Having gone through the break up stage is one of the best things that has probably happened to me. I am a really good new me. How? It made me think more about the approval from myself than from other people in a very rational way. I remember a saying- Love thyself before loving anyone else. 100% legit

only a heartbroken psychiatrist can explain like this just amazing !!!

Love is beautiful...but if you have a heartbreak and recover from it in a positive way that feeling is just wonderful... because it's then that you realise that your love can't be so selfish to be confined to one single person rather you are capable of loving the humanity as a whole and you being a segment of Universe are eternal😃

Bollywood is the training school of getting heartbreak.

@preetidas9511

5 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said! 👏👏👏

@AResearcherPoV

5 жыл бұрын

Good analysis..

@DivineTarotGuidance1010

5 жыл бұрын

No..its not...it teaches you 'happily ever after'

@hitman5161

5 жыл бұрын

Right

@musikali-pianoinstrumental8852

3 жыл бұрын

True....by setting wrong expectations

This person is straight to the point. This is one of the most articulated speech about love and heartbreak ever. He is not impressing the audience, he is not smiling before audience laughs, he is just popping out sentences from the bottom of his heart of the experiences he's had. Being so intelligent and certified in so many fields, strange but very helpful of him to talk about love and heartbreaks in such a lucid manner. Very very grateful to this.

The first video I watched after my breakup and I'm still sitting in a pool of tears but that's okay.

Brilliant one !! Never saw someone describing heartbreak so scientifically ..Thank you soo much sir .

@chandandas7135

5 жыл бұрын

ann frank i m your big fan.. 😃 i read your dairy 😃

@chkapoor

5 жыл бұрын

@Sajal Jeet 😂😂

Woowww..Lines..Did anybody notice ? For those of us who have not had a heartbroken, we know.. that perhap we missed out one of the most epic human experience ever..☺️😊👌 Only those can understand who literally went through..☺️😊

Yes I was heartbroken nearly twice in a year by the same boy 😭I don't know how I got cheated .Don't let emotions control ur mind .Just think rationally nd move on .Don't rely on karma let success answer the questions.

@nidhisomkuwar2150

Жыл бұрын

How's life now??

what a simple and genuine person he is, came here by bicycle

Shyam broke my heart once, and then helped me heal it.

@vasumitrasingh4384

5 жыл бұрын

Did he give you a prescription???

@kirtu9035

2 жыл бұрын

oh

We don't want to carry our wounds from one relationship to another.😊

@jkk4666

5 жыл бұрын

Yup..... Live in present

@akshaybankar8180

5 жыл бұрын

Haha

His explanations are very mature

He has explained it beautifully with scientifically and spiritually. Thank you sir🙏

This is probably one of the best Ted talk I've ever seen.

Existential loneliness. His words are powerful. Thank you sir.

U kill it ....have no word to explain the maturity of your words...

I love Dr Shyaam. I keep listening him since 2012 from radio indigo..

It is a good speech. And I am gone through all this. Heartbroken is such a sad thing. But making better person is good thing .

Amazingly said and i must say I'm impressed with the explanation part.

Forgiveness and acceptance is the key to build long lasting sustainable relationships.. Real relationships are built on willingness and unconditional love, making the most logical choices in life, can never reflect true love...

@prakashsarkar6914

5 жыл бұрын

What???🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

I literally luv his theory first tym I think there is a guy whom talked about love at this stage people talk about depression anxiety heartbreak but I never found someone talk about love or forgiveness he is an amazing guy nd yup we never saw our parents have an heartbreak luv to hear u sir ❤️

What a speech! Very eloquent. I learnt a lot from this short yet instructive speech on heartbreaks. Who would've thought we Indians are more susceptible to heartbreaks eh! That said, keep loving my friends.

Should the word "heartbreak" be used only in context of romantic relationships?? Would'nt it apply to any relationship where a person has invested a lot emotionally-parent/child, friend/friend??

@slaveofallah.5980

6 жыл бұрын

well said. I agree with u.

@NITISHKUMAR-be6cv

6 жыл бұрын

I think the HEARTBREAK that speaker is talking of is most popular and common than any other. Further he could have talked he should have but the patients of this catagory are more, and are more vulnerable so this catagory needs tips at first followed by others. And also he clearly explains that this has more cases in our generation than any other cause of all the reasons we know phone, freedom, globalisation, societal reforms, more freedom and gender equality. So it is okay to say all other past generation have felt it least but our generation has felt it more.

@robertbarry9824

5 жыл бұрын

Ramya R Swamy jk

@prokokex1365

5 жыл бұрын

same boubt

Everything explained so beautifully that too in a scientific way ofcourse!👍💯

I love how you mentioned Lord Krishna . Thanks.

Thanks for coming on Ted your amazing.

amazingly described..

this guy just amazingly explained & the last thing about "Forgiveness" this one is mind blowing

Love.. Is a beautiful feeling ❤️what gives us a positive anergy 🥂

It's been three days since my heartbreak, it feels relaxing after watching this.

Its amazing.. You chose to deal with this problem is appreciated..

Thank you sir for ur wonderful speech.

incredible presentation and excellent selection of words. Never before this occurred to me that heartbreak could be such a serious issue. It seemed to be more inspired by movies. Thank you for showing us a more constructive perspective towards this issue.

very rightly sad..totally agree with him..

wow this kind of a revelation make me believe i am alive. and its not me living in this metaphorical world after all. thanks

I had taken good advice from u, Good Doc You have taken my Advice in subconscious level to know about Bhagwat Geeta and Meditation ..

Thanks for your factful speech...Enjoyed a lot.

Wow he completely changed my thinking and probably I will now be more positive about my long term relationship which just ended sometime back and leave the wounds behind and approach the bright future with my strengths ✌🏻❤️

@bhartisahu2866

6 жыл бұрын

Nice

one of the best talks I had heard

what all he said is exactly what happens to most of us.

6 years later this still is a masterpiece

One of the best video on this topic loved it❤

Thank you so much 😊👍 For this message ☺ now i feel better 😊

Best talk on heartbreak❤

Wow....its amazing sir...thanks for sharing ur experience😊

Very nicely elaborated with scientific basis.

After watching this video ..I only can think about the dialogue from the movie Rockstar.. टूटे दिल से संगीत निकलता है...Too good..haha

Really such a amazing explanation. You have touched this topic so deeply...

He spoke so well!!

Thank you so much sir...

THis was needed, thank you, so much

Thanks for dis amazing video...its beautiful

I still remember his Video now we can get his Podcast in Sportify

this helped immensely👌. thankyou loads.

amazing loved it the way he explain everything👍

So good.. I liked his lecture very much

I needed it...thanks❣️

Wowwww such an amazing point of view..Loved it :')

nice talk Dr shyam..

Most epic human experience ♡

great words. very satisfying.

A very eloquent speaker

Loved it! Thanks Sir!

This man is jst genius❤

Owsome one.... Really change someones thinking.....

Truly AWESOME one 💔

really I loved it

An explanation with scientific reasoning.. ✌

loved it!!

Just amazing.😊

Good one.. he explained scientifically

superb sirji.......take a bow🙌🙌🙌

thank u for sharing :)

Sir Thank you for this video

Thank you so much sir

FORGIVE AND FORGET. Neither am I Jesus, nor do I have Alzheimer's !!! My way or Highway !!

@xz6476

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly Buddy

Well explained doctor!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Very happy -fall in love -feel worthy -feel numb-broken into pieces -strong version -n d world is awaiting fr u... (Trust me )..god bless u those who r in depression anxiety .n emptiness U will recover up trust me even I also had n m here a bravo robust ME..n ME 😎😇

Awesome! Well said!

To be loved and to love...exactly sir

Let me give the perfect solution for that. Suppose someone is in the room and you are out side the room. you are knocking the door again and again, and got heart breaking and thr person is not agree to open the door of his heart. Solution is please stop knocking the door. you will get the solution.

@munnakthr

7 жыл бұрын

🙄🙄🙄🙄 TRUE

@lakshit2780

6 жыл бұрын

good example

@rohittiwarisir

6 жыл бұрын

You should break the door I think

@prakashsarkar6914

5 жыл бұрын

@@rohittiwarisir 😀😀😀😀😀

@BusinessDestination

5 жыл бұрын

True man 👌👌

m in love with you men .you are just amazing , i had a breakup some few months ago I hoped that am strong enough to hold everything by my slef but i have to admit it that it was danmly killing me again n again i have seen a lot of videos trying to get out of this guilt but today watching this i'hv thougt to forgive him and move on to my future .

It was really awesome bt I disagree to one thing u mentioned that u shld forgive bt u should also forget .Just forget his /her existence .In this cruel world u should only rely on yourself .Don't be attached to someone .If it comes let it .If it goes let it be and u will find peace 😃u should learn to live alone because those who fly alone have the strongest wings 😃

This is amazing

it was awsm sir...... nice one.....

Thanks a lot

beautifully spoken

The way he described ...he had issues 👌👌

Bahu shi tareeke se btaya h bande ne... Superb bossss👌

Thank you

What does not kill you, will make you stronger apparently. One should also refer to another video of TEDx in which Onkar kishan describes the power of break up

Great speech

Wonderful great one.... Need more session

physical relationships are more intense. takes extra effort to heal.

Sir u are just awesome

wowww all the answers i got..

thank you

thanks doctor

Dear ted X i am a big fan of you..its my personal request pls add subtitles in each video..pls pls