Jealousy can DESTROY relationships. Here are some tips from my friend and I on how to not let it ruin what you have.

@luisrosas8672

8 жыл бұрын

it helped thanksss

@seelockesee9264

8 жыл бұрын

+The Josh Speaks DUDE!!! you are soo right im in a relationship and i kinda get jealous at the fact that she hangs and leans on my guy best friend and i didn't trust her but i used these tips and she fell way moremin love with me THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!!

@seelockesee9264

8 жыл бұрын

+Linden Xiao Long AND YESSS OF COURSE I TRUST THE HELL OUT OF HER AND LOVE THE SHIT OUT OF HER!! ur awesome man!

@meitianitaningrum4824

7 жыл бұрын

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Awesome video josh Thankyou so much!

Great video mate!

Thank you so much!

I have been feeling like my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me anymore.. Anand think it's because of my jealousy. I really love him and I don't wanna lose him😔 he asked to see me tomorrow so that we could talk. can you give me some advice on how to talk to him and get him to stay? 💔

Sometimes I dont know how to show I care and i want her, so I playet cool not showing jealous at all when in the reality I am very jealous.

@chiefbeef2475

7 жыл бұрын

same here

I really really like your videos

Yeah sometimes I feel I might lose him sometimes cause I get jealous he's talking to another girl and I love him so much!!! It's hard not get jealous about that

I need some advice. I've been dating this girl for over a year now and I love her to death. Things were great for the longest time. We both loved each other unconditionally and we were both clingy XD. According to one of my friends, whenever I came up in a conversation she would say stuff like, "He's such a cutie ^.^". Then, out of no where, things changed. It happened so fast I didn't even realize it was happening. According to the same friend, she stopped using saying those comments about me. She stopped replying to my texts and I've tried to be cool for a long time because I know being weird is bad. Then, one day, I asked her about it on the phone and, for once, she didn't say "IDK" or anything. After some pulling, I got her to tell me her feelings. She said that she had feelings for this one guy that I always suspected her to like, and she claimed that we fought a lot (when in reality it was occasional and it was because I didn't hear what she said so she gave up telling me whatever it was and in the future she claimed that I didn't listen). She said she might want to break up because she "felt bad" that she liked someone else. That was the most pain i've ever felt. However, I was able to talk her out of it and now she claims she doesn't like him anymore. The problem is that for such a long time she told me she didn't like him. Now it's so difficult to trust and be calm and confident and what not. He makes her laugh all the time and my insecurities cripple my ability to be comically strong like I once was. She texts him back all the time and ignores my texts and I don't know what to do. Every single thing I do that I perceive to be wrong drives me deeper into this hole that i can't climb out of. Please, how can I build a ladder?

@Benjamin333zombie

9 жыл бұрын

Ask if something's wrong or if u did something to upset her. You probably didn't. She's probably going through other problems. Just talk it out with her :)

@MichaelIZKOOL

9 жыл бұрын

Benjamin333zombie I did end up doing pretty much that and we're seemingly doing a lot better now ^_^ thanks for taking the time to respond to this.

@devynndavis738

9 жыл бұрын

***** Hey man if you need to talk more about this I can help just let me know through an email or Google plus

ive been dating this girl and she use to like this guy but she said it was over and this guy is my bestfriend and we hang out all the time and evrytime he comes around she just like leaves me to talk to him like everytime and she hugs him like she doesnt wanna let go and she's always trying to get his attention and today we were walking and the dude came and just was walking up to us and she ran and jump on him and wrapped herself all around like i seriously love her and everytime he comes around she just switches and i get really uhhhhhhh i have a problem because i kno she liked him but she couldnt have him at the time but now she can so i think she still likes him and she wants him

@chiefbeef2475

7 жыл бұрын

same but shes less than that to him

What should I do because I feel like since the fight she's been distant with me.

Oh my Lord what happened to old josh this is so much better hahahahah

u r ryt

What do you guys reckon, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months, during a school athletic's carnival, I came back from an event to find my girlfriend sitting on another guy's (whom she had just met) lap (apparently the concrete was cold), I even sat next to her for 5 minutes and the only acknowledgement was hi and she kept on sitting on his lap, we've talked about it, and she says she only has eyes for me, but I just can't get it off my mind. What do you think, is that appropriate at all?

@Abipoole

10 жыл бұрын

You might want to talk to her a little more. Look at how she talks to you. Does she look in your eyes or does she look away. Does she play with her clothes or her hair, does she seem comfortable or does she see like she is lying. Tell her how you feel. I personally think it is kind of odd. Iv been dating my boyfriend for a year and I would barley even hug another guy but maybe you might be overthinking it.

dude this is happning to me a lot my gf is always on phn and she is sometimes not picking up my phn she shows that she love me a lot but hw can i get rid of this because she always being busy on her phn bothers me a lot help me out

I may have been trying to fix some of my problems to better myself, but jealousy is something I really struggle to rid myself of. Whenever ex's are brought into the conversation it makes me feel a little awkward, and even though I know there's no reason to be jealous of ex's, I just can't help it!

@TheJoshSpeaks

10 жыл бұрын

Do you compare yourself to the ex's? What do you think they might have over you even though they aren't in the picture anymore?

@sophieR565

10 жыл бұрын

Yes, I quite frequently compare myself to them, I'm always afraid there's a part of me whether that be personality wise or physically that he doesn't like and preferred on his ex's such as one being much thinner than myself or just the knowledge that they have history with him, and that makes me feel insecure about myself as a person. I guess I have a slight fear that one of them could squeeze back into his life and get in the way and it's for these reasons I need to try and overcome this jealousy and fear.

I need advice. For the past few weeks, my best mate has been trying to get in with my gf. I really like her and I don't know if she likes him or not. She said no but they are always talking and they used to go out earlier this year but the she broke up with him. She doesn't even talk to me anymore. Like we had a convo and we both agrees that we both get scared to talk to each other cause we are nervous. But I really like her but I think she likes my mate. I told him to stop flirting with her. She doesn't flirt with him anymore but he still fully goes in. I can't even talk to her for a minute before he comes over and tries to grab her attention. I'm only a kid but I don't know wat to do? Any advice?

Kids are already going back to school and most are going back soon. You should make a video on back to school, how to make a good first impression

This happen today my friend likes my girlfriend and I'm fine with that if he makes a move I'll say something but I said my friend likes you to my girlfriend and her friend then right after she dared my girlfriend to ask him out I so got mad off of that and I told her and she said I wouldn't do it and gave me a hug but I'm tired being jealous I just want to be able to be near my best friend and my girlfriend and not be jealous like I love this girl I'm a kid but i been liking her for so long is stupid I'm jealous

@kaylapeoples9454

7 жыл бұрын

Jay Ya its ok the Sam thing happen to me my boyfriend like my buff and she likes him too and they are going out secretly but I know I am also a kid

yes I have one time because I am in love with him and I don't want to lose him.

josh well I do get jelly of my gf being with here best friend but it looks like she cares more for her then me u can just tell idk wht to do plz help!

Hey josh can u do a video on how do deal with the fact that your crush is a lesbien because I just found out my crush is a lesbien

What do i do if we are just friends. I mean I really like her but she doesn't know. Plus she has a lot of guy friends. I've dropped hints here and there to let her know how I feel. Is that good? What can I do?

@TheJoshSpeaks

10 жыл бұрын

If she has a lot of guy friends then chances are you're gonna have to do something that's going to burst you out of the bunch. If you've dropped little hints it might not get the point across. I would say the next step is to get her to see you as more than just a friend. One thing you can say to her is "For some reason, I can't get you out of my mind. What is it about you that I just can't stop thinking about?". This will help set the tone that you're viewing her in a different light.

Can you do a video on how to hint to a gut that you like him?.

What do I do if my best friend keeps face timing my boyfriend and keeps txting him. She also spends more time with him than I do. I talked to her and asked her to leave my boyfriend alone but she says it's nothing. Also she keeps lying to him telling me that he did that, and he said that. I'm so confused, is it just me being jealous or does she like him?. HELP.

@Benjamin333zombie

9 жыл бұрын

It might be both. But you should talk to your bf about it and tell him how you feel. Everything will be okay your just being a good gf and watching out for him :)

@richym2404

9 жыл бұрын

be like: BITCH HE MINE NOT YOURS... But seriously talk to your boyfriend or something. Tell him about her or something

YUS I AM JELLY

My girlfriend apparently was hanging her arm around another guy and playing with his hair and he's supposedly her "friend" am I being crazy and over obsessed please help someone

@Prometiumz

8 жыл бұрын

And someone asked if they were together and he took his arm off her should I be concerned

@chiefbeef2475

7 жыл бұрын

same thing happened to me but I told her about it she stopped but whenever he is there she acts different

dude I have been with my girlfriend for a while but she started calling another guy cute flirty nicknames and its p!ssing me off

@ChipperMcManus

9 жыл бұрын

Talk to her about it she IS your girlfriend, you should trust each other more than anyone else

I was crushed a few weeks ago my gf and I broke up and I think its because she thought I was controlling u said not to say who she hangs out with but she hung out with an EX who while we were dating grabbed her boobs and she didn't tell me til a month later plz tell me what u did wrong by not allowing her to see him :'(

I'm jealous of this guy who hugs her all the time I'm violent toward this fool

just pray for me that me and my girl will last

Ok so what if he has a friend who doesn't respect our relationship. Do get me wrong the man I'm with is an amazing guy I expect other people to fall in love with him hell it took me a week before considering moving across the country for him. But do I have a right to be jealous and put limitations on his friend when shes proclaiming her love for him and saying how they're going to be happy together one day and how my step son should have been her kid...like that's fucked up. plus he's lied to me about talking to her. (I should also note he has never made comments of this sort towards he but he hasn't stopped them either) I know I've gone overboard with my jealousy but how much is too much and what is reasonable?

@TheJoshSpeaks

10 жыл бұрын

If she's saying they should be together or that his kid should be hers than I think she's crossing major boundaries. She's not showing respect towards you or his choice to be with you. You should convey those feelings to him and let him know that her actions and comments make you feel unappreciated.

@98doomkitty

10 жыл бұрын

***** I have all that did was cause him to lie to me for months saying that he wasn't talking to her when in actuality he was. He refuses to put any boundaries on it expect he won't see he until I can gain some more trust in him because he knows he'll lose me. Are my feelings on this justified? Do I have a right to expect and require limitations on their relationship?

This guy looks like Luis Suarez

No, I am not Jelly, I am pewdiepie...

@kaylapeoples9454

7 жыл бұрын

Gringe Guy XD that made my day

Lord Jesus I want to overcome of not being so jealous because I don't want to be like that to my husband in Jesus name I pray Aman lord.