Everyone can do math? LOL! Everybody can do art.

@DBarns7

11 күн бұрын

Not everyone can do math. Not everyone can do art. Some people are cut out for certain fields, and skills. Others, not so much. I myself was better at history and art, than math and science. It all depends greatly on the individual.

She made the right choice to cut ties with such a toxic family, who until now had no interest in her until she built a successful career and immediately showed interest in her. So you did well to move on and put the past behind you. 😌

@wonderwoman5732

18 күн бұрын

@user-kh6pk5pc8i CAN YOU BLAME ALICE? I KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE TO DEAL WITH A MOTHER WHO IS TOXIC. I HAD TO KEEP DISTANCE UNTIL SHE GOT DEMENTIA AND PASSED ON LAST YEAR.

Not ever facing such a toxic family, I’m not sure how I would deal with it. However, I think Alice was right to put a lot of distance between her and her family.

I had to roll my eyes at the fact the BIL was thinking about her because she was 'successful'. That's a trait women look for in men, not so much the other way around. Its something I've seen many women project on men and then are confused when guys are not attracted to a successful woman.

@ydcee3123

Ай бұрын

Hmm. That view is surprising. Lots of men are threatened by successful women. They want to be 'the man'. I have seen marriages fail when the woman gets a degree and becomes successful. Many times, it's about control. That's one way domestic abuse is created. Get them to depend on you..... Then the other side of the coin. Lazy men who are looking for easy income so they look for a successful woman. Smart women can see this coming a mile away.

@rizon72

Ай бұрын

@@ydcee3123 The threatening excuse is what women give when men don't find their successes to be an attractive trait. I'll put it simply, a woman isn't attracted much to a man giving off feminine energy so why should a man be attracted to a women giving off masculine energy? Again, men and women are attracted to different things.

She made a right choice to leave her evil family behind and start a new life

@jnicoulakos

2 ай бұрын

I have no idea why they thought her sisters husband having an affair to fix things. Cutting ties is the only thing.

It’s always best not to be in a toxic environment. So make sure you get yourself out and just make sure to take care of yourself so that they are toxicity doesn’t get on to you.

Some familys are like this its very sad 😢 they get so wrapped up in them selfs they dont see whats in front of them karma bites then they come running when they want something then they wonder why no one wants anything to do with them

@DBarns7

11 күн бұрын

Agreed. While this was far from being the most toxic environment in these story arcs, it was toxic enough that Alice needed to remove herself from the equation. She knew she couldn't succceed when being constantly in the sister's shadow, and under the proverbial microscope of the mom. Alice was also right for exiting the scene when they reunited years later. The mom and sis tried to pressure her to help the family that always made her feel like an outsider. Saving the family wasn't her responsibility, nor should it be. Also, it's unfair to play the family card when it's convenient. That's what Claire and Laura tried to do, and it was wrong. Eventually, they seemed to start understanding that they themselves are responsible for their own happiness. Nobody else. That seems a bit unique for these type stories. Most times the antagonists wouldn't get the point if they sat on it.

Sometimes you need to focus on yourself and to take time to heal . Op did just that and stepped away from the manipulation and emotional blackmail , she built a new life away from the people who wanted to use her to fix something that wasn't fixable . She made the correct choice for her and the rest of the family members who enabled her sister for to see the consequences of ignoring her for years .

It's best to cut ties with people who can't/won't respect you Laura and Claire are beyond saving

Never go back... Fire always burns

“I know who you really are” No…no you do not

@kpc9602

2 ай бұрын

I can say the same thing

Oh, cutting ties was the only way I could SURVIVE after my mom passed. I haven’t seen or really spoken to anyone on my mom’s side of the family since 2006, nor do I feel any need to.

Alice made the right ✅ decision to cut ✂️ all ties with her critical mom 👩 Laura and Claire

I know this feeling . I was the only girl with 4 brothers and .the first girl born in 4 generations on dad's side of the family. But I always felt like I was still the outsider ,(because girls can't do things like boys can ) dad would ignore me unless it was to do women's work he'd say so. I was raised in a house that praised the men and ignored the women.

There's nothing wrong with being a bit selfish, it's too much of It is a problem.

It Was Toxic 😠

@kpc9602

2 ай бұрын

I hate hardships and toxicity with poisonous words they can speak of

Well you can't treat people like crap and think they're going to open arms and love you.nah the lost and i don't feel bad for those toxic creatures who now want a piece of what she's got.too bad and good for her walking away and going lc😊

No repercussions for OP’s evil doers….why not?

You may not have to permanently cut ties, but you definitely have to remove yourself to heal & get perspective in order to arm yourself for future encounters.😊

Sometimes you have to cut toxic people from your life for your own sanity and salvation. Even if those toxic people are family.

What terrible mother and sister! And the “BIL”! What’s next?!

There is a multitude of ways to go about things like this for each is very different as hers was her own way of dealing with it.

SORROW ?

MOTHER b&. SISTER. HAVE ALWAYS ! BEEN EXTREMELY JEALOUS ! REASON 4. PURE HATE ! BOTH SPENDING ENTIRE LIFE PLOTTING WAYS 2. SABOTAGE ///. DESTROY // BREAK MENTALLY //. EMOTIONALLY //. VERBALLY ///. &. FINANCIALLY ! BOTH WILL DIE HATE &. BEING EXTREMELY JEALOUS ! ONLY PRETENDING 2. CARE IF SHE PAID BOTH OF THEM

I truly know how she feels, because it happen to me in my life, and I feel that I am still fighting that better now in my life, but I have God with me in my life that I pray, and talk to how I am feeling; what I am going through now in my life. I did had two people that love me, but they are dead now.

LAURA IS DEFINITELY A MARIA MEAN-ASS MONTEZ ON STARGIRL DC TV SERIES!!! ALICE DID THE RIGHT THING BY LEAVING THE WAY SHE DID!!!

I can’t make it through these stories she sounds so boring 😩