its always a mistake and the friend is always to be trusted... hoos

Wow, those commentators predicted very accurately! I am sure this wasn’t the first time his wife did something like this..

Vast majority of guys in your shoes will never trust her again...and those who choose to trust are burned again...once a cheater, always a cheater...chance of saving your marriage is close to zero and if you stay you will just prolong suffering and end up in divorce anyway...walk away

Imagine if the friend was just lying because she wanted OP for herself? Haha, that would be a twist for sure.

Nope it ain't a mistake it's the decision.

So OP messed up by divorcing his first wife. Too bad.

@zemoth941

Ай бұрын

We don't even know why he left his first wife tho?

@andynorck2389

Ай бұрын

@@zemoth941 he said she is a good person, the mother of his children and that he should have tried harder. So I’m taking his word for it and agreed that he should have tried harder and he wouldn’t be in this mess if he had worked it out.

@Dustin81

Ай бұрын

@@andynorck2389Well she didn’t try hard enough either. Though sometimes when people get married young they become people they aren’t compatible with anymore. Her just being a good person isn’t enough. Only enough to have a good co parenting relationship.

@zemoth941

Ай бұрын

​@@andynorck2389I missed that last part but even then if they drifted apart you can't force them to love each other, as long as they have the kids best interest in mind and a good co parenting routine then it should be fine.

@andynorck2389

Ай бұрын

@@Dustin81 well of course, this is a hypothetical, we don’t know. I’m just saying that it sounds like his life would be better if he had stayed married with the first one. Which I think is true for most divorces where no one did something bad like cheating, abuse or something.