Walk AWAY fellas is the best advice I could give you. I’ve been there done this with ex countless of times still wishing to this day I should’ve walked away sooner from her BS. Don’t be like me move on please for your own good.

@alanframboisier9492

2 жыл бұрын

Needed to hear this… Thank you

Two words: Walk away.

@johngonzalez4298

4 жыл бұрын

@@screentake01 well said

@nellynel6141

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah...that’s ALL she had to say but she sounds like she’s giving women advice or thinks we’re a bunch of Simps.

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

🎯🎯🎯

@fredflinstone8750

3 жыл бұрын

Always

If she doesn't want you, realize it and move on. Don't waste your own time and energy. You know what you like and want in a relationship. If neither party is able or willing to give that to the other, move on! You are worth more than the games that men and women both play.

@rickysbrutal

Жыл бұрын

you’re not even a girl bruh

@allaboutthatbass741

8 ай бұрын

​@rickysbrutal 😂😂😂 "brutal" highly doubtful. 😂😂😂

@allaboutthatbass741

8 ай бұрын

​@rickysbrutal she just isn't that into you bro, move on!

She acted like she love me but she won't commit into becoming my girlfriend . . I decided to walk away and focus on my improvements . . It is very exhausting to be in a relationship with a woman who always tried to friend zoned me . .

You want someone who also puts in effort to want to be with you...

Pull away and focus on improving yourself she will start chasing and then you can say "I just wanna have some fun don't take it seriously"

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

This just happened to me.. 🤣

@therryandpaol3430

3 жыл бұрын

This is the Indian Flag right

It doesn't matter how good you are, one day she gonna leave you. ☺

@olaoluolajugbe5811

4 жыл бұрын

So how come some people enjoy happy marriages that last Tull death?

@siongtzer

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, they belong to the streets

@FalconMain3

3 жыл бұрын

Facts man

@thomasandersen2534

2 жыл бұрын

Yep trust no one brothers

@MrLove717

10 ай бұрын

😂facts

The problem arises is when you're "having high expectations" when she's not really doing what she says, which is "keeping away from relationships as of now". Just walk away, saves so much time and from stress.

@BEATmyguest31

7 ай бұрын

What’s amazing is when she asks “do you have a girlfriend?” Doesn’t that imply she *wants* a boyfriend? I didn’t outright ask- but couldn’t she have asked if I just wanted to hookup? I think some pretty girls want to girl the Dick, and keep the guy in rotation. That’s what I felt I was dealing with. I will always remember the image of this girl rushing to get out of my car almost slamming ot shut while she is wearing basically streetwalker clothes. We were on two completely different wave lengths. Maybe I should have just enjoyed the hookup but I was too caught up in my own fantasy of being able to create something with the his girl. To be fair I took 10 years off of dating so it’s like a brave new world kinda realization. I knew it was bad, I just didn’t realize how common this has become.

Protect yourself....step back....watch whats happening....dont enable certain behaviour.

Tip #3 is the main one: Fall Back, Invest In You And Live Your Best Life. Thanks Apollonia Your The Best!!👍👍👍🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯✔✔✔

An ex breaking up after 6 yrs of relationship and saying I still love you and contacts you even when you know she’s seeing other guys is leading you on...

Broke up with my ex months ago. I have a feeling that there was something missing in myself and now discovering ways to become the best version of myself

Truth!!! All this time I thought she was leaving me on,you just made me realize it was my expectations!!! Apollonia you bring clarity to situations more than anything and anyone👊🏽

My understanding of women has increased, and you're a big part of that development. I will be teaching others and my students some of your lessons. So that they become more of a gentleman than whatever exists now.

Apollonia , this video of yours is exactly where i am right now in my life. This is like you actually spoke my heart out. And guess what I am doing the same steps you suggested. I have build up immense patience and strength for showing her the exit the next time she even thinks of playing again like this.

you've made me realize and change a lot about myself .. You've helped me and still are now as we speak.. Thank You Apollonia

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your comment Ben. :-)

Your videos are helping me to build my personality and helping one of my relatives.

5:00 - 5:25 those last 25 seconds meant so much to me! Thank you from the bottom of my heart I really needed to heart this. I've been going crazy wondering what I did wrong. Now that I finally accepted what happened I can proudly move forward with myself! Again thank you 🙏💨🙏💨

Thanks Apollonia. Your videos are extraordinary.

Love this, amazing advice!

You're an amazing entrepreneur words and wisdom thank you for this awesome video Ms. Appollonia much love to you & your family 🌹

Thank you very much Apollonia!! I am now in that scenario, so I decided to move on and keep forward. You are always loved!

@jyuzou608

3 жыл бұрын

Me too brother . .

Those tips are really helpful. Sometimes, we need to really ask ourself if we are investing too much in a relationship. Especially with the one who is not that into it. Great Tips.

You’re so wise Appalonia.

Hey Apollonia, This a great information. Keep up with the good work.

Good video! You are exceptionally articulate!

You hit the nail on the head 👍🏼

Great advice!

5:04, if she is not looking to date, relationship, but you’re looking for that, walk tf away from her.

@LeashMechanic

4 жыл бұрын

About 5:04 in real life- and I don’t mean to be contradictory to this video- and maybe it’s just me, but it seems like every woman I’ve ever dated started out by saying they weren’t looking for a relationship when they actually ALL proved to be looking for a relationship! I think their saying this is one of (perhaps few available) defense mechanisms that women have and employ to give themselves some breathing room and time to get to know you before signaling further interest (which would otherwise almost commit her if she didn’t say that). Realizing this, whenever a woman says they are not looking for a relationship but want to be just friends it doesn’t bother me. I let it go in one ear and out the other because I know it’s really not true! 🤣🤣🤣

Apollonia Punti I LOVE YOU! Amazing tips, I love your channel thanks!

Great information Apollonia thank you.

Amazing video.

Class Apollonia

Solid channel keep up the content

Amazing advice... Ty!! Really helped.

Good tips.

Powerful words

Damn, you're so intense! I felt every word

Good advice

It seems like whenever there is an issue of any kind in our lives, the first thing we must do is examine ourselves first. We might just be our own cause of an effect.

Thank you !

Apollonia is the 💩 !!! One of my favorite on KZread 💯

Thank you for fixing me

amazing video, tahnk you i had many onesided crushes and wish i had known long ago how to distance myself and focus on myself instead of being driven by the impuls i can only be happy with her.

Good video

Hope you had a wonderful 4th of July AP 🇺🇸

Looooove your blouse!!!😍😍😍😊

Lovely smile and informative as always. I think I'd see it as lesson learned and a woman couldn't lead me on cause I. Can go for days nor responding too her calls or texts when lost in my own world

I wish all women could hear Apollonia when does these videos such good content

Like Firefly perches on your shoulder Love to you AP

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

xoxo

I tend to mourn a bit, then move on very quick freed

Hi Apollonia, thank you for your great video and I hope you are staying safe and being healthy during this quarantine.

Your thumbnail lead me on, it had a colorful outfit on and then you wore something different in the video 🙃

I get subtitles on these videos sometimes and your name was captioned as “a colonial auntie” . 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

💀💀💀

@imthebmf23

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@motivationlectures7078

3 жыл бұрын

She is my Auntie

@_1Brick1_

3 жыл бұрын

Nah it’s correct for me

Best thing is going into that friendship/relationship/ whatever you call it, without any expectations. Go out, have fun, enjoy the moment, dats different women, until the right one comes along. Don’t try to hard. Just be U. And yes, the right one will come in Gods perfect timing. In the meantime, have fun, don’t think to much into anything, takes the pressure off.

"Is she leading you on?" WHEN IS SHE NOT???

Never look at relationships ending as a failure take it as a learning experience but u right too is she leading me in or am I expecting more that’s true

Still trying to better myself baby girl.

These where mistakes I made as a teenager’s❗️😀

Thanks

As a lesbian I need a channel like this but I guess it can't be all that different since I relate. The girl I'm seeing seems to have cast me in the "man" role because I have to make all the effort to keep things going while getting very little feedback in return. She makes plans and then cancels them. She talks to me all the time but never flirts or makes any commitments to meet up.

Hi Apollonia, thank you for your videos. They are helping this old rider get back into the saddle, looking through your videos I wondered if you have one that covers how to or when to tell a new relationship about your not so pleasant past without being instantly rejected, obviously I am speaking criminally here but I guess how to explain any form of negative past, obviously I believe in being honest but it's 'when and how' do yout bring this up in a newer relationship I would like to know about. If you don't have a video on this subject I hope you can make one soon.

Always a big fn

Did this all the time when I was younger. I needed a big sister like Apollonia.

The Last part sound s-o good! She never call or text, and now she is upset because i didnt text her a few days after she rejected me butt never asked if i was ok after she sayd "no"

I,m in love with your video's i have watched many video since more than yr,i love your honesty and hard work❤️❤️❤️❤️

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you

I appreciate your videos on dating. I am constantly listening to your videos. I meted this beautiful young lady in the GYM that work in the as a trainer any recruiter. We're getting along real good in a relationship. I told her I did not want to jump into a relationship with her. What kind of advice can you give me to build a healthy relationship with her?

I am dealing with the similar situation and implemented the no contact rule. Did i do the right thing?

Hi great video I was in the same situation but when I realize I was trying to make it more I actually stopped myself now she's showing me signs that she wants to go farther in the relationship what you think about that you think I should pursue it and see what happens again I love your videos they are great

girl i spoke to first told me she just wanted to have fun but then she also said she likes to take it slow. She initiated the dates and chose what to do etc and she was receptive to my texts but physically she was cold on the 2 dates i went with her. She even gave a cheeky grin when i asked her for a kiss and said not right now. I ran the hell away from that situation especially once i found out she wasnt as innocent as she claimed. Maybe there are some women out there that are genuine and want to take it slow but that has to be communicated clearly because thanks to this girl i struggle to trust anyone that tells me that now.

1st viewer😳😊

She said she wanted to be my girl and on valentine's Day, an hour before our date she cancelled and said she can't be my girl but wants to be friends... I told her to delete my digits coz I don't need more friends on my life

so right , times ten.. just show up.. live our best life

God your beautiful and smart

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

Sometimes ladies are testing your patience and want to take it slow to see your intentions. Now is she’s not giving you attention nor seeking your time after a mon then walk away. Women know men want sex in order to be attracted to a woman. Men know women want attention, time & a man to take care of her. If both aren’t complementing each other with what they’re looking for then walk away find someone who will compliment you, very simple concept.

Apy is your hair getting longer ! it looks nice...

but the question is how do you stop urself from falling too fast. i cant control my emotions or feelings

WOW!! She's on point and made this video on the day of my bday. She's right my expectation was too high for this woman. She told me from the start she's not looking for a relationship which I was ok with. We dated for 10months and we were even intimate. I mean i did everything from "texting good morning beautiful, when she was kicked i asked her if she wanted any soup, bought her flowers, buy her Jordans for her bday, planning dates/dinner/lunch, helped fixed her car, etc. etc. When I ask for more time to be with her and ask her to respond faster to my texts (not right away but at least the same day) she just disappeared and ghost me and that made me feel horrible which lead to my depression. I cried literally for 6 months straight and almost did the ultimate sin which GOD helped me overcome my heartache. I'm better now and I accepted that it was not meant to be. GOD is amazing when you believe in HIM.

@barry2349

3 жыл бұрын

Happy that your good brother,same thing happened to me today,she said she likes me and the feeling is mutual but she wanted more time for a relationship and then she stop putting effort into communicating with me,I asked her and she said she has feelings for someone else,I dropped her that very instant

We started off as friends but she wants more kids and i have no kids yet. But i think this is what set my mind in an spin. I stsrted treating her like an girlfriend some what. To see if there maybe something there. But i did what you said and her acts toward me are different. She tells me its the lil things that she like. But when it comes to her doing the same thing its bad. Like not noticing me in an store or when we around other ppl. Dont know if she testing me or what. I do have feelings for her. But i have to make myself hate her so i dont fall for her ways. Lots of ppl tell me not to be dating women with kids but in this town like 98% of women here have kids.I dont want to be her friend that see another guy come and just get her. But i think she an lier. Wish she would just come out and say that iam not her type. So i can get hurt again. And move on. But i know its me thats going to have to break this up soon.

Hi !!! Apollonia, Thank you for your videos !!! this is out of this topic, but I'm really sad, the quarantine destroyed our relationship, I'm outside of the country since 8 months, my husband does not comunicate how he used to do it, I asked him for a break, because we are having many issues by phone, I'm kind of depressed because I'll be back in 2 months, I'm thinking about divorce, but I still love him =( What could be your advice ? Thanks

I had a married girl stare me down in her office for 3 minutes, which she initiated. I was her patient. That caused me to develop a crush on her, but when asked about it, she denied that it ever happened. I finally figured out that she was a narcissist, and had to cut her off, for the sake of my sanity. Most painful thing I've ever done.

@goat88378

4 жыл бұрын

sounds like your a beta simp

Love that blazer looks like a Christian Dior 🔥 🔥

When a woman you don’t know but she’s noticing you, throw a hint like: “physical attraction is easy, but mental attraction is another level” It is referring to keep it lowkey?Cuz I know she’s not looking much but certainly she is looking this way 😉. Thanks. if you could answer that I’ll be so grateful

But it’s just what I wanted you to do

First.

I was really looking toward something on the womans part when they actually lead you on, and not more on putting it on the mans part of why it failed. As usual, we make it the mans fault.

I already know what to do... 😁... Move the F on, easy peasy...

What!!!! That's easy!!! Move on!!!

If i actually listen i might make it somewhere

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

lol

Well, I wanted to keep our distance so we could stay friends, yet she tells me she loves me and can't be apart from me yet wants to fool around with other guys too.........but doesn't want to be close to me. Then we have a real issue. So, I just had to leave the situation.

It doesn't feel like this really answered the question. Sometimes people deliberately lead people on and it's not something you did wrong, or to do with your expectations, it's just that they're not nice. The question is how to spot it and protect yourself.

Dont miss me.... I was lead on, ... at no point she say she wasnt looking, get on the second date, kiss her and poof, to busy with work for commitment.. I put on a pedestal because she is gourgous and has big twins.. and can make herself come play the I'm confused and Inacent because I come from another country. And no one believes me about her then makes me believe in the problem and crazy

I spent 3 mths dating a woman. At that point I as load 'are you ready to go exclusive?' She said 'I don't know I said that's ok let me know and then gave her a big break. 3 weeks later she said "ok. We dated another year and she sniffed that I was working towards marriage.. I loved her! And before I asked her she said "I can't do this." And broke up. I was shattered. 2 years later I still feel hurt. I since learned, she told a mutual friend she saw me just as fun. I've not felt more hurt in my life. I'm 52, divorced. She's 49 divorced. 2 years later, I still think of her every day. I feel used, though maybe she didn't intend to use me. I don't know. I don't know anything.

@eloboa5355

4 жыл бұрын

Deep breathing exercises will help calm your emotions down.I suggest at least two sessions of 12 minutes per day. I am sure you learned your lesson.

Tbh, what does to lead sb on mean precisely? I need a paraphrase. I've never heard that :c

If someone can please talk with me. That would be lovely. Such a confusing and weird situation that I'm in. And I'm not sure what to do.

Thanks ponti, I am in this kind situation right now, I met a girl, like her so mush, she in turn likes me, she will spend time with me, call me even when I don't call her, she's afraid to get me angry, says I shouldn't live her, I really wanna settle with her but she has a boyfriend before I met her, whom she told me that "they are just there". Now she says she doesn't wanna be in two relationships at the same time, after sharing intimacy with me. I feel used and at the same time stuck on her nd I don't know what to do, this crazy isn't?.

@jonathan169835

3 жыл бұрын

If she’s getting intimate with you while having a partner why wouldn’t she do the same to you, don’t get trapped in that sometimes they just want someone to give them attention while still being in a relationship and getting their backs blown by the guy they really like.

Im not sure if this girl is leading me on, or is unsure or just isn't interested anymore. Only had one date and it was unusual circumstances, she loves we've things in common, really enjoys my company, wants to get together again..i suggested doing something the last weekend...she bailed so i said let me know when your free. is that the right thing?

What if a girl had a boyfriend or married and is leading you on what to than but you like her

Wha5 happened to the “ 7 common mistakes men make” you were going to give us. I couldn’t find the link

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

It's in the description box

@rexmartey2198

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Apollonia