The Ability To Adapt | Our Love Journey Podcast

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  • @tebogorammutla1160
    @tebogorammutla11603 жыл бұрын

    "The longer you take to learn the lesson,you will keep having to learn it"..this hit home😫

  • @danisacademiccorner4493

    @danisacademiccorner4493

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yess

  • @b_reshoketswe2777

    @b_reshoketswe2777

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here😬😭

  • @mwaka.damali

    @mwaka.damali

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love this. 😍

  • @pilisapiliso9647
    @pilisapiliso96473 жыл бұрын

    Mpoomy and Brandon are basically raising me and teaching me morals and values coming from a black home where parents really don’t talk about things expect for saying no to everything, THANK YOU and may God continue blessing you guys ❤️

  • @tinyikongobeni1418
    @tinyikongobeni14183 жыл бұрын

    What makes my boyfriend really romantic is his consistency in kindness, being able to stand in long queues for my personal things, waiting for me to enter inside my house even when we’ve both had an argument. Things have just gotten more authentic and that’s what I’m also finding romantic, the sentimental stuff

  • @nosikurosie6904
    @nosikurosie69043 жыл бұрын

    You guys!!! I don't think you have an idea how many lives you touch or even how many lives you change.. there's some of us who don't even comment half the time but we watch. I love this channel. I enjoy every time I watch! I've unsubscribed from a lot of you tubers because honestly I wasn't getting anything from there. But everytime I watch you guys I leave different seriously, I've never watched and never felt not moved.. NEVER!! I learn more on each video. Love ya both!!

  • @nzalisekocutu9801

    @nzalisekocutu9801

    3 жыл бұрын

    Soo true babe

  • @blackwoman_015

    @blackwoman_015

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @veejoymiya4835

    @veejoymiya4835

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful 😍, well said

  • @rejoicetomas3874
    @rejoicetomas38743 жыл бұрын

    "You have no control over anything. The only thing you have control over is your response " I felt that

  • @angienkuna4416
    @angienkuna44163 жыл бұрын

    Anointed couple. Divinely appointed.God bless this beautiful union.

  • @rorisangmathikha1383
    @rorisangmathikha13833 жыл бұрын

    Exactly, my friends have accepted that I don't like parting and enjoy being indoors and just being in my own comfortable space...it's blissful

  • @madimetsamashiane383
    @madimetsamashiane3833 жыл бұрын

    One of the books that helped me with adapting , is the book 'Who moved my cheese' , its about adapting to change and different kinds of adapting

  • @Survive_

    @Survive_

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sammmeeee, I'm currently reading this book like 8 pages in and I'm already realizing how scared I was of change (I have always been scared of change) now I'm working on it. This book really called me out, shuu😭

  • @lifeandwellnesswithsine2387

    @lifeandwellnesswithsine2387

    3 жыл бұрын

    It needs to be my next read🙌

  • @kudzaisharonkandemiri3030

    @kudzaisharonkandemiri3030

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's an interesting read.

  • @changwechami8449
    @changwechami84493 жыл бұрын

    "The quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you are not" point taken📝

  • @tinyikongobeni1418
    @tinyikongobeni14183 жыл бұрын

    I’m making a decision now to snap out of it. I’ve spent the last three years not actually knowing what my purpose is and honestly I’m done being depressed and having the situation with our world encourage my “stress”. Almost like I have an excuse to be depressed because our current situation is so difficult. This has aged me a lot and I’m actively making a decision to snap out of it, just deciding to taking full responsibility. Thank you guys 🙏🏾

  • @beautytebadi1216

    @beautytebadi1216

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can we be friends 🤗, you seem like a breath of fresh air... I can actually relate to what you just said, I hope you find the purpose that you seeking for...Am starting that journey too, sending you love and light 💕💕

  • @chiedzachuma2026
    @chiedzachuma20263 жыл бұрын

    Mpoomy I'm learning not to listen to your channel without a notepad and pen ready. Definitely food for my soul, thank you for feeding me

  • @Syndzz
    @Syndzz3 жыл бұрын

    Yes I'm 18 and single but i love you guys!!!!

  • @Gabisile..

    @Gabisile..

    3 жыл бұрын

    You and me both Siyanda 😂

  • @kundaicrwayisva6516
    @kundaicrwayisva65163 жыл бұрын

    Is it just me who enjoys the videos? I enjoy seeing them together, their facial expressions and the way they gaze at each other when one is speaking. I saw the podcast notifications in the morning but l waited for the video. Y'all are just a blessing. I enjoyed the podcast. The best one yet!

  • @Leetso
    @Leetso3 жыл бұрын

    Allow me to take notes📝 Because wisdom is raining here❤️💯

  • @ewonkendwandwe6881
    @ewonkendwandwe68813 жыл бұрын

    I can't believe how much I really enjoyed this podcast! You guys are amazing, I am 22 and single but I find so much relevance in your content.

  • @KarabotheMillenial
    @KarabotheMillenial3 жыл бұрын

    "Lessons in life will be repeated until they are learned"🙌❤

  • @RealTalkWithNthabi
    @RealTalkWithNthabi3 жыл бұрын

    The quickest way to learn who you are is learning who you not. I can't agree more 💯💯💯💯

  • @FufuSithole
    @FufuSithole3 жыл бұрын

    Brendon is hilarious 😂

  • @tapiwasilumbu4358
    @tapiwasilumbu43583 жыл бұрын

    Who dislikes such content and inspirational words

  • @silindokuhlekhubone
    @silindokuhlekhubone3 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you guys ...The quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you are not !!!!I tried drinking alcohol last year at the age of 27 because I thought why not ...it didn’t work ..I would really not enjoy it ..I would ask myself why am I not enjoying it cos everyone else is and I would not even sbwl it ..I sat down with myself one day and I was like it’s just not who you are and you need to make peace with it !!!!But that doesn’t make me a better person than the next person ❤️

  • @esihle_mkosana_
    @esihle_mkosana_3 жыл бұрын

    “The quickest way to know who you are is to know who you’re not” ! Okay okay 🔥🔥. Such an inspiring podcast, definitely enjoyed watching this.

  • @migalmahlangu9871
    @migalmahlangu98713 жыл бұрын

    The first thing I wanna say is I love u love I learn so much from u guys 💕💕 Listening to u I realised how much i had to adept over the last 14 years, got married was in an abusive relationship had kids, got divorced. I had to learn and unlearn so many things I am super grateful to u guys because u made me realise that I can adept and to be kind to myself 🙌🏽

  • @confessionsofacheapskate4112
    @confessionsofacheapskate41123 жыл бұрын

    "The quickest way to know who you are is today know who you're not "

  • @ziziphobridgetntlantsana3090
    @ziziphobridgetntlantsana30903 жыл бұрын

    "The quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you're not" I totally enjoyed this video! Thank you Ledwabas 💯🙌

  • @girleyngcobo2678
    @girleyngcobo26783 жыл бұрын

    "You always have to control your emotions or you will lose yourself everytime "....Brenden just reminded me of this saying with his first point. Always happy to listen to you guys ❤❤❤.

  • @Tanatswanashe
    @Tanatswanashe3 жыл бұрын

    “The quickest way to know who you are is to know who you’re not.” 🔥

  • @mapasekankomonde3797
    @mapasekankomonde37973 жыл бұрын

    Indeed " we not in Control of what happens, but we rather in control of our reactions " Amazing wisdom shared.

  • @TheDoreenTube
    @TheDoreenTube3 жыл бұрын

    Listened to this in the morning but I’m still watching because this is probably my best episode yet!🥺❤️

  • @AS-ue9kg
    @AS-ue9kg2 жыл бұрын

    I am an older adult and I love listening to you two. I learn so much from your conversations! They are relevant, genuine and always reflect the love of God to me. Keep growing in this grace guys, God bless your family!

  • @zinhlephiwokuhledlamini8194
    @zinhlephiwokuhledlamini81943 жыл бұрын

    I'm so excited, I got 'The 5 am Club' by Robin Sharma🙈🙈

  • @moitshepisparkles

    @moitshepisparkles

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same 😁🎉

  • @lisakamikazi

    @lisakamikazi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too!!!

  • @nthabimakhubedu

    @nthabimakhubedu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too... I'm so excited to read it

  • @Cracious_M

    @Cracious_M

    3 жыл бұрын

    waiting for mine💃💃😊

  • @gracenjoki9644

    @gracenjoki9644

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love the book I can't to finish it

  • @Olivia8355
    @Olivia83553 жыл бұрын

    Agggggg 😭😭😭😭 y’all speaking to me... as a single lady I have intentionally started learning “Who I’m not”...❤️beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @charityngubo8000
    @charityngubo80003 жыл бұрын

    I'm older than you guys but learning a lot from you. Big ups.

  • @sinethembalanga7436
    @sinethembalanga74363 жыл бұрын

    It's the flirting for me❤

  • @lovenesspearlnyuke5954
    @lovenesspearlnyuke59543 жыл бұрын

    We don't have a choice but adapt'profound'👌believe you me you're saving a lot of souls....May God keep you guys for us....

  • @wezizweginindza7129
    @wezizweginindza71293 жыл бұрын

    So profound guys!! Yho, I couldn't help but laugh and smile the whole 22:29 minutes of this episode! That's what you do, bring so much love and light to this platform. God bless you.

  • @busisiwengwenya4450
    @busisiwengwenya44503 жыл бұрын

    We are within!! So excited haven't even heard anything

  • @hossianathompson1127
    @hossianathompson11273 жыл бұрын

    WISDOM 😩🙏 this hit home!!!!

  • @amohelangjanekhoboko6056
    @amohelangjanekhoboko60563 жыл бұрын

    Timing. Thank you✨🙌

  • @nangamsoflatela3176
    @nangamsoflatela31763 жыл бұрын

    Jeeeez! 😭 I needed to hear this because of how I’ve been struggling to adjust to a lot of changes this year. Thank you guys 🙌🏾

  • @nothandondlovu1145
    @nothandondlovu11453 жыл бұрын

    This conversation was so fruitful. I felt like I was also part of it, also throwing my opinions here and there even when I'm alone in the room lol. Love you guys xoxo

  • @Langathiwe_Nkomo
    @Langathiwe_Nkomo3 жыл бұрын

    Yep had to listen to it twice...! There's a lesson to learn that life is tryna teach me, the quicker you learn the better

  • @yonelantsangani3326
    @yonelantsangani33263 жыл бұрын

    Wow. So powerful. Yall are such a blessing!💛🔥🔥

  • @mbinaomukuambi2459
    @mbinaomukuambi24593 жыл бұрын

    Well of wisdom!!! Learning and loving it. 🤗

  • @aya.edits.00
    @aya.edits.003 жыл бұрын

    Love you guys😍, you literally had me smiling the whole video. Especially in this uncertain climate that we are in right now, we gotta adapt !

  • @brianward8368
    @brianward83683 жыл бұрын

    I Love you guys!! God Bless everything you do!

  • @Bloomar
    @Bloomar3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. This was informative ❤️ I was smiling the whole time.

  • @alfredinemay8052
    @alfredinemay80523 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad I subscribed to your channel... You guys are absolutely such a blessing. 🙏😇💕

  • @tapiwasilumbu4358
    @tapiwasilumbu43583 жыл бұрын

    Notification gang you are a great inspiration you guys

  • @boldforpurpose
    @boldforpurpose3 жыл бұрын

    You guys are a blessing, may your love grow even deeper.

  • @asavelamakhohliso2323
    @asavelamakhohliso23233 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys so much! Thank you.❤

  • @lethukhumalo3119
    @lethukhumalo31193 жыл бұрын

    I listened to the podcast and took down notes, I enjoy listening to your podcast and watching the KZread video as well. I'm in awe

  • @HereroRocher
    @HereroRocher3 жыл бұрын

    Love this! Loved everything and even more so the fact that I can tell you enjoy each other ... fully...

  • @yolandagaborutwe3061
    @yolandagaborutwe30613 жыл бұрын

    LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU GUYS!!

  • @sthembilekobe9267
    @sthembilekobe92673 жыл бұрын

    I love your podcasts and i am learning a lot, you adding so much wisdom in my singleness season so that i never settle for nonsense.

  • @herworkoutswork
    @herworkoutswork3 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha! Literally smiled the whole way through this. I thoroughly enjoyed it and I relate 100% to the importance of adaptability. I love Mpoomy's mom's advice about how our job is to become more of ourselves. This is so true. I can relate to your story Mpoomy, I left my career as a Scientist to pursue my passion back in 2019. (I remember going to work in the morning, looking forward to going to the gym afterward) It was not easy, but through this journey, I now trust God more than ever before, and I'm completely at peace. Loved this podcast! It was funny too 😂

  • @wanderingcucamber7082
    @wanderingcucamber70823 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys so much, thank you so much for these lessons and dedicating your time and sharing parts of your lives and truths with us ❤️🕯

  • @bonisiwe_bhiya
    @bonisiwe_bhiya3 жыл бұрын

    Girl listened to the podcast in the morning and now I'm here doubling up. That's how much I love these conversations ❤

  • @nnusatshwaane2143
    @nnusatshwaane21433 жыл бұрын

    The insights you guys have 🥰🥰

  • @cathymwenda
    @cathymwenda3 жыл бұрын

    I really desperately needed to listen to this. You have no idea. Thank you❤️🥺

  • @thulisilemthimunye8020
    @thulisilemthimunye80203 жыл бұрын

    You guys are a breath of fresh air... like I learn every time I visit your channel.

  • @tsholofetsomanana5411
    @tsholofetsomanana54113 жыл бұрын

    I really love listening to you guys and enjoy your chemistry. This is my first time commenting and I wanted to say keep doing great things and glorifying God!

  • @DelisileNgema
    @DelisileNgema3 жыл бұрын

    Woow thank you so much guys ,truly this is a journey to self discovery for me God bless you guys

  • @tapiwasilumbu4358
    @tapiwasilumbu43583 жыл бұрын

    Yes l am also a young lady and your sermons and podcasts are actually preparing me for what is to come in the future👏👏👏👏

  • @ashleybrady2010
    @ashleybrady20103 жыл бұрын

    This was such a pleasure to watch! Thanks for just being awesome! May GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS you richly

  • @nokuzolamnikathi993
    @nokuzolamnikathi9933 жыл бұрын

    I'm here for this content.. 🥺 wisdom 🤍 I love I love

  • @mhelukajuliana8375
    @mhelukajuliana83753 жыл бұрын

    Much love mpoomy and brenden ❤🥰🤗😊you bless me ohhhh

  • @ketsiak.makola2398
    @ketsiak.makola23983 жыл бұрын

    Mpoomy & Brenden !!! Y’all make me say a prayer to God after almost every video I’m always learning. Marriage is beautiful, teamwork is the way to go!!! I want to do it God’s way 🤍

  • @zinhlebuthelezi3749
    @zinhlebuthelezi37493 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this, I'm slowly learning that I'm not in control and it's been very uncomfortable and painful. Having to adapt to not having the things you wanted by a certain age, losing things that matter the most etc

  • @zamandlovu8515
    @zamandlovu85153 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much you guys. I'm. 33,single and absolutely love your podcasts.

  • @nombulelofakudze6513
    @nombulelofakudze65133 жыл бұрын

    You are such a blessing guys ❤️ thank you soo much

  • @renengoasheng
    @renengoasheng3 жыл бұрын

    Love this 😍Thank you for sharing the wisdom God has given you guys and allowing him to speak through you guys😍

  • @eleanordewee1602
    @eleanordewee16023 жыл бұрын

    The 2 of you are just too cute. Thank you for the insightful and inspirational podcast. What you are sharing is so relevant and as a married woman one draws so much knowledge and wisdom from you guys. Ya"ll are absolutely adorable

  • @wandilemkhize8263
    @wandilemkhize82633 жыл бұрын

    I looooove this episode so much. Thank you🙏♥️😅

  • @Keekssithole
    @Keekssithole3 жыл бұрын

    So much wisdom. May God continue to bless your union ❤️

  • @tlhologelonchabeleng4752
    @tlhologelonchabeleng47523 жыл бұрын

    This was super fun!!!!! Keep it up!!!

  • @rejoicetomas3874
    @rejoicetomas38743 жыл бұрын

    "Quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you are not"😊... hits home

  • @mokgadihlongwane6284
    @mokgadihlongwane62843 жыл бұрын

    Oh my word, you guys are so real and inspirational. I can relate so much with what you are saying. Talk about not comforming to the standards of the world. Thank God for you.

  • @queenmasiya9776
    @queenmasiya97763 жыл бұрын

    These conversations are always refreshing, educational and funny. I always enjoy listening to you guys💕

  • @M.A.Wahome
    @M.A.Wahome3 жыл бұрын

    This topic is so important , I wish I heard this at 22 it would have saved me a world of heart ache. Thank you for talking about this .

  • @sthembinkosimaswanganyi2148
    @sthembinkosimaswanganyi21483 жыл бұрын

    Really enjoyed this. Thank You!

  • @palesankondlo1395
    @palesankondlo13953 жыл бұрын

    Man we love you guyz❤️😍😂 I love how your content applies to both single and married people💯

  • @thethinkerscircle
    @thethinkerscircle3 жыл бұрын

    Our favs, your content is so refreshing and on each video we learn something❤️

  • @Princessss5721
    @Princessss57213 жыл бұрын

    I just love these seat downs 🥺 I've got my journal and pen I must say your love journey is wonderful, I'm learning a lot everyday from your videos started following you when I watched your dating testimony.. I'm just 20 but these really expose me to how much I need God in my life and how I would like to mould my life.. Thank you for the great and authentic content. ❤

  • @hopem03
    @hopem033 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this, exactly how I needed to end my evening. I’m all smiles because this just confirms scripture. Wow, there is fruitfulness when we subdue and have dominion over our good/bad situations... because we are intentional ❤️ May God bless you for taking your time to share yourselves ❤️

  • @gracenjoki9644
    @gracenjoki96443 жыл бұрын

    Love and love guys

  • @shupiwevakaira9470
    @shupiwevakaira94703 жыл бұрын

    It's always refreshing listening/watching you guys and your humor is everything for me♥️

  • @lolwethungcawa8354
    @lolwethungcawa83543 жыл бұрын

    Great content.🥰❤️ Truly with time, as you get better in your marriage, you get to be a better individual as well.

  • @Botho_Nchidzi
    @Botho_Nchidzi3 жыл бұрын

    💕😊✨😍😍 loooved this video. So fun. Insightful and just represents love in a beautiful way. Thanks Mpoomy and Brenden 🙏

  • @michelletaylor7089
    @michelletaylor70893 жыл бұрын

    Love it and you 2 are amazing

  • @siphosihlenoqayi9600
    @siphosihlenoqayi96003 жыл бұрын

    Lol...You guys are so funny. Its beautiful to watch your interaction...thank you for the wisdom, We appreciate it so much. We're getting to appreciate life more indeed💝. God bless you even more

  • @dineomothlele2192
    @dineomothlele21923 жыл бұрын

    Really loved / enjoyed this !!

  • @zinhlekhoza8326
    @zinhlekhoza83263 жыл бұрын

    The best way to learn who you are is learn who you are not... Powerful!! Thank you for this

  • @lorrainemadure2837
    @lorrainemadure28373 жыл бұрын

    Nothing stays the same indeed, hence the need to adapt... Nice video guys. Thanks.

  • @BoboNdlela
    @BoboNdlela3 жыл бұрын

    My faves❤️

  • @Keekssithole
    @Keekssithole3 жыл бұрын

    Y'all are so much fun!

  • @nthabelengmohlala3175
    @nthabelengmohlala31753 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely enjoyed this video ❤️

  • @BEAUTIFUL_ALLSEASONS
    @BEAUTIFUL_ALLSEASONS3 жыл бұрын

    We love you guys 💞. You're the BEST

  • @rirhandzushivuri-muhlari3601
    @rirhandzushivuri-muhlari36013 жыл бұрын

    I've spent my time well on this video... thank you guys.

  • @maneo_official
    @maneo_official3 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed this so much, you two even look alike now.

  • @boipelosparkles5207
    @boipelosparkles52073 жыл бұрын

    I learnt so much from this🖤... Wow!