts1325

8 ай бұрын

Good advice 💯

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Hello short. Thanks for joining us.

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@@sysyjuan9899 hello Sys. Hope all is well 😀

@sysyjuan9899

8 ай бұрын

You are a looosseerr huhuhu

Harvard medical school instructor Martha stout PhD, says 1 in 25 Americans have no conscience..

@donaldandmijung

8 ай бұрын

WTH does Martha know. Harvard is one messed up school.

@commonsenseisntcommon1776

8 ай бұрын

@@donaldandmijung -most colleges are just leftist brainwashing facilities today!

@Nemo_IRL

8 ай бұрын

You could say that about any country. 🤷

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Hey, can I join in the conversation, Never been to Harvard. About 20 yrs ago, I almost bought a Harvard sweat shirt from a kiosk. Thinking people would think I’m smart or something…alright. That’s my input. Have a great day and welcome to the channel.

Many are penny wise yet Dollar foolish !!!

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

I was there John. I just wish someone had made a video about it back then lol.

Err... so where was the information about why I should not date a girl from Dumaguete, since that was your video title? They inbred there or something?

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Three of the girls I dated were from Dumaguete…those are some of the experiences I went through…two of them are currently married. One to a German guy and one to an American guy…it was over 10 yrs ago…they have a happy family and we are still good friends…

More to the point, why oh why is it that so many Americans decend on Dumaguete to live, above anywhere else in the Philippines or Asia in general. The Philippines is made up of 7,000+ Islands, yet there's so many Americans in Dumaguete & the area, that have never ever been anywhere else in the Philippines, only Dumaguete. On the otherhand most Europeans travel much much more around the Philippines. What's the mindset of Americans, that have moved to Dumaguete & never see anything else of the country?

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

I’m not so sure that’s the case, Keep. You might be correct and I don’t have any stats. I’ve been here for five yrs and I still frequent other major cities that Americans goes to. I think it’s about the same. What I’ve notice in Dumaguete, we have so many American Vloggers and. We tend to vlogg Americans and it gives the impression that there’s a lot of Americans. RAZEL and I mostly stay to ourselves. But the foreigners that we’ve met have travelled extensively throughout many of the major cities and resort areas. And have decided to call Dumaguete home. That’s just my opinion. And once again I don’t have any stats to back it up. Thank you for the comment Keep. We really enjoyed it.

@keepitreal1547

8 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Thanks for your reply comment Sam. Over many years lots of Americans have made a B-line for Dumaguete/Valencia, many of which initially settle there, then some move to nearby places but frequent Dumaguete as & when they feel they want. Talk to Americans in the U.S & on mentioning the Philippines, they usually know of Manila, Cebu & Dumaguete. This can only be because it's the names so frequently mentioned. Some Europeans can be heard calling Dumaguete, America. We have to ask ourselves why so. On my extensive travels, I bump into many other nationalities more than Americans. It's just how it is I guess. I was wondering if it's because the majority of Americans don't travel outside of the U.S?

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@keepitreal1547 really don’t understand it myself…i visited Dumaguete 10 yrs ago…many times with ex gf…never really liked the place…then I met Razel 5 yrs ago and she wanted to move here…so here I am lol..I still think, the influence of many you tubers vlogging every day has a lot to do with it…just my thoughts…

@keepitreal1547

8 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB I think you're absolutely right about the influence of American vloggers of Dumaguete on other Americans. Then we must ask ourselves why even they initially moved there, then promote it like they have. That said some have fallen out with the place & other vloggers. Dramaguete is a word spoken often by many, especially Filipinos who have witnessed dramas in the place. Having travelled extensively, it'll always seem odd, yet interesting to me, that some many of one nationality (Americans) have fled there, as apposed to the many thousands of other great places in the Philippines. It's good to be able to openly discuss such with you, thanks 👍

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@@keepitreal1547 I agree. We live here cuz it’s the next biggest city to RAZELs parents. About 3 hours away. I’ve lived in Cebu, Davao, Manila and Clark. We’ve talked about Siquijor. We really like it there. many great weekends there.

How old are you Sam......if I may ask?

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

I’ll tell you I’m semi retired…😉

@sysyjuan9899

8 ай бұрын

I am proud of my age because i accomplish so much

@sysyjuan9899

8 ай бұрын

@@daroq4883 why how old is she

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@@daroq4883 thank you Daro…I really appreciate that…I’ll take it as a compliment…

Cannot date all of them? Ans - just watch me! ..or hold my beer. LOL. Given enough time and/ or money, yes you can do them all. Some will go do the same rides over and over.

@SAMLAMB

6 ай бұрын

That was 11 yrs ago…lol

so,,, your title ?? why not date a philipina from Dumaguete ??

@SAMLAMB

7 ай бұрын

I love it Gary, thank you…I will use it in the future…toughest thing for me is naming a title…I’ll take a day to edit and a week to name the video…thanks for joining us…

@SAMLAMB

7 ай бұрын

Hope you’ll like the video…😅

BS This guy does not have a clue. Happiness and trust. Nothing else matters. Any girl he gets will take him for a ride.

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment Kenneth. Have a great day!

I'm 64 so I sense impending Doom. After listening to your wife. DAM I'M OLD I GUESS.

@IrAbynormal

8 ай бұрын

You wont know until you go, I'm 60 and felt the same way but I'm gonna check it out for a month at least.

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

Age is just a number, right. If I had heard Razels comment about 65 I might’ve stayed in the USA.. but I didn’t and look it here, she’s my girl now 😉

@sysyjuan9899

8 ай бұрын

I am 62 so i am already old ,hey i feel good and young hahaha

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@IrAbynormal come IR. Look us up…

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

@@sysyjuan9899 yes you are Sys…

She is starving, feed her some rice, but do not trust 😂

@SAMLAMB

8 ай бұрын

lol..thanks for joining us TA