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@ivantarnyagin

3 жыл бұрын

What's up with the emojis?

@chiki7111

3 жыл бұрын

love the video BUT SOOOOO MANY MANYYYYYYYY ADS!!

@babymeow13

2 жыл бұрын

I'm loving all these types of videos, so glad I found you!!

@mstrikesback168

2 жыл бұрын

glad to see youve grown out your hair since this video came out.

In a world where everything is overexposed, the coolest thing you can do is maintain your mystery.

@humblelocket2731

3 жыл бұрын

Yep!

@diamondcentury21

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with this so much

@sofiasalsabila9264

3 жыл бұрын

YESSS

@tainajanssen1431

3 жыл бұрын

i love this commenttt!

@jstarASMR3103

3 жыл бұрын

SO TRUE

I hate when parents record all the things that their little kids do, and post that on social media.

@chimjinxii2130

3 жыл бұрын

Fr

@ayjfr88

3 жыл бұрын

*Cough cough family channels*

@KayPeeVee

3 жыл бұрын

i also hate when they force their kids into extra curriculums just to show it off to others.

@megatha19

3 жыл бұрын

Should be noted that the legal protections for sharing information/data that includes minors is close to none. See the last 5 min of this vid if you don't care to watch the whole thing: kzread.info/dash/bejne/d5t9wa16m7bfc9o.html

@chickeedickkee1288

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, there is a difference of people catching memories and these attention hungry loons not caring if their kids have privacy/dignity.

Honestly, I'm tired of the Narcissism and the Gaslighting and Gatekeeping online. Tired of everything turning into Religious debates, Political arguments, and Race debates. Tired of the drama and the sensitivity. That's all social media is to me now.

@chan92

3 жыл бұрын

Finally someone said it. I am so tired of basically any post that don't even need to envolve race/political/psychology thing and people still making discussion. Basically you/a post can't say anything and you can already see people fighting in comment section. It's just too frustrating. Too much sensitivity out of anything (I also see this in KZread a lot)...

@rshraddha

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Thank you. It is so sick and tiring when people start to involve problems that aren't even there to start with.

@thepink3798

3 жыл бұрын

Yeaah. I hate when people bring political issues on some stupid jokes. Like wth

@thevintagekitty

3 жыл бұрын

A-Men! It's just not fun anymore.

@floweyfangirl69420

3 жыл бұрын

thankfully im too humble to be a narcissist

“Aesthetics” are also toxic, the need to feel like you fit into a box is just not realistic

@Aida-tu9pc

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! We are people not a set of clothes, style and vibe. For example; If I'd make my 'aesthetic' happy cottage core girl i'd be completely cutting off a large part of my emotions (anger, sadness, eg)

@maranablake

3 жыл бұрын

@@Aida-tu9pc exactly! And once you change your vibes, people start unfollowing lol. Sucks for them

@itwasnotyourworld

3 жыл бұрын

can we all please stop saying everything "toxic"? it's all about obsession. i actually fall in love with aesthetics that i love ( cozy, cottagecore, soft, minimalist ) because those are my styles and im not put myself into a box because i have a BALANCE between what i love and what can i get. balance is the key of everything.

@maranablake

3 жыл бұрын

@@itwasnotyourworld yes but some people fall in love with one, then feel like they can’t express other emotions because change will drive away their followers, which is totally stupid. Then it becomes toxic. You should do what you want because you want to

@Aida-tu9pc

3 жыл бұрын

@@itwasnotyourworld I totally agree with you but I think what at least I was trying to say is that sometimes once you've put yourself into a box and surrounded by people who know you for that it can be very hard to express different emotions because you feel you aren't being ''what you promised'' in a sense. This isn't always though. Like you said, balance is very important!

"Being REAL is greater than being PERFECT" - A wise person

@peachcobbler831

3 жыл бұрын

Social Media has a habit of idolizing toxic and fake people yet, people who keep it real are put to shame and villified.

@swepsdakittie7792

3 жыл бұрын

@@peachcobbler831 true as fuck. People will try to take down someone's career faster than they can breathe.

@faym.8581

3 жыл бұрын

Trueee 👏 Angeline andito ka rin? HAHHAHA

@bubeudeh

3 жыл бұрын

!!!!

@pt7930

3 жыл бұрын

That Wise person was Carlos Medel, the realest of us all. (If you get this reference you’re a literal legend)

It’s really hard to disconnect from social media when people around you only connect with you on it.

@Shudders1999

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, hun, agreed as it's the same with me

@ayeshamf2565

3 жыл бұрын

I shifted to emails and whatsapp and deleted everything else. I've never felt more sane, content, mentally healthy and genuinely happy than this before, also I realized people who connect with you on "not social platforms" are much more genuine and true, much more worth our time. ✨🙌🏻

@TheVirtualJenesis

3 жыл бұрын

definitely relatable especially during this pandemic it's hard not to use socials to connect with ur friends etc.

@endiya.

3 жыл бұрын

@Joshua Teague Amen !

@adisaster8734

3 жыл бұрын

its also hard cuz so much society has moved TO social media. news for example is fastest on social media like twitter when its almost on real time.

Imagine you being the only friend in your group that hates social media and all of your friends are obsessed with being influencers. And every time you hang out with them, they only ask you to take pictures of them. I hate it

@xoliloquy

3 жыл бұрын

bruhhhhh fr I don't wanna hang out anymore cuz they turn it into photoshoots

@Itsallgoodinthebooodok

3 жыл бұрын

You’ll find your people, they are out there x

@stacytoria8797

3 жыл бұрын

this and they always called me weird if i don't participate w them anymore ,I just don't like be on social media that's why avoiding it.

@icecream1397

3 жыл бұрын

I have "friends" like this and them prioritizing their social media friends more than me is confusing and sad

@liversin

3 жыл бұрын

i’m a victim of having a friend like that and i absolutely hate it

Personally I get really nostalgic from when we were all younger without social media and/or not being heavily effected by it yet. Life was so much more simple and wholesome. I would go to bed looking forward to the next day unlike how now now I stay up as long as possible because night time is the easiest way to escape from my reality on my phone.

@alisiajoy1016

3 жыл бұрын

Btw I literally love you I feel more motivated than ever to make a change and I’m sending this video to my groupchat😭💖💖💖💖

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

Awwww I love you. I feel the exact same way. Like boredom in life before social media was so fascinating. The way we occupy our time and thoughts before was so innovative but now with social media ... gosh it’s the biggest distraction. There’s no more quality time etc. life’s becoming superficial. Ahhh I’m so glad you commented this, I feel the exact same way as you 🤍

@avad1631

3 жыл бұрын

Personally I don’t know life without social media. I’ve been on KZread since i was like 5 and I haven’t gotten off since then lol

@goodfeiiah5142

3 жыл бұрын

For real!

@marcelusdarcy

3 жыл бұрын

I was around 9-12 when social media really got going so I miss being under 10 because I remember not having phones or internet (apart from games or MSN on the family computer) and then social media really fucked up my teenage years. Having been bullied, it made my self esteem so much worse than it would have been, at such a formative time. I'm 22 now and only just recovering lmao. I am really glad I'm not into TikTok because I would honestly just be suicidal more than I was back then

KZread is my sole "social media". I actually can learn useful skills and info here. You do still have to be selective, though.

@heyaha92

3 жыл бұрын

Same, I use KZread the most

@stevethomas74

3 жыл бұрын

Ditto, absolutely!

@oliverpaul3613

3 жыл бұрын

Agree!!!

@neo_aliaga

3 жыл бұрын

I also use KZread the most 😁

@kurtordonio

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. it helps me too with video research infos

it’s gotten to a point where friendship groups care more about showing off about how much fun they r having on social media than actually having fun and making real friendships

@johndavidson2734

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. Too many people want to look happy instead of actually being happy. The likes they get replace that for them, and then they learn to be dependent on those.

@dyamondwomack549

2 жыл бұрын

Yess this. I hung out with a friend group that looked so hype on social media. And they would plan trips all the time. But all they did was take pictures. When we went to the O.C Fair all they did was eat food and take pics of it. The only ride we went on was the ferris wheel and the zipper which they recorded the whole thing of

@codyelmore3809

2 жыл бұрын

@@johndavidson2734 I guess I can call that fake happiness . They may look happy but In reality that tells a different story!

@dahloya

2 жыл бұрын

@aroace gal whats wrong with there name?-

I've been social media free for a month . Permanently deleted everything and I've never felt better. So empowering

@sohailalexander4681

3 жыл бұрын

No you’re not. You’re on KZread, it’s the same thing believe me.

@kamarisinclair6941

3 жыл бұрын

@@sohailalexander4681 yup

@fitt_inglysammie1654

3 жыл бұрын

Really? I don't really spend that much time on KZread 🤷‍♂️

@dariya1873

3 жыл бұрын

I only use KZread nowadays since in quarantine the only way for me to get additional info is from here

@-criedjupiter-8464

3 жыл бұрын

@@dariya1873 yep and Netflix sucks lol so youtube is like my tv

TikTok is the most toxic platform in my opinion. Those videos are quick and short, so it seems like you’re watching a tiny bits; when in reality, you spend hours scrolling through the videos with little-to-no quality or meaning. People are arguing left and right about shit they can’t even relate to and everyone have the need to feel offended. It’s a nightmare.

@steamres1880

3 жыл бұрын

The platform is full of depressed people who take out their frustrations and stress by scrolling continuously on snip bits of videos only to become offended because their too wrapped up in the culture of the platform they use as a “comfort app.” Then they wonder why they’re so miserable

@mississipi1103

3 жыл бұрын

Both of these comments above me nailed it 👆👆

@petrauhrakova

3 жыл бұрын

@@steamres1880 spot on. You’re absolutely right.

@snehathapa584

3 жыл бұрын

@@mississipi1103 true

@sallylemon5835

3 жыл бұрын

I once suffered from KZread addiction and still remember the works it took for me to overcome it. I could see that Tiktok would just gets a person worst, especially the shorter the videos are, the more clickbait they are and you ended up for hours. Glad to never install it.

Deleting instagram was the best thing I've ever done. Realised it was the root of my toxicity, felt angry and jealous looking at everyone. So decide to just delete and leave it behind. Doing much better now thankfully.

@TheVirtualJenesis

3 жыл бұрын

that's great, hope ur doing even better

@laserspud

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheVirtualJenesis Definitely doing even better now :)

@Sweetboba15

3 жыл бұрын

same;)

@eline_sandes

3 жыл бұрын

same here

@kurtordonio

3 жыл бұрын

i just did deleted mine too. Hopefully, it will be forever now.

I'm seeing a wave of children being raised by this world and it's saddening to see how they are so materialistic, can't keep attention in nothing for more than some seconds...

@ARWENxUNDOMIELx

3 жыл бұрын

That’s true, the attention span seems to get shorter and shorter

@peachcobbler831

3 жыл бұрын

KZread recommendations: Kid gains weight in China to save father's life Meanwhile: Kid throws tantrum in the store over iPhone 12.

@TheVirtualJenesis

3 жыл бұрын

ikr it genuinely made me cry seeing the kids in this video cuz they'll never know how great it was to grow up living in the moment and not seeking validation

@Alex_Knight.

3 жыл бұрын

I once had a little gr3 girl get angry at me because I didn't know who this one "famous" Tik tok dancer was, I lost a little faith in humanity that day

@lotsofuwuenergy3983

3 жыл бұрын

@Мансия Dude, going through the same thing here. My bf's family has a 4yr and a 1-2yr (lmao I forgot his age. Somewhere in there) and the younger is doing a bit better... but the older one is ADDICTED to tech. Not to mention the stepmom and father responsible only feed them instant noodles, mac n cheese, microwave nuggets; nothing nutritional. No fruits, veggies, meat. This is terrible for their development. I'm worried to see how held back they'll be in growing mentally. Their mother incidentally is also addicted to social media 🙄

The fact that children think this is how you should live life.....like ugh......what happened???

@qnnikqs

3 жыл бұрын

RIGHT OMG ITS SO SCARY. I didn’t even know about a lot of the stuff in this video like with how obsessed people are about social media

@swepsdakittie7792

3 жыл бұрын

@@qnnikqs from my point of view it it can also be about lacking stuff. I know many youtubers who don't have very much money which is why they start KZread to try and gain more to pay bills and help family

@qnnikqs

3 жыл бұрын

@@swepsdakittie7792 trueeeeee

@majesticderik1347

3 жыл бұрын

Kids these days won't know what life was like back in the 2000s. Good old simple times. ☎️😁

@qnnikqs

3 жыл бұрын

@@majesticderik1347 I’m 16 and this is how school is like: 😷📲💻 😷📲💻 😷📲💻

It's so weird when I deleted my instagram and twitter my friends thought I did it because I was depressed but in reality Im the happiest Ive been in such a long time

It makes me so angry when influencers try to sell mental health issues when they dont know what it really feels like. I'm sure that some do and that's fine, but please stop selling the thing that ruined years of my life.

@bee.ok666

3 жыл бұрын

"this app cured my anxiety!" "after this great product, I am no longer depressed 🤗"

@emilywells7415

3 жыл бұрын

agreed. All this "anxiety" clothing like it's almost a slap in our faces who are REALLY struggling, why I don't go on tik tok or instagram anymore because its so crazy and toxic

@hushpupilavish5115

3 жыл бұрын

Check Deji he actually went through stuff

@simranchauhan9390

3 жыл бұрын

@@bee.ok666 "click the link in my bio to get it :)" the amount of times i have seen this...so annoying

@thepink3798

3 жыл бұрын

OMG YEAH RIGHT. like i mean thats totally find if they spread some mental issues or some abuse story by spreading awarness. But the fact that they 'sell' the story just for a fame its really disgusting. Like they dont even know 'whats going on' or do some research and yeah those people keep doing it for a freaking fame. Thats a messed up

And that’s why I deleted it last year . Being someone who used social media for 10 years it’s not worth the stress . Take it from some one who posted about my life just to feel even more worthless

@selinao9933

3 жыл бұрын

Literally me I deleted it in october last year after watching the social dilemma haha and it was the best decision everr I've never been this happy before

@jamesdettmann94

3 жыл бұрын

Technically you're on social media right now lol

@selinao9933

3 жыл бұрын

@@jamesdettmann94 hahah true but i deleted everything except youtube thats the only useful app to me

@lizzieakari

3 жыл бұрын

@@selinao9933 yes just yes .

@whizher4887

3 жыл бұрын

I deleted social media a few weeks ago it feels great i still have Pinterest but may just delete that to

I deleted all social media apps off my phone and I feel FREE for the first time in YEARS. I am sleeping better, calmer, thinking better, and loving my life more. I haven’t been more in the present moment in years. At first, sure, it was hard. But now I don’t even think about it and I fear of being back on social media again. Now seeing my friends sucked into it is hard to watch.

@okayheh7138

3 жыл бұрын

I totally feel the same way! So much more normal and happier after removing myself from social media. I’m glad you’re feeling better

I'm 19 and I don't really use social media. Last year I almost failed a course in uni, so I decided to uninstall Twitter and Instagram. It really helped me and now I only use IG on my tablet, but only to follow my kpop idols. Now I just listen to podcasts and watch commentary videos. I prefer investing my time watching chinese dramas or studying.

@TheVirtualJenesis

3 жыл бұрын

that's nice that ur using socials more mindfully

@rowmiry

3 жыл бұрын

I just use ig and follow like cute animals and stuff istg when I downloaded tik tok I deleted it after 2 weeks in those 2 weeks my mental health just declined so fast and I was just pretty much so miserable, not missing that feeling

@seemberry

3 жыл бұрын

Same the highest i can spend on insta is two and a half hours

I honestly can't stand insta models and influencers. They are so fake, physically and their personality.

@queenonthedeen4555

3 жыл бұрын

@- Astor - yes, and don't get me started about the fake pranks

@theravenscout4569

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

It makes me a bit sad when I see children with devices because they are then so focused on their Ipad or what not that they miss out on devolving social skills, making bonds and living life. But also I notice myself that the people such as friends and family no longer put value on genuine conversations.

@mississipi1103

3 жыл бұрын

mmmm... You're right ! But at the same time, there are people like me that are socially stunted with or without social media, no matter what we do aha

@reeseruss

3 жыл бұрын

@Logan Paul So many apps to help, when they will never come close to the real thing.

@yazi2633

2 жыл бұрын

Especially with covid

@codyelmore3809

2 жыл бұрын

@@reeseruss those apps create a false reality!

I don’t know but I’m just so proud to everyone walking away from social media. I see you & I love you! 💛

@faith3710

3 жыл бұрын

Love you too💞💞

@gato8008

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I'm trying to focus on getting the help I need to heal from the personal things I've been through for 13 years. 💛

@ReyRey42315

2 жыл бұрын

Love ya!

@Miruc888

2 жыл бұрын

Love ya too

Just follow an authentic person with content who make you grow instead of those toxic ppl

After a certain time, being happy with self and and having satisfaction with the few close friends is worth more than internet fame and followers. However apart from the internet addiction, social media is the best place to learn and create businesses and often times career.

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

absolutely! I actually have a whole video planned for the positives of social media and the life changing impact it has. p.s im so happy for you learning to be happier with yourself

@angelinedepita6054

3 жыл бұрын

True! It depends on how a person use it

@hamdanfazal2621

3 жыл бұрын

@@angelinedepita6054 indeed but the flow of information and media in young teens highly impact on what they think matters. It is also the responsibility of others to correct them and teach them how to not be self centered and attention seeking in social media. We can't blame social media for a kid wanting a million subs or followers. I agree with Mr. Kamit and look forward to his next video.

@angelinedepita6054

3 жыл бұрын

​@@hamdanfazal2621 Me too, I always look forward to these kinds of videos. Btw very well said

really great to have you with us while people are crazy about social media, this is what i call an influencer

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

Omg stoooppppposfjdapoisjf ahhhhh this made smile so hard. I'm so blessed to be able to have a platform like this and have people like you who appreciate this! hope u have a lovely day

Leaving social media is like the opposite of leaving church. You leave church knowing there is hope in life, but you leave social media feeling hopeless.

The children clips broke my heart. Young kids just reproduce the behaviors they see around them. They don't know what it means.

My brother describes it as like playing chess against a super computer. You’re going to loose.

@blueiscooll

3 жыл бұрын

Damn your brother is really legendary at setting examples

I guess my teen generation are the last one to enjoy life without social media.class of 2009!.

@suchastrangegirl36

3 жыл бұрын

wow, that's fascinating.

If I have kids I'm not letting them have social media until they're old enough to understand that what they see on social media isn't real, and I'll teach them how to be self confident. Until then I'll let them have a phone that can be used to communicate with their friends through texting + calling :) Edit OMG TYSM FOR THE LIKES

@bonnibell4862

3 жыл бұрын

Omg frr

@Ashley-ro4xz

3 жыл бұрын

Aye. Lets hear it for the og flip phones. gonna get my kid that in the future. if not, they're gonna have to survive without it

i’ve been off instagram and all those socials for almost two months, and it’s been the best choice ever

@thorastaff4651

3 жыл бұрын

I dont want to sound stupid or rude but what do u do to pass time, especially in lockdown

@FleekAnonymous

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@taylorlishka

3 жыл бұрын

@@thorastaff4651 i work and play sports every day. other than that i do have youtube and pinterest bahah, i also text my friends and facetime

@Nora-ze3wv

3 жыл бұрын

Deleting tiktok felt like getting out of the tunnel for me

@taylorlishka

3 жыл бұрын

update, 6 months now:)

I am SO happy I was born in 1990 and came in contact with social media when I was already 19. I remember back then Facebook was really a network to stay in contact with others, Instagram was really there to share snapshots. Social media has become so unbearably over-professional, monetized and overall extremely fake, destructive and toxic. I, as well, would definitely have become as addicted as teens are nowadays, because kids and teens can’t tell the difference between reality and fiction, let alone realize what are fake news and heavily photoshopped pictures.

@DanceObsessed8

3 жыл бұрын

Right?? Even MySpace didn’t come out until I was a young teenager. I’m so glad little kid me was not distracted by social media.

@nicolem8620

2 жыл бұрын

I'm 14. I rarely log into my IG account because I know everything on that platform is fake. I stopped using TikTok a while ago. I only use KZread, but I'm usually busy with art school, music school and just plain school. KZread isn't that toxic and I find out something new every day.

@Mondscheinstaub

2 жыл бұрын

@@nicolem8620 That‘s so cool and mature of you! :) I hope you find a lot of joy in your hobbies.

@nicolem8620

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mondscheinstaub thank you!! ;)

I’ve used social media to learn about a lot of important topics, KZread is fine but tiktok and Twitter are terrible

@anaseymour4556

3 жыл бұрын

Im spending 4 sometimes 5 hours a day on twitter which is so ridiculous... Like? The fuck??? Uninstalling

@bk-sf1nt

3 жыл бұрын

Twitter is really very toxic..

@idkwhatagah7193

2 жыл бұрын

For me KZread is taking my time now

@ambika1379

2 жыл бұрын

my tiktok fyp is just a bunch of unhinged radicalist rants like bruh i just wanted cute mom vlogs and cooking videos

@mysticblood212

Жыл бұрын

even snapchat and IG

Avoiding social media is the best thing you can do. When you will be truely happy with your life you will realise how useless social media are and how you dont need everyones opinion to enjoy what you are doing.

I started taking months off social media. The longest I’ve gone is September - May. I was able to get out of 10K worth of debt & truly enjoy life.

@selinao9933

3 жыл бұрын

So proud of you 💕

@meca3836

3 жыл бұрын

@@selinao9933 thank you so much 😊

@ebony4456

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🎉

@caseysmith5054

3 жыл бұрын

Amazing! You go!

@Kit-Kat4L

3 жыл бұрын

@@meca3836 wow look at you!

I have an Instagram i pretty much use as a dumping ground for all my art. And... my god, the ego inflation on both Instagram and Twitter is insane.... Narcissist gatekeeping and gaslighting everywhere. People going back and fourth fighting over which hunk of overpriced wires and bolts works better. It's entertaining yet, sad to watch once you realize that people actually waste their time and energy on toxicity and negativity. You wake up feeling all happy and good about yourself then, you logon and it all goes downhill. Next thing you'll know, you're anxious, depressed, sensitive, and angry. Half the time i don't even want to interact with the communities on these platforms due to how egotistical and sensitive people have become.

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

oh my gosh!! exactlyyyy!!! I feel you. so proud of you for having this realisation

@annam7683

3 жыл бұрын

Well stated, I agree

@CrazyAlienLady051

2 жыл бұрын

@lol It’s on my channel links

I hate when my friends record me without my consent and then post itt on social media. or just recording me in general. everyone has got all these high tech phones and have forgotten to keep memories to themselves. I don't like to share everytime I'm meeting my friends but they always post and I feel obligated too bcz I don't wanna upset them so I just deactivated Instagram lol

@BizikIloveyou

3 жыл бұрын

OMG I'M IN THE SAME SITUATION

@cutiepi3_patti

2 жыл бұрын

Omg this happends to me too, my cousin kept filming me and my room and even when im in my bathroom when they visited me. I told them to stop and dont post it on social media which theyve agreed. However, they posted the vids and pics of me when im my worst moment! Whats even worst is that i texted her to put the posts down becoz its my right and privatecy and she replied to me saying that 'im over acting'..'the posts are only visible to her followers, no big deal'.....like commom dude... I hate it so much I think is is very rude as she did not respect my privatecy.

@aliibilli

2 жыл бұрын

@@cutiepi3_patti I feel you. Just don't be around them tbh.

I don't have social media such as Facebook, Twitter or Insta simply because I don't like to be easily accessible to everybody. I've heard of new potential bosses or landlords checking out people's profiles, exes, admirer's, lovers, haters ..... Your opinion of me is none of my business and life feels more self-validating when you're only dealing with the real interactions of others and not the superficial interactions. Plus, people think I'm mysterious....

@jammydoughnuts

3 жыл бұрын

"I don't like to be easily accessible to everyone" - you summed it up so well. I'm so glad to not be on most social media anymore. Only the people I care about should have access to me, not a bunch of strangers and people I haven't seen from high school who are able to stalk me whenever they like.

@hibeautym

3 жыл бұрын

Same here! I only have KZread. I stopped using Facebook, Instagram 3 years ago. Best decision I ever made.

@patiencedlamini1189

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more.

@dijonvolner6024

2 жыл бұрын

I've heard this also that employers will check your social media accounts before you go in for an interview

"SM has normalized narcissism". That part.

@metalrockstarizer89

2 жыл бұрын

It has also normalized over sharing personal stuff in life.

I think most of us just crave society's acceptation. We all like that feeling of "belonging" and "acceptance", no matter if it's fashion, appearance, sexuality, religion. It's just an instinct probably, and it's everywhere if you think about it. Social media sometimes makes it seem as if it can help your self-esteem, but it doesn't always. At least from my point of view, we have to find that self-security outside of the internet (sure, internet communities might help if we live in a harsh environment, but it's hard to determine the difference). I sound really pessimistic, but the whole system is wrong, so this kind of videos and the "bright side" of social media helps a lot, maybe the best we can do right now is to try to bring people to this good things and avoid the toxic side the internet brings along. Lmao, I feel like writing this is a total cliché yet necessary.

@externalpp7454

3 жыл бұрын

Woah. This is really true

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

This is exactly how I feel. Someone commenting on your beauty doesn’t even help you if you don’t believe it yourself.

@dijonvolner6024

2 жыл бұрын

Acceptance, approval, love & worth all come from within ourselves. These do not come from an external source. 💕

@metalrockstarizer89

2 жыл бұрын

Another great way to ensure your mental health in check is don’t apply the behaviors that you are doing on social media to in real life. Treat everyone with equal respect. Stop judging people based on how many likes and how many followers they have 💯

I remember when I was 13, I used to watch those little girls ( jessalyne grace, sophie michelle, coco Quinn etc..) and my gosh how horrible I felt(can't explain forgot about it), I thought I was living in a wrong world cause I didn't had big fluffy bed, Gucci ,a whole fing closet and all that money. Thank God I was mature enough to realize how toxic that mentality was and got out of it. Idk how these upcoming generations are going to be.

@sallylemon5835

3 жыл бұрын

Those kids are making life horrible for other kids, to the point kids blame their own parents (for not bringing this certain luxury and good life)

@sukritip9363

2 жыл бұрын

Same

Social media makes me just angry and sad, I hate social media, its the reason I hate people and the reason I'm happy to not have any friends, I try my best to stay off social media but I like seeing people cosplay and food and watching pewdiepie and looking for pictures to save

I can't be the only one who actually dislikes taking selfies. I mean I can't put a smile on, get rid of the feelings I had seconds before, and ignore the fact that I am surrounded by lots of people. Not talking about the ones with my family and friends but as I am alone and I am totally surrounded by strangers. Not saying anything bad but I am just not confident with that. I also think it has something to do with my ego. Okay, that was it. Have a nice day:)

@kursad8725

3 жыл бұрын

aha yerlimi buldum ben de öyleyim :/

@kursad8725

3 жыл бұрын

@cursed toe ağzından bal akıyor kanki kesinlikle ben de öyle düşünüyorum bütün hesaplarımı sildim (wp hariç) ve zamanımın ne kadar değerli ve fazla olduğunu anladım. gençlik yılları gerçekten çok önemli ve anlamlı. instada post ve like peşinde koşarak ya da tweet okuyarak bir saatin bile harcanmaması gerek

@Its.Sararara

3 жыл бұрын

I totally relate with you

@griseldahoxha2346

Жыл бұрын

Finally I found someone 😭,I don't even know how to take a proper selfie and I am 24 years old.It just seems so awkward and weird to me. I used to love the old pictures our parents used to take on birthday, weeding,new year Eve and Eid.So sweet and with a purpose ❤️ ❤️

Haven't been on IG for almost two months. I don't miss anything about it. Really. NOTHING. Nowadays SM seems like a huge part of real life, it can be, but you don't have to keep up with everything and everyone.

I've only ever used social media to learn new stuff and get inspiration and for activism and stuff, but most seem to be using it to get popular and to follow other people's lives, which is what makes it harmful to both themselves and others. Social media when used for the right reasons and fairly wouldn't be so bad.

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I’m so happy for you for using social media positively 🙏

@kennyg.6608

3 жыл бұрын

Why try to justify it when it's clearly a detriment to society?...these apps are created to take you out of who you really are, and to make you addicted to them. For the most part there is no using it positively. The creaters deliberately designed these apps to be as addictive as possible. So yeah unless you have a business ordeal on there it is a detriment

I don’t see life on social media at all. Everybody’s faking. The “highlight reel” trying to look it so perfect that’s why followers feels insecure because they look so perfect; their life seems so perfect. I just wanna let you guys know that everything you see is not real. Learn to detach yourself 🙏🏻

"stop starting or ending your day on social media" me - realising you're right - watching this video just before going to bed:

This is so true my grandma died from covid and I didn’t go on social media for 3 weeks cause people say stuiped shit and toxic shit and I don’t need that Right now

@dreidynn

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. I am proud that you have taken the step to help yourself. Sending you so much love ❤️

@howmakebeans

3 жыл бұрын

i swear you're like my happy pill 😭💕

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

awwwww you are SOOO sweet gosh, this made me so happy 🥺🤍

@perfectlyimperfectmae6137

3 жыл бұрын

me too Ibrahim💕🤗😗

Seeing the young children feeling so happy about their social media presence makes me so sad :( I logged off social media about a month ago and I've never wanted to delete my socials as much as now. Thing is as a singer - they help. I'm so torn.

i get it but its important to note that celebrities should be held accountable (not attacked or threatened) for their behavior. Too often are celebrities unaccounted for racism, sexism etc.

That's why I just deleted my ig accounts :) don't need it anymore, same as how he feel towards me

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

ahhhh I'm always contemplating deleting social media altogether but KZread ahhhhhh lol. I'm so happy for you!

@ashyrabalqis6966

3 жыл бұрын

Wise move buddy :)

@jenesaisvraimentpasquoimet8473

3 жыл бұрын

Best decision I had ever made bro

@identity123.

3 жыл бұрын

I feel so proud of u

@nourata.5893

3 жыл бұрын

I deactivated my insta and I feel so happy

This needs more viewsss

My "friends" got mad at me for leaving social media to leave all that toxicity and most of them dont even text me cuz of what I did😥

@richhhhhamiri

3 жыл бұрын

its ok

@sara-ek1fe

3 жыл бұрын

then clearly they never were friends to begin with, real friends would want what´s best for you, whatever that means, surround yourself with good people and realize you´re the most important person in your live, you´re the one living it, not them

@Rude_Boi

3 жыл бұрын

Then they weren't your friends. If anything, that shows you their true colors. You were better off without negative toxic people, so find positive people that give your life more value. God Bless!

@itwasnotyourworld

3 жыл бұрын

that's a good chance for eliminating. our brain affected from our environment because we are social creatures. it would be more nice to be alone instead of having low qualified people.

@Ty-mu7gl

2 жыл бұрын

Bet you're better off without them then lol, I can't imagine what it must've been like being friends with people like that

Honestly deleting my social media was the best thing i ever did. I dont have an insta, twitter, tiktok, facebook etc. Im a 17 year old girl, and deleting my social media has made me more confident and happier. I highly recommend this, even if you do it for just a week:)

I needed something like this, thank you

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

awww I was very unsure about making this video cause I thought it was a basic topic but im so happy to hear you needed this 🤍

@itzli_7930

3 жыл бұрын

same this literally came at like the perfect time

@jennieblue8583

3 жыл бұрын

Yh

The kids in this video who are wrapped up in all of this really make me sad.

I was born in 1976 and I remember back in the 1980s and 1990s, social media didn't exist and I spent most of my time riding my bike, hanging out with friends, reading books and mostly doing things outdoors. But now social media has ruined this generation. I missed those good old times before social media existed

Just deleted twitter. Lmao this this is so true. I also can’t believe people actually watch everyone’s stories. Who has the time

What are your thoughts about social media? ⬇️

@daniella1102

3 жыл бұрын

Its crazy how my life would be so different without it like it’s such a major part of my every day

@ArtemizPlayz

3 жыл бұрын

I think it has both, positive and negatives sides. At this point we can only have a vague idea how deeply it will influence the society, but it definitely has the potential to be a huge threat to our psychological health. We will see within the next years and decades...

@mizafrinash34

3 жыл бұрын

I had uninstalled Instagram and deleted my account for the past 6 months, I guess. It was difficult at first, living without posting ANYTHING on the Internet. Gradually, I started living a productive, happy and refreshed life. I have reclaimed my life and I feel like I'm reallyyyyy living. I have one quote; Disconnect to reconnect. Trust me.

@nompingwenyama1222

3 жыл бұрын

It honestly has its pros and cons. The cons are more detrimental however, social media is the main cause in the rise of suicide apart from toxic beauty standards. Mental health awareness was started due to this. Social media can be a drive to motivate yourself to do things and actually push yourself, BUT the downside of that drive is that it may cause depression. Its a rock and a hard place, because if you don't know how to post without comparing and just being happy. You end up miserable.

@paulaluiize

3 жыл бұрын

I don't use Insta anymore. I think SM sucks you in and you become a part of it. But when you leave and reflect, you realize how absurd it is. Especially posting pictures of yourself all the time, it's weird, and why everyone should see so many photos of me?

Person: This is so right. **Leaves video and goes to another one and it repeats until the time is 1am**

@lazarus4211

3 жыл бұрын

Lol why u gotta attack me like that

@user-hf3tc3su1b

3 жыл бұрын

YOU JUST CALLED ME OUT LOUD AND CLEAR GIRL-

do you see how few those dislikes are? lets keep it that way.

@humblelocket2731

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr! Only four!

I had to set very STRICT rules to stop being ridiculous obsessed with social media. Basically I only allow myself to use social media from 2pm to 4pm, NOT A SECOND MORE. Thank God i have a job now, so i literally have no time (except on weekdends) to use social media. AND I AM HAPPY

things that are helping me quit social media: -write a journal whenever you feel like it focusing on the good things in your life (almost like a social media but for YOU) -turn your notifications off before getting ready to delete it -question >everything ill update this comment if I remember something else InshAllah

My parents wouldn't even let me have a smartphone until I was 13. And even now that I have it, I have limited use time for social media.

I deleted my public instagram account 3 years ago and have been going on Twitter way less than before. Ever since then, I noticed just how happier I've become because I'm not bombarded with pictures with my friend's "highs".

This is such an important video...Sadly the mass majority won't give a shit and post their next clothing spree or fashion look. It's sad we live in this world.

@phoenixdaronco9540

3 жыл бұрын

I remember last year, I watched a video from CBC News called "How social media affects teens". Apparently, according to a neuroscientist from the video, the part of your brain that deals with empathy and reflecting on feelings is inactive when you are engaged in social media. For a while, I have wondered why some people in my generation may not seem caring, and it looks like this is the reason why; I am a Gen Z-er. As for me, I only use social media to look back on family memories (Facebook) or talk to my friend from back in Wisconsin (Snapchat).

I always compare my life to others right like seeing all of my friends and other kids from my school all posing a selfie with goofy faces.... And meanwhile I look at myself and feel bad I am not with them. But I love social media to get my news about what's happening around the world and see people being creative. I always feel alone with no one to connect to I useally go check up on stories of my former classmates on "oh look what I ate and look who I am hanging out with yeah" and that's why I barely get notifications from my social media unless it's like from KZread

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

agreed! I'm proud of you for being self-aware. that's a big step ahead and for you to use it positively too like learning about news! I've learnt to stop checking other peoples stories as much unless its like close friends or family. I hope you're building a healthier rs with yourself and social media 🤍

Deleted all my social media for over 2 months and I have never felt more physically, emotionally and spiritually healthy in a very long time. It’s crazy looking at how life is when you don’t have social media. you see how how much of an addiction social media is to everyone around you. Miss the old times

This should be definitely shown in schools! I like that even if it's like a well-known thing, it's really well structured and sends a message. Great job on this :)

I'm 13, and social media has ruined my life, I use it every day. I have developed eating disorders to the extreme that it was my only personality trait along with being depressed. and now that I have a healthier relationship with my body and I don't feel too depressed anymore I found that I've taken the time I was supposed to take on developing my personality in my eating disorder. It is insane that I could develop an eating disorder at the age of 10, social media speeds up and increases self-hatred and mental disorders. I am expecting that by the time I have kids that the world will be 100x worse than it is today I want my children to stay away from social media for as long as possible. I hate social media. I hate that I'm addicted.

SO. GOOD. These videos are absolutely fantastic. Spreading awareness about the *truth* of social media and the ways that it corrupts our lives is so important and you did such a good job!!!!

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

ahh thank you so much for the appreciation!! hope you have a lovely day 🤍

Idk I just feel like social media has sucked the life out of me. People always want to give off an illusion, not to mention that people will literally be mad at you for NOT posting. Like I'm so sorry I don't want to share so many details of my PERSONAL lives.

I think a lot of young people forget sometimes that humans have lived for thousands of years without social media and they were fine. Even their parents grew up without ever posting selfie and they were completely fine. This generation think they need it, but they are just being trapped in social media's addictive web.

@jameseldridge3445

Жыл бұрын

Right. We’ve had this super technology for only 30 out of the 200,000 years of our existence and expect no alters to our brain? That’s delusion. It started with the printing press then progressively got worse

i deleted all my accounts in insta,facebook,wap ,twitter 3 years aback and i'm so peaceful accepting myself since the day i did actually. i love your all videos , you are doing a great job kudos .

last week i went to musea with 2 of my friends and literally all they did and made me do was take pictures so they could post some on their instagram

@junebug5296

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I could go to the museum. I def only like to take pictures of the art for ideas or colors I like.

@cinnabrown

3 жыл бұрын

@@junebug5296 the thing with my situation was not to take pictures of the art but purposely of themselves like it was really frustrating

@junebug5296

3 жыл бұрын

flora sounds lame, I would def go to the museum with you to only look at art. I hate taking pictures for social media. Boo.

I deleted instagram two years ago and i have never felt better. i compare myself to others less and its just so much healthier

My kids are having flip phones until they’re 16, or maybe even 18, idc how normalised it is for kids to use it then

@TheVirtualJenesis

3 жыл бұрын

omg same lol, I aint giving them tablets either

@ipadpro9580

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheVirtualJenesis only desktop computers

@advmanishadhoot2449

3 жыл бұрын

My cousin sister has a phone and she just turned 10 but she only uses yt, zoom and some random apps and games

@Nora-ze3wv

3 жыл бұрын

You’re doing them a favour saving their mental health.

@KH0LRA

3 жыл бұрын

the only thing they'll probably struggle with switching to touchscreens is getting used to QWERTY instead of ABC 123 so much to save them from being exposed to all this bs 😭😭

instead of exploiting you're kids for likes on a screen, tell them about online safety and how NOT to show their face online or not befriending anyone online expect for the people they know.

im so glad 5 year old me thought that this kind of stuff as cringe

Imperfections make you perfect. Cannot emphasize enough on that.

I'm so glad i'm not obsessed with using social media like: Instagram,Twitter, Facebook and etc.

@rabiremo6538

2 жыл бұрын

Pls keep it that way🙏 I never thought to download ig but a friend of mine recommended it recently and I regret going on it ever since. Has been really addicting and severely ruins my self-esteem😭😞

@verendai.

2 жыл бұрын

@@rabiremo6538 but u know i only love youtube it's better

You have extremely valuable content that NEEDS to be seen by a much bigger audience. Keep doing YOU! The World needs to hear more of you!

Crazy how out of all the therapy that me and my wife have both been through we both came to the conclusion that the best thing we’ve ever done for our mental health is delete social media. For her, it was all of the comparing she was doing to other women. For me it was the toxic political discourse and polarizing opinions that flooded my feed.

The moment I stopped caring about social media my life drastically improved. The moment I was honest with myself: why do I post stories? To show off, to appear more popular. Why do I follow this person, is it because I know them or is it because they're pretty? You will always find someone better or more popular or pretty than you there and it's so easy to compare. Once I stopped using, I never feel that way. Fear of missing out, I was afraid of it too. Then I uninstalled Instagram for a week, didn't miss anything important. I don't really care about what stories people put anyway when I'm too busy working in my own life. Social media is a good way to preserve memories but now it's become so toxic and dangerous.

@carmi6831

2 жыл бұрын

💯💖🎉🎊🇵🇭

Everyone on social media is completely open to hating others and being shitty, then you find the majority of people talking in a well-mannered way and having a fake friendly attitude towards everyone since they are afraid of being judged. Just take the phones from everyone and you'll find that the majority are shy, insecure, quiet.

This guy deserves to be awarded or something! His videos are trully something that people need to see!

Sooo true. I left all of those toxic social media apps before this year started and trust me, I've been much more happier than I was while using social media apps.

100%! I have reclaimed my life! I grew up with social media and have been addicted for over 10 years! I am finally free and it feels so good! I wonder how much of my time and life I wasted on social media... What could I have accomplished if not for social media holding me back? It's truly sad the society we are raising children in. I hope we as humans soon realize the damage it is doing and end social media once and for all!

That opening sequence sealed the deal for me. I’m DONE, thank you so much! I’m so excited about getting my life back from this vampiric force draining my life energy!

Personally, when I stopped being active on Twitter and Facebook, my life kind of improved but I think I just ended up finding other sites to be active on. Fortunately I've been trying to curb it for a while now.

i deactivated twitter and facebook but I can't delete this freaking KZread 😭😭

@BriaBarrows

3 жыл бұрын

I just deactivated twitter too.

I’m addicted to social media I’ve deleted Tiktok since august and Snapchat since last year and I don’t have Twitter. however I’m literally addicted to Instagram but I try to look at accounts which I find interesting such as world wide news reports. I guess it’s just learning how to use your time wisely. Amazing video as per usual Ibrahim. Social media is a hyperreal reality version of ourselves. It’s the perfect version which we make for ourselves. Social media has great things like omds I don’t know how modern life would look like without the internet. Brings people together such a making the world into a global village. However, too much of social media can make you fatigue, with overload of everything.

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

awwww thank you sooo much! I'm so happy you appreciate the video and I'm so proud of you for making a chance in your lifestyle and the social media addiction. just curious, have u found yourself making more time for other things like hobbies since you've deleted some of those apps?

@chaiidoost

3 жыл бұрын

@@ibrahimkamityoutube omdssss I can’t believe you responded to my comment and asked me a question 😭 I actually have time for hobbies nows. I took up boxing a few months ago and literally love it! And I’ve been studying more too. Like I’m a procrastinator, and now I feel like I have time for things and keeping up with my work. I don’t follow influencers on Instagram as I don’t really like their content. I’ve been able to spend more time with my Parents and sisters. Plus my sleep has been beautiful. I’m insomniac and literally have trouble sleeping, but I read at night now and sleep at 10pm. Also I should mention that now I’m not too bothered with constantly checking my phone or checking my friends stories on Snapchat. It really doesn’t bother me anymore and i feel more happier. 😌 But it does take time and sometimes I do find myself scrolling on Insta for like 3 hours 😂. I guess it’s just learning to moderate my use on social media

@loekapoelman575

3 жыл бұрын

Please try and delete the instagram app on your phone, you can still look at it on the mobile site if you need to send someone a message.

@chaiidoost

3 жыл бұрын

@@loekapoelman575 that’s true actually. I could do that.

@loekapoelman575

3 жыл бұрын

@@chaiidoost it saved my like 1hour a day or something, wishing you the best with your journey ´away´ from socials media :)

I pray for this generation 🙏🏾

This video is SO important. I keep on saying social media is cancer, so incredibly toxic and it's ruining our life and society as a whole. I'm trying to distance myself from social media, even though I still watch YT videos here and there... it's so hard, but I wanna go social media free. I dream of the day social media disappears, even though it will probably will never happen.

@ulusxs1096

3 жыл бұрын

U should watch he’s one called “why you’ll never be perfect” I find a lot of he’s vids are great

@NeneChan203

3 жыл бұрын

@@ulusxs1096 Thank you for the kind answer and suggestion, I'll check it out. :-)

@ulusxs1096

3 жыл бұрын

@@NeneChan203 thank you, and no problem!

@spring7643

3 жыл бұрын

Have you watched the social dilemma? It's on Netflix

@ulusxs1096

3 жыл бұрын

@@spring7643 I have!

I actually really needed this. Thank you🤍

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

Awww I'm so glad to hear that! hope this helps and educated you a bit about these issues 🤍

Ibrahim, I'm so proud of u 💘

@ibrahimkamityoutube

3 жыл бұрын

hehe thank you so much 🤍

The most important thing and the best thing you can do for yourself is realising that everything you see online is fake. Nothing is real, you only see what people want you to see.