Did she did this to me 25 years ago. Should I let it go?
Full story with updates: Did My Wife Cheat on me 25 Years Ago? She Started Acting Cold Towards Me and Now I Suspect Our Kids Aren't Mine. Should I Let It Go?
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imagine being that big of a doormat for 40+ years...
Who wants to save the 45 years of marriage, when she obviously hates him, is openly hostile towards him, and they don't even live together? What are the kids smoking? I understand the financial angle for his decision to not divorce, but what was with the grown adult kids suddenly wanting mommy and daddy to stay together?
@cavey001
2 ай бұрын
Asian culture seems to behave a little different from European or North American when it comes to family and relationships.
If my kids ever told me to reconsider. I'll look at them and would ask only a single question. "Will you all change your last name or should i change mine?"
OP ruined his youth by staying with her. He should’ve left her A LONG time ago, but he stood. I’m guessing the only reason the children want the parents to stay together instead of them getting a divorce is b/c of the mom’s medical expenses or whatever. However, OP doesn’t have to stay with the wife if he stays with the wife then that’s all on him. He’s looking for ANY excuse just to stay with her. Yeah, you’re in your 60s, but that’s not an excuse to stay with someone like her. You don’t have to divorce her, but you don’t need to stay with her either.
Hindsight is always 20-20!? Dude, in this case, Helen Keller could’ve figured this out decades ago.
What a sad excuse of a man. How could he put up with this monster for so long?
@megaladin1
2 ай бұрын
This is very traditional Asian culture, it's brutally different from anything the average American is used to. A divorce for him could pretty much become financial and social suicide even somewhat early into the marriage, especially if kids are involved.
OP ignored toooo many red flags! I thought he would divorce her, but I can understand his decision to just live separately instead of taking the legal route, as the wife looks adamant about fighting for his assets. It's the last thing he wants after discovering that the kids he thought were his are not.
She cheated
9:00 the sons are weirdos 😂
Beta!
OMG serious?