WOW - "The only person you should be afraid of losing is yourself". WOW.

@lsummer7702

3 жыл бұрын

Amen to this sis 🙏🥺

"Addicted to being in pain because it is more comfortable than the unknown"... Mind blown!!

@DonaldGerbino

2 жыл бұрын

Yes it's so true ,life is neither good or bad it's all how you frame it all ,I will say life IS good and live that way

@patris6447

2 жыл бұрын

This hit the right spot 🥺

@patrickstogsdill74

2 жыл бұрын

I got so worn out by relationship failure I've been single for almost 4 years and I might say single a while more longer until I well more into my 30s

@dianeibsen5994

Жыл бұрын

Can you tell me what addicted to pain is or looks like are you talking about being in a really abusive relationship? like overtly abusive relationship?

Sometimes you don't really know you are living a miserable life until you break up and finally see the light and potential that's in you

@tauraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. I never realised how miserable my situation was until I read this comment. I was more upset about my breakup ending after 2.5 years, and only now just realised that the 2.5 years was the miserable part about it all, now im free. Thank you so much

You cannot win the battle, with people who are with war with themselves

@24POWERS

3 жыл бұрын

Hmm Kanye West told me that

@88marig

3 жыл бұрын

This line alone gave me such peace...

@therights6794

3 жыл бұрын

You’re exactly right my friend.

@hermelinaramos6087

3 жыл бұрын

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@nadraosman5222

3 жыл бұрын

Those words are what I need hear hear ❤️

I shed a couple of tears while watching this video. She's right.. I could never win a battle with a person having war with himself.

@nehagupta8473

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely happened the same thing with me with my ex.... He was so so so un-healed ... And he kept bleeding on me... May God give him peace

It hurts to exist, I feel like I might die. How could he do this to me Edit: it’s almost been 2 months now and I’ve never felt happier. I’m so glad that he’s gone ❤️

@montserratzuniga9007

3 жыл бұрын

I totally understand what u feel. My bf told me 11 days ago he didn’t love me anymore and wasn’t happy after a year and a half. It’s so painful and your body takes a toll but I promise each day it gets a little bit better. Your gonna be ok ❤️

@diyakaiser1074

3 жыл бұрын

@@montserratzuniga9007 🥺❤️

@danielarodriguez9701

3 жыл бұрын

I'm feeling the same way, but I have trust it's going to get better

@diyakaiser1074

3 жыл бұрын

@@danielarodriguez9701 it does get better ❤️

@TheAwesomeOne533

3 жыл бұрын

You’re called for greater. You deserve more. He wasn’t the one. Trust the process ❤️

“Sometimes you need to have rage to have courage, the word rage is literally in the word couRAGE” DAMN

@b12soccerlover

2 жыл бұрын

COeUR-RAGE (Heart-Rage)

@DonaldGerbino

2 жыл бұрын

Constructive rage can be good ,as long as its not destructive, don't hurt yourself to get back at others

@dianeibsen5994

Жыл бұрын

@@DonaldGerbino what is constructive rage look like?

@dianeibsen5994

Жыл бұрын

@@b12soccerlover have you had this and how did you deal with it?

Rules of breaking up to break through - 1. Be afraid of losing yourself - as in do not lose yourself. 2. You can lie to yourself but your body won’t lie to you. Can you white knuckle your way to success? You might try but that’s just lying to yourself. 3. Drop what you think is going to make you happy and be what you are - kind, confident, hard working. 4. What does my heart want to give? It doesn’t want to be alone. 5. What is a talent that you can break up with? Self-doubt and procrastination. 6. What can that be replaced by? What can bring you a step closer? Working hard, even if it’s at my 85%, everyday. ❤️ Thank you for this talk.

@ZReLiSh42

3 жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this. Thank you

@abbeygibb6830

3 жыл бұрын

What absolutely BEAUTIFUL takeaways! Thank you for watching and commenting. It really means the world. Love, Abbey

@SWATISHARMA-ci9uq

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this insight 🙏

@reneegardener8489

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@valariejeruto7861

3 жыл бұрын

*babascove* on Instagram helped me to cast a spell of love on my fiancee and since then, he has been loving me more than before and never thouht of leaving me. To cut the long story short, he proposed marriege to me. I recommend babascove for his wonderful doings and for love spell

Omg “it’s a lot easier to be miserable then uncertain” those words landed in my spirit. Thank you for such a powerful and real talk! 🙏🏼💜

@tracyspencer1674

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

I felt guilty when she said “some of you are addicted to pain”

This was so beautiful, I am going through a break up now and I will get a break through.

@billysummers7683

3 жыл бұрын

Many blessings to you all well get where we need to be

@christinemitchell8755

3 жыл бұрын

Me too and o been married for 16 years to my husband 2 military deployments and 4 children . I know it's for the best but it hurts more than ever before.

@gabbycalloway4752

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. We will break through and grow from this break up!

@anonymous-mg8bo

3 жыл бұрын

@@billysummers7683 same sending lots of healing energy

@maritzame.9508

3 жыл бұрын

Im not sure but its quite possible that I have been broken up with but I dunno he was supposed to come by and we where to do something but then he came by though we d I didn't see eachother and he is dealing with alot though last night I stated that treat me as the woman I am and do all the cool things you'd like to do with me in the positive... I guess it I s what it is. Ge is battling himself. I stated the same comfortable Kaos becomes second nature... I know how to deal with this situation that I grew accustomed to.. though some things that are good and foreign we becomes scary

So painful to watch. Going through a breakup right now, It hurts to even exist!!!

@ericjoy6709

3 жыл бұрын

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@ericjoy6709

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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@diltiaza5682

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that how are u now??

I like the energy she gives throughout the whole speech

This talk is 🔥 ! The energy, the authenticity and the creativity are unmatched. And the content is inspiring and practical at the same time. I really appreciate the practical steps because it helped me apply the concepts to my life. Mark my words, this one's going to help a lot of people! Welcome to the TEDx alumni my friend, where life change happens one person, one moment, one message at a time.

@uaebifvideo5472

3 жыл бұрын

Well said,Darryll !!👍🌹

@feliciadawnauthor

3 жыл бұрын

Darryll Stinson I just went to the bottom of this video’s comment section and sort of regret it. There are some hateful people out there but you… I appreciate you. Saw your talk about rejection and reframing it. Oh my gosh anyway. I try and remember that the most hateful among us are afraid. And I try to give them love and kindness. But sometimes I cannot rise above and I just cannot tolerate intolerance and that hatefulness. Maybe because I’ve had too much of it in my life. I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ what I do know is that my strength is often made of the weakness I refuse to show the world. I think it’s that way a lot of the time for a lot of people. I wonder if it’s that way with the hatful and intolerant.

I am going through break up, I started working out, reading, jogging and going in-wards. Every day I read out loud this text from Dune, like a praying. "I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain." Basically I am working o releasing what I cannot control, use key motos, go and jogg in places where there is nature and quiet, read something that you really like. I am feeling better by the day, every time I have bad thoughts I put myself into question, hate(fear) is fuel for the pain and if you let it take hold it festers like a disease. Cut off social media, resist the temptation of cheking the other person, she will call you and you must not put yourself(emotionally) into the memento, practice stoicism and love yourself.

@brightdaysaheadofUs

2 жыл бұрын

I love this Jose!

@alohagoodies

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this. I’m going through a sudden breakup, blindsided out of nowhere 5 years. 😢 I screenshotted your comment and am saving it.

I am from Idaho Falls Idaho...who is this woman?? I never needed a TED Talk so much in my life and I'm at home in Idaho Falls (not a big town) heartbroken during the holidays...I had a studio in Downtown LA and I was miserable. Going onto my next steps and needed this message. Wild how certain messages come to you at the times you need it most. Thank you, Abbey!

You cannot win battles with people who are at war with themselves ❤️

@tracyspencer1674

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

I am healing chronic illness as well. I got sick when I was at least 19 or younger and I'm now 55. It's a blessing "in some ways" that people don't get sick until they're older. I know going to doctor after doctor after doctor.. So much courage so much rage I love the cou-rage. Very good to hear 🙏💝

Im crying rn this really touched me. Wow I loved this

Being miserable at a point is better than being uncertain, forever! To all,suffering from every unpleasant situation...it's time to Break Through!

Thank you for this, I just got broken up with. Gotta find somewhere to live and just starting again feels so scary. I know I will be okay although right now I’m living in a nightmare.

@diyakaiser1074

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. It hurts to exist but I know it’s gonna be okay.

@bmca6892

3 жыл бұрын

You will be ok,push through that fear you will get to the other side,love yourself like no one else...your heart will mend and you will grow again.stay safe one love 💙

@diyakaiser1074

3 жыл бұрын

@@bmca6892 it’s been a week now, it’s only getting better❤️

@bmca6892

3 жыл бұрын

Mine is going on 4 months,toxic abusive relationship should be illegal “well they are in a way” but never look back,never look into the future we only have today,one day at a time,you’ve got this ❤️💪🏻✌️

@maritzame.9508

3 жыл бұрын

@@bmca6892 hmm?? Tell me why have you been still toying with the person that you Know That You Are Crazy in Love with? You are not being truthful towards yourself nor that person.. stop the torture of your own heart and playing games with your mind as well.. your going to loose something good and won't realize tell there gone

A really great talk and the speaker genuinely spoke from her heart and her experiences.

I was breaking up yesterday with him, now I'm breaking up with myself to breakthrough

Thank you for being vulnerable and being willing to share your pain.

A remarkable Spirit: rebuilding her life post relationship physical abuse; rebuilding her biology post Lyme Disease diagnoses; and becoming more and more successful, as she reaches out to others, and helps them become successful media personalities themselves. Thank you Abbey, most inspiring! -kt

@abbeygibb6830

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and commenting. It really means the world. Love, Abbey

Going through a break up right now and I get it what she means by breaking up with myself, I need to let go to the known and step into the unknown and stay hopeful.

@neti5279

2 жыл бұрын

@Gods Time I keep getting this number, got it from about 6 people, all saying the same story, smth smells fishy.

I am trying to write a smart comment. Instead, I invite everyone to walk this fantastic talk, as words can't do justice. Great job, Abbey! Proud to say I've met you at Sage's event earlier this year.

@abbeygibb6830

4 жыл бұрын

Oh Raluca!! Thank you thank you thank you for this support

Thank you so much for this. I just found it at the right time! “When my face hit the floor” was my final straw!

Thank you for speaking up on behalf of many we don't see. I was horrified to hear about Superbowl incident, and staff comment about almonds, and facepunch by drunk boyfriend, Lyme pain and fog. I like the analogy of standing on "no's" (setting boundaries).

I’m from IF girl Leaving was the best thing I ever did. So motivating to see someone from my hometown, with similar life experiences and goals, achieving big things!

Thank you Abby for your honesty and your energy.

Beautiful message!!! I never comment on any of these, but this one really spoke to my heart!

Thank you Abby. I am healing after 5 years of mcas. You are an inspiration. Thank you

Everything she said... truth. Thank you so much for this video!! Much appreciated.

One of the best Ted talk I have heard 😍😍

@abbeygibb6830

3 жыл бұрын

That means sooo much! THANK YOU!

This is so valuable!💗 Thank you Abbey🙏🏾

She has an energy about her that is just so inspiring! And the topics she touch on are just spot on.

One of the best! We may have different stories of breakup, but we are all one journey to breakthrough!! Let's go!

This was undoubtedly the most helpful and down to earth TeD talk I ever heard. Thank you for your candor in sharing your pain and triumph over your painful history.

This was absolutely phenomenal and appeared on my feed at a perfect time in my life. Thank You.

I love her energy!

Thank u so much.I really needed this talk right now in my life. I am sure like me a lot of people going through difficult times will find a perspective.

@adirk2156

3 жыл бұрын

hope everything is alright with you now

@snigdhaparui2558

3 жыл бұрын

@@adirk2156 thank u 😊

@MrKhatibu

3 жыл бұрын

Me , thus s im here to get advice

One of the best talks ever !!!!

wow! I think that was the most heartfelt and beautifully tragic talk I have ever seen. Thank you Abby, you have touched me just the way you must hope to do with your story and the way you share it . May you always be you . Again, thank you .

Great talk on finding the blessings and opportunities in our challenges! Brave, vunerable and filled with wisodm and insight!

@abbeygibb6830

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you oh so much for your kind words and for watching my talk. It means the world

Thank you so much for this one , sending you lots of good energy

Thank you for this talk. Love your vulnerability and you openness. Very good lessons shared!🤗🤗🥰

The most amazing talk on Ted, I heard so far.

Thank YOU, ABBY!♡

Excellent talk! She spoke truth of my current situation and demonstrated real challenges she went through. That really made me feel encouraged.

Love TEDx talks. Helping so much right now.

This has changed me. I can feel it.❤️

Definitely my top ted talks❤️

I loved this talk! Thank you Abbey! You are a beautiful and inspiring soul! God bless! 🙏🏼👏❤️🌈

Break up to break through. Love it!

@abbeygibb6830

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all the amazing encouragement my friend

Saving this and listening to it every morning! Needed this thanks abbey!

THANK YOU! I'M A CHANGED PERSON ALREADY!

Thank you for the clarity Abby!

This really helped me, thank you...

You are a fierce, powerful, passionate, Goddess Warrior. Thank you for speaking your truth.

@abbeygibb6830

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to write this beautiful comment! This really does mean the world to me

Thank you... 💜

Great talk - I think there are some very core truths in here. Worth the watch.

You are a powerful woman, a brave human being!

Some good points that got shadowed by the theatrical performance...

powerful.

This really true ☺️

This deserves more views

I love this girl

That was right on. Inspiring 💙

Your dream can come true the moment you decide it.. That hit hard..

@oluchieric4447

2 жыл бұрын

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@oluchieric4447

2 жыл бұрын

He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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What a speaker! Mind-blowing

Thank you for sharing, you have touched a very sense spot. Looking and listening deeper to that person ,You truly are and loving the person inside.

@margretkaley7439

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, I recommend you to Dr Steve, he can help you attract someone you love and want in your life, he helped me Attract my specific person and we are enjoying our relationship now. I will advise you seek his help thanks.

@margretkaley7439

2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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My lord, I kept on hitting the like icon like a thousand times throughout the video. Thank you! Its being 10 months and im still in the same place where he left me. I still love him and i still dont know if ill be able to love another person like i loved him, but I promise Ill use this pain to win life. Thank you again ❤

@sophiamp.3641

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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This is powerful 🔥 I can feel my life's gonna change after your words! Thanks a lot🙏

@emilykane4904

3 жыл бұрын

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@emilykane4904

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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Thanks Abbey

Awesome talk!!!

Love love love you.....thank you.

@abbeygibb6830

3 жыл бұрын

AhhH!! Thank you for watching and commenting. It really means the world. Love, Abbey

Thank you for sharing you inspirational message.

“Like this low grade depression that doesn’t seem to go away” “nothings wrong but nothings feels right” my exact emotions but I’m healthy and stable

@emilykane4904

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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BEST TED TALK EVER

Thank you 🙏

came here because i thought she was more specific about romantic break ups but i stayed because i loved the energy and i loved how she spoke about every type of breakup. because at the end, even in a romantic breakup there’s not only one side, there are multiple sides you have to deal with and one is the breakup with yourself, becoming a new you

@sheiscalledsarah7076

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 the best thing I've watched today. Thank you for sharing your life with us angel ❤️ *breaks up to break through*

@sheiscalledsarah7076

3 жыл бұрын

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great TED Talk! I healed an auto immune disease!

Inspiring talk to keep moving forward.

@abbeygibb6830

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much William for watching

Thank You!

Thank you

It's so tough :( I didn't just loose my girlfriend. I lost my best friend for the last 20 years. I lost the mother of my daughter. I lost my family. I lost our dreams. And I get to know that I was the one who did it. I'm the one who took the decision. I still loved her then, but we just couldn't find the same path. We kept going in opposite directions and there was friction every day. I missed her almost every day after moving out. Now she's moved on. I still miss her. So what did I do?! Why didn't I fight harder for us. Why did I let it slip. I hate me for destroying our fantastic family :(.

@etrikaboulkiza9109

3 жыл бұрын

😔 do your best for the daughter and yourself

@alyssaortiz3624

3 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend of 23 years and sons father left me 2 weeks ago said he just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore didn't want to do the domestic thing after 23 years together then I just found out he was cheating on me for 8 years with one person talk about devastated but I'm realizing I'm better off you cant make someone want to be with you. I'm trying my best to not have any thoughts of past that's over. We have to move on like them wish you the best!

Great talk

Thank you, that was fantastic - I'm stepping out in life doing what I want when I want, single but so much in love with life and my friends. I really appreciate your idea of picking something from the back of my mind that I wanted to do but thought it was impossible, I'm reactivating that as a goal and putting it up on the wall - watch this space - God moves the mountains.

@zarakane5376

2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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@abbey_gibb

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

I want to break up from a man who has caused so much misery for as long as I remember. Thank you for sharing your courage.

@achonwublessing6308

2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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It really hurts when dumped but I slowly recover and move on. Inspiring talk..

@achonugenevieve3497

2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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Every day..i take a step..our memories are in a loop. I hope i recover and learn to live with this pain and all the memories. 5 years of us..and now how to forget ..how to let go..it kills me

The drinking part got me, my ex was more inlove with his alcoholism and self-pity than he was at bettering himself

@zahrauabdullahi1342

2 жыл бұрын

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@ericjoy6709

3 жыл бұрын

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@ericjoy6709

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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