My Girlfriend Was Trying To Make Me JEALOUS 👿

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Have you ever met someone that went out of their way to make you jealous? My second girlfriend tried to do that in our long distance relationship when she would tell me about guys she would get drunk and hang out with. Want to know how I handled it? Did I get jealous and flip out? In this story I'll share what happened and whether or not my girlfriend cheated on me.
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  • @TheJoshSpeaks
    @TheJoshSpeaks7 жыл бұрын

    QUESTION: What's crossing the line when it comes to being jealous in a relationship? Should you even be jealous at all? Leave your comment below!

  • @thatguyinpurple7654

    @thatguyinpurple7654

    7 жыл бұрын

    Good Video👍🏻

  • @Pokegirl1005

    @Pokegirl1005

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'd say one crosses the line when they start not allowing you to talk to someone of the opposite gender (or same gender, depending on your sexuality) or when they start making decisions for you. I do like, however, guys that would put an arm around me or do something when they feel jealous, just to give the other person a sign to back off. Or they could just talk about their jealousy.

  • @samuelhoffmann162

    @samuelhoffmann162

    7 жыл бұрын

    i can get jelous when I find out my crush has a bf

  • @killermemestar4941

    @killermemestar4941

    7 жыл бұрын

    The Josh Speaks I don't always know if I should or not. I try not to be but I feel like she is trying to make me like it. I feel like I should but I have seen my best friends relationship get absolutely destroyed. I don't want this but I do want to know what to do. Any advice would be great

  • @caseyburnet
    @caseyburnet5 жыл бұрын

    Listening to you talk, makes it clear to me that men in relationships are straightforward and logical, and women tend to be overly emotional and play mind games. Except for the part where she said she wanted you to take the territorial reigns. That was cool of her. But like you said, she did eventually cheat and it seems her boundaries in the relationship were nowhere near as clear and mature as yours! I guess she just didn't know what she wanted....

  • @mariarose3563
    @mariarose35637 жыл бұрын

    Ha! I'm not really a jealous type person 😛. If you trust him/her then you have no reason to be jealous.

  • @smithywergeryeagermanjense2745
    @smithywergeryeagermanjense27457 жыл бұрын

    When I broke up with my second girlfriend she literally walked up to me and said "I'm going to make you so jealous that you are going to ask me out again, I promise that." Well me and my third girlfriend have been together for 8 months sooo

  • @MindBlaze46

    @MindBlaze46

    3 жыл бұрын

    what about now?

  • @nikolanikolov4990

    @nikolanikolov4990

    2 жыл бұрын

    And now?

  • @triciam6765
    @triciam67657 жыл бұрын

    Overall, no good comes from jealousy. "There is more self-love than love in jealousy." Have you ever noticed that many toxic people can be extremely jealous or try to illicit jealousy in their manipulations? A little bit of jealousy now and then is to be expected, but close the door on anyone who is extremely jealous. Not emotionally healthy.

  • @alexsparham1998
    @alexsparham19987 жыл бұрын

    another solid video josh some of the situations you've been in are incredible and so many people can learn from them 👍✌

  • @darksoul7675
    @darksoul76757 жыл бұрын

    Great video Josh! :)

  • @jeffreybarruga257
    @jeffreybarruga2575 жыл бұрын

    You handled it like a Boss!

  • @willmackenzie116
    @willmackenzie1167 жыл бұрын

    Love ur story videos mate🔥🙏

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    7 жыл бұрын

    thanks!

  • @dustinbergen5135
    @dustinbergen51357 жыл бұрын

    your very motivating in your vids mate :) keep it up mate

  • @dianeteague9477
    @dianeteague94777 жыл бұрын

    A girl that I liked asked me if she was pretty but I got nervous and straight up said no like a idiot and it's been making me feel like an idiot and wishing she never asked me in the first place

  • @blabla3975
    @blabla39757 жыл бұрын

    Hey Josh I just wanna ask some question sorry if this is not related to the video but , i like a girl at my high school and i talked to her like 2 times and the first time i manage to make her laugh but the second time she just ignore me because i am nervous and her friend is saying that i am creepy . What should i do in the future so that i still can have chance to know this girl more?

  • @plzno6266
    @plzno62667 жыл бұрын

    Dude, your the OG

  • @Cursimoo
    @Cursimoo7 жыл бұрын

    another one of those vid dat never fails to make me to like

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Cursy Moomoo haha awesome

  • @awesomewolfy3
    @awesomewolfy37 жыл бұрын

    hey josh I have a question, is it a good idea to ask out one of my coworkers ?

  • @iamthewalrus1594
    @iamthewalrus15947 жыл бұрын

    josh can you please do a video on anxiety around you crush cus i need to talk to her but im scared

  • @mariarose3563

    @mariarose3563

    7 жыл бұрын

    Winter Brandt//: well A) be straight up. And just do it B) bring a friend with you, so it wouldn't feel awkward C) be friends with her/his friends. (This one really works on me. I became friends with his friends and I became closer to him) D) talk to more people, it helps your communication better. E) all of the above

  • @ExampleGamer1
    @ExampleGamer17 жыл бұрын

    I just went on a date with a friend but what do u do when friends show up and ruin t

  • @mariarose3563

    @mariarose3563

    7 жыл бұрын

    example gamer//: well you could either tell them to leave, Or just let them be. The more the merrier right?

  • @frankhernandez4872
    @frankhernandez48727 жыл бұрын

    Can u do a video on asking ur crush out, but if someone else asked her but at first perfered the first person

  • @noahvinal6545
    @noahvinal65457 жыл бұрын

    Hey can you make a video about asking a girl out if she is avoiding you

  • @MoveOnUpMusicEvan
    @MoveOnUpMusicEvan7 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys I want to tell you something. It's proof that Josh's videos actually work. :) Read to the end as there is a happy ending :D Comment what you think :) So back in September last year i met this girl (for name's sake we'll call her 'C') C and when i first met her she was just amazing. Literally everything i saw in my dreams and wished for in my dreams was right there in her. I remember her saying "Hi, I'm 'C'" and smiling. So i had (as u can imagine) a huge crush on her at the time and i sat next to her in math. This is when i was looking online for videos like Josh's to help me not f*ck it up with her as i thought (and still do think) 'she is the love of my life'. I watched a load of Josh's videos and honestly even though i kept it to most of my feelings about her to myself i went through an emotional roller coaster and Josh's videos were there for me. I started trying some of things Josh was suggesting as well as some things from other sources like TripAdvice (not sure on Trip's newest content though, in all honesty) and it seemed like they were working. I was getting to know her and the sense of mystery is still there! I was so emotionally invested in her at the time, i regularly would worry about what i would do next math lesson to further our growing bond. I really wanted it to happen, but as i grew closer to her i found out she liked someone else instead of me; i still talked to her (thankfully) and we grew into really close friends and i admitted defeat basically on the relationship dream even though i still wanted it. This lasted to a couple of weeks ago though; (i know short time since then), when after quite a lot of sporadic flirting between each other on text, we started to do it more and more, without knowing our feelings towards each other. She then sent me these pics of 'I'm falling for you' and one of those read the first three words texts that said 'I want you'. This was huge as i had feelings for her but my mind thought that it was all dead and buried and never going to work. But she actually liked me back! XD I was ecstatic as you probably can imagine. So I started to talk to her a hell of a lot more, and it was great. Even though right now we are deeply in love with each other we don't know what we are exactly. As we got so attached through text we neglected the irl bit that brought us together in the same place. So when we both come back from Holiday we have both agreed to spend more time together to try and take it up to the next level, we'll probably do this by when we first see each other again we probably will kiss, as we both are dying to do so. But either way she's still my princess

  • @alextoussaint1002
    @alextoussaint10027 жыл бұрын

    I need help talk to my Crush but I'm shy

  • @xpressgonewild3372
    @xpressgonewild33727 жыл бұрын

    Can u make a video about why ur crush that's a guy keeps leaving you on open?

  • @killermemestar4941
    @killermemestar49417 жыл бұрын

    How many girlfriends have you had josh?

  • @papichulo8659
    @papichulo86597 жыл бұрын

    HERE'S A JOKE TACO: WHY YOU TACOBAUT THAT NACHOS:CAUSE I'M NACHOUS FRIEND ANYMORE

  • @MegaFirefox360

    @MegaFirefox360

    6 жыл бұрын

    XOTOURLIFE 01 ...

  • @keithkent366
    @keithkent3667 жыл бұрын

    I like how I get here, and the only three comments say "first" xd

  • @mrspongebob1081

    @mrspongebob1081

    7 жыл бұрын

    Four** 😂

  • @keithkent366

    @keithkent366

    7 жыл бұрын

    xD Lmao! People need to understand it doesn't matter if you're first, tbh.

  • @mariarose3563

    @mariarose3563

    7 жыл бұрын

    The "Notification Squad" 😄

  • @anthoniotoscano3366
    @anthoniotoscano33667 жыл бұрын

    what dose it mean if a girl just laughs at everyday

  • @mariarose3563

    @mariarose3563

    7 жыл бұрын

    Anth0n10 674//: she's happy

  • @dianeteague9477
    @dianeteague94777 жыл бұрын

    I was hoping you could help me

  • @aidanmunns4917
    @aidanmunns49177 жыл бұрын

    The falcons blew a 25 point lead

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    7 жыл бұрын

    never forget.

  • @davidpham4435
    @davidpham44357 жыл бұрын

    Hey can you made a video about Asian cant get their love from crush

  • @MegaFirefox360

    @MegaFirefox360

    6 жыл бұрын

    David Pham really

  • @MehradTorkian
    @MehradTorkian7 жыл бұрын

    can you please share the story of how she cheated on you

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Mehrad Torkian thats coming next friday

  • @killermemestar4941
    @killermemestar49417 жыл бұрын

    Aaaaahhhh make e other video

  • @Slice2099
    @Slice20997 жыл бұрын

    make a video about it girlfriends parents don't speak English

  • @mariarose3563

    @mariarose3563

    7 жыл бұрын

    the patten army//: well if that is, you could either try to learn basic words in their language. Or use your girlfriend as a translator 😄

  • @timamgaming2952
    @timamgaming29527 жыл бұрын

    first

  • @mysterymenz99playstation13
    @mysterymenz99playstation137 жыл бұрын

    first comment third View

  • @colinrobb3892
    @colinrobb38927 жыл бұрын

    first

  • @julianrawlins5174
    @julianrawlins51747 жыл бұрын

    first

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