re mo!!!!

@valenciamashalagma

3 жыл бұрын

Sila and we love it here💫

@MpoomyLedwaba

3 жыл бұрын

always...

@sophysehlola3723

3 жыл бұрын

Sila ❤️❤️❤️❤️☕

@sethembilegwamanda4819

3 жыл бұрын

Sikhona. Enjoying the convo

@aororiswemedupe1917

3 жыл бұрын

Love your depth Brenden such an amazing man

The privacy vs secrecy topic is a big one !

My ex ( baby daddy) told me he does not see himself getting married and told me he is still looking for the right woman , mind you I stayed for 6 years knowing. Listening is very important. But thank God I left even though it took me so long I am glad its over

@lady_sits

3 жыл бұрын

Very true ❤️... I'm glad that you had the strength to leave 🙏🏽

@shirleygeza5677

3 жыл бұрын

Well done sis. Someone will appreciate and marry you in less than 6 years.

@reamogetsetjale2814

3 жыл бұрын

Well done sis, the biggest thing that matters is (YOU DID LEAVE)💕

@nette2144

3 жыл бұрын

@@reamogetsetjale2814 Absolutely.

@malebelomaphutha6566

3 жыл бұрын

You were hoping that he will eventually see that you are that right woman, big ups for leaving super proud of you!

Hey Mpumi and Brenden I introduced my boyfriend to this channel, now I feel like he watches it more than me🙈, you guys are awesome... Thank you

Today's topic hit home 🥺🥺. We find ourselves attached to people who haven't even said they like us like that. Yoh😏🥺

When Brenden said " ooooh you can't remember now, onale amnesia?" 😭😭😭💀🤣🤣🤣🤣

I love Brendan's honesty in all this. He's genuine.

Thoroughly enjoyed this chat! Mpoomy is right the gut feeling NEVER lies. Women always know! Thank you guys 🙏🏾

@mons7921

3 жыл бұрын

Always babe always!

@nette2144

3 жыл бұрын

Always. When you know you know..🤣🤣🤣🤣

Just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. It was a mutual decision I'm taking it day by day. We did all the right things the foundation was there and everything. We had communication we had everything but somehow she just hurt and she couldn't be happy with me I had to let her go for her to find her joy.

"Pictures for eng? Onale amnesia?"- Brenden 2021 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿. I died

@R.K.R.2001

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@mologadihazellegodi8626

3 жыл бұрын

Did I not die😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

@mologadihazellegodi8626

3 жыл бұрын

Did I not die😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

@tshegofatsontabane584

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 threw me off

@nomliss4152

3 жыл бұрын

Sis dead😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 peak of this episode

“Sometimes we have to allow each other to find out what’s real for us and what we want” impactful 🥺🔥🔥🔥.

The way I love how Mpoomy says 'Indoda yami'......... 😃

Brenden "so lento yama musician k'dala iqalile" 😂😂😂😂 I died!

@MpoomyLedwaba

3 жыл бұрын

lmao he is being extra

@Boitumelo_Pohotuna

3 жыл бұрын

Same!! 😂🤣🤣

@mologadihazellegodi8626

3 жыл бұрын

Brenden is extra🤣🤣🤣

@angellamula

3 жыл бұрын

No but same😭😭😭

@nomhlemabaso2807

3 жыл бұрын

I experienced something similar with a musician 😂😂😭so it hit the spot for me

One thing about Brendon, he loves his wife❤️. Always touching, so beautiful guys.

It’s the Sotho for me 😂🥴 “Di bedroom relationships” I love you guys wholeheartedly . ♥️😪

Im currently in that situation, things are great when we are together but when we not together he doesn't communicate. I called it quits though...

Our Love Journey is a great blessing for us on KZread hle ❤❤❤ God bless this union❤

The most beautiful conversation ever😄🥰😍🥰I love how he said "wow today I am cutting you too much, I am sorry.."ncooh Love is beautiful.. Brenden is the referee here, 😂

My word, y’all are dropping facts here... Louderrrrr 🙆🏾‍♀️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Just because someone calls you “makoti” during the dating phase does not mean that they will marry you. They will hurt you. Once you start dating someone and their friends say “nangu Umakoti wethu” Weeh just know ukuthi no. Because the friends of your boyfriend are always on his side. He will play you like nobodies business but his friends will act like his not doing anything. He must ask you out and avoid being called names before you are that title. Makoti naming needs lobola.

@tiyiselabaloyi3837

3 жыл бұрын

Yebo including family. Until he sends the cows don't even

yall really bring the best content. Thanks for this.

Yol posted this at the right time🥺❤ subscribed and hooked💕

Thank you so much ledwaba's.... You touched my heart I really needed to hear this...

Hahahahh Mpoomy will never win the debate of pictures. 🤣 I used to explain to my husband the same way that I do it for memories to relive the moment and he would give me the same answer as Brenden “it’s in your head”😩 it’s not the same guys! We tried to meet each other half way 🤣♥️

The part of the insecurities is where I learnt most, what an informative chat🔥

I always look forward to your videos, I learn a lot from them.

Absolutely love and enjoy the content guys. Thank you🌸

10:38 Absolutely agree 150% . At a certain age, guard your heart and be respectful of the other persons emotions and spirit. Just asking out someone without having done due diligence is detrimental.

I personally am greatful for this topic it came at the right time. You guys are just the best at everything when it comes to this

Came here with my notebook☺️, thank you so much for sharing ❤️

I think my younger cousins need to hear this. I was never big on titles, my husband is the longest I ever had. While I was dating I never made any new relationship official until I knew what was going on. We need to teach young girls and boys what dating is.... To manage expectations and assumptions..... Dating means getting to know each other via hanging out together but it doesn't mean you are an official couple....... Hence put breaks on ukuba umakoti, cooking cleaning etc while dating🤣🤣🤣

@ngurimujetjihimise4756

3 жыл бұрын

What you're saying is difenatley true we don't have anyone to teach us all this things it should be a topic even in schools

@shambyprincess3688

3 жыл бұрын

This 💯🙌🏾

Thank you so much for these videos they are such an eye opener and I’m loving it man!

I loved this conversation! So informative and relatable on so many parts.

My words right out of my mouth, I said to my mom when she asked what went wrong between me and my ex-husband and I said to her I fell inlove with the person he pretended to be and eventually he couldn't keep up with the act so true colours started showing and man oh man after investing a good 8yrs dating and one year of marriage and two beautiful boys I faced my biggest fear and just left and started all over again, my life is not perfect but I've been at so much peace oh my🙌

@brendatsela9102

3 жыл бұрын

wow... this is deep thank you for sharing

Genuinely enjoyed the conversation. Your conversations are relatable. Thank you guys for the video. Humorous as well.

This is literally preparing for my first ever successful relationship , i never used to express the cause of my insecurities and it scared my prev partners 🤨 but some really played a huge role on those insecurities,

You guys are a blessing ❤️ Brenden I've always wanted to hear you speak Sepedi and you did not disappoint 🙌🏼

I just love you guys🤩 this is so nice to speak with things like this🙌

Honestly love listening to you guys and the way Brenden looks at Mpoomy so sweet❤️

I've been watching your videos guys since last year and i liked you so much...but never once have i thought of subscribing to your channel. Because of your beautiful consistent content today i have decided to subscribe and hit the notification bell because wow im learning a lot from you both...may God continue blessing your union💗

Brenden I'm here for your wisdom❤️

You guys are everything and more!!!! 👏👏👏 Thank you so much for the whole conversation ....So insightful Lots of love ❤️

Ayi shame, I've missed these conversations!!! Welcome back guys 😂❤️

Jonga. I love this and you guys are amazing! 👏🏾 It’s the fire content for me💕

I enjoyed every bit of this! Thumbs up ❤️

" I was snoring" 😂😂😂 Enjoyed this so much🙌🏾

I understand the emphasis on communication however, I feel like we need equal emphasis on comprehension. What good is communication if someone is listening but not comprehending? The person should show in their actions that they’ve taken note of your concerns/ communication. I really enjoyed this topic.

Much needed conversation 💕💕🇿🇼..Thank you

You guys are the older siblings I never knew I needed!🥺❤️ Enjoyed this so much🤞🏽

@runner9528

2 жыл бұрын

Lol they are husband and wife!

Insomnia hit and I’m here watching this. I enjoyed the conversation, it’s funny how as a young girl there were so many red flags in the relationships then but I didn’t even acknowledge them. Also enjoyed how you guys threw vernac here and there👌🏼

Brenden is pouring out that truth that is SOOO needed

Oh Gassssshhhhh i love taking pictures for memoirs to lay and go through one day with them to even laugh about as it reminds you about how long the relationship is coming and places you've visited together!! Its so beautiful to feel those emotions again when going down memory lane🤗🇳🇦🇳🇦 or just laugh about your fashion sense or how you've grown etc. Ps: Not for the social media as i barely most

Don’t stop guys keep continuing I am learning heeeeey I’ve been dating for 8 years with this man

As always loved the conversation! I was a victim of being stringed along.. “ Bedroom relationships” killed me 😅😂🤣

Just stopped by again just to save this for my kids especially my daughter. I had this convo with my father after the fact and it freed me. I’m at a good and happy place and I know I wouldn’t have been if it wasn’t for that.

Brendon is always touching Mpoomy ❤️❤️❤️

@chiedzachuma2026

3 жыл бұрын

Right?! Love it, it's so cute! ♥️

@sinovuyomtyenene5433

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@nkepengmarumo3648

2 жыл бұрын

I've noticed and it's so cute I like it

Wow wow thank you so much for this conversation you will always be my favorite couple you natural you are the example of happy couple

Loved this so much! Also Mpoomy's laugh is one of my favourite laughs...love it.

Mpoomy and Braiden content🔥🔥🙏 Communication, honesty and effort is the key. Thank you

Really enjoyed watching this..❣👌is as if I just shared my bad decisions in relationships and You guys just gave out good advices...❣Thank you Mpoomy and Brenden .....Honesty and Communication is way to go

I'm definitely sharing this with my friend👌... Thank you guys.

So true Brenden it's important to put out your expectations saves you so much drama. It's saved me from so much future drama and it scared away the wrong guys

Beautiful topic it's good to have you back guys ❤

Honesty does help so true Brandon

I am watching this for the second time and smiling through and through 🥰🥰🥰 I love you guys. You are so graceful. God keep you.

Love this chat, really funny too 😂

Real helpful talks much needed especially by us the youth...

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I love this video. It's the best... on a serious note: I love how you guys are just so comfortable to talk about exes and your past. That's just shows that all channels of communication are open... thank you guys

Yohhh Mpoomy my intuition has never ever failed me!!! I’ve learnt to listen because if I ignore it I get burnt

Very important conversation thank you for sharing this

Well said guys. Really enjoyed this episode ❤

Love your content so much!! One request though, for international followers could you please include captions for those sweet moments you two break into vernacular 🤗 So much love 💛💛

This was so beautiful, keep it up you guys!

It's just how you look at Brenden for me🥰🥰🥰🥰

@sihovaanna5959

3 жыл бұрын

You can tell she's forever in love with her husband 💕❤

I could listen to you guys speak all day 🥺❤️❤️

It feels good to watch you guys There is always so much to learn from you😄

I just love you guys and your sense of humor ☺☺☺

My fav notification. Thank you Mpoomy. 🌸🙏🏽🤗

"Ona Le Amnesia?"😂😂😂 Brenden Was Speaking For The Gents Here I'm So Triggered🤣

@mbhali_shandu

3 жыл бұрын

lol i was on the floor when he said that

@otjanngaisiue6385

3 жыл бұрын

😅😅😅😅😅😅

@Boity_Lehihi

3 жыл бұрын

I died 😂😂🤣🤣😂

@b_reshoketswe2777

3 жыл бұрын

🤣😂😂

@stabiledube9634

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

You are so amazing , real and honest . much love

This couple made me realise my worth,made me realise that true love does exist and settling for less is no longer in me.i love you guys so much ❤

True the playing wifey part went straight to my heart... Thanks for sharing, I have to introspect #Much Love ♥️

These conversations are so healthy. Love ❤️

I'm obsessed with this channel, I'm 23 and I learn a lot from you guys, you literally my gift from God

Great topic guys, thank you. Ja neh, SOME men really can change your outlook on men and love. I always say our definition of love really is messed up, by so many things - we only realise this when we start loving ourselves and being honest about the nonsense we've settled for in the past. Thank God for hindsight.

Loved this conversation 🥰💯 really made me realize a lot ❤️ thank y’all 😊💯❤️🔥

I agree, make time to spend with your partner, watch sunsets together or go chill at the park.. It's not always supposed to be fancy... Just simple stuff.

@MpoomyLedwaba

3 жыл бұрын

absolutely

Your podcast is not rehearsed. I love that❤

Mpoomy , this musician thing, I get it😂😂😂. Nna that’s the hill I’m living on 🤚🏾.

Hi Mpoomy and Brenden, I'm just a teen, just turned 18 on April. I love these conversations guys #ourlovejournery, even though I'm far from getting married but I'm taking notes for the future. Thank you so much and please just keep on giving us wisdom

So glad you guys are back💃💃love you loads😍

This episode is everything

I like how informative your content is Mpoomy. it's relatable. It really helps us (the youth) to take informed decisions about our life in general. Not that we CANT take them on our own, but hearing someone elses experiences and realizing that you've walked that path and perhaps struggled to deal with the situation, it may help with the future similar encounters. I love how the both of you do not paint your life "perfect" as Christians as well.

Got a notification that you posted a video and I never clicked so fast😀. Love you so much. You guys are such an inspiration

Brenden was like you have amnesia 😂😂😂😂. Mpoomy tell him that we as gurls love pictures that is one thing God gave us😂😂😂😂

Oh what wonderful topic we are being educated here ♥️♥️

Yoh. This topic. I've been recently feeling like my current relationship just isn't it but we just started dating and I like him a lot. But my guts tell me he doesn't like me back. So this video gives a clearer perspective. Thank you.

I love yall soo much. I relate soo much with the content you share. Ei I was also once in a relationship with myself for soo many years with a guy🤣🤣🤣. Until God delivered me from it.

Love this conversation 👌 Also love the Sepedi features 😂

😂😂😍😍🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Your content and characters good people, testimony of God’s goodness in the land of the living 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💞💞 May He take you higher and higher.