Who else here started watching this because they're feeling like shit? Probably just me

@mcjooz

7 жыл бұрын

same here

@hibamasood8605

7 жыл бұрын

Rymolk me also

@pinkLeopard580

7 жыл бұрын

Rymolk 🙋🏼

@pocchin3148

7 жыл бұрын

ААAre You What He's Loooooking For? twitter.com/c903839ed82be8bc0/status/804693412402241537 Brеak Ups Donâ t Have tо Leave Yоu Brokеn Garyy Lewаndowski TTTTEDxNavesink

@foxfit4904

7 жыл бұрын

Nah man. I scour KZread for videos like this all the time. Plenty of us are right there with you.

“If a relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does”. This is the whole purpose of relationships, supporting and helping each other out.

@reptilesgamers00

3 жыл бұрын

I tried to help my ex, she ended up cheating on me. After living with each other for 2 years.. helping her with jobs, finances and emotions through covid. I believe I did the best I could with what I know. I have a feeling that she felt I didn't love her as I was trying to "change her". I have no desire to normalize cheating as I believe it's horrible. I still feel somewhat responsible, in a sad way, that she felt it was necessary. As if I pushed her to her action. I wanted us to optimize our relationship for the best of both of us. It's strange to think it's over.

@charityrodriguez1232

2 жыл бұрын

I honestly thought that was the purpose of them too. I’m glad he confirmed this.

@verfassungspatriot

2 жыл бұрын

the sentence is not true!

@Amarideout

2 жыл бұрын

Wow! Love this, thanks

@fsfarheen

2 жыл бұрын

@@reptilesgamers00 I'm suffering through the same situation man.

i'm here listening to this and crying because i cannot see the light in anything happening. i got dumped two days ago and i'm a complete wreck. this has been the hardest and most painful thing i've ever been through. Update: I am doing SO much better now. I look at this comment and feel so sad I ever felt this way. The heartbreak will end, time will pass and you’ll be happy again, I promise. I’ve found someone that makes me so much happier than I ever was, it’s hard to believe I at one point felt this way. It hurts, and it will hurt for a while. Some days i felt physical pain in my chest but that pain has since gone away. I am know happier than I’ve ever been, I’m the most confident I’ve ever felt, and life has never felt so bright. Don’t doubt yourself happiness and don’t give up on the future. It’s very hard and it’s very sad, but please do not rob yourself of everything you can achieve and all the joy you will obtain after the heartbreak is over. It will be better and you will be happy. Do not give up. If anyone needs someone to talk, I am here for you. Thank you to everyone who has checked in. ❤️

@6AM96

6 жыл бұрын

How are you feeling now? its been 19 days for me

@ariannegonzales2444

6 жыл бұрын

Melissa Escobar I hope you’re happier 💕

@sitifaizah9908

6 жыл бұрын

I'm very much the same. I'm generally a very happy person (rarely sad), but this break up things change me. I feel devastated (feel worse after break up - mostly i force my self to sleep again so i don't have to deal with the pain), still can't see my self with someone else but i sincerely let him go now. We'll be fine girl... :)

@deerheart87

6 жыл бұрын

Melissa Escobar poor love more fish in the sea remember XXX more fish in the sea

@jaxxdavis8523

6 жыл бұрын

Dumped today

who enjoys reading comment section to know personal feelings of others and trying to correlate with your own situation,thinking you're not the only one going through that shit.. :-D

@siphiwemabuya

5 жыл бұрын

It makes me feel better

@pelinkartal6178

5 жыл бұрын

You explained me so right,now im thinking im not alone in this situation too

@indigoblue4791

5 жыл бұрын

Me!! 💕🌸

@janosmolnar3613

5 жыл бұрын

Doing this for 3 weeks now...

@khusipun4486

5 жыл бұрын

I find people expressing true feelings in comments so I love reading the..

people who feel good about the break up are the ones who initiated the leave in the first place..the ones that are hit hard are those that were not prepared..like those who left were

@granjuas

7 жыл бұрын

ROCKEMPOWERMENT yup. here I am on an empty room picking up the pieces.

@shubh_1836

7 жыл бұрын

and often the ones who initiate are the ones who lecture about getting up and moving on to the broken one...

@angelaknox

6 жыл бұрын

ROCKEMPOWERMENT I did the breaking up and I'm heartbroken so that's not always true

@onoshedidnt10203

6 жыл бұрын

nobody feels good about a break up unless they were getting rid of a toxic or abusive person. im putting off breaking up with my partner because im scared of being heartbroken. even though i know its what we need.

@igogoplatayobitch7566

5 жыл бұрын

thats not true. i was dating a girl for almost 6 years and in the end it killed me to leave but i wasnt going to let my life go nowhere. i was trying to help somebody who struggled with an abusive and drug infested house. instead i feel that i "wasted" 6 years and now shes in rehab, thats the last i heard. but i didnt want it to end like that is my point. and i was hurt she popped a pill

Sorry but the actual breakup experience is actually much, much worse than what I imagined it would be beforehand.

Make sure to cry it out everyday. Hug something, your dog or cat, a stuffed animal? A loved one. Read some damn books. Educate yourself with positive stuff. Play video games, sit outside, go for a walk. Talk to anyone or write a journal. I’m currently going through a tough breakup where I thought this guy loved me & would NEVER leave me. But guess what??? He doesn’t love me and he left me for good. But I’m going to become stronger everyday. It all takes time. Yes it sucks sometimes. But I know it’s possible to get through anything. You can and will get through it. Give it time.

@Anouskas

4 жыл бұрын

.. you’re right on everything!

@chavezraven

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@mariaalmanzar7986

4 жыл бұрын

The best advice I've heard , thank you :)

@maryngunjiri2191

4 жыл бұрын

Am sorry

@Burning_Dwarf

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for these words, i am sorry that you also have to go through this mess of a human condition

The only time a break up does not leave you broken is if you had no deep feelings for your ex. But if you TRULY loved him/her, then the truth is this: You are gonna be shattered, completely and utterly DEVASTATED. You would have to be made of stone to feel okay about breaking up with a person that you loved.

@Rosalith

5 жыл бұрын

Im gonna make the break and this is how i feel. I wish so much it didnt come to this but I am drowning.

@jeremymenning56

5 жыл бұрын

It's been almost 2 years. I still feel broken and shattered. I've tried everything. Gym. Exercise. Hiking. Movies. Dating. Therapy. Group therapy. Individual therapy. Pet therapy. Alcohol. Food. Excessive speeding. Adrenaline. Shopping. Work. Travel. Prescriptions. My heart and soul wince every morning when I wake up...and the woman who broke my heart and destroyed my soul is the first thing I think about. I don't want to. I try to get her out of my mind. She just haunts me. It's frustrating.

@Shescu

5 жыл бұрын

Since you already tried so much, try crying, release all the guilt, sadness, fear and anger that you hold inside of you, it's not going to go away if you ignore it.

@silviasotelo3865

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah your right 😭😭

@roorooroo368

5 жыл бұрын

Frances JAMES I agree. Even if it was toxic or weighing you down or holding you back, if you are in love, it’s gonna hurt.

Been through excruciatingly painful breakups, but time healed to where it hurts no more. Now I only have warm feelings for them as human beings. Life moved on and I became happy again. Hang in there and have strong faith. Just don't become cynical. Keep your innocence, your trust. Get involved in life again and keep your mind and heart open.

@tamikahenderson4167

6 жыл бұрын

Harshi N. Thank u

@Vegan4Everything

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Well said.

@pakyperna4336

5 жыл бұрын

best comment, bro

@egledavidsoniene5075

5 жыл бұрын

I have warm fealings and for people and for other living beings to after hart brake.

@JoLoughrey

5 жыл бұрын

@@egledavidsoniene5075 Me too. Experiencing intense pain seems to increase levels of empathy for others, through understanding I suppose. It's like your heart breaks open. At the same time though, it's tough feeling sad a lot. I cry more often now than ever before. Over happy and beautiful things and sad things.

The way you love someone does not determine the way that person is going to love you back. Which sucks a lot and I’m learning that the hard way watching break up ted talks crying.

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4 жыл бұрын

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@Alve_2u

4 жыл бұрын

i’m in the same boat too haha

@emmanpilapil53

3 жыл бұрын

Are you talking about Tom Hansen?

@doejohn7548

2 жыл бұрын

Same hope you in a better place now

@AspiringDirtbag

2 жыл бұрын

I’m going through this right now. It hurts so much.

"Great relationships seldom fail bad ones do as they should."

@HuongNguyen-hq8fl

7 жыл бұрын

Oh I like that saying. I think it makes sense! Thank you so much! It helps my hurtful heart.

@anupampanda9171

7 жыл бұрын

Nana Brit well said!

@bonez2002

6 жыл бұрын

Nana Brit You have made my day sparkle :) thank you!

@vickyeti4029

6 жыл бұрын

Awesome saying..helped me tonight

@mireyasaltijeral9005

6 жыл бұрын

That really stuck with me! Helped me more than I thought.

Dennis lloyd brought me here

@adamlemp

5 жыл бұрын

found it 45 seconds

@jackchimalpopoca1

4 жыл бұрын

LUL I was wondering where this ted talk was

@lotusvito5042

4 жыл бұрын

me too...

@skillfailer

4 жыл бұрын

Theres this one mood when I go look for this song absolutely love it

@gabrielap.7980

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 😅

When my 20 year relationship ended I was like a little boat in a big storm , fighting my way through rough seas it took a while but in the end I reached calm waters and I’m stronger now.

@il2276

3 жыл бұрын

!! good luck ❤

@_xXLONDONXx_

3 жыл бұрын

That’s me but a relationship of 7 years I’m trying to find my strength

@michellereeves9316

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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When you really love the person who left you, the break up is not as easy as this guy said

@jinanswed7803

3 жыл бұрын

It’s been 2 years...Hope you become better now💛

@ubeshoriginals

3 жыл бұрын

Please reply are you okay now after 2 years?

@rosemaryrobina7772

2 жыл бұрын

True

@karina_004

2 жыл бұрын

hi, i genuinely wanna know how r u rn after quite sometime. i recently went through a break up w my bf whom i really love. sad to know that he didnt think us would work out. been so hard ever since

@theempire00

9 ай бұрын

Exactly

This guy has never had his heart destroyed

@cabrondemente1

Жыл бұрын

He does seem very cold headed about it but maybe he has been and has the maturity to see things as they are.

It's not my first break up, but it's definitely my worst and most painful. If I didn't have a job I'd stay home, but I can't and I can't help but hurt. I don't wish this feeling on anyone

@Mushokabanji

5 жыл бұрын

Pyrrha Nikos how are you feeling a year later?

@Onlinesully

4 жыл бұрын

You are better off working and hopefully absorbed.

@t_writer17

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same

@4me305

3 жыл бұрын

I’m feeling this rn man😓

@simforiawitbeen6166

3 жыл бұрын

This is how I am feeling right now

The last person to comment of this was 4 years ago, I go down the list of comments to see all the broken hearts and wonder how they are all doing now

this guy spoke a lot but i didn't learn anything. i imagine other people that come to this video are dealing with heartbreak as i am...and all this guy does is keep saying 'you dont have to feel broken' like it means something. he's going on and on about the 41% who feel positive about the breakup and ignoring that the main problem with a breakup is when you are in the 26% that feels terrible about breaking up.

@Illinoiseygovt

8 жыл бұрын

I've only watched a few mins and im not getting anything. I still feel like junk. thanks for the heads up. I'm out

@user-ry7xh7fj5v

8 жыл бұрын

+sydandtaytum I see your point but he's basically saying people breakups happen for a reason and you can learn a lot from them

@ZenTechnologist

7 жыл бұрын

This guy talks like he wouldn't know love if it hit him in the face. I'm from a very bad breakup, with a girl I really loved, I'm letting it go and was hoping this video would somehow provide some much needed advice, but this guy is just listing the pros and cons of relationships, nothing useful

@bouseski

7 жыл бұрын

How are you feeling now? I'm in your shoes.

@granjuas

7 жыл бұрын

exactly. I'm on a negative breakup. she's carry on nicely. I am here broken.

I think most people end up here are heartbroken. But hey, what happened already happened, and one thing we know for sure is that overthink won’t do any good. I know is hard, is hard for everybody. But life goes on, this is not the end of the world. I hope you all feel better. Love yourself.

@itsynrs282

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@doejohn7548

2 жыл бұрын

Amen thank you God bless you 💯

This video probably makes 99% of people who were dumped and stumbled upon this feel even more miserable. Thanks for letting dumpees know their ex who recently dumped them are happy/relieved that they severed a connection that was so important to them

@Casvaleon

6 ай бұрын

yup 100% the worst video i've come across

@missilovemyuke12

12 күн бұрын

That's what I feel watching this

When you saw nobody but her in a crowd, when it was you and her against the world. When she was your best friend before anything. When you've devoted 100% of yourself to her. Getting dumped isn't easy, it's been six weeks and I still cry almost every day.

@mirhangreg5282

Жыл бұрын

Text him on WhatsApp for help 👆👆👆

@denisejones6393

8 ай бұрын

How are you doing now? I'm going through exactly what you described right now. This is the biggest pain I've ever felt, the hardest thing I've ever done and I see no light

@_multiverse_

8 ай бұрын

@@denisejones6393 life goes on, but it has been a real challenge. I think the biggest hurdle is to accept that youre capable of loving someone else. 6mo later i like to believe that im a better person than when i was with her.

@denisejones6393

8 ай бұрын

@@_multiverse_ as of now, I can't possibly think of a relationship with anyone else

@_multiverse_

8 ай бұрын

​@@denisejones6393 that feeling will pass, give it time.

Found out my boyfriend was cheating on me today. He said that he meant to tell me...don't know how people can be so hurtful.

@mmommo2025

4 жыл бұрын

mine cheated for 37 years, raised 3 kids together, had a new girlfriend instantly after the breakup

@jadesaldivar3350

3 жыл бұрын

That's how it is. Learn from it

@reptilesgamers00

3 жыл бұрын

@@mmommo2025 wtf? Is that true?

@FlatStella1

4 ай бұрын

it's a baby that you lost your years supporting relationship....been there@@reptilesgamers00

@kjnest

3 ай бұрын

Please don’t tell me your still with him ???

When you are going through a breakup, the last thing you care about is WTF you learned from it... seriously.

@impossiblesheet3576

7 жыл бұрын

James Bond honestly you learned that you can live without them

@eversleepingbabybear

6 жыл бұрын

everyone is different.... for some people + yes, for some people no. living and surviving are different things. sometimes you just survive. physically. but mentally you are dead... happened to me... 5 years i'm just surviving...

@kaytescotland2900

6 жыл бұрын

If you dont learn the pattern is repetitive and you will repeat the same patterns. Whenever their is a negative their is always a positive..remember ying and yang

@lailbeeb

6 жыл бұрын

Key word you said is "when you are going through a breakup", while it's happening I totally agree.

@Rosalith

5 жыл бұрын

Obviously because youre in deep amounts of pain. But doing that, feeling the pain instead of avoiding it is how to get through it. Not over it, but through it. Thats the only way.

sometimes walking away is better and healthy

@julianblake8385

5 жыл бұрын

For the one who leaves.

@FlatStella1

4 ай бұрын

true, but NEVER EVER ETTING ANYONE COME BACK

Broken up with two days ago this helps but breakups literally suck with your first love..

@somisomi4136

6 жыл бұрын

i broke today with my first love its horrible experience ever i have

@tinachristeen1306

4 жыл бұрын

Same here. Just like 3 days...my first love

@omn5142

4 жыл бұрын

My first love for 6 years two days ago. Everything hurts

@faiqcreates

4 жыл бұрын

@@omn5142 2nd love of 5 years. Cheated on me.

@camilacastrogimenez8836

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

I just don't want to be alone again.. Having someone there to love me as much as I loved them felt amazing.. But realizing that they didn't miss ME, they just missed the person that loved them so much they didn't have to love them back... that hurts man.. it hurts..

@edwinly382

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so lonely now and I bet she's happy with her decision

My ex girlfriend held me back but we had loads of memories for so long that it was the worse break up I've had

@extrememind100

7 жыл бұрын

MILKY same here

@thetruth6473

6 жыл бұрын

Me to

@rgj1906

6 жыл бұрын

MILKY just wanted to say hi

@teekayrezeaumerah

4 жыл бұрын

MILKY felt this

@yachnachauhan

3 жыл бұрын

hang in there, bud..you gonna be alright

People need to remember that a breakup isn’t the end. I too, have just experienced a breakup. The pain is often overwhelming and it’s worse than I imagined. When I chose my spouse, I in effect, chose someone I could see myself with; my visions, qualities, and prospective. I didn’t lose my spouse. I lost what I essentially saw inside them, which in turn was me. So now that chapter has ended, I can look for all that I lost in someone new. I can heal from what broke me and move on with my life. My loss was certainly not a person, rather than everything I saw within that person. I’m sure I’ll repair my heart and find it again with someone whom deserves it.

@julianblake8385

5 жыл бұрын

Wish you the best, brother. Hope you are better and happy now.

@rethgual8227

4 жыл бұрын

Sneak Eagle I’m sorry for that :( hope you’re doing better now! I’m sending you lots of positive energy, things will get better 🙏🏻💫

@jckasugatan6810

Жыл бұрын

How are you?

@petermulders1501

Жыл бұрын

This is such a profound way of looking at a breakup. I feel exactly the same way, I haven't lost the other person, I've lost myself and my future that I had planned with that person

just remember time heals , take baby steps. You’re allowed to be hurt , allow yourself to cry don’t bottle up your feelings. But remind yourself that you are worthy , you matter , you don’t need that relationship to validate how amazing you are. Small steps and in time you will be fine ❤️

@Alve_2u

4 жыл бұрын

Abbie Cook thank you

@jumercolee4337

3 жыл бұрын

♥️

@MusiimentaMarion

8 ай бұрын

thanks alot for this ....

@PruthvirajYadav2309

2 ай бұрын

Hey any update pn your life?? Just curious

the loss of a romantic relationship will break your heart but you will heal.

Watch this at least 3 months after your break up because it will be hard to relate after ending a fresh relationship.

For anyone going through a break-up, what follows will help you and it goes like this, "Gotta along without you before I met you, gonna get along without you now". This is a line from a 60's song that helped me heal from a five year romance with a man that I loved very, very much. I had the melody and words of this song in my head almost by the minute for over two years. I finally stopped crying, started sleeping through the night again, began to find interest in life once more, including people. And yes, I did fall in love again.

@oscarwilliamson1264

3 жыл бұрын

Lena Muir,happy that you fall in love❤️ again

@pariyadav4334

2 ай бұрын

That's the hardest part for me to accept. Imagining a Life after them is difficult after you've imagined your future with them

Um my experience is the breakup is even worse than I could have possibly imagined. Yes you learn but doesn't mean it was better than expected.

@DrRisk01

8 жыл бұрын

Same here. :(

@VikitoSt

8 жыл бұрын

True! I think this guy is wrong!

@FogCityNative

8 жыл бұрын

I am right there with you. We were together 6 years. She was 60% amazing and 40% selfish narcissist. The narcissist stuff got to me. I was paying for everything. She had a great life and let me tag along. So I screwed things up. And I regret it. I still can't say anything good came out of the breakup other than having 2 years living in Barcelona and making some new friends. She ended it via e-mail and has refused all contact since. I have no idea what her life is like now. It's been 6 years since she left me. I have not been with anyone since. I don't date because I can't find anyone that wants to date me that I find attractive. She was 14 years younger and my soulmate. That is a hard act to follow. But she is a perfectionist and I am not perfect.

@sashamcqueen5972

8 жыл бұрын

Yeah. It's much worse than I thought.

@NicholasMusumeci

7 жыл бұрын

+Alexander McQueen For real, lol

Someone once told me after a hard breakup. “It does get better, I can guarantee that but it gets worse before it’s better” and that really hit me at the time. Put things into perspective i guess

@cabrondemente1

Жыл бұрын

It's always darkest before dawn.

I feel broken today and I'm looking forward to one day in the future when this doesn't hurt anymore.

@Sp33dGames

4 жыл бұрын

And when that day comes...ooooh boiiii

@jeremiah9117

4 жыл бұрын

I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

@justme-rt2cc

4 жыл бұрын

Emily Frances how do you feel now?

@emilyfrances349

4 жыл бұрын

@@justme-rt2cc It's difficult to say because it changes a lot. I see the person in question all the time, I spend a lot of time with them because it would be much worse if I didn't but that comes with a lot of pain, especially when they aren't hurting at all like I am. At the start, I just smoked loads of 'stuff' and went off the rails a bit but I feel a lot more in control now and I care about my life more which is definitely a positive. There's a dull sadness that exists a lot of the time and part of it is that I'm in the habit of thinking about them every day but on the whole I am doing better and can feel my heart healing and growing stronger. However, I stand by what I said in my previous reply a month ago which was that I have never felt pain and heartbreak like that before and I hope it is never that painful again, but I do think things are so much better.

@emilyfrances349

4 жыл бұрын

@@justme-rt2cc also thank you so much for asking xxx

I just got out of a very very toxic relationship that just had me crying in it most of the times. And even after its end i'm fully aware of the fact that what happened is actually something good for myself but the emotional attachment still kills me and is making it hard for me to be happy and live to the fullest.

@ROMI909

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that but are you single right now?

@joseeasselin-fightingms582

Жыл бұрын

I feel you. I let go too of a relationship that made me cry more than made me happy. It was the best thing that could happen to me. It was very hard at first even if I initiated the breakup. But I am feeling much better now. I hope you are doing better too ?

@petros-estin-petra-

Жыл бұрын

The fact that you use the word "toxic" in connection with relationship, shows me that you are the reason why it was "toxic". Never blame someone else for the problems that you caused yourself. Even if it's only 5% your fault.

its the worst feeling when you feel like you were the one holding them back, and they've moved on and are seemingly thriving while you're depressed, lost, feeling empty and just want them back in your life.

@jerrykane6798

3 жыл бұрын

I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

@jerrykane6798

3 жыл бұрын

He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯

@jerrykane6798

3 жыл бұрын

Whtsaap him**

@jerrykane6798

3 жыл бұрын

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@patriciapatfamily6605

3 жыл бұрын

I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you back for a second chance. He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours.

Soon as he said 'we need to talk' my heart sank.

Reading these comments, I feel like I've written them all myself. I feel the pain. Trust me. I do. I don't see this going away anytime soon....

@justme-rt2cc

4 жыл бұрын

Has it gone away yet?? Please tell me it has..I need something to look forward to..

@karina_004

2 жыл бұрын

hey i genuinely wanna know how r u rn after quite sometime. i went through a breakup w my bf whom i really cared about. sad to know he didnt think we would work out. its been an unbearable pain ever since

@adatbh

2 жыл бұрын

How are you now?

Mine was much worse than I thought it would be, loss of self, loss of connection, loss of identity. It keeps me going knowing the only way ill find out if there is someone better out there is to stick around and survive long enough to find out.

@rethgual8227

4 жыл бұрын

Michael J You’ve commented 2 years ago, how have you been ? I hope you’re fine now 🙏🏻 time heals wounds

@Arcticmj87

4 жыл бұрын

@@rethgual8227 The Scares have formed over, but continue to push through. Hope all continue to heal.

@rethgual8227

4 жыл бұрын

Michael J I wish you luck and send you lots of positive energy 🙏🏻🍀☀️! I recently went through a breakup as well, and I’m trying to get better ... it’s just hard especially because he has already found another girl, a prettier one ... I’m not gonna lie, I’m jealous of her but I know that we’ll never get back together again, the best thing I can do for myself is to move on and give myself the chance to meet someone new again, but the wounds are still fresh.

@Arcticmj87

4 жыл бұрын

@@rethgual8227 It gets worse before it gets better thats what I know.

@ellabrown4213

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Sorry for your pain am Ella can we chat more ?

It's only broken if you want it to be fixed back again. If not, and it's meant to be, then think of it as a development...

@mcjooz

7 жыл бұрын

thank you

@wokenepali8376

5 жыл бұрын

Wow, no. I hope you heal.

@sebabatsomosia3853

4 жыл бұрын

Wish it was this easy😢

I started bawling when he said "Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising everytime we fall."

When someone breaks up with you due to cheating or falling out of love It hurts, but I promise you it gets better... day by day slowly by slowly it really does get better!!!! And please don't go looking for a new relationship work on you and accomplish anything you never thought you could.

If someone leaves you suddenly it will leave you broken . But you do not stay broken you will heal if you do the right things.

I cannot connect with anything he is saying.... Because in my case he dumped me after a fight in 2 days and I was left baffled and for days I felt he is just angry. He had it all planned for a long time while I was sitting here reading articles about how to support him, how to improve communication in relationship, even after breakup he kept saying "we are not good for each other " while I was just seeing fights as something to work through as we always had. I used to put a lot of effort to understand his perspective and communication everytime there was a need and even the last fight was about why he is pushing me off nd not communicating properly. Gaslighting is real.

Going through a breakup right now, it happened two nights ago. I've been watching videos when I start to feel down. They help. I know it's a long run, I'm going to miss her very much but I think it's the best for the two of us. I hope to find strength while I go through this.

@010shubh

2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing? Just checking up on you.

I really wish all of us broken hearted find acceptance and inner peace...🙏❤🙏

@jeanclaudevandamme683

5 жыл бұрын

It might take time... Its hard.

@braveheart6808

5 жыл бұрын

@@jeanclaudevandamme683 I know...it's really difficult...but we can do this

If you'd have asked me during the relationship I'd have said it would be horrible, but also that I'd survive it. The real thing is so much worse than I'd ever have imagined, I can't escape from thinking about him, when I don't in the day I have nightmares over it. It was an incredibly toxic relationship and it's left me paranoid, untrusting, with low self esteem, and unable to love anyone, I don't think I've gained anything.

@user-ry7xh7fj5v

8 жыл бұрын

+Susan Mcauley But because you've experienced this I bet you are smarter. You probably missed lots of signs that showed your partner was abusive but now you know these signs. Because you went through this now you can help other people who are going through the same thing. And I bet now you know even more about what you want in a partner

@MaD1ck

7 жыл бұрын

+Sienna Barlow ty

@Emily1xox

6 жыл бұрын

how are you now?

@jasonfoth14

6 жыл бұрын

Susan McAuley update, did you ride the wave? Did you get through it?

@kaytescotland2900

6 жыл бұрын

You need self love....thats when you will know your decisiob was right

We are all in this together. To all the heartbroken, I feel you. We're all struggling but we're doing our best. You loved too much and now you're confused and disappointed. You didn't mean for it to end this way, you wanted nothing but to love and be loved back. It's not your fault. If you're feeling the same pain I am feeling, I am sorry and I understand

This hurts so much more than I imagined. She's the first and last thing on my mind everyday, and I truly thought we were perfect for each other. A week ago we were making plans for a trip to Italy, and then a few days later I'm here. I cannot wrap my head around it. I'm devastated...

@shindrithargriethrat8408

11 ай бұрын

How you holding up, brother?

@JasperPieterse

11 ай бұрын

@@shindrithargriethrat8408 It's a lot easier to get over her knowing she was in bed with another in a couple days/weeks. Doing great now. It's her loss, definitely not mine :)

@shindrithargriethrat8408

11 ай бұрын

@@JasperPieterse Good on you dude! It's better you found out sooner, rather than later.

@gracesanyu1466

6 ай бұрын

She wasn't worth,same thing am trying to tell myself just about now

Im going through a horrible separation. It can be said that I caused it in many ways, but my wife and friend of 12 years decided she wanted a break after a married guy (her boss) pretty much send his kids and wife away to be with her. Now she basically lives with him, ignores our two kids and is planning to get pregnant after knowing him for about 9 months. Sure I can explain the details but in the end when your spouse tells you they want "new and exciting" how can an old relationship compete? blame it on the bumps over the years, the little arguments but in the end some people just don't give a damn and decide to throw away something for something better in their eyes. UPDATE: 06/09/2022 Hi guys for those of you who wondered if I was still alive or just wondered what happened let me update ya! It was not easy getting back to normal at all, in fact things aren't the same today! The kids were affected my older daughter remembers her absence. My wife tries to over compensate even today I feel. For over a year after our separation we probably had intimacy 2 or 3 times total. A contrast of 2 or 3 times a week before our separation. I waved it off like shes probably trying to just co parent and so I felt like it was OK for the time (not healthy and very weird). She wanted to have another baby so after a while we had another little girl but she wanted a boy so a few years later we had finally had a boy! So we have 4 kids now! My oldest just Graduated HS and is ready for college, we are very proud! My conclusion we are together but things are not as things were and I love her and our family I do, but all things come to an end and if you force things you only prolong the inevitable. One thing I can tell you though, that separation helped me find myself! and love myself and who I am, my friends helped me realize happiness stars with you! and that you aren't alone just because one person does not want you anymore. I'm not scared to be alone (without a partner) I'm more scared of being with the wrong person! did I make the right choice getting back together? IDK......

@uppsala7347

8 жыл бұрын

+cmichael442 good luck

@uppsala7347

8 жыл бұрын

+cmichael442 have a hug

@uppsala7347

8 жыл бұрын

+Christopher Taylor oo

@patmurphy389

8 жыл бұрын

+cmichael442 .....(hugs))) depends on the psychological needs of both people, thinking or ending a relationship is never easy, someone always gets hurt, or both do, but your ex & her boss are showing a pattern of always searching, nothing really will be good enough for either of them in the long run..(grass is greener on the other side), well, it's sad she ignores the children, it's going to hurt her & the kids in the long run--that's not your fault-it's her choice-maybe counseling would help you, someone to talk to about what your going through. she should have divorced you first & then started the relationship(adult thing to do), childish. it's not either's fault-things just happen sometimes, people make mistakes-I would definately re-evaluate what you would do if she wants to get back together w/you--have an ear for your children/understanding when they talk w/you & spend time w/them & your own hobbies ect.

@AmberAmber

8 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry 💔

I think this video put me in a worse place. I was very happy with my relationship, but I think I was weighing my partner down. This video just made me see how the breakup was probably a burden of her shoulders and how she's doing better without me while I'm still hurting

"When your relationship doesn't help you become a better person, ending it does." Spot on exactly what I needed to hear. This whole Ted talk is great, but that quote really stood out. I like that this is scientific yet light hearted. Also, your stick figures are glorious haha

@renemckeown7808

4 жыл бұрын

Mick Kealohilani yes. I love that too.

Day 2 of my very first breakup. I’m so lost and scared guys

@junaidesse

4 жыл бұрын

How are you now 💚

@melissab2991

2 жыл бұрын

@@junaidesse haha I was completely happy after 7 months. But now I'm here again, day 1 of my 3rd break up haha

Can you imagine being heartbroken and then going to answer surveys about your heartbreak to researchers

this really isnt that kinda video where it uplifts you. i feel worse

@napstablook3935

7 жыл бұрын

me too, he is just favoring the people who felt happy about breaking up, but usually those people are the ones that dumped someone and the other 30% that said it was a negative thing, are the ones who got dumped.... and the ones that suffer the most

@debrakelly1256

5 жыл бұрын

This wasn't even slightly helpful.

@llwk78

5 жыл бұрын

Same. It made me feel like the ex was the one who was happy and freed from my negativity, like it was all one sided.

@butterflydoll3123

4 жыл бұрын

It worked for me. I feel better 😀

@MrTripleXXX

4 жыл бұрын

Tell me about it.

Breakups have sent me into some of the darkest places I’ve ever been. My heart goes out to anyone watching this video trying to get through a breakup. My only advice is to use this time to seek your purpose in this world. Call out to god and ask for the truth to be revealed to you. He has a plan for you, no matter how low you’re feeling right now.

Who else is watching this because you just broke up..........

@monarcamile9216

3 жыл бұрын

Hello lovely I will introduce you to the same Relationship restorer who attracted my ex back to me within 48 hours.. He can also help you to reunite back with your ex real quick.

@monarcamile9216

3 жыл бұрын

What sapp him

@monarcamile9216

3 жыл бұрын

+2349066185737🙏🏾🙏🏾

I don't like the joke about "how many of you survived your breakup?" Lots of people have killed themselves over a lost loved. Obviously they're not going to be there raising their hand.

@smpoinde

5 жыл бұрын

"Survivorship bias"

@Missalexkennedy

5 жыл бұрын

Sarah N. I also got very upset and did not think it was anything to joke about. I personally ended up hospitalized after two suicide attempts and my children did not come out unscathed either. There are various levels of experience and more people need to understand that it is common and not “crazy” to have heartbreak destroy your life.

@Najmalhulwa

5 жыл бұрын

Sarah N. Sense of humour.

@lauraroeter7590

5 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing when he asked that question.

@gneminerift7485

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao

I have never related to anything less in my life than listening to this talk.

@jeremiah9117

4 жыл бұрын

I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

Were the large group of people that were happy after a break up the "breakers"? I think the more depressed group of people that are going through a break up are the ones who thought they were in a relationship only to discover they were being used to cheat on someone else with (happened to me) It was much more devastating (for me) to discover that I was a "side-piece" and that nothing was legit. Not only is finding out the truth excruciatingly painful, but having one's time squandered is truly infuriating.

Just broke up with my first love and I feel like offing myself. She was the most amazing girl ever and it was honestly my fault, I gave her too much affection and it overwhelmed her ultimately pushing her away. She’ll always have a special place in my heart as my first love and it’s hurts to let her go

@lukesymbaluk

5 жыл бұрын

nutonmychoppa feels bro

@yachnachauhan

3 жыл бұрын

darling, she was not ready, just accept it!

@Jon_Snow_88

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you’re doing okay man

@doejohn7548

2 жыл бұрын

Going through the same thing man hope you doing good bro

@marco-ck4ni

2 жыл бұрын

@@doejohn7548 honestly my girl problems haven’t gotten any better since than but i did eventually get over her, if u wanna talk about how you’re feeling you can hmu on my IG: marcobaptiste. i’m here for you brotha

I am writing this comment for my future self: I know you suffer today, she broke up and left you with many regrets, you feel empty, alone, not able to enjoy the things you once enjoyed doing by yourself, but hear me out: that's your superpower, you can enjoy your time, you are capable of being happy by yourself and your future girlfriend should just make you HAPPIER. Learn from your mistakes, rediscover your deepest self, enjoy the time with your family and friends and have some faith in you. You will never know what the future holds, but I have a feeling that your future girlfriend will make you feel things much deeper than your ex ever managed to make you feel. Good luck and take care of you as you always did!

"when your relationship doesnt help you become a better person ending it does"

I'm watching a Ted talk about break ups when I've just broken up with Ted lol

@ocriodain

8 жыл бұрын

great comment stay strong the sun will shine again

@DaliborBradvic

7 жыл бұрын

+Sadik Meah I just made my glass better ...

@DaliborBradvic

7 жыл бұрын

Nah, I felt bad when drinking from that glass ... I know what you mean, and you are 100% right ...

@sayemulkarim3217

7 жыл бұрын

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@Charataee

7 жыл бұрын

Lauren P They fucking suck haha

i need someone to listen to this.. i was with a guy for almost 3 years.. but we dated before that. so ive known him for 4 years..and i loved this man. i still do... but we broke up about a week and a half ago.. and i ended things because he "doesnt know" what he wants.. he didnt know if he loved me.. and i tried giving him space.. but it just hurt me in the end because i knew things werent getting better.. he started ditching me all the time, making excuses not to hangout. and he would always ignore me and make me feel sorta of like shit.. yes we would fight.. but we would always make up. now we're broken up and he is being an ass to me.. he doesnt want to hear about me.. we ended on bad terms.. and i feel crazy for not getting all this through my head. i know i deserve better.. but its so hard. he was the love of my life. My BEST FRIEND. i dk how to move on.. idk how to feel.. i just start ro shake and freak out and i wish i could be happy.. going out with friends doesnt always help. i feel like I'll never find someone who knows im special. i feel like ill never learn to be happy single.. im just so scared and i wake up crying all the time. idk whats wrong with me.

@MrsLTic

8 жыл бұрын

I'm in the same boat, but we were together 7 years. Keep up. It will get better.

@johndee759

7 жыл бұрын

Time will heal your wounds.

@RichardPariath

7 жыл бұрын

Listen... you gotta get him out of your life.. what i did was write an email.. a final email.. say everything you wanted to say to him but in a good way.. bid him goodbye in that email and accept this fact that it wasn't meant to be.. i've been in your situation.. infact just last month.. this is your final chance.. believe me you gotta let it out ...

@johndee759

7 жыл бұрын

Richard Pariath I would write the email to yourself. Time will heal your wounds. Later in life you'll look back and might just laugh about it. Remember, in life people will meet again. Invest in yourself, become a better you and you'll be happier. Now is your time to improve without any compromises. Work out, educate yourself, advance in your career and give back. Along this process you'll become a better you. We are awesome and lucky to be born in a developed country. We have food to eat, a roof over our heads and we know how exciting it is to wake up every morning.

@RichardPariath

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you johndee759 : )

I hope i come back to testify how i'm better and in a good place. God please. This hurts too much

I almost start crying while Ted was speaking because I never talked about my break up. It was a decision that had to be made. He just wasn't willing to make the sacrifice to make me feel secure, and safe in the relationship. And, I believed his decision hurt me more than the breakup.

@leahandtabi1

3 жыл бұрын

this is where I am. I broke up with him but it didn’t feel like my choice.

I never thought I’d be watching these videos. I never thought I’d lose my bestfriend. It feels unbearable. 5 freaking years

@jerrykane6798

3 жыл бұрын

I recommend you to a man who can bring back your ex within 3three days without delay ❤️❤️❤️

@jerrykane6798

3 жыл бұрын

He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯

@jerrykane6798

3 жыл бұрын

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@jerrykane6798

3 жыл бұрын

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@allanharo427

2 жыл бұрын

Me too, it’s my first day with it. How do you feel now after 8 months?

This is Duuuuumb!!! Yes 41% of people have a positive experience with a break up because 50% are going to be the ones doing the breaking up. Duh! Here are the very basics that this guy somehow overlooks. There are two people in each relationship. So one will be the Dumper and one will be the Dumpee. It is possible for a break up to be mutual, but my experience is that a person generally relates, on some level, with one of these two roles. The Dumper makes the decision to end it some time before they tell the Dumpee. They are ready, yes they are looking forward and moving on quickly. They have all the power in this situation. They will probably have a "Celebration Breakup," whatever that is. Maybe we can call it a "Betrayal Party" instead.. They quickly discard their partner in favour of another partner or another lifer. So what about the Dumpee? "Celebration Breakup?' No? Why not? you are free from the hassles of a relationship. You are now free to live by yourself, totally alone, sitting, wondering for hours and hours on end, "What happened to my life?" If you are the Dumpee it can be a looooong road back to feeling like a normal human again. This is what I thought he was going to talk about. He could have told us, for instance, how to hasten the healing process. Or perhaps, how we can find peace and move on. Perhaps, he might share some techniques to salve the sting of being rejected by the person we were trying to build a life with. Also, I take extreme offence to the "joke" when you asked the audience if they had survived a breakup. I have known several people who either took their owns lives because of a breakup, or never recovered their sense of worth after a breakup. So the "joke" isn't that funny at all.

@granjuas

7 жыл бұрын

chris meadows you know more than the dougebag at Ted bro. thank you. btw I am a Dumpee looking for help.

@riadas2561

6 жыл бұрын

Loved ur take on it. You are 100% right. Thanks man!!

@julietadominguez3769

6 жыл бұрын

I don´t agree, this kind of comments are the ones that represent the people who listen only what they want to hear and want others to give them the answer.

@XA--kp2lj

6 жыл бұрын

I am a dumpee too

@inspirationaltarot876

6 жыл бұрын

Great point

I am in the middle of a divorce. I was with my husband for 21 years. The pain is fresh, so this video is helpful.

@chynnhowe

6 жыл бұрын

Hope Martin 21 years, goodness gracious. That has to be so incredibly painful. How are you doing 2 years in?

@celybbx4340

5 жыл бұрын

I can I message you? I’m going through the same and feel lost

@justme-rt2cc

4 жыл бұрын

Cely Bbx and now a year later? How are you doing?

@doris-ct9bt

4 жыл бұрын

21 years. Been there. It was very painful. Fast forward 4 years later I am please with the person I have become. Gory to God.

@rethgual8227

4 жыл бұрын

Katie Murphy Hey, I’ve seen your comments! Are you also going through a break up right now?

How can you be positive when your girlfriend dumps you and begins dating another guy the same day?

@patmurphy389

8 жыл бұрын

+Alex Tomczuk ......think to yourself-good riddance? thank god that other guy helped me & showed me her true self?

@Tomchuckk

8 жыл бұрын

+pat murphy you got that right! Definitely seeing all the good that comes from what is usually considered a sad situation. Time is an ally in the healing process.

@kerrycavanaugh11

8 жыл бұрын

You can't be if you're human. Even though I hated when people said this to me when my heart was broken but time will heal your hurt. It took me so long to feel good again, that I thought I never get through the nightmare. I was wrong and one day I woke up and he wasn't the first thing on my mind and eventually he was virtually never on my mind. What I'm trying to say to you is right now "the woman you love" already has a boyfriend, will eventually become "That girl I use to love, was so shallow that she hooked up with someone the day after we broke up. Wow, I really dodged a bullet." I'm sorry she hurt you but please believe me when I say to you that you will find someone who you deserve and who deserves you. I did, so I know.💞

@hollygril

6 жыл бұрын

Alex Tomczuk she simply doesn't deserve you...

@tiffanyshepherd6592

6 жыл бұрын

Ohmy that is so terrible...she's not a nice person

unsurprising close to half people dont have such negative feelings, takes at least one person to finish a relationship..

@sashamcqueen5972

8 жыл бұрын

exactly!

@annemt

7 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@LeeKnowsCatss

7 жыл бұрын

ikr?? When my boyfriend left me I told him I wished I'd never met him because of how much pain I was in. He was hurt and said he didn't feel that way, and I was like no shit you didn't have your heart broken

@KayCAO890

7 жыл бұрын

I broke up with my girlfriend and I can definitely say that I am absolutely torn to pieces. It's not always as simple as you think.

@bhow1149

6 жыл бұрын

Casey Offer I broke up with my boyfriend and I'm the same. How are you now?

18 years, I haven't eaten anything for 3 days. Not going to get through this. and now she's staying with my ex-wife of 17years. at her house. I'm so fkd. it's sick. my mind is racing. this person owned my heart 18 years.

@meriembarkaoui3828

5 жыл бұрын

Larrys P3PRO i hope you’re feeling better now

@28021914

3 жыл бұрын

Has it got any better?

Been a little over a month since my fiancé told me over the phone that it wasn't gonna work out. A little over 3 weeks since I cut it off with my ex, and 5 days since I last had to see him. I feel much better about the break-up; creating distance & resisting the urge to check up on them, surrounding yourself with supportive friends & family, picking up healthy new hobbies, and just overall filling in the voids with love & positivity is the way to healing faster. I learned a lot from this experience, most importantly accepting the fact that this person was not the one for me.

It's been a month of my very first break up....everyday seems worse..the pain deepens and I feel like I'm going crazy....I wish I had someone to talk to about it...I hate this feeling 😭😭

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4 жыл бұрын

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It's been 15 years and it still stings like the moment it happened.

Dumped 3 days ago by someone I thought I’d marry. Never hurt like this in my life.

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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@mmsandov

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your disappointment. Today I broke up with someone I loved and hoped to marry. I know what you are going through. The pain is deep and raw. I send you love and light in your time of healing. Stay strong...❤

@FuzzyAason

2 жыл бұрын

@@mmsandov How are you coping right now...? Is it better...? I got dumped without proper reason. I am reeling in pain.

I’m hurting. Me and my girl are going through it and I feel as though we are broken. I love her and it hurts so bad. I have never felt this way. I feel alone and shattered.

If you are hurt, take comfort in the fact that your grief is love in another form; therefore you can love and you can love deep. When he broke up with me yesterday he didn’t cry, he just wanted to leave because he couldn’t bare to see me crumble because of how much I loved him. He’s going to think of me asking for one last kiss for the rest of his life and the fact I loved him so much through everything will haunt him. Time will heal you, and time will bring joy. Stay hopeful and NEVER let them see that you can’t live without them. You will feel like that for a while, but a better and greater love will come along and put gold on those scars your past lover left on you.

Its been a year after we broke up but i still get those nightmares. I know ive moved on but everytime i am alone i start to think about it and my heart still hurts. Those times when he dumped me makes me feel like i dont want to go through breakup again nor do i want to fall in love again.

My ex and I enjoyed almost all the same interests and hobbies....so there're no "rediscovery of self" going on here in my post breakup life.

@leialliaasmr

2 жыл бұрын

oh my god , same . I can't bring myself to even look at the stuff i used to enjoy. How is it for you now, did it get better? did you manage to pick up your hobbies again

@kirankarani7457

Жыл бұрын

I'm in the same place and have the same questions!

I literally can't find any comfort whatsoever watching these videos. I'm so lost, life has no meaning anymore.

@michellereeves9316

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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@michellereeves9316

3 жыл бұрын

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what happens when you feel like you were in a relationship that built you up and made you feel happy and fulfilled just to find out your partner has been feeling the opposite way. it was 4 years and i had no idea he always seemed so happy to me, I guess I'm just really struggling to understand. he says he still loves me but its killing me because he can never love me how I deserve although I felt like he was supooetive loving and caring towards me):

@AlisonBSL

7 жыл бұрын

lareessahhh snap! Was with my ex for 4 years and he also said he couldnt love me the way I deserved to be loved. I have no idea what that means, but it was his decision. 5 weeks on and I feel so much happier. Yes I miss him but that's not too surprising. I have taken myself on a path of self rediscovery. Started doing all the things I loved but didn't do with him. And yeah it's hard at times when you want to reach out to him, but I have reconnected with friends, made new ones. Got my mojo back and it will get easier! I have gone for full no contact. Although we still see each other on passing, but don't talk. I have been told he is keeping tabs on me which annoyed me at first, but ultimately, that's his choice. I choose to move forward with my life. I hope you can do the same too 💖

@sallychui8759

6 жыл бұрын

lareessahhh exactly the same thing happened to me... He used to tell his friends about my flaws and the pain he's feeling from the relationship... He never used to communicate to me... I warned him of that but he didn't listen...he just went...

Well this made me feel worse.. “She’s back to the person she needed to be”, yeah... without us together.

Interesting for sure. I've never actually been in a real relationship before, and I'm 40. Maybe it's because I had trauma when I was younger, or grew up feeling rejected. I really couldn't say. The one thing that I do know for sure is that it feels really good to not have to be responsible for anyone else but myself. If you think about it, that could be a huge advantage. I do however feel sad sometimes when I see fathers playing with their kids or couples doing fun activities together. Perhaps one day the stars will align. Until they do, I'm enjoying thinking on a deeper level, and watching self improvement material like these Ted Talks.

when you truly love someone and they keep disappointing you over and over and over again!

@gregcarter2433

2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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@artispabriks2951

2 жыл бұрын

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My breakup made my anxiety and depression all time high. i felt lonely and lost and it felt like it wasnt me anymore. but i am trying hard to bring me back before him.

I broke up with him three months ago, and his birthday is in two days... it kills me knowing that this person despises me, hates me and wants to pretend as if I never existed, when we spent 4 years of our lives being in love and trying to make this relationship work... I just want my heart to be at peace again, and wake up without feeling constant sadness in my heart.

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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@isabellajames157

2 жыл бұрын

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I learned a lot from my past relationship. It taught me how I would like to be loved and treated in my next relationship. It made me become a better person because my last partner held me back from my true self.

My partner broke up with me only a few days ago 28th April this year, we were together for 2 and a half years, this is one of the hardest and most painful thing I've ever been through, I'm finding it hard to accept the fact it is over, I wish them all the best in life. I'm not sure how I will ever recover, hopefully I do, this Ted-talk has helped me understand I need to re-build myself and I can use this pain or life experience as we all go through in order to grow as a person and re-discover myself again. At the moment I am like a little boat in the middle of a big storm, fighting my way through the rough seas. (Ryan, 2nd May)

@rajanmoore

29 күн бұрын

I feel your pain bro. It's a long process but you will get over it. Focus on yourself, hit the gym, eat well. Keep busy. My ex broke up with me on the 2nd Jan. I still get that sinking feeling now and again but I just try to think about how far I've come since. It gets better

@lausvi14

14 күн бұрын

I’m over here feeling horrible over a breakup of 5 months. Got broken up with before just this Valentine’s Day, even though I was put through a lot emotionally and still tried to fight for the relationship. I know time heals and I’ve learned it’s okay to have cherished those past experiences - self discovery is the greatest gift. Sometimes instead of taking it as rejection we can look at it through a lens of redirection for the better of our lives, but wishing you the best.

@angeliqueneumann4828

11 күн бұрын

How are doing now? Fresh for me and I’m in agony

@ryanjackson3777

9 күн бұрын

@@angeliqueneumann4828 Its been a month now, it is still painful, some days are better than others, I still think about her a lot, and ruminate on things but I realise I shouldn't dwell on those things as they don't matter anymore. I understand that time heals, and I have to let the emotions come and go and not be reactionary to the emotions and just sit with them and let them pass. With time I need to find peace, I have been doing some mindful meditation to calm myself. it will take me a while to get over her, I will need at least 6 months in solitude, I know not to rebound as that will confuse me further and is not healthy. Just trying to find peace at the moment. To summarise I am doing better than how I felt when we broke up the first month is supposed to be the toughest to deal with emotionally, so just ride the emotions out and try to relax. I have been doing hobbies that I lost during the relationship with my ex, like playing guitar and also finding new hobbies like reading etc. this helps rediscover yourself again, to summarize you where able to live a life before you met your ex so you should be fine living without them.

@ryanjackson3777

8 күн бұрын

@@angeliqueneumann4828 Its been over 3 weeks almost a month now and it is still painful.

I am here today, now. Girlfriend of 5 years told me she wants to breakup. I agree,with her, I will not beg her to stay…….. Then she changes her thoughts and wants to work it out. Next day she texts me “pleas call me”. Now she wants to break up. We have awesome memories. I am sorry but, I have to face what’s ahead. Here is the point now, that I have been leading up. We were both 59 when we started dating, at age 64 it feels hard to get back out into the dating world. I was really hoping I had found the partner for the rest of my life. So my thoughts while I am writing this…..let’s get started, I am thinking positively. Hoping to meet the girl of my dreams in the next 6 months and have an awesome experience

I feel broken. .

This has completely changed my mindset. I love humans, I love life, I am so happy to be here. Everyone in this comment section deserves happiness and it will come, that I am sure.

I genuinely loved him and I thought he loved me. In the end, I received one final lecture, and was told to give him a reason why he should stay, because he didn't think I'd be able to do what he wanted me to do, he had lost faith. He gave up months ago, and I should've seen that. I found out, last night, that he never had faith in me in the first place. He gave me an ultimatum, he gave me a month to fix it, and I got not even three days. He told me that he had prepared to not be heartbroken, to not be sad, and to not let the breakup 'ruin his college experience' He was prepared, I was not. I am devastated. I was made to think it was all my fault. And it may be, but I was able to go to my family and I'm already receiving comfort and sympathy -- I can't see when I'll fully be over it, but I do know it was best and that I'll be happier overall. But I just don't feel that relief. I just wish I tried more, lived up to his expectations. I tried as hard as I could, went against my disorders and made myself better for him, and it still wasn't enough. He said that he loved me, but he can't live with me dragging him down emotionally. In his eyes it IS my fault. And I'm pretty sure he'll always see it that way, and never see my view. In the end, all he cared about was his image and that I wouldn't talk poorly about him and think he was the best relationship I had. He cared if I was pregnant, and told me it would ruin our lives if I was. I didn't matter to him, and neither did my emotions.

@bayarearealestatebymegan

2 жыл бұрын

You will survive this, just like millions that have gone through this. U don’t need his validation to get what you need to be. Have a little faith in yourself. Think of times that you have achieved a hard earned goal, start writing them and read them out loud. How is that to prove him wrong? I have been in your shoes but I continuously work on myself and yes I have times of doubt and moments that I cry my heart out. But life is full of lessons. Be your best friend and cheer on your successes.

I broke up with the father of my kids after 10yrs and although it was toxic, it was all I knew. It's been hard to start all over

Everything is cold 💔 Feeling my head is cold but my heart is burning!! Im in deep pain..

Anyone going through a hard time right now just know you're not alone. No matter what has happened in the past, someone will see the value in you because you're enough. I promise, sometimes we just miss our soul mate. Stay strong peeps

@michellereeves9316

3 жыл бұрын

There is a powerful love doctor I'd like you to contact, He helped me restore My ex back after 3years of breakup

@michellereeves9316

3 жыл бұрын

He offers the best solution In fixing broken relationships Msg me via whtsap messenger If you need his contact

@michellereeves9316

3 жыл бұрын

+1 (325) 242-9499🇺🇸

Almost 4years in the making. He lost feelings. And, worst of all, there’s no changing his mind. I am still so stupidly, madly in love with him.

The scariest thing is when you start going down a self destructive path. I've never done that before and it terrified me, but I snapped out of it after a lot of reflection and I'm going to get better.