My heart broke when that lil girl broke down infront of her mother when she said she is ugly.

@kamabokogonpachiro182

3 жыл бұрын

That wasn’t her mom but still heartbreaking

@pragatisingh6020

3 жыл бұрын

That was her hairdresser. Heartbreaking clip.

@in.themeantime.

3 жыл бұрын

my heart broke when the little girl looked at her skin and called it nasty

@juliadonati8245

3 жыл бұрын

@@in.themeantime. same. I hate that we’ve inherited a society that teaches little kids to hate themselves for their non-white features.

@datoco

22 күн бұрын

humanity suck

Society: be yourself Also society: not like that

@kyojuroswife4112

3 жыл бұрын

EDIT: thanks to all of you guys in the comments for sooo much love and support, I m doing fine now not that I m fully confident but I do feel pretty and found who I m and my style, so yay. Ik none of u r gonna see this but really really thank you💓❤💓 So fuking true, when I was 12 I gained a little weight (40kg ) and omg all my "friends" called me fat and were so mean about everything. I cried every day 😂😂😂 nobody consoled me and my introvert a.s couldn't make new friends. Looking back at it, oh , I'm still suffering not only for my body but my face too. (I'm 17 and 50kg 5 ft) I hate myself

@cameronvadnais4388

3 жыл бұрын

Be yourself. I'm literally always myself. I think you mean relax and have confidence.

@cameronvadnais4388

3 жыл бұрын

@@kyojuroswife4112 I know the feeling. It sucks.

@zeosummers3984

3 жыл бұрын

@@cameronvadnais4388 you can't be anyone but yourself. you are all your positive and negatives and fakeness.

@nafirasyid9794

3 жыл бұрын

@@kyojuroswife4112 right i also gain sum weight when i was in 9th grade, and it was still in the healthy bmi chart, but my friends say that i look fat anyways then i pressured myself to lose weight, when before i never care about my weight at all

“brown skin looks nasty for some reason, but i don’t know what reason.” BROKE MY HEART

@phoebe9373

Жыл бұрын

i know... absolutely heartbreaking. And when she called herself ugly, it done me!! its beyond screwed up that beauty is defined by the powers that be.

@hmm4553

Жыл бұрын

it’s generational for a lot of kids. it’s so sad.

@tessy28

Жыл бұрын

My babies won't know social media for a long time. I won't let that shit posion their heads

@phoebe9373

Жыл бұрын

@@tessy28 100% we raise the standards in our households building strong humans with self worth and self love. My daughter 20 now and son 12 its a constant battle to fight the rotten system but thats our duty. Totally worth it in a world telling you to be any one but yourself.

@calmdownsir907

Жыл бұрын

Aww :(

As an 11 yo girl in the 6th grade after discovering how toxic beauty standards are, I’ve promised myself that I won’t ever try to follow any unrealistic/unattainable beauty standards that will make me hate myself bc of this video and bc of my mom

@eithnemelee2997

Жыл бұрын

reading this comment made me so happy. at your age I spent so long hating my looks for no reason except the media told me I should. I admire you and your generation so much for calling these stupid standards out. you are BEAUTIFUL no matter what!

@handwashingonion-UAE

Жыл бұрын

@@eithnemelee2997 same! I was just a bit fat at that age, like 50 kg n 5'3 everyone used to call me fatty n all but then I got really tired of all that so I started to eat after so many days, that lead to me being underweight. I don't hate myself, I don't love myself either. I am starting to love myself tho. & macaroonprincess, you r just gorgeous! I may not know how u look like but I just know, you're beautiful Edit: I am 15 yrs old, 46 kg and 5'6. I'm getting there 😊

@yema5691

Жыл бұрын

You are beautiful

@frenchpotato2852

Жыл бұрын

I’m in the same situation as you. Young and in the target age group for these “beauty” ads. Stay strong!

@sab5686

Жыл бұрын

so so proud

Disclaimer: You're not ugly. Society is.

@natalyaquitt6607

3 жыл бұрын

ily

@Koo_Koo

3 жыл бұрын

@Tatjana Jukova 🗿

@Koo_Koo

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏

@talyarotstain9098

3 жыл бұрын

@Tatjana Jukova No one is ugly. Not a single person on earth. Everyone is beautiful in their own and unique ways. That's what over 80% of people do not see.

@gerardcote8391

3 жыл бұрын

@@talyarotstain9098 Tell that to the hundreds of thousands of men that women reject on a daily basis and consider invisible, and the same for women who can't seem to find guys attracted to them.

I fucking cried when those children said brown is ugly and a literal toddler called herself ugly my heart gonna explode

@lilischmitz3399

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😭😭

@DEBz3321

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of that has to do with parents not telling them enough or instilling good enough thoughts in them from early on. I give a lot of kudos to the one mother who is telling her to daughter how beautiful she is. That needs to be done every single day. I tell my son and daughter they are amazing brilliant beautiful from the time they wake up until they go to bed.

@XXYYZZZA

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly if children that young believe they are ugly, it’s not just that people didn’t tell them they are pretty, people told them they are ugly 😭

@vutekoaalu4188

3 жыл бұрын

@@XXYYZZZA Yeah..Been through that :( such people deserve to be thrown in the dumpster.

@DEBz3321

3 жыл бұрын

@@XXYYZZZA that is terrible and disgusting. Ugliness is what those folks are in the inside who call children ugly

I'm a 14 year old girl and I deserve to love and be obssessed with myself after YEARS of hating me and my body. These "beauty standards" are a joke.

@poorwhitepeoplearefailures2396

Жыл бұрын

Why do you deserve this?

@randomfroglol5159

Жыл бұрын

Same here ! I struggle with the same issue, but we DESERVE to feel better !

@poorwhitepeoplearefailures2396

Жыл бұрын

@@randomfroglol5159 why? Why is this deserved?

@J.Soffer

11 ай бұрын

Good for you, girl. Tell your friends!

@Amine-Ra

10 ай бұрын

No u dont

I not even going to lie..I love kpop but I have become so insecure after looking at all the pretty girls and boys. I know they're treated terribly, I know they're starving themselves, I know they've had plastic surgery done but I can't help but still think I should "naturally" look like that.

@fries6197

Жыл бұрын

same... sometimes i feel so ugly that i cry a lot

@eCally

Жыл бұрын

@@fries6197 hello just wanted to let y’a know that i saw your comments, i saw that you were 36-38 kg and to be as honest as you am 63kg for 172 cm. For my mind Its a lot. I always felt like i was so fat. I remember i was 8 when i was around 35 kg, i Hope you are very small because this weight is really not a lot, you think you are ugly or too fat but believe me, Its clear that you are very beautiful and that you dont have to feel not confident ❤

@annafodor9285

Жыл бұрын

ye same for me.. like, im 12 years old and i have been a fan of kpop for over 2 years. my kpop fan "journey" started with one of my best friends, about 1 year after we started listening to kpop, she started constantly telling herself that she was fat and ugly(btw. she had long black hair, super bright blue eyes, she was pale, had red lips and a perfect hourglass figure. she was one of the most beautiful people i knew!) , this lead to an extreme eating disorder... then one day when we were at their pool just hanging out, i noticed how alarmingly slim she was... it was scary. i told her what i noticed and asked her if she was doing okay, she told me that her mom too, constantly body shamed her to the point where she would tell her that she as a fat bi**h.. the girl i once knew as the happy, smiling friend of the group turned into an depressed emotional wreck.. this started effecting me too, and just like that i developed an eating disorder, and i started self harming as way to deal with all the emotional stress i felt.. thankfully my parents noticed something wasn't right and took me to a doctor..i am almost fully healed now, but still i sometimes think about skipping meals or not eating at all.. the fact that being considered "beautiful" comes at such a high cost/rist is not acceptable!

@cosmolvr

Жыл бұрын

@@fries6197 omg fr. Once i was trying on a dress that was really skinny so it completely stuck out to my body so that made my stomach show a bit too much and made it look like i was "fat", i already had problems with how fat my stomach look but after i saw myself in that dress i literally started crying so hard because i thought i was ugly and fat. I still have problem with my stomach till this day and end up having a literal meltdown because of my self image issues

@maxstriker9839

Жыл бұрын

You are always gonna feel that and some people look so good even without trying unless you understand not everyone can look good

The part where kids called themselves ugly was literally heartbreaking

@justicemartinez3478

3 жыл бұрын

Holly shit I know

@aydenpotts7019

3 жыл бұрын

I cried. No one should have to feel that way

@jessicafoster1196

3 жыл бұрын

I still think I'm ugly, and I'm an adult.

@chlootje882

3 жыл бұрын

My little brother is black, and he said he wanted to be white at the age of three-four!? bc of some parents that tell their child to bully tjeir best frind, THEY WER BSF! BC HES BLACK, To tell him white is good and black bad "it looks like poop" ive been called that once but i forgive her bc she didnt know it was mean

@SnehaGayathri112

3 жыл бұрын

I cried when that little girl cried🙁

Hearing someone so young call themselves ugly really hurt my heart.

@starr2870

3 жыл бұрын

the realisation on how disgusting the way the society is . so many young people seeing themselves 'fat' is so sad

@countryballpapper8765

3 жыл бұрын

I am now 12 but when I was 10 I would try to starve myself and where black leggings because they made me look skinner

@natassjamyers5999

3 жыл бұрын

I remember when I was a kid family dissed me called me black shine for being darker than the rest of my siblings. I remember saying when I grow up and start making my own money I'll bleach my skin. Now that I'm older, I love myself so much 💕 (it took a lot of hard work) and I wouldn't change anything about my skin tone. I just had my second baby and it's taking a minute to accept my new body but every time I look at it with stretch marks and scars and then look at my kids I'm thankful. And I'm more than this body. Our black community just doesn't do right by us as black women and it sucks. I grew up in zim btw

@anoushaplayz

3 жыл бұрын

When I was 7 I thought I was really fat everyone called me fat for jokes and stuff I didn’t really know that.... so I didn’t eat much but my mom still fed me by hand since i would drop everything, I would only want to eat 4 bites and go to my room but I couldn’t do that but once I did then I kept doing it. When I was 8 I was like “ok I’m fat but that’s ok! Even though everyone is skinny I just stick out more people notice me!” Then when I was 3 months from being 8 I finally thought I was better, now everyone including calls me fat for jokes , people don’t usually do that anymore but when it happened it’s with my friends and we laugh about it

@natassjamyers5999

3 жыл бұрын

@@countryballpapper8765 oh my gosh sweety you're so young I bet you're gorgeous the way you are I think you should focus on having fun and being the best you mentally, the world has enough horrible people.

As a black 13-year-old girl who feels she has a large nose, a tall and slightly bulky build ,discoloured skin and currently obsessing over her diet, this hit deep. I am always comparing myself with my pretty, delicate classmates and wishing from the bottom of my heart I could even look slightly similar to them. Thin waists, sleek hair, blinding smiles and clear skin. I swear, I was 7 when I started thinking this way, which is so effed up.

@lisanyugenhascancer6332

Жыл бұрын

Trust me real world isn't like this

@user-pv7cf3ye6n

10 ай бұрын

im 15 and i have a lot of the stereotypically "good" features and honestly i feel just as shitty about my appearance and i wish i was different. there is a reason that even the kardashians (not that i look a single bit like them) keep changing their appearance. i think the journey we all need to go on is just accepting who we are even though it's one of the most difficult things because there's no point trying to change. you are brave for saying this and i know you're beautiful and amazing for who you are

@-RHYT-

8 ай бұрын

⁠@@lisanyugenhascancer6332 But it is. That’s the whole point of this video. It is showing that people are pressuring actual children that they need to look like a supermodel or like Barbie. The real world is like this and only now, after years and years of people getting more and more depressed, people are starting to realize that it isn’t okay.

@simi5558

8 ай бұрын

as an artist listen big noses are absolte joys to draw i love drawing large nose profiles their so fun to draw

@Dragking38

6 ай бұрын

Every model is build that way from their bonestructure. It's considered a superior build with high and sharp cheekbones, a beautiful frame for the body. They appear statuesque and impressive beautiful. You are beautiful. Don't let opinions of self conscious and self seeking people effect your mental health. And your peers are just that, they have no Club, so their opinion should not matter as much (or should bit matter at all) as that of well meaning and educated adults.

Beauty standards are so arbitrary that no human being can reach them. You have to have dark skin, but European features. You have to be full in some places, but skinny in others. Everyone has something wrong with them. It's really genius from a marketing standpoint.

@honkhonk6359

Жыл бұрын

when people start designing themselves freely via technology and genetic modification, I wonder how much more insane beauty ideals are going to become. lol

@c0mput3r80y

Жыл бұрын

@@honkhonk6359 people over here gonna be gettin plastic skin to look like real-life barbie dolls or some sh*t like that

@João-u8b

10 күн бұрын

​@@honkhonk6359 i fear the Future

When little girls are calling themselves ugly we really need to re-examine our world.

@JoinTheProgress

3 жыл бұрын

But that is really more about parenting than anything else. Let's be honest about that.

@bamcoiu210

3 жыл бұрын

@@JoinTheProgress It kinda isn't, my parents always said I was beautiful and stuff like that but I never felt pretty because of all the people saying I needed to be more slim and have "fair skin", and that made me feel really bad.

@JoinTheProgress

3 жыл бұрын

@@bamcoiu210 But your parents didn't teach you how to deal with that. Parents telling you you're beautiful isn't very believable (to you) because they're obviously biased. So they need to teach you how to deal with the rest of what society throws at you. Not blaming your parents personally, but am saying a great deal of the time it is about parenting.

@bamcoiu210

3 жыл бұрын

@@JoinTheProgress Yeah, they've been teaching me that no matter what to ignore what people say about me, but sometimes I just can't you know? But yes I get what you're saying and you're right

@JoinTheProgress

3 жыл бұрын

@@bamcoiu210 I can't really see you, but if that is you in your profile pic, I would think the popularity of kpop would compensate; kpop has become huge over the past five years, you look south korean (apologies if I'm wrong and you're offended). This whole thing is about how culture and society molds opinions, then how we all manage that.

The girl who said she was uncomfortable with her body and she avoided looking in the mirror was fricken gorgeous-

@rochelle1199

3 жыл бұрын

I literally gasped at how beautiful she is

@lana-b

3 жыл бұрын

timestamp?

@victoriawright2592

3 жыл бұрын

@@lana-b 18:08

@alliexcx5576

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah!

@galaxiotaku7012

3 жыл бұрын

I thought she was a hooman showed cuz she “pretty”

As a wasian person I grew up being bullied for my "dark skin" (At age 5-7), Now I am being told I am too pale and should go out in the sun more (I'm pretty much the same skin colour as back then). Beauty standards should not seep into the lives of literal children. Let them have their childhood and focus on play, no matter what they look like.

@gumballing

10 ай бұрын

West asian ?

@yapa-yapa

9 ай бұрын

white and asian@@gumballing

@snoozersnail

9 ай бұрын

@@gumballing I think they meant that they are mixed (white and asian)

@gumballing

9 ай бұрын

@@snoozersnail ok tysm

@amethyst1062

6 ай бұрын

I have a Asian bestie

The fact that he's a guy saying all this is the most shocking most girls have been depressed about their body size and type dude I appreciate you. To all the black girls your body is the best.

@VeeVee_Edits

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I love that it’s a dude saying this.

@milevenendgame

Жыл бұрын

yall only care about black girls and no one gives a shit about the south asian brown girls that cry because the world HATES desi features

The fact that the Kardashians want us to believe they were born that way when we have LITERALLY watched them transform over the years is asinine and insulting.

@marthakilcoyne8001

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr Kylie is the worst out of all them

@kecym.4808

2 жыл бұрын

It always makes me question why they're still relevant

@EbonyWhitee

2 жыл бұрын

@@kecym.4808 Maybe cuz they’re literally living the American dream. The ability to make a fortune selling items and influencing people to buy other brands is the dream. To have a profitable and scalable business is the dream. Creating generational wealth for your great-great-great-great grand children is the dream. I respect their ambition and hustle. Especially Kylie. Lots of people are born into wealth and they don’t do anything with it (lack of ambition, too afraid, mental illness, drug addiction, other addictions). She COULD just sit back and do nothing and probably have less haters. But instead she is so ambitious and continues to capitalize on everything at her disposal to push the boundaries and scale her brand.

@aarushisingh7983

2 жыл бұрын

It would be so nice that one day I wake up and everyone forgets them.. I shocks me how people idolize them

@deepthoughtswithjessica

2 жыл бұрын

Individually, humans are capable of great intellect. Collectively, the exact opposite occurs. Beware of large groups where mob mentality takes over.

I will never ever get over that beautiful black baby girl saying that she was "so ugly". That was painfully heartbreaking.

@junxk00k

3 жыл бұрын

😢

@ekaye10

3 жыл бұрын

I started tearing up when the other girl said “brown is nasty, I don’t know why”

@jadiewadie3836

3 жыл бұрын

she was so pretty 😥😥

@Aseabasplace

3 жыл бұрын

I teared up

@Lara-xu3yc

3 жыл бұрын

Her words brought tears to my eyes.. No child should feel that way! My 7 y/o daughter is Palestinian/Danish/Greek and has a gorgeous brown skin tone, sadly she idolises "white skin" and sees it as superior because she's caught her father outwardly idolizing white skin numerous times. Fair skin in the Middle East is also very much idolized although it wasn't mentioned in this video above. To any parents out there, remember that your word's (especially when openly self deprecating) can impact a child's thinking dramatically, love yourself too.

If you are feeling insecure of your own body, get off social media and take a walk into the real world. Visit your local coffee shop, take public transport, stroll around your neighbourhood, go to the park, etc. You will realize that 99% of people you encounter will not fit the ideal standard of beauty and you won't feel alone anymore.

@Mah-mf2yg

9 ай бұрын

This is SO real

@Marlaina

5 ай бұрын

Go to the beach. That's as real as it gets.

@srishtisinha-to4be

Ай бұрын

ikr like im fromsouth asia and a lot of ppl are soupposed to be skiny and all and a lots are but w that ppl are also called flat i mean how can someone be skinny as paper and not flait its lime impossible

@voqet9298

8 күн бұрын

frl

I nearly cried seeing the child (A LITERAL CHILD) cry about how she thought that she was ugly. Like wtf is our society and the world that we live in to the point where a small child will literally think she is ugly when she isn't at all? And the past beauty standards look hellish. Like, the corsets look as though they could crush a stomach. These beauty standards are so unhealthy and dangerous to the point where people pass away from them. This is not ok

@oooh19

6 ай бұрын

it's normal for even young children to feel self conscious about their looks. i know i was. it's nothing new.

"No one is born ugly, we're just born in a judgemental society." -If you know, you know.

@lucikka3674

3 жыл бұрын

ayy army!

@mariamharoun5497

3 жыл бұрын

RM😭

@coneyisland5843

3 жыл бұрын

@@lucikka3674 Not really part of Army, but I do like BTS😃

@kaeyaalberich4346

3 жыл бұрын

@@coneyisland5843 yeah cuz namjoon never said that

@coneyisland5843

3 жыл бұрын

@@kaeyaalberich4346 I thought he did...?

Those black children saying how they don't like their own colour broke my heart💔

@number4xiuslunala698

3 жыл бұрын

That sucks seriously

@jollofmuncher

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr :(

@maesithebutterfly841

3 жыл бұрын

@@rotten2thcore damn that sucks for you. hope you come to love yourself one day 🤍

@stevie7255

3 жыл бұрын

@@rotten2thcore brown skin is so beautiful. I hope you’ll be able to see that soon

@darshusam812

3 жыл бұрын

Every colour is beautiful actually the people way of seeing is only wrong 😐🤐😏

"Notice how beauty standards spells out BS. Just a thought" - Me at 3 am

@wolfgirl_adele10

5 күн бұрын

it also stands for "Body Shaming" which means beauty standards=body shaming imo

The Kardashians altered looks are so horrible that it is really bizarre that anyone else would desire it for themselves, anyway. I agree completely, embrace your body with gratitude for what you have!

@whoruntheworldxd

Жыл бұрын

And nicki cardi too

@gabrielaruiz4415

11 ай бұрын

Fr tho

@ymz.hu.3gyt

10 ай бұрын

Bro! Don't get me started on Chloe😂😂😂

The fact that that little girl thought her skin color was "nasty" but couldn't give a reason why 😭

@teaorevic8556

3 жыл бұрын

i died

@ksmax6310

3 жыл бұрын

so sad

@DevilleQueen

3 жыл бұрын

I really almost cried. I wish I could give her a hug and tell her she's beautiful just the way she is.

@marion6584

3 жыл бұрын

It breaks my heart and I just want to give her a hug!

@yutazen_cm1176

3 жыл бұрын

I find it sad too. As a young black girl I used to want to be lighter all the time and, if im being honest, I still do. But thats because I was basically brainwashed into thinking my skin color is ugly disgusting and dirty. Thats something I can't change but now learned how to appreciate my skin color and my natural hair. We should teach the younger generation how to love everything about ourselves. We'll get close to that someday I hope

the part where black kids called themselves ugly broke my heart so much and i can't stop crying now

@welcometoLaska

3 жыл бұрын

Me too I did not expect to cry from this video

@jasmin4947

3 жыл бұрын

Same, it hurt so much to see children being made to believe those things about themselves :'(

@gianna6085

3 жыл бұрын

sameee, the little black girl saying that was sooo sad

@taryndonelson333

3 жыл бұрын

@Emily Parker what do you mean by that?

@gianna6085

3 жыл бұрын

@Emily Parker i didnt reply to you...what are u talking about

I'm 11 Years old and honestly i always feel bad about myself.. I do excersice secretly for flat tummy or curves and also worry about my face features so this has made me realize the impact social media has on us. The worst thing is the fact that almost all the girls at my classroom want an hourglass shape... Bullying doesn't help too, a girl at my classroom was being told bad Things about her body and her BEST FRIENDS just made It worse. Also we gotta have in mind that it's not just girls, boys suffer because of the ideal body.. This made remember When my aunt had anorexia and because of this Everyday she would eat almost nothing, walk like 10 kilometres and do 150 push ups and she actually was already thin so it was really bad for her health and she still felt fat.. ( It was around the 1900's). Let's also not forget about skinny ppl, they are always told "How is it posible you don't like your body? your thin" but being to skinny is also a big insecurity. This world is fucking doomed

@lovelylanafansweetie4240

Жыл бұрын

You’re very smart ❤I wish I had this mindset when I was little

@achilles647

7 ай бұрын

Love, please remember that you're a child. You deserve to have a fun childhood, you don't need to feel sexy or hot. You don't need curves, sweetie. It makes me so so sad to see young kids, especially young girls, be pressured to fit in these awful beauty standards. They get pressured to wear revealing clothes and oversexualise themselves while being kids and they get told that it's "feminism" or "liberation" when the reality is that they're being manipulated. And on top of that, for some fucked up reason they get harassed / bullied when they act their age. Honey, please remember that social media is fake and society will always find a way to hate on women no matter how they look like. If you want to exercise, do, but for yourself. Don't starve yourself nor work out to death just because that's "what you're supposed to do". 🫂🫂🫂

@thepineapple8434

2 ай бұрын

Don‘t worry about the current trend.. in a few years it‘ll change again. We can’t assemble our body parts like clothing. Be the best version of yourself, trust that you’ll grow into the right body for you and find the clothes that make YOU look beautiful according to your frame. We are not machines who all look the same. Love your individuality

@shesloved

Ай бұрын

what you said is healing my eleven-year-old me, thank u. you are beautiful.

I hate modern day beauty standards. I was told all my life my nose was too big, my lips were too big, my eyes were too small, my body was too thin or too fat. I get put down a lot for being an Italian woman, getting many remarks about how my skin should be flawless and tan, how I should have the right curves, how my hair should be blonder and less brown, that I'll never be enough. I was forced to look at these Eurocentric standards, and told to be better. Now I struggle to love myself or think as myself as pretty.

@infohazards

2 ай бұрын

the fact that taylor swift was considered a beauty standard but was still bodyshamed and then years later she revealed she had an eating disorder and multiple times considered or even executed acts of self harm because she hated herself so much is honestly a tragic situation and a perfect example of how these things go.

@abeltesfaye_

3 жыл бұрын

But Taylor still didn't do enough to call out the toxic standards that praised her whiteness. She benefited from society putting her on a pedestal

@amidreaming333

3 жыл бұрын

You can never be beautiful ''enough'' you are either beautiful or not beautiful and the only person that decides it is you.

@obiwanlechihuahua3368

3 жыл бұрын

When she still had her eating disorder, people were saying she was too skinny and had no ass and stuff, but now that she's gained healthy weight, people call her fat. I hate society.

@sjp4u338

3 жыл бұрын

Yes little angel...black is beautiful. You are beautiful. Don’t cry. 🥰💕💖🌷🌺

@baywatcher13

3 жыл бұрын

People are just constantly searching flaws in others to fill the void they have, and to make themselves feel less miserable. How sad it is that they aimed to bring the best artist down, isn't it? Taylor deserves the world

I started crying when that little girl said she is ugly because she is black.

@izzyaddicted965

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, like you are beautiful no matter the color of ur skin

@areeajohnson2729

3 жыл бұрын

YESSSSSSSS ME TOO it's so sad how that was reinforced in her from such a young age

@PoradnikiPanaMietka

3 жыл бұрын

XD

@opiah1514

3 жыл бұрын

@@PoradnikiPanaMietka?

@voicelessbeing

3 жыл бұрын

me too, i literally almost cried out the ocean..

This is true..i remember being so mad at my dad for saying my skin was a slight chocolate moca colour, I insisted that my skin was caramel and glorified being light skin..I also realised how I truly preferred people to call me by my English name "mikayla" because i thought it was pretty and nicer but my actual black cultural name, i didn't quite like because I had an unknown hatered for it. For years I hated the concept of being closer to being my race, I fought so hard to be closer to being Caucasian. I spoke English more, fought to keep my skin light and weight low..I spent more time on Instagram, and other social media platforms that glorified slim thick or skinny European features and that brought so much depression towards me cuz I tried so hard to look like them..be like them. I broke down a little today..because i just realised this

@tessy28

Жыл бұрын

Hope you deleted your Instagram now??

@Venus_3095

9 ай бұрын

Please,black is beautiful and less risk of skin diseases, if someone loves chocolate how can they not love chocolate looking skin.Please love yourself,your special❤

As a 13yr old girl being brought up into this society I’ve been told things like “get skinny” “oh don’t be so sarcastic it’s rude” “wear makeup” “take off the makeup you look Cakey” “don’t wear baggy clothes actually try” “stop trying so hard” women are seen as trends I’m only 13 give me a break.

@brampelberg9335

Жыл бұрын

And it will only get worse

The kardashians even photoshop their children’s bodies on Instagram. It’s horrific. Those poor kids.

@kikilo9647

3 жыл бұрын

Dude Khloe never post her kid without a filter like never and now i'm upset i know them all.

@yeetabix8012

3 жыл бұрын

WOAH MATE THAT'S TOO FAR-

@anamariabola4412

3 жыл бұрын

Damm I didn't know they could stoop that low ...

@AdultThirdCultureKid1971

3 жыл бұрын

I feel for their children, too. Imagine how their children will feel when they get older.

@acia2237

3 жыл бұрын

Sad!😥

Those kids saying that black dolls are ugly broke my heart to pieces !

@dankestswamplord9703

3 жыл бұрын

Same :(

@checkmattee222

3 жыл бұрын

Same😔

@darlyndinora1202

3 жыл бұрын

Same! Broke me too pieces. No one deserves to feel like that.

@fightfannerd2078

3 жыл бұрын

They have ugly features stop lying to yourself

@ferielber485

3 жыл бұрын

@@fightfannerd2078 We have enough issues in this world to be worying about* the opinion of an irrelevant person hiding behind the screen trying to create a debate to get their moment of recognition so please save your comment for a person who asks for it.

The horrible thing is that my mother had to be worried that I had an eating disorder when I was 11. She shouldn't have to be worried about that.

As a filipino and having brown skin is hard for me because of the beauty standards in Asia are so toxic I was always insecure about my skin growing up I always got bullied of my skins and I used bleaching products and now I’m proud of who I am I learned to love my myself the way I am. Always remind yourself to don’t care about what iver thinks about you, you are beautiful just the way you are no need to chance your self just to be liked in social media or in public.

@mau345

9 ай бұрын

Im filipino too with tan skin- tbh thankfully our society is not as bad as other asian countries- look at south korea and a japan, yeesh

listening to that 11 yr old girl say how she doesn’t like looking in the mirror and she feels uncomfortable in her skin makes me so incredibly sad

@jozeys

3 жыл бұрын

As someone around her age it made me sad that people I know probably think the same thing

@scarlettmorris7548

3 жыл бұрын

Litterally when I was 9 I got body shamed and stated starving myself because I thought I was fat

@enlargedmetalrod

3 жыл бұрын

M e

@die503

3 жыл бұрын

well, Im 11 and i had an ed(anorexia) cuz i looked at my sisters social media twice or thrice

@noraouar7394

3 жыл бұрын

im around her age, a few years older, and i'm constantly hating myself and how I look. I've been bullied and body-shamed by people all around. I've done a ton of stuff, gone on water diets, restricted myself, anything to fit in and be that perfect girl. I've even debated suicide more than 6 times on my own, but I was too scared. I weight 156.3 pounds by the way, so am I overweight? Yes. But does my body deserve to be hated on? No. I just don't know what to do anymore...

I was shocked when my little cousin who is 6 years old told everyone on Christmas Eve that she doesn’t want to eat anything because she doesn’t want to be fat and it is ridiculous that we have to live in such a shitty society

@TheMorganVEVO

3 жыл бұрын

I remember saying the exact same thing to my mom when I was in the fifth grade. It’s so sad that we all seem to have the same story in this society. 😔

@areeajohnson2729

3 жыл бұрын

that's so sad I wanna hug her

@rohithpadikkal7082

3 жыл бұрын

Why take her seriously she's only 6.

@KattReen

3 жыл бұрын

@@rohithpadikkal7082 Maybe plug your brain in before you comment. Did you not watch the video? This permeates every facet of society to the point where children are developing an unhealthy relationship to their body and to food, which is something that ONLY leads to suffering, and sometimes death. Why would you not take that seriously?

@voicelessbeing

3 жыл бұрын

OMG NO 😭 i'm crying that's so ridiculous and sad, i hate this society...

This made me cry because I suffer from body image issues and I'm not Caucasian and I always felt ugly because of that. this made me feel better in a sense or rather more aware. thank you for spreading the truth and awareness in this serious but common problem across the globe.

Sad how once you see this video and you start loving yourself but 10 minutes after, you feel insecure again

I started crying when that little girl said she was ugly. She's absolutely beautiful

@lily.9280

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@eimerentillo3085

3 жыл бұрын

same here :(

@Flavv_Sav

3 жыл бұрын

It's probably because of her bullies 😠

@Frogeatingbugs

3 жыл бұрын

I know he’s so cute I’m 11 as well I wish as looked like that she’s not fat like me

@Vicky-yh4pl

3 жыл бұрын

and way to young to have these thoughts.

when the kids were talking about how they think their skin is "dirty" and "to dark" because "white is more beautiful" i almost cried.

@thisishalover

3 жыл бұрын

I cried 😢

@verisimilitude_ptolomea

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I wish that beauty didn’t evolve around skin color, because all shades are beautiful!

@easterislandhead7915

3 жыл бұрын

That little girl who saw herself in the camera and went "I'm so ugly" and the mom went to reassure her, i lost it 😭

@dominique8450

3 жыл бұрын

true

@EstherHulst-Artist

3 жыл бұрын

@@easterislandhead7915 me too I could hold my tears anymore

I think an important part that's missing here is to really question the whole concept that it's important to be beautiful. Don't our bodies serve at least a dozen more important functions than to be pretty to us or anyone else? To keep us alive, to get us to places, to communicate with others, to make a difference in the world, to experience life? Why wouldn't that be enough? Do you cherish your friends or coworkers, family or strangers for their appearance? Or for their patience, their kindness, their humor, their skills,...? Just imagine what the world could look like if we stopped caring about looking beautiful and invested all that time, money and energy into making us and the world better...

@sam_sa09

5 ай бұрын

Well said ❤

@stephannypereira9449

3 ай бұрын

Comentário importante demais para ser ignorado por mim. 😃

This video honestly made me realise how happy I am with who I am. I’m 13 this year and I’m from China. My dad has always wanted me to have natural darker skin because he thinks it resembles that you’re healthy and that you’re exposed to the sun a lot. He always took me out to play and eventually I had a tan skin. I also lived in Fiji at the time so everything was really natural and I got to see the beautiful culture and differences in mannerism. When Covid started I had to go back to China because they had a more advanced medical experience. I stayed there for two years, home schooled and was always on my iPad. Around that time I was really insecure about my body because I saw so many other young girls having a skinny body. I wouldn’t say I was fat, but I was leaning towards that. I also didn’t go to school so i didn’t get to see kids my age and the different body types. I made a workout routine for myself when I was around 11. I gave up soon after that because I didn’t see any “change” after a month. My parents always told me that I am perfect the way I am and right now, I started going to school 5 months ago and it honestly made me feel better about myself. My mum recently told me to enjoy my childhood and to not get a boyfriend too early cause that might ruin my childhood. She told me to eat as much as I want and be confident in myself. I’d say my feeling of acceptance with my body was a pretty big change from a few years ago and I’m living my life and enjoying every moment of it 😊

@f8hmida

10 ай бұрын

Your parents seem lovely. Dw im sure you are beautiful, don’t let toxic beauty standards brainwash you it isnt worth it

I literally teared up when the little girl called herself ugly the mom looked so sad

@ikimingeiarts6946

3 жыл бұрын

100-

@Ana-xd8le

3 жыл бұрын

It was her hairstylist actually but it’s still so sweet!

@missprettyschannel

3 жыл бұрын

bruh it hurt me too.

@Tralfazzz

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, it’s awful what the beauty standard has done, not just to celebrities and models and just really anyone. And you know how bad it’s gotten when a young child thinks she’s ugly because of her skin color. It’s one of the saddest things I’ve seen.

@Ana-xd8le

3 жыл бұрын

@@Tralfazzz it really is

The clip of the black children preferring the white dolls and thinking black skin is ugly is devastating to watch. Really great video.

@lilyy8915

3 жыл бұрын

It was so sad

@KamiKitty1

3 жыл бұрын

This is a series of studies that were conducted and have been recreated multiple times. A quick Google search of the doll experiment should make it come up. I first saw these clips in child development and they're heartbreaking but so important for our understanding of how the media and society is conditioning us

@gachabloodwolfpack9755

3 жыл бұрын

what do you mean really great video like educational great or making kids hate blacks good?!

@Fatima-rz9vt

3 жыл бұрын

@@gachabloodwolfpack9755 educational as in seeing how toxic people are raising children with these insane beauty standards.

@saragh3900

3 жыл бұрын

@@gachabloodwolfpack9755 she said great video to this whole video not that part.

I'm 13 and been super insecure about my self but this made me surprisingly feel better that everything I see on social media isn't real and I should not blame myself for not fitting the beauty standards

@camcam5292

Жыл бұрын

exactly!!! im 14, and honestly just embracing your facial features is so important and just romanticizing them and your body, its really fun just being involve with everything about yourself. Glad you feel better!!

My dad told me: "if you live for others you won't never be happy" Basically, don't listen to the people who says "you're fat" " you're skinny, gain weight " Don't dress up just thinking about what others will think about you, wear what makes you feel good You want to use make-up? Use it You don't want to use make-up? Don't use it Physical Beauty is not forever, but the beauty inside is forever Everyone is beautiful there are just blind people that can't see it If you feel beautiful, you're beautiful If you feel ugly, there will always be people that will think you're beautiful or attractive Have a nice day or night and God bless you =]

@f8hmida

10 ай бұрын

Period

@uptowngirlup3191

Ай бұрын

Thank you

I started CRYING when that little BABY girl looks at her own hands saying “Brown looks really nasty for some reason... but I don’t know what reason.” 😭💔

@nealsl1474

3 жыл бұрын

And the reason was probably cause our society is so messed up, she was born thinking being black is ugly, and the fact she didn’t know either, Is just sad, like I have a black friend, and I’m always looking at her, and all the other black people I see at school and just strangers in general, and I want to look like them, they literally have no right to be so pretty-

@lootleo4022

3 жыл бұрын

One of my sis-in-laws started putting weaves in my little nieces hair when she was two! When my mom took them out when she was staying with her grandparents one summer, my niece was distraught because she said she wouldn’t be pretty without the fake hair.

@jasminestanley5889

3 жыл бұрын

I know, that was the hardest thing to watch.

@Imxel21

3 жыл бұрын

@@whosakiravxb I wouldn’t say white but light skinned/ racially ambiguous/ mixed race.

@bp.stan4ever863

3 жыл бұрын

@@whosakiravxb no never do that you should be proud of yourself for who you are and where you come from💞

When the black kids said their skin color is ugly, my heart just shattered. :(

@jaliaj2244

3 жыл бұрын

Same. It's unbelievably sad:/

@oohmonika6944

3 жыл бұрын

Made me cry my nose hurts for trying to stop myself 😔🥺

@julesbreen6355

3 жыл бұрын

Same black is beautiful. I actually picked a black doll as a kid it was a cabbage patch doll and was my favorite doll because I could give the doll baths and it had this rubber ducky robe. It’s sad that a lot of kids think dark is bad, but really dark is beautiful.

@murambiuafatima5764

3 жыл бұрын

It is a pain that many people have to deal with, even among black people there is still discrimination. Light skinh black see themselfs as better then dark skin, they mock and make them feel bad. Imagine being told that you are ugly because of something you have no control over?

@hannahasfour3767

3 жыл бұрын

OMG IKR

this hit really hard. I was called skinny in elementary, but as soon I was in middle school all I could think about was making body. I was literally spending HOURS doing slim light workouts, and " abs in two weeks" it got so bad I would cry in dressing rooms and cry myself to sleep. after a while, it got better. Looking back, I realized I just hated myself because of the beauty standard.

When I was five, first day of kindergarten (we were lining up to go into class because class hadn’t started yet) I got called fat and ugly. I screamed at them boy who said that saying that I was not fat and ugly. The teacher came out and I got in trouble for being loud and yelling. My excuse was that I was defending my self, I told the teacher what happened. The teacher was rude to me the rest of the day. The boy never got in trouble, me and the boy still hate each other as well. Him calling me fat and ugly made me hate myself, not just other people and/or the internet.

When I was younger I didn't even care how slim barbie was, all I wanted to do was dress her up and turn her bald.

@lennnywoo

3 жыл бұрын

i decapitated them and chopped off their limbs to switch them around with other dolls-

@dolipranmgl1456

3 жыл бұрын

hdhshhshs omgg plss same

@gusmonster59

3 жыл бұрын

Mine raced each other in roller skates (old school ones with metal wheels) down hills. In a field.

@johannyflorentino2689

3 жыл бұрын

But like sammee 😭😭

@omi33

3 жыл бұрын

@@lennnywoo OMG SAME- i used to cut the head off and bury them in the woods!

This video broke my heart. If young girls are calling themselves ugly at such an adolescent age, society needs to change 💜💜

I am white and tbh I always hated how pale I am. I've always hated that I wasn't born mexican, asian, or black because I saw that as beautiful, and to see the little kids saying that being white was "better" and that they were ugly because they're black hurt my heart. No matter what skintone, body type, facial structure, etc you have, you are amazing and beautiful. Also, people find you more attractive based off of personality.

@Ayesha______

Ай бұрын

Exactly. ❤ to you sis

If little girls are crying over being ugly, we know we messed up.

@tobischmidt1715

3 жыл бұрын

@Arkham but it literally does? your appearance has a very large effect on how people treat you.

@Iswofoa

3 жыл бұрын

@Arkham appearance *does* matter, but some people obsess about being pretty (like me). unless its unhealthy, as long as it’s making them feel good, I don’t see anything wrong with beauty as a hobby of sorts. i was raised on the idea that beauty is big eyes blonde hair and tan skin, and since I don’t see that but I do see girls on social media and even my friends, I just constantly feel ugly and self conscious. someone’s going to say “you’re beautiful no matter what” but it doesn’t help. when you wear hoodies and traditionally masculine clothing you’re a freak and when you wear revealing clothes you’re a slut. when you are the way you are you’re annoying or ugly or mean and when you try to change you get called fake. i know it’s unhealthy, but some girls I know hate themselves and constantly compare themselves to each other and celebrities and I do it too. appearance is so complicated. it’s important, but when you obsess over it it’s unhealthy, and it’s hard to draw a line where it becomes unhealthy. im so sorry for how long that is, but I just needed to share my experience for some reason so I hope I didn’t bore you.

@Iswofoa

3 жыл бұрын

@Arkham best response mate

@cecevanfran9836

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!!! THIS WORLD IS MESSED UP!! POOR GIRL!!! 😒TEACH YOUR CHILDREN THAT BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!! 👧🏾👧🏿

@freespiritedblkgurl8049

3 жыл бұрын

@@tobischmidt1715 it shouldn’t but it does. And just cuz it does doesn’t mean it matters cuz people shouldn’t be assholes??? Idiot

I hate how women's body are like trends

@bh6sic565

3 жыл бұрын

THIS!! ^^

@alicjaalvena1120

3 жыл бұрын

its the same with men's body.

@Mimi-ef4mt

3 жыл бұрын

@@alicjaalvena1120 really I have not really noticed can you go into detail a bit more ?

@floofypastel686

3 жыл бұрын

@@alicjaalvena1120 No it's not. Why does everyone have to go "BUT WHAT ABOUT MEN" whenever talking about women's issues. Edit: To all the woke intellectuals in the comments replying to me: I'm not saying men don't experience beauty standards- I'm saying it's not nearly the same thing for them and WE KNOW you're not bringing it up in this discussion because you actually care about men's issues. You're literally proving my point.

@alicjaalvena1120

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mimi-ef4mt well, its a new fairly new thing, because women suffered from this for centuries, but nowadays men became objectified too. media are feeding us with images how perfect men should look, men became a product, just like it was with women for a long, long time. and if you dont match the criteria set by the ideal men image that the media sells us, you're seen as unattractive. there are proofs everywhere, esp on youtube. you can see lots of videos with handsome men, where women objectify him, and comment how handsome he is. perfect male look became a perfect product, desired by women. feminists think we still live in XIX century, but its far from truth. in fact women have much more power on dating market than they used to, they also became financially independent, so market & media recognized them as a consumer group worth reaching.

It’s so heartbreaking seeing people of dark complexions talking about how they don’t even like their own complexion… so much self hate

@alexgomez6723

2 ай бұрын

Boo fucking hoo

the fact that you covered so many of my insecurity sources- this was honestly a breath of fresh air to see someone addressing all this finally. thank you ♥♥

the part with that beautiful little black girl saying she was ugly brought me to tears. society beauty standards are fucked up.

@SuburbanoidMisfit111

3 жыл бұрын

I wanted to reach thru screen and hug that little baby so bad.

@MonRojasOfficial

3 жыл бұрын

saddening, disgusting and cruel..

@Orangecatenergy

3 жыл бұрын

Her mother was so sweet tho. Reminds me of my own mother. But damn, who hurt this child? Let me find them, I just wanna talk 🔪

@theiswithin3649

3 жыл бұрын

So sad 😔😢

@carissanami5824

3 жыл бұрын

ikr she's so pretty 😭

I heard a psychologist say that starving someone is one of the quickest ways to control them. Think about that for a second...

@theoscout9205

3 жыл бұрын

I'd bite whoever tries to do that to me first

@camelopardalis84

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds very logical. Humans are very aware of not getting as much food as they need or even just want and aware of the fact that if they don't eat enough, they simply die sooner or later. And if someone who already has power over you in one way or another and that you have a familial bond with controls your food intake, that's a lot.

@teariesz4103

3 жыл бұрын

exactly !! eating less shuts down ur body slowly so you feel really tired and if someone tells you what to do i feel like it’s the easiest choice

@madelineasmr926

3 жыл бұрын

@@teariesz4103 I used to be a dancer and we were judged so hard by everyone if we gained any weight at all and told we were ugly, etc. I know you try to shake things off like whatever it’s just words but after living in that world for a long time it really scars you and makes you feel so ugly for not being a size 0... when in reality curves are beautiful. We are all beautiful 💖

@madelineasmr926

3 жыл бұрын

@Isn’t she Lovely lol! That’s why you gotta learn to be comfy in your own skin 💖 I started going to therapy and it’s helping a lot

Seeing those children saying black is ugly and stuff was so heartbreaking. I hope they grew up to love themselves

These toxic beauty standards have always affected me so deeply through out my entire life and seeing all of these images in film tv(specifically kdramas) and music made my insecurities run extremely high and forever had me traumatized 😢

"if the world was blind, how many people would you impress?"

@user-rj2ms3pk8i

3 жыл бұрын

no one

@icoolestcapn3452

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-rj2ms3pk8i Felt lmao

@phantomliege

3 жыл бұрын

I would impress no one-

@user-wv6ft4ed9p

3 жыл бұрын

i’m ugly and i act like a bitch so....

@user-wv6ft4ed9p

3 жыл бұрын

@S o p h i a huh? i didn’t even say anything offensive to anyone but myself😮

That tiny little girl who says “I’m ugly” made me cry. Our society if fkd. She said it in a way that she didn’t even register it was a bad thing, just a natural thought that she said out loud. She was beautiful. I hope she feels beautiful today.

@user-jr6pu6hw4q

3 жыл бұрын

oof same :( that broke my heart..

@gnarlyghoul3203

3 жыл бұрын

@Arkham you’re right maddie ziegler is 🤢

@cwazie4ducks

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-jr6pu6hw4q mine too 🥺😭 the modern society is f***ed up!

@user-jr6pu6hw4q

3 жыл бұрын

@@cwazie4ducks it definitely is. glad, that younger people are more aware of many social problems

@ceonewhite9768

3 жыл бұрын

Im so glad the woman doing her hair told her that she was beautiful. Because she was such a pretty little girl. Seeing that kind of self hate at such a young age broke my heart

I come back to this video regularly and it just gets more relevant every time!! The opening line is just *chefs kiss*

Its so nice to finally see a man appreciating and acknowledging the awful beauty standards we have to go through as women (and of course men have standards too) and i think i speak for a lot of people here that we really appreciate you pointing out the harsh reality of this toxic society and making this amazing video

When the little girl said “I just don’t like the way brown looks, it’s just looks really nasty” I legit teared up. The fact that CHILDREN are taught to think that way by society, is absolutely disgusting.

@keijiakaashi9581

2 жыл бұрын

its so normalized that even i hate the colour of my skin and im lighter than her iv always been told that im to dark compared to my brothers who are lightskined and look mix

@stephanielaberge7393

2 жыл бұрын

😭 That cute little girl thought she wasn't beautiful. THAT IS SOOOOO FREAKING WRONG! Society is fucked... Truly fucked up. We are all beautiful, whatever you weight, colour, origin, religion or age. Long live diversity! ❤️

@aleesaonoahu4550

2 жыл бұрын

Very sad.

@aleesaonoahu4550

2 жыл бұрын

This is so strange because as a white woman I think darker women are insanely beautiful. I feel like it’s the media and entertainment industries that do this!

@monicanath4859

2 жыл бұрын

Really well said!

Y’all remember when Megan Fox literally made headlines for having imperfect THUMBS? The way women’s appearances are scrutinized is actually sickening

@98_juno

3 жыл бұрын

didnt people criticize her and hate her for being “too pretty”? I think I read something that people gave bad reviews of Jennifer’s Body because Megan looked so beautiful and killed men in the movie and the feminists were not too happy about that. I forgot the source, but it might of been a youtube video as well tho 🤷‍♀️

@venus_envy

3 жыл бұрын

@@98_juno Why would 'The feminists' be mad about that movie, it's not a perfect movie but it turns a lot of sexist tropes on their head. Then again, a lot of young people claiming to be feminists today wouldn't know real feminism (female liberation) if it led them around the room by their tampon string, so. (speaking as a woman/feminist myself). The third wave/choice "feminism" is a joke. Anyway, nothing wrong with Megan she sounds like a cool lady from her interviews, and she was born with the thumb deformity, no big deal everyone has imperfections to a greater or lesser extent.

@bruhkent6895

3 жыл бұрын

@@venus_envy ok as a feminist what would you recommend who follow third wave feminism to do, since you’re scrutinizing it I’m genuinely curious what you think we could do better.

@alexisk4507

3 жыл бұрын

Also when Emily Ratajkowski was criticized for having a “weird” belly button

@z...03

3 жыл бұрын

@Bia L not everything has to do with patriarchy ffs

Honestly your words are so impactful for all people who are used to hearing what 'the norm' or 'beauty' is all their lives. Thank you for the truth and your influence. ❤️✨

looking at those kids saying their own skin color is ugly is just...heartbreaking.

I HATED watching those girls and boys saying their skin was ugly. But that mother telling her daughter black was beautiful was so heartwarming. We need more mom's like that :)

@wellok3691

3 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure if it was her mother or not, but i do remember her doing the girls hair and the little girl crying from the compliments. It was wonderful either way, to see someone give such love and kindness :)

@robync8059

3 жыл бұрын

yea it's the hair stylist lady but it was so cutee

@poobob6178

3 жыл бұрын

i know, it was so heartwarming i cried a bit. we NEED to show that all skin tones are beautiful.

@scarlett7763

3 жыл бұрын

i think it was her aunt who does hair styling

@malakhaider6167

3 жыл бұрын

It wasn’t her mother

the baby saying to herself "im so ugly" fvcking broke me and then her mother telling her "black is beautiful" made me cry. So sad that really young children think their "ugly" ONLY because of their skin colour. The world sucks bro....

@PP-qi1nk

3 жыл бұрын

Breaks my heart to pieces

@222.v0nDutchess

3 жыл бұрын

That was her hairstylist .. but yea hearing a young child say something like that is extremely sad ..

@7reever

3 жыл бұрын

Babies are mostly influenced by their families as other contacts or influences at that age are rarely present. So I ask myself where does this baby gets this idea from and why does a baby think about looks at all?

@not-ari2760

3 жыл бұрын

It’s kinda of topic but my ma never or even rarely says that i’m pretty, more likely to say i’m too skinny and there’s this one time she says my face looked like sh-t

@sarida2261

3 жыл бұрын

@@not-ari2760 aw I'm sorry to hear that

Thank you very much for this video, I'm an english teacher in France and will show it to my beauty students. I want them to debate about beauty standards (considering it will be their job in the future) and to keep them aware of the dangers of the social medias.

Growing up, I was always proclaimed homely and unprepossesing. I would wear tons of makeup just to get validation and acceptance from others, beauty standards helped me realize that I shouldn't change myself for other people's satisfaction. Everybody is depicted as different then someone else and that is totally okay and shouldn't be used to shame or ridicule against. Thank you for spreading awareness and providing more detail about this issue.❤

You know there's a problem with society when a baby calls themselves ugly. no child is born thinking they are ugly think about that!

@itypethetruthnobshere8975

3 жыл бұрын

Well there are some ugly babies. Not everyone is beautiful

@JoceToyii

3 жыл бұрын

:(

@aura9773

3 жыл бұрын

God the beginning of the video was heart breaking

@ayalacarrizalesvaleria6689

3 жыл бұрын

Fr, when I was 7 I thought I was out of everyone’s league(I’m exaggerating) and when I was 10 multiple ppl started calling me ugly,the next days I started seeing myself different every time I looked in the mirror. I started thinking that maybe everyone thinks that I’m ugly. I thought they didn’t want to have anything to do with me but they were also watching me waiting for me to do a mistake to laugh at me so I started distancing from ppl. Now at 15 I’m diagnosed with both anxiety and social anxiety.

@MStudi0s

3 жыл бұрын

@@ayalacarrizalesvaleria6689 I felt that... ever since I was little I was called ugly for so many years and even at this age, I am 19 now, I still believe I am ugly even though I graduated like 2 years ago.

"why do you think that doll is ugly?" "because she's black" oh honey 💔 what a heart breaking time we live in!

@lemonstarofficial

3 жыл бұрын

300th like

@TheOriginal_Unaleska

3 жыл бұрын

Those videos look like they were from the 80s.

@infinitepoise

3 жыл бұрын

@@lemonstarofficial not the time or the place

@christinetempleton7657

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheOriginal_Unaleska or 60's.

@karma2green379

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheOriginal_Unaleska i watched one with barbies from 2008

This video brought me to tears, thank you for this and being very thorough with it

Im glad to the media doesnt affect me on beauty standarts i love the way i was born and look and im soo happy that im in peace with my self and stupid media wont change that

If little girls call themselves ugly, because of something that they can't change, then that means our society is falling apart

@dorowthy2986

3 жыл бұрын

I want to die I can't live in this society its horrible

@FloraMecha

3 жыл бұрын

@@dorowthy2986 I understand. But trust me, life is worth living once you stop thinking about what others think about you and think about what makes you happy. It's difficult, but it works

@dorowthy2986

3 жыл бұрын

@@FloraMecha but I don't care what others think about me I don't like myself sure I don't care if someone calls me fat but I am fat and im ugly I can't change that

@dorowthy2986

3 жыл бұрын

@@FloraMecha my friends make me happy when im around them I feel safe but if we are in public im too fat and I need to change into something that I can wear without people noticing im fat

@dorowthy2986

3 жыл бұрын

@@FloraMecha so honestly I don't think it will work it might work for everyone else but not me sorry

I almost cried when the little girl called herself ugly. That’s so awful what has the world come to tbh.

@charedits333

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. They think they have to be some certain way just because it is trending..

@mollypeters123

3 жыл бұрын

i started crying aswell

@aevengerr

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@bazejbezak1382

3 жыл бұрын

But caitlan don't cry cause she is white

@calevesque17

3 жыл бұрын

@@bazejbezak1382 that makes no sense. Race has nothing to do with whether you can cry or not.

I watched this video 3 years ago to help with a college assignment on my first semester. Now, I'm in a different country, different university, on my third year, and still struggling with body issues, but I'm proud to say that beauty standards have 0 effect on me. I'm so thankful for your channel because the last few years, I couldve easily fallen victim to all this, but because I had watched this video, I was more aware of the underlying evil that comes with all this

this is the first time today I watch ur vid it's so impressive. The way u appreciate them and the way u let them know about that stupid social media. u have done a fantastic job

It’s a very nice thing to see a man talking about this. When women talk about this we’re delegitimized as being “jealous” or “ugly”. Thank you for being a male ally!

@lotsofuwuenergy3983

3 жыл бұрын

I love his perspective and commentary on the subject, but it's bizarre how women's opinions on the topic of beauty standards (esp since we deal with them the most) are waved off as jealousy, bitterness, and stupid. Whereas a man's commentary is more likely to be seen as insightful and worth giving a listen. Like, tf, what gives?

@noricenojams

3 жыл бұрын

Actually, that’s misogyny. When a woman’s opinion on a topic that concerns woman themselves is delegitimized and not taken serious, and it has to be a man that comes to talk about woman’s body to take their opinion into consideration... that’s completely messed up

@sidestreetreaper4203

3 жыл бұрын

after all, we do live in an imperfect, cruel world that supports sexism, racism and bodyshaming since... ever. To me, that doesn´t even seem to get better. But maybe I´m a little pessimistic

@cockatooinsunglasses7492

3 жыл бұрын

@@noricenojams He’s using his privilege for our benefit to defeat that system of misogyny that was built up. Male suffragists yield their privilege for suffragist causes to help their female counterparts. Now the culture is *less* misogynistic because of the action of not just of the women who confronted the culture, but their male allies as well. Understand the system of power in the privilege it gives to you and use that privilege against the system when necessary. Privilege can be either offensive or defensive.

@yeetabix8012

3 жыл бұрын

IKR

My heart breaks for the children who don’t like their skin color.

@kiarahelen6006

3 жыл бұрын

@@sofiasfae1846 we all have things that we were indoctrinated to hate.

@TheLeah2344

3 жыл бұрын

I hate my skin color because even yo this day dark skin girls are called ugly, masculine, and ghetto.

@lesley-annfenwick

3 жыл бұрын

Same it hurt so much to look at those children saying that.

@kiarahelen6006

3 жыл бұрын

TheLeah2344 your skin is beautiful.

@luciam6928

3 жыл бұрын

At five years old i used to think i was dirty, i used to scrub my skin so hard until it hurt, i felt ugly when i was just a child, it breaks my heart everytime i remember about it, about how i felt like a monster... We need to teach kids to love themselves and not hate on someone elses body

I can't thank you enough for making this video, specially when there are so many toxic videos on youtube talking about how undesirable the woman is if she doesn't fit the beauty standard, talking about weight, habits and all, being super extremists and I get that you have to be as healthy as possible, but I think the way they are doing it is more like shaming and giving wrong ideas about everything that will end up in more unhealthy behaviour. But you did a great job here, very well explained. Thank you!

Thank you for making this. Being a 54 yr old widow, you tend to become invisible. There was a point where I thought about jumping on the botox wagon, but after a consultation I immediately jumped off! I am just going to continue taking care of my skin and not try to morph into something I don't recognize. I have reached that place where I'm quite alright with myself (I have moments of vanity, who doesn't), and if others don't like what they see, they don't have to look. More women should watch this video, than the make up tutorials. Being happy with ones self and learning to let the judgements roll off your back is the best lesson. You have a great day with your handsome self!❤

I feel so bad for the Indian women who were bullied for being dark. The colorism in India is insane. Racism and colorism needs to stop

@iamunique1792

3 жыл бұрын

@@varshinins1574 which india are you living in bro?

@mr_booinyourarea8697

3 жыл бұрын

@@varshinins1574 we aren't racist? We have an entire industry on fairness treatment for so many years. Even celebrities like priyanka chopra came out about being bullied for her skin colour. Hell I've seen my aunt taunt her own daughter for her skin colour and how she should put bleach to make it lighter, even my mom keeps telling me to put bleach when we have parties and shit. I'm glad and happy you haven't seen any colourism in the parts that you live. But it exists and hugely exists. That's why the other person asked which india are you in living in.

@iamunique1792

3 жыл бұрын

@@mr_booinyourarea8697 tysm bro👌❤

@nepenthe_1610

3 жыл бұрын

@@mr_booinyourarea8697 this! Also, love your pfp.

@ThePrryns

3 жыл бұрын

@@varshinins1574 umm yeah but which part of India? North or South? What is your caste? Upper, middle, lower-middle, or low class? What's your skin colour like? Dark like those from the village or fair like Aishwarya Rai? I've been to India and damn they treat fair-skinned Indians differently from the dark ones and the North and South don't get along. If it isn't that bad, why do celebrities promote fair & lovely (priyaka chopra from North and suriya from South promote that shit)........

“A real girl isn’t perfect, and a perfect girl isn’t real” -Harry Styles

@girlypop99

3 жыл бұрын

Hello fellow Harry stan😏😏 are you a directioner ?

@Lilianahhh

3 жыл бұрын

@@girlypop99 yes I am😏

@arpitadutta3471

3 жыл бұрын

Yesss we stan the right person 😌💅

@Lilianahhh

3 жыл бұрын

@@arpitadutta3471 what?

@arpitadutta3471

3 жыл бұрын

@@Lilianahhh mmm😂 sorry I missed the word "Stan"😅

my mental healths been suffering lately because of my body but this made me feel a bit better

This is so sad. Thankfully I never listened to media and only listened to myself. Thank you for spreading awareness. ❤ I would like you to cover things that make you say “holy thats actually pretty messed up.” To spread more awareness if you like ofc! ❤❤

The little kids saying “black is gross for some reason” literally breaks my heart, those are such beautiful children. I hate this world. So disgusting they were made to think that. Beautiful beautiful humans.

@Fareeda212

3 жыл бұрын

@MDshadowgirl _1 omg just shut up

@theonef570

3 жыл бұрын

time stamp?

@theonef570

3 жыл бұрын

@MDshadowgirl _1 Timestamp where the girls said "black is gross for some reason"

@theonef570

3 жыл бұрын

@MDshadowgirl _1 -_- I don't think English is your first language.

@Gtree43

3 жыл бұрын

@@theonef570 3:51

When I was 14, I came home crying bc boys were making fun of my big nose. Instead of telling me I was beautiful and those boys were stupid, my mom said that when I turned 18 I could get it fixed. That has fucked with me for over 20 years. I never “fixed” my nose bc it wasn’t broken, but my self image sure was.

@iamkindofconfused

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, you are so strong! How are you doing now? Your self image?

@RedNucleus42

3 жыл бұрын

@@iamkindofconfused Thank you! Many days I really do feel strong and confident, but of course some days I still hate the mirror. (being almost 40 sure doesn't help with other parts, lol, although getting older truly does make you give WAY less fucks what other people think of you) I will admit that even though I developed pride for my "wicked witch" nose, I still don't love it. But I realized that's ok, I don't have to be in love with every part of me in order to feel valid and attractive as a whole person. Whatever you were born with is just uniquely what makes up the whole of YOU, and the right person will love the entire package, and never gaslight you about the parts you don't love, like my mom and past boyfriends have. When I finally started working on building my own self worth, I ended up with the greatest guy who never gaslights me and is my biggest cheerleader. 💜

@zeosummers3984

3 жыл бұрын

@@RedNucleus42 lol thats a load of bull. everyone has something they don't like about a person. we just learn to only talk about it behind your backs because they would never be strong enough to take it to the face. (so curious about the nose).

@RedNucleus42

3 жыл бұрын

@@zeosummers3984 Wow dude. 🙄

@pooja350

3 жыл бұрын

Heya. I can totally relate mate. If it weren't for my large, high bridge nose, I'd be a solid 8/10 in my eyes. But I'm trying to love myself

Honestly it’s disgusting how beauty standards are affecting children! When I was a child I used to wish I woke up in a different body the “beauty standard” is just so toxic

This video started me on my journey of recognising that I have serious body issues, and I came back to it a year later to watch it properly. I want to thank you for making me realise.

@pernillevilhelmsen5664

Жыл бұрын

I hope you are doing better now. You are strong and beautifull. Please take care of yourself, you are amazing. Love from me

Don’t even get me started on tiktok trends. Ya know....the ones where it’s like “if your nose moves when you speak, your pretty”, or “if you have symmetrical face”. Those trends automatically make young girls like myself insecure about our bodies and faces. Most of the “beauty” standards in society are targeted towards women. I’m not even a teenager yet and I already have so many insecurities.

@anna-matilda7150

3 жыл бұрын

i removed tiktok right after i realiced that i was feeling ugly from it. it's crazy how older girls about 15-20 years old can look at it and not realice how toxic it is. like the trend were you take an oversized shirt and bring it back to show your "hour glass perfekt figur". that was the one that got to me and made me go "whaaaaaat"

@nocturne-memories3629

3 жыл бұрын

Then you should be more careful with what you watch .

@annaschle6628

3 жыл бұрын

You are beautfiul :)

@kenamarie949

3 жыл бұрын

@@nocturne-memories3629 It doesn’t matter what I watch. Anytime there’s a new trend about telling whether you’re pretty or not, it’ll show up on your fyp. That’s how the tiktok algorithm works. If something is trendy, they’ll put it on everyone’s screens. Instead of worrying about what I watch and telling me to be careful, pay attention to the video you’re commenting on. It’s talking about toxic beauty standards on the internet.

@Maria-un9sr

3 жыл бұрын

You are so fkn amazing and beautiful don't let any trend or app tell you otherwise

Those babies saying they were ugly and their skin color is ugly breaks my fucking heart. Wish they could see themselves through others eyes, dark skin is so beautiful. Dark skin has a luminosity that’s so insanely gorgeous. Babies....y’all are STUNNING.

@MissRandomComment

3 жыл бұрын

I know right, this shit makes me angry to the point of crying. I wish I could show darker skinned people through my eyes how beautiful I think they are because they glow, they have a power from within, they're just so damn gorgeous.

@User40919

3 жыл бұрын

All of us either want to be lighter or darker it's sad

@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701

3 жыл бұрын

i think every little girl's pain and feelings are valid esp in this video no matter their race or skin color

@jeongyeon1358

3 жыл бұрын

All skin color are beautiful

@hamdisabra745

3 жыл бұрын

Those clips made me cry

eye opening and powerful. thank you for sharing this message

I have had some bad thoughts and words to and about myself lately and through most of my life, I am not the “beauty standard” but I don’t have to be and neither do all of us! This video was so calming and wonderful! Love for all! ❤❤❤❤

You're not ugly, society is.

@cecevanfran9836

3 жыл бұрын

PERIOD!!!!

@naughtyminx00

3 жыл бұрын

PERIODDD!

@Jason-cl6yp

3 жыл бұрын

Finally, no bts names.

@pracheejha4265

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jason-cl6yp lmao

@cuqid_qx1911

3 жыл бұрын

Aren’t we society? WE ARE ALL UGLY 😼👊😩😳😤😍😍😍