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Sometimes they just use you for an emotional boost.

Sometimes i think you are better off by yourself if it takes ALL that drama to attract them. There is more to life than men.

Sometimes men just need a little space because they start feeling like a caged animal so he pulls away. Let him if it’s love he’ll be back but do not pursue.

@krittikaghosh3548

24 күн бұрын

And that period should be of how many days?

I am so sad for all of the people who are yearning to be connected to someone else in love, but are afraid of failing at it or of being rejected. The way of the world has us so messed up💔💔💔

@avjam

6 күн бұрын

I agree. Social media made it even worse.

Going through a divorce now, after realizing my husband prefers to be in his feminine and won’t change. I have been through burnout twice due to being in my masculine energy too much

@TerraDactyl-hc9ff

6 күн бұрын

Girl, same. Thankfully he was just a boyfriend. He wants me to chase and cater to him. I snapped when I couldn’t even get him to buy me a sandwich without him wanting to look into my bank account. Told him to fucking leave after I paid my rent and bills. A friend let me borrow 20 bucks so I could buy food before I got paid and he asked me to buy him a sandwich even though he has money. He needs to hurry up and get the rest of his shit out before I throw it out.

Reason #1: he’s a player only out for the conquest. Avoid this kind of guy. Reason #2: 4:52 he noticed something that made him think you two weren’t compatible and didn’t have the maturity to discuss the issue with you Reason #3: 10:42 (occurs less often)he is having authentic loving feelings that he’s not used to because he’s never experienced it as strongly as he does with you (especially if he’s avoidant). If you can identify and talk about it, it can deepen the relationship. Or-if he’s used to playing the feminine role and suddenly the polarities are reversed, he may freak because he doesn’t know how to or doesn’t want to step into the masculine role, he may want to stay a little boy and be taken care of & live a life of pleasure. Run in the other direction. Give your man an opportunity to step up and be your hero. Ask for advice or come to him with a problem (ex: my car is making a noise). Masculine energy thrives in having meaning and purpose, in making you happy. Reason #5: 38:19 fear of losing independence or making the wrong choice

@krittikaghosh3548

24 күн бұрын

What's reason 4?

You know, I've decided to not try and figure men out or understand stuff like this. Let's face it, if a man is worth putting in this much effort for then he'll also be doing the research....which means he wouldn't be pulling away in the first place. So my most basic rule now is to not give anything away until I've established where the guy is as and what he wants. Most men I come across these days are unfortunately expecting fun up front and actually get angry when you don't play along. So silly. I'm also exhausted from analysing myself all the time. I'm a single mom and I have to look after stuff on my own. If that pushes men away then what on earth am i supposed to do. The right guy will see through all of that. It's really beyond exhausting x appreciate your content through but I'm so tired of all this. X

@coc0nutmilk494

Ай бұрын

I agree. At some point you do have to give it up to a higher power because we are doing everything we think we should do right, except just being ourselves. And I believe that you can simply just be yourself with the right person, warts and “needy behavior” and all🩷

@lisan8007

Ай бұрын

Agree. Me too. But if you like the guy, you start caring and researchig this stuff, trying to follow it anyways...

@joanmu1053

Ай бұрын

Me too

@Michele-ub2pk

15 күн бұрын

Agreed it's exhausting trying to figure this stuff out. It makes you analyze everything any future person does or says.

@ashleysnow7470

2 күн бұрын

Anything can become tiring.. it’s a sign you’re putting out to much effort.. education will help you make decisions without having a boatload of feelings. If you understand and know when to engage or pull away, then you have more control over how you feel and not turn into a crazybitch because you don’t know why, When you know why they acting a way,you can make sound decisions that don’t hurt yourself..

I need him. He's amazing. My kids aren't his biologically, but he loves them. So one day I could see he was worried that he wouldn't be able to fully enjoy the football game he really wanted to pay attention to, so I started leaving with the kids and made him some yummy snacks, and he said "where you going?" And I said "I want you to enjoy the football game so I'm taking kids to the park." He watched the game with his friend and texted me that he missed me. The kids and I came back before it was fully over and we all got to watch the pivotal moment in the game in overtime and we all celebrated together. Jumping, shouting, etc. he said he was so happy we came back to see that with him. And next game he made snacks and asked us to stay and watch with him. Now we all love football. Especially my boys

Im an older woman 50, im not wanting to get married or make a family,..my kids are adults now. It is so hard to find men around my age bracket...they just want to play the field too ... whether they've been through divorce and dislike all women, or they are so set in their ways that it is too much for them to think of something developing slowly. I dont bother with dating apps,..i only see what is handed out to me through work or friends. Its a sad dating world out there im afraid...

Last 2 men I’ve dated have stayed in touch with me … I can’t understand why …. when they’ve called it a day 💁‍♀️ Fabulous info thanks guys 🙏

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Welcome!

Wow I was married to a provider but that’s all everything else was on my shoulders.

Thank you both for your amazing advice.

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Welcome!

Great advice! Both of you looking handsome

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Thanks, glad you like it! :)

Great video ❤

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Glad you liked it!!

Great advice!!

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

I think what it does is it helps us women who are emotionally charged, to understand and be able to safely be with someone or not be with someone.. If you don’t know, then you simply will not know how.. how to love or how to leave. It becomes overwhelming.. Feeding the woman brain with knowledge and understanding, allowing her to make decisions that are logical.. Just knowing some of this stuff makes you a higher value, because you are not getting worked up over things that would normally bother us.. Listen lady’s you don’t have to make it hard, just make yourself aware and emotionally tolerant ..

My boyfriend of 6 months ended our relationship to focus on his sobriety. He’s not ready for relationship, I get it we’ve been together since he went to rehab. Also first year relationship is t good idea I get it. He told me he doesn’t know what the future brings but right now we will be friends. I’m moving to his town and we will probably be together even as friends a lot if the time. I’m hoping as I get myself on a structured stabilized path he does same and we can rebuild from that. I love him so much and am willing to take it day by day.

Say if i like a guy and he doesn't know i like him, what do and how do you get his attention?

Idk if avoidant is fixable as you say...

This was such a beneficial discussion. ❤ May I ask a Question ?if i ask him to do something like check my car to see his masculine tendencies….isn’t that going against my feminine where im looking for an ‘outcome’ by testing him ?

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Good question, the best thing (to operate from your feminine) is to share authentically something that you need help with or a problem and let him offer to solve it while being detached from if he actually does or not

@sirajsyeda3714

Ай бұрын

@@MagnetizeYourMan that makes sense, thank you for clarifying ❤️🙏

@nathalian.7209

29 күн бұрын

you can try...but what i've seeing and studying is that men want to be specially masculine and fix things for the women he is attracted to! if you're not his type he will make an excuse or do it just because its the right thing to do, but not be happy about it. you can read his body language.

@Ann-eb8dp

13 күн бұрын

What if he is hopeless with cars

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A man says he loves to be pursued by women and they need to earn his attention, time with him, to go on dates together etc. He says it lets him know how invested she is in him and if they don’t want him that bad, they can move on. What do you think of that?

@GodessQueenTila

Ай бұрын

EWWW! SOUNDS LIKE A WEAK MAMA'S BOY!

@romana-yn1fr

Ай бұрын

Feminine and insecure

@victorkroud3642

Ай бұрын

He’s co-dependant. He needs her to be super invested because he’s insecure and needs the reinforcement in order to feel fulfilled.

@mits619

10 күн бұрын

Imagine, if you did peruse and you guys had a relationship… or even marriage. He would need constant validation and attention. If you didn’t give it to him (he’d take it as a sign you’re giving it to someone else and he’d be entertaining any woman who did give it to him). Walk away now, unless you want to waste energy and time in constantly perusing and validating this guy.

@jessicahitchens6926

9 күн бұрын

Stop caring

I want to be claimed🎉

Thanks!

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Welcome and thanks so much for the superchat! :)

Super random but if everything was going well and he kept mentioning my birthday and the day of doesn’t wish happy birthday but likes photos… how does one stay in their feminine/ or decide to walk away. When asked in a graceful way if there was something going on he just said he’s been out of it but it’s nothing personal and wishing me a happy birthday weekend…

Will you please put the groceries away for me? His response... Have the kids do it. 😐

Most women leave relationship first. Don't forget that often times these things are biase. A lot of women leave good men for bad men then wonder why. I have left more men than they have left me. Most divorced are initiated by women. And often times, when a man comes back a woman will have already moved on. Grow up and learn. Next 💯🙏

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

True

So a man has to like you more..got it

My question is how do you deal with selfish men and being distance with you and you give him his space . What do you do ?

@Paoula

Ай бұрын

You leave

what does it mean if they say you're my priority ?

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Devotion if he follows through with it

@alisonolley4042

10 күн бұрын

That sounds like he has other options

My bf asked if he was the best sex. I didnt say yes, i said how i loved it and how it is different and not comparable. He pulled away... 😢

@Paoula

Ай бұрын

lol loved your response

@lisan8007

Ай бұрын

​@@Paoulait was a pretext as it opened up quickly enough. There are deeper reasons. The guy was actually married and was cheating with me. I ended it with him. There were signes. I ignored them. Will be wiser next time.

@secondchancehomestead

23 күн бұрын

Put yourself in his shoes-how would you feel if he did that to you? Wake up and get out of yourself

@mits619

10 күн бұрын

@@lisan8007um good call.

I work with this man that showed me he was interested in me since I started working there. It’s been a slow progression since he seems a little backwards when it comes to relationships. I have used my feminine vulnerability skills to give him the opportunity to step up his game and he has. However, he gives me mixed signals, as sometimes he just doesn’t get it and he chooses to completely ignore me some days. Which makes me wonder if he’s lost interest and I end up more confused and frustrated than when we began our interactions, and he still hasn’t made the move. Any suggestions….? Thank you 🙏

@marysmith9565

Ай бұрын

Following

@joanmu1053

Ай бұрын

Get out! Next

@umerica13

7 күн бұрын

Move on, tl this behavior will effect more than you realize

What does it mean when the man says he needs to go out and spend some time with other women?

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Doesn't love you deeply

@mits619

10 күн бұрын

Means he doesn’t want you. No man would tell that to a woman he wanted any relationship with.

Selena? Kevin said his wife is named, no , Celine

Because he got what he wanted with little effort. They moved on.

No they get tired of 1 relationship, then they try relationship with other 😢

I see, He has to level up and elevate higher and his high is very low I’m seeing…with his very real ability to not show up in reality. Boy Bye

No sex in two years and he just left me for his girlfriend that just dumped him?

Im triggered -whatever that means

I don’t mean to be rude. I have suggestions for you both coming from a retired speaker and training coordinator. Brody: I counted every time you said the work “like” in an incorrect manner. I quit counting at 50 times and the video was not even half way finished. My suggestion is for you to go back and listen to yourself. It is very distracting for your listeners. Yes, I am older (68 yrs old), but that is not a good habit to continue as a speaker. Anthony: I much prefer your individual videos. This duo video seemed kind of haphazard. You do a fantastic job with your individual videos because of your knowledge and the video is well organized. My intention is not to hurt or complain but to make your videos gain more diverse followers. Thank you 🦊.

What about if the MALE has trust issues?

@MagnetizeYourMan

Ай бұрын

Yeah that can be a big one too

@violetdesmond-barrett5874

16 күн бұрын

Glib response isn't going to engage your audience. Some people actually post a question in the thread for real feedback, & readers who haven't yet subscribed are interested in your response.

@MagnetizeYourMan

16 күн бұрын

@@violetdesmond-barrett5874 If he has trust issues then using feminine communication is going to be even more important to help him open up and come closer to you

I think what it does is it helps us women who are emotionally charged, to understand and be able to safely be with someone or not be with someone.. If you don’t know, then you simply will not know how.. how to love or how to leave. It becomes overwhelming.. Feeding the woman brain with knowledge and understanding, allowing her to make decisions that are logical.. Just knowing some of this stuff makes you a higher value, because you are not getting worked up over things that would normally bother us.. Listen lady’s you don’t have to make it hard, just make yourself aware and emotionally tolerant ..