Aidan is so much better than big. He also looks better.

@qualqui

4 жыл бұрын

70 other peeps and me are of the same mind as you, why was Carrie so hung up on Big, shoulda been Carrie and Aidan.

@luxaholicanonymous2577

3 жыл бұрын

Joe Serrano - I honestly wish Aidan was the one who went to rescue Carrie in Paris and brought her back to NYC. I’d give anything for an Aidan 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

@RoseRose-ux9bx

3 жыл бұрын

The heart wants what it wants

@AddBowIfGirl

3 жыл бұрын

asiangirldd You’re just insulting the actor now.

@irishutka

3 жыл бұрын

She didn’t deserve Aidan

Not marrying Aiden was the nicest thing she ever did for him.

@discoveringhealthandfinanc8328

3 жыл бұрын

LOL!!! Couldn't agree more!

@asteven8

Жыл бұрын

YES. This! Everyone talks about how Carrie should have chosen Aiden over Big. My thought, especially during a rewatch was, but did they actually work as a couple? They were on completely different pages trying to make it work.

@Beatrix7004

Жыл бұрын

True that. Her and Big deserved each other Both garbage

@freeassange402

9 ай бұрын

And for Herself AS Well. He Just Had a midlife crises 😮

@Snail_Nailz

6 ай бұрын

Well…until big died & then poof there he was…”Just Like That” 😂

The older I get the more I realize how brilliant this show was. It was written by people who really understood the complexity of relationships, trust, toxicity, etc.

@ashlymcgarity5987

10 ай бұрын

which is why I (35f) like Euphoria. It is important to see good dramas that capture current generations' take on marriage, emotions, boundaries, sex, etc. is.

@rachelcoisnacoillte6023

7 ай бұрын

​@@ashlymcgarity5987It's social engineering

@thisnigerianlovesdrinkingg4522

5 ай бұрын

@@ashlymcgarity5987Too bad it fell down in season 2

@plaplaks

3 ай бұрын

@@ashlymcgarity5987 not you comparing that teen show to this

@erikasmith8894

2 ай бұрын

It also bred a generation of women who thought being single and independent and being promiscuous was a good thing until they all got too old to find a man to marry them. They're all over TikTok crying about it still.

this dress looks way better that her actual wedding dress in the movie

@MsMiscellaneous

Жыл бұрын

Right that dress in the movie didn’t look like shit. It was just over the top.

@Oddbisket

Жыл бұрын

All the harsh colours and the giant flaps where her breasts didn't fill. The marshmallow wrinkled cloud of curtain coloured skirt. Just awful

@BrandyFord-xv5rx

7 ай бұрын

Which was the point of the dress. The dress and wedding were bigger than her and Big. She ended up married on a labeless dress.

@katiefulton9456

4 ай бұрын

Thematic points. Vivienne Westwood = highly exaggerated (couture & high fashion design.) oddly, a Similar silhouette seen here, just without the over the top frills. I agree- this silhouette pared down as shown with Aidan here is one of the most flattering/ & imo timeless, definitely can still be found current day. So: it’s back…if it ever left. (anthro Bridal is first that comes to mind…)

@Mini-Toast_

3 ай бұрын

​@@BrandyFord-xv5rxyes but it just didn't look good, so why would she have picked it?

She was female Big to Aiden. She messed with Aiden's heart, just like Big did to Carrie. Carrie begged Big for more commitment just like Aiden is doing in this scene.

@ngarcia1995

2 жыл бұрын

OMG you are so right!!! Carrie is the female Big. But honestly I love Aidan but him and Carrie were incompatible. She's so uptight and he's laid back and enjoys the simple things. I mean sometimes it can work, but in the end I think Carrie only went for Big because he had more money.

@mollyerickson4897

2 жыл бұрын

That is brilliant. Never put those pieces together but you are oh so right!

@marilynhorne4954

2 жыл бұрын

@@ngarcia1995 I don't think that's the case. Big is more mature and sophisticated, he is more intelligent than Aiden and appreciates the same things as Carrie (ie the good life, wine, dinners, cigars, nice clothes ...). It's not just about money. Aiden is uncomplicated, like a cheerful dog. Carrie is a neurotic writer who philosophizes about everything. She needs someone who can understand that side of her.

@ngarcia1995

2 жыл бұрын

@@marilynhorne4954 you're right. That's one of the main reasons my ex and I broke up.. I consider myself philosophical and he hated talking about ideas

@sampuatisamuel9785

2 жыл бұрын

Just what I was thinking

She was right. He can't marry her to trust her. But she's selfish for cheating and he's stupid for coming back.

@MySweetAriane

3 жыл бұрын

He's not stupid just in love

@kaylab6306

3 жыл бұрын

@@MySweetAriane he’s both

@MsCuteangel44

3 жыл бұрын

65roses93 finally someone who gets it. They should have never gotten back together, but the show did that for fan service

@JudgeJeana

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!! 🙏

@veronicasawyer6004

2 жыл бұрын

He was just too stupid to accept her back and she was like 'you have to forgive me' and she got what she wanted: manipulated him so she could breaks his heart again.

"You don't even wear that ring on your f***ing finger!' Ugggh so sad for Aidan.

She was addicted to the pain & suffering that comes with a relationship. Big was able to give her that.

@1Cortexiphan

3 жыл бұрын

Yup. Aidan gave her everything she wanted in a relationship with Big but she rejected it the same way Big rejected her. She was a masochist. She didn’t deserve Aidan.

@whosanth7817

3 жыл бұрын

@@1Cortexiphan didn’t deserve? it literally wasn’t right. why’d he take her back in the first place if he wasn’t able to trust her. this was his own fault. he also kept pushing marriage onto her even after she told him she needed time

@julierowe1732

4 ай бұрын

I'm not trying to be offensive but every time I read one of these "Carrie is such a masochist, Carrie is addicted to pain" comments, I can't help but think what stupid bullsh*t that is. Carrie wasn't addicted to pain or rejection. She tolerated it because she loved the good times and nobody else compared to Big for her. Unfortunately, he took her for granted and that sucks. But let's be real about why she kept going back. She kept going back because she never felt that same chemistry or attraction with anyone else.

put it in his perspective...she cheated on him and not only that when they get back together she is still best friends with the man she cheated on him with, and expects him to be ok with that...Its hard for anyone with those circumstances to trust that person

@aniakaleta101

7 жыл бұрын

That is why he shouldnt have proposed to her at the first place! pushing her into marriage only made him feel worse

@GorgieClarissa

6 жыл бұрын

well getting married in VEGAS is never the right answer

@kellymariekitty309

6 жыл бұрын

Natalie Goldman exactly and remember her reaction when he was friends with the barmaid. She hated it and told him in the street “Go fuck her” What a bitch. I hated Carrie. Expecting everyone to do what she wants, she treated Berger like crap. I liked him for calling her on her bullshit. She’s an asshole. Taking big to aidens cabin, screaming at the squirrel, insulting burgers book then telling him they should be able to discuss if she does something wrong. Then when he tells her “nice hat” she insults him as walks away. She can give it but not take it. I hate her. You can’t expect him to be ok with the guy she cheated with but he can’t be friends with a girl. Selfish cow in every way. I’ve never liked Carrie and couldn’t be friends with her, or Charlotte or mirander. God charlottes a complete stuck up snob and a cow.

@mandyfleischer3301

6 жыл бұрын

+Natalie Goldman Sure, but nobody forced him to get together with Carrie again.

@miasummers3886

6 жыл бұрын

Kellymarie Kitty Are you seriously holding against Carrie just cause she made a little comment about Berger's book? She said NYC women don't wear scrunchies - that's it. If he can't take that, then he shouldn't be a writer - they have to hear much harsher reviews than that. Carrie herself heard harsher reviews like when she began working for Vogue. Just cause you date someone, doesn't mean you have to put everything they do on a pedestal, not to mention, Carrie worked her ass off to compensate for her less-than-nice comment to Berger. If there is a Carrie relationship that didn't fail because of her, it's the one with Berger. And Aidan shouldn't have taken her back if he wasn't able to trust her

She loved the idea of having him around whenever she needed him.

@natalie651

11 ай бұрын

And he was right to leave that bs

I married an Aiden and love him to death. Best decision ever!

@alexandraschuster9700

4 жыл бұрын

There isn't a scarier word than Loving to death!! All the men who have killed their women for leaving them, they also loved them to death and that goes for women who loved their partners to death. Don't used that word anymore if you think about the meaning behind it... it ain't good

@starlingswallow

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!!!

@bauman7962

3 жыл бұрын

I did too! 🤗🤗🤗

@carolinaprado-rico5628

3 жыл бұрын

I married my Aiden too!!! ❤❤❤ He's been the best husband ever.

@isag4411

3 жыл бұрын

alexandra schuster it’s just a saying. Like “I’ll love him till death”.

she never loved him.

@santileonsteinberg1441

8 жыл бұрын

He was too good for her 😒

@reneesmae1

7 жыл бұрын

whashanninwaaah that's the thing I don't get w the character, is it cause her father adbanden her,big whoop there's lots of fathers that do that.she a grown ass women get over it there's worse things that can happen.

@jacquiew.9165

6 жыл бұрын

He didn't love her either. He was married in less than 6 months. He saw her as property.

@nemuihana

6 жыл бұрын

She did. But they just weren’t right for each other anyway

@jelena7440

4 жыл бұрын

@@jacquiew.9165 proves Miranda's theory that man are like cabs.

"I can't believe I'm back here again"....That line wasn't in the script John put it in during the scene cause he thought it worked and it does

@yangtzeling7468

2 жыл бұрын

The one line that made me tear.

@jrwheeler81

2 жыл бұрын

I really felt for Aiden here. He had totally given himself to Carrie and he truly did love her, but she unfairly led him on and agreed to marry him when she knew she wasn't even close to being ready for that kind of commitment and was eventually going to break his heart. She had a hard enough time letting the guy into her damn apartment and making room for him there. In the back of her mind, she still wasn't over Big. I don't get it. Aiden was PERFECT in every way and soooooooo sexy with his new trimmed down look and short hair. Ironically, Carrie was acting EXACTLY the way that Big acted towards her for so long and she couldn't stand it. Then, she turned around and did exactly to Aiden what Big had done to her as far as being emotionally unavailable and avoiding commitment.

@AshleySpeaks09

2 жыл бұрын

And it was brilliant. It breaks my heart.

@Cyndib93

11 ай бұрын

And SJP plays off the ad-libbed line perfectly. Such a well acted scene.

“Can’t believe I’m back here again…” So sad… 😞 Carrie did not deserve Aiden.

@laurenmarco6162

5 ай бұрын

I know! When I first watched it I was like hurt with him!

No woman is scared to marry the man she loves unless she is not really inlove with him.

@jessicaparker4793

4 жыл бұрын

She never loved him you can tell..he treated her to good

@sarcasticallyrearranged

4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, untrue. It's normal to be nervous about making a lifelong commitment, especially when one of the parties keeps pushing for it.

@hunnyflash

4 жыл бұрын

They were too different. Aiden wanted the typical life. Kids and whatever. Carrie didn't.

@debbieholzherr2990

4 жыл бұрын

I agree

@MsSonnencreme

3 жыл бұрын

Sarcastically Deranged nervous? Yes! Scared? Not normal

Huge props to SJP and John Corbett. Their acting and chemistry is TOP notch. Everything about their relationship (both S3 and S4) and breakups feel so real.

@thelegendofthem6120

Жыл бұрын

Well im so upset w Carrie. Now Big is dead...and she better not go after Aidan.

I loved when he said. “This is me. I don’t have any tricks up my sleeve.” I have had girlfriends for 20 years, I want you to be my wife. I loved that scene. This will be me one day and I’ll say. Yes!

@aspyn.j_

3 жыл бұрын

right words, wrong person.

@enlessmalikhwa

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@nenee009

2 жыл бұрын

you forgot the part where it was implied he only wanted to marry her because he couldn't trust her otherwise lol

@nicolawaldbauer6621

Жыл бұрын

Relationships can be perfectly fine without marriage. Some people are freedom types - they can be happy without a ring and a piece of paper, some are marriage types, and some change their type after important experiences. Aidan was the marriage type. One could see that at the first time he met Carrie.

@cortezconquistador

Жыл бұрын

Me too I will definitely say yes.

In fairness the fault in this argument lies with Aidan because he should've never proposed to her. He should've left her when she said she wouldn't stop being friends with Big. It was made clear then she would never marry him.

@nenisguevaragomez8122

4 жыл бұрын

I só agree with you.

@ranibabe2383

4 жыл бұрын

I would be loading my gun if my boyfriend wanted to be friends with an ex whom he cheated on me with!

@analigiabatres9114

3 жыл бұрын

And also he should have just accepted it when she said no or left if it was a problem for him

@freeassange402

3 жыл бұрын

Aiden is to needy for her like she is to Mr big

@Eleanor_Freya

2 жыл бұрын

Agree. I think even if I was in love, in a situation like that it would have been an ultimatum - either me or him. Besides, it was Carrie who chased Aidan like crazy Carrie style and initiated getting back together, he didn’t even want it, he was in peace. So at that point, if she refused to stop seeing Big, that should have been that, and Aidan would just stay in the same peace of mind.

I always saw Carrie as not a real person, but a manifestation of everything that can be wrong with you. In that respect I do think she is a great and compelling character. A majority, like myself, though Carrie was cool upon the first watch. But after multiple rewatchings, you realize how self-absorbed and drama ridden she was because she shamelessly refused break bad habits and grow. To me, she and Big ended up together simply because they deserved each other.

@leopardprints

8 жыл бұрын

+pinkfoundglory Yes, it's amazing the difference in opinion on the characters once you get older and look back at the series. I too thought Carrie was cool, but she is a terrible person. Her cheating on Aiden is one of the meanest things I've seen on TV, in terms of psychological cruelty. He was such a sweetie. It kind of spoiled the show for me a bit, because Carrie became so detestable, and not in an anti-hero interesting way. But just really annoying and un-watchable. I'll never understand why the writers made her so awful. Then there's that great episode when it's Carrie's birthday, and she's sad because she doesn't gave a guy in her life. But it's ruined, because you remember that Carrie did that horrible thing to Aiden and it's impossible to feel sorry for her. I think part of Carrie's charm comes from SJP as she's such a good actress, and seems charismatic and sweet.

@DeepScreenAnalysis

6 жыл бұрын

Carrie is the Scarlett O'Hara of the 21st century. A spoiled bitch but still strangely compelling.

@hunnyflash

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure what everyone wants Carrie to "grow" into. I think people forget that Carrie and Samantha were closest because they had so much in common. Carrie's main issues were that she couldn't reconcile who she really was with what she thought she was supposed to be.

@isabelleelkhoudri6495

3 жыл бұрын

People who love Carrie's character are drama queens.

@AnthonyCayne

2 жыл бұрын

@@DeepScreenAnalysis don't come for Scarlett O'Hara. Scarlett was resourceful, ambitious and saved her family and home from ruin. She was a survivor. Carrie and Scarlett are not alike in a single way besides the fashions.

One of the most heartbreaking scenes ever

@GeorgiaAndrea

Жыл бұрын

For Aiden.

Carrie was too cosmopolitan for Aiden, and he was too organic for her. That's why she never could connect with Aiden. The tie to Big was too great; they were a better fit together. All Aiden wanted to do is settle down and make babies. Carrie was never about that, and that's why her connection to Big could not be broken. I knew all along that Big was The One for Carrie. I definitely can relate to how she feels with regard to relationships, and hers with Aiden. You can't start a marriage together if only one is ready to do it.

@kymbatism

7 жыл бұрын

lillobo1 Randolff, oh God, you nailed it!!

@dianewebb5772

6 жыл бұрын

lillobo1 Randolff Yeah. Aiden liked the rustic life at his upstate cabin with the squirrels where Carrie shrieked at the sight of! And a quieter, homely life. She liked clubbing, cocktails and glamour etc.

@nenisguevaragomez8122

4 жыл бұрын

@@dianewebb5772 right, even when she finally got married to Big she, complains about him because he wanted to stay home...

@leonorapaust6369

3 жыл бұрын

yeah i agree. And that's not to say they didn't love each other! But with Aiden's mindset... so you fall in love. What do you do? You get married. What do you do when you get married? You make babies. What do you do with babies? You raise them, love them, teach them about life and what comes along. And then what? Continue working? Retire? What do you do? Does Carrie look like she has answers to these questions? Or like she wants half of those things?

@auraandrei146

3 жыл бұрын

They didn’t want the same things. You can like someone as a person, be attracted to them, but if you don’t want the same things in life then that relationship cannot be.

The best line of the series came from this episode. “We had left the land of black and white, and now everything was gray.” Gets me every time.

God knows I hate Carrie...but I have to say I'm on her side in this situation. I see why Aidan wants the security of marriage after what she did, but pushing her into it is not the solution. Marrying someone so that they don't cheat on you is preposterous- and it doesn't guarentee they won't cheat either.

@minnbeef

4 жыл бұрын

I think you could have just stopped at “God knows I hate Carrie”.

@AddBowIfGirl

3 жыл бұрын

minnbeef Why do women hate Carrie so much? It’s such a different experience reading comments under shows I like with flawed male leads like Tony Soprano and Don Draper vs shows I like with flawed female leads like Carrie Bradshaw and Rory Gilmore. Men are always so... brotherly. “Bros before hoes” seems to be the code they live by no matter what. There’s strength in that unity I realize. You would never see a guy commenting say that even the most flawed male lead didn’t “deserve” their girlfriend or wife. They always empathetic with and root for flawed male leads. Women meanwhile are so... not sisterly. They hate flawed women so strongly and so deeply. Empathy isn’t even on the table for morally imperfect female characters. Everyone struggles to empathize with female characters actually. Even actual nice guys don’t hate flawed male protagonists with this much ire. And flawed male leads tend to be considerably worse than characters like Carrie but still inspire empathy and adoration. Meanwhile, I can’t even find a SatC clip anymore without multiple women calling Carrie some misogynistic slur in the comments at this point. Men and women are socialized differently alright. It’s nuts.

@SamueLewis1991

3 жыл бұрын

@@AddBowIfGirl youre right, i've had moments where i've hated Carrie but people forget she's a character and if you look at the comments in a lot of videos where she's being problematic and selfish, a lot of people say 'i know someone just like this'. That's the point, she's not supposed to make all the right decisions and do all the right things otherwise the show would be less interesting. We watch Carrie make mistake after mistake and we learn through her mistakes and we see how she re establishes her life each time she has to start over. Miranda was cruel to Steve many times, Charlotte was dismissive and shallow towards Harry originally, Samantha has had her problematic moments too, but they all evade the same criticism Carrie gets as a character. Don't get me wrong, as an younger person Carrie was my fav and as an adult i see her differently, Miranda is the most consistent character and Samantha is the most progressive. But without Carrie and all her mistakes and flaws what kind of show would SATC be!?

@umadamle1

3 жыл бұрын

Add Bow If Girl Spot on man ! We expect flaws in male characters but want nothing but superhuman perfection from female characters. Don Draper was a MUCH worse person than Carrie ever was yet he is beloved and accepted with all his flaws. Thanks for saying this.

@jasminecrawford42

3 жыл бұрын

@@AddBowIfGirl I also love how flawed she is. Maybe some women just hate to see the worst parts of themselves and women they know played onscreen.

Overall, I think this show's exploration of the complexity and ambiguity within relationships was brilliant.

@nope_n0pe

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!! This is a brilliant comment. So many don’t realize this isn’t necessarily a perfect ending show. It’s about real relationships and all the highs, lows, mistakes, issues, their problems/intimacy issues, etc.

@kangadillo

Жыл бұрын

@@nope_n0pe Thank you!

if you dont want Aidan.. give him to ME !!!

@eloisagarcia3300

3 жыл бұрын

What, you want his body, Orochimaru?

@bh3855

2 ай бұрын

He wants the bitches

Thank you. I always thought it was absurd that Carrie not only begged Aidan to go back to her, but pressured(forced) him into accepting her "friendship" with Big--the guy she cheated with the first time around! Aidan broke the mold. I would've said yes to him...twice.

Miranda feeling the baby kick and the delight on her face is absolutely beautiful.

What I was most pissed about was that she willingly took the ring from him after saying yes and then never wore it.. yet made excuses about it

@ThePOPDIVA24

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that should’ve been aidan’s first clue that Carrie just wasn’t into the idea of marrying him. Another clue would be if she wasn’t telling people that she was engaged, especially if other men tried to hit on her. Aidan was not wrong to bring up his concerns with carrie about the ring, but trying to force her into marriage that night was not the way. A better time would’ve been when they were in a more private setting and alone.

@jeffreysealey5716

2 жыл бұрын

My ex girlfriend wouldn't even put her engagement ring on a chain. Left it in the box in the glove compartment. Until it was stolen by intruder. Never told her friends or family either.

@user-yb6tk1ru6x

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeffreysealey5716 why did she say yes to the proposal? Maybe she didn't want to hurt your feelings by saying no. Or she wasn't ready to end it with you but didn't want to actually marry you? Relationships are very complex.

@mabelw7

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeffreysealey5716 do u ave pics?

@SenseiAishitemasu

2 жыл бұрын

Y’all just say whatever and barely remember the show… she did wear the ring. She wore it for three episodes, from episode 12 (when he proposed) to episode 14. Meaning she wore it for several months in the timeline of the show. In episode 14 she started wearing it around her neck after the Australian gay guy kept making a big deal out of it. This scene when they broke up was episode 15.

Oh please! Aiden wanted to marry her for all the wrong reasons. If he didn't trust her why did he get back together with her? People bash Carrie for getting back together with Big but people aren't as hard on Aiden for getting back together with Carrie. There was obviously tension in that relationship the second time around and Aiden tended to be passive aggressive. They didn't have anything in common. I don't know why people swear she should be with Aiden when it's obvious they were not compatible. Just because a guy is nice doesn't mean he's the one for you. Aiden should've picked up on the signs too. She told him she wasn't ready so why was he pressuring her? If he were a woman he'd be labeled as desperate but because he's a guy he gets a pass because guys can do whatever they want.

@RiskeFactor

7 жыл бұрын

She gave him obvious signs that she couldnt be trusted, and that through their 2nd go around she still had feelings for Big. He saw that and made the right choice by dumping her...

@princepeterwolf

7 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU OMG FINALLY SOMEONE GETS IT

@ria8594

7 жыл бұрын

oh yea I met this type, it's all about what they want...don't do anything you don't want to and always trust your institution.

@Releasethezazen

7 жыл бұрын

You're right. Aiden should've gotten the HELL out of there, and never looked back after she cheated.

@cristinarivera5707

7 жыл бұрын

I also recall in the 2nd movie he went out to dinner with Carrie and kissed her even though he was married with 3 sons. People always seem to forget that as they're putting this dude on a pedestal.

I am so glad she said no. Cos he deserved better.

No matter what she was the one who basically begged aiden to get back with her. Going to his house in the middle of the night tossing rocks at his window. Had she just left him alone they would never have gotten in this situation

@koolaidman6251

5 жыл бұрын

Aiden is at fault. When someone cheats on you, they have shown they have zero respect for you. No love, no respect. They see you as a game, nothing more. He took her back. When you take back a cheater you are saying "It's ok to cheat on me! I don't mind! Please treat me like garbage!! I love to be disrespected and treated like garbage!"

@sasukecoochieha

4 жыл бұрын

@@koolaidman6251 nahh I think he believed that she had changed, and realized what she lost. It has nothing to do with accepting cheating then or again in a relationship

@koolaidman6251

4 жыл бұрын

@@sasukecoochieha Cheaters don't change. Cheating is like child molestation. you don't just do it one day and stop the next. Once a child molestor, always a child molestor. Once a cheater, always a cheater 100%

@annah995

3 жыл бұрын

@@koolaidman6251 that is just not true and such a stupid comparison... some people cheat and never want to be in this situation again and do something like this - like me. The way you think about people would be that once someone makes a mistake he will continue with it forever. not true

@user-yb6tk1ru6x

2 жыл бұрын

@@annah995 the world isn't that black and white. But I do think Carrie and Charlotte are pathetic.

I just noticed. is it just a coincidence that they're both dressed the same way as when they first broke up outside of the church?

@MrAmon127

5 жыл бұрын

Actually on the commentary of S4 they stated that they had them go to that party to make them look like they could be married which make the scene even more ironic.

@alexandraschuster9700

4 жыл бұрын

Aiden did not look as good as he does here. I miss this show or what reminds of, I guess. Really great times, confusing, complicated because of my immaturity, but the best years of my young adult life. Now, I am single unexpectedly but happier than I have ever been living and enjoying the best years of what's left of what's left of my youthful looks...but fading rather quickly.

@silvana11221122

Жыл бұрын

@@alexandraschuster9700 hope you didnt fade...:D

The whole reason why she refused to marry aiden was because she was still inlove with big but that's just my theory.

@19.grmm_

3 жыл бұрын

I think she loved Aidan so much that she only agreed to marry him because that's what he wanted but she didn't want to get married or anything like that and so she was right not to marry him because marrying just to feel sure you won't be cheated on is not a good reason to get married.

@WestIndianAK

3 жыл бұрын

Is that even a theory at this point? She ultimately married Big!! It’s public record that he’s the one she was meant to be with (for better or worse)!!! 😂

@lindajackson2382

2 жыл бұрын

It's NOT just a theory because it's the ABSOLUTE TRUTH! No viewer could EVER deny that!

@kayaluko4525

2 жыл бұрын

I think it was that and Aiden is very pushy. I don’t like people forcing me into a decision either, it’s annoying and tbh I would rather do the exact opposite when they do that.

@TheDignam

17 күн бұрын

If it was Big who asked for marriage, she would said yes in 2 seconds. Carrie loved more Big, and wanted to stay independant, at this time.

So she finally got what she was asking for, a guy that don't hesitate to say she is the one! And what does she do? The same thing big do to her. We are so dumb sometimes .

@ladyGZSeChu

8 жыл бұрын

we always want the ones we can't have, unfortunately

@nenisguevaragomez8122

4 жыл бұрын

Right

@MsCNail-fe1sj

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly, Aiden loved her unconditionally...no games...he was always there for her...loved and took care of her...and we dumb females always go for the BAD guy.

@niharikakhullar7675

3 жыл бұрын

We are not dumb , these women might be .

@charlotte87x

2 жыл бұрын

A person could be loving, amazing, loyal... doesn't make them the person for us though.

I actually agreed with Carrie on this one. If Aiden and Carrie had rushed into marriage they would’ve surely ended up in a very messy divorce later on. And trust doesn’t matter either. If Carrie was gonna cheat again, she would’ve done it, with or without marriage. Love her or hate her, Carrie was right here.

@SD_91

2 жыл бұрын

What ever she wanted to do it's up to her. But she should have left him alone .. she is simply unfaithful and undeserved ..

@TeeGirl91

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree .... At this point she was deeply in love with him. He should not have rushed her into marriage.

@SD_91

2 жыл бұрын

@@TeeGirl91she is not in dilemma to marry him.. actually she is cheating him.. that why she is not accepting to marry him. She is just using him..

@jrwheeler81

2 жыл бұрын

Carrie never should have said yes to the ring if she wasn't ready......

@jacquiew.9165

10 ай бұрын

​@@SD_91And how was she cheating on him? What show did you watch?

Watched this show first in my early 20s - watching it now with a lot more relationship experience I️ have a completely different opinion of the characters! It’s crazy!

@user-ls2vj9bp7r

5 жыл бұрын

Same! I re-watched them around 6 months apart. The first time I saw the show I romanticized Carrie and her city-girl lifestyle. It all looked fabulous. The second time around I realized she was not such a good friend and was so self-serving. She always had to talk about her issues with men to her friends but would always dismissed whatever dilemmas they were going through. The show to me went from fabulous to "I can't believe she is seen as likeable."

@alejandramarquez6804

3 жыл бұрын

You have grew up. Carrie is the typical immature women that we all had been.

@Cristina_504

Жыл бұрын

Same here I was in my late teens when I got obsessed with this show now it hits close to home

@chiklua

Жыл бұрын

Same for me. I absolutely hate Carrie now. She's just childish and self absorbed.

i understand her sooo much he could be the most wonderful guy in the world but when your heart says something else u have to follow it

@lepetitchat123

4 жыл бұрын

Explains why huManity is fucked because they are incapable of rationality

He just wasn't her type of man. I understand her being a woman myself. If something isn't working, doesn't feel right, it's just not working, that's it. Aiden was a very good man, but just not her type, starting with their absolutely different lifestyles and core values. It was obvious that they'd break up, sooner or later, but would end up breaking up

@kathconserv

5 жыл бұрын

Kymbat Yessenbay she never should have begged for him to come back.

@crisvanfan

4 жыл бұрын

BxGirl Blazin' Obviously there were still some feelings there.... lots of couples break up and make up before finally going are separate ways stop being so judge mental

@rafalkowalczyk5027

3 жыл бұрын

@Narc 1820 yeah, she is human anti-pattern, I hate how she treat other people; Aidan in this situation is only example - Carrie hate to be treated good, thats trait of very stupid people; Big and Carrie are selfish, childless people, deserve each other

This scene is so real. She is really a good actress. It was clear she was still in love Big and never in love with him.

But she did it twice !! She could just leave him alone after she hurt him the first time.

@kathconserv

4 жыл бұрын

Angeee017 that’s right.

@vgcc9723

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

Aidan was just an all around great guy. Really down to earth and caring. I never liked Big - kinda pompous with his money and power. He knew he had Carrie at his fingertips and knew the right buttons to push. But Big and Carrie deserve each other cuz Aiden deserves better.

They act so beautifully in this scene, well done

Aidan is right " if you dont want to marry me now you all never want to " I married a man after knowing him for 3 weeks and it last 32 years (till his accidental death)

You can love a person so much, even if you know you’re not meant to be together.

If someone seems like they're not into you, they're not!

Ladies, if you can't picture yourself saying yes to a proposal and meaning it with all your heart, don't say yes. Get out before the inevitable breakup becomes much messier than it needs to be.

She was ready for marry to Mr. Big, but not Aidan. This scene breaks my heart.

I have seen this episode SO many times since it was on TV and it always makes me cry when she carfefully walks up to him and lays down on the floor next to him....

@lt0518

2 жыл бұрын

That part KILLS me

If Carrie was serious about Aidan, she would have agreed to his request to kick Big out of her life. She refused, therefore her heart was never fully given to Aidan even in this scene, and she knew it. Aidan was smart to dump her.

Yes, that is why the show was soooooo good. It was funny and powerful. I know people consider it a "chick show," but I'm a guy and I loved it! And i'm not gay. (Not that there's anything wrong with that.)

@LittleMissHoop

2 жыл бұрын

:) LOL

You never stand for Carrie but this was Aiden's fault too. When you see that someone doesn't want to commit with you you walk away. You don't push him harder.

I love that dress. And No she loves Big we all knew that.

He dodged a bullet good for him

He is so freaking adorable, wish I met a man like him.

i have my aidan in my life.I am so blessed.

@LPBineli

3 жыл бұрын

Still together?

@Mulmulmist

3 жыл бұрын

Lucky

@checkyoblindspotscha9058

3 жыл бұрын

SAME

@Floppylikescheese

2 жыл бұрын

@@LPBineli ohhh the hard hitting questions 👀

Aiden wasn't pressuring her to get married, Carrie was the one who said yes to his proposal, so if she said yes you'd think she'd e ready for marriage, but she obviously wasn't so she never shoulda said yes to poor Aiden, she was always so horrible to him, he deserved someone way better then Carrie!

Aidan was a breath of fresh air, considering the other types of men Carrie dated. Still, Aidan was controlling. First the pressure to marry him. And as the show later demonstrated, even if Carrie had married him, he would have been after her immediately to have a baby -- all on HIS schedule, whether his plans suited Carrie or not.

@tearsofawaterfall2656

2 жыл бұрын

Only because she cheated and refused to stop seeing big though. He constantly wanted her to prove she was solely interested in him as a result. Once she cheated their relationship became very unhealthy

@freeassange402

2 жыл бұрын

Aiden is realy needy

@wonipowa7542

Жыл бұрын

It would have been interesting if she married him, rushed into the baby and hated all of it and left him but that also would have been very depressing

@macie8571

Жыл бұрын

I mean there the show never talks about biological clocks. When you get to be in your 30s without kids it drives you mad or pains you and you can naturally get pushy.

@jonwiley2592

Жыл бұрын

@@macie8571 are you referring to men or women in their 30s? A man can still father a child into his 60s all things considered.

I adored Aidan, but his trust issues caused him to act up and cross the line here. When the person you love is still hanging round with the ex they cheated on you with....you HAVE to walk away. Pressuring someone to marry you is a form of control borne from insecurity. Take away the cheating, and they still really werent right for each other.

@Vr4z1el

2 жыл бұрын

Carries cheating made him insecure. As would cheating from your partner would make any of us. Its impossible to recover from a cheating partner. If you keep them around it will just mess with your head and make you insecure and unsure of yourself constantly. Carrie also took it to another level of staying in contact with the person she cheated with. Thats really a low blow for Aidens self estemm.

When the other person doesnt really want you ; you just know. Aiden knew but he was trying to escape the fact.

You cannot force to love anyone no matter how amazing they are

@elizabethtineo8471

9 ай бұрын

Exactly

The writers did a great job by making Carrie the most absurdly indecisive woman and among all her friends the only one who doesn't know what she wants and keeps hurting everyone in the way of figuring it out yet plays the victim every single time

"That's a very good look for you " yeah.. cos big wears that 🤦🏼‍♀️

" I want to sleep in the other apartment tonight" " really?" ..yeah really".. just no feelings..from Carrie

@Nndggdcgc

7 жыл бұрын

elluc1510 ikr!

"Omg you still don't trust me" ... Yes, cheaters aren't supposed to be trusted again.

@rugbyplayer9100

2 жыл бұрын

With that logic, he shouldn’t have taken her back in the first place

they were not compatible from the beginning... i knew it

Good for you! Met my Aiden three years ago today. It has been the happiest 3 years of my entire life! Was in love with Mr Big and it was nothing but heartache. Aiden came and I almost gave him up because he was "too nice"!! I almost made a Carrie move but luckily I realized before it was too late that my Aiden was the right one for me.

@MaryTheresa1986

7 жыл бұрын

Good for you! Are you still together? I found my "Aidan" 7 years ago. :)

@pamstewart77

6 жыл бұрын

The Childfree Curly Girl what about the Russian man he was very attractive and loved Carrie in a different way

@laurajones1832

6 жыл бұрын

I am with my aidan too 😀

@mpk6457

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve probably met the Aiden of my life but he is too nice as you say how do I get over that!

It tragically funny how the World is... There's a people like Carry who meet a guy like Aiden and she can't love him really and there's a people who's waiting their whole life to meet someone like Aiden, but meets only Carrie's type of persons...

@Yahya_352

4 жыл бұрын

Reading that terrifies me.

@ranju1710

3 жыл бұрын

😕

@Ar_gy

3 жыл бұрын

Sad but true.

@headphonic8

3 жыл бұрын

I've met my Aiden and I've never been happier. Hell, I met a man BETTER than Aiden, because Aiden could be a bit controlling and was a pushover when she cheated on him.

When someone is pushing you to get Married oh no

@sandradiaz3429

4 жыл бұрын

Not good.

i love aiden he's the perfect boyfriend

Aiden is exactly why I block all my exes. Some call it immaturity. I call it not being a masochist.

@elaineg6909

3 жыл бұрын

And I thought I was the only one doing this ......... I don’t keep their numbers , I do block them burn all bridges ........... and for me there’s definitely no way back

@Vr4z1el

2 жыл бұрын

@@elaineg6909 Block and delete is the only way to be with an ex. Being friends never works and staying in contact only keeps wounds from healing. If you try to work things out, it just repeats the cycle of something that wasnt meant to be and ultimately wastes time finding the right person for you.

in all honesty, Carrie didn't love him like she should have but still Aiden was wanting to marry her for the wrong reasons. he didn't trust her (and has a right to) and though marriage could fix it since he did actually love her. Carrie kinda treated him like Big treated her. he was desperate and wanted her even though they didn't seen right (like carrie was to Big).

The heart wants what the heart wants. I don't know how many are old enough yet to know that. But you will.

To all the people blaming Aiden for loving Carrie just look at how Big broke her heart again. She put together a big beautiful wedding something she always dreamed of with Big and he pulled off. Then only wanted to be in the house ordering take out. If you guys feel that Carrie won with Big than I feel sorry for the things your willing to put up with just to get the man you spent 10 years chasing. Aiden is not perfect but I know he would have loved that woman and gave her everything he had to offer.

"I can't marry you to make you trust me".

Aidan was as adorable and sincere as he could be. He gave her all not once but twice. Sadly, her heart was rooted for Big and she knew it. She sold herself low to the guy who had commitment issues and allowed the very same person to toying with her emotions. At the end of the day, no one but herself was responsible for the drama she created.

@dianewebb5772

6 жыл бұрын

lmc2664 she should never have got back with him. Very ill matched.

@jenshen71

Жыл бұрын

Poor Aidan ……… but they did well. I have to agree she should not rush into it.

A little T.V. show trivia.. When Adain said "I can't believe I'm back here again" was just an add lib. Sarah Jessica Parkers reaction to it saying "ah, shit" was an actual reaction to his.

I’ll never understand why Aiden was so intent on marrying Carrie, when he knew there was a major disconnect. I’m beginning to think for him it became a big competition … to steal Carrie’s heart from Big. That’s very evident in this scene. Aiden and Carrie were a bad match and I think the writers carried this romance too far. They probably did so because Aiden was beloved by fans.

@MaryTheresa1986

2 жыл бұрын

I heard that originally they weren't going to bring him back after the cheating debacle, but changed their minds because he was so loved by fans.

@jennifermcgee8621

2 жыл бұрын

@@MaryTheresa1986 I think that's why they are bringing him into the reboot. Though there haven't been any photos of him shooting in New York.

"if you don't want to marry me rigth now, you never wanna marry me.... i can't believe I am back here again"....I love love love Aidan :'(... his desperation face!, it's broke my heart!!!

They were just a bad match. "if you don't want to marry me now, you'll never want to marry me.." the anthem of insecure men everywhere. :\

@jacquiew.9165

6 жыл бұрын

Very insecure and petty.

@Cynnas

6 жыл бұрын

No, it's a perfect example of how men think vs. how women think. Men are generally so much more rational and are generally problem solvers. But I felt the same way when my husband and I decided to get married, why wait?

@miasummers3886

6 жыл бұрын

Laura K. Men aren't more rational than women and Aidan is definately not rational. He obviously never managed to trust her again, so why give her a second shot? Rational would have been to say "sorry, I can never trust you again after you cheated" and move on, not have a relatonship with a person they no longer trust and try to push them to marry you. Not to mention that believing marriage would solve your trust issues is also completely irrational. Big was married when he cheated and tons and tons of married people cheat. If anything, believing in such an obvious lie, makes Aidan come across as incredibly stupid

@kathconserv

5 жыл бұрын

Shannon Sannuti-Cetrone he’s right though.

@Yahya_352

4 жыл бұрын

Or the the anthem of absolute truth for both sexes.

I understood where Aidan was coming from in this scene. After a certain point, you just want to marry the one you love. I also understood where Carrie was coming from - especially not wanting to marry Aidan because he didn't trust her.

Carrie and Aidan didn't have much together but "love", with Big she found friendship aside from love and they just click better. Sure, Big is unstable and fickle but is Carrie any different? They're perfect for each other.

Carrie never deserved Aidan for a single minute end of story.

This was probably the most beautiful dress she ever wore on the show

Aidan was a wonderful man. I would marry him and renew my vows with him.

@stardustring

2 жыл бұрын

I would have married him too

To people saying: "no woman would ever reject the man who truly loves..." Well that's nonsense learnt from Disney movies. You can fall in love, you can love, but that's not enough. The relationship must gain trust, see how it goes when together, see where it's heading, wait some time and see how it matures... The first years are magical, but then the sparks calm down. It's more important making sure that it's a good one, rather than jumping to the marriage idea based on some romantic fairytale.

Aidan was too good for her she deserved toxic Mr Big . She complained about big not wanting to commit but then she rejects a good man that was willing to commit to her .

No one needs to be pushed to marry. Marriage is by both parts consent, not only one.

@RoseRose-ux9bx

3 жыл бұрын

But she was selfish enough to want him back after she hurted him so much.

@alouette5222

3 жыл бұрын

@@RoseRose-ux9bx yes she made mistakes, a lot, but on this one i am with her. This is not fair, he wants smth that she doesn't want and does not feel ready to do it yet. Pushing someone to do smth that you want is not fair at all. What about her, her feelings, her being ready and feel it just like him... if he loved her he might have waited some more.

I don’t know about the rest of you- but this scene was a relief for me- it would have been far sadder had she married him because you KNOW she would have finished killing Aidens heart by cheating on him with Big again and then she would have divorced him anyway. Carrie yells “who else’s would I be?!” like we all don’t know the answer: Big’s. You’ve always considered yourself to be THE woman of Big’s life Carrie- why else would she have refused to let go of him when Aiden asked? Your very serious boyfriend gives you a second chance after you raw dogged Big behind his back for weeks- asks you to stop talking to him which is MORE than fair and all she can say is “I can’t, He’s part of my life”- that’s when Aiden should have dumped her ass for good. He knew she would always prefer running after some creepy schmuck to actually making a life with him. Hell she can’t even spend a weekend at the cabin with her new man without forcing him to have the PRICK that fucked his girlfriend over as a guest to drink his wine and spend the night. Carrie and Big deserve each other because they are horrible people lol

Carrie never deserved Aidan for a single minute, period. And let's face it if SJP wasn't a producer of this show no way in hell she ends up with Big.

This show is AMAZNG, I will forever DESPISE AJLT and what they did to this show’s memory!

when your not ready, your just not ready.

@BriEntAnderson

3 жыл бұрын

True, the moment I met my husband before we got married I knew I wanted to marry him right off the bat.

"Aidan you're pushing me" And you cheated on him bch!!!! Team Aidan!!!

she was ready to marry Big some episodes ago tho

The way she wore his ring around her neck instead of her finger and then dragging her feet about the wedding planning, then was SCARED about marrying him, and calling it a HUGE MISTAKE, you knew it wasn't ever going to happen.

And then the way they drop kicked you right in the heart at the very end of the episode, Carrie's voiceover, "The next day, Aiden moved out."

She did to him what Big did to her. He wanted from her what she wanted from Big.

There's no "maternal gene", Carrie. That's just love; the stronger it is, the deeper our connection and more encompassing our dynamic gets. My children are _not_ the only people I've felt these instincts for, and I know my husband and father have felt them too.

Aidan was the best. It just doesnt get much better than Aidan. You can chase all the "Bigs" in the world, but eventually the Aidans are the guys you WISH you hadnt let slip away.

He was too good for Carrie.

I have met man like Aidan and I am so happy, I have waited 7 years ( no boyfriend ) and in fact 10 years for him to declare his love oficially, but now I am the happiest girl on the world:-)