Focus on yourself, have standards, never needy and stay calm in every situation

@kakongemedi7422

3 жыл бұрын

100% right

1: confident 2: conscious mindset 3: don't try to prove yourself 4: manage yourself 5:secure attachments style 6:be courageous

@mikemoore1705

2 жыл бұрын

Truly appreciate it

My piece of advice : Love yourself.. Don't think like " She is going to bring happiness in my life". No one going to bring happiness to your life. If they act so, don't fall in that trap.

@waudicas

4 жыл бұрын

Actually NO. Your perceptions of reality is bc of your own thoughts. If you change your thought patterns then your perceptions of reality will change too n then you’ll start to influence your actual reality.

@meannostalgist2033

4 жыл бұрын

@c1981 Hallelujah. Someone actually gets it. We can only truly know ourselves from others. We can only grow when challenged by others...and we meet that challenge. You can only honestly love yourself when someone else loves you. Otherwise, it is only the vanity and narcissism that defines our age. If you don't think (like Ks) someone else can bring happiness into your life you shouldn't be on a dating advice site. Think on this Apollonia.

@danielmuriithi8486

3 жыл бұрын

@@meannostalgist2033 that's a sad and lazy way to live. Nobody is going to love you if you don't love yourself

@KanjiruSama

3 жыл бұрын

@@waudicas ...That doesnt happen just from changing your thought pattern on the fly...in fact, that doesnt even happen like that. Regardless, you still need some form of contact in your life to have a change in thought process/your mind set. Your thought process indeed does influence your reality but it doesnt change just from "happy" thoughts. You need experiences, instances, conflict, contact with outside sources to make you want to change in what ever light you believe you need to. This video is making people believe that not liking yourself is something bad. Whats bad is not realizing you dislike a piece of yourself and not even attempting to change it into a positive light.

@ElvenMans

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds nice, but this is just bullshit 😂 Tell me why do people marry? Are they not happy with each other? If not why did they marry?

Keep God 1st, never make a girl your main priority, stay in the gym, keep her wondering, don’t be so easy to figure out, mysterious, have a good sense of humor, never over do it, dress & smell nice, be confident, not desperate, & have a high level of success.

@therichestmaninbabylon8231

3 жыл бұрын

🙏🏾🇹🇹✍🏾💯

@Turshin

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN

@deutschlandswahnsinn

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN

@johnercalisanga5300

3 жыл бұрын

Amen dude may God bless you with all goodness/copiously rewarded from him😇🙏😇🙏//.

Jada pinket cheated on will smith and she owned and was proud of it.😂 Will Smith wasn't enough, Dr Dre wasn't enough, Johnny Debb, wasn't enough even Jeff Besos wasn't enough. Guys, leave women alone and focus on yourselves.

@TheMunguia80

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you bruh focus first on create value, better yourself everyday

@kwalombo_ta

4 жыл бұрын

Lol Lost Pup

@mosesgikeri6750

4 жыл бұрын

This comment is underrated.

@nathanielallen1625

4 жыл бұрын

On da real women known 2 bite da apple it in da bible

@TheCornbeefsoup

4 жыл бұрын

@King Fitness22 Lol she was making packages with him in the garage when Amazon was born. She deserved that settlement.

No man NEEDS a relationship.

@drumdad54sdl47

4 жыл бұрын

AMEN!!!

@Lord0606

4 жыл бұрын

But we do need to ejaculate every now and then. You can get prostate cancer if you do not master-bate for a while

@moonsdonut5188

3 жыл бұрын

Top masterbaters in the chat here 😂

"Never ask a fish about how to catch a fish" ~ Goku

@yell50

3 жыл бұрын

Good reply, and it makes total sense, because women who give advice to men never tell the truth.

@olanrewajucoker226

3 жыл бұрын

Goku⛽

@EzraMillsYT

3 жыл бұрын

KAKAROT!!

@ChapterMasterADO

3 жыл бұрын

She actually speaks sense. She actualy says the same as the other HVM channels. You guys smell like betas. You realise there such things as spartan women and shield maidens? Lol. Shes a HVF she spoke facts

@MuhammadAliGOAT

3 жыл бұрын

YES !

“The key to life is being happy internally within you.” As always, great content! It takes a dedicated journey to get to this point, and I’m so grateful there are people like you out here that do this.

”....words aren’t something you can take back. A man that has good composure & really proceeds with integrity can really master a conscious mindset” very profoundly stated. And extremely true. 👏🏿 SELF AWARENESS 🆚 SELF MANAGEMENT CONSCIOUS MINDSET

I'm a high value man and I got this why by not listening to women or by being concerned about how I'm viewed by them.

That is so true u can’t expect things you don’t bring yet so many of us want the world but can’t even offer the lawn

All those points are well noted. Man worth high value takes an element of confidence, self management, conscious mindset in consideration with self attachment. It's an honour to be part of those dating program persuants

Love and cherish yourself, appreciate and be kind to yourself. Do this and the rest will take care of itself. You are enough, always remember that.

Awesome info at 68 yrs old I’ll verify your knowledge. Along time ago I had to figure a lot of this the hard way this all helped me in working with all people over the years. Thanks

I've been practicing staying single, and learning how to focus my time on my goals and aspirations. No one has noticed yet, but man, I've been significantly happier and have been living a much more fulfilled life as a result. The end game can't be "I'm doing this to impress someone" it has to be based on "I'm living , and making things happen for myself". Gentlemen, you don't NEED a woman to fill your life with purpose. You only need yourself.

Worth it Ma'am, lots of love from India. You've been helping me a lot

Wow I'm so glad I came across your video.i so enjoy listening to your gift of knowledge.thank you for taking the time to speak.ill be watching more of your videos.

All that to say fellas, focus on yourself. Build up mind body and spirit, for yourself. The one willing to walk away from the table has true negotiating power....and you can only walk away from the table when you have an abundance mindset...gaining confidence having standards etc all comes from putting work in on yourself. Then the right women will come along and compliment that version of you. Period

Great video and done with true sincerity. I especially enjoyed the statement on pick up lines, yet is not sustainable on a relationship platform beyond a one night stand.

Much thanks for the 7 free tips. I'm 56 and first time truly single in 35 years.. I enjoy the videos.. ultra educational 🙏👌🇨🇦

I find listening too you Apollonia that you have education in this field and your words make sense. I'm am highly educated as well and I really appreciate the time and effort that you obviously put into your videos. Very well done! Please keep them coming.

This is so damn complicated that its BS. Just be happy with yourself first i.e. stand on your own 2 legs for everything and dont depend on anybody else's approval to be happy.

@efml

3 жыл бұрын

She's just giving advice, calm down

@benjaminiraheta3787

3 жыл бұрын

I too feel like this is BS. lol

@ghyslainestleonce1743

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣everything has become so complicated now lol

I think this is one of your best, deepest videos.

Apollonia, you are so good! I’ll just leave this right here.

I've never said this about anyone but that lisp looks so attractive on her. 🔥

Beside the amazing content (I so much respect and admire how you and what information you present) ....... I LOVE how you say your name.

Maybe all the vidoes of coaches like Apollonia, want get the womanwe like at the moment, but at the last with all the tips, we can walk away with dignity at least! Self-improvement its the key! If we are nothing the relationship we can build, will collapse at one point in time! Thabx for the Vidoes Apollonia!!

This is a very perfect and detailed video. I admire your work immensely and I can resonate with your principles that I have learned on my journey. Thank you.

Hello. I really appreciate what you do for men. I just found out your videos and is being very helpful to me. Just want to say thank you. I'm learning with the material you share a lot. Thank you again!🙏 keep doing this

Thanks Apollonia, this price of advice helps a lot in my current situation.

Thanks for your videos Apollonia. I really loved this one. I dream that some day I can find a women like you.

Thank you so much for caring enough about us to help us I wish I could do more of your training

Thank you. Day 3 of 'need space', and was pulling my hair out.

Hmmmm... So you are an emotionally mature person, dear Apollonia, and not only that, you also have and display true intellectual knowledge. That's amazing. Hope you find (or have found already) a perfect match for yourself. This is why I subscribed to your channel. ❤️

This is so gooood!!! You’re brilliant! Thx for sharing.

Thank you, Apollonia! This is one of the most helpful videos yet!

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

I love this style of video, better in my opinion. 🔥

Thank you Apollonia, really appreciate what you are sharing.

I’m not usually a commenter, but I must say I like this video, well done. I’m 35 and have experienced these lessons. It’s all true.

Dont try to influence someones perception of you, that comes from the ego.......that line hit me hard

Great advices, thanks from Mexico !

I really really need this. Thanks for sharing dear

Thanks Apollonia for giving me some food for thought.

I used complicated algorithms and AI to summarize what she is saying and what a man is to a woman, no matter how many times I ran it the results were always the same "ATM"

@nahomaberra9192

4 жыл бұрын

lmaooooo

@peterchou5161

4 жыл бұрын

You're using the right formula because algorithm has no emotion. Dont allow them bitches to dictate how to live your life. Algo traders can confirm this.

@jurex81

3 жыл бұрын

"Nothing dries up a pussy quicker than a woman reaching for her wallet" -Chris Rock

As always amazing content! Thank you so much!

That was great. Thank you. I do have work to do. This is a great start

Good Video I have learned when I get to work for example to get into a certain mind set and I do the same for other activities. I have learned not to over react to situations by stopping and asking myself questions. I don't expect perfection from anyone and so I will not be disappointed. It's also important to be balance, you can't always be serious all the time you need to have a sense of humor and be able to laugh with others, this has helped in my relations with women.

So needed to hear this, WOW. It makes me feel I have plenty of work to do STILL! Thanks for these great gems of advice

Your always shinning natural beauty I try and am a high value man is 3 ways I never chase women or have Desire to single and happy have peace let time or faith open door for special woman. I quit trying too prove myself last 2 years too anyone still be a class and respectful guy but in cool ways take no disrespect. My high points I work on 50% my weak areas 89% one major one my Anexity

Dang! This was fantastic - getting to the core. Thank You! :)

Wow this video is profound 💪🏿💪🏿Thank you

Thank you this was wonderful!

I love your videos, I'm still working on myself, but God do I feel terrible for all the mistakes I've made and the time I've wasted in depression and unawareness

I approve and appreciate this intelligent discourse.

Great guideline for all of us thank you so much keep it up.

I find more joy in playing video games than I do in trying to date women. 😁

@mariolewis4226

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, at least you can turn off your game if you get pissed.

@Fermin-vm9sk

4 жыл бұрын

That’s great you probably a high quality man because you know what you want.

@Westcoastcat-ex6wc

4 жыл бұрын

The whole idea of being a high quality man is a joke guys. Admit our mistakes to prove our value and we have to always work on ourselves to attract some woman? So done with guys bowing down to this bullshit.

@danieldaniel-vb8rh

4 жыл бұрын

Kid’s comment

@timinewtech

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe because you are not good with woman and you hide behind the games 😜

Apollonia honestly I agree with you on this coaching, you're a gifted for your coaching. This is exactly what Iam ,hallelujah, And Iam on the Verge of getting a high quality woman for my marriage....

Hi Apollonia great video I so wish you could come to South Africa some time you are a God sent to man well done 👏👏👏👏👏

Have been finding you more attractive lately Apollonia ❤️

You are absolutely on points. Thank you.

This was a class I need to watch it again

This was very cool, thank you 🙏

Spot on great video, what I like even better it’s coming from a women which speaks on the dynamic of the opposite sex so it really helps.

I prefer this kind of advice to tricks. This is about improving yourself

@ApolloniaPonti

3 жыл бұрын

You got it!

Dear Apollonia, Thanks for the amazing videos you make and share. You are a special person 🙂 Keep going and shine 🙂 I do know what you do in the universe, echoes back to you 🙏 With all the best wishes to you. Yours sincerely, Kam

I love you ponti, you have no idea what kind of man you have made me, I watch your videos often, good work miss you freind. Thank you.

So it's base on Empowerment over myself then looking for Improvement from others, also not Debate in a situation but be Aware of it. Ok I understand how you Orchestrate this. Great!!!

This here is an example of a high value women. Thanks.

I always said growing up that nobody is perfect.

@tambwekazuba170

4 жыл бұрын

No thank you, I do not what to do anything for women or to get women . If you do not like the type of the person I am then f..ck off. It is as simple as saying good morning, so do not make it complicated.

@shaun1293

4 жыл бұрын

That’s not an excuse to slack off though. Unfortunately, far too many do.

You are right. You have to get better. This helps your life as a couple or even a single life. I like participates on things with the partner. I hope my wife enjoyed a help, or a participation when she's doing things (sweep, cooking, etc) I need to make sure she's comfortable, secure. We need to listen each other. Thanks for this video

Not interested in high value people. Just want to be myself

@zahidibrahim2260

3 жыл бұрын

That's just an excuse not to put effort to become a better version of yourself

@ryancrowell9867

3 жыл бұрын

@@zahidibrahim2260 allowing people like you to decide whether or not they are "better" is garbage. Other people can go fuck themselves.

You Are So Awesome! Seriously. How do you know all this!? I'll listen to you

A high value man, doesn't need a women for anything. That is why he is high value. He is independent, strong, self sufficient, and happy on his own with his own life. Develops his dreams and if a women wants to be there maybe he will let her come along. High value men don't need validation from women, nor do they care about it. If you want to be a high value man, work on your life, become the best you can become, live your dreams, work toward what you want and make women a side effect of your life not a root item. There are many women our there, if one doesn't fit, just wait for the next one as you build your life. Don't try and win a women, you don't need them. If one comes along, great, if not build your life and dreams, women are a luxury not a necessity to men of high value.

"And remember you are always loved" 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤❤💖💖💖

Thanks Ponti for sharing your thoughts and experiences of how to be valued....

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it!

Good tips i always like and enjoy listening to you

Thank you for your love ... You are truly walk-in with passion in your calling ...you know truth is so many men fail cause they don't teach this shit in school ... You have to learn it,seek it,find it true heart and mind contection in the now ...

@C1schecter101

3 жыл бұрын

It's so beautiful how you show and basically give men the tools of authenticity, to heal themselves ! It's truly a beautiful thing,it's a true life of purpose and love !!

Relationship this days aren’t Worth being..your loving an illusion..she/he isn’t your everything, when you say that it means your life is nothing basically..relationship bring no benefit don’t be someone’s ex choose wisely take your time before deciding you want a relationship..have you ever sat down and ask your self what is the point of relationship and how is it going to affect your life..because over time you will change...relationships are dead in 2020..you shouldn’t be in a relationship if you feel lonely..that means you got nothing going on in your life at the moment and your probably idle...sooner or later you will find out one of you was trying to use the other for some reason but there is that small percentage that is genuine

Thank you Apollonia for this information. 😍😍

@oscarherrera2105

3 жыл бұрын

I love your name Apollonia is unique !😍😄

Very insightful video.

thanks for adding value

To find a solution for any challenging situation, simple ways of communications helps more effectively than worrying about it, running and hiding away from it don't help. This terminology applies to manage your relationships with respect too.

I must ask, exactly what (besides sex) does a woman bring to a relationship?! Yes, I've had relationships, and find it quite easy to get women, since they always have approached me. But now I've started wondering why I should bother, since it's more work than benefits. So far no one have given a satisfying answer.

@Ace.0.0.0.

4 жыл бұрын

So then rent, don't buy.

@MrDonny27

4 жыл бұрын

Just some sex and that about it.

@naydah

4 жыл бұрын

NOTHING - emotional dramas, more demands, expectations, you must try harder etc bullshit. They dont want to cook, clean, they only want take something from you. You must be 3x6 - 6 ft tall ( or more ) 6 pack, 6 figures earner. You must be funny creative all the time. In return she provides low or average earnings, obese body, ton of make up ( or rather fake up ). Sometimes sex 🤷‍♂️

@Lord0606

4 жыл бұрын

My self esteem is lowering just by reading these comments...

@mann8098

3 жыл бұрын

@NegativeThoughts Best comment on this channel ✊👏👏👏👏

I THANK YOU Apollonia. FROM YOUR NEW Friend AT PHOENIX AZ FROM MARVIN XXOXO...

Great video, full of content.

So much good quality dating advice for years.i wonder if Apollonia is married or in a strong healthy relationship? I love her content.but I think she needs to give us an update on her personal life, to see if she practices what she preaches

Great as always... Thanks Apollonia.

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

Respectfully Contending in all facets of my life personal or professional. Very healthy practice 🥊

Be in the Imagine and Likeness of The Most High Yah!

Thank you so much. Difference within Want and need. Thank u

Man you're speaking to me ❤️. This is tight but it's right.

Good stuff girl.

Love this!!🔥🔥

Great content!

Great video. Life is all about personal happiness and fulfillment.

@ApolloniaPonti

4 жыл бұрын

So true!

Thanks & good job.

If this wold be something that wold be teach in high school it wold be the most important and useful class.

I like this. Seems like I go from being TOO much into a relationship to just being a jerk and too cold relationally

Thank you for letting us how to pursue the relationship goals that we want. :-)