I wish foster parents who are abusers would face consequences

@Itsme-m5o

25 күн бұрын

I agree

@BartosTradingCompany65

22 күн бұрын

Absolutely, they should be held to a higher standard being most of the kids are abused before they came there

@merindaarvie28

21 күн бұрын

YES

@deevillarreal9475

20 күн бұрын

Very serious one's absolutely 💯

@mercedesharrison5550

17 күн бұрын

Exactly, the parents get punished for abuse and found unfit but the foster parents don’t??? Makes no sense.

I’m so tired of child services not doing shit

@sfvibe188

25 күн бұрын

I’m tired of the parents not parenting 😢

@user-zo5tj1ic5c

22 күн бұрын

why are cps or child proteticte services in US so terrible, it is insane how bad it is runned, NO system at all

@faithlala8741

18 күн бұрын

@@sfvibe188exactly!! Please blame cps but it’s the parents fault!

@QueenEmpress-ez3jh

14 күн бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢😢

@StevenMichaelCunningham

12 күн бұрын

We lack facilities concerning incarceration in the first place.

I will never understand how a full grown adult thinks it’s logical to hear a child say they’re being abused at home and CALL THE PARENTS. I’m so sorry those ppl failed you

@StevenMichaelCunningham

12 күн бұрын

They are usually O.C.D.

@BlackGirlLovesAnime6

12 күн бұрын

Exactly my first thought would be to contact law enforcement and I think that’s legally what teachers are supposed to do. But this lady is older so maybe in the 70s-80s that wasn’t the law. Everyone failed her and her brother

@Hollister146

12 күн бұрын

Yeah that's why I wouldn't confess to my teacher but she knew. Cops don't do nothing if you're called an " unruly child" for jumping out a moving car bc ur being punched in the face and running hiding in a store bc ur mom tried to run you over with her car bc out of 3 kids your blamed for clogging a toilet.

@AmandaAlexander-jp2ym

7 күн бұрын

Yupp and they're the adults that also say "I won't tell anyone"

I’m furious. Her own biological mother not wanting to touch her. Or be near her. My heart aches. I can not understand allowing a beautiful child to go through such heartache.

@kaleahcollins4567

16 күн бұрын

Stories like this makes me want to be a foster mother so bad. I'm so sorry 😞

@mobates89

14 күн бұрын

There was probably trauma attached to the pregnancy that made her reject her daughter

@pixie12

13 күн бұрын

It can be an unfortunate symptom of post-partum depression. Albeit rare.

@karr1111

10 күн бұрын

You should be a foster mother and you should adopt children because you would be helping children who no one wants. ​@@kaleahcollins4567

If someone says they’re being abused, just believe em. Simple as that.

@StevenMichaelCunningham

12 күн бұрын

Be YOU.

@ericdwhitmorec

5 күн бұрын

And investigate Thoroughly

@MsTeelove07

3 күн бұрын

It's not as simple as that because some cases the child may not be truthful unfortunately. I would believe the child from the gate unless is proven otherwise. They need to investigate foster care allegations just a good as they claim to have investigated when they remove the child from their homes. I have seen cases where clearly the child should be removed and is not. I have seen cases where the child should have never been taken away from their own parents and placed in a double worse situation. This is something that needs to be talked about more but it's not. It's so sad law makers never push for CPS reform until a child is on the news

Adopted Mother set you up to fail time after time. What a horror she was, hope she gets her deserves. Bless you.

@mistyblue7693

26 күн бұрын

She is or has

@StevenMichaelCunningham

12 күн бұрын

Known as a simpliphile.

@MsTeelove07

3 күн бұрын

Once then foster parents say the child is foster and troubled the child's credibility goes out the window and that's terrible!! So many children have been harmed or unalived in foster care and most times it's brushed under the rug

@pam164

3 күн бұрын

@MsTeelove07 I had a friend who fostered for a while ( she did it for the money) she was well off anyway but she was greedy for money, as soon as the children got naughty she would say she didn't want them. She stopped doing after a little while as she was house proud, and they were messing up the house. Think it's hard to find good Foster carers.

@StevenMichaelCunningham

18 сағат бұрын

@@pam164 we lack facilities concerning incarceration to this day.

They should all be in jail. Monsters, all of them.

It’s amazing how people use the Bible against others but don’t follow it themselves. And this makes me ill that you went through this and others as well. I hate the thought of kids being beaten and abused! Why do people have kids and then treat them like this.

These Foster kids need to be monitored more They have failed these kids every way possible I am sorry she went through all of this

@abou8963

11 күн бұрын

Agree. Orphanages, not foster homes for girls. Volunteers volunteer and adopt!

Another survivor who suffered unbelievable horrors at the hands of so-called religious people. I'm so sorry that this young woman suffered so badly. I pray that her abusers suffered worse. 😢💔

Her story is crazy, eating in a restaurant while she stayed in the car using the money that was meant for her… I hope they pay in the end

@spiderfrommars8701

18 күн бұрын

THAT is your main problem with her story??😅

@rc6888

18 күн бұрын

@@spiderfrommars8701 well shit everybody needs to eat

@spiderfrommars8701

18 күн бұрын

@@rc6888I didn't say that was a nice action, but compared to the other horrible things that happened being left in a car with a loaf of bread is nothing.

@breeeque

15 күн бұрын

My grandma used to abuse my mom… shed leave my mom in the car and brought her brother in stores because her brother looked more white than dark mexican like my mom. She also beat my mom for no reason. In return my mom went on to date my father who beat her so bad n i have ptsd i was also beaten. So My grandma can burn in h** i wont shed a tear when i attend the funeral (which ill only attend for my mom)… n id spit on her grave if i ever visit it solely for that reason. I gotta let my anger go, i know. But its tough

@saoirse2963

14 күн бұрын

​@@spiderfrommars8701I live in a very hot place, so I can tell you that staying in a car without air conditioner for so long when there are 90 degrees outside is absolute torture. It gets much hotter in the car. I was once left for like 10-15 minutes in a car with no air conditioning (there weren't air conditioners in all the cars back then, ours didn't have) in such weather when I was like 7 years old or so, also with open windows, I started crying at some point because it was so hot, I seriously suffered. They left the windows open, but if they kept them closed she could have died from the heat. Every summer a few infants here die because their parents accidentally forget them in the car for a while. 45 minutes is enough to kill an infant. I can't say this is the worst thing, this women suffered unbelievable amount of horrifying abuse. But trust me when I say, being left in a car on a hot day is not a small thing.

Made me cry. 😢 It took me until I was in my 40's to start healing❤

@Itsme-m5o

25 күн бұрын

❤❤❤

@michelefreeman6512

24 күн бұрын

God bless you sweetheart. You're in my prayers🙏😇❤️💕🌹

@charp2786

15 күн бұрын

💜💜💜💜

@ajwriter5699

13 күн бұрын

Same

I want to be a foster parent. I would love any child with all my heart.

😢❤ I WANT TO JUST GIVE HER A HUG😢SO BAD😢😔😢

Hearing her awful experience in the foster care system is one of the reasons why I wanted to become a foster parent. To show children all foster parents and (adults)are not evil. God bless you for overcoming your pass. Blessings to you!

I have horrendous experiences with the "foster care" system as well. All I was to them was a check. Dealt with the x'ual misconduct as well by grown ass men. I absolutely detest how the system has absolutely no regard for the safety or wellbeing for the kids they are supposed care for. Absolutely sickening.

@UnfilteredAmerica

16 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry

@charp2786

15 күн бұрын

💜💜💜💜

Children aren't the aggressors 😢poor babies...😢❤GODS GOT YOU THOUGH ❤

There are some people like me in this world who feel a lot for you. ❤️

Also want to add that you are a warrior and the fact that you did not turn out bad and you do right with your kids is the fruit of your spirit. Much love

This is so sad I couldn't imagine a child living in horror like this. I pray for your healing sista. Peace and luv be with you❤❤😢

This hurts me so much. Such a beautiful woman. You deserved so much more. Life caused you to suffer and it shaped your reality. God still kept you alive and now you are here and God loves you and we love you!! We are cheering you on!! You’re a great mother!! Please, thank you for sharing your story and your strength. We are praying for you.

In so sorry, what's wrong with our CPS! There needs to be arrest for CPS to be held accountable! And the perpetrators

I’m sorry this happen to you😢 Those were some sick individuals. Hurt people hurt others. Thank you for sharing your story. You’re helping so many others🙏🏽

This story says so much about the dysfunctionality of family, and the complete disregard for keeping children safe. I really am shocked by this poor woman's experiences. The system needs to change!!

I'd write ✍🏿 to cope with the abuse from my narc mom too. She didn't like it either. Probably scared I'd expose her. 😅 Write on!!!!

@charp2786

15 күн бұрын

💜💜💜💜

I'm here to withness these stories and hold space. The trauma is real that so many have experienced. I wish you well Sophia.

Omg I just wanna hug her😢❤

IM SO SORRY YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH THIS YOUR A STRONG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN❤🫶🏿

So many Black women, I've met/known, including my mother who died from gastro-intestinal carcinoma (stomache cancer) at the age of 57, have had harsh introductions to adult sexuality via sexual abuse/rape at tender ages of vulnerability; emotionally trumatic maturity, as well as needing/wanting to be loved. 😢😎😭 It really hurts to being Black/African-American in the US of A. It's a joy to hear this young lady finally found direction/guidance from the counselor who helped her come to terms with her past abuse, it's so good to hear of her 5 childrens successes.

Such a sad story 🥺. Some parts reminds me of the book “ A child called It” . I’m so sorry this happened to you beautiful ❤

@charp2786

15 күн бұрын

Yessssss😢 I read that book years ago 😭😭

@abou8963

11 күн бұрын

Was that a real mom or adopted mom?

@pausedforcyberbullying_

10 күн бұрын

Yeah, people treated her like she was garbage wonder sometimes like all they pay in their afterlife I wish I knew.

@charp2786

10 күн бұрын

@@abou8963 She was his biological mother.

I am so very sorry that you endured such abhorrent and disgusting treatment throughout your childhood. As someone who cannot have children but has longed for them my entire life, I cannot imagine treating a beautiful child like this! It’s heartbreaking! Children are the most precious thing in the world. There is a special place in the hottest corner of hell for those who mistreat children. You are a brave, lovely young woman and I hope you know how amazing you are. Sending you light and love 💕

The system needs todo BETTER 🗣️🗣️

I’m so sorry for what you went through! You are an extremely strong lady! You’re a beautiful, intelligent, loving and caring woman! May God Bless you and your family!❤

The first 9 mins was insane!!!! 😢

A horrific story, why are some people so cruel and evil ? It’s very sad 😢

I am so sorry to hear, the turmoil you had to deal with as a young child. This saddens me. Hearing this from your own words…..this should NEVER happen to any child !

Brave of you to get through this without being bitter or broken, wish you luck.

The strength to endure this is like wow, The fact that she speaks well! she’s not on drugs .. You are suppose to be here you are wonderfully made!

Not even four minutes in and my heart is BROKEN. This poor, sweet woman. 💔

I pray she sued everyone...we love you ❤

I’m so sorry you went through this. You really are beautiful and articulate. Don’t forget that. Congratulations on being a great Mom.

She is a gem. I wish I could hug her.

Young queen GOD has loved you and he still do you have to look for him ,he's always been there you woke up Amen. Blessings 🙌🏾 to you young queen you are blessed your kids love you

@herelieskittythomas3726

24 күн бұрын

Where WAS he?

@abou8963

11 күн бұрын

HE was watching. He gave us free will to choose how we will act. He holds the Final Judgement.

We have our judgement at our death, these people have blood on their hands, cruelty

I’m so sorry you went through all this abuse, you never deserved that you looked like such a sweet little girl ❤️ I wish I could give you a hug

There are some evil people in this world. I hate that she had to endure such horrible abuse as a child

Thank you for the good foster parents out there. I know a few who love their foster kids.

I want to hug you so bad. I’m so sorry what happened to you. You are beautiful. Don’t ever forget.

VERY POWERFUL TESTIMONY FROM THIS WOMAN. SO INSPIRING AND VICTORIOUS. GOD BLESS HER AND HER FAMILY

It is so disappointing that other adults who witness the childs abuse won't intervene, especially when there are multiple adults around 😢 husband, foster moms friend, in this case 😐 Sending love and healing to this extraordinary woman 💕

I'm so sorry this happened to you, I'm praying for your healing.

This is crazy I'm from Grand Rapids MI I'm so sorry to hear this

I'm choosing to focus on what she says is helping her heal from all the trauma at the end of the video. You must make every effort to love yourself despite what others may think of you. Whenever a person mistreats someone it's a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves.

I’m so sorry for all the trauma you’ve endured. I had a rough start too and life been kicking since. God is yet good.

I'm so sorry :( You didn't deserve any of that. You were a beautiful, precious little girl who deserved all the love in the world. ❤

This bought me to tears. I just can’t believe how horrible people can be. And some of them church folks are the worst devils…Godbless you Young Lady🙏🏽🙏🏽💐🧡

God bless you. You got this !! I’m very sorry for what you went through. But you are teaching your children perseverance.

Sophia, you are amazing for breaking that cycle and realizing it. And having great kids, you're an awesome lady.

🫂 I want to just give you the biggest hug right now. I watch a LOT of these stories & for whatever reason, this one hit harder to me. I am so incredibly sorry you had to go through what you did. I can tell you give the love you wish you had, to your children & that’s so incredibly beautiful to me. YOU* are breaking the cycle, no one else but… * Y O U * mama!! You’re raising your kids to be better & become more than you ever thought for yourself & for that? I applaud you 👏🏽 ♥️ standing ovation over here 🙌🏽 Praying that your next 30-40 years are more peaceful & much more forgiving than your last 40 years 🫶🏽 ✨💞 sending all my love to you & yours.

She was such a beautiful baby, how anyone can look at kids and want to hurt them…. Ffs. When you think you’re having a bad day this is the suffering other people have to deal with. Sending love to you darling. You didn’t deserve this. You are loved 😭💔

Your not alone mama I was in a similar situation and now I know I’m not alone now either!… thank you for sharing

@charp2786

15 күн бұрын

💜💜💜💜

My goodness. I wish you a whole lot of love and blessings in your new life. 😢❤

I h8 foster care!!! How were you the aggressor at 3!

I wish I was there to give you a 🫂 hug. 🙏

Congratulations on your Triumphant Testimony, your Published book "I'm Good" , and 5 beautiful children. Look at the blessings that have come out of your trials. May God continue to bless and keep you safe, and strong. Thank you for sharing your testimony with the world. (Keep rising and Healing )💕💗💓💞

Your story really hit a spot.....I'm so sorry you had a horrific childhood. Your stunning, your kids ate beautiful and I wish you a happy life forever

I'm so proud of you. You're such a beautiful young lady. You're a very strong woman and God never left you. Many blessings to you and much happiness to you always 😇💞🤗🙏🏽🌞🌷🦋

😢😢 Sweet beautiful little girl, I’m so sorry, and I’m giving you the biggest loving hug.

This just breaks my heart to hear of a child first being denied the love they deserve and then having to experience such horrendous abuse. It’s even more disheartening to know that sadly there are many children out there who are suffering right now.

I'm so sorry. Sent prayers and lots of love your way❤

I’m so sorry this happened to you… the negro experience is global biological or not… listening to your story is literally like someone telling my own… I’m sending you nothing but love and healing sweetheart(!) 🌞🌞🌞🙏🏿

Congratulations to you for speaking out! Very very sorry for what people did to you. Hope you will recover from all those atrocities. 🙏💖

♥️I'm so sorry you had to go through all that. Perhaps, you could look into EMDR with a traditional therapist. It helps. It helped me. I had it 30 years ago and I still haven't had my personal trauma "movie" play every time I get stressed out. BTW, replace the battery on your smoke alarm. Safety, first.😊

I’m so sorry you been through all this horrible things man I hate this for you

You are a beautiful woman and now you are going to thrive in life. Don't let others stupidity and evil acts define you.

You are a true survivor. I am so sorry for all you experienced. But….you are an amazing human! Keep on moving forward in your life journey. ❤

Heartbreaking 💔 truly wish I could have saved and loved you! You are so worthy🙏✝️❗️ You are so well spoken and articulate! Such a bright mind❣️

Thank you for sharing your heart breaking story ❤️ its amazing, that you survived all that. Just awful, cruel people one after another 😢 I was thinking you should write a book and then in the end you actually mentioned you have done it! 😊👍 God bless you and your family.

Wow, even the first therapist rejected her. I’m so sorry. I hope that there is some glimmer of hope ❤️

❤❤❤❤ you're loved!

Wow, I don't know what to say. Like me you've been through too much. I've grown stronger with time, and can see you've grown into a beautiful human. All the best for your future.

She doesn’t like to be touched but I just wanna give her the biggest hug.

Wow, the Lord has protected you, to be where you are today. He has NEVER left you and NEVER will. I feel love and kinship to you, I too have had it like you did. How you know this is you have Good Fruit and your kids are your fruit,

I truly am very sorry for all you went through in your life. I think you are very very well spoken and rose above so much trauma. You’re actually very inspiring.

Your special... Your needed.... The fact you came out being this amazing shows your and God strength

You are so smart. I’m sorry what you went through.

Thank you for sharing your life with us, who are strangers. I am so sorry this happened to you. You are so beautiful. I am not finished, and my heart aches. I hope you have justice.

Im sorry you had to go through this horrendous abuse. Thankfuly the foster system in the UK has got strict, my sister & BIL are foster parents & they LOVE thier job, they love & cherish each & every child that comes through thier door.

I’m so sorry. You were seriously abused, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual abuse. I’m glad you made it through. Thank you for sharing your story.

Lord send someone to help heal her..

I want you to know you are amazing! You are loved please keep going you are such an inspiration we need to know your story! You have made it out stay strong It’s ok how you feel any one would but we need you here your kids need you

This makes me sooo angry!!? 😡😠🤬 I was in foster homes as a child and I too was neglected and abused! I listen to true crime about children and it seems nothing has changed. It's unbelievable!!

@charp2786

15 күн бұрын

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This breaks my heart. No child should have to endure this sort of treatment. I'm so glad my daughter will grow up only knowing of love, safety and happiness. I hope this woman gets the help she needs to heal.

I am sending you love from Germany! You are special, your experience of pain has the potential to transform so many lives for the better. It should all never happened to you but as it has, it has made you such a special, beautiful soul! You are loved!

Bless this woman's heart and life, I've never heard of anyone so strong that held the light of love in their heart through all the evils she went through. Blessed Be ♡ to you and your family

Oh sweetheart I don't know you but I love you. You are a precious gift from God and I pray that God heals your heart.

😢 You’re NOT the evil one as they said. THEY are. YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL SO VERY BRAVE WOMAN. X

Just came to say, thank you for sharing your story. It's sadly the story of many children. I'm proud of you persevering and being a good mother to your children. All children deserve love and care and I'm sad you didn't get that as a child, but you deserve it.

Your mother sounds like she was severely mentally ill. So sorry that happened to you. Very sad.

Thank you for speaking out ❤ this happens far too often and needs to stop ! I'm glad you made it out alive. ❤