Mark Manson Answers Questions On Happiness
You asked what I thought about happiness and I answered.
To celebrate what’s been an awesome year on the channel, I thought I’d throw it to you guys to see if you wanted anything in particular answered by me. Majority of the 350 responses I had were questions on happiness. I had everything from happiness, productivity and education, to my thoughts on Jordan Peterson, book recommendations and a few clues as to when I’m launching a new book.
Always looking for new questions to answer, so chuck yours in the comments. But only after you like the video and subscribe to the channel, then I’ll owe you.
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I found you through the "how to read more books" video, and I think a lot of people did too. Congrats on 100k!
@atharvgupta2521
3 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile the OG old fans resting here since like forever 😂
@spennny1000
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@vettevegas1624
3 жыл бұрын
@@IAmMarkManson The respect you showed Jordan Peterson says all I need to know about you.
@123ViperR
3 жыл бұрын
Yep. I was reading his books and subscribed to his newsletter but didn't know he has a youtube channel. Then one day I was watching his video that you mentioned and was surprisingly happy to see it's him. 😁
@fdafsdfasgs
3 жыл бұрын
@@atharvgupta2521 OG old fans.. Do you mean from the time, when he only did material for dating and relationships?
The down-to-earth, no bullshit nature of your content is refreshing. Nothing pretentious, just simple ways to reframe your perspective to deal with the challenges of life better.
My partner broke up with me at a festival whilst we were in a long distance relationship. After deciding whether or not to leave I decided to stay even though I was devastated. I had by chance bought Subtle Art in an airport before the flight to the festival. Thank you for being there with me Mark, you were a candle in the dark.
@nornorrawan527
3 жыл бұрын
Strength can be created in an unexpected way sometimes. Your story encouraged me to read more books.
@anicebitofbreadtomopupthel7144
3 жыл бұрын
@@nornorrawan527 100% ... the reality is even the things he said that I wasn't ready to hear at the time came to pass :) Thank you, I'm glad I encouraged somebody to do something good! You've encouraged me to share these experiences with others.
@nornorrawan527
3 жыл бұрын
@@anicebitofbreadtomopupthel7144 🌹
@FtGFA
3 жыл бұрын
long distance relationships are never worth it. You saved yourself.
I found you a year ago when I watched an interview of John Cena where he talked about your book and I decided to read that. That was one of the best decisions I ever made in my life.
@SGpride
3 жыл бұрын
Me too. Got really happy when i stopped looking for happiness and started living by grabbing my life by its disgusting hairy, sweaty balls. Dealing with the unconvenient shit in life really makes us better. Thanks Mark
@jamesron5625
3 жыл бұрын
* *When I listened to an interview of John Cena* *
@HarshSharma-om9ec
2 жыл бұрын
@@jamesron5625 lmao dude
Happiness is moment to moment... Find your inner Joy.
I admire your ability to think for yourself, I feel like a lot of people gravitate towards extremes these days and let themselves get heavily influenced by people they look up to to the point that they have no opinion of their own and therefore not much to stand for. I have been noticing that in my field(visual arts) as well whenever teachers give you critiques for guidance, but the way they deliver it makes you feel a certain way and either you take it too seriously or disregard it completely... I think it's important for people to take a step back and think about what their values are and being more selective about the information they gather.
The most important thing isn't happiness but inner peace.
The respect you showed Jordan Peterson says all I need to know about you.
@thomasr1051
3 жыл бұрын
Wait.. so you like him or hate him?
@nihalh6482
3 жыл бұрын
@@thomasr1051 lol
@jamesron5625
3 жыл бұрын
@@thomasr1051 The real question is, does Vette Vegas clean his room whenever he heard Jordan Peterson's voice?
OMG! I finally hear someone saying they get bored and annoyed with routines and like working on different times of the day, and do whatever they feel like between their "active" times of the day. I've been struggling with this for a few years now, since I became a full-time freelance translator, specialising in audiovisual content localisation. I just need to make good use of my time, and feel like wasting it when I try to force myself to work like I would in a 9 am to 5 pm job. Creativity doesn't work like that... What a relief 😍
@m.l.7558
Жыл бұрын
Oh a translator! First time I see one in the comments, I'm studying for that, keep it up good sir/lady!
Ultimately just be present in whatever emotions you’re feeling now? If you’re wishing to be somewhere/ something else it creates negative emotions
"Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Meaning." What a difference that would make.
Never act on impulse. Plan first. Think it through. Then act.
@vettevegas1624
3 жыл бұрын
I'll be 60yrs, this year. THIS is the secret of life.
@nihalh6482
3 жыл бұрын
Shit, I just clicked on this comment on an impulse, should have thought it through first. Oh wait I should have thought out this comment through before typing it.. Shit.. Shit.. Shit.. Should have thought through about the swearing part. Shit..
@9Nikko8
3 жыл бұрын
@@nihalh6482 quirky, arent you?
Mark, I just finished "The Obstacle is the Way" I just want you to know how much I have loved every book you put on the list so far. I have wasted so much time trying to figure out how to be happy, instead of just "being" happy. Thank you again for busting your ass so hard during the Pandemic, you have been a beacon in the shit show. Fuck man I am gushing, but you really have been part of my life support. Best way to sum it up, you are the David Foster Wallace inspiration for this guy. You have shaped my ideas and inspired me for years.
bro you're fucking great, I don't read so I listened to your books and I still go back to them years later. 10/10 would recommend 1 mark manson prescribed for all humans
Your books changed my perspective about so many things in life
Being a part of this channel for more than 6 months i could say that your interactive videos really changed this channel.... 🤩🤩🤩Really love your content and ESPECIALLY THE SMALL PIECES OF FUNNY EDITS... 😂🤭🤣
The subtle art of not giving an f book really did change my life. The next one, one of the story especially the self burning monk, stuck to me. Thank you mark.
5 non-fiction books: 01_ Chasing The Scream - Johann Hari 02_ Democracy For Realists - Christopher H. Achen, Larry Bartels 03_ Why Nations Fail - Daron Acemoğlu, James A. Robinson 04_ The Blank Slate: The Modern Denial of Human Nature - Steven Pinker 05_ Political Order and Political Decay - Francis Fukuyama Extra: The Better Angels of Our Nature: Why Violence Has Declined - Steven Pinker
@rehasana
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I was hoping someone would write down and post the books mentioned
@santisanti8386
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I was looking for this list in the comments.
one of the hundred things I learned from you is how to learn to build a healthy relationship with pain and emotions in general. and this alone changed my life in different levels! This AMA bought a lot of value btw. I really appreciate it!!!
Congrats Mark! Your blog, vlog, courses and books are amazing! Thanks for your writings!
Most of my great ideas come to me when I'm under stress or pissed at a competitor. When you said that you thrive under chaos, I had goosebumps because this is the same combination of words I've been looking for to describe all my eureka moments.
Dude, you are making this channel a real thing! Very happy you are! I first discovered you from randomly picking a audio book to listen to in a high school art class. I am now graduating from college, and your book is a very important part of it.
I always thought Mark wasn't the type to marry, like some douchebag bachelor who'll remain single his entire life. Him saying he'll hangout with his wife placed a stupid smile on my face
@nihalh6482
3 жыл бұрын
He mentions his wife and his relationship with her in the book.
@TBlock1347
2 жыл бұрын
He also has a great book on dating & relationship Models.
I first read your article concerning the subtle art, while you were still working on the book.....Ive read everything you’ve ever written and published professionally -even the dating stuff -I’m happily married, but I love your style brother. You’re one of the greats in my book of books....and you literally saved my life... Thank you! I was hooked immediately, when I read ....”handing out fucks like ice cream at summer camp”......I’ve co-opted that Summer Camp line in many a funny conversation....... Sir, I work with curse words like DaVinci worked with paint and canvas , and from one vulgarian to another , I salute you! Keep that shit coming...don’t EVER change....
Hey, Mark. I've been reading your books, articles and all the stuff you bring out there for almost 4 years. I don't have a big brother, yet now I feel as if I had one. Good luck, brother.will be waiting more from you💪
Thank you a million for answering my question! It means the whole world to me🥺✨ Can't wait to read and watch everything that you're preparing for us!! So excited 😍
i cant thankyou enough for making these videos . your videos brings hope and remind me what to do and what not to ,it keeps my days alive . thankyou alot
PLEASE do this more often! I learned and discovered many things from this video! Thank you
Love your work Manson.... please... more vids! They slay! It’s so simple and clear what you talk about and in a language that is just how I speak. It has helped my life enormously. Thank you!
Excited to hear you're making KZread a 2021 priority - bring it on! 👏
“This is water” was fantastic. Thank you so much. Also, I really liked the format of this video. I’m generally not interested in Q&A, but I think you picked really great questions.
I appreciate your critical thinking and pragmatic attitude.Thanks Mark !
Man, I am so glad you did this youtube thing. It's very useful for people. Thank you
Love you bro ❤ Your videos have kept me from stressing out so much starting my 1st business while working full-time doing hard labor. It's a lot but I'm not so worried about it now
So true, if you are in a constant search for happiness, you are giving your subconscious a negative suggestion and reinforcing that you aren't happy, and you will always look for something outside of your self to "make you happy." Love the content
Keep these coming! I've read both of your books (actually, twice, each) and love to hear you expound on their themes. Keep riffing!
One of my favorite authors on youtube? YAY!!!
Mark, keep this up.You are helping me against all odds. I can't thank you enough man. I listen to you everyday and I even introduced you to my classmates.I said things controversially like Being positive all the time is dysfunctional. Is it okay to say these things? Moreover, the most important thing you have done to me is I'm slowly training myself on; how to live a fruitful and non-fuckery life.I read your books and listen to most of your articles.The most favorite of mine is the article named How to be happier.
Appreciate your insight on various topics and love the book recommendations! Encourage reading at every opportunity we need it! ❤
Can you talk about how can we inhance our self confidence? Big fan of yours! You change the way i see things in my life.
So much wisdom in your teachings ! You have condensed wisdom for 21st century. Thanks to you.
You changed my ife Your books, your videos etc. Thankyou, Mark
Thanks for everything Mark, you are such a Legend!
I love listening to your content!!! Keep it up! You are literally my most favorite author!
With Mark Manson we trust!
Thank you for all your time and energy that reaches us
The thing I really love about your videos is I think you're speaking in my language. I totally get the point of you.
If you keep banging out these awesome Q&A's you will hit a million subs before the end of this year!
You’re extremely insightful and observant. It’s rare to find a presenter who is not only well read but highly intuitive about the many causes and effects of today’s society. Bravo!
I've been really enjoying your videos. Re: Education. As an ESL teacher in Indonesia having been raised in Canada, secondary and university education in any western country is way beyond anything available in Indonesia where it is marred by favoritism, nepotism and - at times - corruption. So for the most part, it doesn't matter how good a student you are or if you just need more support you are not going to rank higher than the teacher's pet or cousin or those with a pocket full of cash. Western ed values individual excellence. My students - even adults - are amazed that I consider my students' successes, my success instead of using my position of power as a way to belittle any student who makes a mistake.
You know at some point I just realised that if the problem can't be solved for too long than there's no solution and no problem and the only problem is me seeing a problem somewhere. I was obsessed with figuring out how to live a good life and not staying at home for the whole day and freaking out about not knowing what to do instead, but now I'm just "ah idc let's play guitar or something" and well let's where this will go
@777VOID-1
Жыл бұрын
Good Job.
Mark, you always blow my mind everytime
LOVE IT!!! Please more Q&A videos like that 🙏🏻
Thanks for all your work Mark!
its amazing you sparkle talking about books ✨
Wow, Dad Manson, keep them videos coming!!!
I'm very excited to watching your videos mark👍
Many thanks for that, Mark. Anxiety: either it controls us, or we control it. You mention our response to it. I have Viktor Frankl's _Man's Search For Meaning_ ready for reading. Many thanks again for your two books so far. They are a great read. One day life (relationships that is) will make sense. I could write a thesis upon all the shit that's going through my single life mind at the moment.
Thx for answering Mark, i am more clarified now about that kinda Taboo thematic. And congrats for the 100k!
Love you Mark ❤️
Haha algorithm goes brrr Love the work you put out Mark, you bring a lot of value to so many of us!
I love how you have all these nuggets of wisdom and still have a sense of humor. AND Your book, subtle art of not giving a fuck was so refreshing to read amidst all the bullshit out in the book world today
Always thought provoking.
Yayyy congratulations mark ❤🌹
love you man i really hope you’re doing well and will be
Love your channel and work. I came across your first book on Amazon a couple of years back when i was looking for material on Emotional intelligence. A few days later i was at Heathrow waiting for my flight. I popped into a bookstore and saw your 2nd book. I sat down and started reading in some quiet cornerof the terminal. Basically, for the first time in my life my name was called over the tannoy system telling me my gate was closing. I was THAT engrossed! As an Englishman here in Russia, your book and name is spreading like wild fire.
Great to see you are concentrating on videos.
Mark :"I'm not productive in afternoons". damn, same thing. and I have been trying to know why and change that for months now, but no result. so the best I can do is wake up early and do the shit whilst I have energy and CAN actually do it. and spend the afternoon doing literally random shit or go for walks.
@9Nikko8
3 жыл бұрын
thanks for elaborating on that, I think I should try it too. I also feel useless after 4-5 pm but I'm ok when i wake up
Hey Mark, could you make a video on how did you begin to write? What prompted you to do it, struggles you encountered during the process, research on writing before actually writing (insecurities and doubts), best advice/tips you found from others and which ones would you give out to aspiring authors? A cool video with concrete examples from your writing quest would be great.
I love your Book called Everything is Fucked A book about hope. I love the part where you talk about the “Blue dot effect”. It changed my life and I couldn't thank you enough for it. Looking forward to your next book!
congrats on the 131K! well deserved
Congrats Mark and another great video!
Good writers are not always good speakers (and vice versa); Mark Manson is one of the exceptions.
Knowing yourself is the key
Thank you Mark. I learned a lot from you.
I stopped trying to actively define or search for happiness, since it really can be a way out of it a lot of the time.
Thank you Mark ❤️
Freaking love you content! Can't wait for your next book!
Congrats Mark, keep it up!
"If you optimize for meaning, then the happiness question will kind of take care of itself." (02.41, a throwaway quote you could probably build a whole book around). Dude, I'm 56 and apparently still learning. BTW, congrats on passing 100k subs (812k as I watch this in April 2023).
2:35 Mi mente explotando de nuevo :0 Leí tu libro hace tiempo (primero Models) pero parece que necesito leerlo(s) otra vez. Gracias por tanto Mark!
Love your content man!
Man your stock footage uses are the best! So funny!
You’re the 🐐 Mark. "Drug addiction is a mental Health issue not a criminal issue " - Manson
@brookes1911
3 жыл бұрын
I'm calling it now - comment of the year!
loved it thanks for uploading
Why this video is underrated you are amazing of all ♥️
Yes dude... I bought your books and been putting them to practice... Stay up G’.... !!
I truly appreciate your content and loved your book. It was my Christmas present to most of my friends. I just would like to say though that anxiety can be much more for some people. It is debilitating and by saying that you have to push through can be triggering for some. It implies that you are not doing enough when in fact people with anxiety issues are living in pain.
@m.l.7558
Жыл бұрын
It's true but I believe he is or was an anxious person as well. I'm an anxious person and have been treated with more care than other people sometimes and that encourages you tonor push yourself harder, and sometimes you DO need that but also rest when u need it.
Congrats
My daughter recommended your book to me years ago, and I ignored her to my dismay. I am so glad you have a YT channel. I'll make sure my daughter knows about your site in case she's unaware of it (hard to imagine though).
thank you
Hello From Brazil and congrats for these great work.
Love the Books recomendation Mark..thank you !😀
I love watching your videos ❤️❤️❤️
Love you guys!!!
Thanks.
Well deserve on your continued success. Thank you for being awesome 😎 Big fan from South Africa 🇿🇦!!!!!
I read your book last year... Everything is fucked... Man you are awesome... And then i brought your next book... Your book helped me to ctrl myself... Seriously trust me i was worst at handling anger and emotion... But your book helped me to understand my self better... And im regularly watching your post on social media... And waiting for your next book... Ur books have something... It is so realistic...
Can’t believe I was today years old until I realized mark manson was a KZreadr 😭 casually binging all your videos!!!
130 k subscribers, congratulations 🥳 Yup waiting eagerly for the next booK .