Should I prioritise myself in a relationship?

#mpoomyandbrenden #ourlovejourney #roadto200k
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  • @brendenpraise_
    @brendenpraise_2 жыл бұрын

    Si La!!!

  • @refilwemokone2329

    @refilwemokone2329

    2 жыл бұрын

    Vibe yakho 😂

  • @buhlempungose552

    @buhlempungose552

    2 жыл бұрын

    Re mo 😊!!

  • @VivianKuvare11

    @VivianKuvare11

    2 жыл бұрын

    Location!

  • @anothandomolosi7320

    @anothandomolosi7320

    2 жыл бұрын

    Location 😄📍📍📍

  • @amo_keebine
    @amo_keebine2 жыл бұрын

    Brenden’s honesty is so refreshing and freeing a lot of people right now. We need to stop trying to make our “productive” habits to mirror each other. Let’s try harder to learn what works for us and be true to that.

  • @timbawangu3038

    @timbawangu3038

    2 жыл бұрын

    What I was going to say😊or something similar. He's got good points too🙌

  • @malebomametja2646

    @malebomametja2646

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @amahlemakhaye3315
    @amahlemakhaye33152 жыл бұрын

    “Babe, which concealer is this one” 😂😍

  • @everythingwisani8632

    @everythingwisani8632

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @zamampungose832

    @zamampungose832

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lmao this was adorable 😍😊

  • @elizabethletsoso2558

    @elizabethletsoso2558

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@zamampungose832 Adorable indeed I wonder what colour is that ❤️👌👌👌

  • @daniellegatsi6529

    @daniellegatsi6529

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣

  • @keagileseemise5922

    @keagileseemise5922

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheWinningNadz
    @TheWinningNadz2 жыл бұрын

    I saw this and shouted, "the Ledwabas have posted," my whole family knows my obsession😂

  • @didihighly-favoured7163
    @didihighly-favoured71632 жыл бұрын

    You don't want to make a routine that makes you unhappy. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Routines are seasonal.

  • @benignanivckiie4873

    @benignanivckiie4873

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love this 💕

  • @khumisojulianmompoloki4115
    @khumisojulianmompoloki41152 жыл бұрын

    Joyce Meyer once talked about it saying simply because I pray in the morning doesn't mean I should wake up my partner to do the same, and even the way I pray I shouldnt disturb the other person who wants to rest. I love u guys.

  • @Nandipa83
    @Nandipa832 жыл бұрын

    "If this person never changes would I be okay?" question was my saving grace.

  • @tshepangmokwena8738
    @tshepangmokwena87382 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate Brenden's honestly. I would like to believe he is one of the few people who are okay with being who they are and are okay with being transparent about who they are, which is beautiful, especially for some of use who are getting to that place

  • @khanyisagura4377

    @khanyisagura4377

    2 жыл бұрын

    He is the most genuinely confident person I know on these social media streets. Its admirable to see.

  • @thokongezile5259

    @thokongezile5259

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @nomsa06

    @nomsa06

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love that about him. He’s true to himself, all the time.

  • @zubenathi_mkondo
    @zubenathi_mkondo2 жыл бұрын

    “babe which concealer is this?”🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️

  • @elizabethletsoso2558

    @elizabethletsoso2558

    2 жыл бұрын

    I want to know either babe 💖💖👌👌👌

  • @nandiandtshepo4960
    @nandiandtshepo49602 жыл бұрын

    What Brendan said “You choose stocks based on Potential and a partner from their patterns” lovvveeee it! Loved this!

  • @tebogomolefe
    @tebogomolefe2 жыл бұрын

    "Once you fall inlove with yourself there's very few things that can get you down in life"

  • @duduzilematumba1919
    @duduzilematumba19192 жыл бұрын

    I love how Brenden notices and compliments Mpoomy and notices the small things

  • @mbinaomukuambi2459
    @mbinaomukuambi24592 жыл бұрын

    This is gold and might I add not only for relationships but even for those who are in their singlehood journey. It’s a beautiful practice… 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @_just_nelisa

    @_just_nelisa

    2 жыл бұрын

    True. I've been single for years and I always relate or take gems from their content

  • @wanderingcucamber7082

    @wanderingcucamber7082

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s so true love. I’m single too and this resonates x❤️

  • @tshianzimadzivhandila167
    @tshianzimadzivhandila1672 жыл бұрын

    "I am so much happier when I am being honest with myself". I love how Brendan says its okay to not be what the Gurus say we should be. It's okay to be whoever works for YOU!!!!

  • @benignanivckiie4873

    @benignanivckiie4873

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have been struggling with 5am😜

  • @tshianzimadzivhandila167

    @tshianzimadzivhandila167

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@benignanivckiie4873 I am not a 5am hun.. Like I'd rather sleep late than wake up at 5am..

  • @tinotendamakova5563
    @tinotendamakova55632 жыл бұрын

    Prioritizing myself has been the best thing I did for myself. I used to suffer from depression and that’s because everyone else had to come before me. I was very resentful of others and generally a negative person to be around. My therapist said to me if someone asks you for a billion can you give them. I said to her no I don’t have that money and she said to me yeah you are giving people what you don’t have that’s why you are exhausted. You are not a super human. You are just as important as the people who you want to please

  • @nokuthulatana5653

    @nokuthulatana5653

    2 жыл бұрын

    Can I steal that? Love it

  • @nqobilemkhize8110

    @nqobilemkhize8110

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh my word so profound!!!😍💖❗

  • @seegos

    @seegos

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad you went for therapy, it's the best thing one can do for themselves. People like you give me so much courage.

  • @thuliswaklaas261
    @thuliswaklaas2612 жыл бұрын

    Indeed the stigma of trying to get a routine has put a lot of us under unnecessary pressure😂... Thanks for sharing Brenden

  • @thegifteddr
    @thegifteddr2 жыл бұрын

    “I’m just not that guy” , so honest Brenden. And this gives me so much perspective cause I’ve always wanted my boyfriend to be like me🙆🏽‍♀️🤣

  • @osirohT
    @osirohT2 жыл бұрын

    "You don't want to have a routine that makes you unhappy" and "routines are seasonal" 👊🏾 so true guys

  • @naiyemaipelokgang3387
    @naiyemaipelokgang33872 жыл бұрын

    Brenden Praise, thank you for the masculine transparency, for harnessing a man conversation, in all honesty. God sure means business with you my brother. Soar on. Many should just learn from you

  • @galaletsanglephogole8366
    @galaletsanglephogole83662 жыл бұрын

    "I pour into myself so that I can pour onto others" 👏

  • @matshidisocatherinekomako9150
    @matshidisocatherinekomako91502 жыл бұрын

    My comment to the 21 year old. Choose you. Im 39 and if i was 21 id choose me and books. Trust yourself.

  • @naiyemaipelokgang3387
    @naiyemaipelokgang33872 жыл бұрын

    Mrs Mom you're such a gentle reminder of so much for me and you're radiating Glory momma. Keep on gliding on those wings like eagles'. Rooting for you beautiful ❤️

  • @amymufunda4252
    @amymufunda42522 жыл бұрын

    You choose stocks pased on potential, you choose a partner based on patterns!

  • @elizabethmmapaseka7364
    @elizabethmmapaseka73642 жыл бұрын

    Mphoomy hypes Bren ALLLL the time. Today Bren is out here trying to give her a compliment and she straight up brushed it off and diverted straight to the topic. 🤣🤣🤣😂 Noooo Mrs Mom. #UMUHLE _NTOMBO!!!🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️💣💥

  • @nomfundozungu2859
    @nomfundozungu28592 жыл бұрын

    "You choose a partner based on patterns"...that is so profound and I needed to hear it❤🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @kaonewillie4492
    @kaonewillie44922 жыл бұрын

    Brenden s honesty is top tier. 👌

  • @minkz002
    @minkz0022 жыл бұрын

    To the 21-year-old - please go back home and end that relationship. Just to keep it short and not to ramble too much. You will thank yourself at a later stage in life. It will hurt to let go especially because you are so invested , but babygirl please , you will truly thank yourself later. The right person for you will find you on your path and you will not have to hope they’ll change to be better for you. 🌸

  • @mela_tyibz
    @mela_tyibz2 жыл бұрын

    I died when Brenden asked, "babe which concealer is this one?" love you guys ♥ 😂

  • @didihighly-favoured7163
    @didihighly-favoured71632 жыл бұрын

    I'm clapping for this couple 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 😍

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa062 жыл бұрын

    Mpumi I’m like you - I’m so afraid of marriage because I feel like marriage will strip me away from “me time” because mornings are mine lol 😂. I pray to God for an understanding husband who’ll be happy to do his own thing otherwise I’m going to be unhappy.

  • @timbawangu3038

    @timbawangu3038

    2 жыл бұрын

    I pray you find that one🙏🙏

  • @nomsa06

    @nomsa06

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@timbawangu3038 Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @BerniceMB
    @BerniceMB2 жыл бұрын

    I always enjoy these chats. Always so relatable! “Choose your partner based on patterns!” Loved that!

  • @tlholohelontlele5077
    @tlholohelontlele50772 жыл бұрын

    "You don't want to build a routine that makes you unhappy" ....i felt that🙌🙌

  • @mpho8728
    @mpho87282 жыл бұрын

    This was beautiful, Brenden highlighted the important part about routine. “Do what works for you”🥺

  • @michellenhove2244
    @michellenhove22442 жыл бұрын

    This is so insightful. Prioritising myself is also having a morning and night routine, skincare, cleaning, meal preps etc

  • @bongiwekubheka2965
    @bongiwekubheka29652 жыл бұрын

    Eish......... Patterns!! 🤒 My temperature just went high. We Jesu he makes me a better person. God please give us wisdom as women to not put ourselves last in relationships.

  • @buyisilemohale2881
    @buyisilemohale28812 жыл бұрын

    This is so good! Because at times you become somewhat grumpy Because your spouse doesn't do what you deem couples should do together! My husband is NOT a morning person and just like Brenden,he prefers his coffee/jogging and good music then all other things can come...hearing Brenden say this has kind of opened my eyes that I should accept how making HIMSELF a priority looks like...thank you for this topic

  • @celinethomas3168
    @celinethomas31682 жыл бұрын

    When someone shows you who they are,believe them!✨

  • @matshabellomonageng3841
    @matshabellomonageng38412 жыл бұрын

    'God help me discover what my thing is'

  • @karabomolobela7955
    @karabomolobela79552 жыл бұрын

    Aiii this was interesting hey. Especially about routines. Lol I am soo not a morning person and been struggling with being a 5am club lol but ever since I left my 8 to 5 job. I have become such a morning person but I think it's like you guy say the stage of the life I'm at now. Because I've found it to be much more beneficial for me to wake up at 5 and pray 6am start cleaning the house. While the kids are still asleep. Haven't been consistent with it past few days and I see that it's struggle if I have to clean the house when the little ones are up. Thank you soo always sharing your stories with us. And @brenden I felt you brother when you said date nights haven't been happening in a while. Same here. We will fix this and @mpoomy I'm also not a nice person when I didn't start my day with Jesus😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @salizwacamagu
    @salizwacamagu2 жыл бұрын

    "You choose a partner based on their patterns" not potential. Wow.

  • @BuhleN20
    @BuhleN202 жыл бұрын

    This has helped me so much with my studies, I’ve been pouring so much into my work, sacrificing time with myself, friends and family, that I’ve been miserable and starting to hate what I’m doing. So I’m going to start prioritising myself, my loved ones and get a routine going.

  • @tshifs
    @tshifs2 жыл бұрын

    #Marriage is not therapy. What did not work when you were dating only gets magnified in marriage.

  • @wanderingcucamber7082

    @wanderingcucamber7082

    2 жыл бұрын

    ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

  • @thembiesiyy

    @thembiesiyy

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @mela_tyibz
    @mela_tyibz2 жыл бұрын

    All I'm getting from this is be you for the right reasons. Gravitate towards your truest form of self, fill up however so you can be the best to the next person!!! Urggggg thank you!

  • @shupiwevakaira9470
    @shupiwevakaira94702 жыл бұрын

    I just love how timely this came for me as an individual, thank you guys... Love you guys, too much Wisdom there! ♥️🇿🇲

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa062 жыл бұрын

    Not sure if you have a video that’s existing, but I’d love a “go shopping with Mpoomy” because I absolutely LOVE your outfits Hawemah 🙀😍.

  • @Syndzz

    @Syndzz

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh yess!!! Brilliant idea!

  • @seegos

    @seegos

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mpoomy's fashion sense is my kinda style.

  • @anointedchosen141
    @anointedchosen1412 жыл бұрын

    Brenden is dropping nuggets , I love what he says about get to know yourself and do what makes you feel alive.

  • @lerato_moahloli
    @lerato_moahloli2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love this podcast… Thank you for these gems… 🙏🏽❤️

  • @OratileMatlholwa
    @OratileMatlholwa2 жыл бұрын

    In love with this series! Thank you so much! So insightful.

  • @mbalingwenya559
    @mbalingwenya5592 жыл бұрын

    So much wisdom , I truly enjoy this channel.

  • @veebee0115
    @veebee01152 жыл бұрын

    Mpoomy and Brenden you're both amazing souls.

  • @_just_nelisa
    @_just_nelisa2 жыл бұрын

    Morning made! This episode was everything. Can't wait for the next!

  • @nomkhulekongubane8554
    @nomkhulekongubane85542 жыл бұрын

    I love how you talk about loving oneself! It’s soo important!

  • @thokongezile5259
    @thokongezile52592 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this I like how honest Brenden is about morning routine

  • @amaliaiita3329
    @amaliaiita33292 жыл бұрын

    I love this❤ I appreciate Brenden's honestly. Be your self always

  • @monkinhlapo9351
    @monkinhlapo93512 жыл бұрын

    Brenden always dropping wisdom and honesty 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @noziphogwala7686
    @noziphogwala76862 жыл бұрын

    mpoomy and brendan-thax alot guys for the work you do.. craving for more content

  • @okuhlempisane4012
    @okuhlempisane40122 жыл бұрын

    Notification gang, what a great way to start off the week!! thank you Mrs.Mom 🥳

  • @malagwarube8973
    @malagwarube89732 жыл бұрын

    This was really good! Brenden said a mouthful!!! Mpoomy, you look amazing with that hair!

  • @malethaboskhosana2001
    @malethaboskhosana20012 жыл бұрын

    Brenden's honesty 🔥 Thank you 🙌🏽

  • @phumliledlamini9406
    @phumliledlamini94062 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys❤️. Thank you for being open with your relationship. God continue blessing you

  • @hlengiwepriscagasa4523
    @hlengiwepriscagasa45232 жыл бұрын

    When Brendan said 'At the end of the day you dont want to build a routine that makes you unhappy' I felt it

  • @siphesihlemyeni3571
    @siphesihlemyeni35712 жыл бұрын

    Loved everything about this!! Thank you so much. Wish I could like this a hundred times. Thank you Ledwabas 🙏🏼

  • @thandomanzini6686
    @thandomanzini66862 жыл бұрын

    I looove your guys' honesty!! 👏👏

  • @Irene4306
    @Irene43062 жыл бұрын

    Brendan is a well of wisdom! Thank you both! I really enjoyed this!

  • @sarahmatsobane
    @sarahmatsobane2 жыл бұрын

    @Brenden the wisdom you possess is out of this world 🔥

  • @moses782
    @moses7822 жыл бұрын

    Brenden being open and honest, love your character Man!!!

  • @andilemthethwa7535
    @andilemthethwa75352 жыл бұрын

    I didn't know I need this. I love you guys❤️.

  • @SbahleMkhize
    @SbahleMkhize2 жыл бұрын

    This was so good!!!!🤌🏾🤌🏾😍😍 the power of loving yourself has truly changed my life.

  • @judy-et1vm
    @judy-et1vm2 жыл бұрын

    Awwwww! Can't get enough of you.your just blessed.keep on educating and empowering us.

  • @nomkhosimchunu4744
    @nomkhosimchunu47442 жыл бұрын

    Love this and damn I love Brenden's honesty. It trully is freeing a lot of people because we begin to think there's something wrong with us if a routine or "gurus" say this is the way and it doesn't work with us especially when we know our hearts are in the right place

  • @evelynmaseko3896
    @evelynmaseko38962 жыл бұрын

    This is lovely, I actually learned a few things..... What's important is that happiness starts with you

  • @kholofelomakhafola847
    @kholofelomakhafola8472 жыл бұрын

    ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!!! Love, love, lllove you guys!!! Thank you for this 💖

  • @nehepomupuma5682
    @nehepomupuma56822 жыл бұрын

    Good morning, wow this was beautiful to watch, so much wisdom and a lot to learn from the both you. Your content is relatable and your honesty is great.

  • @nonkanyisondlovu5069
    @nonkanyisondlovu50692 жыл бұрын

    Learning something new in every episode. Thank you

  • @nelzg5819
    @nelzg58192 жыл бұрын

    This podcast is such a pleasure to watch. The transparency and sharing of helpful info. Wish there could be another 1. Thanks fam😇

  • @kundaipatson1771
    @kundaipatson17712 жыл бұрын

    Thank you guys for sharing yourselves with us, your content has made me a better person❤️❤️

  • @mphotoniamosotho3545
    @mphotoniamosotho35452 жыл бұрын

    This conversation was meant for me!!! I feel like it's the added push I needed.

  • @thandekamlangeni5341
    @thandekamlangeni53412 жыл бұрын

    Kept loudly agreeing with you, I forgot I am in the office with people around. Great job!

  • @bulelwasilwana1250
    @bulelwasilwana12502 жыл бұрын

    You guys have unpacked a lot. I love how your podcasts always make me reflect on my own life. It’s my birthday this month and I always review my goals on my birthday and what you guys touched on about routine and what works for each of you really helped me reflect.

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi2 жыл бұрын

    Love the quote🙌🏾 also true that once you fall in love with yourself, how you feel about yourself doesn’t change based on anything external

  • @refilwemokone2329
    @refilwemokone23292 жыл бұрын

    "I have my Jesus in the morning "❤️❤️

  • @senamilekhumalo1651
    @senamilekhumalo16512 жыл бұрын

    I’m 20, and learning more lessons from your channel. Thankyou ❤️

  • @tidodlamini
    @tidodlamini2 жыл бұрын

    Had To Listen To This More Than Once And Woah🔥 It Touches So Many Facets and I Relate To Almost All of Them. Loved It So Much. Thank You For Sharing Your Wisdom Guys.

  • @seipatistomberg1091
    @seipatistomberg10912 жыл бұрын

    Such wisdom in both Mpoomy and Brenden. Shuu!!❤❤

  • @nkosinathinkosi949
    @nkosinathinkosi9492 жыл бұрын

    This topic has landed yazin, it just became so loud and it hit home. Thank you for the awesome show

  • @michaelalyn4265
    @michaelalyn42652 жыл бұрын

    my brother recommended this channel to me and meeeeehn I am loving both of you. 🇺🇬

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu2 жыл бұрын

    Brenden was on fire there🔥 always love the conversations you guys have on your platforms ❤️

  • @leonardkondowe4425
    @leonardkondowe44252 жыл бұрын

    There is so much practical wisdom and very applicable. Thank you guys and may God bless you 🙏

  • @asandagomba6504
    @asandagomba65042 жыл бұрын

    💃💃💃Notification gang 💖🎀what a way to start my week this podcast spoke to me in so many ways I'm in a journey of loving myself I just love you guys so much 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥you're just spitting facts❤️🙌🏾

  • @gracehlatshwayo2789
    @gracehlatshwayo27892 жыл бұрын

    Brenden's honesty👌👌

  • @seegos
    @seegos2 жыл бұрын

    I love the rawness of this conversation, unfiltered, just as is. 😍😍😍😍😍 I learned do much, thanks guys💞

  • @queenlilly_violinist
    @queenlilly_violinist2 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I really needed to hear this especially as a young married woman and mommy to be. Thank you so much Mpoomy and Brenden for this conversation, love it! 😊🙏

  • @tshepangmokwena8738
    @tshepangmokwena87382 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful on all levels. Truly words to ponder upon. I keep reflecting on my relationship with my partner.🙂❤💞

  • @naiyemaipelokgang3387
    @naiyemaipelokgang33872 жыл бұрын

    My cup is surely overflowing with wisdom. I feel fueled for the week and ahead in as much as my mind and soul are concerned. I treasure knowledge and quality kind of knowledge just does it for me, I can never be fully informed but I honestly appreciate authentic gestures like you guys do, having access to such information for me is a surreal privilege. Thank you guys. May God continue to pour more into your cups

  • @moagabosatekge6734
    @moagabosatekge67342 жыл бұрын

    Brenden came in with wisdom, wow that "even if u don't change " AMEN

  • @pumzamlondi8538
    @pumzamlondi85382 жыл бұрын

    Brenden's advise is spot on! Hoping someone will change leads to disappointment and resentment.

  • @charitymbokazi3829
    @charitymbokazi38292 жыл бұрын

    The wisdom here, the positive impact on our lives happy wisdom Monday 🍾

  • @SIMPLYBASSIE
    @SIMPLYBASSIE2 жыл бұрын

    Road to 200K subbies🎉🎉🎉🥂so proud of you Mrs Mom you inspire me a lot🙏 I love your family 💗

  • @katlegohlongwane8068
    @katlegohlongwane80682 жыл бұрын

    You’ll are a powerhouse, so much wisdom for your age, God at work🙌🏿

  • @PurpleAngel1550
    @PurpleAngel15502 жыл бұрын

    A minute in and I hear Brenden just full on appreciate how snacky Mrs Mom looks ♥️ love to see it 🙌🏾🥰