Who told them to bring 7 children into this world? They have no right to think that the house should be theres.

@petervaczovsky9211

2 ай бұрын

That's part of why I'm neutered! Good luck with that, ladies!

@cyndirankin

2 ай бұрын

I am the youngest of 10. My parents bought a home and raised us all

@commonsense2646

Ай бұрын

How many kids they have is irrelevant. They need to buy their own home. They are just jealous because they have a nice roomy home and they are using the kids as an excuse as well the fact that they apparently have the money to afford such a home.

@adriennedecerce3479

Ай бұрын

Theirs

@vikingsoftpaw

Ай бұрын

I had a friend who came from a family of 14 children. They were raised in a 1500 soft house.

Why are they even arguing about it? Just say "no," end of discussion.

@kwilliams2239

Ай бұрын

You forgot the ROTFL part.

Why doesn't the "mother" give her home to the entitled brother? It was their choice to have 7 children & expected others to give them a home rather than working for one themselves. Give them a home in jail.

"BUT WE'RE FAMILY"....... Remember family can hurt you!!!!

@beatricemurrhee2789

Ай бұрын

How true!

@largo5348

Ай бұрын

Family can destroy you.

@teresasaucedo2796

Ай бұрын

Turn around then I want my knife back, say's mother.. sister agreeing..😢

For once a spouse who backs their spouse. Nice to see.

@leondillon8723

Ай бұрын

A marriage is supposed to make 2 people into 1.

@elsajones6325

Ай бұрын

Be wary. Leopards don't change

The house. Why argue. Just say "Oh, heck no" and laugh at them. Stop even acting like they have a serious say in it.

@davidarmstrong1617

2 ай бұрын

That's what I did. MOM: "We'll just move in with you." ME: "LOL!! Yeah, that's not happening, ever. Not even an option!"

@thomasbrunton6651

2 ай бұрын

Wife's surprise surprise ​@@davidarmstrong1617

@zimt2863

2 ай бұрын

That would have been a short conversation for me.... no to infinity and leave now!!!

Sometimes, you have no choice but to write off your family.

7th child????? OK...why didn't the parents give up THEIR house....

Why didn't they just laugh in their 'guests' faces and show them the door. His mother and sister had more nerve than a bad tooth!

I love their solidarity. Good for them! So glad Jacob didn't cave and be a mama's boy.

Tell them both to sell their homes to buy a bigger home. Then they could also become live in babysitters. I’ll offer a list of good real estate agents that could help😊.

Seriously 7 kids? I'm so glad these 2 spouses were backing each other & stop with the "Family" cliche it gets old fast.

Strangers can't betray you, only family and friends can do that.

I doubt there was any change. People who want others to support them and solve their problems rarely change that radically in that short time.

@jnicoulakos

2 ай бұрын

I'm thinking the same thing. OP husband gave the family the right to make those demands. I find it troublesome.

@fairlind

Ай бұрын

Well, the behavior changed, and it’s not like the protogonists jumped to quick, easy forgiveness. Sometimes firm boundaries do work magic.

If you can't afford to support them, don't have 7 kids!!! Why should others pick up ymthe pieces of the mess you've made. And what has mother and sister done to help other brother and his huge family

OP..Your In-Laws got eay too much nerve. No way in HELL would folks have the BALLS to pull some crap like that!!

@beverlyarcher546

2 ай бұрын

My moms stupid side would do that fake Christians

Help them pay for birth control.

What guilt!? That house is theirs lol they don’t need to feel this way

The absolute nerve to even dare to ask for or to expect such a thing. Jacob's mother and sister are entitled, selfish, arrogant and immature people. Jacob and his wife worked hard to succeed in life and to buy their dream home. And nobody has the right to take it away from them. Why is it their success needs to be spit on and given to someone else? Like being successful is some how a crime now. Also why did Jacob's sister have so many kids that she cannot properly care for? Why do Jacob and his wife have to take responsibility for sister's choices? But on top of all that Jacob and his wife offered to help his sister. But his sister tried to take their home instead of growing up.

The brother needs to stop having kids

@PeachWookiee

2 ай бұрын

A vasectomy’s a medical procedure…

@beverlyarcher546

2 ай бұрын

@@PeachWookiee so is hysterectomy

@PeachWookiee

2 ай бұрын

@@beverlyarcher546 But a vasectomy is cheaper and safer, and if a guy insists on being with different women, he can't get them all in the family way.

Jacob didn't ask Sarah to have all the kids before she had a big enough place to live .. So why does she think her brother who waited to have children till after he got a house give her the house

What terrible in-laws!! They’re supposed to be supportive after achievement of buying a dream house, not giving it up so soon

I am a petty assh*le and I wouldn't miss the chance to make sarcastic remarks at every sentence they would throw at me. I am so over manipulative tactics of people and throwing the "faaaaamily" card.

@beverlyarcher546

2 ай бұрын

Wish someone would be like that to my moms evil stupid side literally all the good ones are the ones who have passed on

I guess it depends on the people involved. My mother is a great example of why trust can never be rebuilt. I am 68, and she is 89. I talked to her the other day and it wasn't more than a minute and a half before she was lying ang trying to manipulate me, gaslighting me that the incredible abuse I endured that caused me c-PTSD was never real. That I had a great childhood because she taught us kids how to behave. I'm still sick to my stomach for having reached out the other day. You can never trust a Narcissist.

NEVER Allow Any Family To Run Roughshod, Over YOUR Home, And Life!!! Those Are Some Disgusting In Laws.

The sister in law is going to get it to her and Karma is a cruel mistress that you shouldn't take so lightly. You shouldn't just take something that this couple have been saving for years for absolutely no reason. Seriously it's abysmal and MIL and SIL should back off

But family blah blah and the sister is so clearly jealous and if mom so worried but thst sin a house yourself. That toxicity level is bad and they shouldn't put up with itand starting lc/nc is the best way to get boundaries from these people. Such entitled 🙄 people

I would throw MIL and SIL out the door whether they liked it or not. NO means NO.

That would be a big fat negatory! And if you kept it up i would walk over to my front door and open it saying don't let the door hit you on your way out, block your sorry butts on my phone, email, social media and change my phone number.

If you don't know how to use birth control then don't have sex its that simple. Who in their right mind thinks it's ok to force someone out of their house because they were irresponsible and brought more children into the world when they couldn't afford to care for in the first place.

When they play the 'family' card... 🤬

@Mysticgamer

Ай бұрын

Well, I synchro summon vicious guard dog in attack mode.

Wow.... they live on The Hallmark Channel. Not a bad story for a fifth grade illustrated romance paperback.

Ain’t no way this is real. They would have to think they were billionaires to expect a free house

Why doesn’t mom take them in and an the afford the mortgage

Just because someone has the space and someone can do it doesn’t mean they should have to that’s crossing a boundary

That's not even a point in the brothers favor. Little bro has nothing going on but what's in his pants.

It’s family, but there are boundaries to what family can ask for or demand

@user-dg5zf4it8c

2 ай бұрын

Yep, true so why doesn't the mother and sister give up their homes? How about the brother stop having children that he obviously cannot afford to house?

I learned when it comes to toxic families everyone's experience is different so you must do what is best for your peace and don't worry about what others think

Tell them sure have BIL come with what we owe on the home and we will sign it over to him. What he can’t afford it. Well we can’t afford to pay for two homes.

would tell SIL get a job simple

@clarkclarke

2 ай бұрын

Would tell her to fork up the mortgage paid ... and transfer everything to their name ... But O would sell the house ...

What happened to OP's family? That's always the counterfoil to in-law problems.

Just do it for Dan. Ha Ha Ha Ha.

On what planet is this even an option or conversation.

@Colorado8300

Ай бұрын

Yeah- just ask the bank what they think- they own the house until your last payment.

I for one believe in 2nd chances but there are some things that cannot be forgiven.

So where was the brother and his wife in all this? Were they even consulted? All I hear is Jacob’s mother and sister making crazy demands for a 3rd party who never made a peep in any of this.

But we're family... but you're not treating your son and his wife as family!!

I would have got a restraining order the next day !

It’s sad but sometimes family can see your success as something YOU OWE. How dare you succeed! Any thing that smacks of monetary success is something you should share with your family. However when times are bad and you are broke no one comes and demands to take a bill or that you accept financial gifts. It’s always one way and it never stops. No one should have to justify good fortune or success nor do you owe anyone anything.

This is simple, no fighting, no nonsense. "That's ridiculous. Feel free to hand over your home mine is not up for debate, period." Next, ask them how if you move out and your brother can't get a house like that on his own can he maintain the payments? The OP said they had saved up and worked hard. She said nothing about winning the lottery. Big homes come with nice sized payments, HOA fees, and really good up keep dollar signs. So either this is just made up or their are some women in this family that has no idea about finances, at all.

If someone is entitled, I always turn it on them. If someone asks money, they I ask for money. If they ask for a ride, I ask for a ride before that. It takes time but soon entitled idiots stay away.

You tell them you and your wife are family the rest of them are extended family. Period.

Who needs enemies when you get a family like that. They have lost their minds and need to stay away.

@beverlyarcher546

2 ай бұрын

Oh my moms side is just like this all fake Christians and we know you know so we will believe others over you instead of listen to your side of the story because of it yesterday a fine example we were abusing a child by yelling and hitting the child oh and cussing at it? The problem with that story? No child was on our property yesterday only known children was next door there hasn't been a child on this property in over a year and he was a teenager and that was to help us with the remodeling of the trailer that was the last child that was on this property what happens when you got a bunch of stupid nosy neighbors and conflicting stories you know that he said she said telephone BS but nobody believed there was no child on our property which is fucking hilarious when you sit and think about it but honestly no surprise they would take my stupid drug addicted BIL word over ours too

Since this is really about family abusing family...

You can choose to walk away. No one should shame you for working hard.

lol . Cant believe the entitlement!!

zero dollar give up no way what would the others give them zeru

Why aren’t the sister and mother doing something?

There’s the door- good bye

God, you do work in mysterious ways...lol. I know this story may not be real, but I also know who it was directed to. Thank you. I mean that with every bit of my heart and soul. I love you❤️❤️♥️♥️

The writer needs to understand the small details. It took this instance to galvanize their relationship. They were married for many many many many many many years. And it took this for them to understand how strong they were together? Also being funny here, a woman will tell you a cheater is always a cheater. They can't change. So why would she expect the mother to change

I can't understand how parents can be so irresponsible and have 7 kids they cannot financially support. It's irresponsible bordering on criminal.

In the end mother came back...without Sarah. Maybe mother got also problems in her relation with Sarah and was afraid of being completely alone. The story does not tell this but it could be reason she came back after that long time. I could forgive her especially because she regrets her actions ....as the Lord tells me to do... But trusting her again would take much longer.

A united front between husband and wife. Excellent! Great story. 👍👍

The brother and his wife are both adults and should take accountability and responsibility for their own actions. It's not Jacob's and Linda's problem. Why doesn't the mother and Sarah take their family in since they are family.

lol, it wouldnt have gone past 2 exchanges before I told them to shut up and get real

These scenes are funny. Their plates are ALWAYS a "full English breakfast" type of thing, and it's usally a Thanksgiving setup on the table. But here we have wraps and a holiday ham?? Eating English breakfast......with chopsticks!? XD

Lol You all have a lot more patience than I. I would have said, "Don't you bring that bullshit to my door!" And that would have been the end of that.

Why do people who have children always assume or demand that their family is more important than one without children. As if having a child entitles you to more. Your children are a decision you made and should not be used to override decisions anyone else makes.

Why is this such a common topic? I've never heard of someone asking for a sibling to turn over their home.

Sometimes you have to tell family to kick rocks . IJS

Ask? Sure, but to demand? They can go for a long walk off of a short pier.

they can do extra work and save up for a bigger house

I don’t get this. Why is there even a discussion? Gtfo of my house, when my laughing stopped

I don't see sister and MIL giving up their home for the family.

Solid story but I feel like this was written by an Ai. Just sounds like ChatGPT with how it repeats certain phrases.

@tobalaz

Ай бұрын

It's Dan 2.0

@PittsburghAfterDark

Ай бұрын

It’s AI clickbait.

I would of told them to get out of our home and don’t come back

Install cameras and a home security system. These people won't give up.

I know a family that had 8 members and they bought their own home. The kids were older, but everyone worked and saved to get a house. No one owes you anything. Work for it.

this story screams "Do it for Dan" energy

well mil you can take them in yourself give them your home THE ANSWER IS NO NO NO NO NO

Jacob should have ordered them to leave within a minute after the mother's proposal.

You need to have kids of your own Linda to push yo conviction of keeping your home

This is a case where NO is a complete sentence. They should have shut down the discussion immediately and refused to talk about it any more.

The sister to give up her house

My mom is my mom but my wife is my LIFE!!!!!

SIL and BIL don't need OPs home half as much as they need a guide book on birth control. They had all these kids They can provide for them.

When they improved the security, a change in locks should be done. No telling how many "spare keys" were in the hands of his family. In the US, Wallmart is one place that has key making machines in the lobby. Quick service.

Families can be extremely toxic. But I would encourage them to get steel doors for their home and extra secure locks.

get a cease and desist letter from the court

Why do these people argue and ask questions? It just opens the door for them to give you reasons and think they can wear you down. I would have said, "No. However, since, as you so rightly noticed, we do have the means to help, we WILL help him pay for a vasectomy." Then I would have thrown them out. I don't care if it was the middle of dinner.

Show them the door and let them know not to bring their ahhs back.

I might seem to be a pessimist, but . learned after 67 years of dealing with people to treat snakes with caution at a distance!

Please enough poetry, GET TO THE DAMN POINT

“The answer is no. GTFO of my house.”

Caution, proceed with Caution!

So,if this really happened are y ou supposed to move out and then who makes the payments? The brother and sister in law who show no responsibility and then where do they go live?

Aahh yes, a narc's control mechanism, "but we're family so you owe us". 🤨🙄🤦‍♀️

It is not the right thing to do. It's there responsibility they created the mess. Their irresponsibility does not constitute a problem on your part.

Can they change? Yes. Have they? Maybe. Time will tell. Would I ever completely trust them? Maybe in about 20 some years.

Imagine having 7 kids you can’t afford 😂