I'd tell him I like him, if the feelings not mutual I see the rejection as God's protection, simple...x

@lindalewis1998

3 жыл бұрын

Yes so do I. They are not the one for you. Let them go.

@vkng_drag0n982

2 жыл бұрын

Amen sister

@debracross7920

2 жыл бұрын

@@vkng_drag0n982 f

@marjet2228

Жыл бұрын

Well, it takes time to know if you really want him, and notjust like him. Until that day you will likely hide your feelings to protect yourself. Then there is the possibility he is not free but will play around. So it takes time to find that out. So it’s a phase of going ahead and then pulling back.

@Miko-yw5xt

Жыл бұрын

its better out than in. a guy I liked tried to kiss me but it was an awkward lunge that went nowhere so I flew embarrassed but I later admitted I liked him, asked him out but it turned out he wasn't interested in dating or a relationship. at least I found out quick we were on different pages

Dated man for 6 months, best vacation for 2 weeks Paris, 13 hr phone calls, best sex, madly in love, told him first, I loved him . Day before the holidays and my bday, he called to tell he had to cancel bc older adult sister had esophageal stage four cancer he had to take care of indefinitely….he ended relationship. That was 4 years ago, and I will never put my cards on the table again. I’m a divorcee in mid fifties, and he was 60. Still gutted over this, no closure, no answers, can’t even find out anything about him on google. He was an inauthentic snake. Probably married. That’s why we have to protect ourselves. The predators are alive and well, and they’re on the hunt.

@SEVENTHREEANDNINE

Жыл бұрын

True.

@PATH918

3 ай бұрын

He just a corvet narcissist

When someone pretends not to be interested. It makes me lose interest in that person.

@viktoriyah4915

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. I have learned that most successful way to go is just be yourself, no games, no pretending and no drama.

Play it cool, take your time. There is no rush to mentally invest until you really get to know him. I can’t stand dating. Why can’t we all just grow the f up and act like adults.

Be genuine You can never say they wrong thing to the right person.

@user-yo3rw5eu2n

9 ай бұрын

This is true. But I feel like the right person won't see me😢 because of a problem I need help overcoming. I hope..one day.

@michigan1085

8 ай бұрын

@@user-yo3rw5eu2n not sure what the problem is or if this relates, but if it’s possible, put the problem right there front and center and fess up that you have it and you’re trying to overcome it. It takes the “elephant out of the room” and allows both of you to focus on other things. A lot of pple try to hide their problem, which is fine if it’s not noticeable, but when it is, it’s better to just get it out of the way instead of having this “thing” that nobody wants to talk about but is noticeable. (Sorry if I’m way off base)

Don’t be afraid to show interest! The right man will reciprocate!! Throw out the fear of rejection & just go for it!!!

@mariatineo4614

Жыл бұрын

Like Nike says; "Just do it.'

@mmommo10

Жыл бұрын

nice

@fezziwig99

Жыл бұрын

You're tight! Just don't do it too soon....easy does it... a little at a time, kind of like how water is heated slow on a stove. Keep the temperature knob around 4, then, 5, then 6, let it rise in stages...Just don't go super nova on the guy and scare him away. Men love it that way. They need validation, too.

@Healthnut1976

7 ай бұрын

I have fear of rejection too

@Mikkibriteside

7 ай бұрын

What do you say when you go on a date but don't really like the person? This is one of my fears when dating. Odds are that you will meet people not right for you before you meet the right compatible person. I feel like I don't know what to say.

What dating triggers in me is not that I’m not “good enough”... it triggers the realization that high quality men in my age group are very hard to find.

@JonathonAslay

3 жыл бұрын

Sending a hug 🤗

@1cor13Godislov

3 жыл бұрын

i see what i look for

Oh so when a guy plays cool it looks cool and imysterious... but when a woman plays cool... she is playing games. Ladies when a confident strong man likes you you will know it!

@janetferguson1864

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Edward let me know how he felt about me after a few months of dating. We are in a full on relationship. Anything else would have bored me. We have more than a connection.

I am so sick of all these games... And people playing them 🤕 Stand in your fuck!ng truth! That's all I want...😏

@jonathanjobe1135

3 жыл бұрын

I agree and I sadly think the games will get worse. I blame bad people and laws that cause hate, anger and divisiveness between people. I don't know what to do.

I am a 65 year old woman.I've been "friends with benefits" for 3 1/2 years.I told my friend that I am in love with him but got no responce.I texted him last Friday and told him since he has no feelings for me that I am done.He called me Sunday,talked for over an hour,but never mentine the text.All of my friends and family days he loves me too.I just don't believe it.If after all of this time he has never told me that he loves me.I wasted all of that time trying to get him to love me.I'm too damn old to Play games.

@annecavanaugh3585

3 жыл бұрын

I recently walked away from a similar situation... He doesn't care phased. I made the right decision

I decided to tell this man I liked him and BELIEVE me we went from him calling me once a month (maybe) to at least 5 times a week

Gratitude don’t work with bad guys or narcissistic

I tend to hold back until I “feel” some effort or energy toward me from the man I’m attracted to. That effort can be very subtle, I don’t need a grand gesture, but I need to see something before I show that I’m interested.

@robynalvin6319

3 жыл бұрын

What you’re saying makes sense.

@jackdeniston59

3 жыл бұрын

......and you are single.

@pamelabaker3112

3 жыл бұрын

I agree that it's best to hold back from investing time, caring and energy when the man isn't indicating much interest. It's exhausting sometimes.

@georginafronda496

3 жыл бұрын

Agree . Recently mis read signals about going for a coffee to learn more about a guy and he said he was not ready. It’s coffee and a chat not to have your kids. Rejection is gods protection. Thanks lord!

@Amy-tk3wv

2 жыл бұрын

He could be doing the same thing = lose lose not win win

I told a guy who at first was attracted to me, that I started liking him more than a friend. He told me he wasn't looking for a relationship. I respected his honesty. Now, our texts are less and when we see eachother, I sense he is trying to avoid me. He is also young, 32, when I am 46. The thing is I would like to still be friends..but, hey, all that matters to me is that I told him, and I don't feel rejected at all. Life still needs to move on and continue being happy with yourself😊. Btw, I enjoy your videos. Thank you for being transparent with having a sense of humor🙂. Praying for your continous success and blessings 🙏

If most men were conversational like you .. WOW..what a big successful difference relationships would be! I sure wish there had been a father or big brother like you in my life..

11.54 When you're vulnerable,transparent, and authentic if you're speaking from the heart you can't backfire with the right guy..so true

We're fucked up for one thing, all the Disney fairy tales that were burned in our brains at a very young age 😥🙂

@DebraFortMyers

5 ай бұрын

Funny and True!

@DorothyPrater

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for helping me to understand my late husband!!👍

People play it cool because they have fear of rejection....bc it's easier to not try than take a risk and fail

I had 3rd grade teacher, who stole my library books, lie in front of my parents at a parent/teacher conference: Principal got involved, and found the library books in teachers draw...!!

I love you Jonathan, specially when you are beating the hell out of us women in our stupid ways. 😂 I am learning a lot from you. I love it when you get so passionate with the topics you are trying to impart. You are saving a lot of women from a heart ache. Keep up the good work! Thank you for all that you do. God bless🙏❤️🤗

@JonathonAslay

Жыл бұрын

WOW, thank you. May I ask, what inspired you to follow my channel?

@01dees

Жыл бұрын

@@JonathonAslay … I, myself is looking for an answer on how to connect effectively with a potential date/partner. I am 66 years old and has been trying to find someone that I could grow old with. In short to find my last love. I have been divorced now for 7 years from a 32 years of marriage due to infidelity and I find it hard to trust again. Men’s behavior in the dating world nowadays does not help either with probably no fault of their own as they are wounded as well. I find your concept of dating very real. And I am inspired in how you tried to protect women from heartache by navigating the dating world by knowing your goals, setting boundaries from the get go, and communicating effectively with your potential dates and not to forget to heal yourself from your trauma. All of these I learned from YOU! Thank you very much!!! … i wish I could afford your one on one coaching. God bless you Jonathan! Keep up the good work! 🙏🤗❤️

I am so sorry you had a teacher like that. She obviously hated herself, and her life, but it is no excuse for her to have done that to you.

Hi Jonathan, my husband died November 2018 From Alzheimer’s. I have found dating extremely difficult. I recently purchased your book “what the heck is self-love anyways”. I have found it very helpful. When he died I didn’t even know who my identity was anymore. I had been a daughter, wife, mother, divorced twice, remarried, for 28 years to a man that was abusive and then had Alzheimer’s. I became a caregiver and then he’s gone. Who am I? What am I to do with the rest of my life? So I start date. Big mistake? Or was it? I have learned a lot. Jonathan thank you so much for your candor, your honesty. I’m just sitting here crying listening to this tonight. Because I have been dating people that are exactly what you were talking about. And then recognized that I really needed to work on myself. To attract the right person. I have a bad habit of attracting the wrong man. I really want it to stop. In the process I know I have also pushed away some good men along this journey. Now recognizing that it probably wasn’t them it was me whatever it is going on inside of me.. I live in Michigan I love the water thank God for the lakes. I go there and I read your book on my cell phone. Self discovery taking my time to know all the trauma that has gone on in my life from sexual abuse as a child to the physical emotional abuse from marriages. That had led me to where I am right now. My birthday is on Monday I’m going to be 62 years old and thanks to you I don’t feel so lost anymore. I know that there is hope for so many of us. And there is so much pain not just within myself but with many of the men that I have dated. From their own traumas. I know that it is a matter of time I will get through this. Thank you again for your honesty when it comes to all of this. I always knew the game playing was a bunch of shit. I’ve added you to my prayers that you will continue to receive the insight that we all need at this time in our lives. This is also why I purchased the book 8 dates. Thank you.

@michigan1085

8 ай бұрын

I had to comment cuz I’m from Michigan too (but moved away a few years ago). I miss the beauty of Michigan! I hope your journey of working on yourself is going well. Your post resonated with me. I too have been trying to navigate dating after being in an abusive marriage for 23 yrs, now in my mid 50’s and I realized that I also attract (or maybe am attracted to?) the wrong kinds of men. I think I’ve become somewhat avoidant myself because of trying to protect myself. I hope your healing is going well. Sending a big Michigan hug your way!

@Carr2409

8 ай бұрын

@@michigan1085 hi there thank you for your kind words. It has been two years that I have been working on myself and it is going wonderfully. Now being the 64 year old. I can say that I do love myself. I have been taking good care of myself. And, I am no longer avoiding relationships. And have recently gotten out of the anxious mode. It’s amazing the different qualities that we acquire from life. That we have to overcome. I continue to work on myself on a daily basis. I don’t use the dating apps. I tried that once, and realized it was not for me. At this point, I have put out my intentions, and I know that as I am becoming the person I want to be and I will attract the right situation into my life. I hope that things are going well for you. And today it is snowing in Michigan. But I am getting my home ready as I plan on moving out of state. Where am I going? That is still the question to be answered. But I know the doors of opportunity will open up for me and I know that I am being directed and I am listening. Hugs to you.

@jeanlives6032

6 ай бұрын

You are worthy and intelligent... don't lean in too soon to a man lean back until u see his actions for a few months, unless he shows his stupid jerk moves within 1st meeting..

@Carr2409

6 ай бұрын

@@jeanlives6032 hi, thank you. I am not the same person i was two years ago. I have grown quite a bit done a lot of changing. It’s amazing when you do a lot of work on yourself what can happen. I love who I am I set boundaries my fear is gone. I don’t mind being alone. And at the same time I am looking forward to a very healthy relationship. Thank you. I hope all is well with you.

Congrats on hitting 50000 subscribers.. you deserve it Jonathon 🎉🎊🎉👏👏👏 I'm a 73 yr young woman that follows you and find you fascinating. Your presentations are so sensible and honest. The kind of advice I like and agree with... I'm trying to slowly reel in an ex (circumstantial) of mine, he is 60 yrs young. We dated in the late 80s. We reconnected 16 months ago. I also believe in the lean-in philosophy. I'm open and honest and totally transparent, old school. Our chemistry is astounding. I hope things come to fruition for us. We're in a long distance relationship currently. I am willing to move. Just waiting for things to mellow out on his side after Covid knocked him and his business sideways. Keep on keeping on and teaching us the basic rules of successful relationships and thank you.👌

You hit the nail on the head...rejection....he's afraid of it and so am I....so,what now??????

@rare.3540

Жыл бұрын

Agreed.

A lady dated a guy for 2 years. So a sexual relationship might have lasted for more than 1 year. The man said he wasn’t in love with the woman after dating 2 years. So what should that woman do? If I were that woman, I would move on. Don’t beg for love. What The Heck Is Self Love!

Fear of regret > Fear of rejection

Yes Im seeking for a committed relationship. Thank you for your counseling Ive leant a lot.Never play cool while the guy is standing standing in front me.The thing is im scared of rejection.

I think the rules and the feminine/masculine rhetoric have indeed f-d me up. I'm applying the things I'm learning from you and I am already seeing results. Years ago I didn't resonate with you cuz I wasn't there yet emotionally and mentally, but now I think you are a gem of a teacher. Thank you for going against the grain!

Hi there Jonathon, from Cairns, Australia. I'm in this predicament, I don't want to be reserved or play it cool. I need to talk to this guy, because I am being reserved to the point of making sure I don't touch him, when I see him. I do love this guy, he's a good one, and he is in my life for the long haul. Platinum platonic😂

@JonathonAslay

11 ай бұрын

How can I help you?

Thank you so much for the positive recognition that most men ( and most women) are good. It’s sad that this is not widely understood.

Thank you for sharing what the RIGHT man does. I took notes and its on my desktop.

I completely believe that when a woman has sex, it completely clouds her judgment... She starts making excuses for his bad behavior, hence protecting her fantasy.

I was asking God for help in a situation I am experiencing in my life - this was a gift from heaven Jonathon - thank you!!!!!♥️♥️♥️🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏

Great rant! I’m authentic and if he doesn’t accept me NEXT!

I had trauma as a child. Never experienced fathers love. Now am attached style. Love your show.

I already posted about this, but I said the words "You're cool, I like you." But I was rejected and rebuffed and told they were only interested in my sexuality. (It's legion, and I had no idea how strong it was until recently.) But I survive !! And you can too. Now, the guy is just a speck in my rearview mirror.

@georginafronda496

3 жыл бұрын

Said those words too to a guy and was rejected and initially shocked but am good and his loss!! Keep going sister with your authentic and honest self. 👍👍

Really love your arguments about the concept of chasing and leaning back. Its excellent!!! And i love your passion … who cares if you yell/scream and spit while you talk .. that’s who you are and thats your brand. I love your work and you as a person! You are very authentic!

I'M 81 AND FOLLOW YOU!!! YOU ARE OUTSTANDING!

I’m traumatized by what that teacher did to you, and I’m an adult already. CANT even imagine. Even if it would have been true that was not the way to handle that.

Ohmygosh! Radical honesty is exactly what I want! Being honest with guys has definitely weeded out the ones that are not for me

@catherinearrington6167

3 жыл бұрын

Which end up being all of them.

@lyndsieannette957

2 жыл бұрын

@@catherinearrington6167 lol ikr

@Luza_.

2 жыл бұрын

@@catherinearrington6167 🤣🤣🤣

I’m SO glad I found you ! I’m 67 and have hit brick wall after brick wall in my relationships. You have completely changed my POV on developing partnerships You’re right….. if they’re going to run, let ‘em do it early on. Love ya❤ I never end up with a question bc you always answer them in your videos! 🎉

11:48. Jonathan, “backfire” doesn’t mean the man responds negatively during the conversation. It means he starts playing games, taking you for granted because he gets an inflated ego and thinks he can walk all over you.

Jonathon, you are so refreshing. Love ur open-mindedness. Treat people like people, I say.

Jonathan I asked your question and to a guy I liked and he rejected me. I move on and his loss !

Exactly! Just because a man isn’t a planner doesn’t mean he doesn’t care!! Take the lead where needed in those situations!!!

@angelwolfesquad3042

Жыл бұрын

So when he has me take the role of getting ahold of him to hang out this is normal? It's such a weird thing to me but he's Def scared of getting rejected and been through alot of damaging things in his life.

Telling it like it is especially acknowledging your own vulnerabilities

He was broken and bitter and he held it in well...from being a young father at 18, to a having a stepfather who ignored him...he was brilliant and had a very high IQ...he was gifted at getting in your psyche...the bad part for me was I thought I could fix him because I fixed me...little did I know broken folks have to do the work before you can assist them...I learned that I love myself and that at a senior age I still love and want to be love and now I know I will be loved again

After a divorce, dating, & canceling 2 engagements, I’ve been taking a hiatus over two-year hiatus to work through my issues & own my mistakes - letting go of the pain, soul searching, loving myself & being grateful for life & choosing JOY!! 🥰 thank you for all you do!

@avisnagorzanski4326

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry i repeated myself it’s early here in PA!! Lol

@meeperbird

3 жыл бұрын

@@avisnagorzanski4326 yup, you’re probably a Gemini rising.

@avisnagorzanski4326

3 жыл бұрын

@@meeperbird thank you I know it must be a compliment I’m sorry I don’t know anything about Astrology! All I know is I was born in August so I’m a Virgo! 😂

@avisnagorzanski4326

3 жыл бұрын

@@meeperbird looked up the meaning ..thanks so much! 🥰

Start the day giving yourself a hi five on the morning every day

my wicked teacher in grade 1 had a really big pointed big noise just like the witch on the wizard of oz. She pointed her finger at me and her fricken nose in my face. What the hell lol lol i have to laugh now but my goodness!! She failed me... what the hell the reason she told my dad was that Anna is too shy. She intimidated me and harassed me all year round and then failed me. But i was moved far away to a way better school. The good Lord answered my prayers i promised!!!!!

Hi Jonathon, I'm new here, watching with interest as an 80+ year-old! Do you think that the very idea of a "date" puts immediate pressure on both sides? Remove that notion and just have fun as friends with NO expectations for later seems to me to be a better way of getting to know someone. Or maybe I'm just old...!

@shantimindproductions5585

Жыл бұрын

I'd agree with you! I think you are onto something.

OMG he so right. The character of our interaction is so superficial until something or someone makes it personal

one time we were making daffodils i was sooo happy i absolutely loved the look of the daffodils my teacher with the big nose who failed me knew i was happy and really thrilled to make them she came in my group and said no Anna you have to stop you dont know what your doing stop now!!!!! i was getting ahead and almost finished my flower when she told me to stop and look at everyone else as they worked on their daffodil it was horrible i was just about done mine was fast and quick and almost had mine complete when the looser teacher tells me to stop. She was so angry with me that she kept me in for lunch looking at an unfinished daffodil. i could not eat my lunch too. All the kids were done their daffodils and she put them up on the wall and were happy to play out side but not me i had to stay inside for the 45 min and no lunch looking at an unfinished daffodil the whole time and i could not finish it. It was wicked of her to do that to me i was only in grade 1 my goodness why did she hate me soooo much how could any teacher treat a little girl that way and think it was ok. We moved away to a way better school after my loving dad found out she failed me and it was truly a blessing. I was in a music band and all sports and our school plays were a big hit. I absolutely loved the new school i had high grades and many many friends. I thank God for listening to my prayers.

I read many “rules” books! Yet the most compatible, mutual connection, lots of fun & memorable times.. It wouldn’t of happened because I called him first! Not sure why I don’t do this more

Thanks for this. I dislike the push pull manipulation.

I’ve just recently discovered you, so I’m binge-watching to catch up. I’m not stalking you I promise. LOL. I will try to comment on each video. Your material is great, and I’m getting a lot out of it. Thank you.

Tension and mystery creates lust vulnerability creates closeness

Congrats on 50k! I’ve watched you grow followers over the last year and it is well deserved! You’ve helped me so much! Hugs!

Hurt people,hurt people!!!

This was one of your best video's..loved it! So honest, so informative..thank you! 💕

I love how FIRED UP YOU GET. 🦁🦁🦁🔥🔥🔥

@JonathonAslay

4 ай бұрын

Thanks

Congratulations to you John. You've earned it 👏👍🥰

Johnathan.. This is the first time listening to you & I had to subscribe 🙌 Your raw personality is awesome.. Congratulations on another follower

I did let a guy know that I liked him...I just dont think he was interested in me. Even though before we would flirt, cat and mouse type thing. Anyway, we still speak, we are neighbors, but made it clear I did not want any awkwardness between us ever. I think we are still friends. Continued respect I believe.

Congrats Jonathon on hitting 50K Subscribers!

@JonathonAslay

3 жыл бұрын

Awe...thanks

I’m gonna try that with the next guy I date (the “I think you’re cool, I like you. It would be fun to get to know you better”) because I usually date guys who play it cool, then I play it cool, then we both get triggered lol and build our walls even higher. At that point I usually bail even when I really like the guy (because I worry that he’s about to bail 🤦🏼‍♀️), but who knows what can happen if I lean in? Thanks Jonathon ❤️ Edited cuz I spelled your name wrong 😂😂

@GoddessGinaMichelle-fy4li

7 ай бұрын

This sounds like me as well. Being more conscious of the pattern and intensional with the words and actions may help. Let’s see if it works ! Best wishes to you!

@BetterTogether300

7 ай бұрын

wow u described it well

@michigan1085

7 ай бұрын

@@GoddessGinaMichelle-fy4li I like that... "being more conscious about the pattern." Best wishes to you too!

Love that you choose to do your Q&A afterwards. Thanks Jonathan.

Omg…..I love you ❤️ Thank YOU for being so authentic and real! So refreshing!!

It was a very long program and I stayed till the end. It was a great program. Learned a lot. Thank You,

I love listening to you, Jonathon! You are a true teacher!! Love you, friend!! Keep doing what you're doing!

This video was super helpful, and it also cracked me up. I'm a fan now.

Absolutely! I truly believe that we surly meet people for a reason. Yes, we are all "wounded" ..what we do, how we think is sometimes based on what we've been through, childhood beliefs, trauma..or life itself. Oh, definitely...how we've been brought up.. leaves a scar..thank you Jonathan, I can relate...💕...Wish i knew all this when I was younger... guess never too late to learn!

@1991windsor

8 ай бұрын

I had CPTSD after a narcissistic relationship, and it's one the worst things you can ever imagine going through. The scary part is that there are way more narcissists in the world than what people realize because most people that have it are never diagnosed with it because they don't feel they are the problem.... you are! I grew up in a small town in Ohio, and it is very scary to know how many of my friends have been in the same types of relationships with these monsters. It doesn't discriminate amongst the sexes or where you live either.😢

Watching Replay~ Congratulations on Subscribers...🎉 I love how real you are and get right to the point! Reminding us "No Beating Around the Bush with Communication, Being Vulnerable and Honest" ❤ I agree we are All Wounded in one way or another! Practice Compassion Always... I ordered The Hoffman Process Book! Can't wait to Learn more from that...📚

When I was 5 years old, my teacher pulled me up in front of the class and said I couldnt count in front of them..just because I wasnt moving the counting blocks I was using aside as I counted them. From that day on I hated math, and felt like I was stupid. Teachers can be cruel to young kids

Jonathon, this is so spot on!!!! Thank you👏👏👏

Your discussion on wounded men made a lot of sense . Although dating them is not easy , it can be worth it if they are willing to try and realize they are loved by someone who wants to invest and love them .

Hi Jonathan, I love your way of thinking. I'm also all for being honest from the start , talking from the heart and looking at it from a spiritual way. Thanks for all your good advice.

Listening to your videos you have no idea how much you have been helping me. I learn so much. Been learning how to handle situations differently. Congratulations on your 50,000 subscribers❤ I tell many friends about you!!!

@JonathonAslay

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad!

Jonathan Thanks for BEING A MAN THAT SPEAKS FROM THE HEART

Wow, i love the principles or the reasons of your advice in dating that we are all human and have anxiety about who we are and if we are likable bec most of us has trauma in life and we are afraid to be rejected again or fail again. I agree w/ u leaning back is playing games, its a power play. If we want to find a true relationship we have to be vulnerable and be truthful of our feelings. Yes, leaning back has its own place in dating but not to practice just for a guy or a woman to chase each other. Thanks for the clarity of these issues.

Sorry for your loss, DEEPEST SYMPATHY 🙏🙏🙏

Thank you, thank you, thank you! Oh my gosh, finally, the truth about being a Human being!

THANK YOU, JONATHON I LEARN SOMETHING IN THIS POD CAST.

Love your rants, x rated language....its the best parts about you!

Thank you J. For this one. Thank you for all you do but for this one- today- it really hit home for me!! I saved it and will listen to it again and again. Yes!! You were the one for me this morning! Bless you Sir!! Be well!! Carrie.

Congratulations Jonathon!!!

Congratulations, Jonathan for having over fifty thousand subscribers. 👍🙏❤️

Than you so much for this today. So many times we discount people without recognizing that people are wounded.

Congratulations Jonathon!

this is the best video you have made! everyone who want to be in love should listen to this this is a gem i had a childhood trauma too i had the whole class and the teacher laughed at my answer i gave out loads a result i have a fear of talking out louder answerOr talk out loud in a group of people

Thank you so much for this knowledge, Sir Jonathon. 😊👍

Oh my gosh, that teacher story! When I was in the 7th grade, the nun who taught the class had us list what we liked and what we didn't like about our fellow students. A popular, pretty girl in the class wrote that she didn't like me because I was "homely". The nun read her comment out loud to illustrate that this was not a nice thing to say. You can't make this stuff up. Always excellent information, Jonathon, thank you.

@gmoni2456

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. We all have nun scars. Some waaay more than others. The stuff we saw! And it wasn't only the nuns!

@taffyj531

3 жыл бұрын

@@gmoni2456 Oh the stories!

@gmoni2456

3 жыл бұрын

@@taffyj531 When I tell them now, people can't believe them except for my friends who were there, too! 🙄

@LaSorciereFeuillue

3 жыл бұрын

Nun scars... getting belted with a ruler over the knuckles as I played the piano badly- and was crying; because Mum wanted me to learn. I still can't listen to piano music.

@American_Grrl

8 ай бұрын

So I went to public school and my 5th grade teacher regularly bullied me. I was late with an assignment, and she grabbed my paper out of my hand, crumpled it up, and stuffed it into my jumper, between my jumper and my turtleneck. Another time she mocked me in front of my classmates again by asking me which was my right hand and I raised the wrong one. I am intelligent, but have right-left confusion, learning disability in math and probably mildly autistic. Then it was okay, today she would probably be fired if found out. 12:03

Congratulations on reaching your 50k target ❤it, let’s hope the 100k is around the corner. Enjoy your day/evening

WOW, I remember ,back in my college days, I asked a college friend out on dates twice in NY. I liked him and I gathered the courage to ask him out, and guess what,?! We both enjoyed,equally our dates out! In fact at the end of our second date he asked if he could kiss me and asked me out on a date!😊😊❤❤❤❤. It's worth the effort asking a guy out!!!

Thank you so much for this video I needed to hear this

Love you when you rant. you are very clear with your lessons.

@JonathonAslay

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate that!

Ghosting you've known personally for around 10 years it's intentional and no wounding can justify that.

@cheryladams7288

8 ай бұрын

there's one man in particular that I have loved for so long that did that to me twice! I know I'm foolish, but I just don't understand it. He spoke so positively, even talked about my meeting his family. Then all of a sudden zip, nothing. I was so angry with myself. But at least I told him off.😢

Wow ! Thank you for allowing yourself to be so vulnerable to be understood.

@JonathonAslay

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

wow...thank you, thank you, thank you. So happy I found your channel. Been in 3 long term relationships and never gave myself a chance to LOVE ME. 8 months ago, I ended an 8 yr relationship/engagement and while living together I learned so much about myself and I thank him for everything he taught me. Super excited and happily working on healing me❤

Maximum respect Jonathan 🙏