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A younger man introduced himself to me a couple of months ago. I asked him how he knew me, and he said from there, Tim Hortons. He's very handsome, very sweet, but he is still healing from an accident, and personal stuff. I heard him say he does not want to get involved in a relationship, so, we are just friends which is fine with me. Any time we see each other, we have a nice chat, then, I get a nice hug from him.

Yes that’s the way I feel about dating online. I rather meet someone in person like the olden days!🤗❤️

@lynnhigley8787

3 ай бұрын

Exactly the way it happened for me. I'm 63. My husband passed away 2 years ago and the man I met bought a vehicle that I was selling. That is how we met 8 months ago.

@lynnhigley8787

3 ай бұрын

Neither of us was looking to meet someone really. So you never know when it could happen.

@TeaRose9

3 ай бұрын

Same.

@TeaRose9

3 ай бұрын

Love what you’re saying that the dating experience today does allow us to have insight into ourselves and realize what we truly want in an relationship, rather than jumping in mindlessly as our parents’ generation mostly did.

@elaussies

3 ай бұрын

Yes, people have become complacent because online is easy & addictive. I also think it is difficult to vet opportunistic people and psychopaths

I’ve been single 6 years. Working hard with a psychologist and would love a healthy loving relationship. I have periodically tried online but it’s triggering, traumatic and discouraging. The first dates I have been on, was a no for me. Thank you for the wonderful tips Johnathan 🌷 I’ll work on being hopeful, open and positive… keep working on myself. 🌸

My ex was always competing with me, and unwilling to accept me for who I was. He tried to make me feel less than, even though I was more driven and accomplished than him. So yes, he used gaslighting, too. He became quite toxic, and angry when he couldn't have the upper hand.

@elaussies

3 ай бұрын

I also found this to be true with the man I met. What type of man competes with his sweetheart 🧐 ? I would have to say we are living in a psychologically damaged society

I hate being lectured as an adult myself and I totally agree with you.

Julianne, you don’t have to worry about being less than polite to a guy who is just after sex. Screw curiosity if you’re feeling a lack or f respect. Move on girl, there’s better out there

@julieanne25

3 ай бұрын

😂❤ appreciate this!! Ty

@Bb-k4gd

3 ай бұрын

Exactly my thoughts, you did good Julieanne.

The powerful bond of heart/love is worth the wait! I am grateful you understand and respect this bond! ❤

@loiswall5601

3 ай бұрын

Yes you connect with your heart, soul, feelings, and you never have to question it! You are always there for one another!❤️🤗🙏💁‍♀️

I thought this was one of your best videos - totally in the flow. Julieanne also addressed a relatable issue. It is off-putting when men ask nothing about you or don't try to know you but yet want something from you in return. I understand her concerns, but maybe they don't realize they're doing this and we should bring it to their attention. 🤔

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Love this! Totally agree with the habits discussed!

"What am I doing that's makes you think this is ok?" He says about the knuckle dragging Neanderthal trying to kiss poor Julie. LOL. How did she keep a straight face about this? I bust a gut every time come on this channel. Jonathon in rare form tonight.

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

What?

@livinglargecoachingcounseling

3 ай бұрын

@@JonathonAslay The Hot Seat interview tonight. You're very entertaining. Do stand up.

I'd love a video dedicated to first date tips 🙏

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Will do

Right on Johnathan ❤

Thanks for the advice and encouragement. Working on that list now! 😅

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

You are very welcome... if you'd like to hear about my coaching, click here Www.jonathonaslay.com/coaching

Golden advice!!! Saving this for future reference. Thank you for the continued awesome advice, Jonathon. Sticking to our dealbreakers and setting healthy boundaries, yes! ✨✨✨ Holding onto hope. ✨✨✨

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Awe... thank you 😊

Yes I had relationships before I started dating my husband when I was 24 and lasted we lasted til death due us part.😔🙏❤️Got married and have 3 kids.❤❤❤

Awesome Jonathan!!!!!

Thanks Jonathan for sharing this video👍❤

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

My pleasure!

Extremely valuable content!!! Thank you so much, Jonathon🥰😇🙏

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@corichang

3 ай бұрын

@@JonathonAslay Heck ya!!!! You rock, Bro!!!

Jonathan..you are amazing!I really appreciate all you say and I really like the humer that you also bring to all topics. I enjoy watching your videos. You bring light to all who need your words...thank you 😊

Jonathon Aslay, You're the best! I just had to subscribe!

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Awe... thanks ☺️

@Bb-k4gd

3 ай бұрын

He has a men’s channel …

This is so valuable ❤😊

Jonathon! " What am I doing to make you think this is ok?" Great question! " Am I giving you the 'come F**k me' eyes...?" Hilarious 🤣🤣

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Lol 😆

Jonathon I wish I'd known you years ago ...oh the lessons I could've learnt, the heartache I could've avoided... But I'm thankful I know you now, well that i can listen to you anyway. Finally I have the power to stay true to myself, and agree mostly with what you say and how you believe... I truly hope( yes I believe in the adage of 'hope' like you do) Shawshank redemption makes me cry at the end when he talks of hope 😊, I digress. I truly hope that I'll get to meet you someday, to smile, say thank you and give you a hug... 🙏💕

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Me too... I always cry at that scene 😢

P.S. Love the book recommendations. Thank you Jonathan. Bought I Hear You audiobook. E.I. is next. Love that Sorensen is poignant & succinct. Love the E.I. audio sample. If you naturally value integrity & are empathic, it's just tweaking.

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Hope you enjoy it!

Thank you! 😊

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

Great blog

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it

Hey I’m 61 and have 40 some years hitting on me!💁‍♀️❤️🤗

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

How does that feel?

@lindam4006

3 ай бұрын

I have the same experience with Younger men. They can be appealing as friends but will usually back off seeking anything more when I let them know they're too young for me. As kindly and subtly as possible. Its not about the physical. Younger men grew up in different time periods with different music, different aspects of humanity's evolution. They do not appeal to me as potential life partners. I want the common experience & perspective. And there is a wisdom factor. There are cycles of life. No matter how deep you are. You develop over time. LOVE this video. You are rocking this one Jonathan. Thank you.🌻

@noraknudsen6104

3 ай бұрын

Totally on point, Linda! The same happens to me.

Wow over 5000 views Jonathon🎉🎉🎉🎉

Great hot seat Julieanne!

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Agreed 👍🏼

My past guy came on very strong and then breadcrumbed

So special❤❤

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

🙏

I so relate to and respect your decision to NOT date 🙏🏻😌

I TRUELY WANT TO SAY, THANKS.😂

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

I knew the man I wanted to marry since I was a girl he was 4 years older than me. We both had other opportunities and I regret losing him

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

🙏

Depends on what that man wants....😅😂

FYI: I fill ick if the man asks if he can kiss me. I would prefer to gently lean out if I don’t have the desire to reciprocate.

Sovereignty but not attracts Narcissist🙏

What are the three things? Pleasss

This video was fire 🔥 Thanks Johnathan🤍

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

WOW, thanks 😊

People put a lot of emphasis on having a relationship with oneself. While it's true that not everyone needs to be in a relationship with another person in order to be healthy and whole, navel-gazing is NOT healthy and NOT spiritual. Obsession with "self" will be one's downfall, and it is the very reason why so many divorces are even happening. People are getting more and more SELFish. If someone claims to be "spritual," they should read Matthew 7. 😮Many, many people will hear the most horrifying words ever spoken from Christ: "I never knew you." What good is a woman who gains the whole world but loses her soul? Ladies... look up. Stop looking for a MAN to give your life meaning. Not possible.

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

I don't believe in obsessing with oneself...

@Sunlightsam24

3 ай бұрын

@@JonathonAslay 😳

If your''e ever in Kingston, Ontario, would you mind if I hugged you Johnathon?

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

I really only dated two men, and ended up marrying both.

Yeah so true you both have to grow with each other in a relationship and want that with that every day. It’s a 2 way relationship.❤️

48:24 👏👏❤️❤️‼️

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

I don’t like online dating. As Dr Tatkin said most people are @ss 🕳️. How about having a form with a background check, health & financials. 🤣. This may need to be after the first or second date. Jonathon please be sitting in the back seat with your shot gun, LOL . There are so many opportunists lurking 👀. On the beer question. I just dated one and the Peter Pan Syndrome fit him perfectly. He was more concerned with impressing his drinking “groups” than putting his interests in a relationship. Drop him right away. Just be yourself and you attract the person who meshes with you. I am done with the opportunists & Peter Pans. It would be great if a man with ethics shows up on the path of life.

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Call that man in...

@elaussies

3 ай бұрын

💗

My BFF is single now. How long should I give him to mourn his spouse?

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

All the time he needs...

@donnapitts-abas2921

3 ай бұрын

@JonathonAslay thank you! I spoke briefly with him, and he appeared emotionally sad 😔. Respectfully.

Awe Jonathan I don't think your over Marie yet ( so you're just not ready for a romantic relationship)..just my thoughts. ❤

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

If the right person shows up, I am ready...

Juicy delicious healthy happy relationship I WANT IT!!!!!

How do I forgive myself for ignoring red flags? For almost 5 yrs. I feel so ashamed……

@brendahall5658

3 ай бұрын

Don't give up. You will find a good tender love And never feel shame. You have learned a valuable lesson. Bless you.

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

That must be hard

@daynaking3647

3 ай бұрын

@@brendahall5658 Just enjoying being alone right now. I was ready to move on. I just cant get over my abilility to make excuses for someone. I lost a significant time of my life but I have learned a lot

@daynaking3647

3 ай бұрын

@@JonathonAslay is that supposed to be profound?

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

@@daynaking3647 I simply wanted to acknowledge that feeling ashamed must be hard. As far as answering your question about forgiveness, it takes inner work to heal those parts of you that feel ashamed.

Jonathon that you ignored my description of my trauma is not encouraging. Most men will do this as they don’t know how to answer or want to avoid this topic. I understand this but it is not helpful. There are good men out there certainly, not all men are good guys. This does not give me a very good impression. Maybe I should think of a better way to illustrate this

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

What description?

@MargaretCampbell583

3 ай бұрын

@@JonathonAslay I did put the description down not so long ago and now I’m trying to find it. Silly me I can’t find it now. Geez I don’t know where I put it. Sometimes I do dumb things

This is the most valuable content and the best of all your KZreads. All of them so far are really good. In fact I do share some from your Channel with my single friend. We are both in our early sixties, single and have found ourselves struggling to find that mutual attraction necessary to want to even move to date one. Yikes! Hopefully I can shift from my jaded attitude by listening to more of your KZreads. ❤

Loving parents don’t traumatize their children. Come on, Jonathan. I’ve been listening to you for years but you’re just going overboard here.

@streaming5332

3 ай бұрын

If people keep telling you your parents were loving when they weren't, that can traumatise you.

@JonathonAslay

3 ай бұрын

Even loving parents can yell or say no, which can be traumatic to a child.

@estherdistefano6997

3 ай бұрын

You can traumatize your child without you even knowing