It's amazing how Brendan has become such a phenomenal speaker he used to hold back a lot in the beginning when he started visiting Mpumy's channel now he's unpacking a lot I love it.

@missm518

2 жыл бұрын

True he's a phenomenal speaker. It's usually the ones who hold back who have alot more to share. I'm happy he grew into himself so authentically

@shambyprincess3688

2 жыл бұрын

Right!!

@LethoHali

2 жыл бұрын

KZread is like that. First time behind the camera we hold back and are self conscious about our views and how they will be met but then as time goes we relax and become mostly ourselves 😁.

@cebisilemabaso8445

2 жыл бұрын

Very true. He is comfortable and we'll spoken now

@gabimthombothi4604

2 жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree with you more, he used to be shy and Mpoomy would prompt him to talk, look at him now he can hold it down

Yey we in there!!!

@dimphokumeke337

2 жыл бұрын

Heey Brenden, we please have the name of the book pleaase

Really love how Brenden respects people’s ideas and decisions it’s a very rare trait. Goes back to boundaries - love it!

@andybizzle4376

2 жыл бұрын

I love that as well, and I believe it is another way of showing your support.

@gugukhumalo9313

2 жыл бұрын

It's so commendable and rare.

@santjiemashilwane4551

2 жыл бұрын

He let's people be..he's accepting people for who they really. I really like that it's very rare

@linomthagabada6846

Жыл бұрын

@@gugukhumalo9313 right? ❤

So much wisdom, I like how Brenden unpacks everything. "I only give advice when asked " "My goal is to manage how I think " Powerful

@lebogangnbeautyimage9539

2 жыл бұрын

Ey he’s so wise yaz😭🔥

@ayandazondani8057

2 жыл бұрын

Brenden has brains so much wisdom

@sayyamzahid7312

2 жыл бұрын

Chris Kyle

Brenden always making great points with such a profound impact. ⭐️

@analysialuke7096

2 жыл бұрын

Yesh

@nthabisengpetsa1710

2 жыл бұрын

Always!

@kholofeloteffo6250

2 жыл бұрын

Breden is just wise

Brenden is so full of wisdom. We appreciate you Mr✨

@esmeraldathembekamhlongo6568

2 жыл бұрын

So true.

Brandon is verbally agile

@lebogangnbeautyimage9539

2 жыл бұрын

Very much so hey

"Choose your relationship over your pride" I need to put this up on my wall! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

You guys are becoming each other's counsellors and that unfolds on screen and I love it! Your conversations are authentic.

@sandisiwemngqolo1796

2 жыл бұрын

So true it's rare to see people being this honest on the screen. I love them.

@zibusekunene

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandisiwemngqolo1796 it's easy to love genuine people

Congratulations Mpoomy on 200k subscribers. Your content is always on point. Keep pushing 🙌🙌❤️❤️

You know you addicted when you like even before you listen☺️

@kesegokgagodi4425

2 жыл бұрын

soooo true😂

@lelethustephaans1414

2 жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one😂

@TBM_suitablewife

2 жыл бұрын

Lol same her I was laughing before I could listen

@all_things_busishozi1721

2 жыл бұрын

Me too🗣🗣

@elmarieareses3823

2 жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one😂💖

Am I the only one who spends the first 2 minutes admiring mpoomy's beauty?. Then after I will watch and listen 🤣

Brendens perspective on life is admirable ☺️. It's easy going. When all you do is worry n be anxious about life, encountering someone with an easy perspective is admirable. 'succeeded at failing'

I like that you are not scripted and you bring authenticity into the conversation. I always look forward to your videos.

Yohhhh "one thing I'd hate to do is influence someone to not be themselves" a lot of self introspection is about to happen after this video

"Spiritual partners. We are together to grow, to grow together " Wow!! What a revelation ❤👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Brendon's sense of humour 😂😂.

I had to watch this again...Brenden is the kind of man that would help his woman, Mpoomy maximise her potential to the fullest and allow her take all the credits for it. That's a very uncommon quality to have. He's a leader.

@thobekilembele

Жыл бұрын

Watched this video again, and this comment is so real🤞

How Brenden unpacked the perfect context for agreeing verses disagreeing was impactful 🙌🏿. His methods have matured like fine wine. Love how Mpumi listens in like it’s the first time, she’s receiving these 💎.

When my husband and i disagree on something to make sure that no takes it personally. We always start first by saying "this is not a love you or don't love you conversation". Then everything goes well after that. I love love #ourloveourney

Branden which books are you reading you are such a leader, just can't explain it.

@esmeraldathembekamhlongo6568

2 жыл бұрын

So very true. He’s a strong character. A man that leads.

@deeee_veeen

2 жыл бұрын

Probably the Bible 🤧

The wisdom here😭😭 I keep learning and evolving as a person daily. And definitely working towards being the person who I would like to see succeed in a relationship. I really hope my unknown future husband watches your channel😍I hope he is growing as much as I am, wherever he is.

What I love about you guys is the authenticity. You guys are so real. “Can two people walk together without agreeing on the direction?” ‭‭Amos‬ ‭3:3‬ ‭NLT‬‬ My wife and I really had a challenge with this one because what make us great is our uniqueness but that automatically means we won’t agree on EVERYTHING. And I have really avoided using the “I’m the man” card because it’s not constructive and it lacks wisdom. I think the subtle misconception is that becoming one means we’ll always prefer each other’s decisions but in two years of marriage I have realised that being one is more than about liking another person’s preference it’s about respecting their views and supporting them on things you may not like and sometimes on things you don’t agree with😬 Now as Brenden said on certain things it’s very important to agree and what popped in my mind is parenting. Because it’s one area I think we really have to be in agreement. URGENT vs IMPORTANT I think the kitchen one vs the 2 hour meeting boils down to which is one is urgent because you may be faced with two very important decisions or tasks but urgency should help us make decisions at least. Please keep doing what you’re doing guys. Your content helps us grow and I’m trying to get my wife to watch you guys but ke…it’s another story😄

You unpack these topics so eloquently. Mpoomy gets really excited , I love it 😀. Brenden be spitting nuggets. Wisdom 👌

Aww Brenden trying to apply Jay Shetty's advise and still learning that the delivery part is important too🤣😂this was super cute!love you guys😍

@mokgadihlongwane6284

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@lynnsalee8645

2 жыл бұрын

Starting at 23:02 🤣🤣

Being a young Christian women and learning and preparing myself for future is so important thank you guys for showing us really what to look out for and what's good in marriages doing it the Godly way 🙏

Mr Daddy said I'm Kanye West😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

"Im kanye west"🤣 brenden is hilarious.great content

Yay Mrs Mom congratulations 200k is no easy feat, 400k here we come. Inspired

@muts_lady

2 жыл бұрын

🥂

Brandon's wisdom wow!! how i wish many men could come out and open up like this to see things from their percepective

"We can't have the same level of authority" POWERFUL!!!

Brendon is a good listener. He is also very real, calls a spade a spade. Very great video guys. Enjoyable

I thoroughly loved this episode. It was so real and authentic, ya'll also disagreed a bit in the beginning like how normal couples do. It shows it wasn't rehearsed this is just you guys in your realest form. Love it

This definitely has to be one video where Brendan #PUT_HIS_FOOT_DOWN!!. Mrs Mom your one lucky women. I'm sorry but I am praying for a man with such inner calmness. I'm so emotional and undesicive... Lord knows I need a man who will trust and allow me enough space to #fail. Simply becomes I'm that hard on myself. Mrs Mom the perfectionist, Mr Dad the Leader. #Lead_Indoda. You started that channel knowing what your women can become! !. #Wooow

As'bonge abakwaLedwaba. Me being here every week is a form of self-care, ave ningibusisa bakithi!!!

I love Brendens honesty.. he is so vocal without sugar coating anything 🙌🏾🙌🏾

This is so authentic! Thank you for this. I'm learning a lot

Thank you for opening your lives up to teach us so much. ❤

You guys are awesome! So much wisdom coming from the both of you. Thank you!

I feel like every episode is my favorite at this point. I love how you guys unpacked this topic and that it works every relationship romantic or platonic.

I absolutely loved this episode. Definitely my favourite of the season 👌🏽 Thanks for all the wisdom and transparency guys ❤️

This just confirmed what I am currently learning…affirming those who ask for my advice. At times our friends feel strongly about doing certain things but needs someone to affirm it but we tend to find ourselves discouraging or magnifying only risks than the potential they have to pull it off.I have really enjoyed this.I am learning so much from you two🙂

I learn so much from your conversations and are always looking forward to listening to you to tackle topics. I really enjoyed this one, at times as Christians we take equally yoked to mean that we are to agree on everything, which is impossible. I love how you are still individuals and you give each other the space to be yet still support each other. The aim is to disagree gracefully.

Its beautiful to watch you guys grow together spiritually and doing well together in what you do.

You guys are phenomenal, love the conversations and the way you are realistic about issues.

The conversations you have are so important. From start to finish I'm glued to the screen. I love you guys, I enjoy the content ❤️❤️

I loved how authentic this was, its so great that you can be vulnerable enough to speak about your relationship and let us in on how you navigate your issues. enjoyed it.

This was sooooo honest! Soooo authentic!!! I absolutely loved it❤️

I love this so much 🥺❤️ so authentic, thank you guys for this.

Absolutely loved this topic. I thoroughly enjoyed how raw and authentic you guys are.

thank you so much for shedding light on this topic

Thank you guys for being so vulnerable and open to us, I’m learning so much from you guys. God bless your union.

Love you guys.. you’re so inspirational, thank you for the wisdom!! 🙌🏽🙏🏽🔥

I love how real y'all are, you even agreeing and disagreeing on the spot.🤣🙌🏾🔥🔥 This was profound.

"Succeed in failure" wow that's deep😢❤

Listen, you guys are doing the most & we appreciate you guys so much 💜

I needed this so much, thank you, God bless you guys. 🖤

Wow! This conversation is so enlightening, this is a good way to navigate roles in relationships. Also in the boundary context and being respectful not to overstep! Love this!

I love how raw and authentic these episodes are 🥵❤️❤️ gosh I am learning so much

I love the authenticity of the podcasts 👏🏾👏🏾 the conversations just flow, I am learning a lot ♥️♥️

What I love about your conversations is that, they make us to do some introspection in ourselves in a relationship, like it like it....

I love how this topic is relevant to all kinds of relationships, parent and child, friendships, romantic relationships, siblings ect. This has to be my best topic and video ever. You guys were so real and raw here. Thank you to the both of you for these conversations. Keep them coming!!

🥺 My heart is full. What a way to end the week. Thank you Mpoomy and Brenden for always broadening my scope of knowledge.

I don’t normally engage down here but wow 🙌🏾❤️ I’m not even done watching it. Something Mrs Mom said struck a cord within me on giving and getting advice while on your journey. Sometimes those hurdles of those passing on the advice were personal to equipping them. You may have to encounter your own (or not) depending what areas need working within you. Again it’s your journey!! Own it and personalise it in a way that is open to learning and engaging with others by the leading of the spirit of God ✨🙏🏽 absolutely love you guys 🔥

Such wisdom 🙌. We blessed the Lord. The love is amazing 👏 ❤

♥️You guys are amazing, and I love the fact that you guys do show us that in any relation there is ups and downs.

This is a beautiful conversation. The beauty of our differences as male and female and also as individuals yet so beautiful when we come together for a common goal. Brenden coming up with so much punches 👊. We appreciate you both guys, Amazing people you are!

I think this is my favorite episode this far. I loved it. Very enlightening.

So much wisdom guys🤗. Literally enjoyed every single bit. May God continue to use you.

I love what Brenden was saying about how to see if you should hold onto a relationship. Our relationship over our ego is so important for lasting relationships 🙏🏽

Thank you guys for sharing ,thank you for being vulnerable .I am learning a lot

This episode helped me a lot I’m a newlywed and chile I’m struggling but it’s only now that I’m actually realising that I take everything very personally and when my husband disagrees with me I think he hates me and I’m naturally a born leader I struggle with trusting the other person’s views and actions…God help me. Thank you guys for this podcast 🙏🏾

This episode was so beautiful, all the love from Kenya. It was so raw and authentic and the message was so profound. I find that how I will deal with disagreements in future has now significantly changed. Thank you so much and God bless your union!!

Can't wait to get home and watch this with my person. We are really learning a lot from you guys. Thank you. Stupidly can't wait🥰

Couldn't have came at a better time❤ I love what Brenden is saying. Everyone should maintain their own way of thinking, it goes with our purpose hence we are all unique. You guys are amazing. Love it love it love it

I loved Brandon's perspective in this episode. Letting people be, and allowing them to grow and trusting their decisions. Only give advice when you're asked. Allow ppl to follow their intuition. Constantly affirm people.❤❤❤❤❤ so dope. I'm gonna try this.

I also think we are friends now, without the unrealistic expectations that sometimes comes with friendships. 💕

I love the unpacking of topics on this channel.

Honestly you guys are the bestest. My partner and I love your podcasts. We learn a lot and you keep adding onto our growth as individuals and a couple with each podcast shared. We appreciate you. More Grace. 🙏🙏🙏

As for the Transparency Date being a war zone 😂😂😂 I loved this and thoroughly enjoyed it 🥰❤️

“ the goal is to manage it, not change it”❤️ man I love y’all

Another awesome conversation. Thank you! Mpoomy’s laugh is so contagious 😂 couldn’t help but laugh everytime she laughed

Absolutely enjoy watching you guys. It’s the inbetween moments

I honestly enjoyed today's conversation. It gave a whole new perspective

Great conversation…Brenden ‘s points are always on point

12:40-13:00+ Guys Brenden his a man of his word. Previous podcast where they spoke about Boundaries he mentioned the exact same thing his talking about now. He respects your feelings/ decisions making and the only thing he can do is To allow you do you and when opinion ask he will just confirm with what your feeling until you ask his advice 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Guys give this Man a Bells 🥂

Wooooow woooow, Such a powerful conversation.I mean I took a whole lot of lessons from this video,but the one thing that was a "AHA" moment to me was when Brendan talked about you should allow a person to mess up and do what they can possibly do,without judging or showing them some negativity in the whole process.You know sometimes we just wanna bash some people's ideas because to us they look lame,but well if that person is doing whatever he/she is doing by the lead of their intuition,then they have already won, even if they lose,they have won in their losing.Its not always that we have to control or disagree,but all we could ever do is silently watch😃 Man,this was such a powerful thought,and thank you for that🥺🌟 "LET PEOPLE BE"

This is by far my favorite from you guys❤❤❤. It felt seamless and so authentic. This episode highlights the core values of 'successful' marriages, which is to fully embracing each others differences with love and respect. I love how real you have been in delivering this conversation. Thank you Mrs Mom and husband

Well done, this was authentic and sincere. Thank you so much.

'Allow your thinking to come through' I love you guys so much😭

You guys were so transparent 🥰loved this episode

Thank you Mrs. Mum that was so insightful : "spiritual partners" spouses are together to grow, evolve, and add to the marriage/relationship and be secure with that. " Trust your thinking, Trust the Holy Spirit" Brenden was unpacking shoooo... So much wisdom, " Don't influence someone else to not be themselves", Be authentic "I only give advice when asked " "My goal is to manage how I think" You guys are perfect for each other.

thank you sooo much for choosing this topic. i learnt a lot about CHARACTER

Mpoomy’s laugh is so contagious, I crack up with her all the time😂❤️

This was such a rich episode!! 🙌 These are things that actually occur in relationships but I couldn't help but die of laughter when Brenden said "we should take the high road and we should take turns taking the high road, some people take the high road than others 😂😂 - as a wife, I heard you .👍🏾

Wow, Brandon 🙌🙌 sharp, smart and filled with great wisdom 🙏🙏

You both speak to my spirit 🙏🏾.

This is really good to listen. It's always nice to be here, you don't get here and go out without a change. This is really deep and full of wisdom. Mrs mom? Did you notice how Brandon has gotten out of the box? He used to hold back and you do the talking but now? Ahh marn! I feel lighter and wiser everytime ii listen to you guys. Am not married but ii now know what kind of a person i'd really love to commit myself with. Thank you❤❤

And we are at 200k subbies.. congrats fam, may God bless you💃

Profound discussion, so much wisdom and humor as well. Well done guys