My WORST Break Up Story (Animated)

In this video, we look at how to get over a breakup. It’s almost inevitable that we all go through a breakup at some point in our lives, regardless if we are the ones initiating the break, or we are the ones getting broken up with, it still sucks either way. And it will make you feel terrible.
In this video I share a story about a man who not only goes through a bad breakup, but he actually gets cheated. There are two ways you can choose to handle a breakup, you can let it ruin your life, or you can choose to use it as an opportunity to improve your self, and an opportunity to make your dreams comes true. I truely think this video will help you.
Dating is not easy, and it’s not really something that we are taught in school. I hope this video helps you guys get over breakups.

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  • @MasculineMan
    @MasculineMan5 жыл бұрын

    My goal with this channel is to serve you guys, and create videos that add value to your lives. So if you enjoyed this video, subscribe and hit the bell icon :) Many more stories to come in the future!

  • @GreenOx-yo6nk

    @GreenOx-yo6nk

    5 жыл бұрын

    Masculine man, I am trying to be like Jeff I am trying to better myself every day, I want to be the best me that I can be so I can eventually keep a relationship, would it be too much trouble to ask for some advice from you?

  • @saifulanswer

    @saifulanswer

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jeff story is kinda cool, but it's too good to be true. Noone would be that Jeff when they're down. That's what I know 🤐

  • @thelonecyborg3555

    @thelonecyborg3555

    5 жыл бұрын

    Masculine Man I love you're animations but if you want to attract new viewers you have to make more content, you keep putting your channel on hold to focus on you're animations but you need to give us different content while you're at it, like mastar Media, I don't even like him but what he's doing is smart, he's letting his fans know I'll take a long time to make anime war animations but until then he'll post anime review videos to keep them busy, I'm not trying to tell you what to do I'm just saying these days if you keep doing the same old thing eventually people are going to get tired of it and you're gonna keep losing viewers if you have nothing to fall back on and I don't want to see that happened to a channel like yours

  • @fastjack2792

    @fastjack2792

    5 жыл бұрын

    Never got cheated on. But when the shit goes down you gotta - whatever it be - you have to make the best of it. Actually a very Stoic notion:)

  • @berdt4870

    @berdt4870

    5 жыл бұрын

    I dreamed if working in an art related job or animation. This video restored a little passion in me :)

  • @mulani5992
    @mulani59925 жыл бұрын

    no matter what anyone says, there's *no* excuse for cheating. it's a disgusting, heartless, and scummy thing to do. it messes with a person's heart and soul on such a deep level.

  • @79mikeotto

    @79mikeotto

    5 жыл бұрын

    No, according to this video, its ok if you weren't working out and eating well.

  • @bigrozo

    @bigrozo

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@79mikeotto This video is trying to simp and white knight by blaming female moral failure on males

  • @Bragglord

    @Bragglord

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@bigrozo agreed, it certainly comes across that way. Not nearly enough blame for the female.

  • @Bragglord

    @Bragglord

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@azaquihelify delightfully platitudinous.

  • @zRace23

    @zRace23

    5 жыл бұрын

    Beeby exactly

  • @itstatter5585
    @itstatter55855 жыл бұрын

    As soon as I heard the “coming home early” scenario I already knew...

  • @MasculineMan

    @MasculineMan

    5 жыл бұрын

    lol yep

  • @InfamousLuigi

    @InfamousLuigi

    5 жыл бұрын

    MTD Fishing that’s exactly my thought too. It’s sad how true and commonly it happens that you can predict it so far out

  • @princejlverzo7276

    @princejlverzo7276

    5 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @audreyxx4783

    @audreyxx4783

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@InfamousLuigi ikr why can't lovers just be loyal to each other? This makes me wanna be single throughout my life

  • @rogerbuschmann8161

    @rogerbuschmann8161

    5 жыл бұрын

    It´s always the gardener !

  • @AP3x6917
    @AP3x69173 жыл бұрын

    Acceptance is the hardest part. Accepting that the person you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with doesn't want the same thing, after years of commitment, is extremely difficult.

  • @sagargrajput5582

    @sagargrajput5582

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm going through this right now. My 6 years of relationship just ended. I'm dead inside

  • @aparmaya4yew

    @aparmaya4yew

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sagargrajput5582 same bro...this is so heartbreaking..

  • @timothygibney159

    @timothygibney159

    3 жыл бұрын

    Totally Bro. The key for getting over someone is acceptance like you said. It won't happen overnight but until you tell your brain SHE AIN'T coming back. Only then you heal with time

  • @blacklightrr

    @blacklightrr

    3 жыл бұрын

    20 years here...

  • @Dan-sm3ov

    @Dan-sm3ov

    3 жыл бұрын

    7 fucking years and she is my first love. I was planning to marry her this year but she broke up with me, and moving on with someone new. It's been 6 months but it feels like yesterday 💔

  • @brandonholtz5309
    @brandonholtz53093 жыл бұрын

    I dated a girl for over 3 years. When that relationship ended it nearly broke me. Worst breakup ever (it was my first). I can’t even begin to imagine a 10 year relationship ending. Whole ass decade of your life.

  • @laelahazel6732

    @laelahazel6732

    3 жыл бұрын

    This year is unreal. I had a boyfriend 5 years he ended up my heart broke into million pieces.. From this heart brk I experiencing alots to let go.. I feel it not easier but while I'm letting go I cry this tears ll bring me joy oneday.. So heartbreak is a monsters

  • @kidneyenvy4379

    @kidneyenvy4379

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can. My wife divorced me. We had been together for 13 years. She started dating someone before she even moved out. The last four months or so have been hell for me.

  • @myaqoobi3551

    @myaqoobi3551

    3 жыл бұрын

    exact same thing happened... broke up with my first gf.. after 3 years of relationship... in aug 2020... worst year ever.

  • @YanaPetruk

    @YanaPetruk

    3 жыл бұрын

    My bf broke up with me after 6 years together. A year since the breakup and it still hurts like hell. But I moved on and accepted the facts. Nevertheless, it’s still painful.

  • @chiaramarchese8354

    @chiaramarchese8354

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm really sorry, that's really sad

  • @djdirewolfe6079
    @djdirewolfe60795 жыл бұрын

    Basically dont let another person be your only source of happiness. You'll just be hurt and disappointed, I promise

  • @flufftronable

    @flufftronable

    5 жыл бұрын

    dj direwolfe realise your the only one responsible for your happiness

  • @kuby205

    @kuby205

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm in a situation where my girlfriend is the only thing that brings me happiness, and if she ever leaves me or something bad happens to her, I'm going to commit suicide.

  • @jenny-vh3eh

    @jenny-vh3eh

    5 жыл бұрын

    Karolis van Houten Never make another person who isn't infinite and is just as flawed as everyone else dictate such impactful and important things in your life such as happiness and very ESPECIALLY your own life itself. It is too valuable and precious and treasurous to be determined by external, temporary things and things that dont level with the great value of you life and your soul

  • @lelekos9103

    @lelekos9103

    5 жыл бұрын

    Great advise

  • @SuperRavensfan101

    @SuperRavensfan101

    5 жыл бұрын

    dj direwolfe everyone should live selfishly in a certain aspect. That is do what you love in life, don’t do things for other people but rather for self enjoyment or help yourself be happy before you can help others.

  • @jeffmarron3887
    @jeffmarron38874 жыл бұрын

    No matter how many flaws someone might have, nobody deserves being cheated on.

  • @yourheinness9275

    @yourheinness9275

    4 жыл бұрын

    MMmmmmm I wonder where I've read about this before.....???? O yeah in the bible! It says not to commit adultery and fornicate or to lust after someone else's stuff. Now it makes sense! Funny how that old book still have all the answers hey?? Don't wonder why!

  • @jeffmarron3887

    @jeffmarron3887

    4 жыл бұрын

    My friend. I absolutely respect christians and beloved and great prophet Jesus Christ pbuh. But i am a shi'a muslim and i have never read the holy bible. But i agree with you.

  • @sbj6781

    @sbj6781

    4 жыл бұрын

    The real "girlfriend" will fix that flaws.

  • @koniJnr

    @koniJnr

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mike Driggs Instead of bashing a whole religion, maybe you should read the bible more, stop watching Fox News and being brainwashed. I’m Sunni Muslim, I believe heaven will be inhabited by humans of all faiths, who are honest, just and god fearing/loving.

  • @TheRalphrochie

    @TheRalphrochie

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@koniJnr haha. I think that guy is a troll. He just wanted to stir up some hate. Good thing Jeff ignored

  • @The.Doctor2
    @The.Doctor23 жыл бұрын

    Morale of the story: Keep moving forward, until the very end.

  • @aslphoenix0014

    @aslphoenix0014

    2 жыл бұрын

    Brat

  • @The_Platinum_Realist
    @The_Platinum_Realist2 жыл бұрын

    “Did I do anything to make her cheat on me?” That’s a very flawed and dangerous way to advise people think.

  • @The_Platinum_Realist

    @The_Platinum_Realist

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@beckyanna7287 Don’t need to. It only takes a handful of people to see the flaws in a straw man argument such as the argument of advising people to develop the destructive submissive mindset that it’s their fault they got cheated on like “Did I do anything to make her cheat on me?” and call it a bad idea. Bottom line there is never really a reason for a cheater to cheat. Cheaters cheat because they wanted to and because they could.

  • @yoo562

    @yoo562

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly! I was waiting for a comment like this.

  • @johnathanbredenkamp9875
    @johnathanbredenkamp98755 жыл бұрын

    "He learned that he can actually come home early" Oh boy

  • @mandla_on_retro

    @mandla_on_retro

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shouldn't have learned that 😂

  • @darkcrisisgaming298

    @darkcrisisgaming298

    5 жыл бұрын

    We all knew what was up after that sentence, lol

  • @Kcvee777

    @Kcvee777

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mandla_on_retro bahahahahahahahaha

  • @LegalShield3000

    @LegalShield3000

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm probably not the only one who knew where that was headed.

  • @soyusmaximus7176

    @soyusmaximus7176

    5 жыл бұрын

    I knew what was coming then lmao

  • @WigWavv
    @WigWavv5 жыл бұрын

    Apparently KZread decided we are all watching this today

  • @madisonalexis

    @madisonalexis

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ikr😂

  • @zRace23

    @zRace23

    5 жыл бұрын

    the mazzter fr bruh lmao

  • @xNukedApplez

    @xNukedApplez

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmaoo

  • @edgara7141

    @edgara7141

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fr😂😂

  • @mutazhijazi8512

    @mutazhijazi8512

    5 жыл бұрын

    Right!?

  • @raygacy
    @raygacy3 жыл бұрын

    My ex gf of 5 years have left me 6 days ago without any closure. I find this really useful for me. Thank you 😇👍

  • @Roadglide86

    @Roadglide86

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear that it's brutal, I got dumped month and half ago it's torture shit

  • @ican3900

    @ican3900

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry for this Is that u with Gary? ??!

  • @raygacy

    @raygacy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Roadglide86 i feel you bro. Once you get to mix with more friends and join certain groups on dating and self improvement, you can get over it sooner than ever.

  • @raygacy

    @raygacy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ican3900 yes it is. No worries. I just feel sorry for her that she can't and will never enjoy true happiness. Her perception about love and relationship have been fucked cos of her and her parents. 😇

  • @frankotradez

    @frankotradez

    3 жыл бұрын

    i got cheated on, we talked about it gave her one more chance only to realize she was talking to someone again that she talked to before when she was cheating on me, it’s hard to break off but with me having a bright future with entrepreneurship and investing i’ll get over it pretty soon. I see that you took a pic with Gary you’re lucky!

  • @nahomagize6075
    @nahomagize60753 жыл бұрын

    This video actually changed my life. I cried uncontrollably after watching this video knowing that I reacted like Ben. But later, I continued to work on myself (although I still have a long way to go) and with that momentum eventually ended up going abroad to San Francisco (which feels like Jeff travelling to Italy). Thank you!!!

  • @imooyeohiolebo5047

    @imooyeohiolebo5047

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think trust in a relationship is overrated. When my husband started getting frequent night calls , i would ask and he would just wave off those calls as unimportant. At a time i could take no more of his lies, i decided i deserve to know what was going on. A friend of mine referred me to this great ethical hacking team( Cyberhackingsage@gmail ) who helped clone his cellphone without having to touch the device. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad i found out all his secrets and infidelity and how he planned on using this pandemic to get back to me. I got access to his Facebook, iMessage, GPS location , WhatsApp, Call Logs and Text Messages (both deleted and incoming ones) with a remote link to a programmed App on my phone. I’m here in Florida and able to access my husband’s phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. If you need help or that little bit of closure, i advice you get in touch with them Via Gmail ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text and WhatsApp them on +15713758467.............thank me later.

  • @NarcisTheDictator

    @NarcisTheDictator

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hope you are better now 🙏

  • @kworkshop
    @kworkshop5 жыл бұрын

    This just popped up in everybody’s recommendations

  • @alithebettafish7890

    @alithebettafish7890

    5 жыл бұрын

    The most breakups happen around the Christmas period

  • @kworkshop

    @kworkshop

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hmmmm...

  • @mas7rreaper126

    @mas7rreaper126

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ikr! It was so annoying

  • @CantFindaName420

    @CantFindaName420

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yep lol

  • @theofficialalmightygob1050

    @theofficialalmightygob1050

    5 жыл бұрын

    If your a celebrity you date loads of people and break up with them and the people you date don’t love you and you don’t love them your just doing it for the miedia

  • @Ureyeuh
    @Ureyeuh5 жыл бұрын

    27 year old guy here. Just got left by my gf of 6 years. Had proposal plans and all. It can and will happen to you if you aren't careful, and even the careful ones will still get left somehow. It's life.

  • @Theodore_VII

    @Theodore_VII

    5 жыл бұрын

    Uriah Graves Oh man... 27? Still very young, my guy. Keep your chin up and stay strong, champ. Keep going!!

  • @Ureyeuh

    @Ureyeuh

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Theodore_VII thanks.

  • @optimusman88

    @optimusman88

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hopefully this video gives you something to learn from in finding happiness within yourself.. all the best

  • @KARTIKEYA007

    @KARTIKEYA007

    5 жыл бұрын

    MGTOW is the answer my man

  • @ikemadi6265

    @ikemadi6265

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hey buddy, I was also left by my 6 year girlfriend when I was 27 (four years ago). I'm also a psychologist and I have some tips from my experience. Would you be willing to talk? I'd love to share them and show you how you can grow stronger and become a better version of yourself from it :)

  • @porksoda2342
    @porksoda23424 жыл бұрын

    I love this and I think it's really important. Uplifting yourself when you are alone after a breakup is THE MOST important thing ever!

  • @ugopisquano
    @ugopisquano3 жыл бұрын

    Hello everyone, I dont know if someone will ever watch this video and this comment, but I’d like to share my little story: I’m 18 and, about a year ago, me and my ex-girlfriend broke up after 1,5 beautiful years together. Now we dont talk anymore, even if we are in the same group of friends, and it still hurts to see her laughing with someone else while I’m everyday asking to myself what did I do wrong in our relationship. Also I dont anymore feel part of my historical group I’ve been hanging out with for 10+ years. I feel alone, anyway I’m trying to work hard and to study in order to enter university and to work as a personal trainer in the meantime (meanwhile I see other people having fun at the sea in Instagram stories), and I’m confident about my future, I’m sure I will meet other people and friends and re-build my life. Sorry for my bad english, have a good day

  • @Goa_

    @Goa_

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hope you feel better bro. Even though I’m only 14 life’s hard here and I wish you best of luck on getting in the university

  • @marshallmathers6975

    @marshallmathers6975

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good:)

  • @luc6284

    @luc6284

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey man, I think we're in the same boat. Quite a coincidence, but I am also 18, just entered university and also lost my ex girlfriend of 1,5 years about four months ago. It has been a rough time lately, although I learned many lessons from the relationship along the way. Try to learn from all that happened and see what could've caused the breakup. Don't blame yourself, just try to understand what happened. After that, you can decide which of these things you want to work on. My biggest issue was probably that I barely talked about my feelings because I didn't want to upset her. This turned out to be a big mistake because in the end she didn't understand me, and made assumptions about me as a result. Nowadays I try to talk more to my family and friends, and I'm also becoming more decisive and organised. I see you are heading in the same direction. Keep in mind that it will get better soon. Just keep focusing on whatever makes you happy, that didn't involve your ex. I hope you can share your experience with some of your friends, maybe you can hang out without your ex sometime? I can imagine that would be painful.

  • @spawner2865

    @spawner2865

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why are you not part of your historical group anymore?

  • @spawner2865

    @spawner2865

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why your friends do not talk to you anymore?

  • @FlyingBeast009
    @FlyingBeast0095 жыл бұрын

    Just broke up with my girlfriend Time to get rich.

  • @roroguapo3

    @roroguapo3

    5 жыл бұрын

    Just remember, Mark Zuckerberg once had the exact same thought!

  • @nozdrik5221

    @nozdrik5221

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lelouch Lom Perouge same here lol

  • @thepowerofthegodhand7003

    @thepowerofthegodhand7003

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hella yeah no point in crying over spilled milk.

  • @saltypsychosis4093

    @saltypsychosis4093

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @jcross1215

    @jcross1215

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@roroguapo3 Holy shit, you're right. He might be highly intelligent, possibly an alien, but who caaares. LET'S GET THIS BREAD.

  • @sasakiumiquema9608
    @sasakiumiquema96085 жыл бұрын

    The best revenge is to be a better version of yourself

  • @MasculineMan

    @MasculineMan

    5 жыл бұрын

    Agreed!!!

  • @DUANEYAISER

    @DUANEYAISER

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes, but throwing a bit of arson their way every now and then couldn’t hurt.

  • @navp8017

    @navp8017

    5 жыл бұрын

    you are absolutely right. I saw my ex about 4 months after broke up because she ran off with someone else and rather than be cold with me, she saw the new me who lost weight and changed up my personal appearance which she had never seen before, and gave me a smile and she was at a loss for words because we both bumped into each other at the store. And its also important to better yourself for YOU not the other person. Another lesson I learned.

  • @johnnyd5537

    @johnnyd5537

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yup i was going to say that

  • @rhemshue2450

    @rhemshue2450

    5 жыл бұрын

    truth!!!

  • @andrewcarter9637
    @andrewcarter96374 жыл бұрын

    I can’t thank you enough for this. It’s such a great lesson to learn. Going through what those two are going through but I want to be like the latter guy and view this as something that happened for me and not to me. You have a new subscriber!

  • @trackez09
    @trackez093 жыл бұрын

    I saw this video almost exactly 2 years ago after a "break up"......now after another "break up"....here we go again.... we are animals of habit....

  • @patriciawarigia717

    @patriciawarigia717

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too..n my exs name is Ben

  • @user-bh8hm6hd7z

    @user-bh8hm6hd7z

    Жыл бұрын

    Hhhh you have ressistance

  • @alienantal
    @alienantal5 жыл бұрын

    People... just don't cheat on your partner, have respect for them and above all for yourself. If you feel like you're losing attraction to your partner just leave, end the relationship with a respectful conversation between you two.

  • @smigus212

    @smigus212

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is most sensible comment in this comment section

  • @alienantal

    @alienantal

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@smigus212 thank you! ^^

  • @zroh_in

    @zroh_in

    5 жыл бұрын

    I feel like there’s not a lot of people that are willing to be adults and do what you said ... they end up cheating or they do something that just isn’t ok .

  • @alienantal

    @alienantal

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@zroh_in unfortunately that's true :/

  • @GXprogamer

    @GXprogamer

    5 жыл бұрын

    Celtic Revival / Adfywiad Celtaidd especially when its a long term relationship

  • @chesster423
    @chesster4235 жыл бұрын

    Lesson of the story: Dont make your girl the center of your life.

  • @masyaf897

    @masyaf897

    5 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @milos6348

    @milos6348

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lesson is don't give your girl reason to cheat.

  • @Kuro-hq6el

    @Kuro-hq6el

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not really, just learn how to accept things and move on.

  • @kaisatoridraws3437

    @kaisatoridraws3437

    5 жыл бұрын

    So that she feels like you don’t love her so she decides to feel better with someone else!

  • @chesster423

    @chesster423

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kaisatoridraws3437 lol... *Guy doing everything* Girl: You are being so clingy, needy, pushy. *Finds another guy* *Guy not making you the center of his life* Girl: You don't love me enough. *Finds another guy*

  • @blueflame3531
    @blueflame35313 жыл бұрын

    "I wanted to give her everything" see, that's what happens when you value others over yourself. Be ruthless, remind them they live of you.

  • @pedroclar5672

    @pedroclar5672

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know of a powerful man who can help you get your love back to you.... He also helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation....

  • @pedroclar5672

    @pedroclar5672

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whatxapp him....

  • @pedroclar5672

    @pedroclar5672

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks___ +2348119132200.....

  • @blueflame3531

    @blueflame3531

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pedroclar5672 gtfo

  • @pedroclar5672

    @pedroclar5672

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@blueflame3531 message him for urgent help

  • @mastermitser5693
    @mastermitser56934 жыл бұрын

    Never trust anyone...Being in a "serious" relationship is like giving someone a gun and telling them not to fire it. They will though. Just have fun and never get attached.

  • @KJ-sy7jy

    @KJ-sy7jy

    3 жыл бұрын

    No strings attached..

  • @jonathanramirez7154

    @jonathanramirez7154

    3 жыл бұрын

    You should look into Stan Tatkin.

  • @sallylemon5835

    @sallylemon5835

    2 жыл бұрын

    "never get attached" are why guys became assholes and play around women. You could "just have fun" until one person you fall in love with, and you just couldn't fight it off, the heart is already there. that's where your karma takes place. Moral of the story, never create your karma because the pain is far worst than those who were afflicted the same but never did wrong to anyone.

  • @mastermitser5693

    @mastermitser5693

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sallylemon5835 can you elaborate more on the karma part? This was certainly an interesting response

  • @ymmar732
    @ymmar7324 жыл бұрын

    We were both happy for 6 years until she talked about her future plans and I realized... I wasnt even part of it.

  • @muthoniwanjohi1842

    @muthoniwanjohi1842

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ouch

  • @4cidtoxn80

    @4cidtoxn80

    4 жыл бұрын

    fk hurts

  • @blindguymcsqueezy50

    @blindguymcsqueezy50

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yup. I certainly know how that feels

  • @ThatOneWeirdCapricorn

    @ThatOneWeirdCapricorn

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ramses Angus Diel I'm sorry to hear that dude :/

  • @eswaramoorthy782

    @eswaramoorthy782

    4 жыл бұрын

    oh shit.!!

  • @mariag2846
    @mariag28465 жыл бұрын

    Bruh if you lose interest in someone then the least you can do is tell them... not cheat on them...tf. And you don't need to change yourself for anyone.

  • @trashtrash7556

    @trashtrash7556

    5 жыл бұрын

    If you're talking about Jeff, I don't think he was changing himself for anyone. He was only trying to find ways to improve his life style and efficiently spend his time by doing productive things.

  • @JustAalon

    @JustAalon

    5 жыл бұрын

    Preach

  • @job106

    @job106

    5 жыл бұрын

    TOTALY AGREE

  • @gabe6625

    @gabe6625

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@trashtrash7556 yep exactly he wasn't changing himself for that cheating sack of shit

  • @mrpandapresident9770

    @mrpandapresident9770

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ikr?! People these days...

  • @adnanl7952
    @adnanl79522 жыл бұрын

    I watched this video when it came out 3 years ago and thought this would never happen to me. Guess what? It did and I am happy to say that 4 months since the breakup I have done things that Jeff in the video did and it gives me hope that I will come out of this on the other side as a better man!

  • @buharibmansurkt17

    @buharibmansurkt17

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

  • @buharibmansurkt17

    @buharibmansurkt17

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message him on Whatsapp

  • @buharibmansurkt17

    @buharibmansurkt17

    2 жыл бұрын

    ✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!!!

  • @rohan925

    @rohan925

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you

  • @__rmk__9360
    @__rmk__93604 жыл бұрын

    I am glad this just came up randomly in my feed. Thank you!

  • @onlyole
    @onlyole5 жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend leaving me for another guy was the best thing that ever happened to me. Got in shape, healthier, happier and have a job i love. When you hit rock bottom its only one way to go.

  • @maddywisteria3242

    @maddywisteria3242

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ikr when you hit rock bottom there is only one way to go.... ...dig deeper

  • @jayvonwebb4864

    @jayvonwebb4864

    5 жыл бұрын

    How I'm tryin to be

  • @squidwardssinclarinet8203

    @squidwardssinclarinet8203

    5 жыл бұрын

    ItzEmS he means it’s a motivation to prove her wrong for leaving him. i know what he means

  • @emsj86

    @emsj86

    5 жыл бұрын

    squidwards sinclarinet I know what he means but that shouldn’t be why you do good for yourself. You will just end up in another relationship getting pushed over.

  • @Blackie315

    @Blackie315

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ole Moy that’s a fact

  • @daisyisawesome8339
    @daisyisawesome83395 жыл бұрын

    Cheating is never justified. If you lost attraction to someone, you leave them.

  • @Nukey717

    @Nukey717

    5 жыл бұрын

    Exactly, every relationship should have that standard.

  • @beetleything1864

    @beetleything1864

    5 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. Cheaters dont take responsibility- blame the other person but stay with them 🤷‍♂️

  • @handsomejack2892

    @handsomejack2892

    5 жыл бұрын

    True. But they rather destroy the other's emotions and trust than actually leave. People like this is straight up garbage.

  • @asianfemale5999

    @asianfemale5999

    5 жыл бұрын

    True, because if you hurt the innocant real bad then karma will come to you

  • @villagechillershorror228
    @villagechillershorror2283 жыл бұрын

    13 years of what I thought was perfect marriage. Just found out she had been living a double life with another man the entire time. It's an unreal kind of pain

  • @priyathammanoharkoka4300

    @priyathammanoharkoka4300

    Жыл бұрын

    how are you today sir

  • @slimskinny
    @slimskinny Жыл бұрын

    When they give you the “I need space, we need a break, or we are different people right.” They have already found someone else. Wish them the worst in their life and move on.

  • @Gabriel-df1ex
    @Gabriel-df1ex4 жыл бұрын

    "what did I do to cause this?" That's a very very dangerous question. It justifies toxic behavior. It shifts the blame into the victim for the other person's decisions.

  • @NoCreativeNameGirl

    @NoCreativeNameGirl

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ahemmm....but it is a good question. Just hating the girl or guy does not improve your life. Many times, especially men, think the relationship is going great even though his gf/fiance has screamed at him about things not right in their relationship and they just ignore it or don't think it's a big deal until one day the girl breaks up with them and they complain on youtube that "she left me all of a sudden 😭". 🙄🙄🙄🙄 What if the guy learns what he did wrong in the relationship and improves himself for his next relationship?

  • @blessedsoul949

    @blessedsoul949

    2 жыл бұрын

    But if you look at the positive side,you can learn from it and better yourself for the next best partner ever.

  • @traceyke

    @traceyke

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I agree and this almost made me stop watching and dislike the vid. Please start holding women accountable for their bullshit

  • @Gabriel-df1ex

    @Gabriel-df1ex

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@NoCreativeNameGirl I get what you mean and you're right, we should always move forward and always evaluate our actions and words in a relationship, but apparently you missed my point: There's nothing in a relationship that softens or justifies cheating and what he said implies that the man (victim) led his girlfriend (cheater) to cheat on him and that's pathetic.

  • @Gabriel-df1ex

    @Gabriel-df1ex

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@blessedsoul949 What are you talking about ? What positive side is there in being cheated ?

  • @no1wrench
    @no1wrench4 жыл бұрын

    My wife of 4 years cheated on me last thursday. I found out today... from the man's wife. This helped. Thankyou.

  • @pleasestop8651

    @pleasestop8651

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey man its ok! You’re a cool guy and you deserve so much better! Work on yourself and you’ll meet someone worth your time!

  • @DhirarEmir

    @DhirarEmir

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow that must be very hurtful. Just focus on your life goals and move on from the past. #YOLO

  • @jaleahsmakeup1542

    @jaleahsmakeup1542

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry 💔

  • @deangelowilliams6957

    @deangelowilliams6957

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sorry bro

  • @starvinmarvin9489

    @starvinmarvin9489

    4 жыл бұрын

    well in that case you can do the good ol switcharo and fuck the mans wife and get even boom.

  • @lactmanravi3830
    @lactmanravi38302 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much man, much needed.🙏

  • @bootyluva6991
    @bootyluva69913 жыл бұрын

    The thumbnail hurts because of how relatable and real it is.

  • @arunb3273
    @arunb32735 жыл бұрын

    Moral : If you're single, nobody can break you 😁

  • @deafconmediaZA

    @deafconmediaZA

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah bro. Ive realized that too

  • @wonderland4515

    @wonderland4515

    5 жыл бұрын

    Doesn’t work like that. People disappoint me each more every day

  • @kleozane2781

    @kleozane2781

    5 жыл бұрын

    I was about to say what about if you don't see any people at all, you're invincible 😂

  • @wonderland4515

    @wonderland4515

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kleo Zane I’ll find a way to break myself 😂

  • @arunb3273

    @arunb3273

    5 жыл бұрын

    The problem is we(as humans) except lot of things from the other person.. Be it your gf or a friend or family! We expect lot from them and that's the reason why we break easily. Soo stop expecting, live your life up-to the mark. I have been through the wrost breakup and also a after a year got rejected by a girl(who was actually my best friend). What I learnt from this , life doesn't go as of our wish. We just have to move with the flow. Stop expecting!

  • @joshuakrusiewicz2447
    @joshuakrusiewicz24475 жыл бұрын

    You can trust no one...in the end you will always be disappointed if you put your sense of self worth and esteem in the hands of others.

  • @simpsbelongtothegulags3702

    @simpsbelongtothegulags3702

    5 жыл бұрын

    You can actually trust someone Dont let the evil majority blind you from seeing that there are still some people that can be trusted And they will trust you too

  • @Rose_.820

    @Rose_.820

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mostly true

  • @blindtherapper2470

    @blindtherapper2470

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@simpsbelongtothegulags3702 "some people left" Yeah, that sounds like a bad bargain...

  • @simpilothr6653

    @simpilothr6653

    5 жыл бұрын

    True. Even if you're in a relationship that is 2 decades old, you still don't know what will happen to your relationship tomorrow, or after a month. A true relationship is a relationship without bull💩 and lies (lies are referred to cheating and so on, BTW) No relationship can be perfect because a perfect relationship is always one of the worst ones, if you know what I mean.

  • @screwmuckduck8905

    @screwmuckduck8905

    5 жыл бұрын

    Especially if it’s someone who is different in personality

  • @thehumblechannel3441
    @thehumblechannel34413 жыл бұрын

    I am watching this video on day 1 of my breakup. This story relates to me so much because of the three ultimate words: “I’m sorry”. She said that her feeling has changed and she doesn’t want to do this anymore, which is equivalent to her not attracted to me anymore. I am still in deep pain and that’s why I’m taking a sick leave today to go out with my family, who has always been super supportive to me. But I will not blame her about how she ruined my life. She can break up with me and that’s what she can do, but how I respond to that is what I can control, and I will control it so that instead of letting this ruin my life, I will use this as an opportunity to finally get out of my comfort zone and be who I really want to be - a motivated young man who will live a better and brighter life with a more beautiful and positive woman

  • @brandonholtz5309
    @brandonholtz53093 жыл бұрын

    I’m on Jeff’s path rn and I can tell you it gets better. It takes a lot of work and will power to overcome to pain and hurt but it will work. :)

  • @daboi6664
    @daboi66645 жыл бұрын

    Basically what he wants to say is success is the best revenge

  • @chuckmcmicheal4999

    @chuckmcmicheal4999

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ir jus being happy w urself

  • @callmealpha7548

    @callmealpha7548

    5 жыл бұрын

    So right. Make that bitch regret

  • @TG-M-gu3lk

    @TG-M-gu3lk

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@callmealpha7548 Then you just devulge into spite and hatred. You become focused on this person and therefore all your progress is fragile and faulty.

  • @aaryanpatel5948

    @aaryanpatel5948

    5 жыл бұрын

    Success is not better then revenge. SUCCESS IS BIGGEST REVENGE

  • @TG-M-gu3lk

    @TG-M-gu3lk

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@aaryanpatel5948 Again. You let that person concume you even years later then you have failed to get over it. I'd rather see no "success" and be happy then to have all the wealth only over pent up aggression and hatred. That's no way to live

  • @MrDrProfessor4
    @MrDrProfessor45 жыл бұрын

    Knew where this was going the moment I heard "He learned he can actually come home early".

  • @MattKittredge2112

    @MattKittredge2112

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yep. I've seen "Old School"...I knew what was up...lol

  • @beevi5029

    @beevi5029

    5 жыл бұрын

    MrDrProfessor4 same☹️

  • @martin97264
    @martin972643 жыл бұрын

    “It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.” "Decision is the ultimate power".

  • @COOLDILEEP29
    @COOLDILEEP292 жыл бұрын

    Thank you , for guidence. I really needs this type of motivational contents

  • @ukkovuorela4196
    @ukkovuorela41965 жыл бұрын

    Are you happy now youtube? I watched it

  • @Yo-bx4bj

    @Yo-bx4bj

    5 жыл бұрын

    Recommendation huh? I feel you

  • @shenelll985

    @shenelll985

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @hibak8196

    @hibak8196

    5 жыл бұрын

    I kinda have the same feeling lol It was a pretty noce reminder though

  • @willvsgaming4575

    @willvsgaming4575

    5 жыл бұрын

    yeah I felt like i was watching this video for hour, turns out i just had 0.75 speed on.

  • @wdmeister

    @wdmeister

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same. And i lost 10min. This video is so dumb. Yaaaay someone cheated on me so now i can go to the gym, eat healthily and have an online business in italy. What a mercy. And i should talk and ask what went wrong to a thot that instead of break up with me she preferred to bang random dudes in my own bedroom.

  • @titanzcanchat386
    @titanzcanchat3865 жыл бұрын

    The Most Hurt Things Is Being Forgotten By Someone You Can't Forget

  • @laurajean605

    @laurajean605

    5 жыл бұрын

    Truth

  • @k.trapero5496

    @k.trapero5496

    5 жыл бұрын

    You guys have wrong grammar just saying i dont expect any hate replies

  • @jinkang2126

    @jinkang2126

    5 жыл бұрын

    100th like ayee

  • @dariuskool1998

    @dariuskool1998

    5 жыл бұрын

    Truthfully True

  • @siyandwandwa1471

    @siyandwandwa1471

    5 жыл бұрын

    amen

  • @faiznordin8157
    @faiznordin81574 жыл бұрын

    This is actually true. After i broke up with my girlfriend, i was devastated. So i started working on my side hustle to make more money so i can distract myself. It was heartbreaking, but i know it’s a blessing in disguise

  • @user-vz1uj4ty6q
    @user-vz1uj4ty6q3 жыл бұрын

    I think most people would act like Ben. Jeff is the one we want to be.

  • @lemmonsinmyeyes
    @lemmonsinmyeyes5 жыл бұрын

    No excuse for infidelity. Not happy? Leave. Never cheat. Very simple.

  • @kiddtaak

    @kiddtaak

    5 жыл бұрын

    Exactly this video shows victim-blaming like it's their fault they got cheated on

  • @mervaa7467

    @mervaa7467

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes it’s simple but people are selfish AF so expect the infidelity anyway because some people think they can have the best of both worlds.

  • @TothBen8

    @TothBen8

    5 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree with you. It is hard to accept that the girl/boy you love, no longer loves you.. but accepting that she/he is cheated on you is on another level imo.. Clearly it is you who have to fight against your demons but mostly other people responsible for the size of these demons..

  • @HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH

    @HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kiddtaak Yup! Been through this myself. You are perfectly correct.

  • @HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH

    @HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@TothBen8 Better to decide which way to take then move. Hate=feelings, no feeling=indifference. So "moving past", "accepting", "cooling down" is actually = burring love. But if there is much hate in both, it can be repaired on condition that destructive aggressiveness is suspended by strong will (no emotions) and not giving up. If partner is indifferent, its impossible. But no hard feelings for moving past either, "good place is never free".

  • @BloodyFish13
    @BloodyFish135 жыл бұрын

    You guys gotta realize that walking the same path as Jeff can cause you to become emotionally numb. After breakup I wiped it all out of my mind and considered myself strong minded, up until I began to realize that my actions really doesn't have purpose/goal. Just straight, flat lined days of performing, not being able to sense a single thing in my life. You *need* time to grief and feel. Feelings are such things that you shouldn't consider bad; after 9 months of not crying or laughing you begin to miss the feeling of being sad along with being happy again, let me tell you that much.

  • @cortisol_induced_coma

    @cortisol_induced_coma

    5 жыл бұрын

    It was specifically stated that he DID cry and was angry at his ex for a few months; the only difference is that after a while, he realized that continuing to do this was not beneficial and started working on himself.

  • @RedEnergySounds

    @RedEnergySounds

    5 жыл бұрын

    I came to this world, under unknown circumstances, in order to experience. My eyes see millions of different nice colors, my brain can understand several intriguing and interesting stuff. Why turn my eyes black and my brain dull for someone who would never understand the depth of this gift. That girl obviously had fuckin as her top value. We are moving towards something more humane. I'm not saying we should forget our instincts, but certainly, we can clarify the FUCK that we lost our interest for a person and do this in a graceful way: -Sorry, I've lost my interest, I was faithful to you, but now I can't be with you. -Ok bye, have a nice life :) THAT IS HUMANE. (and also don't fuck my best friend xDDD)

  • @QuantumParticle

    @QuantumParticle

    5 жыл бұрын

    Over the past decade I've started to become more and more numb to my emotions...

  • @SRPC21

    @SRPC21

    5 жыл бұрын

    BloodyFish13 Jeff was also upset for months though, he wasn’t a robot.

  • @arenspicer1322

    @arenspicer1322

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jeff is a man

  • @diandra7476
    @diandra7476 Жыл бұрын

    This is awesome! Love the video.

  • @bradleylatham8184
    @bradleylatham81844 жыл бұрын

    Mitch my man you have a way with your videos that I resonate with. I love the way you articulate things in a simple but effective manner. Do you have any videos on how to beat the blues AKA mid life crisis at 43. Or alcohol addiction.

  • @encikpanda3169
    @encikpanda31695 жыл бұрын

    PLOT TWIST : Jeff is the man whos on the bed with Ben's girlfriend.

  • @MasculineMan

    @MasculineMan

    5 жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @kamikaze6387

    @kamikaze6387

    5 жыл бұрын

    hahaha yeah

  • @Zarudon000

    @Zarudon000

    5 жыл бұрын

    I was thinking that, lol. Jeff and the gf remain fwb. She then asks if they could be more and he's like "lol, so you can cheat on me too? nah," and then he ignores her and keeps going his way like a boss. 👍

  • @basealchemist4396

    @basealchemist4396

    5 жыл бұрын

    Karma

  • @lukamodric1609

    @lukamodric1609

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jeez that was epic!

  • @emilyra6491
    @emilyra64915 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry, but there is never a reason to cheat. The “what did I do to make them cheat” thing is honestly a damaging mindset. Yes, better yourself, find yourself after a break up, but don’t question what you did wrong because you did nothing wrong. You loved them, they cheated. If they didn’t want to be with you anymore then they should have left. That’s like someone asking “why did they abuse me?” Instead of seeing the abuse and growing from it and knowing how to protect themselves for it. No one is perfect and you have to work at relationships to keep it going. Being depressed and grieving are things everyone does differently. You need to know what coping mechanisms work for you. Personally, taking time for myself and realizing who I was as a person again. No person has any reason to cheat. If they are unhappy, they should have the respect for the other person and just break it off.

  • @ultraozy4085

    @ultraozy4085

    5 жыл бұрын

    wise words Emily Abraham

  • @Regene2383

    @Regene2383

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @businessdulevv8062

    @businessdulevv8062

    5 жыл бұрын

    Emily Abraham 99% you cheated at some point

  • @vyndicate8456

    @vyndicate8456

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good advice. I believe you should just split if you're unhappy. But sometimes they stay until they find something better. Then they leave.

  • @wiseguy240Winston

    @wiseguy240Winston

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@businessdulevv8062 99% that's extreme.

  • @remyvb3494
    @remyvb34943 жыл бұрын

    This video is gold. This is the exact thing i needed in this moment. I even saved it. I never did that before.

  • @shazhak2261
    @shazhak22614 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou so much for this. I can't even begin to tell you how much I needed this. (':

  • @Tuf_frijoles
    @Tuf_frijoles5 жыл бұрын

    Jeff started smoking weed

  • @xXbussydestroyerXx

    @xXbussydestroyerXx

    5 жыл бұрын

    I literally just died

  • @adoskacz7281

    @adoskacz7281

    5 жыл бұрын

    OMEGALUL

  • @Itsyourmandavedavis

    @Itsyourmandavedavis

    5 жыл бұрын

    😆😂😆😂😆😂😆

  • @macinissachaib716

    @macinissachaib716

    5 жыл бұрын

    He actually became gay

  • @miningsimulatorgaming3267

    @miningsimulatorgaming3267

    5 жыл бұрын

    LMAO

  • @ykoqe7023
    @ykoqe70235 жыл бұрын

    This video taught me to never come home early

  • @idonthaveaname3924

    @idonthaveaname3924

    5 жыл бұрын

    SourPatchKid 69 Hahahahahaha 😂

  • @randomshitpost8477

    @randomshitpost8477

    5 жыл бұрын

    No it taught u to never come home

  • @bencrosbie

    @bencrosbie

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @puga4202

    @puga4202

    5 жыл бұрын

    You'll be surprised if you try to give surprises.

  • @JessicaLiviaID

    @JessicaLiviaID

    5 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @9_drip179
    @9_drip179 Жыл бұрын

    My eyes, my soul, my beyond, I have seen this video before, I can’t believe it. It was so beautiful

  • @sikretooo2596
    @sikretooo25963 жыл бұрын

    I cried. Thank you, Mitch for this one.

  • @victoriabridget9848

    @victoriabridget9848

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know of a powerful spell doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

  • @victoriabridget9848

    @victoriabridget9848

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whatspp him now 📲⌚

  • @victoriabridget9848

    @victoriabridget9848

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1 914 228 2041

  • @shotgun64x
    @shotgun64x5 жыл бұрын

    Saddest part of this video is that this is in my recommendation and has been for 3 weeks.

  • @Jamjar-iu3ji

    @Jamjar-iu3ji

    5 жыл бұрын

    ShotGun 64 Mine too 🤣

  • @ruthpierrelus6723

    @ruthpierrelus6723

    5 жыл бұрын

    ShotGun 64 😬😬😬that's tuff

  • @svenskpolitik4458

    @svenskpolitik4458

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's because it is part of a global campaign to fool people into believing polyandrism is something normal in a civilized society. It is not. Polyandrism will be destroyed through pre-natal sex selection.

  • @kash317

    @kash317

    5 жыл бұрын

    Real shit.hope you guys are okay

  • @bigclown23

    @bigclown23

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂 Same

  • @botcrack
    @botcrack5 жыл бұрын

    ...and Jeff died alone never trusting another woman ever again

  • @MinimalLovin

    @MinimalLovin

    5 жыл бұрын

    Stop searching another mom. Your have to dominate a women calmy. Why trust your whoooooole life to someone else than God anyways? Wimp

  • @dvd9578

    @dvd9578

    5 жыл бұрын

    He is a gay now

  • @layerp

    @layerp

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jack ascended and learned the truth *If she breathes...*

  • @dremid4456

    @dremid4456

    5 жыл бұрын

    ... from a heroin overdose

  • @Lightning_Ace

    @Lightning_Ace

    5 жыл бұрын

    ...or anything else...

  • @Berialgames
    @Berialgames3 жыл бұрын

    Relationship advice: act like a sociopath, just please yourself. Have fun.

  • @MonochromaticBlues

    @MonochromaticBlues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Gee great advice

  • @inlandempress4587

    @inlandempress4587

    2 жыл бұрын

    basically. I have seen too much, rather be single than claw my own eyes all the way out🤮😬🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Ramizzzzzz1
    @Ramizzzzzz13 жыл бұрын

    Pure truth, everything happens for a reason, and its an oportunity to become better version of yourself 😉💪 already on that yourney 👍

  • @kmahes8169
    @kmahes81695 жыл бұрын

    Thank god. caught cheaters saves so many years in our rest of life.Never accept cheaters back in your life.

  • @MasculineMan

    @MasculineMan

    5 жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @FramedShots

    @FramedShots

    5 жыл бұрын

    Eh idk if she cheated but she’d never give me her phone and would delete things, I left her cuz of it.

  • @sayaboss586

    @sayaboss586

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@FramedShots honestly you did the right thing.

  • @FramedShots

    @FramedShots

    5 жыл бұрын

    Joe T. Thanks buddy I hope so. 🙏

  • @sayaboss586

    @sayaboss586

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@FramedShots I can relateto that, something like that happended to me too.

  • @j1m310
    @j1m3105 жыл бұрын

    Okay KZread I've watched it..

  • @edisonsun21c

    @edisonsun21c

    5 жыл бұрын

    Vikendi lol

  • @Mitters

    @Mitters

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmao I'm here for the same reason 😂

  • @r.i.t.i.k.a

    @r.i.t.i.k.a

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah actually..it was everywhere as recommended

  • @wiseview9070
    @wiseview90704 жыл бұрын

    A mind opening lesson. Thank you So much

  • @maybeimpro
    @maybeimpro2 жыл бұрын

    wow man! very motivational video, nice and thanks!!👏

  • @paulcarter147

    @paulcarter147

    2 жыл бұрын

    He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner two days ago without delay👇🥰

  • @xjq98
    @xjq985 жыл бұрын

    you shouldn't blame yourself for someone cheating on you when you only did the best for your partner.

  • @soyusmaximus7176

    @soyusmaximus7176

    5 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. If you're not in love with someone anymore, just leave them. Don't go fucking someone else behind their back.

  • @tormendor8585

    @tormendor8585

    5 жыл бұрын

    he didn't do the "best" for his partner, he thought he did but, what is best for your female partner, is to concentrate on yourself, not on her. You can read how relationships work in depth from books or internet.

  • @xabashdog

    @xabashdog

    5 жыл бұрын

    Torm Endor Yeah though still there’s a thing such as discussion or a break-up, you don’t have to cheat just because your partner doesn’t behave how you expect them to.

  • @tormendor8585

    @tormendor8585

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@xabashdog now where did that come from. i didn't talk about how you should behave when you lost interest.

  • @dawahdeutschland5375

    @dawahdeutschland5375

    5 жыл бұрын

    It doesnt matter how awfull your partner is. You should first leave before starting new relationships!!!

  • @law.1159
    @law.11595 жыл бұрын

    Who also had this in their recommendations?

  • @zapdos8441

    @zapdos8441

    5 жыл бұрын

    ya

  • @CantFindaName420

    @CantFindaName420

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me 😂

  • @theofficialalmightygob1050

    @theofficialalmightygob1050

    5 жыл бұрын

    I had this in my recemendationt

  • @MilesSpearman

    @MilesSpearman

    5 жыл бұрын

    I've never heard of this channel until it went into my recommendation😂

  • @shotgun64x

    @shotgun64x

    5 жыл бұрын

    About 4 weeks tops. Seems like everyone has this shit in their recommendations recently.

  • @lovin2728
    @lovin27283 жыл бұрын

    I love message of that story, its such a inspiration❤

  • @AjayPatel-te4kb
    @AjayPatel-te4kb3 жыл бұрын

    A bunch of thanks brother... god bless you

  • @chrissaunders20
    @chrissaunders205 жыл бұрын

    1 Thing learned... being single is amazing

  • @fhjustmealamoudi1156

    @fhjustmealamoudi1156

    5 жыл бұрын

    Chris Saunders وعوو

  • @spookyquinnie3293

    @spookyquinnie3293

    5 жыл бұрын

    But having sex is more amazing

  • @rin6960

    @rin6960

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@spookyquinnie3293 you can be single and having sex bro 👌🏼

  • @skali-vg9du

    @skali-vg9du

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, bruh

  • @priestgoober5160

    @priestgoober5160

    5 жыл бұрын

    No

  • @joseluisrivera5571
    @joseluisrivera55715 жыл бұрын

    "I just lose attraction to you" is never a justification to cheat on your significant other, if you really lose attraction, talk things out and move out, there is no point in staying with someone you are not attracted to other than to hurt yourself and the other person.

  • @Shawn6751

    @Shawn6751

    5 жыл бұрын

    I would ask more questions of how.

  • @user-et7sq8jd8d

    @user-et7sq8jd8d

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah you're right what's the point of being in a relationship if u are not really in love because when u lose your attraction to someone u are not rly in love

  • @unknowndesi_07
    @unknowndesi_07 Жыл бұрын

    Definition of the saying ‘everything happens for a good reason’

  • @fizza9452
    @fizza9452 Жыл бұрын

    This really deserves a thumbs up!👍

  • @unholydanger
    @unholydanger5 жыл бұрын

    9:43 ''from broken relationships, to loved one passing, to getting fired.'' -- I experienced all three at the same time. I fell into depression. I fought for my life to move on. Now years later, I have a new relationship, new life and new (and better) job.

  • @alenkratohvil9377

    @alenkratohvil9377

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's great news. Breakup and neutered my cat. Everyone thinks it's funny but that was a double whammy. I finally decided to get him neutered so she could sleep better with him not meowing etc and she let me figure it out in ugly little ways, like complimenting other guys and pushing me away if I go to hold her hand etc. Bad

  • @schoolwork5667

    @schoolwork5667

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good to hear your on the other side man

  • @OmarAhmed-rg2ii

    @OmarAhmed-rg2ii

    5 жыл бұрын

    you giving me hope

  • @nickspencer657

    @nickspencer657

    5 жыл бұрын

    God is good

  • @swamp345
    @swamp3455 жыл бұрын

    My Evil Ex fiance Cheated on me and got pregnant by another man. I Spent 2 years severely depressed but I took control of my life, accepted that she was a disgusting Harlot and I finished college. Now I am a Police Officer with a degree in criminal justice. I have my own place and I am currently writing a Novel. That disgusting horrible excuse for a woman cheating on me was the best thing to ever happen to me.

  • @STXRBOY999

    @STXRBOY999

    5 жыл бұрын

    A Reese 🤘🏻💔

  • @tuyetpham128

    @tuyetpham128

    5 жыл бұрын

    A Reese My X cheated on me with a Thai prostitute then went home abuse n kick me n my kid out in freezing cold winter. I understand u are police n got cheated but b mindful that many women got cheated n abused by many men as well

  • @swamp345

    @swamp345

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@tuyetpham128 I totally understand, I don't have a vendetta against women. I just hate women who lie and let me down. I'm sorry that your ex hurt you. You deserve better and I hope you find happiness.

  • @swamp345

    @swamp345

    5 жыл бұрын

    @S M you'll make it and become a cop. Use the pain you're in now to fuel your desire and show her what she missed out on. You got this buddy 💪

  • @roadtolosing100pounds4

    @roadtolosing100pounds4

    5 жыл бұрын

    What a bitch, I hate people like that

  • @tyefabe2030
    @tyefabe20303 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou so much for this video.

  • @user-nk1pw2if5g

    @user-nk1pw2if5g

    3 жыл бұрын

    let me help you within 3 days reconcile you and your ex lover permanently, contact me via email: lordcathan.kavanah@gmail.com

  • @elisendadomenjo3223
    @elisendadomenjo32234 жыл бұрын

    Then their relationship was toxic, partners are supposed to be there for each other with their own independence while they grow and create an empire.

  • @chaseb4395

    @chaseb4395

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @jonathanramirez7154

    @jonathanramirez7154

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes! You should check out Stan Tatkin.

  • @jazzstarish4186

    @jazzstarish4186

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its all kissy kissy I love you at first. Once you start living together true self blossoms.You become to comfortable with each other.Bad habits fights no need to put up a front or that first impression. Long distance and planning to meet again in a 3rd world country. Through time and talking by Skype you get a sense of something is wrong and you see a post of her and a guy close together with heat emoji. Now you can get broads and the Hedonistic route to the max.

  • @EpsteinKilla69
    @EpsteinKilla694 жыл бұрын

    I liked the story but just FYI. If someone cheats on you, it's always going to be their fault, don't ever make anyone tell you otherwise. There's no excuse for such disgusting behaviour.

  • @viknie4216

    @viknie4216

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bradley Venn not really

  • @brandondaly5291

    @brandondaly5291

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@viknie4216 yes really, there is no excuse for cheating.

  • @potatohead5708

    @potatohead5708

    4 жыл бұрын

    its definitely their fault to cheat but that doesnt make the one who got cheated innocence. im not justifying them but for those that happened in your life; you are actively involved in it.

  • @paperp9316

    @paperp9316

    4 жыл бұрын

    I Basically think no one deserves to have a cheating spouse last week I suspected my husband cheating on me a friend recommended an hacker to me on instagram patrick_allen777 I contacted him and he helped me get cheating proves by helping me hack his phone giving me full access to everything he does on his phone if you suspect your spouse cheating on you text/whatsapp him +15182900093 he would help you

  • @ayingchanda

    @ayingchanda

    4 жыл бұрын

    It could be your fault too. If your abusive, or show no interest toward the person youre having a relationship or as your partner in life; then she or he can cheat to find a better and more suitable partner

  • @Leelz247
    @Leelz2475 жыл бұрын

    Breakups can be the best thing for you sometimes

  • @dudest.v.g.5881

    @dudest.v.g.5881

    5 жыл бұрын

    Leelz247 yeah I’m sill sad over my breakup kzread.info/dash/bejne/gISdlseNpJS_pNo.html

  • @magsacat

    @magsacat

    5 жыл бұрын

    *Sometimes*

  • @wesleyjeurissen544

    @wesleyjeurissen544

    5 жыл бұрын

    Daniel Sloss - Jigsaw. Thank me later.

  • @BirdiePariRicoFriends

    @BirdiePariRicoFriends

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes, it can be the one thing that makes you realize that you have more worth that you had even given yourself credit for.

  • @zachtv1297

    @zachtv1297

    5 жыл бұрын

    Really?

  • @prabhatkumar9042
    @prabhatkumar90424 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a ton. This is worth watching

  • @eddiehacker1634
    @eddiehacker16342 жыл бұрын

    Inspirational video. No matter how bad it is don't let it break you; always be kind to your self.

  • @emilyamelia117

    @emilyamelia117

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

  • @emilyamelia117

    @emilyamelia117

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message him on Whatsapp

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    @emilyamelia117

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @ambushell5778
    @ambushell57785 жыл бұрын

    You cannot lay the blame on the person who didn't cheat. That's ridiculous. Cheating is inexcusable, if she lost attraction then she should have broken up with him first. I agree that you should move on and improve yourself but you cannot absolve the cheater of responsibility.

  • @rvc123able

    @rvc123able

    5 жыл бұрын

    L

  • @Misslotusification

    @Misslotusification

    5 жыл бұрын

    Check out Esther Perel

  • @MrDrProfessor4

    @MrDrProfessor4

    5 жыл бұрын

    If she cheats on you once, what makes you think she won't cheat on you again? It's a question of character.

  • @DieHardjagged

    @DieHardjagged

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@MrDrProfessor4 If my girl would cheat on me and say she wouldnt do it again , i would had tossed her out of the window. You cant trust any women.

  • @reshw0ztxt

    @reshw0ztxt

    5 жыл бұрын

    i see, u make sense but my thing is, why would she pick me if she didn't find me attractive

  • @invaderderpygirl
    @invaderderpygirl5 жыл бұрын

    Even if you're attractive and successful that wont stop somebody from cheating on you

  • @DreamCatcher201

    @DreamCatcher201

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yep... I always think of Heidi Klum. It even happened to Heidi Klum!! And she’s so beautiful and successful, elegant, ...

  • @bogzsanchez4241

    @bogzsanchez4241

    5 жыл бұрын

    Atleast u did something good to ur self instead of wasting time on thinking on why did she cheat lesson for this clip is dont let ur self down when someone cheated on you make it as a motivation in life that u can be a better person even without her

  • @Faint7903
    @Faint79033 жыл бұрын

    My best friend betrayed me recently... I cried 12 times in 5 days and I’m on medication that prevents me from crying.

  • @recon4786
    @recon47863 жыл бұрын

    I can certainly learn and take something from this. Thanks bro

  • @reneekelley4279

    @reneekelley4279

    3 жыл бұрын

    I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app +17076225057 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ?We have 2 kids together , it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger.

  • @prabhat1811
    @prabhat18115 жыл бұрын

    Who's here because of the recommendations.

  • @observer.b_e_l_l_i_s

    @observer.b_e_l_l_i_s

    5 жыл бұрын

    Crazy how many of us feel shit on these days by females.

  • @evelynwilfred3774

    @evelynwilfred3774

    5 жыл бұрын

    Prabhat Bhartola 🙋🏽‍♀️

  • @kacibaci

    @kacibaci

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @nekowolfdragon1891

    @nekowolfdragon1891

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @christy3971

    @christy3971

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm finally watching thisn

  • @diribad
    @diribad5 жыл бұрын

    Are you happy that I watched it now KZread?

  • @_Asleep_

    @_Asleep_

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is the only reason I watched this, it keeps popping up in my feeds.

  • @djwaynorth899

    @djwaynorth899

    5 жыл бұрын

    Honestly. Like I had no choice.

  • @zebruh2794

    @zebruh2794

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg I thought I was the only one who had that

  • @EpicGamer-bx5iz

    @EpicGamer-bx5iz

    5 жыл бұрын

    Pls be happy youtube

  • @thebraveone5095

    @thebraveone5095

    5 жыл бұрын

    Damn, you too?

  • @dr.mugilan9704
    @dr.mugilan97043 жыл бұрын

    Much needed video.. Thanks man😇

  • @hardeepsinghdeol9692
    @hardeepsinghdeol96923 жыл бұрын

    it is painful but not impossible to start over. thank you for this short and informative story.... just broke up with my gf.. 6 years relationship..lets see how it goes from here.

  • @treasurelee4223

    @treasurelee4223

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay.. He helped me get mine back... Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406) .he can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.,.,.,.,.,.. .

  • @harry44377
    @harry443775 жыл бұрын

    This video taught me that if your single you'll live your best life

  • @silverman824

    @silverman824

    5 жыл бұрын

    facts

  • @himanshuchamoli8269

    @himanshuchamoli8269

    5 жыл бұрын

    Balance is the key

  • @asianfemale5999

    @asianfemale5999

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haa no. You just haven't found a soulmate yet

  • @mrnissan3262

    @mrnissan3262

    5 жыл бұрын

    Scarlet Zubaidah I’ve reached the point where I accept that my soulmate is trapped inside a condom

  • @nydelicious4u

    @nydelicious4u

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not really what about when u get old or when u feel lonely, there’s a time in life when u need Someone to be with

  • @POLYROYAL
    @POLYROYAL4 жыл бұрын

    One thing Im afraid of: Someone losing attraction/ineterest of me.

  • @westernalliance796

    @westernalliance796

    4 жыл бұрын

    They will! Everyone does, people change over the years and meet new people all the time. They'll have crushes on other people, they will lose interest in you, they'll find you annoying. Loving someone requires work. If you find someone who is willing to invest time in you, get to know you not only in the beginning but after every couple of years or so, someone who knows that love has its ups and downs, you'll have found the one!

  • @keithberns5

    @keithberns5

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @comradedyatlov4143

    @comradedyatlov4143

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's Athazagoraphobia. I have it too.

  • @soylalexe11

    @soylalexe11

    4 жыл бұрын

    It happened to me. Hits like a truck.

  • @Cam-pt9ex

    @Cam-pt9ex

    4 жыл бұрын

    Happened to me 😢

  • @jasonebroamann7283
    @jasonebroamann72833 жыл бұрын

    Glad that I watched this. Thank you for this video.

  • @victoriabridget9848

    @victoriabridget9848

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know of a powerful spell doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

  • @victoriabridget9848

    @victoriabridget9848

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whatspp him now 📲⌚

  • @victoriabridget9848

    @victoriabridget9848

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1 914 228 2041

  • @jasonebroamann7283

    @jasonebroamann7283

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victoriabridget9848 ehm? Didn’t say I needed help..? But thank you anyways for trying to help.

  • @zphorska9662
    @zphorska96622 жыл бұрын

    You completly changed my mind thx man.

  • @tinachoke5978

    @tinachoke5978

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love...I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours.... He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.

  • @tinachoke5978

    @tinachoke5978

    2 жыл бұрын

    What sapp him

  • @tinachoke5978

    @tinachoke5978

    2 жыл бұрын

    + 2 3 4 8 1 1 5 6 7 1 2 1 2

  • @ItsnotJaycilina
    @ItsnotJaycilina5 жыл бұрын

    The worst part of love is getting over it

  • @chloekenny8582

    @chloekenny8582

    5 жыл бұрын

    Its not Jaycilina This comment of yours needs more likes😡👏🏿

  • @matiuhs

    @matiuhs

    5 жыл бұрын

    the worst part of love is love

  • @lastd0ct0r74

    @lastd0ct0r74

    5 жыл бұрын

    True love is the hardest when the feeling you feel is one you can't feel with anyone else it hurts i know this and i know other people feel the same. I love someone and time difference between the countys we are both in means it would work.

  • @tonyatthebeach

    @tonyatthebeach

    5 жыл бұрын

    plot twist, love isn't real

  • @Naiik1

    @Naiik1

    5 жыл бұрын

    If you get over it then it's not love

  • @paraaapara
    @paraaapara5 жыл бұрын

    Guys, it's never your fault if someone cheats on you. It's always their own personal decision.

  • @TheBigjim1992

    @TheBigjim1992

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you :)

  • @Alex-PSG-2003

    @Alex-PSG-2003

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you :)

  • @olgac.h.1278

    @olgac.h.1278

    5 жыл бұрын

    Of course. The girl was superwrong. But this Ben was a procrastinator and didn't show real love for her girlfriend. 10 years dating her, a good job, a house and still hasn't married her? I would have left him!

  • @callmesad568

    @callmesad568

    5 жыл бұрын

    Paralee Williams shut up they are ...

  • @brandonw6139

    @brandonw6139

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's usually both doing something wrong but yes the one who cheats is definitely in the wrong

  • @antilaw9911
    @antilaw99113 жыл бұрын

    We both 56. Both put on weight. Saw that she used to be much larger prior to me. I still loved her and never thought one second of ever leaving her.