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@nellyamasters3946

Жыл бұрын

I would love to share mine! Born in Russia our mom’s boyfriend killed and chopped up her at the time boyfriends and threw him in the side of the road then pushed our mom off of our 3rd story apartment our mom off. I remember turning the corner of our building and seeing our mom on the ground. There’s so much about living on the streets in Russia then the orphanage and getting adopted by an alcoholic abusive American who used to call us her slaves that emotional and physical abuse was so bad my brother eventually committed suicide. I’m good now I have two wonderful kids whom I am overprotective of haha and I got to go through everything with my blood sister! ❤

@firdosabashir6585

Жыл бұрын

wheres is his siblings now and his father im really invested in this story want to know more

@deevasquez1171

Жыл бұрын

Wow, truly sorry you had to go through all of that, may the rest of your current life continue to bring you everlasting peace, love, and happiness. 🤍

@jlewis538

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@queenvivian30

Жыл бұрын

In this day and age law enforcement in Canada are doing the same to me and my children Whenever a domestic violence incident occurs in our home my Nigerian partner will lies and nothing is done about the situation, he beat up my 16 year daughter and broke up hand the RCMP(911) was called, but when this very tall manipulative man speaks out his lies. The four police officers believe him over the actual victim 😢😢the amount of abuse i and my four children had suffered and still suffering is insane. Since I was in silent 9 years and I did not speak about the abuse to anyone in my circle, now that I said I’m no longer going to live like this anymore he got almost everyone against me. He says to them I’m not mentally stable for throwing away the beautiful life he has given me.

the story teller doesn't say this, but I feel like the fact that it was a white man's word against a black woman truly played a significant part as to why they never got help and the red flags were ignored

@BeautyWithinKakra

Жыл бұрын

I’m glad someone caught that.

@sd8150

Жыл бұрын

💯

@naynay747

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@UranusRising

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. His family dynamic mirrors that of the DeBarge family. White father. Black mother. Rampant sexual and physical abuse in the family from the father. Mother had little recourse because law enforcement refused to do anything about it when they were called. This was the 1950s.

@queenbee0777

Жыл бұрын

I agree!

What happened to his mother is sooo disgusting. I can’t believe he killed somebody and got away free. I can’t help but think if he was black and her white would things have been different. Those poor children were violated in every way. This is sick

@kuroe-chan5190

Жыл бұрын

Not really. Their were a pair of mixed twins black father/white mother…the mother left them with him…he got always with the same crap for years…kids killed him and his girl…rape abuse for a decade. They snapped

@daughterofenoch677

Жыл бұрын

As soon as I saw the family picture, I knew what was up. If you know you know.

@lowlowseesee

Жыл бұрын

Yep. Too much evidence to disagree

@msthang5366

Жыл бұрын

I can!!

@sandrafernandez3839

Жыл бұрын

You are so right

The people who found his mother and still did nothing deserve jail time

@Bailemos888

Жыл бұрын

just unbelievable how they treated they were ignored, smdh

@robynr367

Жыл бұрын

Agreed, those people should be called out for their negligence

@mtnewt1

9 ай бұрын

100% !!!!!!

What Albert's father did to his family is truly sick and evil I can't believe that many people didn't care and didn't take the children away

@kathleenmayhorne3183

Жыл бұрын

He said why that never happened, the authorities were scared to deal with his dad. People in the apartment complex, would have been more scared to get involved, and probably had their own situations to deal with too. Even the women's shelter was powerless against him. My situation as a kid was less dire, but we were brain-washed to toe the line out of true fear. People who have not ever been in so helpless a position, can not really understand, how hopeless you get, when everything you tried is useless.

@emmaphilo4049

Жыл бұрын

Happens all the time.... Everywhere in the world

@emmaphilo4049

Жыл бұрын

@berryblues she has psychosis. Do you think she ll make rationnal decision? 🤷‍♀️

@Maria-qh5hr

Жыл бұрын

It’s very common actually!

@marissa._

Жыл бұрын

@@kathleenmayhorne3183 When you decide to go into the field of an authoritative position, you know wtf you're signing up for! That's like a cop being afraid to put his life on the line even though he swore to do so to keep the community safe when he swore to "protect and serve!" There's NO EXCUSE for what happened to this guy and the fact that NO ONE came to take these kids (*when they were kids*) away from that sadistic, abusive environment is just sickening all around! I find it VERY HARD to believe that ONE ugly, white, pasty, piece-of-worthless-shit dude put that much fear around authority, no less! This man (*the storyteller*) is biracial and even though he didn't say it, the fact that his father was white and his mother was black - that very well probably played a role in this as well! A white man's word against a black woman's word! I've been abused and helpless and taken against my will too! So I get it! What this guy went through was unacceptable! His father is the epitome of an abuser, gaslighter and manipulator! He deserves to be murdered in the EXACT SAME MANNER of which he killed his children's mother! And the cops and the hospital should be sued for MILLIONS for abusing and traumatizing the mother, forcing medication down her throat and hurting her even more! I feel for the mother DEEPLY, minus the abuse she inflicted on her son herself!

The number of individuals and systems that failed this man, his siblings, and his mom... Enraging.

@msthang5366

Жыл бұрын

Do not get me started.

@baddiezone

Жыл бұрын

It’s so common and it’s sad , I wish I was rich so I can help children who experience sadness on a daily basis 😢

@isabellrc

11 ай бұрын

And, as both of you added in your comments, I too am disgusted with these systems! At this very moment there’s a child, teen, and/or adult in serious need. The help is limited, and many times as daunting as the abusive homes these people leave from. There always have been far more that government agencies could be doing to assure there is a full spectrum of assistance given.

@ATSW77

6 ай бұрын

Absolutely... very sad. This is disgusting 🫣

There’s no way in hell the authorities and CPS could have this many calls for the same household and continue to allow the children to remain with the parents. Just disgusting to even think about the torture these children endured. 😢

@emojik8

Жыл бұрын

And they destroy the lives of the innocent ones. Study has shown that the families with the junkies are better off, often the kids are even allowed to stay home, but they like to fight the pety things and falsly accuse.

I can’t get over how composed he is telling his story. That’s called HEALED!! Because bbaaabbyyy… let me tell you, I’m a wreck when I talk about my traumas ..

@psychotherapistmft7927

Жыл бұрын

Or so much trauma that you are disassociating and are numb in a way to keep yourself safe ..

@dotasarasone

Жыл бұрын

I am sorry and pray that you too get your healing in Jesus name.

@marissa._

Жыл бұрын

@@psychotherapistmft7927 This one. 💯 This is what I thought.

@Jay-uc8rm

Жыл бұрын

Compartmentation. Not necessarily healed.

@msthang5366

Жыл бұрын

Healing is constant

They failed those kids terribly

@bettystephenson5948

Жыл бұрын

Horribly.

@emmaphilo4049

Жыл бұрын

Some people aren't fit to have /raise kids. That's why it's very very important to normalize the choice of people who decide to not have kids

@bremass851

9 ай бұрын

​@emmaphilo4049 Absolutely it's nothing with not wanting kids.

What a monster! He sure doesn't deserve being called a father.

My family praised my father for being present, "in the home" and "strict" and "tough" the community praised him too.. something i realized in adulthood is that grown men who regularly abuse children are displaying a lack of respect for boundaries. We (my siblings and i) had no agency or autonomy for our bodies and we were just objects. Men like that are ALWAYS R4p1sts!!!! They're showing an inability to keep their hands to themselves and an absence or respect or value for others (narcissism)

@janelle009

Жыл бұрын

The lack of seeing or caring about a child's (or partners) boundaries is alarming. I used to have to get onto my kids Dad. Them being a kid and us being the parent doesn't equate to them having no rights and you owning them. A guy I know now has zero sense of what boundaries are with me and also is prone to anger outbursts. I'm trying to gain some independence so they can both suck it! It sucks when things are used to control or gain others trust over you. I'm surprised there aren't more Lorena Bobbits out there honestly

@salh9276

Жыл бұрын

Oh my thanks for saying it, I came from a very strict household where we (kids) couldn’t have any rights or opinions, couldn’t grow as individuals it was what my father wanted us to be, we were basically his little robots, sit a certain way, stand a certain way, play a certain way, dance a certain way, everything!! Anyways he would beat us all up and my mother then eventually molested my sister. As an adult, i am very aware now of how a male acts around kids, especially if they are strict and don’t regard kids as humans because those are likely to be the ones to break boundaries with children!!

@andreablossom3929

Жыл бұрын

Yup! Being in a dv relationship I realized that dv and R go hand and hand. This person has a boundaries and power and control issue so they will do the same thing with S too. No wonder so many men always exclaim a woman is lying when she says someone R'd her and they weren't even there to see. They protect each other and know exactly who they are and what they do.

@LoneWulf278

Жыл бұрын

Your mentioning of him being praised by the community really hit home. We’re so quick to validate something without even knowing the background information. Some of us will condone *anything* if it’s a good look from the outside looking in. Image and optics is all that matters to people. SMH. 😞

@LoneWulf278

Жыл бұрын

@@andreablossom3929 The sad thing is that women will protect them, too -out of either naïveté or self-preservation. This is what makes any kind of abuse so isolating. You have almost no allies because nobody is going to be that invested in your safety. But they all want plausible deniability down the line.

This is exactly why people don’t reveal there mental health status! His father had more than OCD he definitely had a personality disorder… psychopath.

We all know why they believed his father and why the father had so many chances to abuse his family.

@germyw

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely we know. SMH. That’s a gottdamn shame.

@bigg1091

Жыл бұрын

We know mmmhhmm

@Prechelle95

Жыл бұрын

Because he was white! Let’s just say it!!

@rubyjaez

Жыл бұрын

Yep

@cafecitotime1414

Жыл бұрын

Yes. I don’t always go straight to the race but in this case, it’s undeniable

As a child protection social worker, I am in disbelief that this was allowed to go for so long and even when his mother was found deceased. HOW????!!!!! I really hope he sues all of the authorities involved in this. They failed him and his sisters. I'm so very sorry.

The fact that no one took the time to check on the constant “drama” In this home scares the he11 out of me. And the fact that a woman who had credible allegations of abuse was constantly being told she was crazy does the same. What a damning indictment of the law enforcement, the social services, the whole “helping” community.

@smithvr5007

Жыл бұрын

It just shows how racist institutions can be. People can be surrounded by racism and not even realize it.

@catsaresocute650

Жыл бұрын

That's bc once they can argument that you'r crazy anything that happens is no longer something real. You have no witness because the things you exprience you'd belive to be fake and others don't belive you are capable of knowing reality. That and a systhem that fails abused people

@MyMerryMessyGermanLife

Жыл бұрын

It’s freightening that none of them stepped in to help. Kids don’t regularly get black eyes - hell, no one does! Black eyes are a sure sign. They ignored every single sign.

@Bailemos888

Жыл бұрын

very tragic

My goodness. You just never know what some children are going through. This is a horrific childhood. I admire this guys strength in telling his story.

I’m so happy to see Albert living a happy life. We had the same foster dad and I heard some of the story but I had no idea how bad it was. His testimony is inspiring and I hope he keeps doing the work to help make change. I can’t believe I came across this video.

@lavonnawalker7538

Жыл бұрын

Small world!

@kurlenejohn5463

Жыл бұрын

❤@McGravy .... 🌞...Thanks for sharing your testimony...that is so cool that you came across your foster brother ....I hope life worked out well for you ... ❤. Know that you are loved and thought of.... Wishing you happiness 😊and lots of sunshine . 🌞

@MoGravy90

10 ай бұрын

@@kurlenejohn5463 Thank you very much❤️

Everyone failed this family. Everyone who knew them. What that father did to his family is nothing short of evil.

@bremass851

9 ай бұрын

This story sounds like a horror story so disturbing 😢

I'm left speechless by your story. I'm so sorry that so many adults failed you. I hope your life is filled with love and peace today and that you're getting all the healing in the world. ❤

@SoulfulRose

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏿

Stepped on her head? Jumped up and down on her skull, til he shattered it? Hog tied? Raping the children? Every night? I’m traumatized by this as well..I Thank God that you made it out alive and strong, as well as your siblings. This is horrible, yet I know that somewhere, a child/children are in need of rescuing from their abusers.

@CookWithStephh

Жыл бұрын

As a mother this my exact reason I'm scared to date. Everyone says ill end up alone. But I rather be safe than sorry

@TheRealDeal130

11 ай бұрын

​@@CookWithStephhGod bless you for putting yourself and your precious children first.

@CookWithStephh

11 ай бұрын

@@TheRealDeal130 thank you love.

@meganswartz7212

11 ай бұрын

​@@CookWithStephhWait until they are old enough to know right and wrong

@CookWithStephh

11 ай бұрын

@@meganswartz7212 yea thats the route I'm going

Gosh, this sounds a lot like what happened to me. I had PTSD and i am autistic, but my ex had everyone including me believing i was schizophrenic/bipolar. Since divorce i have not needed to be committed and have had no real mental health crisis. I am grateful i escaped the abuse and got proper diagnosis. I hope i got out in time for my kids to heal and see there is a better way to live.

@daughterofenoch677

Жыл бұрын

Gaslighting

@catsaresocute650

Жыл бұрын

I hope you heal well with the PTSD

How could one man get away with torturing so many people for so long? It’s insane.

Unbelievable what a person can survive and develop such strength. I have absolute respect

I'm unsure if you will ever read this comments - but, as a complete stranger, I'm so happy that you did not make that final step to end your life. You are incredibly strong and articulate sharing your past experience, not allowing it to define who you are today, and becoming the husband and father, that your father was not. You are very factual with what occurred, what was done, and you don't use it to blame, but to show the gaps and missed opportunities that various agencies disregarded. I'm sorry that your mother was not believed, that an emotional victim is treated like they are delusional and instead, the calm articulate abuser is believed over and over. It's incredible that your mother actually survived as long as she did, as I don't know if I could have done it, being berated, abused and distrusted for telling the truth and trying over and over to get help. The family photo that is shown throughout the video shows your father as a smiling, happy family man. A wolf in sheep's clothing, so to speak. I wanted to say that I hope that your siblings have also healed from this trauma, but then I realized that is not how life is. It's not something that is "finished". It is something that survivors experience every day, as it is part of who they are, decisions made, and triggers and flashbacks can occur without warning. It isn't something that can be put in a box and a pretty bow and put away on a shelf. I think that is something people often forget. Stories such as yours, can make people uncomfortable- we don't know what to say. We don't want to trivialize of course, we can't really empathize as every single survivor's experience is their own. But, to provide you with a forum, a way of sharing your history, uninterrupted, I think is the most respectful and honest way that we can learn from your perspective, what you experienced. I commend you for having the guts to share, and the incredible fortitude to change your future. That despite your experience, you did not continue the violence, and abuse. I just think that people such as yourself, that share their story, and who grow into changing the narrative, and changing the future history of your children... I really am in awe, because I don't think you realize how amazing it is, to become exactly the opposite of everything that you were taught and experienced your entire developmental years. Thank you for this, and for stopping the cycle and giving to your children something that was robbed from you, something that was not modeled to you. And thank you to this channel, as I think allowing these incredible people to share their experiences and journey with us. It really shows class and respect when it is all about that individual, no guided or influenced narration to make it anything other than their story to tell.

@robynr367

Жыл бұрын

Beautifully written and I completely agree.

The fact that they didn’t arrest the father for homicide 🤨

I'm not a person to put isms on everything, but this was also race related. I believe his dad knew nothing would happen to him, and that's why he was able to get away with everything. These kids were not only failed by their parents, but the school, social services, and crooked cops. So sad. I hope he got therapy, along with his sisters. .

@SRBOMBONICA86

Жыл бұрын

Nah this type of abuse happens everywhere,it's the most disturbing abuse and race didn't matter ,he would abuse a white wife as well

@A.L.whyte87

Жыл бұрын

Yep I was hoping someone said this

@SRBOMBONICA86

Жыл бұрын

@@A.L.whyte87 it's not about race ,this type of abuse is completely unrelated to any racial issue ,he would abuse a white wife the same way

@UranusRising

Жыл бұрын

@@SRBOMBONICA86 For this type of gross negligence and the fact that he kept repeatedly getting away with horrific forms of abuse in plain sight, race was definitely a factor. I really doubt a black man doing this to his white wife and repeatedly assaulting his white stepdaughter would have gone ignored like this.

@JM-ip1es

Жыл бұрын

This is true. My sister had a pregnancy scare by a white guy she was dating. He told her he would get custody of the kid and no one would believe her because she’s a person of color . He emotionally abused her for a year… before leaving

Albert didn’t mention this but I believe race and gender played a huge role in this case- esp. in the 90s

@MayISpeak

Жыл бұрын

I feel that 100% so sad! 😢😢😢

@mariealexandria603

Жыл бұрын

I Agree but What's funny is in modern times A lot of black women are saying that white men are their Saving Grace but as a fellow black woman, I will tell you that any man of any race Ethnicity or religion can be Abusive, neglectful or a bad person... I've seen so many things on the internet. Saying that white men treat black women so much better. Everyone has a different experience individually. But ultimately anybody can mistreat you. Not just another black person.

@H20X

3 ай бұрын

​@@mariealexandria603thank you for speaking the truth

I'm dumbstruck. In the mid 80s my 2 children were taken and put into foster care in California because someone made a false claim that I was harming my 2 year old. This never happened and the only Mark on her was a faded bruise on her leg. I had to go through counseling and parenting classes in order for me to get my children back. It was several weeks before I got them back, and that was with no abuse present. It blows my mind that with all of the incidents and signals, the father was able to talk his way out of everything.

@helloliggy

Жыл бұрын

I wonder considering, this looks like the late 80s early 90s, if race played a role-with the mom being African American with a history of mental illness and the Dad being an articulate white man he could easily convince police and social services that the mom was crazy, as well as coach the kids

@InTruthNLove

Жыл бұрын

@@helloliggy I agrée! Thank you for stating the obvious. How sad!!

@stjohnssoup

Жыл бұрын

@@helloliggythat doesn’t explain why Patricia’s children were taken into care. Presumably she’s articulate etc

OMG - this story made me cry. This guy and his siblings deserve the best life ever.

@GodfreyTaiOyYong

Жыл бұрын

Indeed it does!!

So happy Albert is here and so eloquently shares this story to help others. True definition of SURVIVOR.

This is why I think there should be a component of sexual education classes that teach kids how to speak up if they’re being touched. appropriate time to do that

@SisterKnight

Жыл бұрын

You have to understand, politicians are fighting that because they like clueless kids...

@CoCo-yv3hl

Жыл бұрын

Kids speak up all the time & they do nothing because laws protect them

@genniejefferson6588

Жыл бұрын

You’re so wonderful to tell your story. It’s so hard to hear these things from grownups.

@TheJSN1015

5 ай бұрын

Many times even when children do speak up particularly with sexual abuse they are denied by their OWN families--and many times the situation becomes worse for the child.

thank you for sharing your story! 🥺 btw. pls never ever call r*ape, sexual abuse etc. sex - because those 2 are completely different!

@FreedomofSpeech865

Жыл бұрын

💯

@nonino1644

Жыл бұрын

Both were happening

@CoCo-yv3hl

Жыл бұрын

His sister that was a kid was absolutely NOT having “s” with her father

As a foster parent and child advocate. I'm so so so so so incredibly sorry. I can't believe it imagine this. You are so strong and brave for even talking about this and still finding good in the world. I'm hugging you and sending love.

I'm relieved to see more child abuse stories being talked about out in the open instead being a hush, hush topic that so many ppl go through and suffer through feeling like you can't even talk about it. Things like this help to heal the world. Keeping silent only helps to protect evil.

I’m so proud of him, that despite all the odds against him he still prevailed. He didn’t let what happen to him destroy him. ❤

Every single person in his life failed him. He is so incredibly strong that he is still here. God bless you for sharing your story. I admire your strength and peace within.

I am a CPS worker and I cannot believe what they let slide. Nowadays… we send the kids to the hospital to be evaluated to determine if any bruise or black eye or injuries could’ve been abuse or not!! And with physical abuse we go with law enforcement to talk to the children and the parents!! I’m so sorry many parts of the system failed you and your mother and siblings!! I’m so happy that you’ve come out strong and are making a difference in your life and the lives around you!!

😢 how do people do this to their children man. Kids are just not protected. Big hugs to you Albert ❤

When I see Kids still smiling in these Pictures knowing what they were going through it breaks me. I pray for his healing. 😔🙏🏽

That person at the hospital that made a seemingly small gesture that made a lifelong impact…this is why it’s so important to be kind to one another. You have no idea what someone is going through and something you said or did for them that you forgot about the next day could be a kindness that person remembers for the rest of their life. As a childhood trauma survivor, I too have those moments in my life where I wish I could have thanked that person and told them what an impact their gesture had on me.

I think people dont realize such a small thing as a smile toward another or as in his case someone just taking the time to buy him a chicken sandwich and sit down and have a simple conversation can mean so much to someone who is drowning in life. God bless those special souls.👏🏽✨️💯 I'm glad he survived with an intact mind and can now advocate for others who have and are being treated horribly as his mother, self and siblings

Albert I'm so sorry that you had to go through that in your childhood I hope that by telling your story it will help others who are in the same situation

@kathleenmayhorne3183

Жыл бұрын

Why do people sat You "had" to go through that? He did not have to, but unfortunately he did. He was subjected to horror, he did not "have" to go through it at all. It was not his actions that put him there, he only had to make hard choices to try to survive, he was deathly afraid and had no other way that he knew of, to deal with it. Sorry for ranting, but had to is the wrong word, he was "put through that" by someone's actions, "had to" sounds more like it was for his own good that his dad chose to act that way for his benefit. That is just a nasty way of thinking. Like parents that say you'll thank me later, when their choices are obviously unreasonable, and destructive.

@TheLoveweaver

Жыл бұрын

@@kathleenmayhorne3183 do you have OCD? People already know that. This isn't grammar school.

@GodfreyTaiOyYong

Жыл бұрын

His father was a very intimidating man!!

It takes a strong minded man to tell a story of him being sexually abused by his own father. To help another young child boy/man that it's not your fault. Start speaking up no matter what cause that's wrong. May God continues on using you to shine light on others who feels like giving up or ashamed of speaking up on any form of abused towards them. Stay blessed! Yahweh 🤍🙏🏾🤍 #PrayerIsPowerful

Im so very sorry for what was done to you, your sisters and your mother❤️ it’s heartbreaking and even though I don’t know you, I’m so proud of you for being able to create a good life for yourself and for surviving this horrible, unimaginable childhood❤️

May you and your siblings find peace, healing, and love.

Sending positive vibes to Albert. He is a survivor.

What an amazing young man he turned out to be by becoming the change others need. God Bless him & his Beautiful Family 🙏🙏🙏

Albert, you are a Survivor. I'm sorry you and your mom and siblings had to live through that. Thank you for telling your story and for protecting children in troubled homes. Thank you for being a police officer. I'm glad you are a husband and father and have a good life now. PS: Thank you for bringing to light how someone's mental health can be used against them. Albert, you are a good man.

Your mom is beautiful ❤️ and sorry for what you and your family went through.. A lot of people failed you but its good you made it out

How did u come out of all this abuse n cruelty so sane? It is truly a miracle!!! U r an amazing Man, with a very Powerful testimony. Godbless u!!!

I am so sorry bro I can’t even imagine how much this has effected his adulthood. Much love bro you are loved

That's really bad! It's horrific to think there are households that are really suffering! Really, really bad.. I am SO sorry!!

As I watch him, I'm finally able to cry over my childhood which mirrors his. He is part of the system now so he refuses to hold the agencies accountable because it's part of his programming and they excuses themselves with a weak excuse of "we were too busy, how were we supposed to know". He speaks as if so far removed from his experience and you can tell towards the end the reality of it all was trying to burst through but he has buried it deep and along with his childhood programming, he maintains his composure. This is how I am to this day. It was 'a normal part of life' for me, the more I talk about it, it goes from it's all I knew and normal to me to an almost panic and rage and heartbreak over how everyone failed me and my sister and mom. Another thing I noticed is how he kept using the phrase "had sex with" in regards to his father raping his sister but used rape and molestation in regards to himself. This is another programming of his father's to make it look like the siblings wanted it or deserved it and they were weaponized against each other by this narcissistic father. The failure of CPS / Law Enforcement/ the Mental Health Institutions, is a systemic issue but also pure laziness, they come to collect paychecks only. However this man is trying (just as every abused child turned adult does) to put a happy ending onto a terrible story. Women get with men who mimic their father's treatment towards them, men get with women who mimic their mother's treatment towards them and in his case, he got into a system that will still fail him. They didn't protect him as a child, guaranteed by his explanation and excuses given, they had excuses to explain why they never were able to protect his mother, himself or his siblings. So he believes it, forgives them as "well it's not really their fault" when it IS their fault and failure and above all it's THEIR JOB to ensure this doesn't happen. This whole thing is simply heartbreaking all around. I pray for him and his wife and children. This episode hit too close to home.

I am thankful that you changed your life Albert and are helping others however yes, the system did your family wrong from the school, CPS, emergency service, mental wards and police department! What the heck were they thinking? So, so sorry for all you endured!

I remember my ex smiling when I told him of my depression diagnosis. And he said he didn't want that. There were loads of issues. We are not together but have children. My daughter said her dad slapped her she was crying and he said good she was 4. I asked him about it he shouted you believe her over me. I said yes she isn't the one who lies too me. I take no shit. Once I am done I am done!

I am speechless. He went through any child’s worst nightmare. I hope as a society we can all do better. At this point there is nothing unheard of with the government and I pray for him and his family.

@veronicaja9085

Жыл бұрын

So sad. Hope the dad burn in hell and he will.

This story got worse and worse and worse until that beautiful ending with diplomas and big smiles gorgeous wife and perfect children. I’m glad you survived that and thank you for sharing ❤

Disgusting perverse poor excuses for a man. He obviously didn't see her as human or worthy of respect to mistreat her that way. I hope he went to prison and that she severed all ties to him.

@cicibeknowing3343

Жыл бұрын

You should watch the video in its entirety

@bettystephenson5948

Жыл бұрын

That would be what he deserved!!!

@Dont4getaboutmee

Жыл бұрын

If you watched the whole video- he ended up killing her

@misstinahamilton5714

Жыл бұрын

She’s dead unfortunately

I understand when people who are abused are scared to talk.lots of instances when law fails them.people need to open up about abuse.I really admire u for being so strong and hope the rest of your days are happy.

Lord have mercy..... Those kids... Abuse after abuse after abuse... 🤦‍♀️

It was racial from the beginning that is why your father got away with it.

@cupcakes7015

Жыл бұрын

Right 👍 6/29/2023

@mariealexandria603

Жыл бұрын

Exactly Unfortunately there are some sick Women who think that every Caucasian man is better than any other race. Anybody of any race can be abusive, neglectful, and mentally ill. I have a very close friend that is from the Philippines She grew up very poor but was always intelligent. And a hard worker, her family encouraged her to marry. A blonde hair, blue eyed Caucasian man from America. And she did when she got here. He beat her abused her, made her work. Double shifts everyday took her money. And then made her pretend that everything was okay for fifteen year's When she would call the police. They would tell her that He was a good American guy And that he was in the military prior they would not even Write a proper report. So yes, sometimes people use their race to their advantage. But everybody gets upset when you bring that up.

@spongebob8157

Жыл бұрын

@@mariealexandria603 there are sick men who think caucasian WOMEN are better than any race. So don't just talk about the women.

@guleet75

Жыл бұрын

If his wife was white the authorities would have intervened !

@guleet75

Жыл бұрын

Remember the mum was a vulnerable mentally ill adult her self !

I’m so sorry all of this happened to you and your family!! My condolences to your Mom and Sister😢. As a women with childhood trauma myself I sympathize with you ❤

@xJanay

Жыл бұрын

His sister passed away?

@NewlifeNewbeginnings2

Жыл бұрын

@@xJanay unfortunately yes😢

I wish nothing but the best for you and your siblings Albert. I commend you for being brave and sharing your story. I also hope your father is listed as a murder and sex offender and is shunned into isolation if he is still around. I know we tiptoed around the subject but lets be real he was able to get away with things so long because race was indeed a factor. Despecable .....

@angelaholmes8888

Жыл бұрын

Yep exactly race totally played a big part

You voice, story and effort to change the system will help children after you.Thank you for your meaningful purpose ❤ Bless your beautiful heart ❤

This Man don't deserve to be called "FATHER". What Human being would do all this horrible Things to his Wife and the Children!! A Evil Human being!!! I'm trully sorry for what happened to this beautiful Mother and Children!! I cannot even Imagine how they lived Day by Day with so much fear what will Happen next!!! This poor Woman and her Children 😢. God Bless them

@angelaholmes8888

Жыл бұрын

Yeah he's a monster

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I used to think my parents were horrible but learned later on that they truly weren’t. But my heart hurts for adults who weren’t allowed to be children safe in the heart of their family. I hope your life turned out better than your childhood

I’m so very proud of you.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 GOD will deal with your dad. Your MOM was beautiful.🙏🏽

@bremass851

9 ай бұрын

Why didn't God deal with him when those kids were going through this horrible events?

@duces1231

9 ай бұрын

@@bremass851 it’s in GOD’S time. NO BAD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED.

Thank you for speaking up for victims and making this world a better place. There's no words for the most horrific childhood you and your siblings and your poor mother went through. I'm thrilled you finally found happiness in your adult life. Enjoy your family and the rest of your life!

@persephoneharrison3439

Жыл бұрын

Though they know God's righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them.

@GodfreyTaiOyYong

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry that his mother had died from the hands of the father.Had she gotten help in time she would've been alive today to see her son,his wife and her grandchildren!Oooh these life occurences make me sooo saaad and sooo maaad!!!

Even if the father had never abused the mother prior, the fact that she was found hog-tied with rigormortis already set in was disturbing . He was definitely a favorite at the police dept.

When I hear these kinds of stories I gave to show gratitude for my mother, father and the rest of my family. No, nothing was perfect, and there was a lot of unstableness and trauma, but nothing like this. I was never SA or beaten by anyone. I can say that.

I'm so sorry 😔 no one should have to go through this abuse. So sorry for your family 🙏😞

Mr. Grieve Albert, I wish you the very best. I admire how you have made this terrible early life an instrument to helping so many others. You are so smart and good. Too, I bet you're the best dad. Life is hard and fragile. May whatever powers there might be, give you the way to so much joy, peace and love.

@beginthenewcycle

7 ай бұрын

Thank you!

It's painful to hear what was endured by these children and their mother. Sickening to me that the abuser was empowered and emboldened by our willfully ineffective and/or incompetent system. And this young man has risen far above the high road despite all. I'll be ordering his books and watching for more.

God bless this young man and his family. I’m glad he made it out alive and strong enough to tell his story to help others

The Justice system failed you, your teachers failed you, the police failed you , your neighbors failed you and your siblings and mother. I am so sorry and I am a teacher and if I saw my student black and blue all the time my incident reports and everything i have would be sent every single day until i feel like my student is safe again. NO child should ever go through this ever I am disgusted and heartbroken tbh i am so SORRY. I hope he’s healing from the trauma 😞♥️

Wow you feel so loose and alone in your situation and suddenly you hear a story like this that is so similar my father killed my mother 4 years ago and got away with it as well. My older brother little sister and l were physically abused and sexual abuse. Mental illness was ignored in the home. No one rescued us for a long time until foster care. Everyone said after her death that same phrase “ He finally killed her.” They also said statements like,” l knew he was going to kill her.” Thank you for your story it has given me courage hope and most of all a knowing of not being alone. You have helped me to embrace that l am a survivor and not a victim. I’m proud of you of what you’ve made of your life congrats. Thank you for your service and your story. I’m glad you didn’t commit suicide and you’re here.

I'm so glad the world is healing, and abuse will not disappear, but it will no longer be overlooked because of race or financial background and not just by family but also by neighbors , friends and work colleagues.

I'm so sorry this happened to him. I hate that this happens at all. These stories really humble me because they make me realize that the hardships I endured growing up weren't so bad. I wish I could protect every child vulnerable or subject to this; every person really. I'm thankful to these people for sharing their stories and having the will to persevere. I'm not super religious nor do I go around 'granting' blessings, but I sincerely do hope God protects and blesses those who have been through such atrocities.

Goodness me….goodness me…I hope you feel the compassion that comes out of the hearts you open…I couldn’t believe the depth of the hurt you went through. The amount of violence - from not being seen to being used - was immense. I hope you never ever think that anything justifies it, OCD or not, a frustrated desire isn’t a reason for violence. And I hope no pain will ever be a reason for self-violence either. You are amazing. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart

I listen to a lot of stories like this but this one has been the most impactful by far. Shout out to you Albert!

I'm so so sorry. I truly am. What you all went through as children was disgusting and horrific. I hope you and your siblings have reconnected and they have been able to heal and move forward like you have. God bless you and your loved ones 💞

thank God you got out alive, and was able to do meaningful work with your life. i'm so sorry you and your family had to endure such a horrible home life. you turned out to be a good man despite it, i admire you for that.

I know most people are being broken from this evil! I hope this man is healing ❤

I listened to your story from Nigeria, I felt sorry for the children especially your mother. You are using to reach people. God be with you.

@beginthenewcycle

7 ай бұрын

Thank you!

Poor wife n kids,I hope those children survive n live happier lives.the abuser is protected more than the abused

I have no words, except whenever I want to complain about something, just remember it can always, always be worse.

Social services really needs change I was in a domestic violence relationship and cps was called and we were separated and questioned and then they told him what I said and after they left I got beat up there was so many mess ups with social services they really need better training to actually help people!!!! So sad they aren't a real help😢

@bettystephenson5948

Жыл бұрын

Back in the day Social Services wasn’t help. It just prolonged the sufferings.

@jesusisking1095

Жыл бұрын

That just happened two years ago

Shameful that many people are dealing with this type of behavior behind closed doors. And I very much appreciate this young man explaining such the narcissist personalities that people carry😢🕛🔁🪞

This sounds like the debarge story. I am so sorry for what they did to you and your siblings. There is light at the end of the tunnel. I am happy to see despite going through a nightmare ; you ended up getting happily ever after with a family. Your mother was a willing participant as well. Your mother got satisfaction and gratification abusing. She condone and was complicit. The only time it seems your parents got along is when they were abusing you.

Thank you Albert for speaking your truth. I was just scrolling through my timeline, came across this video and had to watch till the end. Folks must speak up about the very clear injustices happening right in front of their eyes.

This is horrific. I pray for this man and his siblings. The system & community failed them all terribly!

I'm sorry Albert. You were failed over and over again. Thank you for sharing your story and showing your light. Even through all of that, I can see your light wasn't extinguished. Thank you for sharing your love with the world

Thank you for sharing your experiences of DV and child abused. I think what happened within your family highlights the disturbing fact that women and children are not believed. And the abusers are adept at manipulating the system and suppressing the voices of those abused.

Wow this is so sad but amazes me that he can now smile...I can not imagine anyone..especially a child having to live through this...but am so glad he has found happiness....thank God you survived and now thrive and have joy.

Wow! Sorry you and your family went through this. God bless you.... keep doing good for others....

When it came to the authorities, racism clearly played a major role as well. Just sad

Thank you for sharing this It will help many May your mum rest in peace Poor soul

@beginthenewcycle

7 ай бұрын

Thank you

I am literally in shock and this is truly the most disturbing story of someone’s life I have ever heard. Absolutely dismayed. May God bless this young man and his siblings. I just cannot believe how many times the system failed this family.

@myas9207

Жыл бұрын

Your so right. I thought I knew horror stories. This sounds like something straight out of the 17/18 hundreds (slave story type thing)

I am so sorry to hear that you and your siblings went through that. I wish your mom was able to get away sooner.

2:44 "strangling in the air" means feet off the ground and your body dangling while your throat squeeezed while demanding eye-contact. Abuse where abusers demand eye contact is very dark and i hope they pay for their heartless brutality, day-in day-out on their children, sunrise sunset. These kids did years of time locked up with true monsters. My mother was 6 foot. It's a terrifying childhood where you can never relax and be liked for just being yourself❤

@beginthenewcycle

7 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry