you can't break up if you're not in a relationship in the first place *INTELLIGENCE 100*

@rockstarsmg3632

4 жыл бұрын

FBI are you gonna break into my house ?

@jaylinp.6956

4 жыл бұрын

Watch something inappropriate then FBI will break your door

@tjitjo

4 жыл бұрын

Female Body Imaginator * snickers *

@redwhites3651

4 жыл бұрын

Shit the FBI is here.... gotta clear my history

@McCaler

4 жыл бұрын

That’s very strange! I didn’t think the federal Bureau investigation ( FBI ) would have any time for KZread videos or online videos of any kind. Unless this KZread account is an FBI wannabe,.... OK clearly as that is, that’s different.

Breakups always seem like they suck at first, then you spend some time alone and hopefully you realize that it was for the best!

@geminix365

5 жыл бұрын

True, now just casual, even if I watch a film with them at home, just enjoying the time, without hard feelings

@MasculineMan

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@Ilitan004

5 жыл бұрын

But how hard is it to recover from a break up! Following all the recommendations of Mitch, but I miss her more and more with time, while I should "forgot" her more and more with time. (6 years relationship, we break up 4 months ago "for the best" because we thought we could both find a better match, plus there was this dependence thing). Don't even know what to do, as my brain tells me "it's a great thing you broke up", but my heart is like "COME BACK", while I know it's not a good thing. Kinda can't control my feelings for her.

@rocktulip3479

5 жыл бұрын

@@Ilitan004 My girlfriend broke up with me two months ago (a bit of a relatable experience you've had), and as every breakup, it was horrible. I did kinda go texting her continously that I was ashamed of. As a final email, I said sorry and most importantly, said what I was feeling and why it has been happening alongside with applying I'm not manipulating her to get back together with me, I just needed to pass on my feelings, the truth to her, I just couldn't handle not telling her; I didn't care about the consequences, I just needed to let it out. It's been almost a month, feeling better but a bit of grief here and there (completely normal), hasn't got back to me but I think she won't, but as long as I got out my feelings. What I'm trying to say out of this is just inform her how you're feeling, and then, just leave it unless she replies. But I would advise you to take it slow after that, you need to find out fully about yourself first, being selfish is a priority like what the video said. I hope I'm clear, and god, I've learnt so much things out of this breakup that will benefit me for the future especially with me being young (16). I hope I've helped.

@Ilitan004

5 жыл бұрын

@@rocktulip3479 Thank you for this experience. I'm 23 now and I already tell her everything I had to say 3 months ago now, and didn't have any contact with her since this email. Was quite of an angry email because the month before the break up was the worst of my life because she cheated on me, pray me to let her a chance, what I did, then simulate a suicide,... That was a very hard time for me, and after telling me the nicest things in 6 years of relation, she «abandonned» our relation, that's why we decided to break up. Could both find a better match! It's clear that she wasn't the right one, but my heart can't handle with forgotting her. Every morning, every evening, she's in my mind. I feel like this was not fair, and it shouldn't have happen this way. I do need to accept the situation but still stuck on how to do this.

*him: she was my brother’s girlf-* *me: WOOOAHH* *him: -riend’s bestfriend* *me: nvm*

@seaweedsmoking714

4 жыл бұрын

saaame

@raginglemur9238

4 жыл бұрын

Can’t lie he got us in the first half 😂

@ManiPlaysYT

4 жыл бұрын

Yahh haha

@gravediggermt9141

4 жыл бұрын

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@gravediggermt9141

4 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Knightly 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯Check out my music💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯Check out my music💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯she broke my heart

I don't care about girls anymore, I'm done, I only focus on my studies, practicing MMA, and hanging out with my friends

@prof_Sam_G

5 жыл бұрын

@Brian Tran you too mate!

@MicroAcid

5 жыл бұрын

hell yeah fam. Martial artists that know whats up . Can I join in? Fucking same but I do judo :'D

@prof_Sam_G

5 жыл бұрын

@@MicroAcid anytime haha

@7205buttas

5 жыл бұрын

Lots of lotion

@prof_Sam_G

5 жыл бұрын

@@7205buttas wha...

You lose em how you get em.. The sneaky “best friend”.

@bushidofreakz

5 жыл бұрын

"Those who live by the sword, will die by the sword"

@clarencesmith467

5 жыл бұрын

I didnt mean still her from old dude i was good guy and a Virgin

@clarencesmith467

5 жыл бұрын

Dr.'sorders i didnt tho i told her dont talk to me unto you single the next day she txt me she was single and broke up wit her ex lol i guess from his prospective i fucked it up but i didnt touch her until she was single for sure

@clarencesmith467

5 жыл бұрын

Dr.'sorders 😞

@IsabelOEM

5 жыл бұрын

@Dr.'sorders No, he didn't take her. BUT, she has a pattern, and he didn't realize he was a part of that pattern. Then, she continued it with someone else.

"We had a lot of first times together" Picture of bed appears.

@rommix0

4 жыл бұрын

Hell yeah, and first time being called daddy. Sounds like a fun time.

@oll4749

4 жыл бұрын

@@rommix0 tf Ew what are u saying

@nikp.

4 жыл бұрын

@@oll4749 calm tf down and grow up

@flibbettyjibbetts6766

4 жыл бұрын

Why did a bed appear I dont get it

@gamerman4985

4 жыл бұрын

@@flibbettyjibbetts6766 because they had sex

I met my girlfriend of 4 years when I was 17 and we had a lot of our firsts together. She suddenly broke up with me a few hours ago and I feel completely lost and empty and I can't stop crying. We used to do everything together we were inseparable. She met someone more exiting at hew new job he just started 3 weeks ago. I came here to read other people experiences and watch the video. We have to stay strong guys. Hold on !

@yknick11

5 жыл бұрын

dick butt how are you doing bud, I recently went thru the same thing

@ninymais

4 жыл бұрын

how r u feeling now?

@narekaslanyan751

3 жыл бұрын

Bro, text something so we know u are alive

@saraermacora815

3 жыл бұрын

I'm just going through a really bad breakup with the first person I fell in love with and I feel so scared and out of control

@ultragameronline3917

3 жыл бұрын

Bro you here

*"If you are not experiencing happiness, love and self-worth from just being by yourself then finding a partner is not going to solve this."* That is absolutely on point and I do agree with that.

"i need to talk to you about something" I remember how my heart sank and it ended.

@MasculineMan

5 жыл бұрын

lol those are scary words

@Riprie

5 жыл бұрын

Ha! Yeah, same. I was way late into the dating game. 26, the whole thing. Way more difficult to do when you are older. For me it was 2 months. But like Mitch said: I was dependant on her to be the purpose of my life.

@mlgduckalex1776

5 жыл бұрын

When i girl texts me that i say "wait one sec" and i pop a bottle of vodka and get ready for bs

@10mata86

5 жыл бұрын

mine was ,,we need to talk about something,, ,,about what?,, ,,about us,, and boom i ll never forget how i felt that day,and months after...

@Higgen007

5 жыл бұрын

I'd have done anything to see those words, not the words of her telling another guy how much she cared about them. 5 years down the drain.

I have almost the same story, except she was blonde with blue eyes and we dated for 6 years. Proposed; she dumped me at that moment and ran off with some "bad boy" (she later called him that). Fast forward 10 years, married now with kids. I still get texts from her regretting that breakup and asking if I'd consider LEAVING MY WIFE to be with her.. ahaha you kidding me?? not a chance. Mark my words guy she'll regret that down the road, but don't use that to boost you up. Like you said, move on, smell the roses and enjoy life. She only burned herself. Us "nice guys" may not always finish first, but we always finish with someone worth finishing with. In my experiences with myself; friends and such

@visorseen8954

5 жыл бұрын

In the end, the genuine guys always win

@SnipeMares19

5 жыл бұрын

lol beta

@visorseen8954

5 жыл бұрын

@@SnipeMares19 I wonder if that blonde girl has kids.

@visorseen8954

5 жыл бұрын

@@vjreimedia it's their problem. Don't let it affect you. Women of generations will change and stop doing it eventually

@sebastiancoronado6607

5 жыл бұрын

I wish I end up like you bro

Being alone is better than being with someone who's not greatful for what you done !

@northtown3816

4 жыл бұрын

No bullshit I was so hurt 🔪💙

@johnjackson2956

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

cowards= men /women that awaken someones love, without the intention to love them. its not fair!!

@SuperGamer-gb6yg

4 жыл бұрын

U right 😭😭😭 I have to post this on ig

No relationship no girlfriend, I have just one friend my laptop & I'm happy with it, improve my English , programming language, learn to draw, learn design, learn 3d modeling, and making mobile games and learn another stuff

@stec1808

5 жыл бұрын

MGTOW

@wowholadaw429

5 жыл бұрын

Tere liye arrange marraige sahi hai ....

@ianpowers22

5 жыл бұрын

And yo right hand 😃😃😃😃

@igors1690

5 жыл бұрын

And a bottle of lotion

@danieltrusca2556

5 жыл бұрын

No-lifer thats my boy

it hurts so much. when she said she wanted to meet me one last time. and she returned to me all the things ive given to her,she said she dont want to remember me anymore because she will not be able to move on. she wants to delete all her memories of me. she said its all because she loved me so much, but somehow have to let me go. we sat there at our favorite spot. one last kiss on her forehead, saying how much i love her. she watched me walked away, im tried so hard not to look back at her, with my hands full of things that was once hers, and my heart screaming not to leave her. i did it because of my love for her, not wanting her to stay if shes not happy with me. i did it for her happiness. i want her to be happy. if she wants me to leave, so be it. ill do it. for her. now its just me, with nothing but the emptiness she left behind, and all the memories we had together. wonder if she felt the same? wonder if she thinks of me still? i dont have anything anymore, except being strong. and i try so hard everyday, trying to be strong.

@theebanraj7092

5 жыл бұрын

I feel you bro💔

@juhisharma8651

5 жыл бұрын

☹️☹️☹️

@geckoboi6124

5 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry :( .... I hope you will find someone new and better for you... I really feel you, I've been there but you handled yourself really well and that's absolutely amazing of you

@raybennett3093

5 жыл бұрын

Time heals all wounds my friend. Stay strong

@devinport.

5 жыл бұрын

You will meet someone again and you will forget about her. Stay strong and focus your mind on something else that makes u happy the wound will go away trust me and u will come out of it a stronger .

I got heartbroken at age 17 now im 25. I haven't dated no one in those years. I think its because im scared to get hurt again.

@wolflegend520

4 жыл бұрын

I feel for you dude :(

@wesnagel4466

4 жыл бұрын

Thanos:today i lost more than you can imagine

@lithiummateria

4 жыл бұрын

Same..

@ankitajamwal4630

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a bit scared too and I think I won't be dating anyone for a couple of years .

@chinoscars5655

4 жыл бұрын

@@ankitajamwal4630 you should start dating when your better. Personally i started going out this year and has been one of the best years of my life. I regret isolating myself no good.

rugby and rowing? what kind of posh school...

@juanrafaelsolanouscanga9363

5 жыл бұрын

Filip Blaze Canadian schools bro

@andrewteli

5 жыл бұрын

Rugby ain’t posh. Watch the ‘all blacks’ play. It’s one of the few, warrior sports. Note, combat sport is a test for individuals. But it’s essential for a warrior to work as a team.

@sauceaddict9569

5 жыл бұрын

Not really actually

@andrewteli

5 жыл бұрын

Mr.Tweezy007 each to there own, I only gave an opinion, not a cold hard fact.

@domhnaillomuiri2905

4 жыл бұрын

I do hurling

There is always this kind of guy called "Liam" who goes around and steal your girl for temporary achievement

@MasculineMan

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah Liam sucks

@koichipham3563

5 жыл бұрын

Koala Bear Liam, Nathan, Dudes named started with N, mannnn they are asssss

@liammahr

5 жыл бұрын

🤔🤔🤔 Maybe true😏😏😂

@Hav0ck23

5 жыл бұрын

Masculine Man you were as worse as liam..you dont realize it but you did the same thing as liam

@v1sh77u

5 жыл бұрын

This is damn correct bro

I'm in my 40's and single because a lot of tragedies happened to me. I almost became regretful when you mentioned that guy in the bar example but I am glad that you also mentioned that thing about finding happiness even if we are not in a relationship. My analysis are confirmed . My life situation sucks and is depressing but having a small chance is better than having no chance at all

@mefnow

5 жыл бұрын

Dude, it's easy at 40. Just sign up for blind dates. Single women your age are just as desperate as you.

@DerTechNick

5 жыл бұрын

Build your own life and don't depend on others or the fact that you need a girlfriend. Its the best. We have a saying here in Germany: Wenn du dich auf andere verlässt, bist du verlassen. (If you rely on others, you are abandoned).

@exv092

4 жыл бұрын

40 year old single women are dried up post walled prunes with 200 cats. Bad advice!

If its just 3 word it could have been "" Happy New Year"" cuz it was 31 december

@what5372

5 жыл бұрын

Imagine that🤣🤣😂😂

@jamesrussell2936

4 жыл бұрын

"Is it 'I love you'?" "Pfft, no! It's 'Happy New Year' loser!"

@vinabaska620

4 жыл бұрын

or i am rich or fuck you bitch

@shahiqimam

4 жыл бұрын

How'd u even come up with that👍👍👍

@rachelwinton8895

4 жыл бұрын

😂

I like the way he explains how they had first times together and then shows a pic of the bed smh😭😂

@MasculineMan

5 жыл бұрын

:)

@stevenlowks4166

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao 😂 same 😂😂

@abrahamsalcido895

5 жыл бұрын

My boy smashed

@gregheffley2

5 жыл бұрын

Mission accomplished boys.

@Jsamul1

4 жыл бұрын

Mark Shiel Jesus loves you.

Just got out of a break up and its her loss i would have died for her and she couldn't even take 30 mins of the day for me 😔

@NZH3Ripper

5 жыл бұрын

Find someone who appreciates your company bro

@ttouran

5 жыл бұрын

you are the problem, not her. Just read your own sentence here over and over. There is a very revealing statement about you there...significant weakness and irrationality...

@ttouran

5 жыл бұрын

@FBI yeah, I am super mad, I read comments on youtube videos, and my life goes into a spin, I get all depressed about some idiot name FBI making a negative comment about me. My life revolves around getting approval from social media commentary, after all, these commentaries are so astute, so life transforming that I can't ignore them...lol

@anons000

5 жыл бұрын

@@ttouran You have no idea what people go through. Stop trying to make assumptions that everybody is the same. Until you walk in other peoples shoes, you really don't know everything they could be dealing with. I know you'll probably talk a bunch of shit to me too, but what i'm saying is reality.

@ttouran

5 жыл бұрын

@@anons000 Nice, normally, I don't judge, I don't make assumption, and don't even really comment. But there are times when someone makes such a statement where a reasonable judgement by those who read can be made. In this case, he says "I would have died for her..." Yes, I am going to judge now, because this statement needs no context, no background information. This is the dumbest statement anyone can ever make, it is purely an emotional statement with no rational thinking behind it. This is a dude who is emotionally unstable if he really means what he says, he has issues, and he needs to fix it before he runs into another woman who will exploit this significant weakness completely. Don't come talk to me on your moral high horse, you yourself are making an assumption about me.

Such a great and relatable story dude, it feels good to know theres other people out there who go through the same things

Honestly this is exactly what I needed. My first intense relationship has toxic roots and we were both dependent on each other for almost every emotion. If one person was sad, the other was sad and vice versa. I realize that it's hurting me so much because it's my first love. Thank you for sharing your story Mitch.

@RAMIC-tv1ye

4 жыл бұрын

So how's things going now

i actually don't know anymore what kind of relationship i want, i don't really believe in true love anymore

@Gsxr_squid46

4 жыл бұрын

Same...

@kq5249

4 жыл бұрын

Cuz there isnt

@andyz1027

4 жыл бұрын

Same, I didn't believe in true love when my gf broke up with me but then i was thinking I really loved her so maybe true love exist. sorry for my bad english and I hope I you understand what i'm trying to say hahaha

@northtown3816

4 жыл бұрын

Straight BS New ERA

I already lost person i loved....now fully hate the love story

@ayingchanda

4 жыл бұрын

Ok

Needed this one. Thanks so much, my man!

This is so true!! I broke up with my high school sweet heart after 2 years and thought my life was over. But after about a month you learn to love yourself again and things get better! To all the bros that are going through a break up, just work on yourself and love will find you

*Great video Mitch, appreciate you sharing something so personal. Been wondering about the channel name :)*

I am 41, a single dad of two amazing daughters. Was married for 14 years. Been single 4 1/2 years. The time right now is the best of my life :)

@kingnevermore25

5 жыл бұрын

Jeremy J Are younger girls still into you, im talking 18-24?

@northtown3816

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats

@chanchannel4785

4 жыл бұрын

I guess I have to be ready to be like you... 13 yrs together, 9 years married, with 3 kids... And my gutt is telling me that my wife is cheating.

@_.Leo_.

4 жыл бұрын

@@chanchannel4785 She is bro. Last night was pretty good tbh

@chanchannel4785

4 жыл бұрын

@@_.Leo_. oh really? And what part of Mexico are you last night?

I know it’s a break up story and all....but it actually helped me. Thanks man ☺️

I can’t believe it.. this story happen to my life almost exactly as you described! I finally find someone can relate and this makes me so interested in watching you other videos. Thanks Mitch!

Broke up with my girl an hour ago...

@MasculineMan

5 жыл бұрын

wow, crazy timing

@nigelcaoilephang6052

5 жыл бұрын

stay strong bro

@nickgeorgakopoulos5283

5 жыл бұрын

Pf..it’s hard man,try keeping it together and spend time making yourself better,I made the mistake of letting it break me...and it did..don’t be me

@et_morteus

5 жыл бұрын

@Obito TV Sometimes things just don't work out no matter how hard you try.I knew It was gonna come to this.I was mentally prepared for this.We have been together for an year and a half.I felt very bad a while ago and I still feel like something is missing.I'll just have to accept what happened and move on. And thank you for everything.❤

@et_morteus

5 жыл бұрын

@Obito TV thanks boi

My story is similar to yours in a few aspects. Still hurts to this day but there's nothing you can do but move on even if you don't want to. I've been in one relationship and it was with a girl named Hayley. To describe her she was one of/the girl everyone essentially wanted to go out with. She had blonde hair and her smile was infectious. Her cousin was also "that guy" nobody wanted to mess with either. Now, first off, I've not really changed as a person. I've always been shy, suffering with anxiety that worsened over this relationship and on top of something else that happened in my family. I never knew how to talk to people growing up nor how to socialize or interact with people, still can't. I'd like to thank my father for that. Staying on topic.. we officially got introduced in a classroom when I threw bluetack in her hair and like most kids in highschool it started off really awkward. Skipping over little things, we gradually had our first kiss after school and that was what opened ourselves up.. like most relationships they start off fantastic and some gradually end up going worse.. when I first met her she was the sweetest fucking girl I ever met and she was surprisingly supportive when I opened up to her one day about why I'm such a difficult person to talk to or to be with as she started noticing, so for me it was the first person I ever talked to. After that it made us closer and started becoming inseparable. At this time it was when I had to borrow my mum's PC and we'd talk all fucking night on MSN until we saw each other in school again, we reached points where the relationship wasn't doing too well and admittedly she made a lot of sacrifices for me, deciding on not going to a different highschool and staying for me which now I'm older I wish she would've gone to it.. I wish alot a shit was different but back then you don't have that perspective. Moving forward in time we started going to each other's houses, found new experiences together. She was always into sport so naturally she was a very fit girl. Unfortunately this was also the reason this relationship ended, I supported her in everything she did because she was a smart girl and I believed in her endeavors in life but the problem here is because of how fucked up I am I also grew too attached to her and she became not only my partner but my crutch. I was still riddled with problems so she was my support beam. I'm going to skip a lot of needless information but she began going to the gym near the school, and at first I was happy for her but eventually it became suspicious.. she'd go there all day until nine at night and I'd see her less and less. Conversations grew a bit cold and off/distant and difficult. I hate confrontations so I don't say anything at that moment, but decide to one day surprise her after she finished at the gym, got on the bus and was about to turn the corner to get dropped off just as I saw her walk out with her personal trainer. At first you'd be like "yeah that might not be anything" but she started acting different for a couple of months, three to be exact and one phone call I can still remember vividly to this day was her on the other end with a guy laughing in the background as I asked her who that was and got nobody in a response. I really wish my relationship ended like yours but it ended with so much toxicity and manipulation.. turns out she was cheating on me with her trainer whilst at the gym, and then the mind games came and fucked me up. At the time she was 16 and this guy was 25 with a child to a previous relationship. He took what was suppose to be my girl to his house that his kid lived in and did whatever they did. Me being an idiot trying to hang onto whatever remnants of the girl i once knew stayed with her after she cracked upon my questioning.. only for her to do it again and I still stayed with her. She'd be at my home in my fucking room and just call me his fucking name whilst smiling straight at me as it was a "joke". Finding a fucking dickpic from him on her phone and videos from him and her refusing to delete them.. looking back on it I wish I left that shit years ago. We were together for five years. From 13 to 17. For my age I had maturity expected from an adult, and after all the shit she did to me I'm surprised I never did anything back. She had loyalty, love, respect. She had a second family away from home when she got into arguments with her auntie and stayed at mine for weeks to months on end. She was given everything she could've wanted but it wasn't enough. Realised I didn't know who she was anymore and it broke me inside. I use to be full of so much emotion and energy, and now I can't even shed a fucking tear. I'm numb as fuck and can't feel a thing.. i sat there the other day when my brother broke down after telling me he stole from me and got told he had to get out by my mum and I just didn't feel anything.. I couldn't smile, I couldn't cry, all I could do was just sit there and look at him.. what I am now is nothing of what I use to be like and I wish I never became the man I am today. Five years of something that turned so toxic and vile, to get fucked over by someone who had everything, to them eventually leaving me for this guy, have a kid with him and then he leaves her arse to be a single mum and ruin her life, taking away opportunities for her and yet I feel sympathy... I'm not a perfect person and I'll never strive to be one. I'm riddled with problems, my anxiety gets in the way of opportunities in my life and I try so fucking hard to leave my front door and do something but my mind eats at me and tries to fight telling me people are judging me, thinking I'm ugly etc even when I know it's not real. There's so much shit I haven't laid down in text but I doubt anyone's gonna read this shit.. still gets me that she left me for him right before my eighteenth birthday.. what the fuck did I ever do to you.. Least it gives peace writing down thoughts.

This video helped open my eyes A LOT. Very good video. One of my favorite ones.

Dude it’s all about the message in this video and it’s great !! Great quality vid !

You are absolutely right. It is better to be alone than being with a wrong person. We have to appreciate what we have managed till now and keep on evolving and then somehow when we will feel that we are alone , a person will come to our life path , maybe forever but maybe not. We will either choose to live that moment or not. But if we don't try we might lose something important. Life is for all of us so everyone has to make the right choices and mosty has to LIVE .

@MasculineMan

5 жыл бұрын

Great comment Foteni :)

@okalright4211

5 жыл бұрын

Hey I'm sorry if I'm being offensive or creepy, but where are you from? Ive never seen that last name before. Just curious.

1:04 not only the stereotypical good looking guy but the type of guy hitler wanted

@farh6655

4 жыл бұрын

Wuttt????

@thomassmartphone7125

4 жыл бұрын

🤣

@alexandrerohban3154

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@lucioinnocenzo2328

4 жыл бұрын

Aka the best

@Michael-eh9hy

4 жыл бұрын

He doesn't want Americans

You just opened my mind thank you very much. Keep it up

Ughhhhhhhhhh this made me cry. Thank you so much,this really helped me ❤️

At the end of the day, my best relationship I ever had was with my self, my worst relationship was with myself as well back then when I had a girlfriend. #4everalone and standing on my own.

I'm alone. I do not want a relationship. Perhaps, I will live all my life alone.

@protectsmile9964

5 жыл бұрын

Why?

@raihanulIslamrana

5 жыл бұрын

I identify with you

@SvetlyootSofia

5 жыл бұрын

@@protectsmile9964 I have lost faith that I can have a relationship with love.

@SvetlyootSofia

5 жыл бұрын

@@raihanulIslamrana This is not good. Have you tried to regain the desire to communicate with women?

@lankbeaver6062

5 жыл бұрын

Same

Yo thx for making this vid bro it helped alot keep it up

Exact same thing happened to me! That other breakup vid helped me bounce back and finding that feeling I had with my ex all by myself :) You've made life much better Mitch! Ty!

23 years old, and never been in relationship. I just can not create a relationship with someone, I have nothing to offer, or I live alone for so long that I can not create a relationship with someone else, or I don't know. At some point (few years ago), I just stopped trying and looking, now I don't care about this. Now I care about me, it means: money, career, sports (golden triangle for me). Nice videos, and animations. I do not have interesting stories to tell, my life is boring to others.

@mochamommyATX

5 жыл бұрын

23 is still super young! One thing that is great is that you won't be one of those bitter bitter men who is still hung up on High School rejection. You are a catch...trust me

@thetennisjournal

5 жыл бұрын

Noxx it’s heartbreaking bro

@eatermckinnon4644

5 жыл бұрын

You just need to learn pick up artist skills. It's not to go out and bang a bunch of chicks. But the skills will help you talk to girls and become more confident around them. Sounds like you are lacking social skills. All that stuff can be learned. Keep watching you tube and then put it into practice in real life.

@davidpierce9949

5 жыл бұрын

I didn't meet my first real gf until i was 24. And what a woman! She was 34 and taught me a lot. Not just sex either

@dnt2321

5 жыл бұрын

Same here

I just got dumped with a text message,she told me “I don’t love you anymore “

@get5536

3 жыл бұрын

What happend?

What a great narration and moral, thank you! Fear is very strong. It's true, you stay sometimes because of time spent. "Some people are only meant to be in your life for a season" -Madea & Steve Harvey

Wow, the last point you made about taking responsibility for your emotions really hit me hard. Thank you...

This is why I don't do relationships.

@CodyOnCars

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah THIS is why lol

@datboymike9650

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly can’t trust these bitches

@zayratyger5319

5 жыл бұрын

No ron, u dont do cuz u ugly

@ron87.

5 жыл бұрын

@@zayratyger5319 it doesn't matter if I'm ugly or not, have you heard of listcrawler? I can get laid regardless how I look.

@SH3player

5 жыл бұрын

Datboy Mike don’t be beta.....and don’t rely on a relationship to keep you together. If she breaks up with you, it shouldn’t matter. Your life should be already great and you should have other options if it doesn’t work out. Usually, when you have other options You are not needy Do activities with your friends You don’t rely on the relationship You have a great progressing life It shows you have value and can share it instead of only extracting value. Beta males- Afraid their girl will cheat on them and they will be lonely/damaged Don’t have many or any other female options Hang out with their girl too much All of these show low value, it shows you are also not confident in yourself that you can be enough for your girl. The good traits lower the chances of your girl leaving, but things happen. The Rock one day wants to fuck your girl.......Oh well”, your life is great, move on to another option. Again......stop relying on one girl to make your life complete. She is Only a BONUS to your already great life.

I just fell in love with this video. Love from Hungary!🇭🇺

Thank you man... words I needed to hear right now.

Wow... Thanks for very clear representation of all of this, it helps...

Oh damn.. The same thing is going on with me, we had a three years & more months of relationship & her name was nicky too.. Just days before we had breakup coz the another guy played his role! Its so similar story relates me.. I was also a shy guy before & she approached to me for relationship.. I feel depressed many times but its fine ya if someone don't want to be with you.. Know your self worth.. Thanks for uploading this video❤️

There are both good and bad moments that we all experience sometimes. We have to know how to transform negativity to positivity in our life's. This way, life will be easier on us. Be better than yourselves! Victory will be yours!

@MasculineMan

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed :)

@Caspunch7144

5 жыл бұрын

@@MasculineMan Make more videos like this! Your channel and your progress are impressive! 😁

you are amazing man ...same situation same words on my mind are put on these story not a single incidence makes difference ...it was really so similar to hear when i’m just facing the situation at this moment

This is a very sad story but you summed up your experience excellently. Having had my own troubles with failed relationships it is that I learned that first of all, the most important relationship you will have to care for and nurture is the relationship with yourself. Love yourself and you will attract the right persons into your life. I had my shares of relationships out of fear but now I learned, that this is not, why a relationship should be started. Thanks again for sharing your story, I appreciate that a lot!

Yeah, I have the same feeling. the first time i really cared for my friend but time went by and I didnt really ‘care’ about him as much as I did when I met him.

Im Liam, but not the Liam in the video 😳😂

@JT_Soul_Tha_God

5 жыл бұрын

Liam Mahr I would secretly hold a grudge against all Liams for life. XD

@therecogniser2122

5 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@daioskai5449

5 жыл бұрын

Hahahahahah 😂😂😂

@davidgalindo1279

5 жыл бұрын

You asshole!

@liammahr

5 жыл бұрын

@@davidgalindo1279 hahahahahaha

Love you keep it up bro this great and noble work❤️❤️❤️

This Channel is AMAZING. Thank you. I proudly share your videos with my second language English students specially because of how clear and slow you speak and also because of the nice visuals. Leo

Man.. my break up was exactly the story you told except for the long distance thing

I can honestly say that I’m happily in a relationship with my best friend. We met 11th grade in high school and started dating about 6 months after we met. I asked her to be my gf March 10, 2012 and we have been together ever since. No breaks or “I need some time” bullshit, we’ve never given up regardless of the harsh things we’ve been through. If you’re currently going through a break up or simply a girl doesn’t like you back, let me tell you guys, it gets better. I was in that same position too before her. Happened to me with about 3 or 4 girls and once it works out with someone else, you understand why it didn’t with previous girls. I love my girl so much and she truly is my best friend and she’s never done anything for me to doubt her. I can’t wait to marry her and have children with her soon.

I needed this, thank you so much omg.

Mitch, your videos are great! Keep doing them. Thumbs Up!!

So This Video Pops Up In My Recommend The Day After I Think So Far Is The Hardest Breakup I Am Going Through 💔

@underheaven02

4 жыл бұрын

Ramoxn same bro :(

Well I have a relationship with my PC and I can tell you guys she never betrayed me :)

@mugundansridhar3835

5 жыл бұрын

I wish I was rich :(

@bryan0199

5 жыл бұрын

Noob? Action! Fucking virgin

@ArjanTV

5 жыл бұрын

Wait after few year the pc will leave you and you have to get new one kid

@hime2391

5 жыл бұрын

at least he’s not a game virgin

@natimber3040

5 жыл бұрын

Mugundan Sridhar why

Thanks for the video bro I really needed it, I thinik this was the answer that I needed, we need to learn to be happy to our selves, I guess life should go on after a break up

Mitch thank you for making this video it really gave me a lot to think about

Thank you. Seriously thank you. I can’t express how thankful I am coming across this video. Me and my ex-girlfriend dated for 8 months. It was my first actual relationship, it felt so real and too good to be true. I saw that she really cared about me and I really cared about her, which kept us inseparable. She was always there for me and I was always there for her. But I had to break up with her three days ago because I’ve been struggling with depression and anxiety for a very long time and I thought the same thing you said in the end of the video. I believed that if I found a relationship it would’ve solved everything and make me happier, but it was only temporary, not because of her, but because of me. I was so fearful of losing her and I’m still saddened knowing that I don’t have her by my side because she genuinely made me happy. But I had to lost go because I am not happy with my self. I don’t have self love or find happiness in my own, and I really want to work on it, and someday maybe me and her could come back together, maybe not, or find someone else. Before this video, I kept blaming myself for being a bad person, but in reality I just need help. I don’t think anyone will read this but for everyone going through what I’m going it’s okay! Life is going to get better, I’m slowly recovering from this breakup and you will too eventually. You need to love yourself first before loving anyone else, but you also have to put effort and believe that you can. God bless.

@george.awashington4408

3 жыл бұрын

I know of a powerful spell doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

@george.awashington4408

3 жыл бұрын

Whatspp him now 📲⌚

@george.awashington4408

3 жыл бұрын

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I wish I watched this video 3 years earlier. Now I already learned that the best relationship is that I am happy if I have you, but I can be happy without you. Myself is most important. After I broke up with my first girlfriend, I have a new long-distance relationship for two years. She is actually 13 years older than me. I always wish she can have someone loves her because I’m still in school, and I still have a long path to go, but she really really loves me. So now here is the best situation for me: I love her and I want her for sure, but losing her is not a bad thing. Just think about having a relationship as a gift, while losing her you got to find out what you can do better and work on it. just think it as a gift, losing a gift doesn’t mean losing yourself, then there’s nothing to be feared for. Well she is not the only one. YOU are the only one.

Hello, I just wanna say... your channel is the best of whole youtube!

i am so glad i found this.i am going through a break-up myself.this video made me a bit stable about my sad emotions .thanks mitch

6:34 when you said “my heart sank” or “I had a sixth sense that something bad was going to happen.” I got a taste of what that felt like for me too.

Man, i recently my gf left me, we were together for 2 years and 3 months. At first everything was really dope we loved each other so much and it was like that for a long time, we never argued, fought, or really got mad at the other. I met her family, went to her place sometimes everything was going well. We did alot and always with each other. Then all of a sudden coming back from winter brake all the affection she'd give me was just gone, all of it. She was talking to other people about what to do and i assume they told her to leave me cuz that's what she did. It was so sudden to me that it made me devastated i couldn't understand i still had strong feelings for her. I'd try to text her saying think about it and stuff but she was set on it. She made me go sleepless and not have an appetite for a while, i helped her alot in lots of aspects, health, diet, sleep, etc i was always there for her and she just threw it away. She said she didn't love me for a few months leading up to this. What sucks is that in those months shed just use me for sex/pleasure and i did it cuz of love but that ended up being worthless. Now looking at it she never really treated me good but like i didn't care i wanted to help her, her life is pretty sad but she just doesn't known whats good for her. I still wana helo but ik she's not gonna listen so its best to leave her alone. My cuzin told me some people just dont want to help themselves and she's one of them. I get lots of mixed feelings when i see her at school but i did my part i moved on, i heloed her for as long as i could now its god/fates turn to see how she ends up. If its bad then hopefully she can learn to appreciate the people in her life and if its good well thats amazing. Females are pretty harsh in this world, gotta look forward in life. Tbh idk what id do if she tries to come back but oh well on to the next one, best of luck to whoever she gets cuz they don't know what they getting into

@RSiTzRobertz

5 жыл бұрын

Oli's Bored I feel you bro, my gf also broke up with me yesterday after 2 yrs and 4 months

@JV-tk9yn

5 жыл бұрын

I get that man. Many women can do that... almost inhuman. I went thru most of the same stuff with a woman who I wasn't dating but very close/intimate with. It's gut wrenching and the sick feelings and sleepless nights are terrible. I never went thru so much emotional pain. Yet somehow it gets better many months later. It definitely helps to not see her tho. Still never had a real gf but I'm able to focus on myself and improving my life. You can do it too!

@arusu1806

5 жыл бұрын

Oli's Bored hey there. Don’t give up. Don’t give up on yourself. Being older now I’ve had so many thoughts on love and in truth we as humans have an ability to love time and time again. Whether we love someone else or ourselves we come to realize that we are stronger than we were before. I believe in you stranger on the internet and I cheer you on on finding a better love.

@RiruKrypto_

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah I had that too with a girl. There’s a lot of sleepless nights and loss of appetite, it took me awhile to get myself together again and I’m still getting through it.

@oliverc.4259

5 жыл бұрын

@@arusu1806 i appreciate y'alls support, but things are taking a odd turn, my ex has turned a good amount of our friends against me, some don't acknowledge me anymore dont talk to me look at me nothing. Its made me realize who my real friend's are and im thankful for them ive also made one or two new friends. The situation is getting tougher on me but with that im maturing with it. No matter what violence is never the answer, must keep on moving forward. High school is a small part of my life, i will come out on top that's a bet

Mitch thank you for this video... my girlfriend and I broke up yesterday not even 12 hours ago, I gotta say this video had opened up my eyes and made me think in a way I never thought I could. I’m so appreciative of this vid, and I clicked on this story. Thank you!!!

@MasculineMan

5 жыл бұрын

glad I can help mate

Thanks Mitch. Your break up story is helping me through because like you, she made the move, we were there for each other but, she ended things with me because her family didn’t want her to date a disabled boyfriend. I was devastated. Someone who has never let his disability hinder him gets dumped over something he can’t change. But, slowly and thanks largely to your video, I’m taking control of my emotions. I also watched your ben and Jeff break up video difference in handling it before watching this. So, thanks. You have earned a like and sub from a disabled man. ;)

As the saying goes, “If she did it with you, she’ll do it to you”

@thezosokid

4 жыл бұрын

Fucking right! Im glad I read this comment!

@LoneWolf-sl6uv

4 жыл бұрын

I didn't get it. Can you please explain?

@abirdatemytoes4024

4 жыл бұрын

Lone Wolf she cheated with him and got caught and he didn’t know she was cheating until her ex came so he knows she’ll do it again

@LoneWolf-sl6uv

4 жыл бұрын

@@abirdatemytoes4024 thank you

Holy fuck this happened to me.... the only difference is I chose my relationship over school and stayed with her, we were together 3 years and also met in high school. We just now broke up this month on the 4th.. and that part about the txts with Liam..exact same thing happened to me.. This video is getting me thinking big time.. maybe life won’t be so bad without her.

@richardvargus7443

5 жыл бұрын

Best day of ur life man go look up mgtow hypergamy

loved the way you narrate your story :)

Thank you very much. This video has really helped me.

Me and my girlfriend had the exact same conversation because I was moving away, I felt the exact same way as you did after

"Brothers girlfriend best friend " why did that confuse me😂

my story was very different but similar but i was feeling the same stuff as you.. this video really helped me a lot as it really opened up a new perspective in me!

I just went through a break up very recently that is similar to your story and I just wanna say it helped me a lot. Thank you

Listen up guys, this girl who ever she is. She did this to the guy with the blue eyes, then she did the same thing to Mitch Man, and she will keep on doing this over and over again. Be carefull who you choose to carry your children and share the same house forever. And Mitch Man, you really deserve what happened to you. And I know you are a great person and you would agree with me on this. Your intentions were not so friendly when you were friends with her. Even the she had a boyfriend you were selfish enough to love her. Yes maybe she said he wasn't funny and he wasn't this and that, but what if he was an unconfident person as you were once. You never know. Life is a boomerang brotha, whatever you plant you shall harvest. I am from Caucasia, we don't let our girlfriends to ever have any guy friends. Because we know every guy deep down there is friends for a reason.

@Alex01xD

5 жыл бұрын

Dude, not letting your girlfriend have any friends that are boys is also so wrong. What if a job opportunity for example can come from a guy friend? Or, take the occasion where the guy friend also has a girlfriend, so that would definitely be ok

@dikbashli

5 жыл бұрын

Yea brah, I know that situation. I dunno if u have any gfs or not, I know immediately u are from Caucasus from your statement of not letting our gfs have guyfriends, probably we are in the same country lol.

@Alex01xD

5 жыл бұрын

@Hagogs that is so not the point. You are right tho

@tru816indo

5 жыл бұрын

While i dont really like the idea of my hypothetical GF having super chummy male friends.. I definately dont wanna control my GF.

@djskie1

5 жыл бұрын

This is so true!!

Great story 👍🏼

@MasculineMan

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks :)

I needed to hear this video. Thank you.

Much needed video it was. Thanks a tonne for this 😎😎

Thank you Mitch. For two years I had a girlfriend whom, at the end of a relationship, I was hoping to propose to and marry. Sadly, I didn't see that something was amiss - this something was her ex-boyfriend, with whom she kept contact for all of our relationship. He broke up with her 2 times a few years ago, yet she didn't want to leave the "friendzone" with him. Everything went well until he broke up with his girlfriend - then he started to actively flirt with my loved one and she, instead of rejecting him, started to move towards him and reject me. We went for Christmas to her family. When she told me during that time that she prefers to chat with her ex on Facebook instead of talking with me in real life I felt devastated and decided to end this before it changed into active cheating on her part. I've broken up with my girlfriend on New Year's Eve, yet we still kept contact for about 2 weeks - we even went to a New Year's concert together as if nothing happened. That day she told me then that she was not sure if she loved me anymore... These 2 weeks were the strangest moments of my life - I felt sad and depressed, yet I was clinging to her with all my strength. We were meeting and spending time as if nothing happened. Later it appeared that she was hoping to keep me, even though she repeatedly admitted that she was not sure what she was feeling. She was hoping for a friendzone with me :O The turning point arrived at the end of these 2 weeks, when she said that she was going to go to her ex to stay over for the night and that she started to feel some feelings to him. Then my heart really broke. I decided to cut the bond and leave her be, so that I felt no longer the pain I was experiencing at that time. So we went on a fantastic date that last day and started the 2-week no contact time - after that period she was supposed to reach out to me to tell me who she'd chosen. And she did - she told me that neither me nor her ex were the right match for her (although it's worth noting that she didn't visit him, because her family came with an unexpected visit and unintentionally destroyed her plans). We had a really long conversation in which I gave her 3 chances to change her decision (as I still loved her), yet she was still not sure of her feelings (although at some point she did admit that maybe it would be good to be together again... but she was still unsure if she loved me and told me to not keep my hopes up). So I cut the bond entirely. Now I think that it was a good decision to not start over, as I would still feel the pain and anxiety over her not loving me anymore and actively looking to go back to her ex. It's the fourth day after the final breakup. I feel devastated, yet also relieved - I don't think that I could live with her after all that happened. I still love her, but I simply can't go back. I'm starting to accept that this is how it was supposed to be. Your video helped me with it a lot. THANK YOU.

@zLxtoa

5 жыл бұрын

oskarroza Bro do what I do, have variety. Don’t just talk to 1 girl, talk to MULTIPLE. Until you get really close with 1 just talk to multiple girls and keep your options open and this way if you end up going out with 1 and you guys break up you still have these other girls waiting for you to give THEM a shot so hey it ain’t all bad is it? It’s not cheating either so its fair game! Hmm as I wrote this I kinda slowly started to think “wtf am I a player?!” 😂😂

@oskarroza

5 жыл бұрын

@@zLxtoa haha, OK 😂 Sounds like a plan 😁

Great point about fear. A lot of people won’t break up with someone until they have secured the next in line...just so they won’t be alone. Rather than being honest with themselves and the other person when they are aware that the relationship really isn’t working for them. So what happened.....she dated Liam? Did you stay on friendly terms, or did you never really see her again? You were both pretty young to be that intense. But telling her to go row in the States was honorable....you didn’t let your fear rule you then.

thank you, i needed this today

Dude I know how it feels to lose a girl you really care about it’s been a few months and I’m still crying at night and Can’t fall asleep and I can’t see myself with anyone else and this video is so much help thank you keep doing what your doing

Karma will 'pay' to whoever convinced her to say "I need to talk to you about our relationship". That's not something we can control, other than just to let it go.

Man I am SO SORRY for you man sometimes they suck Edit: oh actually I have a question...do you live in the United States cause I do

i really needed this, good vid.

Thank you mitch...this is what i needed, sometimes its hard to talk about break up, ur video helps me. im 40 y.o btw from indonesia

This video made me think a lot as to why I want to be in a relationship, considering I never been in one... I do have my moments where I really wish I was in a relationship but I also I have to stop and think. Am I actually ready to be in one? Have I truly loved and taken care of myself first? There’s just so many unanswered questions that’s gets you to the core as to why do you want to be in a relationship. And I really want to believe I am ready, but am I really??

@maleekjbyrd

5 жыл бұрын

Last Earthbender Thank you for replying to my comment. So what you’re saying is.. if I feel that I am ready to be in a relationship, even tho there are so many uncertainties still that cross my mind, I should just go for it?

@chrisbeaudoin8387

5 жыл бұрын

I was recently in your same predicament, but now being in a relationship i couldn’t be happier. It’s more of a learn as you go thing man. Don’t overthink it and just live life man. Go for it!

@maleekjbyrd

5 жыл бұрын

Chris Beaudoin You’re right man, thanks. How long did it take for you to be finally in a relationship? And how did it feel when it finally happened?

@sohinichatterjee7341

5 жыл бұрын

Bro, I'm in the same place .. never dated . I'm 19 already and all the people around me have assumed that I'm lesbian 😂 But I e like someone for 3 years but now he doesn't seem worth my time and love so I guess imma gonna die single.

@maleekjbyrd

5 жыл бұрын

sohini chatterjee Nah you’ll find someone! I’m also 19. And yeah, it sucks when wanting to be in a relationship is constantly on your mind. And almost everyone around you is in one lol. And wow, 3 years? You were hella loyal liking someone for that long. What made him not worth your time anymore? Especially liking him for that long? If you don’t mind me asking.

Dude great timing today ;) Today i had serious argument with my gf and really i was scared about loosing her. Now after this film i am much more confident that i will get over it if we actually break up.

@nezarl8374

5 жыл бұрын

What happened Bro Did u broke up?

@mobilek432

5 жыл бұрын

@@nezarl8374 Not yet we are still trying to fix our relationship .I think next month will be crucial. If anything happens i ll catch up with you guys ;) ps thanks for support

@nezarl8374

5 жыл бұрын

@@mobilek432 Wish u the best buddy

@mobilek432

5 жыл бұрын

@@nezarl8374 Thanks mate i wish u too the best

Great video! I think it's really important to realise that you can move out of the 'friend zone' in time. Feelings can take months or YEARS to develop and I think it's far better that this happens than instant attraction which is often misleading. I have known couples who were great friends with other couples. One day one from each couple develops feelings for the other person and they go off together leaving their partners aghast!

Great content Mitch , I'm new to your channel and i can tell you do provide some good quality content indeed!