It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat. This quote humbled me. Before I say anything I always think about this.

@MpoomyLedwaba

2 жыл бұрын

yes!!! me too, thank you for sharing

@thandomokaulezi8077

2 жыл бұрын

Sjoe! This is sooooooo deep and beautiful! Thank you for sharing🙏🏽! ❤️

Imagine if Mpoomy didn’t listen to that voice that said leave the classroom, I called you to be more than that..just imagine if she didn’t listen to that voice..just imagine if she chose to be an accountant..just imagine..we would have missed out on this..We thank God for that

@chiozyahephzibahsakala1041

2 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭iyoh

@adeysalvado9509

2 жыл бұрын

Wena🤞🏾

@tumi2247

2 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@lindamacingwana3385

2 жыл бұрын

Bro, we thank Mrs Mom❤️❤️❤️

“Relationship boundaries is respecting someone’s purity in the things that matter to them” 🔥 ~Mpoomy Ledwaba

It's the fact that I am 19 but I am obsessed with this segment of your channel.😭🤣❤

@keepingupwithmarilynmonros2976

2 жыл бұрын

You'll view life positively. ❤

@n_t_a_n_d_o_

2 жыл бұрын

You not alone

@universewonders.

2 жыл бұрын

We're here together

@nyeletistarnn9390

2 жыл бұрын

You are going the right direction 👏🏾👏🏾

@thegoodgirl4897

2 жыл бұрын

Jonga💃we're here for it😊😁

Mondays are okay Starting a new week with new perspectives is much better❤️🔥

@MpoomyLedwaba

2 жыл бұрын

thank you, got you!!

@_nceba__

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with you Charlene ❣️

Today's podcast really hit a nerve, not having boundaries really caused me not to live in my purpose. Thank you so much this info🙏

I love how Brenden will always bring humor into thee most deep conversation and it's so beautiful how it brings this sort of balance to Mpoomy' seriousness. You are beautiful and yes this conversation is necessary. We allow so much disrespect and hurt in our lives when we don't have boundaries, sort of feels like we give people the power to do whatever they want with us, so unhealthy.

The topic about not criticising reminds me of Proverbs 21:23 Guard your words, mind what you say and you will keep yourself out of trouble. And Eph 4: 29 let no corrupt talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. Thanks guys

We are at 199K🎉🎉🎉🎉road to 200K🍾🥂

@MpoomyLedwaba

2 жыл бұрын

woop woop

@tino_chihwayi

2 жыл бұрын

Im Soo excited too...!!!

It is really a privilege to be a teenager in this dispensation! It's people like Brandon and Mpoomy who make our lives much more easier and blissful! We know why we exist and are thriving in purpose! We are in successful relationships! Life is amazing❤️

This podcast was absolutely brilliant. By far the most thought provoking for me. Mainly because it forced me to look within myself and consider whether I've respected other people's boundaries as I've expected them to respect mine. I will definitely pray about this and ponder on it some more because it's very important. Thank you Mpoomy and Brenden.

Boundaries yes 😭, so many gifts has been destroyed because of not setting boundaries. I so wish this video can be watched by millions of people. The Ledwaba family is helping a lot in this Nation 🙏🏾.

Hahaha couldn’t sleep without watching this 2am in Australia and have been waiting for the notification

@MpoomyLedwaba

2 жыл бұрын

ahhh thank you :)

Absolutely true! I DMed Brenden and he replied. I was so shocked. I always admire his humility and when he replied I was shocked. I honestly didn't think he'd respond. Just grateful it was an admiration DM.

😂😂😂💔the ending tho “Where are they tho” They are around I wish them happy birthday 😂😂I love you guys

I wish people would apply the primary school principle of “ if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all”. I don’t think people realise that behind big platforms and stardoms are human beings who also need to be treated with kindness 🥺

@smangamtsweni2577

2 жыл бұрын

Well said sis❤️

@mirriamambiyo9706

2 жыл бұрын

Actually this is true. It's not mandatory for you to leave a comment.

It absolutely infuriates me when people think that my boundaries are up for discussion or can be negotiated, especially in personal relationships. A lot of the time people want your boundaries to make sense to them and if they don’t, then they don’t respect them and that’s very unfair. I try to respect peoples boundaries even if I don’t understand them because what I do understand is that people set boundaries to protect themselves from something. Crossing those boundaries is actually a violation and it just screams you don’t actually care about this person. I’d like to think that if you truly care about someone and respect them, then you will respect their boundaries regardless of how they make you feel. Your discomfort does not make their boundaries “wrong”.

@bernicebaafi5056

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 😊

Mondays are perfect, starting a new week with new perspectives sets the right tone❤️❤️

Yho nina. You guys are so wise. I love how your podcasts encourage self-growth. I absolutely love that about you two.

@MpoomyLedwaba

2 жыл бұрын

thank you Yolisa ;)

Actually never thought of disliking a video, if it's not the type of content I like, I usually stop the video ♥️♥️♥️

From my youth I had male friends and when I got married, they released me to my husband. It didn't make sense to me I thought they don't like my company anymore but now it makes sense my husband is my friend.

Wow what a great podcast again, I’ve learned in my early thirties and 15 years in a marriage that boundaries are needed and now you guys just confirmed that as people you make boundaries and also take responsibility and to respect other people boundaries and again if the is no boundaries from both sides it’s a 💥 to explored . And also as couples I’ve learned from now to respect each other’s boundaries and purity very important. And again if someone crosses those boundaries, which it depends who’s crossing the boundaries but usually the people or person who does that they don’t know you or they have a lot to say but no solution and impregnated bad intentions in their entire life. So wow again continue guys with what you’re doing .

"Your Intuition Is The Holy Spirit"❤ I felt that Brenden

Not me singing the intro the moment I saw the notification yes I’m excited

@MpoomyLedwaba

2 жыл бұрын

hahah

I love what you Brenden is saying on personal boundaries particularly on ones purpose being know by you! Profound!

I was thinking about this actually when people when criticising Lasziwe. I doubt any of them contributed R10 to the initiative but they all of a sudden wanted to know where the money went. I guess it’s true when they say you can’t make everyone happy and that’s okay.

Loved loved loved this episode. Just today my therapist was talking about boundaries and you guys uploaded it. Thank you ❤️

Absolutely love the wisdom you share with us…. It’s chilled but hits home 🙏🏽

Y'all are such a blessing! So much wisdom!

Thank you once again Mrs Mom and Bra Brenddy !

Thank you, I am soo loving this

So relatable and true .Thank you so much for this 💓

These episodes are God sent !

Y'all this channel is the healthiest I have subscribed to so far. I love y'all ❤.

I'm back to watch again because the gems here...spoke to my soul.

Wow guys I can't thank you enough for this truth🙌 I'm at a point where I'd rather keep quiet when I have nothing positive to say because I've come to realise from my personal life experiences that people have a lot to say, to blame and or judge when they don't know, understand or never experienced a situation. And because of that I am more mindful of what and how I do or say things towards other people. My colleague shared something with me the other day and she added that she feels down, but feels guilty about and I simply gave her a hug and told her "girl you don't owe any of us an explanation after all you're the only one that understands exactly what you going through, cry if you feel like it and don't be bothered by what we'll say cos we talking from a place of not knowing, you're not crazy"

This has to be my most favorite episode. So much growth and wisdom!

Monday is a perfect day.. Beginning the week on some deep wisdom..

"You can't go up by pulling someone down" Wow, guys this is so true 💞💞💞💞💞💞 Thanks for the great video guys.

All the wisdom bombs today! Shu! 🔥🔥🔥

so much appriciated ...thank you guys for sharing with us..lots of love

I appreciate the length of this video. Thank you Mrs Mom and Brenden for sharing divine insight. Your mistakes were necessary in order to help people like us realize the things we do to other people. This, like any podcast spoke in high volumes!!!

Yoh this was amazing. Especially the personal boundary, thank you Mpoomy and Brenden 👏🏼

I just love how you guys are able to add to each other's points in every conversation. I think it's great and it makes the conversation very well round even for the listener. And yoh, that nugget on personal boundaries was gold, thank you guys.

what I'm saying is not affirming what you believe! guys I'm telling you, when Brenden speaks listen tentatively. Soo wise

Sheesh Brendan wow, wow, wow, you have said it all and above, I have been talking about such boundaries when it comes to personal life, so much wisdom, love you guys ❤️👌🏾

So true 💯 Thank you guys.

The "rents" didn't come to play today! Thank you for lovingly sharing your passion& rebuke..I needed to hear it. Ironically I am also reading all the Boundaries books by Dr. Henry and I had not come to a place to point the torch within my own heart. Sometimes we are passive aggressive with our beloved youtubers as if they owe us the entire world except their passion & purpose. Thank you for always sharing. I listen off Spotify podcast and always enjoy replaying here on KZread! Godspeed & keep on keeping on!!

You are absolutely right Brenden, often times when people ask for advice they just need an affirmation that someone out there believes in their idea, Hence it is very important to pay attention when a person speak

And they don't disappoint 😍😍😍💃💃💃the wisdom in here ❤❤

Best episode. Thank you so much guys. I really needed this. It's really an eye opener, it's true that we tend to not respect people's boundaries and ours as well. "Do unto others what you will like to be done to you ". Thank you so much for this episode, much appreciated.

Thank you so much , I needed this❤

This is really deep and that's true we living in a world where by people have so much say in other peoples lives.

This is literally the 1st time I comment and ya'll really helped me I've been depressed for the longest time and I'm only 19 and still in high school I'm supposed to be going to metric next year and I've decided to take the other direction because God has been showing me what my perpose is and my family thinks I'm crazy but when someone is not in your shoes they'll never understand why I'm doing what I'm doing

Definitely liked that it's not happening at the end. When you know you know. I like the realness and rawness of this video

So much wisdom!!

Brenden is so passionate about the critics, I hear it and see it in his demeanor and I understand his frustration. People project their own limitations and faults onto others.

Mondays are okay for me, ENJOYED this.

I seriously love how wise you guys are. Everytime I listen to these podcasts I feel better from what I was going through, all I can see is God from the wisdom you guys portray. Please keep making these podcasts. They are healing and I personally looove them🤗.

I love u guys ,so much wisdom it shows u have a helper,advocate,comforter and a guide 💖

Thank you guys, this really calls for an introspection to an individual ❤️ i love you guys, May the Lord continue using y'all and May he bless y'all abundantly🙌😊.

The personal boundaries for me hit the right spot. 🔥 I'm learning to follow my heart and not be so focused on people's opinions (mostly family) this has just catapulted me even more. I know if I'm not going against God whatever I taken on that's on the inside of my heart will bring fruit, after all his the one who places the desire in the first place 💃🏾❤️

Yho this video is timely.Thank you so much guys.God bless you.

This couple is literally a vibe ey 😂😂 it was a serious talk but the ending was just jolly and cute and that's the balance you guys have ❤️

Absolutely loved this podcast. People will always have something to say, positive or negative. Thank you so much for such an insightful conversation. Sometimes it can be such a challenge to set out personal boundaries, because I focus more on other people and how they will feel.

Just finished watching,great information thank you guys. Much love

This is so encouraging. Blessings upon yall 🙂

i am so in love with your Podcasts yhuu. i love you guys.

I loved every minute of this podcast, it was very real and relevant to the times we are living in 👌🏾

What you said is really true on people commenting bad and clicking the unlike button. You know in this point in time, some people are just waiting to bash your dreams and visions. Before you even say them out, they would have already planned on what to say. Spotless vidoes can have unnecessary 1000 unlikes. If you say everything right, they will check what you're putting on. they will always find fault. Yet everyone is aware of what kills people inside. Everyone knows that if you say something negative to someone in the midst of many good comments, that one negative thing can drag their confidence down . The world is now so evil that before you say anything, someone already dislikes it . If people could love and consider one another, the world would be a better place to live. Negative energy sucks 🚮🚮. All is based on the hearts of men because a person filled with the love of God can never say things however without thinking 🤔 how others would feel.

From 23:06 LMAO, had me in tears...Appreciate you two.

Wow this podcast spoke to me directly and I know it's not a coincidence. God has many ways of communicating with us at our cross roads. Thank you guys for sharing

We live in a world that is full of offended and bitter people where people actually have no regard for someone else’s life.We feel the need to comment and give our opinions on everything where it’s actually not needed or necessary. Jesus Himself had critics but He kept it moving and He actually had boundaries.He mingled with the crowd but they didn’t sit at His table to eat with Him so boundaries are so key.

Totally loved this topic ~ Y'all broke it down so beautifully

I love how you recognize and learn from your mistakes mpoomy. We indeed have to call ourselves out. Thank you so much, you guys. God speaks through you.

Thank you so much guys I have learned a lot... I never had formalization of boundaries or took them seriously but I see this in a different perspective now. I like it when you explain with examples of what happens in your daily life... like when Mpoomy makes an e.g tweeting about Justin... It's really great to know that I am listening to people who practice what they preach. thank you😙

This is so informative fam! Thank you so much for sharing this with us ❤️❤️

You guys you are thee best full stop.

The way I cromp to the intro 😅 I love it. This was too good, so necessary and a good reminder to us all to respect ourselves and others in all forms of relationships. I wish everyone on the socials would see this because social media has become a comfortable place to disrespect people you don’t know and be unkind, so not cool but thank you for this amazing episode. You’ll literally lose yourself if not your mind as well without boundaries. I think people celebrate other people’s failures because it makes them feel better about their own failures or worse because they not even trying to do better for themselves, which is sad and not human at all. Thank you guys! ❤️❤️

Thank you for this❤ great content.

Loved this episode 😭❤️. Love you guys❤️

Boundaries are really very important and more often than not they come with a lot of resistance and people questioning your character and how you have changed simply because the boundaries you have set for yourself don’t sit well with them… With this social media era it often said that once you put something out there you invite opinions, but my stance is this: If your opinion is malicious, it doesn’t offer growth or is just plain mean then you lose nothing by just scrolling by and not typing anything instead of taking it upon yourself to be mean. You lose nothing at all… Thank you for this🙏🏽♥️

Really thought-provoking. It's the conversation that we aren't having. Thank you guys for sharing it in such a laid back way but with the required impact.

I read a book on boundaries and it completely changed my perspective on the topic. Boundaries are not walls, but rather fences or gates to prevent irrelevant things from coming into your space. No one should barge into your home without permission. Great conversation here.

Mondays are okay. Starting a new week with something to look forward to. Love from Namibia ♥️

Such great conversation. I love how you guys can call each other out when the other person does something wrong without getting defensive. We are learning. Thank you guys 🙏

Thank you so much for this Mpoomy and Brenden, so informative 🙏

I can't tell how much you have changed me in how I perceve things, yazi everytime I feel down,incapable,negative,I just go straight to this channel . Yazi u've grown me,naturally I am non forgiving person but uve changed me. Big up guys. I love you.

thank you guys l really needed this much love

I needed to hear this i related in terms of work boundaries

We appreciate you guys so much❤

This is amazing, I would really love for you guys to talk about the power of reflecting on one self and how it affects your marrage in one of your topic.

Wooooohooo loving this as always 😊❤

This is the first of your podcasts I've watched, I completely enjoyed it and might binge watch a couple more over the the weekend. Thank you from Zambia 🇿🇲

Monday is good.Thank you so much, I am learning quite a lot.

I really need to practice this, honestly I just let things slide n mess me up...I've been saying i am setting boundaries but never really practice. Great topic 🙏🏽

First time I am this early to the channel(first 30😅).The discussion on boundaries resonated with for so many reasons 🙌

I love this! As an upcoming content creator sometimes I fear doing what I love because of the criticism I'll get. 💕

I can really tell how passionate Brendan is about this topic wow lol, I feel his energy through the screen. But on a serious note, I agree guys.

I love your content guys, and Mpoomy I love you sooo much ❤️❤️❤️❤️