In this video I give you tips on WHEN no contact does not work! I believe no contact is very powerful and works in a lot of situations. In this video I talk about when it shouldn’t be done. :) Enjoy!

@markmeza6551

5 жыл бұрын

So you think if she found out about something from the past about me and another girl I just give her space and try no contact or I should keep trying to talk to her even if she don't want to?

@AgentGreyFox

5 жыл бұрын

What if she said she needs space? Do I never contact her? I'm worried about her state of mind... she studies away. I think the attraction is gone.

@JiminyCricket99

5 жыл бұрын

@apollonia ponti what is your opinion on the red pill?

@MegaAmazingc

4 жыл бұрын

What if you been busy with work . But she continues not to understand that you do try to reach out to her in between break times? Then gives u the silent treatment. That's pretty much my predicament. I'm being accused of messing up when I'm not even trying to mess up. So should I be the first to make contact or I should I give her the silent treatment too?

@victoraugustine6585

4 жыл бұрын

Today I START THE "NO CONTACT" and I really mean it cause she hadn't respond to my Text about "New Orleans Nightmare " spooky event right.. so Iwill initiate it after she gives me a call later on today (if that happens) I'm texting or calling for about 30 or so days.., earlier today I was giving her calls since 2am over 30+ calls, after she said "Ill call you back" the pervious day (friday)But; my calls were literally going straight to vmail (so I'm thinking "man,wtf" she got moi block"?) til about 7am when we spoked briefly (that conversation was very brief, I mean she hung up abruptly and rudely "I'm going back to sleep Ill you back later" *click* I'm like "wtf" I hadn't had my Word" but I wasn't really trippn) my other numbers weren't going straight to vmail the phone would just ring I'm still feeling like "WTF" but we spoke on that during that brief. She was like "My phone was on silent from work" and that she was tired from the commuting back and forth from work, 1hr going 1hr coming back. I can only imagine how tired she's gonna be this coming week w/ Monday not being a holiday this week. But anyway, what I really wanted to say is I truly appreciate the knowledge Miss Apollonia, I'll be booking a session for sure!

If you’re putting in so much effort and the other person isn’t then I agree with no contact, and If someone doesn’t reach out to you over a certain period, they’re not worth your time.

@HTB6493

5 жыл бұрын

Word.

@realwayne86

4 жыл бұрын

True. Everything seems to be a mind game because she can be playing hard to get by not trying to reach out to you.

@BobbyJohnsonWitt

4 жыл бұрын

Yup

@mahatali1844

3 жыл бұрын

Best advice for me so far.

@EmilyGloeggler7984

2 жыл бұрын

If someone does reach out, they're still not worth your time. You choose who is worth your time.

Lost her but found myself . Guys , the first day or two after a break up is hardest. Try working out and eating , Cleaning and resting . And of course Miss Ponti's videos

@ApolloniaPonti

5 жыл бұрын

Continue on your personal development!

@user-nw1vn4fi7y

4 жыл бұрын

Finding yourself is the thing man it's so so goood

@Holypikemanz

4 жыл бұрын

Ponti is a very average coach, its all basic stuff you find from all coaches. "abundance mindset" always makes me cringe. Western women are spoiled and thats why men need these videos to translate retarded spoiled female behavior. Men are treated bad and disposable by society and women so OFC men are going to be insecure. I would never fight to protect a modern woman or save her from life problems because they are nothing like previous generations of women. No expectation of honestly or decency. Just had a woman give me her number and then say "busy for two weeks" after a bit of flirting. OOO no I must have flirted the wrong way, I must be a dumb man. I think lying and treating women like trash is the best strategy, you feel good they feel disposable, for once.

@kidfromcropu2812

4 жыл бұрын

@@Holypikemanz partially true,treat her as she deserves,if she sucks,move on,no need to keep her,simply put more value on yourself then you do on her

@becker2278

4 жыл бұрын

Ms. Ponti = 👍👍👍

This makes you wanna stay single. All of these tactics we have to be aware of just to date someone

@guhh78

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you so fucking exhausting. I’m just going to focus on me now.

@DesertCruiser1

3 жыл бұрын

You know that’s so true, I’ve been searching a long time for a mutually passionate women and it’s hard as hell to find. I’ll go to my grave single if I can’t find the perfect match.

@eriaslukwago6334

3 жыл бұрын

I share a feeling with you... as if she's the road to paradise!

@aslantabe1447

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@MC-yv3kw

3 жыл бұрын

Lol I agree. No one said relationships were easy. If you put in the work, you will reap the rewards.

Problem with no contact rule with person who was left is simply giving yourself false hope that your loved one will return. Odds are, he or she wil not .And you just prolong your misery of waiting and hoping where in reality it's time to cry, dust yourself up, stand up and move on. Spent 9 years in relationship, we had a deal we will tak about month after break up, as you can imagine, we never did. She found new guy and i found new love and i guess both are way happier ( at least i know i am) than i ever was with her. Don't end up being stuck in limbo of false hope and pinky-dream scenarios where your loved one will call you to tell you how wrong he was. Even if he or she is, their ego will probably stop them. People are too egoistic to admit mistake. Take a time to heal, learn how to love yourself more, improve and work on yourself and move on. Wish you luck.

@simonchabane4309

3 жыл бұрын

Bro I agree fully, I understanding your story, ego ego ego

@King-Chub

3 жыл бұрын

The false hope part of no contact is the worst your right bro

@danh2310

2 жыл бұрын

Very true my friend false hope is the worst

@Account-br9kc

8 ай бұрын

I am dying to know how you are doing now and how is your ex doing, 9 years is like a marriage

She gone. I'm moving on seeking me. I am not looking for a lady friend. I'm seeking enhancement and employment now.

@bobgageralddinghamagnifiqu3093

5 жыл бұрын

Good evening ms,how do you empower a woman as a man

@khairulhasan1025

5 жыл бұрын

Great indeed

@thomasgallegos2832

4 жыл бұрын

Good Job

@MrLeovaras75

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear that, I went thru the experience, and it's really disheartening and frustrating. A woman who leaves you and doesn't really respect you or appreciate your good qualities is an ingrate and cold hearted. A woman who won't take the time to get to know you either is not worth YOUR time. Best of luck to you, brudah. I'm about done with women myself, no matter how hard or how many ways you try to convince them that you love them, it's useless. They will never listen to you or your heart. It's the sad truth.

@ManManGambino

4 жыл бұрын

How did it turn out

Everybody is different. Plain & simple, if you really meant something to them then they'll come back at some point. Just no telling when. And it probably won't be in the time frame you want them to.

@Ivanamus

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@kykybell2005

3 жыл бұрын

All facts

@knifepapi8720

2 жыл бұрын

Seen this a couple of times myself,

@EmilyGloeggler7984

2 жыл бұрын

When I reluctantly broke up with my ex, I didn't do it for ego or to mess with them. I just went no contact and worked towards moving on and that's even with the ex meaning something to me. I choose to never go back. Its been eleven years and I am married to my new husband Frank. I'm glad for being strong to walk away.

@Markdaamannn

Жыл бұрын

But maybe by that time we won’t want them anymore. After she been through everyone? Dated multiple guys? I’ll be good she can reach out but will be a waist of time for her.

Get a dog: they're always loyal.

@mkschreder

4 жыл бұрын

And they teach you how to handle women ;D

@nicholaslucas2360

4 жыл бұрын

I've listened to a lot of dating gurus like this and just love these sort of comments, respect for this dating guru.

@d-not-u

4 жыл бұрын

🐾

@cristian.ilie.018

4 жыл бұрын

@@mkschreder Those are cats for us men !!! BIG differene, dogs teach women how to handle men !

@Gree187

4 жыл бұрын

She took the dog with her :(

People need to forget the games or "process" of relationships. Nothing beats honesty. If a woman is toxic dump her as fast as possible. If you are the jerk, either change or let her go.

@realwayne86

5 жыл бұрын

I agree with you 100% 👏👏👏👏👏! Thank you sir!! I am glad you are strong!

@MrJM-zr1hk

5 жыл бұрын

Thank You! That has worked in the past and it still works now. Try playing games, I'm out!

@observer4467

4 жыл бұрын

TeeJae84 depends on how you define game. If games means intentionally manipulating I’m out. There are some core values of civilized humans which don’t depend on the gender. Honesty and integrity. Being honest doesn’t mean to cry and beg cause that would disregard integrity and self-respect. But nothing wrong in letting her know that you feel heartbroken or miss her without a hidden agenda of making her feel sorry for you or guilt trip. It’s actually a sign of courage and internal strength that despite your pain you can hold your frame. On the long term old fashioned values like honesty , integrity and patience will pay out. If it doesn’t with that specific woman she definitely wasn’t the one you want to be involved with for more than sex or an affair.

@Luminous.Dynamics

4 жыл бұрын

that's not how attraction works 🤦🏻‍♂️😂 although honesty is very important

@MistSGM

3 жыл бұрын

I'm going to change. There's no fucking way I'm letting her go

Once they go, let them go, if they come back put them in any other category, but not the "She's a keeper," one!!!

That's a good way to expend "no contact" time, caring of yourself. I like to think it's a way to put my feelings back together and see the things with a "cold down heart" and giving myself some space.

Cheated on me for 6 months emotionally and physically, after we lived together for 4 years I put her through school supported her low self-esteem esteem, she had no social skills and damn near no life skills. In short I was an idiot, SEE the signs gentlemen and protect yourself.

@mehrdokhtp

4 жыл бұрын

Next time dont give too much

@DukeSaragono

3 жыл бұрын

Wow Travis that's painful, your story makes me appreciate being single

@ilovegodandjesusjohn316

3 жыл бұрын

Matthew 11:28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

@loviejohnson5700

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I'm learning right now, how to not give to much

@milanshah4

3 жыл бұрын

You left her a better person that she was before...so no need to be bitter..

She lost her feelings for me.... so I lost her number

@realwayne86

5 жыл бұрын

That's right! And you better keep it that way!

@MrGeez513

4 жыл бұрын

Damn if that doesn't sound like my experience.

@zerofuks416

4 жыл бұрын

So you would rather have someone lie to themselves and you just to stay in a relationship.... makes sense

@TomFox1

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@112stace

3 жыл бұрын

That’s a good one and right about the lossing feelings part

When a woman is independent and you give her long periods of no contact, it can show that you are your own man and make her want you more. It lets her have her identity yet confirms that you also own yours. This can actually strengthen the relationship and make time together more focus and intense!

@nexttytreporter2598

3 жыл бұрын

I needed this advice, thank you.

@robd1859

2 жыл бұрын

No contact has never worked

@noremac0575

2 жыл бұрын

@@robd1859 Well, it has. It just hasn't worked for you cuz you prolly fuck it up

@therespectedlex9794

2 жыл бұрын

Oh, this isn't about mental and emotional abuse. This is that glamorous thing called 'on a break' like in Friends. I still need to get to that stage of finding a significant other, before I decide to not be with them for a while...

@George-hs2zm

3 ай бұрын

I know one exactly like that where I work I gave her my number 2 days ago, she's not bothered to get back to me in that time, not even a quick hi in 36hrs. I understand people have commitments which is fine so I'll leave it a bit longer and unless she makes the effort to say hi in person then I will just ignore her also. Two can play at that game. I'm more than happy to let her have all the space she wants, there are so many attractive girls where I work. I've put a few weeks of effort in but more than prepared to walk away if she can't even find 30 secs to send a txt in 36hrs.

Thank you so much, I took the time to breath, regroup my thoughts and I had to remember that before her I was doing things and I was happy. I also saw that she was going out and that made me feel good because she truly deserves it. We started talking, but I really want to take my time with it 🥰

You by far are the most in tune person when it comes to men and women. Great videos!

No contact is hard, but you’re video’s make it easier. Thank you

I'm sorry but women should put in some effort period.

@KunalPratapSingh

4 жыл бұрын

Josh Herrington lmao

@SalimMayweather

4 жыл бұрын

lol

@themadrapper101

4 жыл бұрын

They feel their pussy is a prize to earn and work for

@regi2475

4 жыл бұрын

@@themadrapper101 ok incel

@kristopherryanwatson

4 жыл бұрын

Any woman with self worth and knows what she wants, will, if you're worth it.

You are my favorite relationship coach. Thanks for everything

Im astounded by the negative comments on these videos. Great advice!

You're helping me so much with what I'm going through. I get the impression I may have been needy and after this really Passionate relationship is tough getting ignored.

@rickymunger9431

2 жыл бұрын

Did it work?

The gym has been my best friend while in NC ! I refuse to break NC

@brzzesasuke

3 жыл бұрын

Any update. I'm in the gym too my man

@mkowboy13

3 жыл бұрын

Nice work keep it up ..when I lost a woman I didn’t no where to turn so instead of hitting the bottle like when I was 19 .. I just started building stuff with tools 🧰 ⚒️

A lot of things have been manifesting during this period of no contact. I’m learning how to do basic labor around the household. I got a new, better paying job. And I’m working on getting back into school. I’ve also deleted all of my social media apps because I made a habit of checking in on (stalking) her different accounts; I realized that it was kinda clouding my mind and bringing out unnecessary anxiety for me. But things are looking up for me now. I really do pray that she reaches out. Preferably sooner than later, but it’s all in God’s timing I guess lol

@112stace

3 жыл бұрын

Social media is a waste of time it’s a big distraction

@Dexteritas55

3 жыл бұрын

Im with you here brotha

@vazsa7387

3 жыл бұрын

did she reach out dude?

@MassiveMediaOnline

3 жыл бұрын

Did you all get back together?

@JantsonKing

2 жыл бұрын

Any update bro? I did the same thing finished my ged going to college got a better job deleted all social media

Apollonia that was a great video. Thank you. You hit it right in the head. If the girl doesn't seek you out or contact you or even curious about you, that basically tells you everything.

I am learning so much about relationships from your videos. I recently broke up with a woman and everything you say in your videos, practically word for word is what has seemed to have happened with me. I am taking notes for the next relationship. But first I am going to work on me. Keep up the good work, Apollonia.

Thank you Apollonia 🤩. Great tips 🤗 I think you can really read my mind. This topic was on my head for so many days😁

This exactly what I'm talkin about someone with real knowledge and not lying I believe it doesn't work either thank t so much Ms. Appollonia for being real much love to you and your family 🌹

Awesome message, Apollonia. Many tks for the unique & highly valuable insights!

Great video. I like the fact you are honest that some women have already lost feelings for you even if they are in the relationship or near break-up stage. I think too many guys don't pick up on the lack of interest before the break-up

@miscool

5 жыл бұрын

mav1877 the moment they lose interest there’s nothing you can do

@kreynolds7544

3 жыл бұрын

Too many women are not honest with their feelings I find that even more saddening

Keep it positive & upbeat ✅ You have to show different behaviors ✅ and actually do the work ✅

Thanks for posting these videos. I find them invaluable. I should have watched before torpedoing my chances

Apollonia Ponti, YOU are cool... You are becoming my favorite here on You Tube...

Thanks Ponti for the amazing videos and keep up the good work. I would like to request, is it possible to do a video on maintaining a long distance relationship?

This is great information Apollonia. Really useful 💘

It's all sooo relative. Thanx Apollonia. We had to trust our feelings and act accordingly. With power but also love and respect. Less manipulation, more from the heart. Pray also, this helps ! Greetings.

Thanks AP. Now I know how to gently end a relationship. Yes, it still hurts.

Thank Ponti for this great video, i needed to watch it like yestarday

I'm trying it an I'm going on day three, so I don't know, but I'm trusting everything into God, what you're teaching and coaching, and my guts. Thank you Apollonia

Go no silent then come back with a bag full of money/success. This is the biggest combination for attraction. Trust me it works 110% of the time.

@SivakumarRelangi

3 жыл бұрын

Ya you are right

@JT-gm4fk

Жыл бұрын

Success with the same attitude you left with will still be a failure

Great articulation of when and why after no contact. 👍

No contact phase is an inc berg. What you see in youtube is just 20% to 30% Its really something very very deep. But as mam said, keep working on yourself. And if you were disrespected please walk out, there is no growth in it.

@ApolloniaPonti

5 жыл бұрын

Respect is very important!

Its about finding someone who's into you just as much as your into them. Don't look back when the other person comes around later, avoid them for your own sake. No one needs an emotional roller coaster its bad for one's self esteem.

@ApolloniaPonti

5 жыл бұрын

You deserve a happy and healthy relationship!

@Megac353

5 жыл бұрын

I think so too

@mathewd473

Жыл бұрын

My ex and i broke up due to me being distant due to mental health issues i was unaware of. I got myself right, but she had started dating someone after a month or so. We tried to be friends but it didn't go so well partly due to my feelings and hers causing issues...we still have strong feelings for each other. After an argument recently, where she was basically picking at every thing I did, we blew up at each and she suggested no contact. Her reason was that we kept repeating the same cycle, falling back as friends, things would be great and then wed argue. Its been a week should i contact her? Thank you

Never really thought about it like that....you addressed some good points.

You're thorough, that's why I like your advices.

This was a great video. I agree with everything you say here.

I love this topic it's very open & honest I never though about counting the days I just thought about getting on my purpose but I walked away from my son's mother after 5yrs but I don't know why but I did & I feel much better about it thank you ms. Apollonia great video as always 🌹

@ApolloniaPonti

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support!

Very nice video. This is an important basic knowledge before going into no contact

Thank you for this video Apollonia. It spoke a lot to my situation. I'm going to watch your other videos and probably call you eventually!

@rickymunger9431

2 жыл бұрын

Did it work?

Through no contact my ex went back to her ex but still hangs with my family ... I set boundaries and went into no contact with everyone ... it was very painful and it has been 4 months since I’ve heard from her ... I haven’t dated anyone since ... I’ve learned to love myself and also learned how to help others get over past wounds during my singleness ... Your videos have been a great help to me ... Thank you.

Very true thanks for the knowledge Apollonia I have tried no contact like a final bet then found out she had lost feelings for me way long before the break up then started calling me out of curiosity I guess!...Moved on anyway focusing on becoming the best version of a man the world needs and like you say I realised she's not the woman for me forever.Keep up the good work ponti.

@ApolloniaPonti

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your comment and support!

New subscriber here. Im in no contact for a couple of months now and still focus on my purpose.💪💪

Apollonia you are awesome!! Best real advice i have ever been told about women. Thankyou always

avoiding is better than no contact... you will find a better person...

@RickyProphet

5 жыл бұрын

"When Avoiding DOES NOT Work | 1 Reason Avoiding Is A BAD IDEA!" 1. Friends and Family cannot find you and you end up the subject of an AMBER ALERT...

@ApolloniaPonti

5 жыл бұрын

:)

@lory4305

4 жыл бұрын

Avoiding means ignoring your feelings tho

Thank you Apollonia, I've learnt so much from watching your youtube videos. My relationship with my girlfriend is so sweet ,loving and caring. Today, or, should I say yesterday was the best day of all with my girl. I was round at her place, wow. I couldn't believe it. It was so special, not in that way, but in the way we spent good quality time together. She said I love you too. I've waited so long to hear those words from her. Thanks for all the advice Apollonia, you're the best! Take care always. x

So many of your videos are catered to keeping existing relationships alive and exiting. I have a really hard time attracting women I just met or even if a woman is really really into me I can never seem to make the moves I need to so I can make something more out of it. There has been a lot of missed opportunities in my life because I'm just a prude who doesn't know how to flirt.

I'm always supporting you "cause I believe you a great person,,thanks for all...

HI , I have been watching some of your videos. I came too Realize its sad that couples have to play games in order too stay together... i feel like that point where I really don't want anyone other than friends with benefits, but then I truly love this women for 7 years now never got married but we live together . It's a Rollercoaster.

This is gonna be a hard pill to swallow but if she went out of that relationship hurt she’s getting a rebound. Not necessarily by choice but because she’ll be extremely vulnerable and just about any attractive man that comes her way that will listen to her grief will spark an interest in her. It’ll pass guys. I went through it, she didn’t love him just used him to get over me. It still hurt because it was barely a month or two after the breakup. But the rebound guy will be there. And as far as no contact. Don’t do the 30 days. You’ll both be doing it for different outcomes. Her, to move on from you and you, to get her back. You’ll essentially be helping her move on. I did 2 weeks MAX. Don’t let her forget you. Give her her space but not so much that you’ll be shooting yourselves in the foot.

Thank u ....I'm going thru a time out session tight now. I'm fine with it because I see what has happened!!.... Thanks for bringing clarity to understanding her thinking!! I'm gonna focus on healing and the journey along the way!!......GOD Bless...☺

Well said,and nice to see a different outlook on no-contact.Most videos i've seen are about how no contact is successful.Great that you highlight showcasing change.You had the body language and guy mannerisms nailed when you were talking about the man being[overly] in control.Made me laugh(the mannerisms) the content i took seriously.Thanks again.

@realwayne86

5 жыл бұрын

Contact or no contact, if a woman like you, she will show you! No contact is immature and deceiving. Why would you apply a no contact rule to pretend like you dislike someone knowing that you think about them?! If you keep applying yourself to the no contact rule without communicating to her, she will cheat on you within the no contact rule and come back to you like nothing happens. And you will fall for that all of time, and she will constantly do the same thing to you over and over again!

It must be so convinient to be a woman! It's never their fault when a relationship ends, If she's cheating it's your fault for whatever reason. If she breaks up it's because you either gave her too much power or too little power. It's not worth it anymore.

@nycgregofficial

4 жыл бұрын

I felt this on many levels

@joonkwon9303

3 жыл бұрын

Fax

@spacepirate1449

Жыл бұрын

Welcome to the real world

@omachiimmanuel3123

2 ай бұрын

That's why we are the men, we take responsibility for anything that happens to us.

@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387

Ай бұрын

That’s why I finally understand the old saying old guys would say Women can’t live with them can’t live without them I didn’t understand that til 32

Thanks for breaking this down Apollonia. Many dating coaches make it seem as if No Contact is the answer to all problems but as with anything there are times when certain “rules” don’t apply....particularly when dealing with a woman’s emotions. If she felt neglected in the first place, walking away from her won’t make the situation any better, especially if she knows her worth. Aside from any rule, I’ve learned that the best technique is learning to read your woman’s moods and emotions. Kind of difficult for men but super valuable in the long term!

@justamannothingmore1999

5 жыл бұрын

Michael A. What would suggest if neglected a women?

@comparecards5688

6 ай бұрын

@@justamannothingmore1999Michael doesn’t know!!

Absolutely, AP. Another great video.

Apollonia Ponti Thank you so much for making this video. gives me a better understanding. Would love to see if you could help me with my current issue if possible?

I let my ex go coz she was emotionally immature. Damn near 40 years old stonewalling and throwing temper tantrums like a child. 😳

@becker2278

4 жыл бұрын

Agree. Many of us men have already had past experiences with women's tantrums .... "tantrumic" women.

@drunkenfr

3 жыл бұрын

I'm trying to look into myself to objectively determine what happened, to me, it's because my neediness and nice guy syndrome, I thank her for dumpping me, she gave the courage to finally kill old me and start living.

@wolfman231

3 жыл бұрын

@@drunkenfr nice. I did the same thing a few years ago. Life changing.

Thank you Apollonia for this video because I was dating this girl and I had a feeling she took advantage of me and now I have to change my behavior and detach myself and show her I’m not the same no more

@realwayne86

5 жыл бұрын

Don't show her that way because she still not going to take you serious. The best thing to do is let her go! The next woman you date, don't do too much for her at the beginning. For example, if you are dating a new woman and you decided to take her out for dinner, let her pay for her own and you pay for yours. Stop doing everything for a woman because that will make her become a gold digger and she will get mad and leave when you stop doing things for her. Take it slow and don't always say yes for everything she asked you to do. When a man do everything for a woman, that will give her a reason to cheat on you with a guy who doesn't have anything going on for himself. Then, she will take everything that you give her and give it to him because she will think that you are a good fool. That is why a woman sometimes choose to have a good man and a bad one on the side which is her ex or someone she met on mad days and he won't leave her alone. Be careful next time man.

@tb2957

5 жыл бұрын

It's over.

Hi Apollonia! Technical info. Love this...

This video is absolutely helpful. Thanks. From Nigeria

I think you have a great explanation. I’m in a so called no contact situation because I am done with the relationship!! . Because the sooner I move on the quicker I’ll heal. She lead me into a relationship that has absolutely no future! I’m 10 days in and still feeling the loss. It’s almost as intense as a loved one dying. But I’m taking my energy to the gym for self improvement. I’m 59 yrs old and it hurts as much as it did when I was 19. I will be fine, it just takes time.

@lesleykrone8257

Жыл бұрын

How are you ? ...a year later ...

No contact doesn't work because everyone knows that is what they are doing, and once you know, it causes any attraction left you may have had to fly out the window. No one likes to be manipulated.

@SAMEntalhealth

3 жыл бұрын

Thiiiiissss

@0bsmith0

2 жыл бұрын

And that's why more guys are just not bothering with women. No time for little kids.

Quality product from Apollonia.

badass. great advice. keep it up my friend.

I could literally write a book on this subject; not because I'm a pro at relationship advice, I'm not implying that at all. But i went through so much with a narcissist and realized a lot of my own shortcomings after i ended that relationship that i agree with everything Apollonia said. It's so hard when you're in it, but so clear and easy when you look back

@sanchezsmith1119

Жыл бұрын

I am going through this right now bin with my baby mother over 8 years on she just moves on like that on it seems like she Falling in Love with this person she only knows 9 months

It's always good to listen from a woman's perspective, because you girls require a manual to be understood. You are complex (and sometimes overly complicated beings) Thanks for the video, Apo.

@0bsmith0

2 жыл бұрын

That's like saying you speak to a fish to know how to be a fisherman. You don't do that.

@rickymunger9431

2 жыл бұрын

Did it work

As always, great insight and advice.

Yes I agree with the sentiments expressed here. It is already working. The woman I'm interested in was aloof . I was the one messaging on facebook and writing prose and poetry for her. I've not contacted her for nearly a week and now she is following my every post. I'll wait until she makes her intentions clear or if nothing concrete I'll move on. Being weak and needy on my part probably ruined the relationship which never really got started. Thank You Apollonia for showing me the way ahead.

This was an excellent video ! Thanks for elaborating this topic so clearly once again Apollonia ! I needed to hear this and work on things in positive light ! 🙏

600 days no contact - she still didn't call. Am I doing it right?

@mosesderechte6863

4 жыл бұрын

Oof

@merletyler2233

4 жыл бұрын

Mikhail Vasilevsky Get a new girl. Be happy. If she comes back U may not want her

@ThaFlyingDutchMen

4 жыл бұрын

1000 days into no contact she still hasn't contacted me what am I doing wrong

@zerofuks416

4 жыл бұрын

LOL! Nope... just keep stroking your ego, bud. Who can go the longest. *sarcasm* 🙄

@shubhampatil4502

4 жыл бұрын

Right as rain

I think you and Corey Wayen are some of the best thx

She always makes alot of sense . good work girl

No contact rule works when you been pursuing. So she will end up thinking about the guy who been hitting her line. And woman fear of losing someone whos always been good to them when dating. This now will lead to reciprocation. Women will now pursue. At this stage a man MUST play the card right otherwise it will just start all over again.

@SiriusLeeMusic

4 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@con9779

3 жыл бұрын

Well said👏💯

I usually go no contact right after a breakup, sometimes I have to actually verbalize it if it’s not implied within context at the time of parting ways.

Great points! Great video!

Wow. The video is spot on!

Awesome video. This is always what male coaches miss with coaching men. It’s not about getting the upper hand. Once they get it they are clueless what to do with it. Distance, abuse of power and control will not get your woman back. Men who behave this way are wishing to change the dynamic of the relationship. What they’re saying is is this is the only way I’d consider being with you again. If I can be completely irresponsible and casual with my behavior. Low expectations.

@JT-gm4fk

Жыл бұрын

My opinion of no contact is that it should be used when you're completely walking away and done and not an attempt to win anyone back. Go on with your life and embrace new paths, challenges but don't do it to hold onto the past or bring it back.

I just wanna say thank you for your honesty from a woman's perspective. Long story short - I lied to my ex about "materialistic things" that I didn't have in the beginning of a 1 year relationship but my heart in reference to how I feel about her was undeniably true!!! For some strange reason she couldn't seem to overlook something that I thought was so small to a point of her not being able to forgive me. She knows that I love her and I guess because I didn't end up being the rich guy that I portrayed. Her love oddly changed to a point of name calling and being very disrespectful to me. I understand trust but at the same time. I found that she's a narcissist so at the end of the day...... we ended up playing each other.

I love watching your videos about relationship .

Thank you mia beautiful dating coach..You've killed it.

AP, i needed your knowledge & videos sooo bad in my life!! Got back into the dating game, im older, need polishing, and rusty af after 10 years. Battling emotions like a mf, heart dying with sorrow for a girl that’s shown little affection which has never happened to me before. Really needed the infos from your videos, they make me feel better and back to being that super confident guy that i naturally am! Thank you so much!! 💕

I was doing LDR (seeing each other once every two months) and I felt like the sparks are just fading away these three months. She has depression so our interaction has basically been me cheering her up and that's it. Due to the pandemic, my trip to visit her got canceled several times and she broke up with me, saying that she has been losing hope for this relationship for months and now we can't even meet up. Since I have also been exhausted by her being cold and distant as well so I accepted it. However, she keeps texting me random stuff, making me think that the breakup wasn't real because she did fake breakups a lot, but she would just constantly remind of that this time is real, we are no longer together. I feel disrespected and embarrassed so I went full NC.

@wolfpuppclips2371

2 жыл бұрын

Proud of you. Good job.

Wow thanks apollo,love this topic x

'You are always loved' thank you 😊

The only way it’s successful is when you do the work to move on. It’s not what anyone wants to hear but when it’s all said and done they either come back or they don’t. Either way you will be okay because you put the work into yourself.

No contact = no genuine interest / you're not important enough. So don't waste your emotion & move on cos he/she has. 👣

@JT-gm4fk

Жыл бұрын

Actually, that's no what no contact necessarily means. Sometimes no contact is used to show someone who took advantage of you that your life has meaning...you're independent and you can move on without them if needed. This isn't an absolute one meaning fits all here. I know a couple that's been married for 25 years strong...and it was a no contact by one of them when they were dating that saved their relationship. It works if one person realizes they took the other for granted and is willing to change . It doesn't work if there was no reason for no contact to begin with.

This was some good video to learn from

You nail it hon 👍 your a brilliant coach 😇 thank you 🙏

So. She fell out of love and just moved out. 2 months ago. NC will rule for my own focus and goals.

My girlfriend of 5 years "fell out of love" with me. And I have been so lost. She said 6 months ago her feelings started to fade. But made no effort to communicate this with me and for us to work on things . I've never felt more betrayed and just hurt ...I'm hurt. I never knew I could hurt this much and...she just seems so cold and doesn't care. 5 years. My youth gone.

@CodyDylanSewell

2 жыл бұрын

It me

@michaelvega3669

Жыл бұрын

Update?

@kikijammer

Жыл бұрын

Same shit. BU for a month now

This is definitely one of your best videos , all true

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you think so!

I have a different view on certain things you said, but most was on point.If it's a struggle for control in the relationship,then it's probably not a eelationship I want to be in.Human nature is to constantly keep a person a.person interested, but I think the true challenge is to keep yourself interested..Good video👍🏾

@ApolloniaPonti

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support!